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90 Day Fiancé UK Season 4 Episode 6

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00:00I've just fallen in love with someone from a different country.
00:09Everyone thinks it's our holiday romance.
00:13But he's so hot.
00:15I'm about to fly out to Brazil for love.
00:19As soon as I see Ali, my heart just melts.
00:24I've been on my own for a long time now.
00:29I've sort of given up on the idea of finding love.
00:33In the Gambia, it feels romantic.
00:35When I'm in England, then reality hits me.
00:39Disgusting.
00:41I'm so sorry.
00:42You'd rather game than speak to your wife well.
00:45Lemon green.
00:48Oh, you're everything.
00:50Mate.
00:51What the?
00:53This court.
00:55You're actually crazy, Sean, and you don't do that.
00:58There is hope.
00:59Oh, God.
01:02She's gonna need some real British sausage.
01:05I don't like this.
01:07It's true love.
01:09We make the Titanic.
01:11You love more dance or my friend?
01:14Why is everyone so worried about the dancing?
01:17Ara's gonna move to the UK.
01:19I thought you would stay here.
01:21Wait a minute.
01:22I just want everyone to be happy.
01:24I don't know how to show affection the way that you want.
01:27Will you marry me?
01:31Don't kissy-kissy.
01:32No.
01:33Kissy-kissy-kissy.
01:34Fuck.
01:35You need to grow up.
01:36To go.
01:37I'm an evil genius.
01:38Today I'm meeting Ara's mum.
01:40I want to marry your daughter.
01:41You want to marry my daughter?
01:42Sure.
01:43Proposing already?
01:44I'd like...
01:45With your permission, I would like to.
01:46Not kids.
01:47I'm disappointed.
01:48I don't know where we go from here.
01:49And straight at me.
01:50Oh, I'm not seeing you.
01:51Yeah.
01:52Could I do this day-to-day?
01:53The answer is definitely not.
01:54What are your reservations?
01:55I don't like kids.
01:56My sister's gonna tell him things that he doesn't want to hear.
02:05I think Sander would like to have more kids with you.
02:06Really?
02:07That's a surprise to me.
02:09We've had some ups and downs on this caravan trip.
02:12But, I just want us to be in a good place
02:15because I'm not in Turkey for long.
02:17That's a surprise to me.
02:19You could have not done lots of the irrevers into me.
02:24Because I'm not in Turkey for long.
02:27Sorry.
02:31Now we're at the end of the trip.
02:33I feel like I could go caravanning again.
02:36It's been a good night.
02:37Absolutely.
02:38I'm Sarah, I'm 31, and I'm from Kent.
03:01I'm exhausted already.
03:05I'm a photographer and videographer,
03:07but I've got so many hobbies.
03:12I love to climb.
03:15I also run.
03:17I dance, bachata and salsa.
03:22I'm quite an active person.
03:35Ah, she's here!
03:37I love her.
03:38I love her.
03:40Whenever I'm not working,
03:42I try and catch up with my really good friend, Cassia.
03:45I love her to pieces.
03:47You like my selection.
03:49I chose it specifically for you.
03:52Because I represented your personality.
03:53Because I'm a porn star.
03:53That's really, really inappropriate.
03:56Cheers.
03:57Thank you for my drink.
04:02I'm poor now.
04:03When are we next to Marco?
04:07I'll be going to Italy in a couple of weeks.
04:09Good on you.
04:10He's a couch.
04:11He is a couch, yeah.
04:12Literally fish and water, but one of those rare fishes that you can't find.
04:17Yeah.
04:17Only in Italy.
04:18I'm in a relationship with an Italian man called Marco, and if it wasn't for Cassia, we wouldn't
04:26be together.
04:26I'd just come out of a difficult relationship, and I was feeling quite down.
04:32Cassia, she just said, come with me to Italy.
04:36We're going to have the best time.
04:37Hot girl summer.
04:39Come on, let's go.
04:41I went out on the holiday thinking, no, no men, not my type.
04:46I don't really like Italian men.
04:50We went to a local lake near Rome, and Cassia said, well, who is your type?
04:56And I pointed at this tall, dark, handsome man.
05:01If I could have a dream.
05:03From the moment I saw Marco, I completely fancied him.
05:06He's so attractive.
05:08Not too perfect, a little bit scruffy, but still looks after himself.
05:14Just really a beautiful human being.
05:21Little did we know, Marco walked into the lake and said, by the way, I speak English and
05:28I heard everything that you said.
05:31And the rest is history.
05:33I extended my holiday, and I'm really happy that I did.
05:38We went on our first date.
05:42He took me around Rome.
05:44We went on beautiful walks.
05:47And it was just so magical.
05:49He told me he loved me the first two weeks.
05:53I waited, but I felt it, but I didn't allow myself to tell him that early.
