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00:00:00five weeks ago our couples met for the very first time at the altar that guy's meant for
00:00:15me and I can't wait to get to know him they've had their honeymoon and moved in together the
00:00:25homestays never ever in my life have I touched a car before saw some relationships flourish
00:00:31everything's going amazingly and others take a nosedive something's not quite right look at me
00:00:37you haven't had the helm this guy's full-on I really don't want to even know anymore tonight
00:00:45I can't see myself changing shouldn't do that relationships are tested in the commitment
00:00:52ceremony my head is telling me to leave and there's no holding back for lack of a better
00:00:58term you've been frigid so who I wouldn't believe wants out of their marriage stay or leave well
00:01:06it's gonna make someone very happy one day was a very hard decision I'm done it's the morning
00:01:19of the commitment ceremony and our couples prepare for the day ahead it's probably too early in the
00:01:27morning for you yeah do you like cinnamon love it
00:01:35there was four in the cupboard that were clean at least surely
00:01:51it's pretty good to have a break from Cheryl and just to our situation things have got tense and
00:02:20they're up and down and I don't really know where I'm at and we've just been reunited with the
00:02:23group so there's a lot going on last night came home from the dinner party and that yeah he wasn't
00:02:29here um it did feel a little bit strange I was thinking there's another unit available so I'm
00:02:37thinking I'll go stay there for a bit and give each other some space I wasn't really that uncomfortable
00:02:47that we needed to kind of separate but if it makes him more comfortable maybe clears his head a little
00:02:52bit then it's probably the best thing to do I don't think everyone knows we're living separately at the
00:02:57moment but there's definitely one or two people that know exactly how I feel look at this point we're
00:03:03staying in different rooms at the moment what is the point you can only do so much and if someone
00:03:12else isn't coming to the party it's not going to work you know he said it got to a point where he was
00:03:17almost crying he felt so unappreciated by Cheryl yeah it's pretty sick feeling if Cheryl's making
00:03:23him feel the worst he's ever felt and he's telling me that he feels unwanted unappreciative there's
00:03:30no respect they can't even have a decent conversation they've had plenty of tiffs so
00:03:34far and it's only been a short amount of time my gut saying leave now the couples must separate to
00:03:44make their decision about the upcoming commitment ceremony don't leave me some couples will be
00:03:51standing strong what do you want me to write there is a wrong answer okay bye I didn't even get lipstick
00:04:04on you while for others it'll be a day of reckoning you can use opportunities like the commitment
00:04:11ceremony to really dig a little bit deeper just you know we get along but I've got loads to think
00:04:20about today this week has given me a lot to think about I'm not sure what's going to happen with only
00:04:31three weeks left till the end of the experiment when our couples must decide whether or not to spend their
00:04:37lives together this commitment ceremony is an extremely telling one for us if they decide to
00:04:43stay another week it means they can see themselves fitting into each other's lives however this may
00:04:49not be the case for all of them
00:04:58the homestay this week made me realize how different our lives really are I've seen how happy Susan is in
00:05:05Perth and it would be hard to ask her to leave so what do you think of the lifestyle thing and then
00:05:19the distance thing and there's an issue for me off of like for Susan moving or just for the people that
00:05:26we are like two beautiful people might you couldn't any better help you know and we hit such a high
00:05:32mate yeah we still are there it's just struggling with our lifestyles and it's yeah I've found a great
00:05:41person who I can connect with for the rest of my life but our lifestyle is a massive challenge so
00:05:50like how do you how do you overcome that though what do you do I don't know mate
00:05:55I feel with with Sean he's saying a lot lately that he's just needing to be on his own for even
00:06:05half an hour an hour or something at different levels he's been backing off which I suppose this
00:06:13actual actually quite natural it's a bit of a self-preservation thing really I think since the
00:06:20homestay I can tell Sean's had a lot on his mind and he can see how much my life in Perth means to
00:06:25me and I think that it's really hit home to him how hard it would be for me to move Susan you did
00:06:33say that you would move for love I was thinking a couple of our drive to the country that's what I
00:06:39was thinking I wasn't thinking moving away from everyone I love we have so many reasons not to be
00:06:46together but I'm not ready to say goodbye to him yet all the values in him I completely want in a
00:06:54person is something I've never found in any other guy a lifestyle battle is killing both of us my head
00:07:08is telling me to leave but my heart is telling me to stay I don't know how much longer we can keep
00:07:14doing this to ourselves I didn't want to come into this experiment to keep someone from their life
00:07:20but at the same time I'm not ready to say goodbye yet you look beautiful very happy
00:07:31stay or leave I'm not sure but yeah it's it does hurt a lot
00:07:40this is the hardest decision that I've had to make so far
00:07:48coming up tensions escalate for lack of a better term you've been frigid
00:07:56like whoa as the pressure of the commitment ceremony stay or leave I think it's my time to
00:08:06it was a very hard decision it's kind of news to me sends one couple you're gonna make someone very
00:08:12happy one day so what you're saying is you don't believe what she's saying you're actually able to
00:08:18breaking point so where does that leave you in this relationship I don't know it has been very rough on
00:08:24I don't know if I can do this anymore I'm done it's vital for our couples to separate before they
00:08:36make their decision to stay or leave the experiment the homestays will have uncovered some real issues
00:08:42between them and they need this time apart to reflect without their partner there my homestay was
00:08:49it was hard work really hard work I just can't even begin to explain an episode I have with her dad
00:08:55who just told me to shreds I want them to present yourself better not no just like somebody coming
00:09:00in like that no I'm not happy at all go back no serious man no don't get changed it's fine but I
00:09:04wouldn't feel more comfortable you don't need a change I don't have to impress anybody shut your mouth
00:09:14seriously you're annoying me you've got no book you would know nothing there you've got no nothing
00:09:18well that's what the cover is nothing you've got nothing yeah this is this is my daughter you just
00:09:23don't exist me you just didn't like just nothing there obviously he was hurt like I'm a little bit hurt
00:09:29this week hopefully if we do both say like we can kind of be settled I do know that Andrew and I do get
00:09:36along what do you mean does it doesn't this give you a firefighter vibe maybe if you take off to
00:09:44top and death points me there was some like connection in chemistry there I wish we could
00:09:53like rewind and start again Andrew and I are committed I do think we both want this um it's just kind of are
00:10:01we willing to kind of work for it still I'm undecided what to do at this point if I was to
00:10:07write leave I don't think I'd feel too badly about it oh no you can either you know try and get that
00:10:14communication there and just continue it as friends I can't see it happening I can't see her wanting to
00:10:20so it's almost like a lost cause yeah I think I've done my bit I'd like to see her make an effort and
00:10:25see something different from her but and it's so hard seeing most of the other couples get along and at
00:10:29least have uh uh you know a type of connection what do you do hang in there and hope for a change or bail
00:10:36out and uh and just go home and date someone else do you think you know what um if Anthony will say
00:10:47stay you know we get to a point where we think and you know this is a really nice place to be
00:10:53but I know that we need to push harder and we need to get to a deeper level but
00:10:58I'm just not sure how when intimacy in relationships it's something that a couple
00:11:04needs to constantly work at because it signals the change from being friends to being lovers
00:11:10and once that line is crossed there's no turning back I think we're both a little bit guarded with
00:11:17the way in which we sort of relate to each other on an intimate level but that's quite natural it is
00:11:23time to up the ante there are moments of affection and intimacy with Nadia but we're still trying
00:11:32to establish the boundaries so I kind of don't know what's appropriate and what's inappropriate at
00:11:37we're all fearful of love to a certain degree I mean god this is hard this is not an easy experiment
00:11:51I'm matched with a stranger and I'm pushed in into an environment which is unfamiliar to me
00:11:58personally I feel Nadia shouldn't have those moments where she is uncomfortable she shouldn't
00:12:04be having that we're far enough in I don't feel I'm in any jeopardy whatsoever this evening as far as
00:12:16getting a tick from Eleni at all how are you feeling I think we have moved up a lot in the last week
00:12:25words can't describe but yeah dad was always one for saying well
00:12:38um hey son if you fall down just get up and you know brush yourself off and have another crack at it
00:12:45so I think he'd be saying just just keep on going out of moat slow and steady wins the race hence why
00:12:53unfortunately I have been taking that approach he's definitely getting more open and deeper and deeper
00:13:00every day every week it's a really full-on situation and I thought the same thing of Andy
00:13:05our home stay went really um like I thought it went really well except on the last day
00:13:10make me look like a idiot
00:13:12this whole thing I have no idea what your personality is like
00:13:19disappointing I've really come out of my shell
00:13:22it's sort of not good enough at the moment
00:13:24it's not bad because I'm like it's come such a long way and then for me to say that'd be like give me more
00:13:28I was like I feel really bad but I'm exhausted and we need to like work together as a team
00:13:33obviously you would know from the beginning and you've barely said anything now I feel like
00:13:37people know him a little bit more and he is opening up just like to uh propose a place
00:13:42I haven't seen you in a long time and really miss you's all so
00:13:44so I'm assuming you and him are right and stay tonight
00:13:51there are only three weeks left in this experiment and as the couples enter this most critical stage
00:14:03the dynamic has changed they've met their partner's family and friends so now they're
00:14:08really assessing whether they want to stay in the relationship
00:14:11so how are you and Nick you look so happy
00:14:15Nick um he does Nick makes me happy
00:14:18um he cracks me up
00:14:20Shaz deserves all the happiness in the world
00:14:22having a guy in your life to share happiness with is
00:14:26is amazing
00:14:27I guess it is a little bit hard sometimes
00:14:29um I do look at Shaz and Nick
00:14:31and I
00:14:33can see Shaz is really happy
00:14:35I guess because I'm trying to take things slow
00:14:37I sort of expect her to take things slow
00:14:39I should be happy for her
00:14:41and I am happy for her
00:14:42I really do care for him
00:14:44and I feel like we just get on
00:14:47it's just effortless
00:14:48and it has been like that since
00:14:50the very first day that we got married
00:14:52so this is where it all began
00:14:55oh bullshit
00:14:57your little trickster
00:14:59didn't expect that
00:15:01I wish that I felt more content
00:15:04with my relationship with Jessie
00:15:07I am definitely a little bit more confused than Sharon
00:15:10I would like to be in her shoes
00:15:12do you have any concerns with Jessie?
