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90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After? - Season 9 Episode 4 - A Boy's Best Friend Is His Mother - Full Movie
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00:00:01Previously on 90 Day Fiancé, Happily Ever After.
00:00:04Hmm, America's street. It's the first time.
00:00:07I feel like I am now in a country like, see land, the trees.
00:00:12I'm ready to live in Texas.
00:00:14Howdy, y'all.
00:00:16Thank you nicely.
00:00:17With a cowboy hat.
00:00:19Hey, don't get it, let's get here, baby.
00:00:22All the time.
00:00:25Yes.
00:00:26I don't know if you've noticed, but I kind of stopped, like, inviting you to come to the shows
00:00:33because I just get this feeling that you're not enjoying it and my music's not your vibe.
00:00:38On top of being a realtor, I also sing Bachata.
00:00:42I think Guillermo and I are struggling to connect because I'm so passionate about my music career
00:00:46and he just doesn't support it.
00:00:51You leave to Moldova super soon?
00:00:53Not to move, but yeah, we'll be there soon.
00:00:56But you're going into this thinking of your family.
00:01:00He's going into it thinking of him and then his family.
00:01:06You cheated the f*** on me five months after our marriage.
00:01:11I want a divorce now.
00:01:13I'm done.
00:01:14She really f***ed me over bad and I have the proof.
00:01:18Baby, the f***y train's gone.
00:01:33There's something more.
00:01:34Better tell your mama now.
00:01:39Hello, ma'am.
00:01:40Hey!
00:01:41I've got the pizza you ordered.
00:01:42Cheese with, um, extra large sausage.
00:01:45Yeah, but I don't have any money.
00:01:52You have to pay for this pizza somehow.
00:01:54Come on in.
00:01:56Come on in.
00:01:56Yeah?
00:01:57Yeah, yeah.
00:01:57Come on in, yeah.
00:01:58Why would you order a pizza if you can't afford to pay for it?
00:02:02I can't have another one of these come out of my check.
00:02:05I got six kids to feed, ma'am.
00:02:07Brandon.
00:02:08Who is...
00:02:09It should be sexual.
00:02:11What kind of business do you think we're running, ma'am?
00:02:13I'm going to find some money.
00:02:25Let me...
00:02:27Maybe money is going to be right...
00:02:29Don't knee me, please.
00:02:34We are horrible on play games, Brandon.
00:02:37My name is Brandon.
00:02:40I am 31 years old, and this is my wife, Julia.
00:02:45That's me.
00:02:46We live in Norfolk, Virginia.
00:02:49Yeah, and she is 30 years old from Krasnodar, Russia.
00:02:54I'm so old.
00:02:55A couple more years, and we'll be 80.
00:02:58Shush.
00:02:59Is it not doing it for you?
00:03:02To be honest, I didn't know.
00:03:03What if I did an accent?
00:03:04My name is Joseph.
00:03:05You wanted to eat the pizza.
00:03:08You're trying to make Italian accents?
00:03:10Yeah.
00:03:12Julia and I have never roleplayed before.
00:03:14I'm really making an effort here, trying to spice things up,
00:03:18because we haven't had much of a sex life lately.
00:03:22I never see roleplay as, like, attractive.
00:03:25How is roleplay going to be sexually attractive to somebody?
00:03:28Get to dress up, be somebody other than you.
00:03:31Can you be our Johnny Depp?
00:03:34I mean, we can do pirates next week.
00:03:37It's fine.
00:03:39Sex jazz isn't that important for me, but I know it is for Brandon.
00:03:44So I want to work on it and get back on how we used to be.
00:03:48Julia and I met through my best friend.
00:03:55We fell in love.
00:03:56We filed for the K-1 visa.
00:03:58Julia came to America, and we got married four years ago, right in the middle of the pandemic.
00:04:04And nobody come to our wedding.
00:04:07Not my family, not my friends, nobody.
00:04:10Only Brandon parents.
00:04:13The past couple years, we've had our challenges.
00:04:18We just got out of couples therapy.
00:04:20Overall, the therapy was helpful.
00:04:22It's just not an immediate fix.
00:04:25We still are fighting about getting pregnant and having a family.
00:04:31It's a long way to go.
00:04:34When they say, like, I don't want kids, I can't have kids.
00:04:41We decided that Julia would get a second opinion from a doctor about her fertility,
00:04:46and we haven't given up because we love each other.
00:04:51Take off this hair.
00:04:52That is better than sex, Brandon.
00:05:13I don't know if it's better than sex, but...
00:05:15Stop eating when you're talking.
00:05:18Sorry, this pizza's good.
00:05:19I've never seen a role play where they eat the pizza first.
00:05:28I'm not in a mood to have a sex and anything, Brandon.
00:05:32I'm too much stress.
00:05:35I don't know how you are.
00:05:39How I'm what?
00:05:40Not stressing?
00:05:41Mm-hmm.
00:05:41I'm going to meet my family almost two weeks, Brandon.
00:05:44Since couples therapy, we decided that, you know, Julia would get a second opinion from
00:05:50a doctor about her fertility.
00:05:51In exchange for Julia agreeing to the fertility test, she's going to bring her parents here.
00:05:57My parents visiting us in the U.S. for one month, and when I'm here, we're going to have a second
00:06:03wedding ceremony in Miami.
00:06:06So I think that's a good symbolic moment to us.
00:06:10Oh, that's just, it's really beautiful, it's really emotional, because that's just my dreams,
00:06:16that's my parents' dreams to, like, be with me.
00:06:19And that just means a lot to me.
00:06:22Well, where's your parents going to stay?
00:06:27They're going to have two different rooms here.
00:06:29We already only have one bedroom, and it's my mom's.
00:06:32This is, oh, don't even start.
00:06:34That's not your mom.
00:06:35She will never have her room in our house.
00:06:37That's his guest room.
00:06:39I'm already going to have a guest room for my parents, and I want to show you.
00:06:45We need to move your mom's style, because it's too much your style.
00:06:48Brandon's mom's have a key from our house, and she...
00:06:52She sometimes stops by when she wants.
00:06:54They live an hour and a half away now, so it's nice that we have a room for them when
00:06:59they come and visit.
00:07:04Oh, my God.
00:07:06Welcome home.
00:07:09I want them to feel like a home.
00:07:11Then you should have put Russian flags up if you wanted them to feel like a home.
00:07:13No, I want them to feel like a second home.
00:07:16So I put multiple stuff.
00:07:19Your mom...
00:07:20That's only half.
00:07:23Every drawer is with her stuff.
00:07:26Every drawer.
00:07:27If you open any drawers, it's your mom's stuff.
00:07:30Take a breath.
00:07:35I'm too much stressed.
00:07:37Yeah, I know.
00:07:38And you're already taking it out on me.
00:07:40I really want this visit to be good, but I'm nervous.
00:07:47Her parents are divorced, and it's stressful hoping, wondering if they're going to get along.
00:07:52When Julia's parents stress her out, guess who she takes it out on?
00:07:56Me.
00:07:57I hope everything will be good, and everything will be how I plan.
00:08:05Honestly, I'm trying to stay calm, but what I really want to focus on right now is starting
00:08:12our family, not bringing her family here.
00:08:15How much stuff is in here?
00:08:17Yeah, this is half your mom's stuff here.
00:08:20Too many stuff.
00:08:27Allah-u-ak-bar, Allah-u-ak-bar.
00:08:42Por?
00:08:44Lily, we need to move to cabin very soon.
00:08:57Today, Anand is coming with me to his first ultrasound to see baby Zayn.
00:09:15The first name to my baby is Zayn.
00:09:19He's mean in Arabic language.
00:09:21He's mean like in the beauty things, and it's like sweet, and like the good things to eyes
00:09:26like to see.
00:09:27To be honest.
00:09:28I had a top name that I really, really liked.
00:09:31More than Zayn.
00:09:33I thought it was so cute that we met at the airport, and so I wanted to name our new baby
00:09:37Air, but I never said no.
00:09:41It's so cute.
00:09:42It's so cute in your eyes, but this means in Arabic, it's something private.
00:09:46Like a private thing.
00:09:49Like a private part.
00:09:51And half a mile, you're exiting here.
00:10:01What are you doing?
00:10:02That's so important.
00:10:04Talking to people, to kitchen people, to floor people, and this stuff.
00:10:09Baby, you literally just drifted into the other lane.
00:10:12Can you just not do that right now?
00:10:15So angry now.