06:01I have a really big barrier when you first meet me.
06:05But it only took me a few weeks to totally fall in love with Marco, and I'd never felt that about anyone before.
06:14Yeah, we're engaged.
06:16No, you're not.
06:17Yeah, we are.
06:18No, you're not.
06:19Look at your face.
06:26I can't tell if this is a joke or not.
06:27No, it's not a joke.
06:31Marco proposed to me three months ago.
06:35Mate, I can't believe you've kept this a secret for so long.
06:37Oh, jeez.
06:38Oh, I'm sorry.
06:39Yeah.
06:40But I needed to wait, because I needed to tell my parents.
06:47But they still don't know.
06:48No one knows, because I was kind of hoping that Marco might ask my dad's permission to marry me, but he hasn't done that yet.
07:06I have really high hopes with Marco, because I feel like we're really compatible, and he seems like a really lovely, loyal man.
07:16Hello.
07:17How are you?
07:18I'm good.
07:19How are you?
07:20Do you miss me?
07:22Yeah, I miss you a lot.
07:24Oh.
07:26It's really weird without you.
07:29Yeah, I know.
07:30I don't like it at all.
07:31But I'm coming to Italy soon, so...
07:34Yeah, I really can't wait to see you.
07:36I like you.
07:37Yeah, me too.
07:38Me too.
07:40I feel like there's something missing when you're not here.
07:43There's a part of me that's missing.
07:45What did you do today?
07:49Um...
07:49I've just been working a lot.
07:57From my experience, the guys in Italy are a little bit more jealous than in England.
08:03It's really difficult.
08:05When I go out with my friends, he really doesn't like it.
08:09Hopefully, we'll fix it soon, the situation.
08:13OK.
08:14Yeah.
08:15All right, I'll call you later.
08:18OK.
08:18All right, love you.
08:20Love you too.
08:21Love you, bye.
08:22Bye.
08:22Bye-bye.
08:23I need to talk to Sandra about her sister's bombshell.
08:45At the family barbecue last night.
08:47Go on my rooftop.
08:48So, I booked a really nice place by the river, where no one in her family can interrupt.
08:57How are you feeling?
08:59Fun.
09:00I was a bit sad last night.
09:02And I feel like the relationship took a bit of a step back.
09:07Because you left me drowning when I asked you, please stay.
09:11I don't know these people.
09:12I don't understand Portuguese.
09:13Honey, but we are together for two years.
09:16You're supposed to run for two years.
09:18And that's what Heloisa said.
09:20But I needed you.
09:21You didn't try, honey.
09:22I'm sorry to say that.
09:23I was scared.
09:26I'm not supposed to be around you all the time.
09:29I wasn't asking you to babysit me.
09:32Yeah.
09:32You want that.
09:33You said all the time, come here, come here, sit here.
09:37You need to be brave around my family.
09:39It's not so hard.
09:42It's hard.
09:42No, it's not.
09:43It's hard.
09:44My family trying to be so nice and try to talk to you.
09:48And you just sit on the sofa.
09:50I felt ambushed when I met Heloisa.
09:53I felt like I was being told off, like a naughty child.
09:57What did she say?
09:59She has a lot of doubts about our relationship.
10:02And everyone in your family thinks the same.
10:06And that's troubling.
10:07She also said that you want more kids.
10:16I said that this before, that I want five kids.
10:27When I was young, yes.
10:29I have never been driven to have kids in the same way as some people are.
10:35Why you don't want children?
10:36My parents split up when I was young.
10:39And I would never want to put them through that.
10:43And also there's enough children in the world for people to take care of.
10:46Do you think this is going to work?
10:48Because I have two kids.
10:51I could never be their stepdad.
10:53And I think you know that too, deep down.
10:55Yeah.
10:57Why can't I just be a role model, that kind of thing, rather than stepdad?
11:01If you come and live with me, it's not going to be the way you think.
11:06Like something can happen.
11:08And I need to go out and leave my kids with you.
11:11I, yeah, I know that.
11:14You need to spend more time with my kids and take care of them sometimes.
11:19I am saying I am open to these things.
11:22What more can I give you?
11:24Honey, words, it's just words.
11:27So actions speak louder.
11:30And you don't like that.
11:31You really don't.
11:33Wow.
11:34Really, I'm sorry.
11:40I know he does want children.
11:43I know he does want to be my kids' stepfather.
11:46But I really love him.
11:48And I want him to be around me and my family and prove everyone that this can work.
11:55I know he does want to be my kids' stepfather.
12:11I know he does want to be my kids' stepfather.
12:16I'm nervous.