00:15:15um
00:15:15yeah
00:15:17yeah absolutely
00:15:18sort of touching base on the homestay
00:15:21I got really emotional that first day at mum's
00:15:24there was a point there back in Perth
00:15:26where I was like
00:15:26I don't know if I can do this anymore
00:15:28like
00:15:29I'm done
00:15:32I
00:15:33can't hide how I feel
00:15:35and I wouldn't want you to pretend
00:15:38no
00:15:38regardless of who Jessie is
00:15:40is it what you want?
00:15:42oh
00:15:43come on
00:15:44have a hug
00:15:46I have a hug
00:15:47some days I wake up and I'm just like
00:15:51I don't know if this can be a forever thing
00:15:54I'm just not sure
00:15:56so I definitely have my ups and my down days
00:16:00and you know there's some great days
00:16:03oh my god
00:16:07you owe me big time
00:16:12I kind of feel like
00:16:15there might be
00:16:17a little bit more of a mateship going on
00:16:21we know we like each other
00:16:23like we're definitely not in a friend zone
00:16:25I'm feeling pretty confident
00:16:30us both walking out here tonight
00:16:32we really like each other
00:16:33and we want to be with each other
00:16:35you know for real
00:16:37I think they've matched you really well
00:16:38but you've just got to determine
00:16:40whether it's a mateship or
00:16:41you know
00:16:42or love
00:16:43yeah
00:16:44yeah
00:16:45if she were to leave tonight
00:16:51I'd definitely say I'd be pretty shocked
00:16:53I'd be pretty gutted
00:16:56I'm pretty sure that she's going to write stay
00:17:00I'm fairly confident
00:17:01if
00:17:01I
00:17:05I can't see her writing leave
00:17:08I
00:17:09Hello gents
00:17:27the decisions have been made
00:17:28and it's time to face the experts
00:17:32I can't move to Perth
00:17:37I can't ask Susan to leave
00:17:39so I don't know how we're going to move forward from here
00:17:41I don't know if I'm ready to leave
00:17:44but at the same time
00:17:45if you hold on too long
00:17:46it's just unhealthy
00:17:47Hey girls
00:17:53we didn't really speak too much last night at the dinner party
00:18:05so I don't know where Andrew's head's at
00:18:07well welcome everybody
00:18:12we are once again in a commitment ceremony
00:18:14where you are going to tell us
00:18:17whether you want to decide to stay or leave
00:18:20now we are five weeks into the experiment
00:18:24and you have been through a number of different challenges
00:18:27most recently
00:18:29you have gone to the bride's homestay
00:18:32where you've been able to get to meet
00:18:35greet
00:18:35and really be tested by family and friends
00:18:39as well as get a glimpse into your partner's life
00:18:43how they lead
00:18:44their day-to-day routines
00:18:47and so we're very excited to find out
00:18:50what pressures it's put on
00:18:52how you've handled it
00:18:53and particularly how you're feeling
00:18:55about where your relationship is at
00:18:58this far along in the experiment
00:19:01for some of you
00:19:02you'll be sailing along
00:19:03your bond will be stronger than ever
00:19:06but for others
00:19:07the pressures will be taking their toll
00:19:09and you'll really be considering
00:19:12whether to stay
00:19:14or whether this experiment has become too much
00:19:17and it's time to move on
00:19:19alright let's get our first couple up
00:19:22here for a chat
00:19:23Michelle and Jess
00:19:24oof
00:19:27it's way down there
00:19:29I feel like I should be feeling more
00:19:31at this moment in time
00:19:33take us into the homestay for you Jesse
00:19:37what surprised you about it?
00:19:38what was difficult?
00:19:40um
00:19:40really getting out of my comfort zone
00:19:44ah
00:19:45tell us more
00:19:46go there Jesse
00:19:48I've got a fake spray tan
00:19:51really?
00:19:53yeah
00:19:54he wasn't impressed
00:19:55he uh
00:19:56he wanted to look into my world
00:19:59and usually in winter time
00:20:01I'd get myself a spray tan
00:20:03and because it was basically my shadow
00:20:04the whole time
00:20:05in Perth
00:20:06I thought
00:20:07I'll book an appointment for two
00:20:08basically you saw him
00:20:10pretty much naked
00:20:11getting a spray tan
00:20:12oh we all did
00:20:13yeah
00:20:13all the women working there
00:20:15everyone
00:20:15in Ella Bache
00:20:16even people out in the street
00:20:17saw me half naked too
00:20:19why is it important to you
00:20:20to do that for Michelle?
00:20:22as much as I know
00:20:24it was going to be very painful for me
00:20:26I knew I was going to make her laugh
00:20:29I was crying with laughter
00:20:33it was the funniest thing I've seen in a long time
00:20:36you know the thing about you guys
00:20:37is friendship
00:20:38locks solid
00:20:39you laugh a lot
00:20:40you're playful
00:20:41you're very relaxed with each other
00:20:42what I want to know
00:20:43what we all want to know
00:20:45is how's the romance coming along?
00:20:47oh you know
00:20:48we're just
00:20:48we're taking it pretty easy
00:20:49um
00:20:50you know
00:20:50with this experiment
00:20:51we've agreed
00:20:52just to take it
00:20:52one step at a time
00:20:54yes
00:20:54we do have a
00:20:55very good friendship
00:20:56you know
00:20:57Jessie and I
00:20:58you know
00:20:58we like where we're at
00:20:59and we're comfortable
00:21:00with where we're at right now
00:21:02but you know
00:21:02we're not 100% about
00:21:04our future
00:21:05Michelle
00:21:07we're five weeks
00:21:09into the experiment
00:21:10yep
00:21:10and observing your relationship
00:21:13from here
00:21:14it doesn't seem to have progressed
00:21:17it's just really plateaued
00:21:19from the very early stages
00:21:21would you agree with that?
00:21:22it's a slow burn
00:21:24I can't say that
00:21:26you know
00:21:26it was love at first sight
00:21:28we enjoyed this company
00:21:31maybe we're just scared of
00:21:34being heartbroken
00:21:36so we sort of maybe
00:21:37as well might distance each other
00:21:38I don't know
00:21:39do you hold back your affection
00:21:41because of this fear
00:21:42of being heartbroken?
00:21:43I don't hold back my affection
00:21:43but I would say my feelings
00:21:45right
00:21:46so you hold back
00:21:46the deeper feelings
00:21:48yeah
00:21:49like say if I went
00:21:50full steam
00:21:51and just fell for her
00:21:52that's happened in the past
00:21:54where every time
00:21:54I would fall for a girl
00:21:56I would end up
00:21:58being heartbroken
00:21:58are you worried
00:22:00that Michelle
00:22:00doesn't feel the same way
00:22:02that you do?
00:22:09in some moments
00:22:11yes
00:22:11can you turn to Michelle
00:22:14and tell her
00:22:16how you feel about her
00:22:18shouldn't have said that
00:22:23don't make it awkward
00:22:24I like you a lot
00:22:30thanks
00:22:35so can you tell Jesse
00:22:43how you feel about him
00:22:45oh look Jesse's amazing
00:22:49you tick all the boxes
00:22:53like most of them
00:22:54so you're going to make
00:23:01someone very happy
00:23:02one day
00:23:02like you're incredible
00:23:06all right then
00:23:13decision time
00:23:14I'm going to ask
00:23:18you Michelle
00:23:20stay or leave
00:23:22we have to deliberate
00:23:26we have to weigh up
00:23:27the pros and cons
00:23:28you know
00:23:32this situation
00:23:34is definitely a challenge
00:23:35for us
00:23:36and I've decided to
00:23:41and for you Michelle
00:23:53stay or leave
00:23:55and I've decided to
00:24:03and for you Jesse
00:24:09you're staying
00:24:15good work
00:24:17bubble riding
00:24:18how cute
00:24:19well it took a
00:24:21goddamn long time
00:24:22to write that
00:24:22no problems with
00:24:25that decision Michelle
00:24:26no not really
00:24:28I mean
00:24:28not really
00:24:30a little bit of
00:24:31doubt there
00:24:32um you know
00:24:33I'm not going to
00:24:34lie and say
00:24:35there's no doubt
00:24:36in my mind
00:24:37that this is going
00:24:37to work
00:24:38did I think
00:24:39long and hard
00:24:40about this
00:24:40yes I did
00:24:41yeah
00:24:42here's something
00:24:44that you should
00:24:44not only you guys
00:24:46but everyone
00:24:46here should keep
00:24:47in mind
00:24:47if you want
00:24:49your bond
00:24:49and connection
00:24:50to grow
00:24:51in these last
00:24:51few weeks
00:24:52you have to
00:24:54take a risk
00:24:55you have to
00:24:56open up
00:24:57yep
00:24:58because frankly
00:24:59keeping your
00:24:59feelings to yourself
00:25:00is not going
00:25:01to cut it
00:25:02you've got to
00:25:03know where
00:25:04your partner
00:25:04stands
00:25:05and now's
00:25:06the time
00:25:06to do it
00:25:07alright
00:25:10go back
00:25:10and join the
00:25:11group
00:25:11cool thank you
00:25:12very much
