The Never Ever Mets Season 2 Episode 2
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00:00Each of you are in a relationship with somebody you have never met before.
00:06No hugs, no kisses, just FaceTime DMs and heart emojis.
00:10All that is about to change. Y'all ready for that?
00:14Oh my goodness.
00:17Jared is absolutely beautiful.
00:20What I get if I make this though?
00:21A kiss.
00:23Jay definitely looks good.
00:25I think we just connect real well.
00:28Irvin and I, we had to touch on each other in a way that I'm not comfortable with.
00:33Let's take it to the next level.
00:35We'll see.
00:36I feel like there could have been a kiss there somewhere.
00:40Chris was in the doghouse for a while.
00:42He found somebody local.
00:44But I don't usually lose.
00:47Don't I get a public apology?
00:49You right. I'm sorry.
00:52I'm beyond nervous.
00:54Talking to Jared about this secret.
00:57I have a one month old daughter.
01:00So I don't have one kid I have four.
01:03I have my own s*** going on.
01:05What?
01:18I knew something was up.
01:21Why didn't you say anything?
01:22I had my own s*** going on.
01:24What?
01:26I just had a kid too, dude.
01:28What?
01:31You had a kid?
01:35What the f***?
01:37When?
01:39I think six months ago.
01:41So you have a newborn?
01:43Yeah.
01:45Four years, I just, I never thought.
01:48I mean, he could say the same about me.
01:50But after four years, I'm thinking, like, I know him.
01:52I know when stuff is off.
01:54I know when stuff is different.
01:55I would have never thought he was raising a whole child.
01:59Yeah, I had a baby boy about six months ago.
02:03Okay, so I'm over here feeling guilty as f*** for having a baby.
02:07You knew something was going on.
02:08You didn't say anything.
02:09How was I supposed to know, like, you had a baby?
02:12I can't be upset at you for being in the same situation, bro.
02:21I'm actually very happy.
02:23I mean, happy in a sense that she shared her secret first.
02:26Because me sharing my secret, it was easy.
02:29It was easy as hell after that.
02:30I was just like, oh, bet.
02:31I got something for you too.
02:32Now that, like, I told you, I'm not going to hide it anymore.
02:36Like, I'm in a pump.
02:37Like, I have a newborn.
02:40I'm breastfeeding.
02:41I don't know how that's going to make you feel.
02:42That's life.
02:44I mean, you have to.
02:46You just had a newborn.
02:48I feel like if it was one kid, I'd be like, alright, you know, it's cool.
02:52We evened out.
02:53But how many?
02:55Like, no, I'm not trying to be funny.
02:57It's like, it's hard enough taking care of two.
03:00I already have two kids.
03:02And the idea of a house with six children, logistically, sounds insane.
03:07I don't know if I would be ready for that.
03:10So you think less of me because I have more kids?
03:12I don't think less of you.
03:13It's just like—
03:14You think I'm different because I have more kids?
03:15I want to be there for you, but it's hard enough being there for what I got now.
03:20That's tough to hear.
03:22It's tough these days.
03:23I don't mind trying, but it's just like—
03:25That's all I want from you.
03:26Stop right there, please.
03:27Just try.
03:29Fair enough.
03:31Fair enough.
03:32I love you.
03:34And I want this to work.
03:35Come here.
03:36I want it.
03:40We just have to figure out if we, me and him, just me and him, can live together,
03:46love each other, be physical, be happy with what we're seeing in person.
03:50That's going to be what we have to work through at this point.
03:54That's a lot of goddamn kids.
03:56Brady bunch up this bitch.
04:02Should we turn in? I feel like everybody's going to bed.
04:08See you tomorrow.
04:09See you.
04:12You like laying next to me.
04:14Any chance you get for us to cuddle?
04:16I want to fall asleep with you.
04:17That's all it is.
04:19Because I want to see if it's real.
04:21What?
04:22I'm a traditional gal.
04:25Yeah.
04:26We don't have to have sex.
04:27Because to me, it's the same as if we were to fall asleep on a couch.
04:32You know what I mean? You don't know that.
04:33You took me on one date.
04:36Let's put this in perspective, though.
04:37This is a new thing for me.
04:39Honestly, dating and getting to this place in life and in love because I am a new person.
04:46I was diagnosed with the autoimmune condition, dermatomyositis, in March of 2022.
04:52I had a decision. Do I want to potentially die early or do I want to live a well life?
05:00And so I lost a bunch of weight, cut my hair, and went on a health and wellness journey.
05:05I had to live a more peaceful life in my spirit and emotionally.
05:09And so now I'm always trying to give my body what it needs and respecting it.
05:14Sleeping in the bed with Irving, that's not something that I want to do right now.
05:18I want it to be more about our mind, our heart connecting.
05:23And for me, the physical is going to muddy that.