00:10:16Why?
00:10:18I need to cabin to finish so soon.
00:10:22I can't be in hotels.
00:10:24You see, the hotel, like horrible.
00:10:26It's stuff everywhere, and our stuff, my stuff, and your stuff.
00:10:32Baby, stop.
00:10:35Not this one.
00:10:37You're going east.
00:10:40If you don't want to be driven around by your pregnant wife, then I suggest you start driving
00:10:45properly.
00:10:48Stop talking about my driving, please.
00:10:51Please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please.
00:10:55No, it's annoying me, and I don't want us getting pulled over.
00:11:00I don't want you going to jail.
00:11:02I don't want you...
00:11:03Don't worry about me.
00:11:04Don't worry about the jail.
00:11:05Okay, well, what about me?
00:11:06Don't worry.
00:11:07And your baby?
00:11:07I know that in Arnon's culture, men don't like to be criticized by their wives.
00:11:16I'm supposed to be nice and cute and praising him, but when it comes to my safety or my children's
00:11:24safety, I will say what's on my mind.
00:11:27I don't want you getting us in a car accident, and everything that you do impacts me and our
00:11:33family.
00:11:33Don't worry.
00:11:34Like, I'm supposed to be passenger princess over here, and I'm not.
00:11:38I'm stressed.
00:11:38Stop, stop, stop, stop.
00:11:40When I am angry, stop talking, please.
00:11:43You are my wife.
00:11:44You should have stuck with me everywhere.
00:11:47Arnon doesn't take accountability for his actions, and it's ridiculous.
00:11:53He knows he married an American, and we're living in America right now, so he needs to play
00:11:58by my rules, whether he likes it or not.
00:12:01Okay, the next time, I will drive.
00:12:04Stop talking, Tiger.
00:12:06Stop driving bad.
00:12:08I'm so annoying and angry now.
00:12:10Please stop, stop.
00:12:15This is chaos, babe.
00:12:16How are we going to carry eight suitcases in an airport and have our two kids?
00:12:21It's not a big deal.
00:12:21What are you worried about?
00:12:24I mean, it's not that hard as your thing.
00:12:27Fly on the airplane?
00:12:31The things he's accusing me of, what is the evidence?
00:12:36He wants to divorce me for something that is not true.
00:12:40It's like someone receiving a life sentence for a crime that they never did.
00:12:44What is it?
00:12:58What is it?
00:13:01We share.
00:13:07Hello.
00:13:08Got more suitcases for Moldova.
00:13:11How many suitcases do you think we need?
00:13:14A lot.
00:13:15All of them.
00:13:16Everything.
00:13:18We need everything.
00:13:19I mean, we have each two suitcases per person.
00:13:22We can bring eight.
00:13:24Should we take the TVs off the wall, too, and put those in the suitcase?
00:13:27Believe me, we have the best TVs over here in Moldova.
00:13:29I just want to take you higher than before and open up the door to everything that's possible.
00:13:39This is chaos, babe.
00:13:41How are we going to carry eight suitcases in an airport and have our two kids?
00:13:46It's not a big deal.
00:13:46What are you worried about?
00:13:48We're packing for our trip to Moldova, and Andre is literally running around like he's a chicken with his head cut off.
00:13:59Where's the other one?
00:14:01I have another suitcase.
00:14:02Hold on.
00:14:02I'm going to bring another one.
00:14:04Oh, my gosh.
00:14:05We need to be focusing on important things when we get there, not packing up useless s***.
00:14:11We need to look at schools.
00:14:13We need to look at houses.
00:14:14Like, there's a lot of things that we need to accomplish before just picking up and leaving.
00:14:19I mean, it's not that hard as you think.
00:14:21It's just, you can literally move.
00:14:25Babe, look at Winston.
00:14:30There you go.
00:14:31Hey, we cannot send you a suitcases.
00:14:33You are far too precious of cargo to be in here.
00:14:37Why do they like suitcases so much for children?
00:14:39I think it's just like a closed space.
00:14:41I remember, Ellie was like, loved it too.
00:14:43They're like cats.
00:14:43Are you a cat?
00:14:47Initially, when Andre told me the idea of moving to Moldova, I didn't like it.
00:14:52I didn't think that it was a good idea.
00:14:54But the more we had talked about it and, you know, looked at the pros and the cons,
00:14:58I was more open to it.
00:15:01Fly on the airplane?
00:15:06That's my son.
00:15:08People are not double-faced or triple-faced or...
00:15:12Two-faced.
00:15:13Or, you know, whatever they are.
00:15:15Because I think you can feel them out.
00:15:17I think the population is smaller.
00:15:19And that's why we have, like, more, you know, like, genuine relationship.
00:15:23Over here, people come and go.
00:15:24Like, it's just like, you know?
00:15:25Yeah.
00:15:27Yeah.
00:15:27What about my dad?
00:15:28He's a genuine person.
00:15:30We did ask him to meet us there in a week to help with the house hunting.
00:15:33I think that it's a brilliant idea for my dad to come with us to Moldova.
00:15:43I think he's just going to help us scope it out.
00:15:45I mean, he knows a lot about real estate.
00:15:47Maybe he can help us find a nice property there and give us an idea if it would be a good investment or not.
00:15:53I mean, my dad is very, you know, experienced in this department.
00:15:57So why the hell not?
00:16:00My dad is pretty laid back.
00:16:02I don't think it's going to be that big of a deal.
00:16:05Okay.
00:16:07Jack and I have come so far in our relationship.
00:16:10In the past, we had big disagreements.
00:16:13The last three years, we became friends, and I don't want to ruin that.
00:16:16At the same time, I'm afraid if he's coming to Moldova, he's going to just rush the whole thing.
00:16:21You're like, that's what I'm worried about.
00:16:24If she doesn't want to move to Moldova, I don't know what the f*** is going to happen.
00:16:30You know what, babe?
00:16:31Everything is going to be in war.
00:16:33You don't even know what's going to happen.
00:16:36It's going to be great.
00:16:37Come on.
00:16:38You in it or what?
00:16:39Come on.
00:16:41Come on.
00:16:42A handshake?
00:16:43Come on.
00:16:44Come on.
00:16:45Don't be silly.
00:16:45Let's go.
00:16:46You're going to like it.
00:16:47I love you, but you're really annoying.
00:16:49You're annoying.
00:16:49Your hair is in my mouth.
00:16:52All right, let's do it.
00:16:53Let's get my kids.
00:16:54Come on.
00:16:54Let's throw this s*** next to the door.
00:16:56I think it's finally starting to set in that we are actually leaving.
00:17:00It kind of freaks me out because this trip is going to determine whether it's the right
00:17:07time to move our entire family there.
00:17:12Save the energy for the plane with the kids.
00:17:14We're going to need it.
00:17:15Please don't hold me close and tell me it's okay.
00:17:44I know I'm so close to blocking.
00:17:48I'll check out.
00:17:53The things he's accusing me of, what is the f***ing evidence?
00:17:58He doesn't care.
00:17:59He wants to believe whatever the f*** he wants to believe.
00:18:01I think I pretty much said everything I wanted to say.
00:18:11I don't like to have these kind of conversations, but it had to be done.
00:18:18I believe Jasmine tricked me into this open marriage idea.
00:18:27She had Matt selected and she proposed an open marriage to cover her ass so that her and Matt no longer had to hide their relationship.
00:18:36Who does that?
00:18:41I just have a hard time believing Jasmine nowadays because she's lied to me so many times.
00:18:47I don't know when she's telling the truth or not.
00:18:49I don't tell the truth.
00:18:57Mama, are you ready?
00:19:12No.
00:19:13Why?
00:19:15Don't worry about that loser, honey.
00:19:18Damn.
00:19:19All right.
00:19:20Come.
00:19:21Come beautiful.
00:19:23I dare you.
00:19:24Oh, be careful.
00:19:25What hurts me the most is the fact that he wants to divorce me for something that is
00:19:32not true.
00:19:33Okay, Matt's phone number is in my record, but Gino knew that I was friends with Matt and
00:19:39he would give me rides to the gym.
00:19:41So that doesn't prove whatsoever, and I have an explanation for those calls.
00:19:46If he wants to divorce me and hate me, he could hate me for any other thing except from
00:19:51that.
00:19:51And that's why I'm so hurt, because it's like someone receiving a life sentence for
00:19:57a crime that they never did.
00:19:59That's how it feels.
00:20:00It went so bad.