12:16Shannon is my first girlfriend I ever first introduced met my family it is really really
12:27big deal I really want to make a good first impression I know how important Methe's family
12:43is to him I'm pretty proud of myself for being able to speak to them a little bit I spoke too soon
13:04Methe I need your help over here we just see you live in England Liverpool he said if you can come
13:27Istanbul we will be happy so much Methe's family say they want us to live close but we're still not
13:35sure where we want to be yet Methe is getting really lazy on the translations and I have no
13:48idea what's being said I feel like I'm getting grilled a little bit here
13:51if my family don't like the Shannon it is really difficult for me it is making me upset
14:13my family is my everything Shannon is my everything this is really important I have a
14:27I don't know what Methe is talking to his dad about things are starting to feel a little bit tense in here
14:52land we love us we love them each other we miss time we wait to return to family we love
14:58let's get me about two people and say we miss them we love me gata I'm magic
15:07once you head back up on the list and start talking to them.
15:10go up wanna die
15:12how much is going for me
15:1423 Ami
15:17good
15:19oh
15:19oh
15:20oh
15:21One, two, three.
15:24I'm having the best time with Ara.
15:26She's shown me around her city and she's shown me her culture
15:30and what life is like for her here.
15:33This is what we call balut, unhatched egg.
15:37When we're together, there's no boring hours or minutes.
15:41My stomach has hurt the past few days
15:43because we were always laughing about something.
15:45They believe unhatched egg makes your knee strong.
15:49Very specific.
15:52I know what I am feeling for you
15:54and that we do have the same feeling for each other.
15:57I hope so.
16:02Tagay.
16:06So who am I meeting today?
16:07My best friend, Erica.
16:09She cares a lot about me.
16:11Okay, so she's going to be judging me?
16:13She's going to be a judger.
16:15Don't worry, she's less scarier than my mom.
16:18What if she doesn't approve of me?
16:20Just a yes and yes situation.
16:22There's no no.
16:25I'm feeling quite nervous
16:26because I know how important Ara's friends and family's opinion is to her.
16:30My chat with Ara's mom didn't go exactly to plan,
16:34so I'm hoping my chat with Erica today will go better.
16:37Hi.
16:38Hi.
16:39Hi.
16:41Okay, so Andy, meet my best friend Erica.
16:44Hi, it's nice to meet you.
16:45This is Andy.
16:46Nice meeting you.
16:47I heard a lot of things about you.
16:50You too.
16:51Andy, why do you come here in the Philippines?
16:54To meet Ara.
16:55To know if she's real, I guess.
16:57Why are you seeking love here in other countries?
17:01I had some bad experiences with women in the UK,
17:05and I was in hospital a lot when I was a child,
17:09and I had lots of Filipino nurses,
17:11and they were always the nicest, most amazing nurses.
17:14So I thought, why not look for the Philippines?
17:18And then I met Ara.
17:20When we started talking, she made me laugh so much,
17:22and she was so funny.
17:24Ah, do you think she's a clown?
17:26Yeah.
17:27Free clown.
17:28Ah, okay.
17:29Andy looks like a bit frustrated
17:31because Erica is quite intense.
17:34I need to go to the toilet.
17:35It's okay?
17:36Okay.
17:37Okay.
17:38I'm not sure how much Erica likes me,
17:39but now I've got a chance to chat to her alone,
17:41I'm going to make sure she knows how serious I am
17:43about Ara.
17:44I know I've only known Ara a very short time,
17:47but I can't explain it,
17:49but I really do love her.
17:51Okay.
17:52Ara is very important to me and to her family.
17:54I know that.
17:55What are your intentions about Ara?
17:58I really want to be with her for the rest of my life.
18:00Okay.
18:01But please don't rush anything.
18:04Just take your time to know each other.
18:08Take it slow.
18:10I know you and her family are worried about me,
18:12but my intentions are real.
18:14I really do love her.
18:15Before I leave the Philippines,
18:17I'm going to propose
18:18and I want to spend the rest of my life with her.
18:20And it just,
18:22that it's too fast.
18:24Married life is very different.
18:26Everything has changed.
18:28Don't rush anything and don't rush.
18:30Just enjoy your relationship.
18:32I'm worried.
18:33She never met this guy
18:35and I just want them to take it slow
18:38and there's no rush.
18:39I know that you're talking about me.
18:41What happened?
18:42Nothing.
18:43Nothing.
18:44You didn't drill him?
18:45No.
18:46I know Erica thinks this proposal is a bad idea,
18:48but the more time I spend with Ara,
18:50the more determined I am to propose by the end of the trip,
18:53that I still haven't won her family over,
18:55especially her mom.
18:57and I need to make that right before I propose.
19:27Lisa, what's happening?
19:28Honey, can you please?
19:29Oh, oh, oh, okay.
19:30Oh, my Lord, really.
19:38This morning, Sandra and I had a bit of a falling out
19:41because her daughter and her were talking in Portuguese
19:44and I couldn't understand what was going on.
19:47It started out as what looked like just an argument
19:50that didn't involve me,
19:51but then I heard my name said in the midst of other things and...
19:55I didn't say your name.
19:56I definitely heard Finn from someone.
20:00He didn't say your name.
20:02Okay.
20:03I was having an argument with my daughter
20:07and Finn wants to know what happened.
20:10I told him I'm not okay right now.
20:12I need this time to myself
20:15and he still wants to know.
20:18This morning just happened something about my kid and me
20:24and I got angry.
20:26You was laughing.
20:27I wasn't laughing.
20:28Yes, you was laughing.
20:29That's your version of a virus.
20:30No, no.
20:31This makes me angry.
20:32I wasn't laughing about the situation.
20:33I was laughing because it got really awkward.
20:35You were shouting at me in front of your two kids in Portuguese.
20:39I was not shouting.
20:40I just want a little space.
20:43And you know that.
20:45But he went there with your translator asking my daughter what happened
20:49and I don't want you to know because I think it's not your business.
20:54It's something about me and the kids.
20:57And in that moment, I was not okay to talk to you.
21:02And when you came and start laughing about me, make me more angry.
21:06Well, that's your version of events, but that's not what happened.
21:09Yes, I know.
21:10Because for you is everything.
21:11It's fine.
21:12But that wasn't what I was laughing at.
21:14Yeah, but in that time it was like that.
21:16I'm sorry if it came across that way.
21:18Yeah, I accept my timing was wrong.
21:20But if I'm going to be part of this family, she needs to let me in.
21:24I take your point that it's not my business,
21:26but really we're all part of the same unit.
21:29And so it is a big issue for me that I can't understand Portuguese.
21:34And I couldn't understand what was happening
21:37because I could see people were unhappy.
21:39And the laughing wasn't about the situation.
21:43The laughing was about how awkward it was then in that room.
21:47You're right.
21:48I should have waited longer when you were in your room.
21:50That's on me.
21:51But I guess the reason I wanted to know
21:53is because I felt a little bit excluded.
21:55I'm still the odd man out.
21:57And if I'm to move here, yes, I need to understand Portuguese.
22:01But I guess you also have to let me into your life.
22:04I'm trying to let you into mine.
22:06Maybe my life is simple.
22:08It doesn't come with all these things.
22:10But really, I didn't mean to do that in the way that it came across.
22:15That wasn't my intention.
22:16That was never my intention.
22:18I'm sorry.
22:22Really.
22:23I'm so sorry.
22:24I'm sorry to you.
22:26I'm sorry.
22:27It's not a big thing.
22:28I think it's just language.
22:30Today has been the biggest waking up call you could have been given.
22:33We had an argument that could have been avoided just like that.
22:36And I think if there was ever a case to learn the language, it's now.
22:40I've got to learn Portuguese because this would never have happened.
22:45You have to.
22:46You have to.
22:47You have to.
22:48You have to.
22:49You have to.
22:50You have to.
22:51You have to.
22:53We do.
22:54I love salsa and bachata dancing.
23:09With Marco not being around, I need to keep myself occupied.
23:16Out in Italy, when they do salsa bachata, a lot of the time it is to meet someone.
23:24Whereas, for me, it isn't that.
23:27I'm not sure that Marco understands it yet.
23:31When I started dancing, he'd go quiet.
23:34He'd go really cold and quiet and I wouldn't hear from him until the next day.
23:42He's quite a jealous person and that's a challenging thing.
23:54My name is Marco, I'm 37 and I'm from Rome.
24:10I've lived in Rome for all my life.
24:12I'm really happy to live here.
24:13When I'm on the mountains or by the lake, I'm just in my happy place.
24:20I love to be outside.
24:22I really can't imagine to live anywhere else.
24:29I was not really looking for love, but as I met Sarah, I understood immediately that she
24:35was the one for me.
24:36The first thing that I noticed is a beautiful big smile.
24:39It went crazy when I saw that.
24:44Whenever I have free time, I really love to hang out with my closest friends, Fabio and Giovanni.
24:49How is it going with Sarah?
24:55Yeah, it's like, I think I finally found the love of my life.
24:59She's in England at the moment, so I'm not really happy, but she will come in the next few weeks.
25:06For the rest, the little problem, salsa, dance.
25:12Being in a long distance relationship with Sarah is really hard.
25:16Because when you are not together, little thing can be a huge thing.
25:22She's still doing it.
25:23She's still doing it.
25:24Yeah, she did it also yesterday.
25:25She told me that, well, you know, you didn't sleep this night.
25:28I slept a bit less than usual.
25:30You know that she's danced with 15 men in a night and I'm sitting on the sofa.
25:36So I'm not happy about it.