05:26Don't. Don't press it.
05:27I'm not. I'm not.
05:29Organic.
05:31Non-GMO.
05:32Non-GMO.
05:33Right.
05:35I need to go to bed.
05:36With Alicia, I don't want to rush things.
05:38That's not really what I'm here for.
05:40Good night.
05:41But I'm just concerned I may like her more than she likes me.
05:44I feel like there is a lot of sexual tension.
05:47I've never kissed her.
05:48If it were to happen, maybe she would soften up a little bit.
05:51But I feel like she just has a hard exterior.
05:57Well, don't use all your lotion tonight.
05:59No, no, no.
06:00I'm just playing.
06:04Good night.
06:11Good morning.
06:12Hello.
06:13Cheers.
06:14A new day.
06:15New day.
06:16I didn't want to wake you up this morning because I didn't want you to think.
06:19You had something else?
06:20Yeah.
06:21I got three other husbands too.
06:22Don't say that.
06:23Joke.
06:26Have any of the girls asked you about last night?
06:28Nobody.
06:30Are you ever going to tell them or you just don't want to?
06:32Well, I caught myself in like a little lie this morning.
06:34It's getting harder for me to not talk about my kids.
06:36So, I was going to ask you if you're okay with it.
06:39Well, I mean, I don't want you having to watch what you say.
06:41So, if you want to, I'm cool with it.
06:43Promise?
06:44Yeah.
06:45100%?
06:46Yeah.
06:47Now that both of our secrets are out and open, I honestly feel like there's nothing that can stop us.
06:51I mean, the next hard conversation we have to have is the logistics of what we're going to do in the future.
06:58I'm trying to wait to have that conversation because I'm just enjoying the time we have right now.
07:02You have to change those shorts.
07:04I keep looking.
07:06It's looking at me.
07:07I can't.
07:08It's looking at me.
07:14Hey.
07:15Hello, hello, hello, hello.
07:16Hi.
07:17Hello.
07:18Hello.
07:19Yo, the hands are so cute.
07:21All the way down to the end, all right?
07:22There you go.
07:23Hello, hello, hello.
07:24Never had a man for y'all.
07:27How was y'all night?
07:28It was good?
07:29It was good.
07:30Anything y'all want me to know?
07:31Nope.
07:32Nah.
07:34Okay, those of you who have not met me, I am your host, Tyronda Jones.
07:38I am your dating expert.
07:39I'm your sensei, so anything you need, holler at me, okay?
07:43Now, for the next few weeks, we will be putting your love to the test with dates and activities that will show if your virtual love can survive in the real world.
07:51And also, the intimacy suite is back.
07:54I said the intimacy suite is back.
07:58So if you guys decide you want to take things to the next level, that's what it's there for.
08:02That way, you ain't got to be doing it in the showers.
08:05Uh-oh.
08:06That's why all them towels was in the dryer.
08:09Oh.
08:10Oh, boy.
08:11You touch the towels, don't touch the towels.
08:14Move it right along.
08:16Also, over the next few weeks, each couple will be responsible for cooking for the entire household to see how well you work together as partners.
08:24Because at the end of the day, it all leads to one question.
08:28Are you moving forward as a couple, or are you walking away solo?
08:32All right, so we ready for our first activity?
08:34Yeah.
08:35You said no.
08:36Let's get it.
08:38So I'm going to send you guys inside.
08:39You're going to change into your bathing suits, and then y'all are going to meet me right over there by the pool, okay?
08:43All right.
08:44Okay.
08:45All right.
08:46Bye.
08:47Hey.
08:48What's up?
08:49Come on.
08:51I'm very busy.
08:52You're supposed to say, baby, you don't have one.
08:58No way I'm going to put on all this fat this fast.
09:03Today we got our first activity.
09:05They told us to strip.
09:08Okay.
09:11I am not excited about this.
09:14I don't want to be in my swimwear right now in front of a bunch of people.
09:18I don't know.
09:19I'm not the most comfortable with my body ever since I had my son, and Ty has never seen my body, so I'm nervous about it.
09:33Explore all parts of the body.
09:34She has this attitude like, I'm going to do things the way I want to do things.
09:39You have a way of flipping things and making it seem, put it on me.
09:42I don't understand why I'm being yelled at.
09:45I feel unseen.
09:47That's it.
09:48No accountability.
09:57Find a mat.
09:58Take your pick.
09:59Don't fight.
10:00Just find one and sit.
10:02Oh, it's pain.
10:05I have no clue what we're about to do, but it seems like it's going to be a little bit physical.
10:10I am just preparing myself for what it could be.
10:13I know it's going to be something that's going to stress us out.
10:18Today's activity is all about deepening your connection outside the bedroom while understanding each other's boundaries.
10:25We're about to explore intimacy a little bit differently, and we're going to do that through the art of body painting.
