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00:00I'm trying to surprise Lydia for the proposal in two weeks.
00:07Wow. Wow.
00:08The wedding day is going to be in three months.
00:12Oh, my.
00:13I'm glad you're sitting down for this one.
00:15Are you crazy?
00:18I don't really know him.
00:20I don't really like him.
00:22Why is that?
00:23I just don't like him.
00:25Sorry.
00:26I think the problem is more.
00:28He doesn't know me very well.
00:30And that's a hard reality to face.
00:36Lydia's not supposed to know we're here because we are here to witness her engagement today.
00:41I think Ethan's here.
00:43That's lovely. I need him at now.
00:45There's tension between Veronica and my family.
00:47It's tricky to navigate.
00:49Don't do anything before everything happens with Lydia and Zach.
00:53He's going to do anything to not have me, like, pop off.
00:56So, Dad and I are going, we're going out together.
01:19Just the two of us.
01:21So, right now, Lydia thinks that I am taking her out to dinner.
01:25What is actually happening today is we're going to end up at the cabin where Zach is waiting for her to propose to her.
01:33And this is all a surprise.
01:34And she has remained in the dark about what's really going on.
01:38Zach called me the other day and was just like, he sounded really sad.
01:42And he was like, it's just hit me.
01:44I only have a few months left with you here.
01:47I want to spend as much time with you as I can.
01:49We just want to make the best of the few months I have left here before I move to Colorado.
01:54I mean, I assume I'm going to get married to Colorado, but I'm not.
02:05Dad, I'm ready when you are.
02:07Where is Zach right now?
02:09Let's see.
02:09This weekend, Zach is at a going away party with one of his friends who's leaving the country for four months.
02:17In Colorado.
02:18In Colorado, yeah.
02:19I just flew in from Colorado.
02:34I picked up the ring and I'm at the cabin to get ready for the proposal.
02:39Lydia does not know I'm here, but we're looking forward to surprising her.
02:44Hi.
02:44Hello.
02:45So you must be Zachary Wart.
02:47Yes, dude.
02:48Good to see you, man.
02:49Nice to meet you.
02:50There's so much coming together and I'm meeting Micah and Veronica for the first time, which is so exciting.
02:56I've been wanting to meet the whole family and Micah's the last one.
03:00It'll be good to have the whole Plath family able to join me and some of her friends are going to be there, too.
03:07So it's just so surreal.
03:10Thanks for coming down.
03:11Glad you guys could make it.
03:12Up.
03:13Up, yes.
03:14I guess that's fair.
03:14Down and up.
03:15Yeah.
03:16I guess I was coming down from Colorado.
03:21I can't wait to just be hopefully engaged by the end of the day.
03:24I'm pretty confident in her answer, but we don't know yet.
03:28Well, so what's the plan?
03:31I'm kind of, yeah, what's the plan?
03:33Throwing in a pot and stirred together.
03:35Well, we have these roses.
03:36We're going to actually piece them apart to put on like kind of the peninsula leading to me.
03:42And then.
03:43Oh, like rose petals?
03:44Mm-hmm.
03:45Like the rose petals.
03:46I've never met somebody the same day they proposed to like a family member.
03:51Bold move.
03:53So basically, they're going to pull up here.
03:56And, but you guys will already be here kind of between the trees.
04:02I'm assuming they'll just drive up right here.
04:03What do you think?
04:04It feels like when the substitute teacher is telling you what to do and not one of the souls listening.
04:08Obviously, I'm excited to get a read on him, try to see what I come up with because I've never met him.
04:14And he like feels like just last month met my sister.
04:18The whole family would stand where you guys are and be facing the driveway for when Leah and Barry come in.
04:24And then she would greet you guys.
04:27Obviously, Micah, Veronica, you guys would be surprised.
04:29So show us where you're going to be.
04:31My first impression.
04:33I don't know.
04:34He's, he's an interesting fellow.
04:35But in terms of just visual for her, it might be better if I'm here.
04:41He is really, really particular about everything.
04:43But I'm also thinking here could be good.
04:56Damn, freaking idiot.
04:58From the moment Zach arrived, he was very, very pushy and like, here's how we're going to do everything.
05:07Here's how everyone's going to stand.
05:08Here's what I want you to do, blah, blah, blah.
05:10Everyone can probably come down and follow her and just still watching you.
05:13Didn't really care for it.
05:15So you're going to be here when she comes.
05:17Or are you going to be at the end where the chairs are?
05:21I'm thinking about that.
05:23I'm not just giving Lydia a ring.
05:25I'm not just giving her my hand.