25:38No.
25:39I need time to give my trust to people.
25:42So I really find it a bit tough to think that she's so close.
25:46With someone, it causes a bit of jealousies from my side.
25:50I don't like my girlfriend that go to dance with other boy.
25:55Yeah, I thought the same.
25:58It really doesn't help hearing Giovanni have doubts.
26:02And I do find it hard, but I'm trying to be more open.
26:05It's just dancing in the end.
26:07It's just like dancing.
26:08Yeah, it's like for you climbing.
26:10Fabio is my best friend.
26:12We grew up together.
26:14And at the start, I had some weird thoughts about Sarah's and Fabio relationship.
26:21I just felt that they were getting to know faster than me because his English was better and
26:30because they play chess together.
26:32So they have a lot of things in common.
26:35And so I felt quite jealous.
26:36She doesn't need to go dancing if she wants to cheat on you.
26:40Yeah, of course.
26:40Because we are still in different countries, it's really hard.
26:46You always doubt of the other.
26:48If I could get it in my way, I would just get married tomorrow so we can be together all the time.
26:58Cheers.
26:59Niki and I met at dance class, and she knows me better than a lot of people.
27:06I haven't told her much about Marco yet, but she's really not one to hide her opinions.
27:11Haven't seen you for a bit.
27:12I feel like you've been in Italy quite a bit.
27:13How are things?
27:14Good.
27:15Me and Marco are really, really happy.
27:17Yeah?
27:18We're really good, yeah.
27:19Things are going really well.
27:20What's it like culturally?
27:22Are there like cultural differences between the two of you?
27:24I don't know many Italians, but the ones I do know, they're like quite particular about food.
27:29For example.
27:30Oh, 100% a food snob, yeah.
27:32Would never eat a carbonara in Britain.
27:33Would never eat a carbonara in Britain.
27:36No, but it was a bit of a surprise when we first got together of how jealous Italians can be.
27:42Okay.
27:42He has had a jealous side.
27:44Okay, so he's been jealous.
27:47He has, yeah.
27:48There was a small situation with his best friend, Fabio.
27:53Oh, okay.
27:54I was developing a friendship with Fabio at the same time I was developing a relationship.
27:59with Marco.
28:00And I think he knew that I really liked funny guys and Fabio's hilarious.
28:05So I think he was just a bit like, uh-oh.
28:09Is he going to feel jealous about other friendships?
28:12He hasn't since then.
28:14Why would someone be jealous of their best friend?
28:18What did he think was going to happen?
28:20I don't know.
28:22Maybe it was just like, I don't know.
28:27Also, he was a little bit worried about the dancing thing.
28:31As in because he thought, like, you were dancing to pick someone up?
28:34Yeah.
28:35But then he's surrounded by people.
28:37For example, he's got a friend called Giovanni, who would never let his girlfriend dance.
28:42Ever.
28:43Never let his girlfriend dance.
28:44Yeah, I know.
28:45Okay.
28:46So he stepped back about 50 years.
28:47Yeah.
28:49The jealousy seems to come from nowhere.
28:51And I'd find that really hard.
28:53Also, what else are they going to get jealous about?
28:55If you're in a relationship with someone where they don't like something you do,
28:58will that not affect you?
28:59Knowing that you're, like, number one hobby,
29:02he doesn't really want you to do.
29:05He's never, ever stopped me dancing.
29:08And I really appreciate that.
29:09You don't have to be thankful to your boyfriend.
29:11That's a normal human thing, to do the things that you enjoy.
29:14I know.
29:15It's just, it doesn't sit well with me,
29:18this idea that you might be having your free time dictated by someone else.
29:24Sarah has had some bad experiences and people who've been sort of controlling.
29:28And she hasn't always spotted that red flag.
29:30There is that worry that that might happen again.
29:33Don't let him do what people have done before,
29:35where you stop doing as much and you go into yourself.
29:39There are people before who haven't added joy to your life.
29:43They've made you sad.
29:46We don't want that anymore.
29:48No.
29:48Please.
29:48No, I know.
30:00I recognise some of this.
30:13Sandra's taking me back to the orphanage where we first met 17 years ago.
30:17It's a sort of bittersweet feeling because it's also a place where there was a lot of sadness.
30:23Oh, it's a little bit weird to be here again.
30:33So you were here for?
30:352018.
30:36What was that like?
30:38It was not easier.
30:39Being without my mum and my father, the food was not good.
30:45The beans always have bugs inside.
30:47Really?
30:49And what would happen if you didn't eat the food?
30:52You're going to be hungry.
30:55It's been really difficult.
30:57When I was hungry, I ate fruit in this tree.
31:01What would happen if you were seen?
31:02It was OK?
31:03No, they got angry.
31:05Oh.