10:33Yay!
10:36Y'all are not excited enough for me.
10:39I'm a little bit nervous because we're half naked outside on the lawn with paint, and I kind of have a fear of intimacy.
10:46But maybe this will help me open up a little bit.
10:49Next to me, I have the intimacy professional, Joy DeMichelle.
10:54You can take it away, sis.
10:55Hello, hello, hello.
10:57Never ever met.
10:58Hello.
11:00I'm here to talk to you about intimacy, consent, boundaries, and clear communication.
11:06So this is an opportunity for you all to really get to know each other.
11:11Intimacy in itself and consent in itself can actually be sexy.
11:17Consent is about making sure that the other person understands what you are saying yes to.
11:24So I'm going to give you examples.
11:25Do I have permission to smear paint on your back?
11:29Do I have permission to take my finger and run across from one shoulder to another?
11:35This is where the conversation can become sexy.
11:39So in your buckets, you guys have paint.
11:41Your partners will be your canvas.
11:43You also have a blindfold.
11:45You can choose to use those.
11:47Now, figure out who's going to paint who.
11:49Do you want to go first?
11:50I'm a painter.
11:52I'm a painter.
11:53I'm sure you are.
11:56We know who's painting who?
11:57Yeah.
11:58All right, let's get started.
12:04I like this canvas.
12:05You do?
12:06I love it.
12:08Now, once you have your blindfolds on, the person who's not blindfolded will be asking for permission.
12:15May I draw on your chest?
12:18Yes.
12:19Okay.
12:20Do you mind if I touch your chest?
12:21No, you can't.
12:27That's good.
12:38Can I just hold your hand up?
12:39See, you didn't even ask me.
12:40Oh, shoot.
12:41You're right.
12:42Okay.
12:43So, I'm going to ask for your help.
12:45Okay, it's too late.
12:47Don't let me know.
12:49It's too late now.
12:55Okay, I see most of the fellas blindfolded.
12:57What's happening?
13:00Yes.
13:01Do you like the fact that you can't see anything?
13:03Actually, yes.
13:05I'm marking my territory.
13:07Honestly, I felt very submissive.
13:10She was so gentle when she asked me if she could do this, this, and that.
13:15It made me feel a little closer to her.
13:17It just showed me that I can be submissive to her.
13:20Do you want to turn around?
13:21You want me to?
13:22Yes.
13:23Okay.
13:24I have to ask you.
13:25And remember, you can explore all parts of the body as long as you ask for permission.
13:33Wait.
13:35Turn around.
13:36What are you doing?
13:37Turn around with me.
13:39You didn't ask for permission.
13:42No, I'm not.
13:43Oh, for real?
13:46The instruction was, make sure you ask before you put the paint somewhere.
13:50She yet to ask me anything.
13:53She has this attitude like, I'm going to do things the way I want to do things.
13:57It's all about being connected.
14:00It's like maybe a control trip.
14:02Those are things that I kind of picked up on the phone.
14:05I had an ex.
14:06One day, we were driving, and he turned his head to follow a booty.
14:10It was so crazy.
14:11I'm so disrespectful.
14:12But I put my fist right here.
14:14When he turned around to see if I was looking, it was like, crack.
14:17That's what you got.
14:18Don't do me like that.
14:20You shouldn't be wondering.
14:22Is she on your knees?
14:23Yeah.
14:24Oh, f***.
14:25I don't see nobody down here.
14:27That might become a problem if she has control issues.
14:35We got five minutes before we switch, okay?
14:38Are you having fun?
14:39I'm having fun.
14:48Alrighty.
14:49Time's up.
14:52Take your blindfolds off.
14:54Okay, let's see what we have over here.
14:56Well, first is, you know, a kiss.
14:58My lips right there.
14:59He like that.
15:00Next is a tree.
15:01I know he wants children, so a tree and then the roots.
15:04Oh, that's beautiful.
15:05My name is here, of course, on his neck.
15:08Beautiful.
15:09She sees me, and she thinks of love and peace.
15:12The fact that we're on the same page about growing and having a bigger family with her drawing a tree on me, I think that's a good thing.
15:21What do we have over here?
15:22So, I did two roses at the top because he always makes me feel so pretty, and I put the eye around him because it represents strength.
15:31So, were you surprised to see what art you put on you?
15:34We agreed that we were going to pay attention to each other, so I wasn't blindfolded.
15:38Okay.
15:39He likes to watch you.
15:40I like to watch.
15:42What do we have over here?
15:44Well, I was showing ownership, okay?
15:47But clearly.
15:49Let the people know.
15:51You know, I had to leave my handprint.
15:54Okay.
15:55I thought he peed on himself.
15:58I kept forgetting to ask for permission, though.
16:00She didn't get permission to put the handprint, but.
16:04Okay, well, you guys are talking about it, and that's beautiful.
16:06Yeah.
16:07But are you always used to getting in your way?
16:09I am.
16:10That's probably why you don't know how to act.
16:12Alexis' handprint on Chris' bottom area, that's definitely saying, this is mine.
16:21Like, ownership.
16:22Like, she's not playing about it.
16:24Hey, hey, hey.
16:25How y'all doing over here?
16:26Good.
16:27Might see some red, black, and green.
16:28What you doing?
16:29Come on.
16:30Quit playing with her.
16:31Come on.
16:32Come on.
16:33On this leg, I started to write love, and then outline it so that way it could really pop.
16:37Okay.
16:38You gave her your last name?
16:39Hello.
16:40Hello.
16:41All right.
16:42All right, then.
16:43I like your style.
16:44All right, what's going on over here?
16:45So, I have his name tattooed on me, so I wrote my name all over him so it would kind of see
16:51what it felt like.
16:52And how did it feel to have her all over your body and making you into a masterpiece?
16:57It felt great.
16:58After waiting for him for so long, and it finally happened, I was like, you got the
17:01green light.
17:02You ain't got to ask again.
17:03Oh, that's lovely.
17:04What's going on over here?
17:07I chose the color gold, and I tried to do a sun.
17:10The sun represents power to me, and that he's a black king.
17:15And how did it feel to have to pause to ask permission about things?
17:20I had to be a little bit more mindful to ask, because I sometimes tell.
17:24So, that was something that I had to remember.
17:26All right, thank you.
17:28And last, but certainly not least, what do we have over here?
17:32We have a masterpiece.
17:36I felt like I had the best canvas, so I didn't have to do too much.
17:40Okay.
17:41I put some flowers on his back, you know, just so hopefully something blooms.
17:45So, how did it feel to have her painting on you and to have her asking permission?
17:50I felt submissive.
17:52You like that?
17:53I love that.
17:54I ain't going to lie.
17:55Okay.
17:56All right.
17:57So, that was great, everybody.
17:58Thank you, Joy.
17:59You're going to swap out.
18:00So, if you haven't already made that, it's your turn to paint.
18:05You're supposed to ask.
18:06Do it with me.
18:07Do you want to be behind for a little bit?
18:08Yeah, you can walk with me.
18:10You got my permission to figure out what you want to do.
18:12Oh, do you want to put that one on?
18:13No, I'm good.
18:14Do something on your back.
18:16Yeah, but don't touch my rolls and stuff.
18:20I don't really like my back touched, actually.
18:23Oh, really?
18:24Uh-uh.
18:26This is where I am right now.
18:28Because of the autoimmune condition, I'm a little bit more reserved.
18:32I have a little bit more wounding when it comes to my body.
18:35All right, guys.
18:36You guys got five minutes.
18:38Oh, crap.
18:39Crap.
18:42Can I touch your chest?
18:44Okay.
18:45Please.
18:46You're hurting.
18:47That was so essential.
18:49Do you have permission to touch my damn arm?
18:52I didn't even say yes yet.
18:54You was going to say yes anyway.
18:58Time is up.
18:59Time is up.
19:00So, tell us, what are you working with?
19:03I drew a world because in this life of ours, what's the sense in going through it without having someone that we can share our worlds with?
19:13Who do we have over here?
19:14We had the same thought process as far as, like, the tree.
19:17I put the heart with the C because her son's name is Cal, and I did another one because she called him Biggish.
19:22Nice.
19:23He knows how big family is for me, especially my child, and that made me feel nice that he put not only my son's name but his nickname, too.
19:31So, he gets points for that.
19:33How about you all?
19:34What's going on over here?
19:35I put a stop sign on her back.
19:39A lot of times, she like to have her way, and when I say stop, she don't want to stop.
19:43Good thing I can't see behind me.
19:45Oh!
19:48The reason why I put this big stop sign on her back because I wanted to use this activity to express myself about her argumentative ways and control issues, and I'm feeling great about it.
19:59Okay, well, you all just need to come up with, like, a little word that you can use that means stop.
20:04Remember to be consensual.
20:06Is that what we got going on over here?
20:08I put growth on his chest because he's growing, always, like, challenging himself to be better.
20:14And was it consensual?
20:15Did she ask permission all along the way?
20:17She did, but she didn't have to.
20:19Okay.
20:20All right, all right.
20:21What's going on over here?
20:22We got the black stripes because she's my little zebra, and, you know, she's black and white.
20:27A lot of times growing up, she had to tell people that she is black, and so up here, I put queen right here because she is my black queen.
20:33All right, all right.
20:34Thank you all.
20:35What's happening over here?
20:37I wrote on her chest.
20:38She allowed me to put on her chest powerful because she's such a, like, a strong person, you know.
20:44She's going, like, through, like, a certain journey.