05:27I'm, I'm, I'm letting everyone in on this so that she can enjoy it.
05:31And so I think failing to prepare is preparing to fail.
05:36I mean, it seems like down there would look better.
05:38Yeah.
05:39Zach is giving all of us instructions and Ethan, Micah are kind of not paying attention.
05:47Yeah, so I think having everyone kind of leading into the peninsula just so it's not too tight.
05:53I say we just let it happen today and now we just try to give him a f***.
05:58I'm sure she'll want to just hug me immediately.
06:02Yeah.
06:04God, I don't know.
06:05Here's the time.
06:06But then it's like more of a moment.
06:08I don't know if, if it like, she probably wants to get to the point, but so that she sees you guys.
06:15Here you go.
06:19Rolling down the hill and knocking somebody over is the sort of thing that my boys would just do, period.
06:27I think Zach is just getting a little taste of what it's like to be in the Plath family.
06:32Is there anything else we need to really set up other than the roses?
06:35Um, we just need to move the chairs.
06:37Yeah.
06:37We want to do that now, I guess.
06:39We could probably do that.
06:40Ethan, go grab a chair.
06:41What the hell are we doing?
06:42We got to follow this freaking idiot.
06:45All of my issues with Zach boil down to two things, the time frame and the fact that I firmly believe they don't know each other because there's no way that they can.
06:55And so I don't approve of anything going on here.
07:00It's frustrating.
07:00Oh, my God, Ethan.
07:04Oh, he started a fire.
07:05Yeah.
07:06Oh, Ethan.
07:08Hey, Micah, we can't have it anymore.
07:10It's all on fire.
07:13Ethan, please put the, please, Ethan, please don't.
07:17Mom, calm down.
07:18It's okay.
07:19Okay.
07:20But look at all the water.
07:21Yeah, but look at all the pine straw.
07:24I think Ethan didn't mean any wrong by it.
07:28I don't think he was intentionally trying to ruin anything or sabotage anything.
07:31I think he was just going to blow off steam.
07:36Oh, my God.
07:38Which one of them did that?
07:40I think it was your man, not mine for once.
07:41That sounds about right.
07:44Don't you love your children?
07:45Yeah, but I do need you to get the chair, Micah.
07:47I have no idea why they're doing this.
07:54I don't know if there's anger within them that is just wanting to ruin something.
07:59I feel like it's pretty disrespectful, but here we are.
08:04Oh, Ethan's starting to the fire.
08:05That's good.
08:06Oh, man, I love fires.
08:08If you want to burn something, can you please do it in the fire pit?
08:11It really makes me nervous.
08:13I'm not burning anything.
08:14I'm seeing friction between Zach and Ethan, almost like a hazing, you know?
08:19Like, maybe he's wanting to see Zach draw a line and a boundary and not put up with stuff.
08:26I mean, I don't know.
08:27There we go.
08:27See, it's smoking.
08:28That means it's almost out.
08:30I don't think we can put it out.
08:34That's the exact spot where I'm proposing to my girlfriend.
08:40And so it's definitely like, oh, my gosh.
08:45It's just a bunch of pine needles.
08:46Yeah.
08:47It would be really good, yeah, if I could get the edge there.
08:50Are you trying to burn the edge of the peninsula so that it's just burned for when Lydia and I are here?
08:56Well, they trim it off.
08:59Mm-hmm.
09:00Oops.
09:01Yeah, can we just put it out, please?
09:03No, I'm going to let it burn.
09:05Why?
09:07Because I want to burn the grass.
09:09Uh, I don't want the grass burned for when I'm proposing.
09:14I was just cleaning up the grass on the edge of the peninsula.
09:17I was going to burn it off and then put some pine straw down.
09:19And I didn't explain to him what I was doing because he was real, like, bossy.
09:23You could maybe say, like, we're going to do this.
09:25I want you guys to do that.
09:26Like, he had, I don't know.
09:27I just never met anybody like him.
09:31Put it out, please.
09:31Confrontation is necessary.
09:34Having that be a beautiful location for me to propose was important to me.
09:39And it wasn't getting any prettier with him burning that fringe.
09:45He very well could be testing me.
09:47I have no idea what his intention was.
09:49But I'm proposing today, no matter if the whole fringe is burned or the whole peninsula is burned or not.
09:56I'm proposing to Lydia.
09:58Well, you can put it out, then.
10:00Okay.
10:03off.
10:07I want to go through all the positioning.
10:09So, do we know where Mariah Plath is?
10:14I'm a little bit nervous.
10:16The last time I saw Mike was when I sent him a letter for Veronica.
