Crush, relationships and more ft. Kriti Sanon

Brut India

"It wasn’t like a... proper relationship." Kriti Sanon opened up about her first crush from school.  📹: BeerBiceps

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00:00Very tall.

00:01I think I used to lose sight of him because he was so tall.

00:04And you get all like red and hot when that person's around you.

00:08I think he was very possessive.

00:09Never be in love with someone who you think he'll become.

00:12If he doesn't change.

00:17Tell us about your first love.

00:21I think it was somewhere in school.

00:24I wasn't in 5th or 6th standard.

00:26I was quite late.

00:28But yeah, the crush.

00:32Quite late meaning maybe like 9th, 10th or 11th.

00:39Somewhere around that.

00:4214th, 15th, 16th.

00:43Something like that.

00:44Your tuition friend.

00:46Not tuition friend.

00:47I was in school.

00:48Okay, co-ed school.

00:49Yeah, my co-ed school.

00:51I didn't have any such problem in life.

00:54So I was in school.

00:57Very tall.

00:58I think I used to lose sight of him because he was so tall.

01:01He'll suit me.

01:03I think subconsciously you...

01:05I mean I look a little above a certain level.

01:07According to my height.

01:09So I used to look a little short below.

01:11So if someone's tall, I would notice.

01:14Like because I'm tall.

01:15That kind of romance was so...

01:19Like now we call it kindergarten romance or whatever.

01:22But when you don't know the name,

01:25then you figure out the name.

01:27Then you're looking from a distance in that assembly line.

01:32Or you want to go around their class.

01:36You know, just to like see.

01:37And you get all like red and hot when that person's around you.

01:41And start blushing.

01:43People are teasing you with that person's name.

01:45You stare during the lecture until they stare back a little bit.

01:48And yeah, that also.

01:50That person was not in my class.

01:52He was in a different section.

01:54But that has its own charm.

01:56Because then you go around that person's class.

01:59And you suddenly see him.

02:01And notes exchange.

02:04And then you suddenly like you talk for the first time.

02:07You know, that conversation.

02:09Not knowing, like complete stranger.

02:11And exchanging numbers.

02:13And at that time, I used to share a mobile with my mom.

02:18I used to get it after going home, basically.

02:21So my mom used to go to college.

02:23She used to have that mobile since morning.

02:25Then when I used to reach home, I used to have that mobile.

02:29And sometimes I used to get a message.

02:32I used to delete all those messages later.

02:35Landlines.

02:36Now I don't have a landline in this house.

02:38When there were landlines,

02:40it used to get up from here and there.

02:42Same number.

02:43If that person calls.

02:46And I couldn't lie in front of my mom.

02:49I think my sister was brilliant at it.

02:52But I was the one who she would catch in a jiffy.

02:56That something is wrong.

02:58Whose call was it?

02:59Why did you break up?

03:01I think at that time it's very frivolous.

03:04I don't think it's that deep.

03:06I don't think it was deep.

03:07Though I cried.

03:08It wasn't deep.

03:09But it wasn't like what I would call a proper relationship.

03:14Now when you look back,

03:16it was that school crush.

03:19First relationship.

03:21Yeah, I think he was very possessive.

03:23Talking about school crush.

03:26This possessiveness has been there, I feel.

03:28That's your type?

03:29That's the type you attract?

03:35See, you realize your pattern after some time.

03:39And then you realize what not to do.

03:42This is what I should break my pattern.

03:44And not go for my pattern.

03:45I think it's a conscious effort.

03:47When someone you hear,

03:49their perception is something else.

03:51Or is not considered to be the best guy or whatever.

03:56But that person with you is very sweet.

03:58And very nice.

03:59Then you suddenly feel like,

04:00maybe I am having this effect on this person.

04:03But this can be a trap too.

04:05This doesn't last.

04:07I feel you can never change a person.

04:09Yeah.

04:10And also, sometimes you realize that

04:12maybe you were in love with

04:15a version of a person

04:17that you thought he would become.

04:20You know.

04:21This will happen.

04:22This will become.

04:23Or he can do this.

04:25This change is happening.

04:27But that's wrong.

04:28That's wrong on your part also.

04:29Why do you want to change the person?

04:31So never be in love with someone

04:33who you think he will become.

04:35Right now.

04:36Do you love that person as he is now?

04:38What if he doesn't change?

04:40You never know.

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