20:48Wait, wait, wait.
20:49That means you don't have consent to share whatever you're about to say.
20:52Right, right.
20:53And a specific journey, which involves her having to have that power to fight through it.
21:02What's on her back?
21:03It's actually wings, angel wings, because when you first came out on our first date, I could have sworn, like, you was, like, an angel, like, walking towards me.
21:14Aw.
21:17Well, he sound like he about to get on one knee.
21:19Okay.
21:20All right.
21:21All right.
21:22Go away.
21:23Go away.
21:26I'm really thankful that Irvin noticed in the moment that I wasn't exactly comfortable with him sharing in front of the group about the autoimmune condition.
21:36Sometimes I'm sensitive about sharing my own story, and I wasn't quite ready for that to be the focus in that moment.
21:44And how about for you?
21:45How was it for you to have him in control in that way?
21:49I feel like a big kid, you know.
21:51Like, it's fun.
21:52You know, we just look like kindergarten, but that's kind of how we are.
21:55We play around a lot.
21:57It takes me a little while to be intimate with somebody, so it felt good to slowly explore that.
22:05All right.
22:06Thank you, guys, for participating in this activity.
22:08These tools and activities, we're not doing them for no reason.
22:11This is to help you create healthy communication, also create healthy boundaries.
22:16Intimacy is deeper than just jumping in the bed and doing the do.
22:21So that's it for tonight's activity.
22:23I will see you guys tomorrow because we will have another activity.
22:28Yay.
22:29All right.
22:37So what are y'all making?
22:38Man, we're going to do some blackened catfish with a wine caper sauce with rice pilaf with some green beans.
22:48OK.
22:49And I'm his assistant.
22:51Love.
22:52I cook with love.
22:53Tonight, me and Britt are supposed to cook for everyone.
22:57I feel as though I have built a rapport with her now, and so I'm looking forward to it.
23:01How many cups of water do we need?
23:03Do 10 cups.
23:04Whatever you want me to do, my king.
23:07Thank you, love.
23:08With Ty, it's good so far, especially, you know, with everything that's going on and meeting all the new couples.
23:13It's been slightly chaotic, but good.
23:16How we doing?
23:19What do you want for the base?
23:21Oil, butter, oil, butter and water.
23:23Did they grab vegan butter?
23:26I don't think so.
23:27Oh, do I need to do vegan butter?
23:28Yes.
23:29Oh, OK.
23:31I can't eat regular butter.
23:33I mean, sometimes, but not for real.
23:36Because you can also do a small pan of the veggies by oil versus butter.
23:43Just don't kill it with oil, though.
23:46Are you cooking, darling, or are we cooking?
23:48OK, so oil gives me a lot of mucus, so I don't eat a lot of oil.
23:51OK, well, listen, we're cooking for more than just one person right now.
23:53I said make this small.
23:54I know, but when it's y'all time to cook, y'all can cook.
23:59I'm cooking for more than just her, and to be quite frank, that's not my woman.
24:04Someone else is going to have to adjust for her restrictions, not me.
24:08You got to use vegan butter.
24:09You got to use this and that.
24:11No, we're trying to cook right now.
24:13You're yelling at me, Ty.
24:14I'm not yelling, but I'm saying y'all stressing us out while we're trying to cook.
24:17Am I stressing you out?
24:18Ty.
24:19Ty.
24:20Wow, this is why I don't come in the kitchen.
24:23I could cook my own food, honestly.
24:25I don't even have to sit at the table.
24:26You could just put the oil on that.
24:27I'm getting out of dog.
24:31I feel disconnected.
24:33What you mean?
24:34Did you feel sensual?
24:35Did you feel sexual?
24:36At that point, it didn't matter.
24:38Doesn't that mean that you had a problem then?
24:41I feel like from the beginning, we just had a natural vibe.
24:44The thing that is weighing on my mind is that I got some stuff to tell Tatiana.
24:53You got so frustrated with Alicia.
24:56No, because they can't keep telling me how to cook.
24:59Just be mindful.
25:00You're talking to other men's women.
25:03Ty to be yelled at.
25:05I'm already at my max for the day with the activity, and now Ty's barking at me.
25:11I don't understand why I'm being yelled at, and I really didn't appreciate it.
25:17Irvin.
25:18What's up, beautiful?
25:19Ty was just yelling at me.
25:20Who?
25:21Ty.
25:22Why?
25:23I was like, I don't really do butter, but I do oil.
25:25And he basically was kicking me out the kitchen.
25:30Kicked you out the kitchen?
25:31Well, no, but he raised his voice, and I was like, you're yelling.
25:34He was like, I'm not yelling, but y'all asked us to cook, and this is our night.
25:39And then I kind of raised my voice a little bit, because I'm tired of arguing about food.
25:42It's kind of dumb to me.