00:20:14You have no idea all the things he was accusing me.
00:20:17He said that I've been cheating on him with you since Christmas.
00:20:21Ah, that's crazy.
00:20:24He's making up scenarios and he believes his own story.
00:20:28And it's exactly like he's so into like, this is the truth, that he believes those lies.
00:20:35Matt.
00:20:35Honestly, I was expecting Gino to be Gino, which is talk to her like, treat her like
00:20:46part of me wanted it to happen like this, though.
00:20:50Maybe if she completely sees, like, how this guy is, actually see what's worth her time and
00:21:00see that I'm the one that's picking up the pieces.
00:21:03I'm the one that's always supporting her.
00:21:06So she can see what a real man looks like.
00:21:09Because, I don't know.
00:21:14You know, like, I don't even know who the I married.
00:21:19And he said he wants to get divorced.
00:21:24That's what he wants.
00:21:26I really don't know how a guy his age has the energy for this.
00:21:30Like, even at my age, I'm like, I'm tired.
00:21:33Like, I couldn't even be this angry and long to argue all the time.
00:21:37Like, I don't know.
00:21:39He me over, Matt.
00:21:44He doesn't care about me.
00:21:47He never did.
00:21:50That's Gino for you.
00:21:56I just want to go and see my dog, please.
00:22:05At this moment, after all the evidence I've seen
00:22:08of this, which I do have in writing, you know, it's not something I think I can live with.
00:22:18So, I don't know.
00:22:20Um, I mean, there might be a small chance, but, of hope for us, but, I would say it's small.
00:22:32Small.
00:22:33Small.
00:22:33Small.
00:22:33Is it going to work?
00:22:43And I just don't know what to do.
00:22:45Like, I want my family back.
00:22:47Do everything you can.
00:22:48I feel like there's still love, because I love her.
00:22:52And this kind of love is not something that will just disappear.
00:22:59This has to be special.
00:23:00We are, like, looking forward to going, and it's horrible now.
00:23:04What I did to you.
00:23:05She is making a problem, and she is crying, and she is making, it's my fault.
00:23:20And turn.
00:23:21Turn.
00:23:43Yay.
00:23:44Not bad.
00:23:44Yeah.
00:23:44Not bad for, like, the fourth time.
00:23:47Yay.
00:23:47Yay.
00:23:48Nice.
00:23:49Shake it off.
00:23:50Shake it, shake, shake it, shake it.
00:23:51Shake it, shake it, shake it.
00:23:52The shake part is good.
00:23:53I'm good with that.
00:23:54Okay.
00:23:55I just want to drop it low real quick.
00:23:56Super excited.
00:23:57About the show, too.
00:23:58Yeah.
00:23:59Yeah.
00:23:59So, it's, um, yeah, a new song that is more, I think, more club vibes than anything that I've
00:24:04released so far.
00:24:05So, I wanted it to have, like, a big, like, girls, sex, like, vibes.
00:24:10Yeah.
00:24:10For the performance.
00:24:11I'm rehearsing for my big show next week for the release of my new single, Lento.
00:24:17So, this is a really big event for me.
00:24:19And after this performance, literally the very next day, I'm going to get on a plane.
00:24:22I'm headed to Milan to work with a Bachata producer that wants to work with me at a label.
00:24:27I'm excited and I'm nervous to kind of network and meet other producers and DJs.
00:24:31I can come back and perform there because they know and like me.
00:24:33And so, it's a whole, it's a big trip for a lot of reasons.
00:24:37It really feels like my career is taking off.
00:24:40And I'm just so pumped.
00:24:42I'm thrilled.
00:24:42The whole premise, which, it's in Spanish.
00:24:47You heard it, right?
00:24:47Lento.
00:24:48Yeah.
00:24:48And you know.
00:24:49But it's basically, lento means slowly.
00:24:51And it's like, you know, you meet someone in the club and you guys are dancing Bachata.
00:24:54You know when you're really vibing and you actually get to dance with someone that you're
00:24:57actually, like, hot for?
00:24:58Like, it's a good connection.
00:24:59Yeah, exactly.
00:25:00And you're like, damn, let me be slow.
00:25:02And cute.
00:25:03You know, like, that's like the whole point of the song.
00:25:04Like, you're actually dancing with someone that you, like, would like to hook up with.
00:25:09And it's like fuego, fire, you know?
00:25:12There was a time when Guillermo and I used to be hot on the dance floor.
00:25:16We used to be able to connect and communicate well and really care.
00:25:21And it just feels more and more like all of that's gone away.
00:25:25The last thing I want to do is break up my family.
00:25:27I very much love Guillermo.
00:25:28I'm trying to have hope that he will show up to my performance next week like he said
00:25:32he would.
00:25:33And be supportive.
00:25:34And, you know, just like positive energy would be nice.
00:25:38But ultimately, I'm going to need more from him consistently if we're going to get back
00:25:43to where we were.
00:25:49All right, here.
00:25:51You guys want to grab one of these so we can go over it?
00:25:53Guillermo?
00:25:54Yes, sir.
00:25:55Today, I have to go to work at the restaurant.
00:25:58I work with my friend and manager, Benos, that is actually from Mexico.
00:26:03It's going to be a busy night.
00:26:05We have some new things on the menu.
00:26:06Benos is a great friend.
00:26:09We understand each other because we are both immigrants.
00:26:12And I really appreciate him.
00:26:14I just want you guys to pay attention to the customers, you know.
00:26:17Do what you do.
00:26:18Sell up.
00:26:20If you want, I can take it.
00:26:21Yeah.
00:26:22Is it going to rain?
00:26:24About 15%.
00:26:25Again, we're in Virginia.
00:26:27Just put those over here, Guillermo.
00:26:29All right.
00:26:30All right.
00:26:30So, what's going on?
00:26:35How current musical career is going?
00:26:38I mean, it's cute.
00:26:40What do you mean it's cute?
00:26:41Like, it's bachata.
00:26:42I don't follow the new kind of bachata.
00:26:46The bachata that I listen to is like the old school, like, you know, old people's s***.
00:26:50And as soon as I say something, she gets mad.
00:26:54She gets mad.
00:26:55But you support her with this, right?
00:26:56I mean...
00:26:57Tell me.
00:27:02Something's wrong.
00:27:03Yes.
00:27:04Okay.
00:27:05I mean, I just...
00:27:06That s*** people around are so s*** weird, in my opinion.
00:27:09You know, grown-ups, they're drinking, dancing, so...
00:27:13For me, I'm a very classic person.
00:27:16I like traditional bachata instead of this revolutionary pop bachata.
00:27:23But it's not about that.
00:27:24It's about all of the things that go around it.
00:27:27Like, going out, drinking, partying.
00:27:30Those are the things that I don't think we are in the space for that right now.
00:27:34We have a little child.
00:27:35And if you want to pursue a dream like that, that is the music,
00:27:39it needs to be more of music, less party.
00:27:46You know, the worst part is that, you know, in the very beginning,
00:27:49life, it was beautiful.
00:27:51Everything was sparkles.
00:27:52Now it's like none.
00:27:54And, you know, the more time that goes, the more I feel like...
00:27:59I mean, I don't want to say it, but it's like, is it going to work?
00:28:01Is it...
00:28:02Is it...
00:28:02Like, what's going on?
00:28:04So now you're doubting the relationship?
00:28:09Like, since three months ago, we've been sleeping separate.
00:28:14What do you mean, sleeping separately?
00:28:16Like...
00:28:17Separate rooms.
00:28:18Just the feeling of waking up alone is just so weird.
00:28:23It's just so weird.
00:28:24I mean, you know, you have your husband.
00:28:25So no physical, no contact, nothing.
00:28:27No physical, no anything, for three months.
00:28:33I just don't know what to do.
00:28:35Like, I want my family back.
00:28:38Oh, have you talked to her about it?
00:28:40Every time we talk about it, it's just like drama.
00:28:43Yeah, it's just more a fight.
00:28:45I feel so weird.
00:28:52It's a little bit of a roller coaster right now.
00:28:57I feel like there's still love, 100%, because I love her.
00:29:03And this kind of love is not something that will just disappear.
00:29:07I mean, I saw how she was pushing out my baby from that moment.
00:29:13And, you know, so many different things have been getting, you know, the love bigger.
00:29:18But some others have been, like, you know, getting stabbed.
00:29:23It's just so difficult how to explain this whole thing.
00:29:27I feel like we could try to fix it for us, for Nico, for our family.