10:18Off to the cabin to get those tunnels up.
10:23Okay.
10:24Five minutes out.
10:25Let's go.
10:26All right.
10:26I do have to pee.
10:28Oh, seriously?
10:29Better now than ten minutes from now.
10:31I have to pee, too.
10:44Do you see the audacity that dude has?
10:46I feel like he's going to have a real temper.
10:49You know, he's right there and he can hear me.
10:51I don't like him.
10:52God, I don't like him.
10:55I don't like how he treats other people so far.
10:59I was one shiny, too, honey.
11:00I'm like, calm down.
11:02Zach didn't set a good first impression for a lot of people.
11:05A lot of people, it was the first time he met them.
11:07Ethan and I were like, whoa, why did he snap at us like that for just lighting a fire?
11:10Ethan loves fire.
11:11Just chill out a little bit.
11:13I still think it's fair that he can just walk in and get Lydia so fast, you know?
11:16Well, he also, like, thinks he calls the shots, which is beyond.
11:20If he talks to me that way, he's going to talk to her like that.
11:24We do need to make sure he's the one for Lydia.
11:26He needs a test to see his true colors.
11:28You know how there's, like, that saying, like, you get the slow internet and that's how you know if you're going to marry somebody, how they react to it.
11:34Let's frazzle him up a bit.
11:36Yeah, I totally agree.
11:38Lydia needs to see that side of him, too.
11:40I do feel protective over Lydia.
11:42You know, I feel like an older brother is supposed to be protective.
11:45So I am.
11:45I know Ethan definitely is.
11:47He might be easy to frazzle because he got frazzled just over the fire on the peninsula.
11:51So I'm not opposed to trying to push Zach's buttons and see where he goes.
11:55Veronica thinks we should push his buttons, too, so she's kind of egging me on.
11:58So what do we do?
11:59You know, maybe light some more fire.
12:01I'm going to go back and light the peninsula on fire again.
12:04Yeah, scorched her.
12:06And then the rose petals will really shine.
12:08You got to see his personality.
12:09I feel very torn.
12:13I don't like Zach, but my care for Lydia definitely holds me back from doing what I truly want to do to Zach.
12:22I want to throw him in the water so bad.
12:25God.
12:26Okay, well, no comment there.
12:31I'm just counting every minute.
12:32What time is she supposed to get here?
12:34Three-ish.
12:36Oh, okay.
12:36I would have loved to have some of my friends and family here.
12:40It is kind of a quick turnaround thing, so to ask for any of them to join me is kind of an out-of-way venture.
12:48Good to see you guys.
12:50Welcome.
12:51We have the Plath family, a couple of Lydia's friends, Jordan and Mariah, Mariah being her roommate.
12:57And then we have Richard and Darlene.
12:59They're actually our premarital counselors, and also Richard will be officiating our wedding.
13:04How are you feeling, Zach?
13:06Good.
13:07Yeah.
13:08Really good.
13:09Boom!
13:10Ready for it.
13:11I know.
13:12I have an idea.
13:14Whatever he says, we don't do, and we do the opposite.
13:16And then we just have fun.
13:19I'm down.
13:20Ethan, what do you think?
13:22I don't want to ruin Lydia's day.
13:24So I'm thinking of more like talking to him and asking him questions and stuff.
13:31He said after we'll get a question, a meet and greet session with him.
13:36Afterwards.
13:36I didn't know he was a celebrity.
13:40Did you schedule for the meet and greet?
13:42No, I didn't know there was a meet and greet.
13:46I'll just let him know nicely that before he leaves that I want to talk to him because I haven't got to talk to him.
13:54How does that sound, Micah?
13:57I'm down.
14:00I need to talk with Zach soon.
14:02And if he is going to marry Lydia and he's going to do it as fast as he wants, then I'm going to give him a little hell to pay for it, you know?
14:14I do understand where Ethan's coming from.
14:16I mean, I've never been an older brother, and no one in my family is married.
14:19But I told myself when I told Ethan I was just going to keep an open mind, meet the guy so I can form my own opinion.
14:26Okay, so I want to go through all the positioning and everything.
14:29So, do we know where Mariah Plath is?
14:46Zach is proposing to Lydia today.
14:48From what I know, I think everybody's going to be there.
14:52I'm a little bit nervous.
14:55The last time I saw Micah is when I sent him a letter for Veronica.
14:59I haven't heard anything from either of them since then, so I don't know how it was received.
15:05So, you're walking into this event and you have zero idea of anything?
15:09Mm-mm.
15:10I think I do need, like, a tiny bit more wine then.
15:13Just a little bit.
15:16Do you plan to talk to Veronica at the proposal?
15:20I don't know.
15:20I don't know.
15:23I don't know.
15:23I'm really struggling with all this.
15:24I don't know what to do.
15:26I don't want anything to go south on Lydia's proposal day.
15:30I don't ever want anything to go south.
15:32I don't ever want to deal with confrontation and conflict ever again.
15:37You're on the guitar, so they're bad, I guess.
15:39You know, my relationships with my family members are all good.
15:44Like, it's better than it's ever been.
15:48It's just, like, I'm honestly scared of letting people down again, and I just need to have enough confidence in myself to know I'm not going to do that again.
15:59I feel like I've done all the healing that I can do here, and I just need a fresh start.
16:06So, in about a month, I'm going to move to Montana.
16:12It'll just be me and Blackjack and grizzly bears and moose or elk or buffalo.
16:21Are you scared?
16:23No.
16:24I have no idea why Montana.
16:26And I have no idea what's out there or, like, nothing.
16:30It's still, like, a whole leap of faith, but also, like, I just got to make this work, and I'm going to do it.
16:35You want to do it with your mom with the book?
16:37No.
16:39I just know in my heart I need a fresh start.
16:42I need to just close a lot of chapters here and just move forward.
16:47You should probably get going while you'll miss the proposal.
16:49Yeah.
16:50Oh, the sun is about to set, so I should probably head over to Alp now.
16:56Who wants to do all that small talk anyway?
17:02The girls are going to be down here, so Amber, you'll be over here.
17:06Kim, you can be on that side.
17:07It is very awkward just standing there, like, military style.
17:12Honestly, like, more on this side is not bad.
17:15It gave Bradzilla vibes.
17:16You ready?
17:34Yeah.
17:34Off to the cabin to get those towels up.
17:37Yeah.
17:37So, to get Lydia to the cabin without her asking, why are we going to the cabin, we had Kim text me.
17:46The cleaners forgot to leave extra towels that are needed at the cabin for the people who are checking in.
17:52Could you swing by?
17:53They need some towels.
17:55Yeah, I just got the text, too.
17:56Out there.
17:57So, we'll deliver those on our way over to Bainbridge.
18:01Yeah, sounds good.
18:03So far, so good.
18:04Lydia's buying everything.
18:09Okay, so, everyone who just got here want to go through all the positioning and everything.
18:13So, if we can stand in the places so we know where everybody is, that'd be great.
18:17Where should I be?
18:18So, you guys, the girls are going to be down here.
18:20So, Amber, you'll be over here.
18:22This is the first proposal that I've been to like this.
18:25We need a couple more people on this side.
18:27Yeah, because it's always just the guy and the lady, maybe a hidden photographer.
18:30It looks like a freaking redneck wedding down there.
18:33It's like, it's just a proposal.
18:34I don't know what everybody was there for.
18:37Kim, you can be on that side.
18:39Micah and Veronica, you guys can stand here.
18:41You don't have to be on separate sides.
18:42And then, lined up like this.
18:45Honestly, like, more on this side is not bad.
18:48Um.
18:51It is very awkward, just standing there, like, military style.
19:00It gave Bridezilla vibes.
19:02I don't know what that is.
19:04I don't know what Bridezilla is.
19:06Like, when they're getting ready for their wedding, they, like, become very, like, aggressive and angry.
19:11Yeah, like, very chokehold on things.
19:13And it was giving Bridezilla today.
19:15So, you know, Lydia, I'm going to really miss you when you go, as are all of your siblings that are here.
19:28Yeah.
19:28Zach and I are leaning towards moving to Colorado when we get married.
19:33And I'll be honest, it's going to be hard.
19:35Like, just last night, I was driving home and I was just crying, thinking about leaving my family and, like, everything I've known my whole life.
19:44It's going to be a challenge.
19:45Let's go out, let's spend some time together, because we're not going to have this luxury in a few months.
19:52Um, so, yeah.
20:00Hi, Mariah.
20:01Hi, guys.
20:01I like the all-black, all-black gang.
20:03Oh, thank you.
20:04Hi, Michael.
20:05Hi.
20:06How are you?
20:06Good.
20:07How are you?
20:07Good.
20:09Zach, is he getting married already?
20:11Is the wedding actually today?
20:13Good to see you, Mariah.
20:14Good to see you, too.
20:16The last time I saw Mariah was the concert.
20:19It's definitely uncomfortable, but I've got to put it all aside, fake it until I make it, and just smile.
20:28And it's already very difficult.
