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Farmer Wants a Wife Season 3 Episode 9
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00:00Previously on Farmer Wants a Wife.
00:05I feel so connected to Keely right now.
00:10Parts were laid bare on the final solo dates.
00:13He made a move on someone.
00:16The more he is himself, the more I like him.
00:18While for others, it was time to part ways as each farmer got down to their final two.
00:25I'm sad to see you go.
00:27I wish I felt that way, but I'm not there.
00:30It was really hard sending her home, but the decision had to be made.
00:37Tonight, it's the first of two family days.
00:41I'm Matt.
00:42And for the first time, the farmers will be welcoming the ladies' families to their farms.
00:47Hi.
00:48She wanted to meet you.
00:50Here's a for you.
00:52So they can see what their lives would be like there.
00:54My dad's approval of John is the most important to me.
00:56I'm hard to impress.
00:58She has spent her life in music.
01:01Can you deal with that?
01:02I would never be able to be away from her.
01:04What do you guys think of John?
01:06I definitely don't think he's ready to be married anytime soon.
01:09I want to say that she was very pro-dependent.
01:12Yeah.
01:13How do you think that would work?
01:27They say home is where the heart is.
01:31And for these ladies, home may very well be on one of these farms with their farmer.
01:36So this season, we've asked the families of each of the final two ladies to come to the farm.
01:42It's a chance for them to see if they can picture her living this life and to meet the man she's falling in love with.
01:48And our farmers will get a chance to introduce the ladies to his loved ones as well.
01:53So will their families think a life on the farm is best for them?
02:06It feels pretty surreal to be down to the final two.
02:09I do like Claire and Lily both very, very much.
02:13Claire and I are fairly different.
02:15Yeah, I didn't grow up religious at all.
02:19You like hunting.
02:21I grew up vegetarian.
02:23But I like Claire a lot.
02:25With Lily, there has been an attraction from the beginning.
02:28We both agree on all of the fundamentals.
02:31You want kids?
02:32Absolutely. I want a lot of kids.
02:34And I just think that she would make a solid partner and a good mother.
02:37I feel like we have a lot of similarities.
02:38Yeah.
02:39Today, Lily's family will be the ones coming to John's farm.
02:43Morning, Lily.
02:44Morning. How are you?
02:45Good. You look gorgeous.
02:49Do you need help setting anything up?
02:50No, I think I got it.
02:52Today, I get the opportunity to meet Lily's mom, dad, and two sisters.
02:57You know, if they don't approve of me.
02:59I think that would cause issues in the future.
03:03I'm sure you're really excited to see your family.
03:05I'm so excited to see my family. Yeah.
03:07What do you think your mom or sister is like?
03:09Have any tough questions for me?
03:11I don't think so. Yeah.
03:13Just my dad.
03:15My dad's a lawyer and super smart.
03:17He analyzes everything.
03:19My dad's approval of John is the most important to me.
03:21Because my dad has not been impressed by any of the guys I brought home.
03:25Okay. You ready?
03:28I'm so excited.
03:29Should I call him, Your Honor?
03:31No.
03:33Oh, my gosh.
03:35Nice neighborhood.
03:36Lily's family has driven four hours across the state to be here.
03:40Hello.
03:41Welcome, welcome, welcome.
03:44Hi, Mom.
03:45Hello, honey. Good to see you.
03:46Good to see you.
03:47This is John.
03:48Hello.
03:49Hi.
03:50It's a pleasure to meet you.
03:52These are for you.
03:54You're welcome.
03:55Hello, Dad.
03:56Lily, how are you?
03:57Good.
03:58Hey, John.
03:59I'm Dave.
04:00How are you?
04:01Nice to meet you.
04:02Pleasure to meet you.
04:03Welcome to St. Louis.
04:04I'm feeling nervous for John to meet my family today.
04:06I mean, I really like John, so them getting along is definitely important.
04:10Does anyone want a glass of wine?
04:11Yeah.
04:12This one?
04:13That'd be great.
04:14Okay, great.
04:15That'd be great.
04:16Do you guys want?
04:18I'm fine.
04:19All righty.
04:20Yeah, so.
04:21Pinecone.
04:22So how has this been?
04:24How has this journey been for you guys?
04:27Interesting.
04:28Yeah, very interesting.
04:29He uses the word interesting as like a good thing, so.
04:31I do.
04:32I had to quickly learn that.
04:33Okay.
04:34I really don't know what I'm saying.
04:35When I say it, I just kind of say it's interesting.
04:37Interesting.
04:40Yeah.
04:42With John's parents away, his five siblings are stepping in to meet Lily and her family.
04:49Nice to meet you.
04:50I'm Lily.
04:51Nice to meet you.
04:52Tim.
04:53Lily.
04:54So nice to meet you.
04:55How's it going?
04:56Hi.
04:57I'm Dave.
04:58Nice to meet you.
04:59Hey, Dave.
05:00Tim.
05:01Hey, Tim.
05:02Nice to meet you.
05:03How was your guys' travels getting in?
05:04It was good.
05:05Well, we came all the way from Kansas City.
05:06Oh, really?
05:07Yeah.
05:08Not too bad.
05:09Great.
05:10I don't know about John.
05:11He's definitely not.
05:13Do any of you guys watch football?
05:14Yeah.
05:15Unlike John?
05:16Yeah, I do.
05:17You do?
05:18A little bit.
05:19A little bit?
05:20Casual fans.
05:21Dane's a big Chiefs fan.
05:22Oh, you are?
05:23Yeah.
05:24Yeah.
05:25Okay.
05:26Did you guys play sports growing up or anything like that?
05:27I was a cheerleader, yeah.
05:28We all cheered.
05:29Yeah.
05:30She's a big volleyball girl.
05:31Yes.
05:32I just played my last volleyball game yesterday.
05:33Oh, congrats.
05:34Yeah.
05:35How'd you guys do?
05:36We lost, but it's okay.
05:37I loved his siblings.
05:38They were all super welcoming.
05:39We were all super close, so seeing them all be close, it's a good thing.
05:43Would you guys like to all go chat?
05:44Sure.
05:45Yeah, sure.
05:46Let's do it.
05:47We'll be back.
05:48All right.
05:49Okay.
05:50See you guys.
05:51See you, John.
05:52See you, John.
05:53Thanks, man.
05:54See you, man.
05:55When I first heard that Lily was going to come here and meet a farmer, it did cause
05:57me some concern, just as Lily's father.
06:00I don't know his intentions for Lily.
06:04Are you excited for today?
06:06Oh, yeah.
06:07What about you?
06:08Yeah.
06:09A little nervous.
06:10Today, I'm going to meet Grace's family, and then tomorrow, I'm going to be meeting
06:14Kareena's family, and I'm super excited, but I'm still torn between both the ladies.
06:20Kareena, we have a lot in common.
06:24She's also just very genuine in everything she does.
06:27There's a connection there.
06:30I really feel great about her, and with Grace, she just can brighten up your day, just because
06:35she's such a pure soul.
06:36You know, she definitely rooted in her faith.
06:38I really enjoy that about her, but I think the biggest question for me now is, like,
06:43hey, is she actually ready to come to the farm?
06:46She's always been in Washington with her mom and dad, you know, moved out maybe a couple
06:50hours away to college, but really hasn't left the state, so I'm kind of concerned.
06:56Jay's sister, mom, and dad are first to arrive.
07:00We got guests.
07:01Hello.
07:02Hi.
07:03Nice to meet you.
07:04Nice to meet you.
07:05Hi.
07:06Hi.
07:07I'm LaTonya.
07:08Nice to meet you.
07:09Hello.
07:10How are you doing?
07:11Hello.
07:12I'm Grace.
07:13And they're also here to meet Grace's mom.
07:15Hello.
07:16Hi.
07:17And her best friend, Paige.
07:20I value my mom's opinion a lot.
07:23I value my mom's opinion a lot because we are so close.
07:29Same person, different font.
07:30I don't want to cry.
07:31Did you jump?
07:32Stupid.
07:34I hope my mom approves.
07:36How are you doing?
07:37Hi.
07:38I'm good.
07:39How are you?
07:40Good.
07:41Good to see you.
07:42Nice to see you.
07:43So I'm Grace's mom, Angie, and her dad couldn't be here today, so I am here representing both
07:46of us.
07:47We want her to be happy, and we want her to build her life.
07:51So have you lived here your whole life?
07:53Yeah.
07:54You have?
07:55Okay.
07:56My husband actually used to live in this house.
07:57Nice.
07:58Yeah.
07:59So I did all the farming when I was growing up, picking peas, picking corn, feeding the
08:03animals.
08:04Yeah.
08:05I still put in the work sometimes.
08:06I think he loves it.
08:08He misses it a little bit.
08:09He wants to do it.
08:10I do miss it a little bit, but I don't want to do it every day.
08:12Right.
08:13You want to do it when you want to do it.
08:14Exactly.
08:15Exactly.
08:16Grace's mom seems so down to earth and talking with us.
08:20It's so funny because when I initially saw them hug, it made me think about me and my
08:25daughter.
08:26I think that was so pure and so real, you know?
08:28It was very genuine.
08:29I'm using every second I can to get to know these people.
08:40In Missouri, John's family is getting to know more about Lily, and first impressions mean
08:46everything.
08:47I've been waiting to meet you guys.
08:48You're handling it great so far.
08:50Me and my siblings, we're here for John just because our parents were out of town this
08:54time of year, so it's great to be supportive of John and helping him along this journey.
08:59You guys definitely seem to have a connection and seems to be going very, very easy.
09:04Yeah, we are.
09:05That's good.
09:06That's good.
09:07Yeah.
09:08We come from a large family, so obviously having children is very important and something
09:11that we all plan to do once we're married.
09:13Is that something that you're looking forward to as being a mother and having a lot of kids
09:17Absolutely.
09:18What are some qualities you want in a father for your kids?
09:22Yeah.
09:23One thing I really appreciated growing up from my parents was discipline, and I think
09:27that's super important.
09:29And so I definitely want somebody that's able to lay down the law.
09:34You'll definitely get a strict father out of John.
09:38Oh, I love that.
09:39Yeah.
09:40How have you enjoyed the farm life so far?
09:43I've enjoyed it.
09:44Have you?
09:45Yeah.
09:46I love anything new and exciting, so it's been really good.
09:50This is an important one.
09:56Have you asked him to shave his mustache?
10:01I haven't.
10:02Are you fine with keeping it?
10:03I actually like the mustache, yeah.
10:05Okay.
10:06All right.
10:07Good.
10:08I'm really happy I got to meet his siblings.
10:09I see a lot of similarities in his family and mine, so I'll be curious to see how he
10:13interacts with my family, because that's going to be really important to me.
10:16He's a hard worker.
10:17We stacked a lot of hay.
10:18Stacked a lot of hay.
10:19Good.
10:20Good.
10:21Have you and Lily had any disagreements?
10:23And if so, how did you resolve those?
10:26Believe it or not, we have not had any disagreements yet.
10:29Are there things that you and Lily have in common?
10:32I think so.
10:33I think we have very common morals and values, and I think that's what's the most important.
10:39John, what does your future look like?
10:42I think in the near future, obviously, I want to finish law school, ideally move to a larger
10:46farm and have a family.
10:48A legal career is a challenging career, but also you're a farmer.
10:53I would imagine that taking a lot of time.
10:56Mm-hmm.
10:57So if you and Lily work out and you have children, do you think you could take care of a large
11:05family with Lily?
11:07Um...
11:12Um...
11:14Um...
11:23If you and Lily work out and you have children, do you think you could take care of a large
11:29family with Lily?
11:31Um...
11:34Absolutely.
11:35Fully confident in saying I could.
11:38And, um...
11:40I've always wanted to be a dad.
11:43The way I envision myself as a father is exactly how my dad is.
11:48Selfless and always around and there for us no matter what.
11:53I somewhat can't wait to be that way.
11:54Eventually.
11:55Yeah.
11:56Yeah.
11:57I like that.
11:58Do your best.
11:59Exactly.
12:00There it is.
12:01Yeah.
12:02I can tell that we all definitely share the same outlooks on life and raising children
12:06and family, and that's a solid foundation for a relationship.
12:11In Alabama...
12:12You want to go?
12:13Oh, sure.
12:14Yeah.
12:15Totally.
12:16Totally.
12:17Jay is getting to know Grace's mom, Angie.
12:21Well, I'm definitely a little nervous just because Grace puts all my faith in her mom
12:25and her opinion on things.
12:28Oh.
12:29So...
12:31I'm nervous.
12:32I'm nervous.
12:33I'm nervous.
12:34I'm nervous.
12:35I'm nervous.
12:36I'm nervous.
12:37I'm nervous.
12:38I'm nervous.
12:40Finally good to meet you.
12:41Nice to meet you.
12:42I know Grace has, you know, really missed you.
12:44Glad to be here.
12:45What about Grace brought her this far?
12:50We have a great chemistry, and you know, it's easy to talk to her.
12:53She's big into her faith, and that's something that I really value.
12:56Her faith is really strong.
12:57I just tell her she has just the sweetest demeanor.
12:59She's very shy, but we kind of got her out of that box.
13:02Yeah, it takes a minute.
13:03Yeah, so...
13:04Okay, cool.
13:05Miss man.
13:06Yeah.
13:07How do you think Grace would, like, adjust to the farm life?
13:10She said for a long time that she would want to move.
13:14Right.
13:15She just hasn't found a reason why.
13:16Right.
13:17You know, yet.
13:18So I think she would be fine.
13:23So what do you think about all this?
13:25I love it.
13:26It feels very calm and peaceful here.
13:28We're definitely a faith-based family.
13:31We attend church every Sunday.
13:33How do you feel about that?
13:34That makes me feel really good.
13:36I grew up going to church.
13:38If I were to move, I would need people to get me into church
13:42and, like, meet new people and not be a hermit.
13:46Yeah.
13:47Exactly.
13:48You and your mom are close.
13:50Moving would definitely change that dynamic.
13:53Yeah.
13:54How do you feel about that?
13:55Family is really important to me,
13:57but I think that my mom and I became best friends
13:59when I moved out of the house.
14:01I definitely had a codependency problem with my mom, I think.
14:04She did everything for me.
14:05That was really hard for me once I moved out.
14:08It's like, what am I supposed to do?
14:12I really like Grace.
14:14Her energy was good.
14:16The only concern I had is that she was saying, you know,
14:19kind of being codependent on her mom at one time.
14:22Jay likes to take care of people.
14:24I don't want him to feel like he has to raise a grown person.
14:29I've been dreaming of you
14:35In Missouri...
14:36Oh, hi.