25:43Just don't worry about it.
25:45It sounds like she was the aggressor in this situation.
25:48Her tone or how she talks to people can be considered bossy.
25:52You don't ever go up to a person and just tell them how to cook.
25:55You know, the man's cooking.
25:56Let him cook.
25:57The kitchen is like a very, it's a trigger for you, like the whole area.
26:01I get it.
26:02I mean, not necessarily, but maybe it is.
26:09I don't know.
26:10I felt some type of way after that.
26:11We weren't connecting.
26:12Really?
26:13Yeah, like I like the finger pain and stuff, so I don't know.
26:17Hey, speak of the devil.
26:19We ain't talking about you.
26:22There's more ways to connect, so don't even worry about it.
26:24Don't even worry about it.
26:25What's she saying?
26:26No, no, not at all.
26:27Okay.
26:28I like your pajamas.
26:29How did you feel the pain went?
26:31Oh, it was great.
26:32We worked.
26:33Okay.
26:34Got me right back snuggled.
26:36Yeah.
26:37It worked for me.
26:38What'd you think?
26:40You know what they say?
26:42I don't know.
26:43You just felt disconnected.
26:44When?
26:45When we was out there.
26:46I felt disconnected?
26:47What you mean?
26:49We'll be back, y'all.
26:50All right.
26:51All right.
26:52You didn't express that outside.
26:53You was telling me you like it.
26:54You was like, y'all love when you touch my legs.
26:56I actually said to you, I'm slower.
26:58Rub me slower.
27:00I didn't hear that.
27:02But I had to be doing something right for you to say you getting turned on.
27:06The thing itself turned me on.
27:08The finger pain itself turned me on.
27:10Yes, you touching my back.
27:12That's turning me on.
27:13But then when you come to my leg and you just like this.
27:16Instead of it just being like.
27:18When I was rubbing your thighs, I took my time.
27:21I went with your thighs.
27:22You didn't even ask for permission.
27:24Lex did what she wanted to do.
27:27Did you feel intimate?
27:29Did you feel sensual?
27:31Did you feel sexual?
27:33At that point, it didn't matter.
27:35It didn't matter.
27:36Okay.
27:37All right.
27:38Well, then that mean that you had a problem then.
27:40So then exactly how I'm feeling is warranted.
27:42After the exercise and I saw how Lexus basically did what she want to do.
27:46It really gave me a red flag.
27:48But I don't want to say that I'm going to stop.
27:50But I don't want to say that I feel like we're not going to work because I don't feel that way.
27:56I really got to show this woman that I mean business.
28:00Or if not, she's going to treat me like a little boy.
28:03I'm going to go give you something to drink.
28:06You okay?
28:08I'm good.
28:18Britt.
28:19Yep.
28:20You got the salt?
28:21Yes.
28:22Sprinkle some salt in here for me.
28:24Salt, babe.
28:25See that sexy right there.
28:27Can I just point out that I think y'all cooking together is so cute.
28:30Oh, thank you.
28:32Yeah, real talk.
28:34It's those moments that I feel like show you how it's going to be like at home.
28:37Mom and dad, the food ready yet?
28:39Not yet, baby.
28:41Stay out the kitchen is what mom and dad said.
28:43That's what dad said.
28:44Stay out the kitchen.
28:46Okay, let's do a sun salutation, okay?
28:49Reaching up towards the ceiling.
28:51Yes.
28:52Inhale, exhale, forward fold.
28:54I went up the stairs to go grab something.
28:56Reaching up.
28:57Yes.
28:59Brandon and Alicia, they were like doing yoga.
29:01What's the matter?
29:03You upset right now at me?
29:05I've been asking you to meditate, do yoga and stuff.
29:07I did want to do yoga together.
29:09You want to do yoga tomorrow?
29:11Not necessarily.
29:12I want to wake up whenever my body calls me.
29:15Like just to see you just do on the fly for somebody else, it's offensive to me.
29:20Oh, I didn't realize that.
29:22You're walking away.
29:24We always talked about us being a team, but she just chose to do yoga with somebody else.
29:28That was inconsiderate.
29:30It's a respect thing.
29:32It just felt weird.
29:34You felt like I was servicing somebody else?
29:36Exactly.
29:37That's how it comes across.
29:39Do you get what I'm saying?
29:40It just felt like that.
29:42It wasn't my intention to over-serve somebody.
29:44Whatever you're saying, I'm trying to apologize.
29:47It's okay.
29:49Relax.
29:51I'm feeling completely drained today.
29:53I'm feeling like I'm being placed in all of these situations and being misunderstood right now.
30:01You don't think that was a part of insecurity?
30:03No, it's not.
30:05It's about doing something you didn't do for me.
30:07You caused it.
30:09This is wild.
30:11It is wild.
