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The key to better communication? Become a student of your partner! In this video, we share tips on how to truly understand your loved one, improve communication, and build a deeper connection. Watch now and transform your relationship!

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00:00And so another challenge that is important for us to be aware of is that men are fixers.

00:06We love to solve problems.

00:09And sometimes when women communicate, they're not looking to have an issue fixed.

00:13They just want to be heard.

00:15They just want to be understood.

00:16They just want to have someone to share their thoughts and their day and their expressions

00:20with.

00:21And if we show up to a communication with different agendas and a different focus and

00:26a different interest, it can cause gridlock in the relationship and keep us from effectively

00:32communicating.

00:33So one of the things that we had to learn in our relationship is that we had to become

00:36students of one another.

00:39And so one of the principles we teach is become a student of your partner or get your PhD

00:44in your partner.

00:45See, the more I began to learn her, her wiring, her emotions, her feeling, the way she thinks,

00:51the way she communicates, the more effective our relationship was.

00:55And so what I got was a book called The Book of Danielle.

00:59And she got a journal called The Book of Hasani.

01:01And everything we learned about each other, we placed it in the book.

01:05So in instance, what she likes, I would write in the book.

01:08What she dislikes, I wrote in the book.

01:10What turns her on, I wrote in the book.

01:13What turns her off, I wrote in the book.

01:15When is the most effective time to communicate with her?

01:20When is the least effective time to communicate with her?

01:23What are the areas that I should engage in?

01:25What areas should I not?

01:27And the more I began to learn her and peel back the layers, in essence, I got an eyeshot

01:33into who she really is and how to effectively deal with her.

01:37And if we take the time to become students of our partner, it will enhance our ability

01:42to effectively communicate when issues arise in relationships.

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