00:29:33We need to try to fix it.
00:29:35But at the same time, it's hard to see a very clear way to, like, okay, we're going to be able to fix all of our problems.
00:29:48I'm telling you as a friend, I really think that you need to support her and show up.
00:29:53Even if it's five minutes, ten minutes, do everything you can.
00:30:05All right.
00:30:22Great.
00:30:35Come on.
00:31:03I don't want to go.
00:31:06You go.
00:31:07Why?
00:31:08Because this was supposed to be, like, something, like, good.
00:31:13And you, like, ruined it.
00:31:14You made it so bad.
00:31:15And I don't want to go anymore.
00:31:18This has to be special.
00:31:19We were, like, looking forward to going.
00:31:22And it's horrible now.
00:31:23And I don't want to go.
00:31:24You're putting me and the baby and you in dating.
00:31:42It's enough to make a problem.
00:31:44I didn't do anything.
00:31:46That's the problem.
00:31:47You think you didn't do anything.
00:31:50You're putting me and the baby and you in danger.
00:31:55Okay.
00:31:55I am a bad person now.
00:31:57I didn't say you're a bad person.
00:31:58I said your driving is bad.
00:32:00It's your decision whether or not you want to fix this and move forward or if you don't.
00:32:08It's your decision.
00:32:09But I'm not going in like this.
00:32:10It feels really immature to me when Adnan acts like the rules don't apply to him.
00:32:26I already have two children and one on the way.
00:32:30I really didn't think I was marrying one, too.
00:32:37You're not making me feel comfortable whenever you're driving.
00:32:40When I see Tiger Lily cry, it's making me feel like I do something so bad to her or something.
00:32:54But she just keep complaining to me.
00:32:56She is making a problem and she is crying and she is making me feel like I do something so bad to her or something.
00:33:06If you want to move on, then you need to, like, own it.
00:33:10And then, like, tell me that it's not going to happen again.
00:33:13You need to reassure me.
00:33:20Okay.
00:33:21It's not happening again.
00:33:22And then you'll work on driving better so that I feel comfortable.
00:33:26Yeah.
00:33:27Okay.
00:33:31You can go into letting me inside.
00:33:36All right.
00:33:37I just get emotional because this was supposed to be a happy event.
00:33:43He's seeing his baby for the first time.
00:33:46Like, this is supposed to be something sentimental.
00:33:49But because of his anger and his driving and his inability to control his anger, he's ruined the day and ruined the time.
00:33:59Are you guys ready?
00:34:05My name is Gabriella.
00:34:06Nice to meet you.
00:34:07Hi, Tiger Lily.
00:34:07Nice to meet you.
00:34:08Nice to meet you.
00:34:09I can't check in.
00:34:09No problem.
00:34:10No problem.
00:34:11Follow me.
00:34:11Come on back.
00:34:12Okay.
00:34:13So, Mama, you can have a seat on the bed.
00:34:15And, Daddy, you can have a seat in the chair.
00:34:17Thank you so much.
00:34:19So, is this your first baby?
00:34:22No, third.
00:34:23Third.
00:34:24My goodness.
00:34:24And this is a little boy, I heard?
00:34:26Yes.
00:34:26I just need to see your belly.
00:34:28Okay.
00:34:29Hold on.
00:34:30Wait.
00:34:33I don't want to, like, men see my wife's body.
00:34:37We can't, uh, the crew watching my wife.
00:34:42Hi, guys.
00:34:43Can you go?
00:34:45I, I actually have a barrier that I could put up, a partition.
00:34:50Would that be okay?
00:34:51If I put a partition behind, so...
00:34:53If you have protection, yeah.
00:34:55Perfect.
00:34:55I think, uh, I think we'll be fine.
00:34:57Perfect.
00:34:57Gives me one minute.
00:34:58I'll get that for you.
00:35:00Because of Adnan's religious beliefs, all of the male crew members have to stand on the
00:35:05other side of the partition because they can't see my bare belly for the ultrasound because
00:35:10it's indecent.
00:35:11But the female crew member is able to stand on the side closest to me and film.
00:35:18These rules about other men were hard to get used to.
00:35:24But it doesn't bother me so much because I feel like Adnan is being protective of me.
00:35:33It's like he has good intentions.
00:35:36Is that okay?
00:35:37Yeah.
00:35:37Okay, perfect.
00:35:38I think this, it's okay like this.
00:35:40Okay, just I want to make sure the camera is not filming my wife, Billie.
00:35:45Yes, just faces.
00:35:46Just faces?
00:35:47Okay.
00:35:48Okay.
00:35:49Oh, perfect.
00:35:50Let's get started.
00:35:52All right.
00:35:53What is he saying?
00:35:54Where's my baby?
00:35:56All right.
00:35:57Oh, I will say he looks perfect already.
00:36:01Awesome.
00:36:02Your water levels are beautiful.
00:36:03He's moving.
00:36:06I've never been to ultrasound before.
00:36:09It's my first baby.
00:36:10The most special moment right now to see my son in the screen and to start feeling I'm a
00:36:16father.
00:36:17Not just on the phone or on the video chat.
00:36:21How can I say it?
00:36:23Unbelievable.
00:36:24Unbelievable.
00:36:24What is it?
00:36:25Unbelievable.
00:36:26Yeah, something unbelievable.
00:36:29Oh, he's moving his eyes.
00:36:30Did you see that?
00:36:30Yeah, he's moving his eyes.
00:36:32Yeah.
00:36:33See him open him?
00:36:34Yeah, he open it.
00:36:35There you are.
00:36:36He's so cute.
00:36:37Hi, sweet boy.
00:36:39Oh, my goodness.
00:36:40Whose nose does he got?
00:36:41Daddy's nose.
00:36:44Here's his elbow.
00:36:46Yeah, he's opening his nose.
00:36:47See his little mouth right here?
00:36:48Yeah.
00:36:49Here's his little hiney.
00:36:51And here's his legs right here.
00:36:53Oh, look at those little lips.
00:36:55Oh, my gosh.
00:36:56He's got beautiful little lips.
00:36:57Like mine.
00:36:58This is my son.
00:37:01He is so handsome.
00:37:04Oh, he smiled.
00:37:08So cute.
00:37:11Yes, he is.
00:37:13I'm so happy.
00:37:14He's beautiful.
00:37:15I can't wait to see Adnan as a dad to baby Zane.
00:37:24I'm so excited to see him.
00:37:26And plus, you make me so happy when you're giving me my baby.
00:37:29I'm just really looking forward to it and hope that you feel ready for baby Zane.
00:37:38Like feeding him, bathing him, changing his diaper.
00:37:43You know, that's just like the beginning newborn stuff.
00:37:45I will do the best I can do to raising my baby Zane.
00:37:50I will do the best.
00:37:53He smiled for you.
00:37:54Opened his eyes for you.
00:37:56And that's, I mean, they can't ask more than that.
00:37:59You know, he's dead here, baby.
00:38:00My dad's going to be staying in a guest room.
00:38:09Our room?
00:38:11No, this is not your room.
00:38:12This is guest room.
00:38:13No, we're family.
00:38:14You're so anti-family.
00:38:16What's the deal here?
00:38:20Give me that boom, boom.
00:38:21Rock to my body.
00:38:23Give me that clap when it rocked me back when it cracked like Rocky.
00:38:27Give me that hell.
00:38:29Come on, give me your ass.
00:38:31My ass.
00:38:33We need plumbing section.
00:38:35Don't run.
00:38:47What is that?
00:38:48Propane and there's map gas.
00:38:50Don't tell me you're going to use this by yourself.
00:38:53Do I need adult supervision?
00:38:56You're going to burn yourself.
00:38:58This morning.
00:38:59As I go into the bathroom, I notice the plumbing.
00:39:03It looks like it's stopped up, backing up.
00:39:07And so when I, like, pulled, you know, a clog out of there, it was all dog hair.
00:39:12I mean, that's where you freaking give those dogs baths.
00:39:15You are complaining about Nala every single second.
00:39:19And after five seconds, you hug her in our bed.
00:39:22Look at the gloopy, gloopy.
00:39:23Look at my mama.
00:39:25I did make it worse.
00:39:36I made it worse when I nicked the water pipe.
00:39:39You already broke the water pipe.
00:39:41Why did you buy this stuff?
00:39:43I'll fix it, okay?
00:39:44Did you?
00:39:44I'll fix it, okay?
00:39:45Oh.
00:39:46Hello?