14:37Welcome back.
14:39Lily is taking a moment to get her family's thoughts on John.
14:42So how did today go? What do you guys think of John?
14:46I really like him.
14:47I think, like, his morals and kind of what he stands for
14:50collide well with you.
14:52Yeah.
14:53He mentioned how, like, family is really important to him,
14:56and, like, that reminded me a lot of you,
14:58because I feel like we're a very close family.
15:00Like, that's an important thing to look for in a guy.
15:03Nice to meet his siblings, too.
15:04I think they reminded me of you guys, so, yeah.
15:08Do you see a future with him?
15:10I definitely see a future with him, for sure.
15:13Dad.
15:16I'm hard to impress.
15:19I was expecting to maybe be more skeptical,
15:22but his discussion of family impressed your father.
15:26Oh, wow.
15:27So...
15:28That's good, yeah.
15:29Surprisingly.
15:30Yeah.
15:31Yeah, he's very mature.
15:32He knows exactly what he wants
15:33and what he's looking for in every situation.
15:36He did impress me.
15:38Because he doesn't say that about a lot of people,
15:41it means a lot that John stood out to my dad.
15:47So, guys, what do you think about Lily?
15:50Seemed very nice.
15:52How she wants to raise a family seemed very similar
15:54to, like, the way we were growing up
15:56and the way that I could see you wanting to raise kids someday.
15:59Definitely.
16:00It just, what she said rang true to what you're looking for.
16:03My siblings gave me great feedback
16:05on their conversation with Lily,
16:07so, um, that was really cool to see.
16:10Maybe ask Gus what his thoughts are.
16:12Woof!
16:16Cool.
16:18In Alabama, Grace is catching up with her mom and best friend
16:23after they met Jay.
16:25All right.
16:27Thoughts, concerns, red flags, green flags?
16:31On paper?
16:33Yeah.
16:34Checks all the boxes.
16:35Yeah.
16:36He seems, like, genuine.
16:37Like, it's not...
16:39Putting on a front.
16:40Putting on a front.
16:41He seems, like, like a genuine person.
16:43Yeah.
16:44Yeah.
16:45I just don't see a whole lot of red flags.
16:50I definitely am really happy that my mom liked Jay a lot.
16:54My mom is definitely my best friend, for sure.
16:58Um, yeah.
17:01I'm very grateful for her,
17:03and I think that our friendship is not something
17:07that everybody gets to come by,
17:09so I'm very grateful.
17:11When I saw Grace today, seeing her face light up,
17:14I could definitely see that she's in a good place.
17:21Meeting Grace and her family.
17:23What's y'all's thoughts?
17:24Well, I think she's got the right mindset.
17:27Okay.
17:28First and foremost, I want to say that her mom seems very pleasant,
17:31and her spirit just seems very genuine, just very pure.
17:34Yeah.
17:35I can see her, like, on this farm.
17:37That's good to hear.
17:39But as far as the codependency,
17:42and you being more independent...
17:44What do you mean, like, codependent?
17:46Well, she was just saying, like, before she moved out,
17:48she kind of depended on her mom.
17:50How do you think that would work?
17:52Uh, that is something that I have to think about for sure,
17:56but I know y'all gonna make her feel like family
17:58if it was something she decided to do, come down here.
18:01Like, we'll support you.
18:02Yeah.
18:03I am kind of worried, you know, just about that codependency thing.
18:07I think if Grace were to move to Alabama,
18:10it would be something that's tough for her,
18:12so I think that might be a deeper conversation we'll have to have.
18:24Oh!
18:26Jay!
18:27I don't want to die!
18:30That wasn't too bad, was it?
18:32Jay and Grace's families have left,
18:34and the couple is sharing one final moment alone
18:37before Karina's family visits tomorrow.
18:42This is cute.
18:43Thank you, thank you, thank you.
18:45I think that Grace might be the one,
18:47but the biggest thing I'm worried about is, you know,
18:50how she was kind of relying on her mom growing up,
18:52so I want to really take this time to make sure we're on the same page.
18:56I was really happy to see my mom and Paige today.
19:01You can tell that y'all are really best friends.
19:03Yeah.
19:04I think my mom brought up something about how, like, you know,
19:08you might have been, like, codependent.
19:13Yeah, growing up, my mom did everything for me,
19:20but since moving out, I'm growing in that sense, I think.
19:25Right.
19:26So, yeah, you don't feel like you still have that same, like, dependency
19:29where, like, it's like, oh, I got to be, you know, around my mama or whatever.
19:33I've learned, like, I can make my own decisions
19:35and be happy with the decisions that I've made.
19:39I think my mom's surprised how well it's going.
19:43Yeah?
19:44Yeah.
19:46She said no red flags that she could see.
19:49Yeah.
19:50Any red flags you can see?
19:53No.
19:55That's why I asked then.
19:58Spending this time with Grace was definitely needed.
20:01I was really looking for that same, you know, spark and connection
20:05that we had our first date.