31:07Listening to Sandra talk about some of the experiences she had in the orphanage,
31:10there's a lot of baggage, there's a lot of sadness.
31:12We have a lot of things to do, like crochet, I don't know.
31:17You had to make things?
31:18Yeah, and sometimes we have to paint, too.
31:21Because the things we make here, they took to England to sell.
31:25That sounds so tough.
31:27Did you ever want to just run away?
31:28Yeah, one day I tried.
31:31But I tried, just went there, that tree, and then I got scared and come back.
31:37Did many people try and run away?
31:39Yes, a lot.
31:42For me, it's a little bit hard to make me have a lot of memories.
31:48We don't have an easy life in that time.
31:51But I met Finn there, and now he can understand a little bit why I'm so close to my family.
31:59Everything that happened in the past, I left in the past.
32:05And not everything here was bad, no?
32:09My symbol is always with me.
32:12And I was leaving their house with Nayara, Heloisa, and Elsa.
32:20When they turned 40, I think, they changed house.
32:26So it's me and Heloisa.
32:27Stayed together.
32:28Yeah.
32:29That's why you're so close.
32:30The other day, I left the barbecue feeling annoyed that Heloisa was asking those questions in the way she was.
32:38But I actually get it.
32:39They're super protective for a reason.
32:41They've grown up in an incredibly hostile environment.
32:44And so she's very close to her family.
32:49And I'm not.
32:49I come from a family that didn't show much affection to each other.
32:56I didn't have a relationship with my dad growing up.
32:58He was absent for most of my childhood.
33:01Even before my parents split up, I didn't really see much of him.
33:06He was a father that possibly I can't put words into his mouth because he's dead.
33:11But I couldn't put words into my mouth even if he was here.
33:13I always got the sense that he didn't want to be near me.
33:19So I think there wasn't a huge amount of good in my childhood.
33:22I know that's quite dark, but it's also the truth.
33:25But it's nothing in comparison to what Sandra went through.
33:29And I know that now.
33:31Come in.
33:31I don't want to now.
33:32Yes.
33:33Come, come, come.
33:34Oh.
33:35Just be careful.
33:36Yeah, I will be.
33:39It's proper eerie, this.
33:42Uh-huh.
33:42It's a bat.
33:48I'm more scared than you.
33:49Go, honey.
33:50Don't push me in, though.
33:51Come on, be men.
33:53Go.
33:58Son of a bat!
34:00No, thank you.
34:02Let's go.
34:06You can see from here, my bat was there.
34:10Oh, I remember.
34:11How many beds in one room?
34:14Eight.
34:15In that tiny room?
34:16Yeah.
34:17Wow.
34:18I can totally see why family's so important now.
34:21That's why Heloise has said the things she said.
34:24I get it.
34:25Oh, I guess you're going to cry.
34:29Yeah.
34:29I do.
34:33That's given me a lot of perspective.
34:35And maybe now that I'm aware of that, I need to just accept that there are going to be those
34:38questions asked of me.
34:40But I feel like now I'm beginning to become ready to answer some of them.
34:44Don't just stop.
34:49I've had enough.
34:53It's not even funny.
34:55That's the chicken.
35:12You're so good.
35:14Try this.
35:16Ara's made it very clear to me that if I want to be with her, I need to be part of her family.
35:20So tonight, Ara has brought me out for a meal with all of her family.
35:24Let's have a toast for Andy.
35:26And thank you so much for meeting my family.
35:28Thank you so much, Andy.
35:30Thank you for welcoming me.
35:31Tagay!
35:31Tagay!
35:31Tagay!
35:33Tagay!
35:33Tagay!
35:36So Andy, how do you find my family?
35:40I love it.
35:41You're very loud.
35:41Loud and very expressive.
35:42Especially me.
35:42Yeah.
35:43When I'm talking and talking, your face like this.
35:46Because I don't understand so fast.
35:49It's like a machine gun.
35:50Let's go.
35:51I'm going to miss it when I go home.
35:54Your mom, like, speaks 300 words a minute and also manages to eat a bowl of noodles at the
36:00same time.
36:00I don't know how she does it.
36:01We're multitaskers.
36:03It's amazing.
36:04Now you're the part of the loud family.
36:06So you need to be loud.
36:07Okay.
36:08Yeah, yeah.
36:08You need to be loud.
36:10We're all getting along really well, but in the back of my mind, there's something hanging
36:15over me and I'm feeling quite anxious.
36:19I don't feel so good.
36:20I'm going to go out for a minute.
36:22It's a little bit hot now.
36:25The thought of leaving the Philippines without showing Ara how much she means to me is
36:29killing me.
36:31I do have a plan to propose to Ara tonight, but I still don't have mama's permission.
36:39What is going on?
36:41My mom just followed Annie outside.