00:25:12I came into
00:25:15this and
00:25:16I thought I would
00:25:17be more open
00:25:18with my heart
00:25:19and my mind
00:25:19but yeah for some
00:25:20reason there is
00:25:21a little wall
00:25:22it's only a small
00:25:23wall
00:25:23but I
00:25:24yeah I'm sort of
00:25:26guarding myself
00:25:27more than I thought
00:25:27I would
00:25:28our next couple
00:25:29up is Anthony
00:25:31and Nadia
00:25:32there has been
00:25:33times when Nadia
00:25:34has been a little
00:25:34bit standoffish
00:25:35and I think I'm
00:25:36guilty of that as
00:25:37well and that's
00:25:38probably because I'm
00:25:38still trying to work
00:25:39out her boundaries
00:25:40how are you guys
00:25:41how are you
00:25:42you're doing well
00:25:44tell us Anthony
00:25:46you went to a
00:25:48homestay with
00:25:49Nadia and got a
00:25:50taste of it all
00:25:50what was it like
00:25:51homestay was was
00:25:53good in Brisbane
00:25:54I was a little bit
00:25:55out of my comfort
00:25:56zone I live alone
00:25:57I like my own
00:25:58independence my own
00:25:59privacy and Nadia
00:26:01lives with flatmates
00:26:02two lovely girls
00:26:03so that was the
00:26:04first challenge to
00:26:05overcome but if I
00:26:07had my way I'd
00:26:08prefer to be in a
00:26:08hotel and I made
00:26:09that very clear
00:26:10what's the hardest
00:26:15thing when you're
00:26:16going to stay in a
00:26:18completely different
00:26:18environment for you
00:26:19just not having the
00:26:21freedom to behave
00:26:23how you would in your
00:26:23own environment for
00:26:24example I said to
00:26:26Nadia early on I
00:26:27said I'm not the
00:26:27type of person
00:26:27that's just going to
00:26:28go to the fridge and
00:26:29help myself in
00:26:29someone else's house
00:26:30so if I'm hungry
00:26:31feed me if I need
00:26:32to drink give me a
00:26:33drink those sort of
00:26:35things
00:26:35Anthony there's a
00:26:41certain reality about
00:26:42this isn't there
00:26:43this is Nadia's
00:26:43lifestyle if you're
00:26:45going to be having a
00:26:45long distance
00:26:46relationship that's
00:26:47going to be part of
00:26:48it what was your
00:26:49reaction to that
00:26:49Nadia when
00:26:50someone comes to
00:26:52visit me I wouldn't
00:26:53expect them to be
00:26:54sort of hanging off
00:26:55the fridge
00:26:56how's intimacy
00:27:00going with you
00:27:01two
00:27:01it's weird I
00:27:04feel like in
00:27:05this in this
00:27:05process like I
00:27:06feel like it's
00:27:08been very slow
00:27:09even last week I
00:27:11was thinking God
00:27:12you're not very
00:27:13affectionate it's
00:27:13like getting blood
00:27:14out of a stone
00:27:15Nadia would you
00:27:20like things to
00:27:21progress further
00:27:22because it sounds
00:27:22like you would
00:27:23it you know it
00:27:25would be nice
00:27:26sometimes to have
00:27:29Anthony a little
00:27:29bit more responsive
00:27:30because I do feel
00:27:32like I give out a
00:27:33lot of cues which I
00:27:36think sometimes he
00:27:36pulls back on but
00:27:38that's I think a lot
00:27:40to do with his
00:27:41personality
00:27:41if I can say
00:27:48something as well
00:27:49you know you're not
00:27:49a very needy person
00:27:50I don't feel like you
00:27:51need affection or you
00:27:52need attention
00:27:53obviously all women do
00:27:54at certain times but
00:27:55I'm just trying to work
00:27:56out the boundaries
00:27:56and there have been
00:27:57times where for lack
00:28:00of a better term
00:28:00you've been frigid
00:28:01so don't say that
00:28:14in public that's
00:28:14so embarrassing
00:28:15I'm not a very big
00:28:18public display of
00:28:19affection kind of
00:28:20person
00:28:20so you don't really
00:28:22have a leg to stand
00:28:23on
00:28:23but then there are
00:28:24times where I've
00:28:25you know pulled you
00:28:26in you know for a hug
00:28:29and you've just been
00:28:30like so we're both
00:28:33guilty I think you're
00:28:35just as awkward as I
00:28:36am Anthony I'm
00:28:40gathering you'd like
00:28:41things to move a
00:28:42little faster look
00:28:44there have been some
00:28:45times where Nadia has
00:28:46sort of backed away
00:28:49where there could have
00:28:49been a moment to show
00:28:50some romance or some
00:28:51intimacy and look
00:28:53it's not all the time
00:28:54but there have been
00:28:54moments there have
00:28:55been moments you know
00:28:57well it's been great
00:28:59getting a chance to
00:29:01really dive into
00:29:02what's going on
00:29:03between the two of
00:29:04you your relationship
00:29:05as you see it right
00:29:06now after the
00:29:07homestays and on
00:29:08that note let's go
00:29:10to the decision
00:29:11Nadia stay or leave
00:29:20I've decided to stay
00:29:28things are warming up
00:29:32it's a good sign
00:29:32and what about you
00:29:34Anthony
00:29:35great stuff
00:29:42you are taking some
00:29:46responsibility both for
00:29:48your actions and it's
00:29:49through these conversations
00:29:50that you create new
00:29:52agreements new boundaries
00:29:53you're doing a good job
00:29:56to keep it up
00:29:56I mentioned that Nadia was
00:30:02frigid for lack of a
00:30:04better term
00:30:05but so are you
00:30:05so yeah
00:30:06maybe I don't know
00:30:08I don't think I am
00:30:09yeah I think you are
00:30:09so our next couple up
00:30:11Nick and Shazza
00:30:13Shazza
00:30:15you know it
00:30:16you're racing up here
00:30:20you can't wait to tell
00:30:21us what's been going on
00:30:22how was the homestay
00:30:24Nick you went and saw
00:30:25how Sharon likes to
00:30:27live
00:30:27yeah Perth was good
00:30:29definitely different to
00:30:31Melbourne where I'm from
00:30:32but definitely an option
00:30:34maybe I might move there
00:30:36wonder who knows
00:30:36wow
00:30:37have you guys talked
00:30:38about that
00:30:39we have
00:30:40he's um
00:30:41my dad gave him the
00:30:42hard question
00:30:42on that topic
00:30:44rather than us
00:30:44he did it
00:30:45yeah
00:30:45and he said all the
00:30:47right things
00:30:48I must admit
00:30:48we're definitely
00:30:50getting closer
00:30:51yeah learning more
00:30:52and more about each
00:30:53other
00:30:53like I really like
00:30:54where things are going
00:30:55and I feel really
00:30:56comfortable
00:30:56I enjoy Nick's
00:30:57company
00:30:58it's so enjoyable
00:31:00waking up with Nick
00:31:02I believe when you're
00:31:05in Perth
00:31:06you revisited a place
00:31:08that holds very fond
00:31:10memories for you both
00:31:11can you tell us
00:31:12about that
00:31:12I blindfolded Nick
00:31:15on our one month
00:31:16anniversary
00:31:17and chucked him in a car
00:31:18and um
00:31:19yeah took him to
00:31:20where it all began
00:31:20Cavisham House
00:31:21where we got married
00:31:22she did surprise me
00:31:24little bugger
00:31:24it meant the world
00:31:26like yeah
00:31:26it was very special
00:31:27so after four years
00:31:29of being single
00:31:30uh do you feel like
00:31:32those days are done
00:31:33and that you're kind of
00:31:34zeroing in on Sharon
00:31:35look I'm feeling
00:31:37as comfortable
00:31:38as I have
00:31:39um ever
00:31:40so it's definitely
00:31:41moving in that direction
00:31:43so this is the strongest
00:31:45you've ever felt
00:31:46about a woman
00:31:46this is um
00:31:48this is crazy
00:31:49but five weeks later
00:31:51and I'm
00:31:52I'm still
00:31:52I'm blown away
00:31:53I don't believe it
00:31:54and uh
00:31:55yeah I don't think
00:31:56uh
00:31:57I've ever felt this
00:31:58with anyone
00:31:58it's kind of news to me
00:32:00this little bit
00:32:01it's put every other
00:32:03relationship or girl
00:32:04into perspective
00:32:05and that's a big thing
00:32:06for me
00:32:06I hope that you
00:32:08are my last
00:32:08well you guys
00:32:11uh once again
00:32:13have grown
00:32:14uh week by week
00:32:16we need to find out
00:32:18whether you want to
00:32:19stay or leave
00:32:20uh why don't I go
00:32:21to you Nick
00:32:22uh what's the decision
00:32:24yeah I'm done
00:32:27you're staying
00:32:28loud and clear
00:32:30what about you Sharon
00:32:30oh yeah no surprise
00:32:32no that's not a surprise
00:32:34that's great guys
00:32:34it's really nice to see
00:32:36how well
00:32:37you're moving forward
00:32:38so uh you can return
00:32:39to the group
00:32:40and good luck
00:32:40for this week
00:32:41cheers thank you
00:32:42cheers guys
00:32:42cheers
00:32:43Sean and Susan
00:32:46we're definitely
00:32:50having a massive
00:32:51barrier to
00:32:53falling in love
00:32:53with each other
00:32:54and I'm not sure
00:32:56how to get past that
00:32:57and to be in the
00:32:58in love stage
00:32:59I don't really know
00:33:00the answer
00:33:01so Susan
00:33:04tell us
00:33:04what's the most
00:33:05romantic thing
00:33:06he's done for you
00:33:07he bought me this
00:33:08um eternity ring
00:33:10and um
00:33:12I felt pretty special
00:33:14yeah
00:33:15it's opened up my heart
00:33:16to know that there
00:33:17is people out there
00:33:18like Susan
00:33:19that I have been
00:33:21looking for
00:33:22um you know
00:33:23because it's been
00:33:23very hard to find
00:33:24someone with the
00:33:25qualities that
00:33:25that Susan has
00:33:26so Shawnee
00:33:30tell us
00:33:31you went to see
00:33:32how Susan lived
00:33:33I did
00:33:35I did
00:33:35what was it like
00:33:36for you
00:33:37yeah
00:33:39very very different
00:33:40to how my life is
00:33:41um
00:33:42it's like
00:33:42from one extreme
00:33:43to the other
00:33:44it's
00:33:45Susan has
00:33:46a lot of leisure time
00:33:47um
00:33:48you know
00:33:49yep
00:33:49sees lots of friends
00:33:51you know
00:33:51goes out a lot
00:33:52yeah
00:33:52um
00:33:53and
00:33:53and I think
00:33:54it's great
00:33:54I sort of
00:33:55wanted to see
00:33:56on the beach
00:33:56once or twice
00:33:57I'm a bit over it
00:33:58because it's just
00:33:59not me
00:34:00you know
00:34:00it's
00:34:01like
00:34:01I like to be
00:34:02on the land
00:34:02did you feel
00:34:04comfortable
00:34:04in her
00:34:05sort of
00:34:06slice of life
00:34:07or were you
00:34:08a fish out of water
00:34:09most of the time
00:34:11I'll
00:34:11you know
00:34:12sort of
00:34:12was feeling
00:34:13a little bit
00:34:13uncomfortable
00:34:14we went to the beach
00:34:15we went out
00:34:16to the pubs
00:34:17we went here
00:34:18that's not me
00:34:19I'm not used to
00:34:19doing that
00:34:20so it was like
00:34:20whoa
00:34:21and did the experience
00:34:23bring you closer together
00:34:24or did it leave you
00:34:25with more questions
00:34:26with me
00:34:28I think it's
00:34:29like
00:34:30we both believe
00:34:31we're matched
00:34:31really well
00:34:32like personality wise
00:34:33and you know
00:34:34like communicating
00:34:35but
00:34:35I'm feeling
00:34:36sort of like
00:34:37I can't
00:34:38give Susan
00:34:39everything
00:34:40sure
00:34:40and for you
00:34:42Susan
00:34:42did it bring you
00:34:42closer with him
00:34:43Sean needs
00:34:45someone to come
00:34:45on the farm
00:34:46and share
00:34:47in your life
00:34:48feel like
00:34:49there's a point
00:34:50where we get to
00:34:51and then we go
00:34:51we can't fall in love
00:34:53just how are we
00:34:57supposed to make it work
00:34:58we don't
00:35:01see how we can
00:35:02do you want to travel
00:35:07well
00:35:08you know
00:35:09I wouldn't mind
00:35:10going here and there
00:35:11but not all the time
00:35:11no I
00:35:12I don't think
00:35:13I'd enjoy that
00:35:14because
00:35:14I love my farms
00:35:15and I love the horses
00:35:16is that an issue
00:35:17for you Susan
00:35:18massive
00:35:18huge
00:35:19I struggle
00:35:25to
00:35:26like
00:35:27putting
00:35:27this
00:35:28aside
00:35:29I can't
00:35:30see myself
00:35:31you know
00:35:32away from this
00:35:33because that's
00:35:34your identity
00:35:34yeah
00:35:35yeah
00:35:35absolutely
00:35:36so
00:35:36I
00:35:37can't see
00:35:38myself
00:35:39changing
00:35:39that
00:35:40and
00:35:40you know
00:35:41going to
00:35:42Susan's
00:35:42lifestyle
00:35:43vice versa
00:35:43yeah
00:35:45so where does
00:35:49that leave you
00:35:49to
00:35:50in this
00:35:50relationship
00:35:51I don't know
00:35:53I don't know
00:35:54really the answer
00:35:55for
00:35:55so now
00:35:59it's that time
00:36:00where we need
00:36:01to find out
00:36:01whether you
00:36:01want to
00:36:02stay
00:36:02or leave
00:36:03Susan
00:36:08stay
00:36:09or leave
00:36:10well I had
00:36:11to think
00:36:11about this
00:36:12quite a bit
00:36:12actually
00:36:13I wrote
00:36:19stay
00:36:19because
00:36:20I think
00:36:22that's your
00:36:22decision to
00:36:23make
00:36:23look
00:36:28this is
00:36:29something that
00:36:29we've been
00:36:30trying to
00:36:30work out
00:36:30but
00:36:31we're just
00:36:32lost
00:36:32at how
00:36:33we can
00:36:33move forward
00:36:34or overcome
00:36:35this
00:36:35look
00:36:37it was
00:36:38it was a
00:36:38very hard
00:36:39decision
00:36:39I wrote
00:36:52stay
00:36:52because
00:36:54I think
00:36:55that's your
00:36:56decision
00:36:56to make
00:36:57look
00:37:01like this
00:37:03is something
00:37:03that we've
00:37:04been trying
00:37:04to work
00:37:04out
00:37:05but
00:37:06we're just
00:37:06lost
00:37:07at how
00:37:07we can
00:37:07move forward
00:37:08or overcome
00:37:09this
00:37:10it was a
00:37:13very hard
00:37:13decision
00:37:13I'm going to
00:37:20stay
00:37:20didn't see
00:37:29that coming
00:37:30no
00:37:30no
00:37:31so
00:37:33help me
00:37:34understand
00:37:34this
00:37:35because
00:37:36realistically
00:37:37what we've
00:37:38heard tonight
00:37:39is you've
00:37:40sat down
00:37:40and said
00:37:41I'm not
00:37:42what you
00:37:42need
00:37:42and you've
00:37:44said
00:37:44I'm not
00:37:45what you
00:37:45need
00:37:45either
00:37:45and here's
00:37:47a list
00:37:47of reasons
00:37:48why you're
00:37:49so wrong
00:37:49for me
00:37:49and that
00:37:50this can't
00:37:50go forward
00:37:51why stay
00:37:52I see so
00:37:54many good
00:37:54qualities in
00:37:55Susan
00:37:55and you know
00:37:56and I'm
00:37:56learning so
00:37:57much from
00:37:58her
00:37:58you know
00:37:59I don't know
00:38:00what's going
00:38:00to happen
00:38:01tomorrow
00:38:01we've still
00:38:01got a few
00:38:02few weeks
00:38:02to go
00:38:03we may be
00:38:04able to
00:38:04find something
00:38:04that we
00:38:04can get
00:38:05over this
00:38:05you guys
00:38:07are a
00:38:08unique
00:38:08couple
00:38:09you really
00:38:10are
00:38:10I mean
00:38:11we
00:38:11as we're
00:38:12getting to
00:38:12know you
00:38:12over the
00:38:13weeks
00:38:13we're
00:38:14watching
00:38:14the
00:38:15chemistry
00:38:16and the
00:38:17maybe it's
00:38:19love
00:38:19whatever it
00:38:21is
00:38:21we're
00:38:21watching it
00:38:21grow
00:38:22between you
00:38:23and we
00:38:24can't wait
00:38:24to see what
00:38:25happens
00:38:26over the
00:38:26upcoming
00:38:27weeks
00:38:27and you
00:38:28can go
00:38:28back to the
00:38:29group
00:38:29thank you
00:38:29no worries
00:38:30thank you
00:38:30all right
00:38:36next up
00:38:36could we
00:38:36have
00:38:36Simon and
00:38:37Eleni
00:38:37hey
00:38:42hello
00:38:44hello
00:38:44evening
00:38:45hey you
00:38:45too
00:38:45so
00:38:47Simon you
00:38:49got to
00:38:49meet
00:38:50Eleni's
00:38:50family
00:38:51and
00:38:52his
00:38:53man
00:38:53and his
00:38:54dog
00:38:54next door
00:38:55I think
00:38:55just about
00:38:56everyone
00:38:56I think
00:38:57at one
00:38:57stage
00:38:57we had
00:38:57up to
00:38:58about
00:38:58four
00:38:59languages
00:39:00being
00:39:00used
00:39:00at the
00:39:00dinner
00:39:00table
00:39:01Eleni
00:39:04how did he
00:39:04handle himself
00:39:05with your
00:39:05family
00:39:06my parents
00:39:08the most
00:39:08important thing
00:39:09that the guy
00:39:10that I'm
00:39:10with
00:39:10is someone
00:39:11respectful
00:39:12genuine
00:39:12and who
00:39:13would treat
00:39:13me well
00:39:14and Simon
00:39:15is all
00:39:15of that
00:39:16so
00:39:16so far
00:39:17happy
00:39:17we're five
00:39:19weeks into
00:39:19the experiment
00:39:20now
00:39:20and we would
00:39:21expect to be
00:39:22seeing your
00:39:23relationship
00:39:23really deepen
00:39:24that's around
00:39:25discussing
00:39:26the crucial
00:39:27things
00:39:27and also
00:39:28your intimacy
00:39:29emotional
00:39:30physical intimacy
00:39:31is that
00:39:32deep
00:39:32if we are
00:39:34talking about
00:39:35our personal
00:39:36lives and what's
00:39:37happening in our
00:39:37lives I think
00:39:38we are both
00:39:38very open
00:39:39and that
00:39:41is getting
00:39:42deeper I think
00:39:42Simon is getting
00:39:43more and more
00:39:43comfortable maybe
00:39:44talking about his
00:39:45more personal
00:39:46things whether it's
00:39:47family or work
00:39:47maybe every day
00:39:49or every week
00:39:50we are getting
00:39:50closer
00:39:51you know
00:39:53when I've
00:39:54watched you two
00:39:55at these
00:39:56commitment ceremonies
00:39:57the last one
00:39:59was probably
00:39:59the most
00:39:59significant
00:40:00because
00:40:02there was a lot
00:40:03of emotion
00:40:03and we really
00:40:05drilled down
00:40:06on feelings
00:40:07and you went
00:40:09from there
00:40:10to stay in the