00:39:47Hello?
00:39:47Hey, what's going on?
00:39:48Hi!
00:39:49How are you?
00:39:50I've been better.
00:39:51So good to see you.
00:39:52Hey, buddy.
00:39:53How you doing?
00:39:54Good to see you, too.
00:39:55So what's going on?
00:39:56I'm getting ready for Julia's parents.
00:39:57So trying to fix sewer line and everything.
00:40:00I had the plumber come out and look at it.
00:40:01They want 6,500 bucks to replace the whole line in the yard.
00:40:05So I'm like, forget that.
00:40:06I'm going to do it myself.
00:40:08So where is Julia?
00:40:09Out walking the dog somewhere.
00:40:10I'm a dog.
00:40:11You're a dog.
00:40:12I'm a dog.
00:40:13I'm a dog.
00:40:14I'm a dog.
00:40:15I'm a dog.
00:40:16I'm a dog.
00:40:17I'm a dog.
00:40:18I'm a dog.
00:40:19I'm a dog.
00:40:20I'm a dog.
00:40:21I'm a dog.
00:40:22I'm a dog.
00:40:23I'm a dog.
00:40:24I'm walking the dog somewhere.
00:40:26Today, I'm trying to get the plumbing fixed before Julia's
00:40:29parents are coming.
00:40:30And it's been a little more work than I anticipated.
00:40:34So my mom and dad have come by.
00:40:36And dad's going to give me a hand.
00:40:41So how's it going, guys?
00:40:43It's going.
00:40:45Ooh.
00:40:47Brandon, did you dig out this whole thing with just
00:40:50the shovel and the?
00:40:51Wait, not with this little one.
00:40:52I got one, too.
00:40:53All right.
00:40:55Julia.
00:40:56Hey, guys.
00:40:57Hi.
00:40:58Hi, Julia.
00:40:59Yay.
00:41:00OK, let me put the dog inside.
00:41:02After moving far from Brandon's parents,
00:41:05our relationship absolutely getting better.
00:41:07Giggling them have fun times.
00:41:09But them still annoying and come to our house often.
00:41:13I'm happy that your parents are coming here.
00:41:14Yay!
00:41:15Yes, I can believe that's happening.
00:41:16But my question is, how is this all going to play out when
00:41:18they're not really together?
00:41:20You know, they're not married, so they probably should stay
00:41:21in separate rooms.
00:41:22My dad going to be staying in a guest room.
00:41:23My mom going to stay in a dog room.
00:41:24Which guest room?
00:41:25This one guest room.
00:41:26In our left.
00:41:27Our room?
00:41:28No, this is not your room.
00:41:29This is guest room.
00:41:30So I guess we can't come while they're here,
00:41:32because we don't have anywhere to stay.
00:41:33No, you absolutely can come.
00:41:34But you live in a one and a half hour away.
00:41:35So you can come any time.
00:41:36And then you have to drive all the way home afterwards?
00:41:40And you sitting and not doing nothing.
00:41:41That is not fun, Brandon.
00:41:42This is what I'm saying.
00:41:43This is my dad going to be staying in a guest room.
00:41:44My dad going to be staying in a guest room.
00:41:45My mom going to stay in a dog room.
00:41:46Which guest room?
00:41:47This one guest room.
00:41:48Our room?
00:41:49No, this is not your room.
00:41:50This is guest room.
00:41:51This is guest room.
00:41:52So I guess we can't come while they're here,
00:41:53because we don't have anywhere to stay.
00:41:54No, you absolutely can come,
00:41:55but you live in a one and a half hour away,
00:41:56so you can come anytime.
00:41:57Brandon, you don't want involved in this conversation.
00:42:00And you sitting and not doing nothing.
00:42:01That is not fun, Brandon.
00:42:02Does it look like I'm not doing anything?
00:42:04I'm sitting down here working.
00:42:05What are you doing?
00:42:06Walking dogs?
00:42:07I could use your help, actually.
00:42:10Guys, you just came back from this couple's therapy.
00:42:14What did you learn?
00:42:15What did you learn?
00:42:16I'm not even sure now.
00:42:18Well, didn't you guys have some kind of discussions
00:42:20about communications and working together?
00:42:22Yeah, we agreed that she was going to do a second opinion.
00:42:28Really?
00:42:29She hasn't made any effort so far.
00:42:32We are talking about different stuff now.
00:42:34We're talking about different stuff.
00:42:36OK, but I'm talking about this.
00:42:37OK, can we talk about this?
00:42:38Because this drives me crazy.
00:42:39And let me do step by step.
00:42:40My pain isn't even here yet.
00:42:42And you're trying to push me for that?
00:42:46The doctors in Russia said that it's not likely she can have kids.
00:42:50I know this is a sensitive issue for her.
00:42:52It's why I really don't want to press too much.
00:42:55But at the same time, Julia agreed to schedule the second opinion.
00:42:59And so I've been waiting weeks for her to schedule it.
00:43:02I haven't seen any effort on her part.
00:43:04No appointments made or anything.
00:43:06And I am afraid that Julia is never going to book this appointment.
00:43:12I can help you with that if you want because I can talk to a doctor.
00:43:17I can help go with you if you want to make sure that, you know.
00:43:20No, I mean, that is our situation.
00:43:22Yeah, but you need somebody to help you.
00:43:24You need, you don't, you don't know who to talk to.
00:43:26I don't need your help. I don't need.
00:43:28So you don't want me to help you at all?
00:43:30No, I don't want.
00:43:36This is our things. This is what Brandon wants to do.
00:43:39No, we're family.
00:43:42You're not even thinking like how I feel?
00:43:45That's why we want to be with you, to be there to support you.
00:43:48I don't need.
00:43:49And help you emotionally.
00:43:50All of a sudden, you're so anti-family.
00:43:51What's the deal here?
00:43:53So, I'm sorry. I'm on.
00:44:02You know what?
00:44:03I'm this close to just being done with this whole situation.
00:44:06She doesn't appreciate, she's turning into a brat.
00:44:08She's turning into a spoiled brat and she doesn't appreciate half the stuff that we've tried to do and help her.
00:44:16What's that?
00:44:19Chicken, heart of a chicken.
00:44:21No.
00:44:22Very good.
00:44:34Mama, I'm ready to go.
00:44:36All right, let's go.
00:44:37Yeah, take that.
00:44:38That's your motorcycle for today.
00:44:42You happy you brought all these suitcases?
00:44:45Ellie, careful.
00:44:46Oh.
00:44:47I'm gonna turn on the car, babe.
00:44:49It's hot.
00:44:52Babe, are we forgetting something?
00:44:54Yeah, our brain.
00:45:03Can we go?
00:45:05All righty, everyone.
00:45:08Let's go!
00:45:09Are you ready to go to Moldova?
00:45:11Yes.
00:45:12Louder!
00:45:13Let's go!
00:45:14Let's go!
00:45:15But then let's come back.
00:45:17Yay!
00:45:18I'm gonna trap you off.
00:45:20Look!
00:45:21Look!
00:45:22Look, that's Bunelu!
00:45:23Hey!
00:45:24Salud!
00:45:25My husband.
00:45:26No.
00:45:27My husband!
00:45:28No.
00:45:29My husband.
00:45:30No.
00:45:31My husband!
00:45:32Oh, no.
00:45:34Aren't we talking about it?
00:45:35No.
00:45:36No.
00:45:37No.
00:45:38No.
00:45:39No.
00:45:40No.
00:45:41No.
00:45:42No.
00:45:43No.
00:45:44No.
00:45:45No.
00:45:46No.
00:45:47No.
00:45:48No.
00:45:49No.
00:45:50Yes, thank you!
00:45:54Oyoyoyoyo!
00:46:14Let's go! Let's go to the car.
00:46:16Let's go see if we like it here.
00:46:20So far, Winston doesn't like it.
00:46:23The trip over with our two kids was a disaster.
00:46:29Winston has never been overseas.
00:46:31So he wanted to get out of the plane,
00:46:34like screaming, didn't understand.
00:46:36And now that we're finally here in Moldova,
00:46:40I think the reality of it is kind of setting in
00:46:42that this could actually be my home.
00:46:45And just starting to get a little overwhelmed about it.
00:46:50Ah!
00:46:52Oh, baby!
00:47:04Babe, we don't have any of their stuff, like pillows,
00:47:10my toothbrush, like my face wash.
00:47:13OK, forget about the luggage.
00:47:15Luggage is last.
