Are You Addicted to Toxic Relationships. You’re finally in a stable, loving relationship, but instead of feeling happy, you’re restless and bored. Sound familiar? You’re not alone. Many people mistake this feeling as a sign that the relationship is failing when, in reality, it could mean you’re experiencing a healthy dynamic for the first time. If you’ve been drawn to drama-filled relationships in the past, a calm and secure one might feel unfamiliar—even dull. Here’s why: