Saharanapur शादी के 17 साल बाद पास की pcsj परीक्षा

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सहारनपुर की एक ग्रहणी ने शादी के 17 साल बाद पीसीएस जे की परीक्षा पास की है

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00:00 I am Shivmani Tyagi for Puchkar Patrika. Today we have Deepika Rani with us.

00:04 She is a housewife. She has passed the PCSJ exam.

00:08 You are responsible for those women who feel that their dreams cannot be fulfilled after marriage.

00:16 She has passed this exam after 17 years of marriage.

00:20 Deepika ji, please tell us how you studied and how did you fulfill this dream?

00:28 Earlier, there were family responsibilities.

00:32 It was very difficult for a housewife to get married.

00:37 It is twice as difficult as it is for an aspirant.

00:42 But if you have self-confidence, dedication and continuity,

00:47 and you do it regularly, you can achieve any goal.

00:51 Was it your dream to go to the judiciary or did you do LLB?

00:58 Was there any other option? Or was your aim to go to the judiciary?

01:03 Earlier, I gave a few attempts for PCS.

01:07 But due to lack of time, I couldn't do it.

01:11 Then I got married.

01:13 After marriage, I had family responsibilities.

01:16 So, I stopped studying for a long time.

01:19 But I had a strong desire to do something.

01:23 So, my desire to do something grew.

01:25 Then I thought of taking admission in LLB.

01:27 From there, I started working in this direction.

01:32 I had less time, but I took out as much time as I could.

01:37 I worked in the same direction.

01:39 This is the result.

01:41 These days, women feel that if they live in a joint family,

01:46 their dreams and freedom can be affected.

01:51 You live in a joint family.

01:53 Despite that, you achieved your goal after so many days of marriage.

01:59 What do you want to say to those women?

02:01 It is a little difficult.

02:04 But don't lose your self-confidence.

02:07 And don't lose courage.

02:09 If you walk slowly, you will reach your goal.

02:13 It is difficult, but nothing is impossible.

02:16 You have to send your children to school, prepare them.

02:20 You have to do a lot of household chores.

02:23 When did you take out time to study?

02:26 First, I send my children to school in the morning.

02:29 Then I have breakfast at home.

02:31 Then I do my daily chores.

02:35 If I get time in the afternoon, I do it for 2 hours.

02:39 I do it for 3-5 hours.

02:42 Then I do my evening chores.

02:44 And then I do it from 10 to 2 in the evening.

02:47 This was my daily routine.

02:49 I have never been careless in this.

02:54 Sometimes, I get sick or have some problems.

02:58 But the next day, I stand with the same dedication.

03:01 And if you do all the work, you will succeed.

03:06 Have you taken coaching?

03:08 No, I have not.

03:10 I have done it with my own effort.

03:14 I have read all the books.

03:17 I have done it with the guidance of the books.

03:20 I have not taken coaching.

03:21 I have used social media a lot.

03:23 Because I have seen many videos on daily affairs.

03:29 I have got their support.

03:31 That has made a big difference.

03:32 It is obvious that all the parents are worried about their children.

03:36 They spend a lot of time on their mobile phones.

03:38 But if you use your mobile phone well,

03:41 it can give you a positive result.

03:45 Do you think that the police investigation is 100% correct?

03:51 And all the people in jail are criminals?

03:53 I have not been to that area yet.

04:01 So, if I get a better view in the future,

04:07 I will be able to answer your question better.

04:10 When you reached the interview in 2018,

04:13 you could not pass the exam.

04:15 Did you feel that it was difficult and it would not happen again?

04:21 Did your family members encourage you?

04:28 Yes, when I got the result in 2018,

04:32 I did not pass the exam.

04:35 I am a human being and I can break.

04:39 You fall and get up again.

04:42 Many people support you in this process.

04:47 That is why I am here.

04:49 I want to take the names of some people

04:52 without whom this journey was incomplete.

04:55 I have come here with their help.

05:00 First of all, I want to take the names of my parents.

05:05 My mother and my father, who is no more.

05:08 They wanted my daughter to be successful.

05:11 Wherever they are today, they will be very happy.

05:14 My three brothers supported me a lot.

05:19 Devendra Singh, Ravinder Singh, Pratap Singh,

05:22 my brother-in-law, Kavindra Singh,

05:24 my elder sister, Ladda Rani,

05:26 and Ashish, who is very capable.

05:29 From Bulandshahr, Bhaskar Poofa, Manju Bua, Aditya.

05:35 These were my family members who supported me a lot.

05:39 My in-laws and my husband.

05:43 My husband played a very big role in the economic sector.

05:47 Whatever material they provided, they got what I asked for.

05:52 They took me wherever I wanted to go.

05:57 Whenever I fell, they were there with me.

06:03 And because of them, I have reached here today.

06:06 I wouldn't have been able to reach here without their contribution.

06:09 And with them, my in-laws, my sister-in-law Pushpa,

06:13 her husband, Amit Naveen,

06:16 and many others, without whom I wouldn't have been able to reach here.

06:23 They are very special people in my life.

06:25 And it is because of their contribution that I am here today.

06:28 Would you like to say something to the other women who are married

06:32 and still want to become something?

06:37 Yes, absolutely.

06:39 If a woman wants to become something,

06:43 don't lose hope.

06:45 It's not like you can't become something if you have less time.

06:48 Because your studies should be quality-wise, not quantity-wise.

06:53 It's not necessary that you study for 10-12 hours, that's enough.

06:57 If you take out 5 hours daily,

07:00 if your direction is absolutely right,

07:03 and your vision is correct,

07:05 then you can do it in 5 hours.

07:07 And when the papers come at the last time,

07:09 then definitely you go for 8 hours, up to 14 hours for studies.

07:13 So, it gives you full contribution.

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