00:47:16We're going to get it back, hopefully.
00:47:18I did get pajamas.
00:47:19I didn't get you underwear, though.
00:47:20So you might have to put your underwear inside out
00:47:22and wear them again.
00:47:24Piu!
00:47:25Say, me placi sarmale.
00:47:31We're staying at his parents' house.
00:47:37It's not like I dislike Andrei's family.
00:47:39It's just his mom is very overbearing.
00:47:41And then when you combine that with a small space
00:47:45and one bathroom for six people, it's just a recipe for disaster.
00:47:57It feels like home, huh?
00:47:58Elizabeth, it feels like home?
00:47:59No, it doesn't.
00:48:00Sex will fix it.
00:48:01Where will we have sex?
00:48:04In the closet?
00:48:05All right, all right.
00:48:08Hello.
00:48:09Hello.
00:48:10This is a nice surprise.
00:48:12How are you?
00:48:13Nice, nice.
00:48:14At last, at last I see you.
00:48:15I know a little bit more Romanian now.
00:48:18I know a little bit more Romanian now.
00:48:19I downloaded an app.
00:48:20But I learned mostly just by listening to his parents speak
00:48:23and just trying to communicate with them.
00:48:25I mean, it is a nice thing.
00:48:26It's a nice surprise.
00:48:27This is a nice surprise.
00:48:28Hello.
00:48:29How are you?
00:48:30Nice, nice.
00:48:31At last, at last I see you.
00:48:32I know a little bit more Romanian now.
00:48:37I downloaded an app.
00:48:39But I learned mostly just by listening to his parents speak
00:48:44and just trying to communicate with them.
00:48:46I mean, it is in my best interest
00:48:48to know what the hell you guys are talking about, right?
00:48:50Of course.
00:48:51And I can tell if you're talking or not.
00:48:53So that's good.
00:48:54You're very good at it.
00:48:55Thanks, babe.
00:48:58Oh, my God.
00:48:59The road is long.
00:49:00The drum of was very long.
00:49:01They look, you both look tired.
00:49:02Oh, my gosh.
00:49:03Very tired.
00:49:04Very tired.
00:49:06Oh, my God.
00:49:07If you say hi.
00:49:08Just a little bit.
00:49:09Just a little bit.
00:49:10That's right.
00:49:11That's right.
00:49:13I have a toast for you.
00:49:14Oh, yes.
00:49:15Have you come to Moldova?
00:49:16We are healthy.
00:49:17We are grateful that God helped us
00:49:20and you have come to Moldova.
00:49:22You talk about everything.
00:49:24This is good.
00:49:25This is good.
00:49:26This is good?
00:49:27Let's begin.
00:49:28We'll see.
00:49:29We'll see.
00:49:30We'll see.
00:49:31We'll see.
00:49:32We'll see.
00:49:33We'll see.
00:49:34We'll see.
00:49:35It's going to be fun.
00:49:36We'll see.
00:49:37We'll see.
00:49:38We'll see.
00:49:39We'll see.
00:49:40We'll see.
00:49:41We'll see.
00:49:42We'll see.
00:49:43We'll see.
00:49:44We'll see.
00:49:45We'll see.
00:49:46We'll see.
00:49:47We'll see.
00:49:48We'll see.
00:49:49Andrei is already laying on enough pressure
00:49:52and his family is adding like another layer
00:49:55of this intense feeling and all I want to do at this point
00:49:59is just go to bed.
00:50:01We'll see.
00:50:02What's this?
00:50:03This is salad from my heart.
00:50:05Put it in the bread.
00:50:06Put it in the bread.
00:50:07Put it in the bread.
00:50:08Put it in the bread.
00:50:09What's that?
00:50:10Chicken, heart of chicken.
00:50:11No.
00:50:12Very good.
00:50:13Babe.
00:50:14Try it, try it.
00:50:18It's good?
00:50:20It's tasty.
00:50:21Winston, stay here.
00:50:26About tomorrow party.
00:50:29Yeah, cheers.
00:50:30Cheers, Naka.
00:50:31No rock.
00:50:32Wait, wait.
00:50:34Wait a minute.
00:50:35But what is the party for?
00:50:36It's okay.
00:50:37It's a big deal.
00:50:42Why don't you tell me these things?
00:50:46What party?
00:50:47What party is this?
00:50:48You know what?
00:50:49I have a surprise for you.
00:50:52Hmm?
00:50:53Honestly, babe, I love surprises.
00:50:54But if you don't include me on your plans and your little schemes,
00:50:59I am not going to be happy about this trip.
00:51:02At all.
00:51:14When I was browsing around, I found a couple of hats.
00:51:16What is that?
00:51:17Oh, it's the hat.
00:51:18Natalie is much different than Jasmine because we have this good connection.
00:51:23We're having fun together.
00:51:25I want to invite you to come to Michigan.
00:51:29What's there to do in Michigan?
00:51:33What's there to do in Michigan?
00:51:36I made my fair share of mistakes.
00:51:39Not taking you for granted.
00:51:41One more second or one more day.
00:51:43I swear I'm going to be better.
00:51:46I'm going to need a new machine.
00:51:48I don't like this one.
00:51:49It doesn't make a regular pot of coffee.
00:51:52The one Jasmine gave me, I can make either or.
00:51:54This only gives me the option to make a single.
00:51:58It's not going to cut it.
00:52:00Ooh, I'm gonna love you like
00:52:02Ooh, I'm gonna love you like
00:52:06Ooh, I'm gonna love you like
00:52:09Ooh, I'm gonna love you like
00:52:11Ooh, I'm gonna love you like
00:52:13No, that's not men's.
00:52:15That's all women.
00:52:25I love the thrift stores.
00:52:27I mean, wow, fill the whole freaking cart up.
00:52:31Air refresheners, disinfectant.
00:52:34Decorations or whatnot.
00:52:36Birthday cards.
00:52:37Birthday cards you can buy super cheap at the thrift store.
00:52:41I love a bargain.
00:52:43I love value.
00:52:44And man, I'm all for it.
00:52:53My gosh, Natalie would love this hat.
00:52:56She'd love to see me in this hat.
00:52:58Bring back good memories.
00:53:02I have not spoken to Jasmine since I told her that I wanted a divorce.
00:53:08I haven't started the paperwork yet.
00:53:12I would prefer to wait for a recession when the market completely drops because I don't want to share money with Jasmine for free.
00:53:21But it's also a lot to process.
00:53:26I had a whole life planned out with Jasmine.
00:53:29And for things to end this way, I feel like it was a whole waste of time.
00:53:34And it just makes me sick.
00:53:36I'm sick.
00:53:42Oh, my gosh.
00:53:43Natalie, text me.
00:53:45I'm going to call her.
00:53:51Hey, Natalie.
00:53:52How you doing?
00:53:53Good.
00:53:54How are you?
00:53:55I'm doing fantastic.
00:53:56Happy to see you.
00:53:57It's been a while.
00:53:58Happy to see you, too.
00:53:59I love that shirt.
00:54:00Okay, it's very tropical.
00:54:01Yeah.
00:54:02I'm in that tropical mood today.
00:54:04But where are you?
00:54:07What is that?
00:54:09I'm at the thrift store.
00:54:11And I found a few clothes when I was browsing around.
00:54:14I found a couple of hats.
00:54:15Let me see.
00:54:16Well, hold on a second, I guess.
00:54:18You know what?
00:54:19I'm going to throw it on.
00:54:22What do you think?
00:54:23Oh, my God.
00:54:24That is so cute.
00:54:25Love it.
00:54:27All right.
00:54:28Let me see that.
00:54:29Let me turn around.
00:54:31Full circle.
00:54:32Oh, there's the tail.
00:54:35Oh, my God.
00:54:37Natalie is much different than Jasmine
00:54:39because we have this good connection.
00:54:41We're having fun together.
00:54:43Oh, my gosh.
00:54:44Oh, I like that one.
00:54:46That kind of gives you, like, a Russian vibe.
00:54:49I want to pursue a relationship with Natalie.
00:54:53We had an awesome time in Vegas.
00:54:55We've still been building our connection up and talking.
00:54:58Things have really been going good.
00:55:00I'll be back in a minute.
00:55:02But, you know, I spent four years in a relationship with Jasmine.
00:55:07And, you know, I've only known Natalie for a few days.
00:55:12I need to get to know Natalie more so I can really see if this relationship can go somewhere.
00:55:19What?
00:55:20No.