30:14We are not on the same page currently, and that's a little disappointing because I have great intentions.
30:21I just don't know why he's not feeling it.
30:24All right, we should go in the kitchen.
30:26I think they said dinner's served.
30:34Always something.
30:39This is the first group dinner, and I wanted to make sure I could do as best of a job that I could so that we all would have a good time.
30:51At the end of the day, you can't argue if you've got a mouthful of food.
30:55And it's good food at that.
30:57Come on now.
30:59So, what did everybody think of today?
31:01I think it was a good activity that helped us bond and come closer together as a family.
31:05I'm not usually the one to get naked on screen.
31:08I was shocked myself.
31:17Charlie mentioned to me before dinner that that's when she wanted to reveal to everyone about our situation.
31:25We have an announcement to make.
31:27Y'all got an announcement to make?
31:29An announcement?
31:31I honestly would have kept it in between us because that's our business, but she shot me that look across the table.
31:37And I was like, oh Jesus, here we go.
31:40Charlie and I, we had one of the biggest obstacles that we could have had with each other.
31:45I had a secret to tell her. She had a secret to tell me.
31:50The suspense is killing me right now. I'm sorry.
31:53So, I came clean to him about something.
31:57And I had to admit something to her.
31:59I just recently had a kid.
32:02Six months old.
32:04But I also had a kid.
32:06And she is one month old.
32:09So, when I'm disappearing, I'm breastfeeding still.
32:14What? Oh, wow.
32:16Well, congratulations.
32:18Congratulations.
32:20This is the reaction I wanted.
32:24But wait, there's also one thing I dropped on him too.
32:27So, y'all know I had a 12-year-old.
32:29I have four kids.
32:33I have a 12-year-old, a 7-year-old, a 5-year-old, and a newborn.
32:37Which I also, he did not know.
32:40So, I'm working with the Brady Bunch.
32:43We went from two kids to six overnight, so.
32:46I feel like this man already got kids of his own.
32:49And this woman talking about she got four other kids.
32:52There's no way he's ready for all of this.
32:54I couldn't believe the news from Charlie and Jared.
32:58Like, wow. But I guess that just makes them perfect for each other.
33:01Charlie, I said, is my best friend.
33:04And I told her multiple times, there's not many things that you could tell me.
33:08That that would get me off of you.
33:10And I love her. So, we gonna figure it out.
33:13Good job. Congratulations.
33:19I kind of wanted to, like, shield my face from what was about to happen.
33:24Everyone was so supportive.
33:27You looking lighter already.
33:29And you just ate.
33:31Jared had my back.
33:33It just went way better than I could have ever imagined.
33:37I ain't gonna lie.
33:39Crazy.
33:41You applied on a show pregnant?
33:43If you came on here and told me you had a one-month-old.
33:46For what you would have did.
33:48No, no, not just that. I got four.
33:50Yeah, forget about that part.
33:52So, it's two bombs.
33:54You don't got one kid.
33:56You got four kids.
33:58Oh yeah, I got four.
33:59Girl.
34:01It makes no sense to me.
34:03Having those secrets.
34:05And those big secrets for that long.
34:07Is the weirdest thing I've ever seen in my life.
34:09It's a lot that we haven't talked about.
34:11But I just feel like that's, that's a bit much.
34:14I haven't been completely honest with Brandon.
34:16I have a couple secrets that I need to let him know.
34:18I don't know, girl. I ain't the one for drama.
34:20But that is kind of crazy.
34:22My secrets could definitely jeopardize our future.
34:25But I really hope that it's not a deal breaker for Brandon.
34:28That's crazy.
34:37Some of the other couples, they're arguing.
34:40But with Clay.
34:42Our relationship, I would say, is progressing pretty well.
34:45We're getting along.
34:47I just wanted to spend more time in a bed that wasn't a twin.
34:51Where we can like, you know, massage each other.
34:54And like cuddle.
34:55And just have that intimate moment with each other.
34:58In a more comfortable setting.
35:01I hate that it's called the boomer room.
35:03Why can't it just be the extra room?
35:08I really just wanted to be able to like, cuddle for a bit.
35:12And like, just have a space.
35:14I wasn't expecting to like, have sex or anything.
35:18I'm vibing. As long as it's like, you're having a good time.
35:21Yeah.
35:22It's like, I feel like it's no time wasted.
35:23You know what I'm saying?
35:24Right.
35:26It's kind of hard sometimes to go from just being like, on the internet to seeing somebody in person.
35:30I feel like we just have the natural vibe.
35:32I feel like from the beginning I knew that we would be fine. You know?
35:35This experience is to get to know the person beyond like, the virtual screen.
35:40And see if you actually like this person in real life.
35:43They're so big.
35:45There's so much that you don't see when you're doing a virtual relationship.
35:49Like how people interact.
35:51Are they truthful?