20:31I guess where I'm at with Veronica is sometimes I hurt people, and sometimes that makes me want to run away and not be close with anybody.
20:40And that's how I feel right now.
20:42But Lydia's getting engaged today, and even if I broke my leg, I'd show up.
20:49I'm getting a little hot.
20:52Here.
20:53Hold on.
20:56You need to take your shoes off.
20:57You're going to help me?
20:58We're going to flash everybody.
21:01Take your shoes off.
21:02There you go.
21:04I was joking around.
21:05I was like, what do I wear?
21:06And Zach was like, bring church clothes.
21:08And I was like, okay.
21:10That's what I'm not going to do.
21:11I don't listen to anybody, never mind a man I've never met.
21:16I am my own mind.
21:19Except it was a little awkward undressing.
21:21It was a little awkward.
21:22I got stuck on the shoes.
21:23Because you got stuck on your shoes.
21:25Take your shoe off.
21:27Veronica, take your shoe off.
21:29You're being so incoordinated.
21:31I think she thought it would be like, oh my gosh, look what she's wearing.
21:35Everyone's going to be paying attention to her, and no one's going to care about the proposal.
21:37It's going to be like, Veronica, what are you wearing?
21:39That's so risky, whatever.
21:41Any questions, anyone?
21:42Are we good?
21:43Okay.
21:44Good stuff.
21:46And I don't think anyone really realized.
21:48You guys can come right down here, don't they?
21:53Okay, so we're just going to drop these dolls off, and we'll be on our way.
21:58Okay.
21:58Five minutes out.
21:59Five minutes back.
22:01Let's go.
22:02All right.
22:03I do have to pee.
22:06Oh, seriously?
22:07Better now than 10 minutes from now.
22:12I have to pee, too.
22:13Yeah.
22:14Run and do it.
22:15You have to go.
22:16Mercy.
22:17I have to go.
22:18Mercy.
22:19Mercy.
22:20What did Amber run?
22:23Unbelievable.
22:25I'm not going to try and control 15 people at once.
22:28I know there's a lot going on, and I have to manage what I can control, and I can't control.
22:32And if I can't control it, then what's the use in spending energy on it?
22:37One minute.
22:38Everybody in places.
22:40They're on Pericry.
22:42So quiet now.
22:50She's going to say, wait, that's Micah's truck.
22:52What's going on?
23:07What?
23:07Is this Micah's truck?
23:09It looks like Micah's truck.
23:10Let's get out for just a second.
23:16Micah and Veronica?
23:18Oh, my goodness.
23:18Well, hi, guys.
23:22Hi.
23:22Hi.
23:23Hi.
23:24Jordan?
23:27Jordan's here.
23:29Richard's here.
23:30Darlene's here.
23:36Oh, my goodness.
23:40The moment I see Zach, I know exactly why he's here.
23:43And I just, I just can't believe it.
23:48Sorry, Zach.
23:51I can't believe it.
23:53Thank you for coming.
23:55Oh, my goodness.
23:57Oh, my goodness.
23:58Then she hugs every single person.
24:04I just kept smiling bigger and bigger just because that's totally Lydia.
24:09Like, that's totally her.
24:10Oh, my goodness.
24:37Lydia Joy Puff.
24:38I can say everything right now, but I'm going to keep it simple.
24:50You are the love of my life, and you are so special to me.
24:55I've been so blessed with the joy of knowing you, and I'm shaking.
25:02Lydia, Joy, Plath, will you marry me, or why should you pull out the ring?
25:20Please say no.
25:26God, she's going to say yes.
25:32I feel like I'm trapped here.
25:34They all want to pretend that they didn't treat me like s***, and I think that others
25:38will treat it this way as well.
25:40Who are you talking about?
25:41Olivia.
25:42I was going to give her a call.
25:44Right now?
25:44Yeah.
25:45On the family farm?
25:46Yeah, why not?
25:57Lydia, Joy, Plath, will you marry me?
26:02Please say no.
26:05Yes.
26:10Yes.
26:17She said yes!
26:28Good night.
26:30We're engaged.
26:35You and me, engaged.
26:37This is more than I ever imagined in a proposal.
26:41You went above and beyond.
26:45That's gorgeous.
26:49I was just really thrilled that we pulled it off.
26:52I could see that she was genuinely surprised.
26:55She couldn't believe it.
26:56Good job, Bryn.
26:58You did great.
26:59Lydia is just so in love with him, and he's so in love with her, and he came up with this
27:06great plan, and it was pulled off really well.
27:09I still am going to take you out for dinner.
27:12We're just postponing that a week.