36:44Is this a prank?
36:45I don't know what to think.
36:48I've got one more chance to get her mom's blessing.
36:51It's now or never.
36:52Annie.
36:54What?
36:54I know you told us to wait, but I can't leave the Philippines without asking Ara to marry
37:04me.
37:06And I can't do that unless I have your blessing.
37:08She doesn't look convinced.
37:23Heart is racing, but I'm not going to give up on this.
37:28I really love her.
37:29So you're asking me.
37:37Since I know you better than before, I can say yes now.
37:46And I hope you will make my daughter happy.
37:51And I will give my blessings.
37:55Thank you, mama.
37:55Good luck.
38:00I'm over the moon that Ara's mom has given me her blessing.
38:02Now there's no going back.
38:04I'm super nervous, and I can't help but think, what if she says no?
38:08So, I like Andy a lot.
38:21And I hope that he gained your trust, not only you, but the family's trust.
38:27He's a nice guy.
38:29I can see it, but he's really serious about your relationship.
38:33Maybe I'm thinking that he wants to propose you.
38:36I don't think he will.
38:44It's too rushed.
38:46I can't believe my mom thinks that Andy will going to propose.
38:50That's crazy.
38:51We only just met.
38:53The way that I saw Andy's face, he's really serious.
38:57But it's up to you.
38:59I am not yet thinking about the proposal because I want to be physically and mentally ready for all of these things.
39:06Because it's so fast, like, we need to think about it a lot.
39:11Yeah, so fast.
39:12Yeah.
39:13I'm loving to getting to know Andy, but I'm not sure if I'm ready to get married yet.
39:18I think I need to learn more about him.
39:21Let's just see where it goes.
39:23Evlenme teklifedeceğim.
39:45I tell my dad, I am going to ask Shannon, will you marry me?
39:56I am looking what my dad say.
39:58I don't know.
39:59My dad wrote of me, I am here this, I am nearly nearly crying.
40:12Now, I know my family like the Shannon, my family support me, and I am going to ask big question.
40:35I don't know what Mete was talking to his dad about in the kitchen.
40:41But the mood seems a lot happier now.
40:44Can you ask your dad, what was Mete like as a kid?
40:49Mete'nin yaramazdıklarını anlata anlata bitiremeyiz.
40:54It is impossible to explain.
40:59Naughty.
41:00Don't worry, darling, trust me.
41:02I am your future husband.
41:11Okie dokie, we sit this restaurant, darling.
41:16Cold outside.
41:18Ok, we sit, drink coffee, let her go.
41:20If you want, we sit this boat.
41:23This one?
41:24Yeah?
41:24Let's go.
41:25Wait, it's not our boat.
41:27Come on.
41:28Really?
41:29Shannon thinks I am taking to her restaurant, but today is my pro-postal day.
41:37That's good.
41:39Why are we getting on a boat?
41:41Like, you told me we're going to a nice restaurant.
41:43Move it, Captain.
41:45Let's go.
41:46Let's go.
41:55The sun is shining and this view is incredible.
42:00It's so romantic for him to have booked this.
42:02It's such a great surprise from Mete.
42:06Cheers.
42:07Cheers.
42:09This view is beautiful.
42:11This is an amazing way to see Istanbul.
42:13Yeah.
42:14You are really cute.
42:17You're good at surprises.
42:20Yes, darling.
42:21We are sitting, we have some drinks.
42:23European side and Asian side.
42:26Where are we?
42:27On to the middle.
42:30Plan's going good.
42:31Let's remake the Titanic.
42:35Yeah, be careful.
42:37Yeah, maybe I am full here.
42:42Close your eyes.
42:44And...
42:45When we are going to the middle of the sea, I have a drink.
42:53I want to spend all my life together with you.
42:57Me too, darling.
42:58Oh, look at this.
42:59Oh, look at this.
43:00Really good.
43:12Will you marry me, baby, cop?
43:13Absolutely, darling.
43:17I am happiest man on the world now because my girls say yes.
43:27Oh.
43:28It was always going to be a yes.
43:30I am really, really happy.
43:32Me too.
43:33We have a lot of plans.
43:46We want to get married.
43:47We want to move to Turkey.
43:50We want you to come to England, visit my family.
43:54Yeah.
43:55Yeah.
43:55The future looks good.
43:57You are with me.
43:58I am okay.
44:01I think we marry and we live in Turkey.
44:07Yeah.
44:09Summer's better.
44:10Weather better.
44:12Lifestyle better.
44:13Cheers.
44:14It's good.
44:38It's fun.
44:40Trekking through the wilderness.
44:42So you just thought, well, I thought I arranged it.
44:44The trip's coming to an end and I feel like it's got to go out on a bonanza.
44:48And I could be really selfish and just say,
44:50Alessandra, can you ask your sister to look after the kids?
44:53But I don't want to be.
44:54Part of embracing this lifestyle has to be embracing everything.
44:58It's race.
45:00Whoa, whoa, whoa.
45:02Okay, mine's definitely going ahead.
45:04I'm not doing anything.
45:06Wow.
45:07You like?
45:08So I've arranged for a horse trek on the outskirts of Brazil.
45:12And let's see if we can do a fun thing together right here, right now.
45:16Whoa, here we go.
45:17Okay, so this is where...
45:19I didn't do...
45:21Sandra, can you tell Lorenzo it's not me, it's the horse?
45:25He thinks I'm doing something.
45:27Lorenzo.
45:28My horse definitely does not like Lorenzo's horse.
45:31And I hope that does not reflect our relationship.
45:34Espera, espera, espera.
45:36That's not working.
45:37Don't see.
45:38I'm trying not to be a punch of it for me.
45:40Oh, my God.
45:41Oh, my God.
45:41There's like a horse attack.
45:44My horse is definitely the most aggressive.
45:47Are you okay?
45:48Yeah.
45:49I feel like on this trip I've come full circle.
45:52Whoa, that's not going to work.
45:54This made me realize we can have good times together.
45:58Wow, that was fun.
46:00Did you enjoy that?
46:01Yeah, I love it.
46:02Do you think your kids enjoyed it?
46:03Of course.
46:04Wow.
46:10This is special.
46:12That's fun, Elisa.
46:13What do you think?
46:14Top five?
46:15Wow, yeah.
46:16Top five life experiences.
46:19Elisa, what do you think of this?
46:21You like?
46:21I like this, Elisa.
46:23The Cachoeira.
46:24I think she likes the ice cream more.
46:26But this is pretty special.
46:29Yeah, I love it.
46:31You can say a good stepfather.
46:34I'm just kidding.
46:36You think so?
46:37Yeah, yeah.
46:39What I've realized is sometimes having fun and staying in the moment is the only way you can live.
46:46And maybe it would be not that bad being a version of a stepdad.
46:52How do you feel after today?
46:54I really enjoy this place.
46:56Thank you for choosing.
46:57You do a great job here.
47:00Really?
47:01Yes.
47:02The kids enjoy.
47:04Yeah, that's what was weird.
47:06Because, like, I started this trip thinking, I definitely will never, ever want to be a stepdad, ever.
47:12But I kind of feel like I could do something similar.
47:17This trip seems to have sort of changed me more than I thought it would do.
47:21And now it's not only about you, it's about the kids.
47:23I feel like I've built some kind of bond with them.
47:26I didn't expect.
47:27But actually, you know, Elisa wanted to wash her hands and she chose me to go with her.
47:31You know, stuff like that, I didn't expect her like that, but there we go.
47:35You know what?
47:36I could see this working more than I thought it could at the start.
47:40I can see him trying to do things.
47:43And it's just now a question of working out the other bits and pieces, the big life decisions to be made.
47:50He really tried and I really appreciate that.
47:53Every time he chose some place, he chose just for me and him.
47:57And then this time, I can see that he tried to change a little bit and choose this place that my kids can enjoy.
48:03And I like that.
48:06I really don't want to go back.
48:08I know I have to.
48:09When you go back to England, I want you to be like you were here.
48:14Communicate a lot with me because, you know, I love this.
48:18And I know you're not so good on this.
48:21I'm sorry to say that.
48:23I just want you to call me more, send me a message.
48:30We cannot be like this forever.
48:35Like you live in England, I live in Brazil.
48:38Just see each other two times a year.
48:43You need to come here and see.
48:46Because being like this, we're just wasting time.
48:50And you know that.
48:53Okay.
48:54Let me think.
48:55Let me go away and think.
48:59A lot's happened in this time together.
49:02I just need to go away from the situation now in order to fully work out how I feel.
49:07There's a lot more to happen.
49:08I'm going to leave Brazil.
49:10And I have more answers than questions.
49:15But at the same time, there's a lot of decisions that need to be made.
49:20David!
49:21I'm sad to be saying goodbye to Elisa and Lorenzo.
49:29They're actually not that annoying.
49:31Will you marry me?
49:44You haven't asked my dad to marry me.
49:51I have to think about it.
49:52It's not really something that makes me comfortable.
49:54I can't stay here a minute longer.
49:58I've got to go.
50:00I'm getting out.
50:01Yes.
50:02Abraham doesn't like me drinking.
50:05You have to try and stop dancing, right?
50:09Since I was last on the show, me and Ali got married.
50:13Visas, ten grand or move to Turkey.
50:17This is a really important trip for me.
50:21I could be moving my entire life to Turkey, so it all rides on this trip now.
50:31Let's go.