A MARRIED COUPLE who opened up their relationship after 10 years are now using social media to coach other swingers. VistaWife and VistaHubby, as they are known to their online fans, met as teenagers, and at first, had a 'normal vanilla relationship.' Then, three years ago, she came out to him as bisexual. Keen to explore things further, they checked out a swinging website a friend had mentioned - and were surprised to find that the people they saw on the site were far from the pre-conceived ideas they'd had in mind. From there, they met up with another couple for their first foray into non-monogamy. Since then, they have been happily swinging - usually together, but occasionally they will sleep with other people separately. In a bid to normalise the lifestyle, VistaWife began speaking out on social media, even setting up her own website where she shares tips and tricks, from how to spot a fake profile to how to handle jealousy. And though she has received a huge amount of support, not everybody is accepting. She said: "We get comments on TikTok saying swinging is just affairs and we're going to end up getting divorced. But marriage is not just about sex, and we're emotionally monogamous to each other. It's okay to want more."