00:40:11experiment but also
00:40:12to be more open
00:40:13with your feelings
00:40:13what are you seeing
00:40:15Eleni from Simon
00:40:16this week
00:40:18certainly for example
00:40:20physical affection
00:40:21he certainly
00:40:21has you know
00:40:24improved heaps
00:40:25so are you getting
00:40:27more comfortable
00:40:28being more intimate
00:40:30with Eleni
00:40:30well over the last
00:40:32week yes it has
00:40:33been growing
00:40:34closer yet again
00:40:36at the beginning
00:40:37he would stick to
00:40:38his edge of the bed
00:40:39and I'm the one
00:40:40who has to like
00:40:41slide down
00:40:42this week he's been
00:40:43sleeping in the
00:40:43middle of the bed
00:40:44so he's closer to me
00:40:45yeah
00:40:46turned the air
00:40:47conditioner on too
00:40:48so that made a
00:40:48difference
00:40:49yes and he kind
00:40:50of put his arm
00:40:51on me and I'm
00:40:51like oh hang on
00:40:53are you okay there
00:40:53because I'm like
00:40:55that's unusual
00:40:55alright well it's
00:40:59that time where we
00:41:00need to find out
00:41:01your decision
00:41:01whether you want
00:41:02to stay or leave
00:41:03so let's go to
00:41:04Simon
00:41:05oh BS day
00:41:10great stuff
00:41:11sunshine it all
00:41:12yeah
00:41:13and is that a
00:41:13little picture of
00:41:14her
00:41:14it's a little
00:41:15little picture
00:41:16actually of me
00:41:16with short hair
00:41:17oh
00:41:18and sunny days
00:41:19looking down on
00:41:20future
00:41:21more actions
00:41:24there
00:41:24showing her
00:41:25that you
00:41:26are keen
00:41:27and a little
00:41:29romance thrown
00:41:30in the mix
00:41:30what about you
00:41:34Leanie
00:41:34what have we
00:41:35got stay or
00:41:36leave
00:41:36stay
00:41:38great stuff
00:41:40well we look
00:41:42forward to seeing
00:41:43this carry on
00:41:44grow
00:41:45blossom in front
00:41:46of our eyes
00:41:46thank you
00:41:47return to the
00:41:48group
00:41:48thanks folks
00:41:49right we have
00:41:53Andrew and
00:41:54Vanessa
00:41:55Andrew I'm
00:42:03going to ask
00:42:03you first up
00:42:04because I know
00:42:04you love to
00:42:05chat
00:42:05tell us
00:42:07what was those
00:42:08homestays like
00:42:09fairly intimidating
00:42:11going into
00:42:11an Italian
00:42:12family
00:42:13it was all a bit
00:42:14stressful and it
00:42:15all came to a
00:42:15boiling point
00:42:16I know Vanessa
00:42:17was under a lot
00:42:17of stress
00:42:18and I felt that
00:42:19stress come on
00:42:20to me
00:42:21what happened
00:42:22happened
00:42:22took a step
00:42:24back we dealt
00:42:24with it
00:42:25took a positive
00:42:25out of it
00:42:26and we came
00:42:27through it
00:42:27all right
00:42:27you know
00:42:31Andy's obviously
00:42:31come a long way
00:42:33with opening up
00:42:33with me
00:42:34and with
00:42:35the experiment
00:42:36we've noticed
00:42:37also at the
00:42:38dinner party
00:42:39he's starting
00:42:40to throw himself
00:42:41in the mix
00:42:42how did you feel
00:42:43about that
00:42:43last night
00:42:44for sure
00:42:44like I said
00:42:45to Andy
00:42:45oh you want
00:42:46to get
00:42:46more social
00:42:47than I do
00:42:48and it's true
00:42:49I'm not always
00:42:50little miss social
00:42:50so having Andy
00:42:52by my side
00:42:53makes me
00:42:53not feel like
00:42:54I need to be
00:42:55like that
00:42:55and for once
00:42:56I'm able to
00:42:57relax a bit
00:42:57and have someone
00:42:58else do a bit
00:42:59of the socialising
00:43:00for me
00:43:00which is a nice
00:43:01little break
00:43:02yeah
00:43:02yeah I think
00:43:04every day
00:43:04we're moving
00:43:05forward
00:43:05yeah just
00:43:06looking forward
00:43:07to the rest
00:43:07of the experiment
00:43:08I'm looking forward
00:43:09to getting to know
00:43:09more about Vanessa
00:43:10excited what the
00:43:11future holds
00:43:12we're just seeing
00:43:14a completely
00:43:14different couple
00:43:15right now
00:43:15it's like
00:43:17something has
00:43:18really kicked
00:43:19into gear
00:43:19we need to know
00:43:22whether or not
00:43:22you've decided
00:43:23to stay or leave
00:43:24let's go to
00:43:25you Vanessa
00:43:26what about
00:43:32for you Andy
00:43:33stay or leave
00:43:34I'm staying
00:43:37it's great
00:43:39it really has
00:43:41been uplifting
00:43:42listening to your
00:43:44journey over the
00:43:45last week
00:43:45and we can't
00:43:47wait to see
00:43:47what happens
00:43:48over the upcoming
00:43:49weeks
00:43:50cool thanks very
00:43:51much
00:43:51well done
00:43:51right next up
00:43:57Cheryl and Andrew
00:43:58I'm definitely
00:44:04feeling different
00:44:05to the last two
00:44:06ceremonies with Andrew
00:44:07we haven't really
00:44:08been getting along
00:44:09and nothing's been
00:44:09resolved since the
00:44:10last one
00:44:11tonight's the night
00:44:12where a decision
00:44:14has to be made
00:44:14so do I hold
00:44:17on to any sort
00:44:18of hope
00:44:18or do I go
00:44:18with what I've
00:44:19seen so far
00:44:20all right guys
00:44:26well it's good
00:44:27to see you
00:44:28now you're two
00:44:29weeks into this
00:44:30experiment as a
00:44:31couple
00:44:31Andrew you've
00:44:33gone to Queensland
00:44:34I want to know
00:44:35about what happened
00:44:35with the family
00:44:36meeting the dad
00:44:37he was very
00:44:39abrupt with Andrew
00:44:41but I do
00:44:43understand why I'm
00:44:43his youngest
00:44:44daughter and he
00:44:45wants the best
00:44:45for me but it
00:44:46was to a
00:44:47completely different
00:44:49level than I
00:44:49thought but Andrew
00:44:50held himself really
00:44:52well and I had
00:44:52Andrew's back
00:44:53it is my dad at
00:44:55the end of the
00:44:55day but I stood
00:44:56strong like I was
00:44:57like give him a
00:44:59chance you don't
00:45:00even know him
00:45:00how hard was that
00:45:01for you to do
00:45:02that to choose
00:45:03Andrew over your
00:45:04father oh
00:45:05because I don't
00:45:06know like it was
00:45:06just a natural
00:45:07reaction to do
00:45:08that I don't
00:45:09know like I
00:45:09just felt for
00:45:10Andrew like I'm
00:45:11bringing him to
00:45:12my dad's house
00:45:13obviously do you
00:45:14know what I mean
00:45:14that's a big deal
00:45:15for me Andrew
00:45:16how hard do you
00:45:17think it was for
00:45:17Cheryl to choose
00:45:19you over her
00:45:19father I don't
00:45:20know that she
00:45:20did choose me
00:45:21over her father
00:45:22she was
00:45:25compassionate
00:45:26which was nice
00:45:26for sure look
00:45:28it was being
00:45:29like thrown
00:45:29under a bus
00:45:30it was pretty
00:45:30intense and not
00:45:32many people are
00:45:32going to stand
00:45:32by someone being
00:45:33hit by a bus
00:45:34and not rescue
00:45:34them I felt
00:45:37like I was
00:45:37wiping the slate
00:45:38clean and
00:45:38trying to
00:45:39be lighthearted
00:45:41and lighten
00:45:41the mood
00:45:42my opinion
00:45:44was that I
00:45:45didn't feel
00:45:45Cheryl was
00:45:46interested in
00:45:47making connection
00:45:48or chatting
00:45:48or what
00:45:49made you think
00:45:50that look
00:45:50I interpret
00:45:51some of her
00:45:52chatter as
00:45:53snappy
00:45:54sometimes she
00:45:56might disagree
00:45:56but yeah I
00:45:57did agree
00:45:57we did have a
00:45:58talk about this
00:45:59like I did
00:45:59own up to it
00:46:00obviously because
00:46:01I was just
00:46:01frustrated in that
00:46:02moment obviously
00:46:03I just talked
00:46:04to him in a
00:46:05tone of voice
00:46:06I shouldn't
00:46:06have and then
00:46:06that just makes
00:46:07him more
00:46:07frustrated
00:46:08I'm impressed
00:46:09Cheryl you're
00:46:10taking some
00:46:11responsibility for
00:46:12that
00:46:12Andrew what
00:46:14responsibility do
00:46:14you feel you
00:46:16had in the way
00:46:16the communication
00:46:17broke down
00:46:18what could you
00:46:21have done
00:46:21better or
00:46:22different do you
00:46:23think
00:46:23maybe talk less
00:46:25or something
00:46:26yeah I don't
00:46:27know I'm not
00:46:28sure to be honest
00:46:29I did try a few
00:46:32different things
00:46:33that didn't seem
00:46:34to work so
00:46:34I came to the
00:46:36conclusion that
00:46:36Cheryl wasn't
00:46:37interested and I
00:46:39still feel like that
00:46:40might be the case
00:46:41so what if I told
00:46:43you that Cheryl
00:46:43was interested
00:46:44that she was keen
00:46:46but just felt a
00:46:47little bit awkward
00:46:48with it all
00:46:49no I wouldn't
00:46:50believe you
00:46:50so
00:46:50why not
00:46:53I believe there
00:46:56are plenty of
00:46:56signs that she'd
00:46:58made her mind up