27:14Okay?
27:15My concern is, if the proposal was this much work, what's the wedding going to be like?
27:25Well, we're not keeping the wedding a surprise, so.
27:27Right, right.
27:28But it's less than three months away.
27:31That's crazy too soon.
27:32Is it less than three months?
27:33Yeah, we've got like 80 days or something like that.
27:35Oh, two months.
27:36And I have a notebook full of things I have to get done before the wedding.
27:42Yeah, there's a long way to go and a short time to get there.
27:48Congrats, Lydia.
27:51I know it's hard.
27:53It may take me years to warm up to Zach.
27:58It's just all very fast, but I'm happy for her.
28:02I want her to be happy.
28:04You want to spend time with Zach?
28:07I want to see the cows.
28:07Get to know him.
28:09Awesome.
28:11Here they go.
28:12I'm happy you're happy.
28:18Since there's a little bit of conflict between Veronica and I,
28:23and I don't want any of that coming up on Lydia's special day.
28:27I love you.
28:28I kind of want to get away.
28:31You know, they call that an Irish goodbye.
28:34Is that where people leave because they don't want to be a problem?
28:38Is that where people leave without telling people that they're leaving?
28:41Oh, that, I must be Irish.
28:50Where are you going?
28:52Um, I'm just going to go take a walk, make some calls.
28:55I don't normally find myself typing in the woods in South Florida.
29:03What can you do?
29:06Cassia, do you want to be one of my best mates?
29:09Yes!
29:12There's a lot going on.
29:14They all want to pretend that they didn't treat me like s***,
29:16and that none of it ever happened, so I sort of feel bad.
29:20Okay.
29:21I think that others were treated this way as well.
29:25When you say others, who are you talking about?
29:27Olivia.
29:28Um, I was going to give her a call.
29:29Right now?
29:30Yeah.
29:31On the family farm?
29:32Yeah, why not?
29:33I look like a mirror ball today.
29:46Hey!
29:48Hello!
29:49How are you?
29:50Oh, the service...
29:50Oh my God, your hair looks so...
29:51So does yours!
29:52I just have been dealing with chaos here.
29:55My best friends here are the cows, and that says something.
29:59Are you hanging in there?
30:00The welcome is colder than the weather, and it's freezing,
30:04but Barry and Mariah have been lovely.
30:07She doesn't talk to you in how many months?
30:09Eight?
30:10Yeah.
30:11She's talked about me, though.
30:12She doesn't talk to us, but they do talk about us.
30:16I think you should talk.
30:18Just make sure you're not yelling.
30:19Oh yeah, make sure I'm not yelling.
30:20I'm a loud person.
30:21Mercy.
30:22You can be a bridesmaid?
30:23Yeah!
30:26Mercy has been asking, like, for weeks, everyone, like,
30:29do you think I'm old enough to be a bridesmaid?
30:32So...
30:32I had a chat with Ethan, and he told me to forgive them.
30:37I said, well, they have to start apologizing first.
30:40Are you, like, speaking your mind up there,
30:41or are you just, like, staying quiet so you'll get crucified?
30:44A bit of both.
30:45Like, definitely covert, like, snarkiness.
30:48I didn't want to speak to Mariah.
30:49I didn't want to, like, ruin her engagement.
30:51But I also threw in, like, some sass.
30:55The family has a complete social structure of a high school.
30:59They just don't know it because they don't go to high school.
31:03You have your brainless jocks.
31:05You have the nerds.
31:07You have the young kids.
31:09You have a social outcast.
31:10You have the pariahs.
31:11And you have Veronica and Olivia.
31:13Like, under the pyramid,
31:15in, like, a mud chamber they put us in.
31:19Amber.
31:20Yeah.
31:21We saw a girl.
31:22I would love to be a flower girl.
31:26Would you do the honors of being my maid of honor?
31:29Lydia.
31:30Lydia.
31:32Lydia.
31:34There's no one else I'd rather be.
31:35You've been there.
31:38I...
31:39For me.
31:39I feel like...
31:42I...
31:44Just say yes.
31:46Yeah.
31:47Yes, I guess.
31:48Are you sure?
31:49Because, like, I haven't really.
31:51You have.
31:51I haven't really been.
31:52I haven't really been to you, sir.
31:55I'm very sorry.
31:56I should have warned you
31:58when you were driving up there
31:59to pack a couple bottles of wine
32:01in your seats
32:02because you were going to need them
32:03and you wouldn't be able to buy them.
32:04I feel like I'm trapped here.
32:07I don't want to be in any family event.