00:55:21Wait a minute.
00:55:22What do you mean it's not my look?
00:55:23Maybe the hat without the sweatshirt.
00:55:25Oh, no.
00:55:26Well, I want to make sure it's something you like.
00:55:28I mean, do you like this color?
00:55:29I like that color a lot.
00:55:30I'm going to put it on just for you.
00:55:32But did you have a chat with Jasmine?
00:55:34Yes, I did.
00:55:35Yes, I did.
00:55:36Yes, I did.
00:55:37Okay.
00:55:38It was difficult.
00:55:39I was very emotional.
00:55:40I was very upset.
00:55:41And I kind of let her have it.
00:55:42And, you know.
00:55:43And, you know.
00:55:44It sounded like Jasmine.
00:55:45I mean, do you like this color?
00:55:46I mean, do you like this color?
00:55:47I like that color a lot.
00:55:48I'm going to put it on just for you.
00:55:50But did you have a chat with Jasmine?
00:55:56Yes, I did.
00:55:57Or how did it go?
00:55:58Yes, I did.
00:55:59Okay.
00:56:00It was difficult.
00:56:03I was very emotional.
00:56:04I was very upset.
00:56:06And I kind of let her have it.
00:56:08And, you know, it sounded like Jasmine wanted to reconcile with me.
00:56:15And what did, how do you feel about that?
00:56:19Well, obviously I was very upset about what she did to me.
00:56:24And I was not going to have any of that at that moment.
00:56:28So.
00:56:29And what did you tell her?
00:56:33Um, I told Jasmine that I wanted a divorce.
00:56:39And how did she react to that?
00:56:42I think she's a bit shocked about me saying that, to be honest.
00:56:45I don't think she expected me to say that.
00:56:52It was really important for me, for both parties to have closure,
00:56:55because, you know, I don't want to be in the middle of something.
00:56:58Right.
00:56:59But potentially the guys would get back together.
00:57:02Do we have full closure yet?
00:57:05No.
00:57:06But at least I told her how I felt.
00:57:08She told me how she felt.
00:57:10Okay.
00:57:11So we got through that part.
00:57:12I brought her stuff for her.
00:57:14Bringing her stuff to her shows that, you know, I'm ready to move on.
00:57:22Okay.
00:57:23Now does she, does she know you were hanging out with me in Vegas?
00:57:27I told her I went and seen you in Vegas.
00:57:29And I had a good time there.
00:57:31Okay.
00:57:32Um, I don't think she was head over heels about it, but.
00:57:35Well, I mean, I understand that.
00:57:37But I just, you know, I don't want to be in the middle of anything.
00:57:40You know, I had a great time in Vegas.
00:57:42I'm not going to lie.
00:57:43We thought we had a lot of fun.
00:57:45No, I had such a good time.
00:57:46I want, I want to invite you to come to Michigan.
00:57:50I would love to.
00:57:55Absolutely.
00:57:56But what's there to do in Michigan?
00:57:58Well, Michigan has five great lakes around it.
00:58:01And no other state can say that.
00:58:03I can't wait to see Natalie again and kiss her again.
00:58:12But you know, at the same time, I just told Jasmine I'm going to divorce her.
00:58:18And I'm still trying to process the feelings with all of that.
00:58:24And it's complicated.
00:58:28I find an ice bar over there.
00:58:31Well, if you come during the wintertime, you just walk out the front door.
00:58:34How's it illuminate?
00:58:41Looks good.
00:58:43What?
00:58:44Tell me.
00:58:45I came out from the bathroom.
00:58:48I saw something that I didn't like.
00:58:51How can you have a relationship with someone whenever you don't trust them?
00:58:57I don't know how.
00:58:59What is it?
00:59:00Really?
00:59:04Well, I'll see you again.
00:59:17Training again.
00:59:19Yeah
00:59:20One said a man has got to do.
00:59:23The things he's got to do.
00:59:28One said a man must make his plans and then
00:59:33and then follow them through.
01:00:04How's the lemonade?
01:00:07It's good.
01:00:12What? Tell me.
01:00:14What?
01:00:15I don't know.
01:00:16Tell me. I'm not comfortable. Tell me.
01:00:20I'm glad that you enjoyed it.
01:00:22No, I am not enjoying it now.
01:00:24You are pretending when you are in your cave.
01:00:31Delicious.
01:00:33Thank you so much.
01:00:39What?
01:00:44Hmm.
01:00:49It keeps so messy.
01:00:57Well, yes, when we walked in,
01:01:00the problem was fixed,
01:01:02but I came out from the bathroom.
01:01:06I saw something that I didn't like.
01:01:09What is it?
01:01:12Really?
01:01:13Really?
01:01:20About driving?
01:01:23No.
01:01:26You made a promise to me about something.
01:01:29So I'll ask you again.
01:01:31Is there anything that you want to tell me?
01:01:36It's nothing.
01:01:38So you're still saying that you did nothing?
01:01:40Yeah.
01:01:41Smoking?
01:01:42Smoking?
01:01:51Oh.
01:01:53Didn't you promise me that you wouldn't do that?
01:01:57And you said that if you did, that you would tell me right away.
01:02:01Right away.
01:02:02And I promised you that I wouldn't get mad if you did it.
01:02:07This is your problem?
01:02:09You didn't tell me.
01:02:10Okay, I told you.
01:02:12You didn't tell me until I basically pulled it out of you.
01:02:16You know me when I'm small.
01:02:20But you told me that you would quit whenever I got pregnant.
01:02:23Yeah.
01:02:24Are there more times that you're keeping from me?
01:02:26Okay, how can I fix it now?
01:02:27No, answer my question.
01:02:32Maybe.
01:02:34It's either yes or no.
01:02:35Yes.
01:02:39Do you think it's okay to keep secrets from your wife
01:02:42and break promises to your wife?
01:02:44About like this thing's okay, yeah.
01:02:47Do you want me to do the same?
01:02:49Do you want me to start keeping secrets from you?
01:02:52Secrets things like what?
01:02:53Anything.
01:02:54If it isn't important, it's okay, but...
01:02:59It's okay.
01:03:00So now I know.
01:03:01But like this thing.
01:03:02We'll keep secrets from each other then.
01:03:04If I can't trust you to just keep your word to me
01:03:07about something small like that,
01:03:10then how can I trust you for other things?
01:03:16No, you didn't trust me?
01:03:17I don't.
01:03:18You didn't trust me.
01:03:19You didn't keep your word to me.
01:03:20Okay.
01:03:25She hurt my feelings so much when she told me
01:03:28she didn't trust me now.
01:03:30After when I am hanging up all my old life
01:03:34and leave it behind me
01:03:37to make her life more comfortable and more happiness.
01:03:41And she now told me,
01:03:42I didn't trust you because like a silly issue
01:03:45about smoking or do something.
01:03:47I don't have a time for that.
01:03:49I'm not coming here for playing.
01:03:51You are, trust me or not.
01:03:52This is your problem, not my problem.
01:03:57You broke my trust.
01:03:58This is not my problem.
01:03:59Your problem.
01:04:00Do you like even hear yourself right now?
01:04:03Yeah.
01:04:06You lied to me.
01:04:07You broke my trust.
01:04:08But then this is my problem.
01:04:12You don't accept responsibility for anything.
01:04:15I didn't do anything bad.
01:04:16I have learned that if someone shows you who they are,
01:04:32you need to believe them.
01:04:34How can you have a relationship with someone
01:04:37whenever you don't trust them?
01:04:39I don't know how.
01:04:40It's your decision.
01:04:42You chose this.
01:04:43You chose that I can't trust you.
01:04:49Like...
01:04:51No, you can do whatever you want.
01:04:53I'm so tired.
01:04:55It's 10 o'clock right now.
01:04:58We have six hours to the party, so...
01:05:00My wonderful husband decided to plan this party.
01:05:05Just like surprise after surprise after surprise.
01:05:11What exactly are we doing out here?
01:05:13Three!
01:05:14What?
01:05:15Two!
01:05:16Are there tigers coming out?
01:05:17One!
01:05:18Go!
01:05:19The saddest part is when I think about how happy we used to be.
01:05:25Because I just see him now in two different ways.
01:05:28You know, it's like the old Guillermo that I really love.
01:05:30And then like this new Guillermo that I feel like I don't know.
01:05:33I don't know how we got here.
01:05:49I didn't sleep at all last night and feel like .
01:05:57How much longer are we going to hear this sound?