00:46:58and she she's
00:46:59just I wasn't
00:47:01the one for her
00:47:01so
00:47:02we've never
00:47:05had that
00:47:05conversation
00:47:06never said once
00:47:07I was not
00:47:08interested I said
00:47:08I like you and
00:47:09I feel like there
00:47:10is a connection
00:47:10now I don't know
00:47:11if it's going to
00:47:11be a partner
00:47:12connection or a
00:47:13friendship connection
00:47:13but I knew there
00:47:14was something there
00:47:15that's why we
00:47:16re-entered this
00:47:16as a couple
00:47:17I've sat there
00:47:18and I said I do
00:47:18like you it just
00:47:19takes me a bit
00:47:19longer and I'm
00:47:21uncomfortable and
00:47:22you said you're
00:47:22willing to wait
00:47:23but no to say
00:47:25I'm not even
00:47:25interested
00:47:26one of the
00:47:34things that
00:47:35happens with
00:47:35couples regularly
00:47:36is that they
00:47:38assume certain
00:47:38things from
00:47:39actions behaviors
00:47:40that may not
00:47:41be on the
00:47:42mark and
00:47:44even tonight
00:47:44you're saying
00:47:45Cheryl yes I
00:47:47was overwhelmed
00:47:47this was difficult
00:47:48but I like you
00:47:50I just I don't
00:47:52know like I
00:47:52don't even think
00:47:53you see little
00:47:53things I do
00:47:54like and I'm
00:47:55trying
00:47:56it's not
00:47:58hard to show
00:47:59somebody a
00:48:00sign or be
00:48:01considerate or
00:48:02show a certain
00:48:03level of
00:48:03engagement in
00:48:04conversation or
00:48:05through manners or
00:48:06I'm not saying
00:48:08you're lacking
00:48:08manners overly
00:48:09but so what
00:48:11you're saying is
00:48:12you don't believe
00:48:12what she's saying
00:48:13yeah I'm sorry
00:48:16is that actually
00:48:18why would she be
00:48:22saying it
00:48:23I'm not sure
00:48:24how does it
00:48:26make you feel
00:48:26that she says
00:48:27this
00:48:27confused
00:48:28I've been
00:48:30confused all
00:48:31way
00:48:31so I'm
00:48:34right
00:48:34now it's that
00:48:38time where we
00:48:39need to find out
00:48:39whether you want
00:48:40to stay or
00:48:41leave
00:48:41we're going to
00:48:44start with
00:48:44Andrew
00:48:45stay or leave
00:48:46wow
00:48:49I did think a lot
00:48:53about this
00:48:53and
00:48:57Andrew
00:49:03stay or leave
00:49:04I honestly
00:49:15appreciate
00:49:16everything
00:49:18you've done
00:49:19for me
00:49:19and the times
00:49:20you were there
00:49:20for me
00:49:21but I feel
00:49:23like your mind
00:49:24was made up
00:49:25early on
00:49:25so I think
00:49:27it's my time
00:49:28to
00:49:29leave
00:49:31how does that
00:49:37feel Cheryl
00:49:37yeah I totally
00:49:40understand why
00:49:41he wants to
00:49:41leave
00:49:42how does it
00:49:43feel
00:49:43yeah it's
00:49:44kind of upsetting
00:49:45like I want to
00:49:46commit to this
00:49:47but yeah
00:49:49it is upsetting
00:49:50but at the end
00:49:51of the day
00:49:51I do understand
00:49:53it has been
00:49:53very rough
00:49:54on us
00:49:55for the last
00:49:55two weeks
00:49:55what about
00:49:57your decision
00:49:58you've obviously
00:49:59given it a lot
00:50:00of thought
00:50:00you want to
00:50:02stay or leave
00:50:03um
00:50:04stay
00:50:14well as we've
00:50:20said with this
00:50:21experiment
00:50:22that if
00:50:23one person
00:50:24in the relationship
00:50:25decides to stay
00:50:26and the other
00:50:27wants to leave
00:50:28then the couple
00:50:29stays
00:50:29for another
00:50:31week
00:50:31obviously
00:50:32like it's
00:50:33been rough
00:50:34and we've
00:50:34had our
00:50:35doubts
00:50:35um
00:50:36but I feel
00:50:37like in a
00:50:37more stable
00:50:38environment
00:50:39it could
00:50:41work
00:50:41and what are
00:50:44your thoughts
00:50:44Andrew
00:50:45uh it's
00:50:47nice to see
00:50:48Cheryl write
00:50:49something like
00:50:49that down
00:50:49it's almost
00:50:50like a
00:50:51conversation
00:50:51we never
00:50:52had
00:50:52if there's
00:50:54the chance
00:50:54to repair
00:50:56something
00:50:56and at
00:50:56least
00:50:57work
00:50:57towards
00:50:58a
00:50:58positive
00:50:58bond
00:50:59of
00:50:59some
00:50:59sort
00:50:59then
00:51:01that can
00:51:03be done
00:51:03I guess
00:51:03I think
00:51:08wore the bracelet
00:51:08I gave you
00:51:09I know
00:51:09I did not notice
00:51:10just now
00:51:11she's wearing
00:51:14a bracelet
00:51:15she's saying
00:51:16I want to
00:51:16stay
00:51:17putting herself
00:51:17out there
00:51:18in front
00:51:18of everybody
00:51:19what does
00:51:19that tell
00:51:20you
00:51:20she's
00:51:21madly
00:51:22in love
00:51:22with me
00:51:22and my
00:51:23luck's
00:51:23just turned
00:51:24around
00:51:24well look
00:51:27for you guys
00:51:27it's
00:51:28all about
00:51:29communication
00:51:30this is a
00:51:31critical stage
00:51:32of the
00:51:32experiment
00:51:33you can now
00:51:34go and
00:51:35rejoin the
00:51:36group
00:51:36we look forward
00:51:37to seeing
00:51:37how you guys
00:51:38come along
00:51:38from here
00:51:39now that I'm
00:51:43hanging around
00:51:44I'll do my
00:51:44best
00:51:45I'm not sure
00:51:46what we're
00:51:47going to be
00:51:47able to
00:51:47say with
00:51:48I'm really
00:51:49not a negative
00:51:49person but
00:51:50I haven't seen
00:51:51any signs
00:51:52really that
00:51:52Cheryl feels
00:51:53that way
00:51:53so it's
00:51:54confusing
00:51:55to hear
00:51:55that
00:51:55I feel
00:51:57like this
00:51:58week is
00:51:58the week
00:51:59to kind
00:51:59of crack
00:51:59down
00:51:59and kind
00:52:00of hopefully
00:52:00we both
00:52:01understand each
00:52:02other a little
00:52:02bit more
00:52:02well it's
00:52:06great to see
00:52:07that all the
00:52:07couples here
00:52:08have decided
00:52:09to stay
00:52:10and to
00:52:11continue on
00:52:11in this
00:52:12experiment
00:52:12now
00:52:13a lot
00:52:15of you
00:52:15have experienced
00:52:16pressure
00:52:17with these
00:52:18homestays
00:52:18for some
00:52:19of you
00:52:19it's brought
00:52:20you closer
00:52:20together
00:52:21for others
00:52:22it's really
00:52:23left you
00:52:24with a lot
00:52:24of questions
00:52:25that's okay
00:52:27it's normal
00:52:27this is where
00:52:29we're at
00:52:29at the business
00:52:30end of this
00:52:31experiment
00:52:31now coming up
00:52:34things are
00:52:34certainly
00:52:35going to get
00:52:36even tougher
00:52:37for you
00:52:37so what we're
00:52:39going to do
00:52:39this week
00:52:40is we're
00:52:42going to bring
00:52:42you all
00:52:43together
00:52:43and get your
00:52:45nearest and
00:52:46dearest
00:52:46to mix
00:52:47oh my god
00:52:52i don't know
00:52:52if i'm ready
00:52:53for that
00:52:53again
00:52:53a bit worried
00:52:55about what's
00:52:55going to
00:52:56happen
00:52:56i'm scared
00:52:58we want to
00:53:00see how you
00:53:00get along
00:53:01as a couple
00:53:01but also
00:53:02we want to
00:53:03see how
00:53:04the extended
00:53:04group get
00:53:06along together
00:53:06it's what
00:53:07all relationships
00:53:08have to deal
00:53:09with at some
00:53:10stage
00:53:10you're having
00:53:11to deal with
00:53:12it in the
00:53:13six week
00:53:14mark of this
00:53:14experiment
00:53:15and it will
00:53:16be intense
00:53:16i'm very
00:53:18excited to
00:53:19have you
00:53:20know friends
00:53:21um family
00:53:22interact with
00:53:23each other
00:53:23you know like
00:53:24i'm hoping
00:53:24that they
00:53:25might have
00:53:25some answers
00:53:26for us
00:53:26to get
00:53:26through the
00:53:27roadblock
00:53:27but that's
00:53:29not the
00:53:29only thing
00:53:29that we're
00:53:30going to
00:53:30get you
00:53:30to do
00:53:30this week
00:53:31tomorrow
00:53:34night
00:53:35we've
00:53:35decided
00:53:36to split
00:53:36you both
00:53:37up
00:53:37it's going
00:53:40to be a
00:53:40girls night
00:53:41and a
00:53:41boys night
00:53:41the girls
00:53:43are going
00:53:43to go
00:53:43out in
00:53:43town
00:53:44and for
00:53:45the guys
00:53:45you're going
00:53:46to stay
00:53:46in
00:53:47get out
00:53:47of town
00:53:48and the
00:53:51reason why
00:53:51we're doing
00:53:52that guys
00:53:52is because
00:53:53we want
00:53:54you to be
00:53:54able to
00:53:54debrief
00:53:55connect
00:53:56talk about
00:53:57any worries
00:53:58fears that
00:53:58you've got
00:53:59highs and
00:54:00lows
00:54:01and it
00:54:02allows you
00:54:02to get
00:54:03more clarity
00:54:03on where
00:54:04you're at
00:54:04in your
00:54:04relationship
00:54:05which of
00:54:07course is
00:54:07so important
00:54:08as you move
00:54:09forward towards
00:54:10that final
00:54:11decision
00:54:11day
00:54:12I think
00:54:13it's going
00:54:13to be a
