When Aishwarya debunked stereotypes about marriage

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Throwback to 2010 when Aishwarya Rai Bachchan talked about maintaining a healthy work-life balance and her relationship with her in-laws on Koffee with Karan.   🎥: Disney+ Hotstar

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00:00We're bachans for all seasons.

00:02Silence is so golden in a married woman's life.

00:04No wife ever makes the attempt to break the ice

00:07and to say sorry for the first time.

00:31In a day and age of really crumbling marriages

00:35and the institution people are losing complete faith in,

00:38what is the one word you would use to describe it?

00:41Marriage means keeping the faith

00:43and it's the institution both of us believe in

00:48and that's probably why we felt at home immediately.

00:52We were at home when we came together

00:54and we got married within a year of it.

00:56The cliche that I don't agree with is when people say that

00:59marriage not yet, I want to concentrate on my career.

01:02I don't agree with that.

01:04You can handle both.

01:05Everybody can handle both and you're here as an actor

01:08to enjoy your craft, put out good work, do kick-ass work

01:12and get that noticed.

01:14You will get noticed along the way.

01:16I don't think you need to remain single for that.

01:18What's really cool is about her,

01:20which is a bit of a contradiction,

01:23but it's nice about her.

01:25She's like the epitome of grace

01:27and she's very feminine and she's a lady

01:30and she gets treated like that.

01:32But at heart, she's just another, like she's a buddy.

01:35She's one of the guys.

01:36And you can ask any of my friends that I hang out with.

01:39You ask Uday, ask Dugu, ask anyone.

01:42She loves to get in there and have fun.

01:45I'm the one who has to break the ice all the time

01:47and any man who's ever married will know that I'm telling the truth

01:51and no wife ever makes the attempt to break the ice

01:54and to say sorry for the first time

01:56because every married man knows that the wife is always right.

02:03It's always easy.

02:04Just say sorry and move on.

02:06Silence is so golden in a married woman's life.

02:08You have new people in your life.

02:10You have father-in-law, mother-in-law, sister-in-law.

02:12All good with all the in-laws.

02:14Of course, the father-in-law you've acted with and done much work with.

02:17The good part is, yeah, you can't walk away from the fact

02:21and that is I did know them.

02:23But, yeah, being family and living together is a different experience

02:28but the best at it.

02:31It's interesting how similar they as a family,

02:36and I'd say I am family, of course,

02:38but if I look at Shweta, Abhishek and Ma and Pa,

02:42it's like mom, dad, my brother and me.

02:45At home.

02:46At home, it's so similar.

02:48Their interpersonal relationship, their everyday,

02:51the way they interact,

02:53the way they insist on at least a meal a day together

02:57if they're in town.

02:59That's what we did.

03:00We love spending time at home with each other.

03:02This is the way I always was at home.

03:04Probably that's why I didn't see any partying that much

03:06because when you're working, you're happy to be home.

03:08I really feel that Ma has, you know,

03:11just very easily moved into that space of being her confidante in the house.

03:16Where I'm pretty sure when a woman first comes into her husband's house,

03:19she feels a bit out of place, evidently and obviously.

03:23And I think the only person who can truly fill that void

03:28is her mother-in-law because she too knew what it was like to do that.

03:31And I really think Ma has done that.

03:33What do wives not know about husbands?

03:35They don't know and they should just really get to know is

03:38we do not like to ask for directions.

03:41Okay, alright.

03:42Shahrukh Saif, Aamir Salman, the Khan of all seasons would be?

03:46We're bachans for all seasons.

03:50We're bachans for all seasons and my name is not Khan.

03:55Oh God!

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