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'Top Chef's Kristen Kish Tells her Coming Out Story
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6/5/2025
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When you feel that pride inside, it comes with confidence. It comes with an extra layer of empowerment.
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You are bringing the style to Top Chef this season. It is so killer. I'm loving every single look.
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I want you to tell us a little bit about your style evolution.
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You know, my everyday life is exactly what you see right now. It's a sweatshirt, it's a hat,
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it's no makeup. And so obviously when I got this hosting role, like I knew that we had to
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step it up. Like I understand how television works. I think the best thing that Charlotte,
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my stylist, what she has done for me is that she kept on my pace, but she like,
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she kept pushing just a little bit further each time. And she let me do it in my own time. If you
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look back to season 21, my very first outfit, like for the elimination challenge was a black jumpsuit
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wearing very little makeup. I don't think we even entered into the realm of fake eyelashes and
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jewelry and all that kind of thing. But I think I had to ease into it. And everyone on production,
01:02
no one forced me to all of a sudden show up glam to the nines. So in my own time, I got there. And I
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think as I got more comfortable with my role and understanding what that role was and what it
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needed for me, I was able to kind of step into the fashion thing and kind of get a little bit more
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comfortable with it. But you know, from, from the start, like Charlotte will tell you the first
01:25
few fittings was probably very funny for her. Also slightly concerning. She was like, wait,
01:31
we're going to do black jumpsuits. And I was like, maybe. No, I love it. You are really killing it
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with the looks. I want you to, if you can go back to your restaurant or his elimination,
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what was that like to be executive chef and then to be eliminated?
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I think I have a better understanding of what it feels like. I can look back at my younger self going
01:48
through that. And like, I'm like, Oh my God, good for you, girl. Like you pulled up your bootstraps
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and you went back in there. But as I'm going through it, it's like the first, like, I didn't
01:58
know anything better. Like I knew that top chef, one person's going to win and everyone's going to get
02:04
eliminated at a certain point. And it felt my first feeling when I got eliminated was relief because I
02:12
was tired. I was exhausted mentally and physically. I think that judge's table was going on for
02:18
I mean, back then, back then stew room was like eight hours. It was crazy. And so like,
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it was well into like 2am for standing there and I was hungry and I was tired. And I was just like,
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so when I got relieved and I was eliminated, I felt, okay, finally I can go sit down. I can eat. I can
02:38
like sleep. Very quickly. I realized that the desire to make it back in was far more than what
02:47
I ever expected it to be. Do you much prefer being on the opposite side, being able to sit down at a
02:53
table with your fellow judges and eat some delicious food? Yeah. I mean, yes. I think that
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there are so many great chefs. So many of my friends have gone on and competed over and over and over
03:06
again. And they are just so good at it. I don't think that is the natural skill set I have. I would
03:11
entertain competition cooking shows, but in a less serious, like weighted way. So like for charity,
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perhaps. Or if someone said, Kristen, would you like to go on the Great British Bake Off? Absolutely.
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Yes, I would. So I think that it's not about all competition cooking shows that scares me.
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It's top chef and knowing that it is like, I mean, it's some serious shit. Like it's hard. It is hard.
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I don't, I don't need to feel that again. Is there any other reality television show that you would do
03:48
that maybe doesn't even involve cooking? That doesn't involve cooking? I would like to be on
03:52
American Ninja Warrior. Okay. I don't have, I don't have the skill set for it. It has nothing to do with
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feeling good at it. I just want to try it. I want to try it so bad. I want to go on American Ninja
04:03
Warrior. Oh, I'd like to do like three days of alone, but paired with an actual survivalist.
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I would only last three days. What motivated you to do top chef and be a contestant,
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knowing that being on reality TV, there are cameras constantly surrounding you. And in your book,
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you talked about how you have always dealt with anxiety. Yeah. So top chef happened because my boss
04:30
at the time encouraged me to do it. And she just didn't come at it with, you know, I think you'd be
04:34
really good at this. She said, no, you need to go on it. One, we need more women representing on
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television. Two, you can do it. And I can see something in you that, you know, can, can,
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that you'd be able to hopefully succeed in this process of top chef.
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You talked about how people thought that you and Stephanie Smarr could have been in a relationship.
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Were you ever nervous about letting more of your personal life come through on television
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when at that point you weren't publicly out yet? I mean, when you live your life in a closet for a
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long time, I'm not worried about anything slipping. Like it's not like you you're holding a secret of
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something like something that doesn't mean a lot. I had been living 28 years in the closet.
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Nothing was going to get slipped. I was not worried about that whatsoever.
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You know, the speculation of my best friend and I, I think is completely ridiculous. It undermines
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real queer relationships. And it also undermines the friendship of women for that assumption to be
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out there. I found it more of telling about who was making the assumption that it had anything to do
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with me. So I wasn't worried about it because that's my best friend. Like what, what do I care?
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Tell us a little bit about your coming out journey. What was that conversation like on that video call
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with your parents? Well, it was before video calling was actually a thing. So it was a good
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old fashioned cell phone. It was a phone call that lasted five, 10 minutes of the actual subject,
06:00
but it felt like eternity. And I think that anytime you are revealing something about yourself that you
06:07
have held secret for so long, there's shame in that. And to hold it from two people that I know
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do love me unconditionally, it made the phone call feel longer and more pressurized. But the second it
06:19
came out, weights lifted off. There was no doubt in my mind that my parents loved or cared for me.
06:27
And I think it was more of an admission to myself than it was to them.
06:31
Yeah. I also really loved your brother's reaction.
06:34
Yeah. Yeah. Very just cool. Great. Love it. Can't wait to meet her.
06:41
Scott, your ex-boyfriend was also such an important part of your life.
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As you dated him for five years, was there any like nagging feeling deep down that you knew that
06:49
it would never work out? Oh, I always knew it wasn't going to work out. I wanted it to work out so I
06:55
didn't have to deal with coming out and being gay because that felt so much more overwhelming
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than to just live peacefully with my best friend. And, you know, I think I didn't have the strength
07:06
or the understanding to know that love can feel so much more empowering when done authentically.
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And so rather than feeling content or complacent or codependent on another person, that true love
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is free. Tell us about your first being in that first same-sex relationship. Like what was the
07:27
feeling of when you knew that this fit for you? Oh, I knew even before the first relationship,
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like I knew what I wanted to feel. I knew what it was like to have a crush and all those things
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geared towards women, not men. And so to be in it, you know, I was, I was young. Um, there were things
07:46
still that I didn't know about myself, but I think that the greatest thing about that first relationship,
07:52
even though it did not last forever, building the confidence over the years to not feel so terrified
08:00
at being publicly out. It's like practice, right? You like the more and more you get used to it and
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the feeling and what it feels like to live genuinely authentically yourself. So what makes you proud to
08:12
now be openly embracing your sexuality and married to your beautiful wife, Bianca?
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I'm proud to be her wife first and foremost. I'm proud to feel the way that I feel. And I think
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that that's a indescribable feeling. When you feel that pride inside, it comes with confidence. It
08:30
comes with an extra layer of empowerment. I love that you said that you didn't want to get married
08:35
initially. And here we are. Here we are. Yeah. Very much married. Uh, yeah, I didn't want to get
08:41
married because I hated the institution for saying that I couldn't, that allowed people to go
08:48
elope in Vegas to some random stranger on a drunken night because they were of the opposite sex.
08:53
People in long-term loving relationships who actually really wanted to create a foundation
08:58
of the future in marriage because they were the same sex could not. And like that didn't sit well
09:03
with me. And to, you know, I was, I was angry and I think I didn't want to get married because I was
09:09
angry. Uh, but when I met Bianca, I found love that outweighs anger and hate all day long.
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