00:54:13good thing
00:54:14having that
00:54:15boys time
00:54:16having that
00:54:16girls time
00:54:17who knows
00:54:19a bit of
00:54:19alcohol
00:54:19if it's
00:54:20involved
00:54:20it might
00:54:21get a little
00:54:21bit rowdy
00:54:21whatever
00:54:22but I think
00:54:23that's going
00:54:23to be
00:54:24very very
00:54:24exciting
00:54:25coming up
00:54:28will a wild
00:54:31night out
00:54:32when you
00:54:32have a
00:54:32conversation
00:54:33what are you
00:54:33making eye
00:54:34contact with
00:54:35I don't
00:54:38think that
00:54:38Cheryl deserves
00:54:39to be spoken
00:54:40of in such
00:54:40a manner
00:54:41spell the
00:54:42end for
00:54:42Cheryl and
00:54:43Andrew
00:54:43right now
00:54:45are you
00:54:45taking me
00:54:45single
00:54:46I'm single
00:54:46that's not
00:54:48the sort
00:54:48of people
00:54:49that I
00:54:49want to
00:54:49be around
00:54:50with
00:54:50you know
00:54:50I have
00:54:50a bit
00:54:51of respect
00:54:51it's the
00:55:02morning after
00:55:02the commitment
00:55:03ceremony
00:55:03and Andrew
00:55:04has had some
00:55:05time to
00:55:06reflect on
00:55:07his relationship
00:55:08with Cheryl
00:55:08last night
00:55:10Cheryl was
00:55:10asked what
00:55:11it feels
00:55:11like to
00:55:12have me
00:55:12write leave
00:55:13I don't
00:55:15know if
00:55:15it was
00:55:15the way
00:55:16I took
00:55:17it but
00:55:17it sounded
00:55:18like she
00:55:18choked up
00:55:19a little
00:55:19in a way
00:55:20it was
00:55:21worth more
00:55:21than any
00:55:22conversation
00:55:23we'd had
00:55:23look I'm
00:55:24really trying
00:55:25to keep
00:55:25positive
00:55:26all I
00:55:27can do
00:55:27is let
00:55:28her know
00:55:28I'm still
00:55:29available
00:55:30for friendship
00:55:31for a
00:55:32relationship
00:55:32for some
00:55:33sort of
00:55:34connection
00:55:34I mean
00:55:35there's
00:55:35probably a
00:55:36part of
00:55:36her that
00:55:37thinks
00:55:37that I've
00:55:38given up
00:55:39completely
00:55:39hey
00:55:40hey
00:55:41look all I
00:55:42can do
00:55:42is let
00:55:43her know
00:55:43that there's
00:55:44hope still
00:55:44there
00:55:45if she
00:55:45wants to
00:55:46make that
00:55:46connection
00:55:46and see
00:55:47what happens
00:55:47from there
00:55:48I was so
00:55:49sure early
00:55:50on that
00:55:50you'd made
00:55:51your mind
00:55:51up
00:55:51and writing
00:55:52leave wasn't
00:55:53getting rid
00:55:53of you
00:55:54it was more
00:55:54the fact that
00:55:55I felt like
00:55:55you'd already
00:55:56made your
00:55:57decision
00:55:58that you
00:55:59you had
00:56:00given up
00:56:01so I
00:56:01wrote leave
00:56:02I promise
00:56:03that I'm
00:56:04willing to
00:56:05put the
00:56:05past
00:56:06behind us
00:56:07look I'm
00:56:08so happy
00:56:08to salvage
00:56:09something
00:56:11and I've
00:56:11got a
00:56:12completely
00:56:12open mind
00:56:12what's
00:56:14kind of
00:56:15changed
00:56:15your mind
00:56:16from leaving
00:56:16for now
00:56:17you want
00:56:17to work
00:56:18on it
00:56:18like what's
00:56:19kind of
00:56:20because you
00:56:21sound like
00:56:21a different
00:56:22person this
00:56:22morning
00:56:23I'm a little
00:56:24bit re-energised
00:56:25and a lot
00:56:26of the stigma
00:56:27from what's
00:56:27happened
00:56:27has sort
00:56:28of resided
00:56:29I kind
00:56:32of miss
00:56:32hanging out
00:56:33a bit
00:56:33amongst all
00:56:34our clashes
00:56:35yeah I'm
00:56:36really glad
00:56:37you came
00:56:37over to
00:56:38talk about
00:56:38what happened
00:56:39last night
00:56:39I do feel
00:56:40like it
00:56:40will be
00:56:41more beneficial
00:56:42for us to
00:56:43sit in front
00:56:43of John
00:56:44one on
00:56:44one together
00:56:45to kind
00:56:46of talk
00:56:47about where
00:56:47we're at
00:56:48and get
00:56:48more of an
00:56:49insight of
00:56:49what we
00:56:50could do
00:56:51yeah look
00:56:51I'm 100%
00:56:53up for that
00:56:54this has
00:56:56got to be
00:56:56a step
00:56:57in the right
00:56:57direction
00:56:57surely
00:56:58boys though
00:57:06yep
00:57:06let's go
00:57:07to the
00:57:10sisterhood
00:57:10yeah
00:57:11girl
00:57:12hi
00:57:12cheers
00:57:14yeah
00:57:15looking forward
00:57:18to spending
00:57:19some time
00:57:19just with the
00:57:19boys
00:57:20we can feed
00:57:21off each
00:57:22other and
00:57:22get support
00:57:22and I think
00:57:23time away
00:57:24from Cheryl
00:57:24is good
00:57:25for Jamesy
00:57:25and for
00:57:27those relationships
00:57:28that are struggling
00:57:29particularly his
00:57:29this is crucial
00:57:31for him
00:57:31because it gives
00:57:32him an out
00:57:33and it gives
00:57:33him something
00:57:33to look forward
00:57:34to because
00:57:35he might not
00:57:36be looking forward
00:57:37to going home
00:57:37to Cheryl
00:57:37how do you feel
00:57:41about how
00:57:42last night
00:57:42panned out
00:57:43yeah
00:57:44I was looking
00:57:46forward to
00:57:46last night
00:57:47to kind of
00:57:48talk to the
00:57:48experts
00:57:48and get a little
00:57:49insight
00:57:49but it was
00:57:51a really
00:57:51rocky
00:57:51homestay
00:57:52for both
00:57:52of us
00:57:52I feel
00:57:53like we
00:57:53need to
00:57:54be in
00:57:54a more
00:57:54settled
00:57:55environment
00:57:55it's just
00:57:56been like
00:57:56a whirlwind
00:57:57in these
00:57:57two weeks
00:57:58we had a
00:57:59really long
00:58:00conversation
00:58:00this morning
00:58:00about everything
00:58:01and it was
00:58:02really really
00:58:02good
00:58:02I feel
00:58:04like we're
00:58:04like two
00:58:05different
00:58:05people
00:58:05so yeah
00:58:06it's
00:58:06really really
00:58:07refreshing
00:58:08beautiful
00:58:08but yeah
00:58:09I'm excited
00:58:10meanwhile
00:58:13on the
00:58:13other side
00:58:14of town
00:58:15Andrew
00:58:15has a
00:58:16different
00:58:16take
00:58:17on the
00:58:17relationship
00:58:18I'm the
00:58:18oldest one
00:58:19with the
00:58:20youngest one
00:58:20it was
00:58:21always going
00:58:22to work
00:58:22age is only
00:58:25a number
00:58:25mate
00:58:25age is only
00:58:26a number
00:58:26extensions
00:58:27hair extensions
00:58:29the Kardashians
00:58:32what are you
00:58:33trying to say
00:58:33about the topics
00:58:34that you discuss
00:58:35with Cheryl
00:58:35I know
00:58:36the topics
00:58:37that come up
00:58:37right
00:58:38I mean
00:58:39I can bring
00:58:39up
00:58:40so
00:58:41when you talk
00:58:42to them
00:58:42yeah
00:58:43what do you
00:58:43got to
00:58:43talk
00:58:43it's a funny
00:58:44thing
00:58:44if I talk
00:58:45I get shut
00:58:46down pretty
00:58:46quick
00:58:46with
00:58:46I go
00:58:47it's either
00:58:48like a
00:58:49I don't know
00:58:50as if
00:58:50or
00:58:51it's like
00:58:52yeah
00:58:52genuine
00:58:52but that's it
00:58:54when she talks
00:58:55I try and jump
00:58:56in because I'm like
00:58:57here we go
00:58:57conversation
00:58:58she drives
00:59:00like she talks
00:59:01she drives
00:59:01super quick
00:59:02she's like
00:59:02brocky
00:59:03on Mount
00:59:03Panorama
00:59:03in her area
00:59:04and I grip
00:59:06the Jesus
00:59:06bar
00:59:07no one's
00:59:08business
00:59:08and
00:59:09so when
00:59:10she's
00:59:11confused
00:59:11when you have
00:59:12a conversation
00:59:13what are you
00:59:13making odd
00:59:14contact with
00:59:14oh
00:59:16well I don't
00:59:21think that Cheryl
00:59:22deserves to be
00:59:23spoken of in such
00:59:24a manner
00:59:24everyone deserves
00:59:26a second chance
00:59:27yeah I just
00:59:28think that she's
00:59:29been
00:59:29getting the
00:59:31blunt end of the
00:59:32stick
00:59:32to be honest
00:59:33we've only been
00:59:36on like two
00:59:36dates
00:59:37and they were
00:59:38great dates
00:59:38we got along
00:59:39so well
00:59:39so I know
00:59:39we can go
00:59:40on to that
00:59:40level
00:59:41it was just
00:59:42obviously hard
00:59:42because I was
00:59:43out of my
00:59:43comfort zone
00:59:44so I was
00:59:45very like
00:59:45awkward
00:59:46like
00:59:47feeling
00:59:48overwhelmed
00:59:49but I'm
00:59:50trying
00:59:51really hard
00:59:52out of my
00:59:52comfort zone
00:59:53you talk
00:59:55about
00:59:55affection
00:59:56being too
00:59:56much
00:59:56a conversation
00:59:58seems too
00:59:59much
00:59:59too much
01:00:01I spoke
01:00:01to you
01:00:02I'll just
01:00:04clean up
01:00:04outside
01:00:05and go
01:00:05play guitar
01:00:05for a couple
01:00:06of days
01:00:06oh well
01:00:07that's what
01:00:08you do
01:00:08you back
01:00:08away
01:00:09give them
01:00:09their space
01:00:10when there's
01:00:10too much
01:00:10affection
01:00:10and go
01:00:11set up
01:00:12a tan