35:53There's so much you can hide behind a screen.
35:56What did you think about Charlie and Jared?
36:02Jared's his name, right?
36:04Yeah, I think that was something.
36:07I guess it's none of our business, but it's like, I wasn't expecting that for sure.
36:13If something like that happened, would you tell me?
36:18I think I would.
36:20I would just want to like, make sure I tell you with the right timing.
36:23What do you feel like is the right time?
36:26I don't know.
36:28Whenever something is sensitive, and you care about somebody, you really got to watch the way you like, say things.
36:34I do feel like the relationship with Tatiana and I is progressing.
36:38My turn!
36:40However, the thing that is weighing on my mind is that I got some stuff to tell Tatiana.
36:46Do you feel like we're close again?
36:48Um, it really depends on the case.
36:50I have a newborn child that she does not know about.
36:58I've been scared to tell her because I do want this relationship to work.
37:02And I think that Tatiana will not receive the news the best, honestly.
37:06I just wanted your opinion, man, because I don't really like, you know, I ain't no messy person like talking about business, but you saw it.
37:11And I had a good time.
37:13You know what I'm saying?
37:15So, like, I just wanted your opinion on this.
37:18When I sit on the couch, what's the first thing she said?
37:21I feel disconnected.
37:23I'm saying like, what?
37:25What's the first thing she said?
37:27I feel disconnected.
37:29I'm saying like, what?
37:31What's the first thing she said?
37:33I feel disconnected.
37:35I'm saying like, what?
37:37You feel like I'm disconnected.
37:39Why are you even doing it?
37:41You ain't did nothing.
37:43That lady asked you out there.
37:45You did exactly what you wanted to do.
37:47True.
37:49I do not do well with control.
37:51I got a lot of.
37:53Man, I got a lot of trial.
37:55I got a lot of childhood trauma from me.
37:57I didn't have nine step parents combined.
38:01And that's something I don't want.
38:03My mother been married several times.
38:05I've watched several people come into our household growing up as a child and try to control my mother.
38:10And then I also moved to Dallas with my father where he tried to be controlling towards me.
38:15So when I found out I could stand on my own two feet, I don't tolerate control from nobody.
38:20She knows this.
38:22That's what's killing me.
38:24You feel so I can see if you ain't had, you know, my background, you know, the route.
38:27So when somebody know the route of why you like this and they study, it's like, OK, do you care?
38:34I remember her saying that she comes from a Jamaican background and her father was Jamaican, if I'm not mistaken.
38:40Yeah.
38:42She's coming from that hard exterior.
38:44So before we jump to conclusions, experience each other for the rest of this time we have with each other.
38:48Faith.
38:50So see what other tests we have.
38:52You don't know what could happen.
38:54I remember you telling me you petty.
38:55I remember you telling me that.
38:57And you know what?
38:58I thought putting a stop sign on her back was petty.
39:00It was.
39:01It was.
39:02And I couldn't draw.
39:04I forgot how many sides a stop sign had.
39:06So I drew a square.
39:08As soon as you said that, I looked around.
39:10Oh, my God.
39:21I really need to talk to you.
39:23How are you?
39:25I'm great.
39:27I'm not really feeling you right now.
39:29OK.
39:31I don't know what it is about you.
39:33I don't know if you can read me, but you can't seem to catch a hint from nothing.
39:35You can't.
39:37You do yoga.
39:39That was cool.
39:41I didn't interrupt you.
39:43And then you had to never say that it was my insecurities.
39:45That was insulting to me.
39:47I was so insulted.
39:49It's the fact that you have a way of flipping things and making it seem.
39:51Put it on me when you did something wrong.
39:52I don't want to be seen like coming off of his body.
39:54I do not want to have conversations with somebody who cannot control their anger, their words.
40:01It's the energy.
40:03The energy feels angry.
40:05What was wrong?
40:07The thing about it.
40:09I'm going to wait.
40:11Stop interrupting me, please.
40:13Like for real.
40:15Like, come on.
40:17I feel unsafe with your demeanor at the moment because you're still upset.
40:19No, no, no, no.
40:20I know.
40:22I'm a step away because I don't want you making feel unsafe.
40:24Come here.
40:26No, no, no.
40:28You said it.
40:30I said with your demeanor.
40:32Can we have a conversation once you calm down?
40:34No, we can't.
40:36Let me calm down my demeanor for you.
40:38It's all about your protection, right?
40:40It's about both of our protection.
40:42No, apparently not.
40:44I'm not one to like just walk away from a conversation.
40:46But as a man, if a woman tells you she feels unsafe, just get up and move.
40:47We had our bone.
40:49Sure, we had our disagreements.
40:51But in person, it's hella different.
40:53This whole deflection bulls***.
40:55No f***ing accountability.
40:57Get the f*** out of here.