20:06I definitely think I got that tonight,
20:08but I still have an opportunity with Karina tomorrow,
20:11so I got a lot to think about, got a lot to pray about.
20:17I love being in your company.
20:19That's good.
20:20It's my favorite thing.
20:27It's my favorite thing.
20:43John and Lily are also finding time to enjoy each other's company
20:47before Claire's family visits tomorrow.
20:50Whoo!
20:51Boom.
20:52All righty.
20:53We shared in a lot of romance throughout this whole process,
20:55so I think this is a nice little nightcap.
20:58You and I have come a long way.
21:01I think you're a phenomenal girl.
21:03So let's cheers to that.
21:05Cheers, John.
21:09I had a good feeling, too, that this was going to be something special.
21:14So my dad said something that, like, almost made me tear up.
21:18Oh, boy.
21:19He was like, it takes a lot to impress me,
21:22and he was, like, he was very impressed with you, so.
21:25And then obviously my sisters and my mom just, like, think you're awesome,
21:28and that was really special to hear.
21:30Well, you come from a very, very good family.
21:33I think that's very obvious.
21:34I feel like you've definitely, like, met all my standards.
21:37Likewise.
21:39But you've also blown away my expectations, for sure.
21:42Mm.
21:50I do like Lily a lot.
21:52Her outlook on life is very similar to mine.
21:59Of course I can see a future with Lily.
22:02You're welcome.
22:03Fun day.
22:04Yeah, it was great.
22:05I still have yet to meet Claire's family,
22:07but tonight I like where it's going with Lily,
22:10and we'll see what the future holds.
22:20What do you think your parents are going to think of me?
22:22I think my mom will really like you a lot.
22:24She's a yapper.
22:25You're a yapper.
22:26In Arkansas, Colton and Keely's parents are about to arrive at the farm.
22:30Basically, I've got two girlfriends right now,
22:33and I like both of them a lot.
22:34I'm at a crossroads.
22:36Zoe is super sweet, but also super smart.
22:39I mean, girl's got a head on her shoulders.
22:42I am very, like, passionate about getting into anesthesiology.
22:45That's awesome.
22:47And with Keely, she's drop-dead gorgeous.
22:49She's great on the farm.
22:51She took to it like a fish to water.
22:54It's very natural with her.
22:57But meeting the parents, I am nervous.
23:00I haven't slept in, like, two days
23:02because I'm just kind of gun-shy right now.
23:05You know, now that it's getting down to the end,
23:07I'm starting to think that I want to take it slow.
23:10So I want to make sure that we're compatible
23:13and that we can actually do this together.
23:16There's my mom and dad.
23:18Colton's parents are meeting Keely for the first time.
23:22This is Keely.
23:23Hi, I'm Trina.
23:24This is my mom.
23:25Nice to meet you.
23:27I am.
23:28Hi, I'm Keely.
23:29It's nice to meet you.
23:30Hello.
23:32Is this your parents?
23:33I think it is my parents.
23:35Keely's parents have traveled all the way from Ohio.
23:41Hello.
23:42Since I'm the only child, my parents and I are very close.
23:45I hope they'll dig down into the deep stuff with Colton.
23:48It's my parents.
23:49I would take their opinion over everything.
23:52Colton, I'm a hugger.
23:54Nice to meet you.
23:55This is my dad, Mike.
23:56There's so much I love about Keely.
23:58She's my rock just as much as I'm hers.
24:01She's like my best friend.
24:02I've got some tea and lemonade and stuff if y'all want anything.
24:05She wants to find someone that is going to treat her the way that she deserves to be treated.
24:10And I just know that she will love someone so hard.
24:13You look just like your mom.
24:14I know.
24:16You guys do look just alike.
24:19We get that a lot.
24:21You're an only child, right?
24:22I am an only child.
24:23Yes.
24:25That's why we're so close.
24:26Right.
24:27Yeah.
24:28Yeah, it's special having a daughter.
24:30It's the pride of my life, I'll be honest.
24:32Well, I've got two boys.
24:33Yep.
24:34I've got a little boy too.
24:35He's two and a half.
24:37He is like a tornado running around.
24:40For me, I'm not wanting to miss out on a single thing in his life.
24:43He's, I mean, I 100% am picking him over anything.
24:48To hear that he's got a little boy makes things different.
24:51She wants to be with someone fully committed to her.
24:56So, we're a little nervous.
25:00Yeah.
25:08For Colton's parents, today is an opportunity to get to know Keely, their potential daughter-in-law.
25:15So, what do you think about Colton?
25:17I think Colton's great.
25:18He's got a great personality.
25:19There's many levels to Colton.
25:21There is many levels.
25:22I feel like I got pretty deep, so it's been really sweet.
25:24Good.
25:25How do you like it here?
25:26I really do love it.
25:28I've been able to experience farm work truly and what it actually entails.
25:34On our solo date, he taught me how to be on a horse.
25:37Did you ride?
25:38I did ride, yeah.
25:39I rode a little bit beforehand, but that was my dream.