01:00:12outside
01:00:12affection
01:00:13you're not
01:00:13even an
01:00:14affection
01:00:14you're hardly
01:00:16at hello
01:00:16I don't
01:00:22know
01:00:22whether
01:00:22he's just
01:00:23trying to
01:00:23impress the
01:00:24boys
01:00:24or you
01:00:26know
01:00:26whether
01:00:26that's
01:00:27how she
01:00:27is
01:00:27carrying
01:00:28on
01:00:28look
01:00:28I really
01:00:29don't
01:00:29know
01:00:30but
01:00:30I just
01:00:31think
01:00:31how he
01:00:31was
01:00:32speaking
01:00:32you know
01:00:32you shouldn't
01:00:33speak like
01:00:33that about
01:00:34girls
01:00:34if that's
01:00:35what he's
01:00:35really
01:00:36feeling
01:00:36people
01:00:37obviously
01:00:38get to
01:00:38see
01:00:38what
01:00:38he's
01:00:38like
01:00:39we've
01:00:41come
01:00:41together
01:00:42by
01:00:42separating
01:00:42into
01:00:43different
01:00:43units
01:00:43so
01:00:45we've
01:00:45had
01:00:45a time
01:00:46apart
01:00:46after
01:00:46two
01:00:46weeks
01:00:47it's
01:00:47been
01:00:47hard
01:00:48when
01:00:51you've
01:00:51spent
01:00:51so
01:00:51much
01:00:51time
01:00:52with
01:00:52someone
01:00:52you
01:00:52needed
01:00:52a little
01:00:53bit
01:00:53of
01:00:53space
01:00:53and
01:00:55that's
01:00:55what
01:00:55we've
01:00:55decided
01:00:56to do
01:00:56so
01:00:57the time
01:00:58together
01:00:58probably
01:00:59will add up
01:01:00to the
01:01:00time
01:01:00we've
01:01:00spent
01:01:00apart
01:01:01and
01:01:01if
01:01:02she
01:01:02was
01:01:02here
01:01:03she
01:01:03would
01:01:03probably
01:01:03disagree
01:01:04about
01:01:05the
01:01:05math
01:01:06what do you
01:01:07think of your
01:01:08chances of it
01:01:09becoming a
01:01:09success
01:01:10I can't
01:01:11say it
01:01:11happening
01:01:11personally
01:01:12but I
01:01:12wish you
01:01:12all the
01:01:13best
01:01:13doesn't
01:01:13surprise me
01:01:14that you
01:01:14say that
01:01:15I don't
01:01:16want to
01:01:17back you
01:01:17and Cheryl
01:01:17no way
01:01:18anyway let's
01:01:19talk about
01:01:20everyone else's
01:01:20marriages
01:01:21slash
01:01:21partnerships
01:01:22slash
01:01:23my wife
01:01:23left me
01:01:24on my
01:01:24first night
01:01:25slash
01:01:25I'm in
01:01:26separate rooms
01:01:26with my
01:01:26partner
01:01:27slash
01:01:27well hang
01:01:28hang on
01:01:28hang on
01:01:29hang on
01:01:29I just
01:01:30want to
01:01:30put in
01:01:31my
01:01:31point of
01:01:31view
01:01:32here
01:01:32how I
01:01:33see
01:01:33them
01:01:33things
01:01:38have
01:01:38spiralled
01:01:39out of
01:01:39control
01:01:40at
01:01:40boys
01:01:40night
01:01:40and
01:01:41Andrew's
01:01:42inappropriate
01:01:42comments
01:01:43have
01:01:43caused
01:01:44Sean
01:01:44to
01:01:44step
01:01:45up
01:01:45and
01:01:45defend
01:01:46Cheryl
01:01:47in
01:01:47her
01:01:47absence
01:01:48I
01:01:48just
01:01:48want
01:01:49to
01:01:49put
01:01:49in
01:01:49my
01:01:49point
01:01:50of
01:01:50view
01:01:50here
01:01:50how I
01:01:50see
01:01:51it
01:01:51I
01:01:53think
01:01:53both
01:01:53years
01:01:53had
01:01:53a
01:01:54pretty
01:01:54hard
01:01:54start
01:01:54you know
01:01:56you's
01:01:56both
01:01:56got
01:01:56married
01:01:57had a
01:01:58runaway
01:01:58bride
01:01:59had one
01:02:00left
01:02:00they weren't
01:02:00real flash
01:02:01you know
01:02:03which wasn't
01:02:03real good
01:02:04so you's
01:02:05both got
01:02:06matched up
01:02:08again
01:02:08went to
01:02:09homestay
01:02:10you got
01:02:10the rough
01:02:10end of
01:02:10the stick
01:02:11there
01:02:11yeah
01:02:12were thinking
01:02:12that you
01:02:13were going
01:02:13to bring
01:02:13someone
01:02:13back
01:02:14and both
01:02:14years
01:02:14had
01:02:14someone
01:02:15different
01:02:16so that
01:02:17was
01:02:17pretty
01:02:18but
01:02:19maybe
01:02:20you know
01:02:20just
01:02:20living
01:02:21in separate
01:02:21apartments
01:02:22might
01:02:22just
01:02:22give
01:02:23you
01:02:23that
01:02:23time
01:02:24to
01:02:24think
01:02:25and
01:02:25okay
01:02:26Susan
01:02:26has
01:02:26worn
01:02:27off
01:02:27on
01:02:27you
01:02:27yeah
01:02:27big time
01:02:28I've never
01:02:28been so
01:02:29positive
01:02:29you think
01:02:31you're not
01:02:31looking at
01:02:32buildings
01:02:32and going
01:02:33oh look at
01:02:34that's so
01:02:34beautiful
01:02:35you just did
01:02:36that
01:02:36I was always
01:02:37like this
01:02:37mate
01:02:38I was always
01:02:38like this
01:02:38I'm a
01:02:39skyscraper
01:02:40just think
01:02:41positive
01:02:42you know
01:02:42that's why
01:02:44I'm still
01:02:45here
01:02:45I know
01:02:46I know
01:02:47Cheryl
01:02:47I thought
01:02:47you handed
01:02:48yourself
01:02:48very well
01:02:48last night
01:02:49actually
01:02:49Jonesy
01:02:49under the
01:02:49circumstances
01:02:50they're all
01:02:52looking at
01:02:53this the wrong
01:02:53way you know
01:02:54like they're
01:02:55all like you
01:02:55know good on
01:02:56you Andrew
01:02:56good on
01:02:57you Andrew
01:02:57and it's all
01:02:57Cheryl Cheryl
01:02:58Cheryl
01:02:58well hey how
01:02:59about to get
01:03:00to know Cheryl
01:03:00first and I
01:03:01think it's really
01:03:02really disappointing
01:03:03and yeah I'm
01:03:05pretty upset
01:03:05about it
01:03:07I'm going to
01:03:19I'm going into this
01:03:20I'm going into this
01:03:31thinking positive
01:03:31we've talked
01:03:33we've talked this
01:03:33we've talked this
01:03:33morning and we're
01:03:34kind of both on
01:03:34the same page
01:03:35I was just a little
01:03:37bit surprised that
01:03:38overnight he must
01:03:39have obviously had
01:03:40a chance to think
01:03:40and is willing
01:03:42to give it a shot
01:03:42it's just
01:03:44communication and
01:03:45obviously we want
01:03:46the same things
01:03:46but we're different
01:03:47people and no one's
01:03:48really compromising
01:03:49so yeah obviously
01:03:51last night when he
01:03:51said he didn't
01:03:52really like believe
01:03:52anything I was
01:03:53saying like I'm
01:03:53trying to be positive
01:03:54and yeah
01:03:55wanted to make a
01:03:56change so yeah
01:03:57that kind of did
01:03:57affect me
01:03:58how the hell have
01:04:00you had one girl
01:04:01leave you and one
01:04:03not be interested
01:04:03what are you doing
01:04:04wrong good question
01:04:05you might come back
01:04:06with Deb
01:04:07I definitely want
01:04:12this to work like
01:04:13I definitely want
01:04:14to like try and
01:04:14think positive and
01:04:15do you know what
01:04:16I'm going to admit
01:04:16I did a lot of
01:04:17things wrong
01:04:18so do you think
01:04:19you were better
01:04:20matched with
01:04:21Lauren or Cheryl
01:04:21Lauren
01:04:23yeah
01:04:26she had a lot
01:04:27going on
01:04:28Lauren had a
01:04:29chance to come
01:04:30back and I
01:04:30knocked it
01:04:31oh really
01:04:32yeah
01:04:33thinking
01:04:34things couldn't
01:04:35get worse
01:04:35oh
01:04:37Lauren's actually
01:04:38heaps more fun
01:04:38to hang out
01:04:39with than
01:04:39I was very
01:04:43unimpressed
01:04:44tonight you know
01:04:44I felt it was
01:04:46pretty unreasonable
01:04:47sure it's cool
01:04:48that's not the
01:04:49sort of people
01:04:49that I want to
01:04:50be around with
01:04:50you know I
01:04:51have a bit of
01:04:51respect
01:04:52alright we're
01:04:54going to ask
01:04:54a question
01:04:54right now
01:04:55are you taking
01:04:56or are you single
01:04:56no I'm single
01:04:58put it this way
01:05:00my body language
01:05:02has not got me
01:05:02there with a
01:05:03beer in my hand
01:05:03clinking glasses
01:05:04saying yeah
01:05:05yeah boys
01:05:06yeah yeah
01:05:06tell them off
01:05:07yeah just bag
01:05:08the shit out of
01:05:09her am I
01:05:09going to go
01:05:10and do that
01:05:10no way
01:05:10how can
01:05:11someone feel
01:05:12good about
01:05:13that
01:05:13guys the
01:05:15last couple
01:05:15of weeks
01:05:16have been
01:05:16hard on me
01:05:17I've been
01:05:19frothing to
01:05:19hang out with
01:05:20boys and
01:05:21it's been
01:05:21an absolute
01:05:22pleasure
01:05:22pleasure
01:05:22so thank
01:05:24you from
01:05:24me
01:05:24and
01:05:25good night
01:05:25and good
01:05:28luck with
01:05:29you and
01:05:29Cheryl
01:05:29you're
01:05:30going to
01:05:31need it
01:05:32wasn't the
01:05:34night that I
01:05:34had planned
01:05:35it was all a
01:05:37bag and Cheryl
01:05:37out session
01:05:38and I thought
01:05:40it was
01:05:41pretty shit
01:05:42actually
01:05:43so
01:05:50answered
01:06:01questions
01:06:02you
01:06:10you
01:06:10you
01:06:11you
01:06:11you
01:06:11you
01:06:11you
01:06:12you
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