Bartender Kiley and her husband Brad, both 30, from Cleveland, Ohio, have been together for six years. Kiley was open at the start of their relationship that she was bisexual and wanted to including other women in their sex life. Brad said: “I’ve never been in a relationship like that before, where my partner is open to inviting other women into the bedroom.” But finding "unicorns" - single women willing to date couples - on dating apps proved difficult and so on the advice of a friend, they decided to try swingers clubs. The couple were reluctant at first but quickly fell in love with "the lifestyle" and began meeting up with other couples regularly. KIley said: “We fell in love with it instantly.” Indeed, Kiley was so won over that she began sharing her experiences on TikTok and is now one of the biggest lifestyle educators on “swingtok”. However Kiley’s social media success has come with a dark side. She said: “I get judgment every day, comments like ‘you must have so many STDS’ or ‘you’re not setting a good example for your kids.’” But despite the backlash, Kiley is determined to help normalise swinging and says it has helped radically change her life and her relationship for the better. She said: “Swinging has changed my life because it’s made me more confident and open and more sex-positive, I’m able to be myself. We definitely learned a lot about each other through swinging and I’m 10 times happier than I was before we started.”
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