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I Used AI Photos on My Dating Profile and...No One Even Noticed?? | Cosmopolitan
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2/12/2024
Dating writer Meg Schaltegger bravely tried out Photo AI for her dating profile pics to see if her dates noticed. And guess what? They, umm, didn't really.
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When I showed my friends, they were like, "That's not you."
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(record scratches)
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Because they know me so well,
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but he's not gonna know me at all, so I will report back.
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- Hey guys, come on in.
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I am a New York City writer.
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I do a lot of dating and relationship content,
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especially at Cosmo, but elsewhere too.
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It's fun, I can't complain.
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Other times, I am up 'til one in the morning
00:26
in my bed writing like a little goblin,
00:28
so it's glamorous until it's not.
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In rom-com, there is always the happy ending,
00:33
and I think in real life dating,
00:35
there's a lot of heartbreaks and difficulties,
00:38
and I write about that.
00:39
I have gone on so many dates from different dating apps.
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I've had successful dates,
00:45
and I've also had really bad experiences too.
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Sometimes being on the dating app is a burning hellscape,
00:50
and sometimes it is fun.
00:51
I think it depends on the mood I'm in.
00:53
Sometimes it is fun to have a glass of wine
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and swipe through, and sometimes you're swiping through
00:57
and you're like, no, no, no, no.
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I am writing an article about my experience
01:03
using AI photos on my own hinge.
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I'm going to use AI technology to place myself
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in different scenarios and different places
01:11
and see if the men bring it up.
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I'm gonna put myself in Paris or as a valedictorian.
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I wanna do a couple that are a little outrageous
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to see if it really sparks a conversation,
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'cause I wanna know if they're looking.
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I wanna know if they're gonna ask me questions about it,
01:26
and then I wanna see how I then handle it,
01:28
because I honestly have no idea what I'm gonna do
01:30
when someone asks me.
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The program that I'm using,
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I'm gonna input around 20 photos of myself,
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and I believe it creates an actual avatar of me
01:39
that looks super realistic,
01:41
that I can put in different scenarios.
01:43
So I can create photos and experiences
01:45
that never actually happened.
01:47
Slap them up on my dating app,
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and let's see if we can trick some men.
01:50
I'm just scrolling through my Instagram,
01:51
so I can try to find some photos
01:55
to throw in the AI program.
01:56
Maybe a closeup, think of my eyes.
02:00
So I think we're probably good on that.
02:05
I'm gonna start to create my AI characters.
02:09
So I'm gonna upload my photos.
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It says that this will take 49 minutes,
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and then you can start doing your first photo shoot
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with your AI characters.
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I had to put in my name, my gender, my age,
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my eye color, my body type, my ethnicity.
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I have to basically write a prompt now.
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I am going to put my AI character
02:29
at a book signing as if I wrote a book.
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Let's see if it looks anything like me.
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It looks nothing like me.
02:37
I think the hair looks maybe the closest.
02:39
It's not giving me, that's not me.
02:43
She has blue eyes, I don't have blue eyes.
02:45
They all kinda look a little bit different too,
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just ever so slightly.
02:49
And now I have no face in this AI.
02:51
Yeah, I don't love the dress that they chose for her.
02:53
And what is this necklace?
02:55
What is the dress and what is the necklace?
02:57
I would never.
02:58
I'm gonna have to potentially find new photos,
03:01
crop them perfectly, only so you see my face,
03:05
and then give it a go, and I'm really curious
03:07
to see if then it's gonna look like me.
03:09
I tossed them up there thinking it would totally
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just figure out who I was if I wanted to look realistic,
03:14
which I do for the experiment.
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It's gonna take me a while to actually make it look good
03:18
and look like me.
03:19
I think that some people are very into themselves
03:23
and maybe not going to really take the time
03:26
to look or ask the questions,
03:28
but I think someone that's actually worth dating,
03:31
they would ask the questions.
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They'd be like, "Oh wow, you went here, you did this.
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"Let's talk about it."
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So it's almost kind of like a test.
03:38
Do they wanna know about my fake trip to Japan?
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We're gonna see.
03:41
I'm going on this date with this guy.
03:44
We texted a little bit.
03:45
He hasn't brought up anything about my profile,
03:47
and I'm really curious to see if he will.
03:50
I have a photo of myself in front of the Eiffel Tower.
03:52
When I showed my friends, they were like,
03:54
"That's not you," because they know me so well,
03:56
but he's not gonna know me at all, so I will report back.
04:00
I admittedly don't really feel like going
04:02
on this date right now,
04:03
but I keep reminding myself that it's for science.
04:07
Okay, so I just got back.
04:08
It was a fine date.
04:09
Literally didn't ask me one thing about my profile.
04:11
Honestly, he didn't ask me a lot about myself in general.
04:13
He talked a lot.
04:14
I asked a lot of the questions, which I hate
04:16
when I feel like I have to carry the date,
04:18
and I feel like I didn't get any research out of it.
04:19
So another day, another date.
04:21
It was okay.
04:22
I even baited him a little in the beginning.
04:24
Obviously, I dyed my hair, so I look different
04:26
than in a lot of my dating app photos.
04:28
I was like, "Oh, you might not recognize me.
04:30
"I have dark hair now," and he's like,
04:31
"Oh, come on, you still look the same."
04:33
So didn't take the bait.
04:35
Didn't really ask me a lot about the photos
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or even my prompts.
04:38
Do I think there's gonna be a second date?
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No.
04:41
All right, y'all, today we are very excited and relieved
04:43
because the dating app experiment is over.
04:47
I really miss dating with my own face.
04:49
I don't know if moral of the story is that men are oblivious,
04:53
not to generalize, but at least the ones that I went out with
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or they just don't care.
04:57
We're guys avoiding asking those questions
04:59
because they did think that my photos look fake.
05:01
I have a lot of questions.
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I think it's going to educate the way
05:04
that I date moving forward.
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I'm excited to date in a whole new way.
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So wish me luck.
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