NATASHA and Gregory met on a dating app and instantly hit it off. Gregory explained, "Within the first month we were already together." Almost immediately, the couple had an honest conversation and decided that monogamy wasn't the option for them. "We were more interested in having something that's more open and free and fluid. From that point on, we've always had an open door," Gregory explained. Their arrangement means that Natasha is often seeking out women for her man to date. She added, "Gregory's type is just beautiful women." The couple are also adult content creators, but it's something that they face constant judgement over. Despite the negativity, they don't let it get them down. Natasha said, "The judgement makes me feel no type of way. I have very thick skin - I had to have it with the judgement that comes directly from my family. So, honestly it goes right over my head, I mean if they could get it over my head."
00:05Her family has a file of all of her content and all of her posts.
00:08They're just like, how can you have a loving, proper relationship with someone
00:14if you're out on the internet doing that kind of stuff?
00:18Her?
00:19Hold on.
00:20Yeah, she's great. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:22I will heart that one.
00:23All right. Send a message.
00:26I'm Natasha.
00:27And I'm Gregory.
00:28I find other women to keep my man company.
00:31So we actually met on a dating app.
00:32I came across his profile.
00:34He had in his bio that he was an adult content creator,
00:37which was something I wanted to revisit.
00:40When she matched me, I didn't really think she was real.
00:42You don't really find women like her on dating apps.
00:44Usually they get picked up in real life.
00:46Within the first month, we were already kind of together.
00:49Locked in.
00:51Gregory's type is just beautiful women.
00:54Whichever women I'm attracted to, I know he's going to be attracted to.
00:58So I kind of go off that.
01:00The most attractive thing about her is her face and legs.
01:04My height is six foot three.
01:06And I'm six foot even.
01:08Our height difference would be three inches.
01:10Yeah.
01:11My tallest heels will make me six foot nine.
01:14Almost a foot of difference.
01:15I have always been confident in my height.
01:19I love to strap on heels just to be extra tall.
01:22I've always been attracted to tall women,
01:24but I've never actually been with any woman that was taller than me.
01:27I've always dated guys shorter than me.
01:29He's actually the tallest short guy I've ever dated.
01:32I enjoy dating short guys.
01:34It gives me this power, you know,
01:37because they can't talk crap to me if they have to look up to me.
01:40I'm going to need to bring you a stool so you can talk crap to my face, you know?
01:46So right now we're setting up to shoot a scene.
01:49Two weeks after matching on the dating app,
01:51we were already shooting our first scene.
01:53We had conversations about how monogamy wasn't really for us
01:56and how we were more interested in having something that was more open and free and fluid.
02:00From that point on, our relationships always had an open door.
02:03I first decided to get into the industry back in 2019.
02:11I was shooting primarily solo content,
02:14but then had stopped at that point to pursue a nursing career
02:19and then didn't pick it back up until after we met on the dating app.
02:24I got into this years ago, 2016.
02:26I started on just regular social media apps,
02:29just selling videos and pictures of my normal life.
02:33Once I realized you can actually make real money off it
02:35and I'll still start to create real art.
02:36That's when I kind of took it fully serious
02:38and really locked in on trying to become the best triple X producer there can be.
02:43I had the inkling about wanting to come back to the industry.
02:46So him already being in it.
02:49I was the catalyst.
02:50Yeah, pretty much the catalyst moment.
02:52My parents love me for me.
02:54They understand I live an alternative lifestyle.
02:56They don't like it, but they're very accepting, very open.
02:59Her hand's not exactly the same though.
03:01I have family members that will meet together and talk negatively
03:06about my relationship with Gregory, our career choice.
03:11Her family has a file of all of her content and all of her posts.
03:14They subscribe to her paid pages to print out screenshots of her content
03:19and the things that she's doing just so they can talk about it together in a negative way.
03:23They think it's an easy choice.
03:26They also think it's unbecoming of a lady to put this kind of stuff out on the internet.
03:34Like I'm nude on the internet.
03:36I'm doing things with other people that aren't my boyfriend on the internet.
03:41So they're just like, how can you have a loving, proper relationship with someone if you're out on the internet doing that kind of stuff?
03:50They don't understand.
03:52They don't understand.
03:53This?
03:54Are we going to get kinky?
03:55I'm sitting down with that.
03:56A little drooly.
03:57That's perfect.
03:58Yeah, we'll do this one.
03:59Hell yeah.
04:00Yeah, I like these.
04:01Yeah?
04:02These bottoms are really cute.
04:03Yeah, I like those ones.
04:04A lot of people think that being in an open relationship is easier, but it requires more communication and it requires more trust in a monogamous relationship.
04:13The only rules we have about dating other people is just the honesty and communication.
04:19Keeping each other safe.
04:20Yeah, keeping each other safe.
04:21Don't bring anything back home.
04:23If you are with somebody unprotected, go get tested a week or so after so we can make sure that we're safe back at home.
04:29We don't have any rules.
04:30We don't have any rules when it comes to work.
04:32You know, do what is on brand for you, what's going to sell.
04:35Work is work and there's no limit to that.
04:38So I guess I'm going to start here.
04:39I'll use this at first.
04:40Okay.
04:41I'm going to do a sweep around the left.
04:48Cool.
04:49Let's go ahead and get changed.
04:50Y'all got to get up on out of here because no cameras unless they're ours.
04:54We're going to go be sexy together.
04:56Okay.
04:57People doubt our relationship just being valid.
04:59People don't think that it's real.
05:01They think that it's fake or authentic.
05:03Yeah.
05:04So apparently we can't have an authentic relationship because we share ourselves physically outside of each other.
05:10I think our values are just placed differently than other people.
05:12A lot of people put a lot more value in sex than we do in our relationship.
05:17So I think that the idea or the concept of being with somebody else is just so asinine.
05:22They can never imagine that.
05:24The one that went video most recently was a video of me with one of my co-stars and we were just taking a picture together.
05:32Well, they were a married couple.
05:34The caption was, uh, when my husband lets me have a boyfriend and she kissed her husband first and then kissed me afterwards.
05:42There's a lot of comments.
05:43Most of them are negative on that one.
05:45A lot of people just don't understand and don't view adult content creators being a real job or it's selling your body or, you know, all the stigma that comes with that industry.
05:54So online, we get a lot of hate with people like, you're fatherless or you have no mother or you need God or you kind of people are ruining this country and ruining us.
06:01Somebody said gross.
06:03No self respect.
06:04So sad.
06:05Such a punk.
06:06He has to be a Democrat.
06:07All y'all deserve less.
06:08Stop being .
06:10You'll be degraded until you die.
06:12Street dogs are everywhere.
06:14Stop barking.
06:15If a man is doing this with his wife, he is gay.
06:17So you painted your nails for them to love you, then they don't love you for you.
06:21I don't necessarily know what that means, but there's a lot of people have issues online with me painting my nails.
06:26I don't really know why it affects people so much, but it really does bother people.
06:31My masculinity has been questioned online ever since I started painting my nails because people view it as a feminine thing.
06:36I actually started painting my nails because people were saying that it's a feminine thing and that, you know, you could never get a woman like that.
06:43So I initially was, no, that's not true at all.
06:45But then I actually started liking it.
06:47It gave me a little bit of flair that a lot of people don't have.
06:49I guess they're trying to say that painting your nails is associated with being homosexual or being gay.
06:53I don't know how those two things correlate, but so people always question my sexuality just because of the way that I am,
06:58the way that I'm able to express myself, but it doesn't really have anything to do with my sexuality at all.
07:02The judgment makes me feel no type of way.
07:05I have very thick skin.
07:07I had to have it with how I grew up and the judgment that comes directly from my family.
07:12So honestly, it goes right over my head.
07:15I mean, if they could get it over my head.
07:18The judgment doesn't really get to me either.
07:20I also have thick skin and I also know, especially online, hate drives engagement.
07:24And so I lean into it, like hate me all you want.
07:26I don't really care.
07:27I know I'm physically sound.
07:28I've got a beautiful lady.
07:29You can't really say anything about me.
07:30That's going to throw me off.
07:31We'll be sitting in bed at night and I'll be scrolling on social media where I'm getting some hate comments or something.
07:39And I'm just dying laughing and I'll show him the comments and we'll just laugh at them together.
07:43We respond to them as well.
07:44Kill him with kindness.
07:45Yeah.
07:46Let's put that away and get you ready for your date.
07:49Oh, yeah.
07:50Oh, yeah.
07:51It's about that time, isn't it?
07:52Uh-huh.
07:53We are getting him ready to go on a date.
07:56All right, let's get this on you.
07:59There we go.
08:01Fix your collar.
08:02You look so good.
08:04I think this relationship works because it's exactly what we both needed.
08:07We went through the process of making it work.
08:09We spoke about boundaries quickly.
08:11We spoke about relationship types.
08:12We spoke about what we want, what our morals are, and all of those things just happen to align.
08:16She's changed my life in so many ways for the better just because she's accepted me as me and it allows me to live my true authentic self.
08:23What I love the most about Gregory is his personality.
08:29He's very sociable, very extroverted.
08:33I need somebody who's actually going to get me out of the house.
08:36The people who judge our relationship, just, okay, there's...
08:39That's your opinion, your perspective.
08:41We don't care.
08:42You send hate our way and you're going to get a thumbs up and we're going to move on because why would we harp on something that doesn't matter to us?