32:09Like, I don't want to go to the wedding.
32:10I know the wedding's going to be chaos, though.
32:13Just bring me as your plus one
32:14and we can share a drink together.
32:17Yes.
32:19I got to run
32:20because they're coming for me.
32:21Talk soon.
32:21Bye, girl.
32:23All right.
32:24Drive safely.
32:25Have fun.
32:29Well, at least I'm not alone in this woods.
32:32There's so much barbed wire for a friendly farm.
32:35Ah!
32:35Me and Mike are going to talk to Zach tonight
32:42just to feel him out,
32:46ask him some questions,
32:47see if we can make him crack.
32:51I don't know this guy at all.
32:52Well, I've got many things rolling around in my head
32:54that are possible scenarios
32:55and I want to rule them out as best I can
32:57just because it's so fast.
32:59And I know my dad didn't grill him that hard
33:01and I feel like maybe Ethan and I should.
33:04I mean, we all know Lydia's, like,
33:06whole world is in ministry in the church
33:08and that's wonderful.
33:10But I don't think that Zach and Lydia
33:12were divinely put together by God
33:15and there's no one else
33:16and it was just destined and intended to be.
33:18When in reality, it's just a crush
33:19and you're probably making the crush bigger
33:22by not kissing or doing anything.
33:23So you're just like...
33:24They don't really know each other.
33:27I mean, like Lydia said, he's a nice guy.
33:30But, I mean, Lydia wouldn't know any better.
33:34Lydia's like the sweetest person ever.
33:37I don't want her to change.
33:39I saw people hurt Mariah
33:41and Mariah is a broken person now.
33:44So I don't want to see Lydia get heartbroken at all.
33:48It's a mean, tough world
33:49and you don't want to be sucked into
33:50something you can avoid.
33:54Hey, guys, how's it going?
33:56Hey, Zach.
33:57I really am going in with expectations
33:59that they're going to ask hard questions
34:01and they're here to know every little thing.
34:04When you think of Lydia, what do you feel?
34:08I feel...
34:10I mean, just confident.
34:14Confidence?
34:15What does that mean?
34:17Um, I'm trying to think.
34:19I mean, um...
34:24So, you ready to talk to Zach?
34:34I mean, there's things
34:35that we don't like about him for sure,
34:36but, I mean, Lydia...
34:37He clearly makes Lydia happy.
34:39Yeah, that's crazy.
34:43Hey, guys, how's it going?
34:45Hey, Zach.
34:46We were just talking about you.
34:47Yeah.
34:48The proposal was over
34:50and Micah and Ethan
34:51wanted to have a conversation with me.
34:54I really am going in with expectations
34:56that they're going to ask hard questions
34:57and they're here to know every little thing.
35:01I just wanted to let you know
35:03that as Lydia's bigger brother,
35:06I know you make Lydia happy
35:08and that's what matters to me.
35:10Yeah.
35:10But if I ever find out
35:11that you did anything to hurt her
35:14or anything like that,
35:15you ever let her down or anything,
35:16Yeah.
35:17No consequences.
35:18Yeah, I mean,
35:21I actually would love to hang out
35:23and just open up the floor
35:25to any questions you guys have or anything.
35:28Why is it so damn fast?
35:31Well, we felt that it was really natural.
35:32We didn't feel like we were forcing anything.
35:35My concern is there's more to lose,
35:40in my opinion,
35:41than there is to gain
35:42by getting married very quickly.
35:45And I just don't want Lydia to be hurt.
35:50Well, we've,
35:52since the time we really met
35:53and having all the experiences together,
35:55I don't know how much you guys know,
35:57when she was out visiting in Colorado,
35:59we basically spent every day together.
36:02We hiked like five mountains together
36:04and then went skydiving.
36:06There was a lot of time together
36:08and a very compressed thing,
36:10and so it felt like months had happened
36:13and, you know, like a week.
36:15Mm-hmm.
36:18I don't know what psychedelics you're on,
36:20but the fact is,
36:22you still only spent a week with her.
36:26And I don't like it.
36:27Two months is two months,
36:28and I don't care.
36:29Object.
36:30Object.
36:33My biggest concern is stability, I guess.
36:36Yeah.
36:36Just like, what's work looking like?
36:39I've coached tennis for over a year,
36:41and so I have a passion for tennis
36:44and a passion for coaching.
36:46And then I would love to,
36:48I have a passion to own like a coffee shop.
36:52I just want to make sure
36:53you're going to be breaking your back for Lydia.
36:56Yeah.
36:57I want Zach to have, you know,
36:59a pretty good plan,
36:59and I wanted to hear what he wanted to do,
37:01what his passions were,
37:01what he's done in the past.
37:02Make sure he has a pretty good work ethic.
37:04It's not really what you do for work,
37:05it's your hustle.
37:07What do you, like,
37:08when you're with Lydia,
37:09when you think of Lydia,
37:09what do you feel?
37:12I feel...
37:16she, I mean, just confident.
37:21Confidence?
37:24What does that mean?
37:25Um, I guess I'm just...
37:28It's hard to put into words
37:31because there's so many...
37:33I'm trying to think.
37:36Let me...
37:37Um...
37:40Well, the reason why I ask is because...
37:42So you guys are saving your first kiss
37:45for your wedding.
37:46Yeah.
37:47How do you do that?
37:48Yeah, it's...
37:51It's not...
37:53It's not anything I expected
37:55to make a commitment to,
37:56but because of who Lydia is,
37:59it changed my heart
38:00and was like,
38:00yeah, no, that's something
38:01I really do want to commit to,
38:03to honor her.
38:04Because I just...
38:05I couldn't do that,
38:06and I don't know who could.
38:08I was expecting, like,
38:09we said that we were going to save her first kiss,
38:11but, you know,
38:11if I'm being completely honest,
38:12I kind of...
38:13I really want to.
38:14I was looking for some answer,
38:18some more along the lines
38:19of things I've experienced
38:20in the past with women.
38:22A lot of that's tied to the core belief
38:24that we do have in Jesus Christ
38:25and through the Spirit.
38:27So love, joy, peace, patience, kindness,
38:31goodness, faithfulness, gentleness,
38:33and self-control.
38:34It's in the Bible.
38:35But I don't think it's honest to say
38:37I'm not kissing her because,
38:40you know, of the fruit of the loom
38:42and we're just seven fruits of whatever.
38:46F*** off, you big holy bastard.
38:48It's like,
38:49I think that's a bull**** answer.
38:52Our faith is very important
38:53and kind of building our relationship
38:55off of that foundation
38:56was kind of big for us.
38:59Mm-hmm.
39:00Something like, dude,
39:02I've kissed someone before
39:04and I was like,
39:05totally like,
39:06yeah, I'm okay with kissing again.
39:07But then meeting her,
39:09I want to show her other ways
39:10of my love for her
39:12instead of just touching her butt
39:14or whatever,
39:14I don't know, so.
39:16Mm-hmm.
39:16Yeah, but I feel like
39:17you don't get to know
39:18half of a person
39:19if you don't know
39:20that side of them,
39:22I don't know.
39:22I guess that might just be me.
39:24It's hard, for sure.
39:26I bet it is.
39:29Yeah, I just want to make sure
39:30that there's actually
39:31a physical compatibility
39:33and passion for each other,
39:35you know?
39:35Absolutely, yeah.
39:36I want to make sure
39:37you have that.
39:39When Ethan asks
39:40if I have a passion
39:41or a yearning for Lydia,
39:43I absolutely do.
39:44I just have understood
39:46in my previous relationships
39:47that it has become
39:49a distraction for me.
39:51I've seen physical intimacy
39:53get in the way
39:54of truly getting to know someone,
39:55and so we're doing it differently.
39:58So do you want to kiss her?
40:01Yeah.
40:03But I know that's not...
40:04That's not everything.
40:07I've never in my life
40:09met a straight man
40:11who voluntarily gives up
40:12the opportunity
40:13to be intimate with a woman.
40:14Kissing, making out,
40:16just, you know, everything.
40:17It just doesn't compute
40:19in my own mind,
40:20especially as a young man.
40:22I mean...
40:24I mean, everything
40:25that you and Lydia have said
40:26is great and sounds amazing,
40:28but I've got to ask you...
40:29Yeah?
40:33Are you gay?
40:34Are you gay?
40:37Okay, here we go.
40:48I'm sorry.
40:50I'm sorry.
40:51I can't talk about this.
40:52It was so gross.
40:56Your sister lies about me.
40:58Like, I know what happened.
41:00I know what I've seen.
41:01But I also think
41:01you build up everything
41:02in your head
41:03and you exaggerate sometimes
41:04or you interpret things
41:05the wrong way.
41:07I don't get why
41:07she's talking trash
41:09about my family.
41:10That just doesn't make sense.
41:12I feel like I'm so lost.
41:13I don't know what to do.
41:14I love Veronica
41:15and I want nothing more
41:15than to make things work,
41:16but I wanted to let you know
41:19that she did reach out
41:20to Olivia.
41:20Olivia.
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