25:42I love horses.
25:44Keely, she's just a great girl.
25:47And I really feel like she would be a great fit for Colton.
25:51Y'all drove all this way out here.
25:52I know y'all got some good questions for me.
25:54We do have some good questions for you, for sure.
25:56Gather them in our head.
25:57Your son has a mom, so how does Keely kind of fit in that?
26:02Souther does have a great mom.
26:04He doesn't need another mama.
26:08He needs someone that treats his dad right.
26:10That's the difference.
26:13For me, I was worried a little bit, like, he's only two, right?
26:16Two and a half, yeah.
26:17So I guess, is your heart ready?
26:19Like, that's hard in general, because that's so fresh.
26:24It is.
26:25It's very fresh.
26:26That's my thing.
26:27The whole thing through this is, am I ready to be in a different relationship?
26:33I don't know.
26:35But if I didn't see a future with her, you know, I wouldn't have asked her to stay.
26:43You know, I just, for me, it's like, this is really fast, and a lot.
26:49But I'm trying to get to something positive.
26:52So the honesty, I think, is something that we value.
26:55I think it was actually good to hear him be honest in his reality,
26:59because, you know, family could become family,
27:02and I think it was really important for us to see the real Colton.
27:08We just want her to be happy.
27:10If she's happy, we're happy.
27:12Just so you know, like, I would never be able to be away from her,
27:15so if she was here, you might have some new neighbors.
27:21Oh, man.
27:26In California, Matt and Jordan are getting ready for their family's arrival.
27:31I've got two great girls.
27:32I feel like Chelsea and I, we started off kind of slow,
27:35but we've gotten to really, you know, get closer over these few weeks.
27:43It's well worth it.
27:44And Jordan's, like, just an awesome time.
27:46She's really outgoing.
27:47The chemistry's just there, and we've had a connection since the beginning.
27:50This has been really amazing. Thank you.
27:52You just wait. It's going to get better.
27:54I think meeting Jordan's family will definitely help with my, you know,
27:57clarity on the decision.
27:59Oh, look who it is.
28:01Matt's parents are first to arrive.
28:04Hi.
28:05It's so great to meet you.
28:08I'm Jordan.
28:09Hi.
28:10I'm Terri.
28:11You guys are the same size.
28:12I know, right?
28:13Perfect.
28:14Hi.
28:15Good to meet you.
28:16It's so good to meet you.
28:19Well, welcome to Morro Bay.
28:21Jordan's parents have traveled all the way from Mississippi to be here today.
28:25Ah, here's my family.
28:27My family is super, super close,
28:30so I could see my dad asking Matt some important questions.
28:35I'm so ready to see what he thinks.
28:37Hi.
28:38I'm Matt.
28:39Nice to meet you.
28:40Yeah.
28:41Thanks for coming.
28:42Matt.
28:43Good to meet you, man.
28:44Hey.
28:45How are you?
28:46I'm doing pretty good.
28:47I'm Terri.
28:48I'm Johnny.
28:49Hey, Daddy.
28:50Nice to meet you.
28:51You too.
28:52Hello, baby girl.
28:53You guys have a good trip out here?
28:55What do you think Jordan needs in a partner?
28:58Someone that's loyal.
29:00Somebody she can trust.
29:01I'm old school.
29:02I believe marriage is a one-time deal,
29:05and it's not a fad.
29:08I want to hear about it all, you know?
29:10It's been a crazy ride.
29:13The girls took over my house.
29:14Oh, yeah.
29:15We took over the house for sure.
29:16It's not even mine anymore.
29:18Yeah.
29:19You guys have any avocado orchards where you're from?
29:22No.
29:23No.
29:24I don't think so.
29:25No.
29:26Have you ever seen an avocado on a tree?
29:28I have not on a tree.
29:29I've seen lots of them in the bowl that we make.
29:33Guacamole.
29:34Oh, guacamole.
29:35Yeah.
29:36Thanks for coming, really, though.
29:37I know it's a long way, so I appreciate that.
29:39It used to be that we would have to travel
29:41to meet the parents of the girl.
29:43Now the parents have to come here,
29:45which is pretty nice.
29:46Yeah.
29:47Yeah.
29:48You know, this family seems to me like it has a lot of love.
29:51That's important.
29:52You don't want to go to somebody's family
29:54and get together and they're fist-biting, so.
29:57I know my parents are dying to talk to you, so.
30:00I know.
30:01I would love to pull you guys aside.
30:02OK.
30:03Let's do it.
30:04Take it easy.
30:05I think Matt's ready to settle down and marry
30:07and have children.
30:08He's going to make a really good dad.
30:10And he's already 30, and I'd love for him
30:12to find somebody that would be good for him.
30:15Yeah.
30:16How do you like it here?
30:17I have loved it.
30:18I've been feeling such a tug on my heart
30:20to get back out in the country.
30:22I'm 32.
30:23Oh, OK.
30:24So I'm a little older.
30:25Yes, I'm a little older than Matt.
30:27Right.
30:28And I'm really ready to get married and have a family.
30:32So you want children?
30:34I do.
30:35I'm so ready.
30:36Do you think that Matt's a good fit for you?
30:38We have an amazing friendship.
30:40I just need to know, is it a friendship, or are we going in?
30:44Mm-hmm.
30:45It's more than that, yeah.
30:46He's slow to make a move.
30:47He is.
30:48And that's really who he is.
30:50Yeah.
30:51Something that I need to know is, you know,
30:55the name of this show, Farmer Wants a Wife.
31:00What are your intentions?
31:03It's my baby girl.
31:05We got to get into that.
31:06We got to know.
31:08$25.
31:14And you know the name of this show, Farmer Wants a Wife.
31:19What are your intentions?
31:22It's my baby girl.
31:24We got to get into that.
31:25We got to know.
31:27You know, I do have three siblings
31:30that are married withedethirdsiblings.
31:31and we got to know.
31:34You know, I do have three siblings
31:36that are married with kids.
31:37So I'm looking forward to that, you know,
31:39kind of getting to that next part of my life.
31:41The next phase of life.
31:42I want her to be happy.
31:45She has tried so hard, you know, to spend her life in music.
31:49Yeah.
31:50Can you deal with that?
31:53I sure hope so.
31:56I know it's hard, though, because it
31:57is a whole different lifestyle.
32:01She obviously loves it.
32:03Mm-hmm.
32:04Yeah.
32:05Just, you know, is it worth it?
32:09Listening to them have concerns with Jordan,
32:10like, you know, country music is her thing.
32:13I'm really happy for her that she has that life
32:15and she's built it.
32:17I don't want her to stop singing for one second.
32:19So I think we do have to figure that out.
32:24I think it's time we take our chances.
32:28In Arkansas, Colton is taking a moment
32:31to catch up with his parents.
32:33What do y'all think of Keely?
32:35I think she's great.
32:36She wants to be part of this kind of life.
32:40That's important.
32:41And she really likes the horses, so.
32:44Yeah.
32:44Really enjoy your parents, too.
32:47You know, she's got a lot going for her.
32:48She does.
32:49Yeah.
32:50Mm-hmm.
32:51I got a lot of things I got to think about.
32:54So what do you guys think about Colton?
32:56First of all, so cute.
32:58Yes.
33:01His personality is very much a personality
33:03of somebody I would see you with.
33:04Me, too.
33:05Absolutely.
33:06Yeah.
33:08But I definitely don't think he's ready to, you know,
33:11be married anytime soon.
33:16I mean, when you think about it, like,
33:19Southerner's only got a year to live.
33:21When you think about it, like, Southerner's only two.
33:24Right.
33:26Just think that maybe time, you know, might be the factor.
33:31The factor.
33:32But how do you feel about, like, what do you think?
33:36Yeah, what do you think?
33:36Yeah, yeah.
33:37Turn the tables.
33:38Be fair.
33:39I feel very confident.
33:41You know, I really think we have a great connection.
33:43And like you said, we just, like, get each other.
33:45Yeah.
33:46I know God has a plan.
33:48And if that is to be with him, it'll be.
33:50I think I'd be happy with him.
33:51And like, yeah.
33:53That's called self-confidence.
33:54That's what that is.
33:55But just know that we're here to support you.
33:56And I would say just remember that whatever happens,
33:59happens for a reason.
34:00I just can't.
34:01I can't say enough how proud of a dad I am.
34:04Yeah.
34:05And a mama.
34:15I feel like he and Kelly have a lot in common.
34:18Seeing her out here with the horses and his family
34:21was just such a bonus.
34:22Because she hasn't had feelings for anyone
34:24in such a long time either.
34:26But if this doesn't work out with them,
34:28and to see Kelly heartbroken will be,
34:29it'll hurt a lot.
34:31Because, you know, that's her baby.
34:33And you don't want anything bad to ever happen to your baby.
34:44What do you think about Jordan?
34:46I think she's adorable.
34:48Yeah, she's very cute.
34:48But along with that, he's definitely ready to get married.
34:51She wants children.
34:53Yeah.
34:53Is there anything you've picked up that maybe,
34:55eh, you're a little bit questioning, or?
34:57You know, the whole country music thing could be a concern.
35:02Because that's such a big part of her life.
35:04But I think she likes it here.
35:06Oh, yeah.
35:07I think she loves it here.
35:09I think the thing is, and Jordan kind of made light of this,
35:12is it's been hard for her to get a better read on you.
35:15She said you're quiet.
35:17You have to be more open with your feelings.
35:21Yeah.
35:26All right, so what did you guys think?
35:28They seem really nice.
35:29Yeah.
35:30And he seems like a really nice guy.
35:32And I did like that he said that he wants a family.
35:36He's sweet.
35:37Isn't he sweet?
35:37Seemed like a good guy.
35:38He's a really nice guy, right?
35:40How have y'all felt during this time?
35:43Yeah, you know, one thing that's been really tough
35:45is that Matt has been so reserved.
35:50You both have taught me that the man pursues the woman.
35:55Definitely.
35:56So I'm not going to make the first move.
35:59But I'm ready to know what's up.
36:03Yes.
36:03My parents had only great things to say about Matt.
36:06And Matt's a great guy.
36:07So, I mean, I'm really not surprised.
36:10But I'm ready to see if this can get to the next level.
36:16Yeah.
36:24Oh, my gosh.
36:25This tree is gorgeous.
36:27In California, after spending the day with their families,
36:31Matt and Jordan are taking some time together alone.
36:35Not bad, huh?
36:37This is so cute.
36:39From day one, Jordan has been both a friend and someone I connected with.
36:44She's super cute.
36:45She's definitely my type.
36:48But she sings country music.
36:51If she wants to move here, you know, is she going to be able to continue that?
36:56I'm so glad our parents got to meet today.
36:58Yeah, your parents are awesome.
37:00I'm very, very happy to still be here.
37:04I'm happier here.
37:07Where's your head at with everything?
37:12Music's such a big part of your life.
37:13And you've worked really hard to get to where you're at.
37:15And I have no idea how that works out.
37:18There's different things that I can do with music.
37:20And I'm not so connected to Nashville.
37:25I could see myself here.
37:27I could be, like, a music teacher.
37:30This is the type of place where I would want to raise a family.
37:35I'm very happy to have been here.
37:40But one thing that I've really struggled with is feeling like you see me as a friend.
37:54I don't think that's the case.
37:55No?
37:56No.
37:57Really?
37:58I mean, I do in some ways, which I love about you, you know?
38:00Yeah.
38:01I think that's the case.
38:01I think that's the case.
38:02I think that's the case.
38:02I think that's the case.
38:03I think that's the case.
38:03I think that's the case.
38:04I've felt comfortable with you from, like, day one.
38:07Yeah?
38:08But much more than friends.
38:10Really?
38:11Yeah.
38:11What, are you surprised?
38:13To be honest, like, because I had opportunities to go on dates.
38:17And I already knew how I felt about you.
38:19So I felt like I needed to use that time to make other decisions, which I did.
38:24I wish I had known that.
38:25Well.
38:27Oh, my God.
38:28I figured you knew.
38:29You don't catch me staring at you all the time.
38:31Yeah?
38:32Yeah.
38:33I don't know.
38:35Now that we got that established.
38:37Let the world know we're not friends.
38:40I couldn't be friends with you.
38:43I was very wrong.
38:45And honestly, I'm just a little shocked that I was so wrong.
38:51Well, I brought my guitar.
38:54Well, lucky guy.
38:55I've been writing a lot of breakup songs.
38:58But I got another one I've been working on.
39:00All right.
39:01I was always picking up pieces.
39:04Seemed like somebody was always leaving.
39:09Then you came along.
39:13You're the prayer I prayed that I never thought would ever get answered.
39:19God answered.
39:20I like Jordan a lot.
39:22And it means a lot that she's even willing to have a life here.
39:26Tomorrow I'm meeting Chelsea's family.
39:28But right now, it's our last date.
39:29So I just really want to enjoy it.
39:46One of my mom's main concerns was that Colton wasn't ready for anything serious.
39:50See this cute little picnic area?
39:52Yeah, did you set it up yourself?
39:53Yeah.
39:53So tonight, I really just want to see where Colton's head's at.
39:57And just to see where our future could potentially be, if it is there or not.
40:02To our time together.
40:03To our time together.
40:07What did you think of my parents?
40:09I thought they were great.
40:11I can see that your parents love you.
40:13Like, they are team Keely all the way.
40:17They want what's best for me.
40:18Yeah.
40:19So with this whole thing.
40:22My mom, she said, like, that you're not ready.
40:31So, I don't know.
40:33I am.
40:35I get it.
40:36But I genuinely do not have a single concern about you.
40:43It's just like, for me, what am I wanting?
40:48And, you know, I've been thinking about it, wanting to take it slow.
40:51You know, like, right now, what do you think about that?
40:57I think I can do that.
40:59But it makes me nervous because I want to be a wife.
41:03But I also know I'm supposed to be a mom.
41:06I would say that's the, that's something about you that I'm just, I really, really love.
41:14When I have a child, I'm not sure what I'm going to do with my life.
41:17When I have a child, I want to give everything that I can to my kid.
41:23I am so freaking, I got crap going on in my head.
41:29And it's like, you know.
41:31Plus, tomorrow, I'm meeting Zoe's family.
41:34And I have no earthly idea what I'm going to do.
41:39But for right now, I'm just going to live in this moment with Keely.
41:42I really do think she's awesome.
41:44And I could definitely see myself with her.
41:47We could have a great life.
41:50I could see you here.
41:53I really do like you.
41:55And I've really enjoyed our time together.
42:00I really like you too.
42:04I've had a great time getting to know you.
42:05Me too.
42:22
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