01:06:05All day, every day?
01:06:06Great.
01:06:07I feel like the roof is going to cave in.
01:06:21Babe.
01:06:22What?
01:06:23Really?
01:06:24What?
01:06:25That's creepy.
01:06:26I know you're going to get sleep, but...
01:06:28Can you put those pillows back?
01:06:30This is our first morning in Moldova.
01:06:39And honestly, I feel a little tired and a little pissed off
01:06:43because I told Andrei that I don't really want to stay with his parents.
01:06:48It never shakes out nice, and I just don't feel comfortable there.
01:06:55I don't want a breakfast.
01:06:57I want to sleep and not hear a drill and a chainsaw
01:07:03and then go to the bathroom without running into somebody.
01:07:09Babe.
01:07:11Hurry up.
01:07:15There's six people.
01:07:22I've never even been in jail, but like I would imagine
01:07:25that this is what it would be like.
01:07:27You're making me laugh.
01:07:28Literally!
01:07:38Look, look, look.
01:07:39Right here.
01:07:40That's it.
01:07:41Settle down.
01:07:42Everybody's tired.
01:07:47Daddy, that's your favorite cake Daddy had
01:07:50when you were with the baby, Daddy?
01:07:52Yes.
01:07:53Daddy, you want some?
01:07:54Yeah.
01:07:55How was your night, babe?
01:07:58Did you wake up a lot of times?
01:08:00Mm-hmm.
01:08:01I'm back to my childhood apartment.
01:08:05I love it.
01:08:06I love, like, what my mom, you know, like, does for us.
01:08:09You know, like, and it's so welcoming.
01:08:11It's just...
01:08:12I feel like home.
01:08:13Yeah, she kisses your ass because you're a mama's boy.
01:08:15Look at your f***ing ass work.
01:08:19Did you get a text or anything for our luggage?
01:08:24Any updates?
01:08:25No.
01:08:26Nada.
01:08:27We have so much stuff in there, babe, that we need.
01:08:31It's 10 o'clock right now.
01:08:32We have six hours to the party, so...
01:08:34Five minutes.
01:08:35If we're not going to be able to get it,
01:08:37it's going to be a problem.
01:08:38I'm telling you.
01:08:39Andre has decided to plan this party tonight,
01:08:48and he's just leaving me in the dark about it.
01:08:51Look, the gesture is nice,
01:08:54but it could have been any other day than today.
01:08:58I mean, we lost our luggage,
01:09:00so we don't have any clothes.
01:09:02Thankfully, I have my makeup.
01:09:04It's so pretty.
01:09:21It's a lot fancier than what I thought.
01:09:24What do you mean?
01:09:26Babe, this is how we roll here.
01:09:28This is just, like, posh.
01:09:30Snazzy.
01:09:31Snazzy indeed.
01:09:33Snazzy Moldova tulip here.
01:09:34Yeah.
01:09:35Come on.
01:09:53Hello!
01:09:56Salute, salute, salute.
01:09:58Salute.
01:09:59Come on, babe.
01:10:00Come on.
01:10:01Oh, my gosh.
01:10:04Welcome.
01:10:05Hi.
01:10:06I feel like I'm having a wedding or something.
01:10:10Hello.
01:10:14Multimask Mold.
01:10:16Do you like my surprise, Elizabeth?
01:10:17This is a pre-mold.
01:10:18Pre-mold.
01:10:19Pre-mold.
01:10:20Pre-mold.
01:10:21Pre-mold.
01:10:22Pre-mold.
01:10:23Pre-mold.
01:10:24Pre-mold.
01:10:32Hi.
01:10:33Hey.
01:10:34Hey.
01:10:35Hey.
01:10:36Hey.
01:10:37Hey.
01:10:38Hey.
01:10:39Hey.
01:10:40Hey.
01:10:41Being at this party and having all these friends and family around me feels like the old,
01:10:49I want everybody to meet Winston and also I want to impress my wife
01:10:54because she needs to get sold on this Moldavian move.
01:11:19I'm not fluent in Romanian yet. I'm very limited in my vocabulary so some
01:11:39things get lost in translation and this is actually one of those moments. I feel
01:11:44kind of stupid because I don't know what's going on.
01:12:02Hey you know what I'm gonna be right back. Hey everybody I have one more surprise
01:12:10let's go upstairs. What exactly are we doing out here?
01:12:18All right let's go. What are we doing out here?
01:12:21Three. What? Two. Are there tigers coming out? One. Go.
01:12:26What? I want to enjoy my time here and he's so excited like I don't want to pull the rug out
01:12:46from underneath him but like I feel like I've just like crashed someone's wedding like I don't know
01:12:51what the f**k I'm doing here honestly.
01:12:58It's like things that just remind you of like better times around the house.
01:13:22When I see stuff like this it's just like a time when things were really beautiful and good.
01:13:33It's just been unbearable, uncomfortable.
01:13:39He left. He moved out.
01:13:45Like a few days ago.
01:13:48And we're both hoping this is just temporary.
01:13:52I hate, I just absolutely hate that I, I had to be the one to ask him to leave.
01:14:05How are you doing?
01:14:07I, I don't know.
01:14:09I just feel like sometimes I feel okay and I'm optimistic that everything's gonna be fine
01:14:14and then other times it feels like we're really on the brink.
01:14:17Like on the edge of the end.
01:14:18A few days ago.
01:14:22Guillermo saw me laughing and writing on my phone and he legitimately thinks that I'm cheating on him.
01:14:30When he asked me who I was writing I told him it's none of his business and so now he thinks it's a man.
01:14:39Did you cheat on him?
01:14:40No, there's zero truth to his accusations and he makes up in his mind and then gets mad at me for it.
01:14:45And I'm like, okay, but you made that up.
01:14:47You're the one making these things up in your mind and now I'm supposed to deal with your emotional response of the you made up in your brain.
01:14:56Because it's not me stepping out, it's him thinking I'm stepping out.
01:15:00So it's like what do we need to change and work on where he can feel safe.
01:15:03But it just got to the point where we can't even talk without it devolving into a fight and it's just too much.
01:15:12It's overwhelming and it just sucks that it's come to this.
01:15:15I think maybe the saddest part is like when I think about how happy we used to be.
01:15:30Truly.
01:15:32Because I just see him now in two different ways, you know, it's like the old Guillermo that I really love and then like this new Guillermo that I feel like I don't know.
01:15:42You know, yes, I don't know how I got here, you know, or how we got here.
01:15:55But I just feel like we really do need some space to hopefully be able to come back together in a better way because whatever's happening right now isn't working.
01:16:07Hopefully being separated like this can be like a bridge to get us back to being together and we can work on it and things will be better.
01:16:19I just...
01:16:23I'm so sad. I just...
01:16:27I don't know.
01:16:33Brandon, he said, push me, push me for the second opinion.
01:16:37Wait, wait.
01:16:39This is my house. You can do this to me.
01:16:41I need support, not pressure.
01:16:43Seriously, I'm little. I over. I over.
01:16:56That's just her personality. It's just her nature to want to draw in and...
01:17:01Shut down? Shut down. Yeah.
01:17:03And everybody else is the bad guy.
01:17:05But we're not the bad guys. We're not trying to be the bad guys. We're trying to help.
01:17:09This is why I don't want the parents to come. This is just the beginning, you know?
01:17:21Her parents bring out stress that she doesn't need.
01:17:24She's taking the whole thing out on me.
01:17:27They're not even here and this...
01:17:29And it's just turning into a nightmare before they get here.
01:17:32Julia just stormed off in the house after my mom's trying to help her make an appointment for the fertility clinic.
01:17:38But I think that's overreacting.
01:17:40We're trying to all be family here.
01:17:44We're supposed to pull together, work together, support each other.
01:17:48And it's like she's fighting tooth and nail, everything.
01:17:52I'm starting to think this all is just an excuse.
01:17:55Maybe she doesn't want kids because she keeps finding any reason to say no to not go do this after she said she would.
01:18:04Julia, you want to talk for a few minutes?
01:18:07And that's why I said I'd be happy to try and help you to maybe help find a doctor, to help make some arrangements so that that way you can focus on getting your parents here and just have to go to an appointment.
01:18:29I was just trying to help.
01:18:30I was just trying to help.
01:18:31This is not easy like that, just going to the doctor.
01:18:33He's trying to push me.
01:18:34He doesn't sit with me.
01:18:35He doesn't hug me.
01:18:36He doesn't put, like, wine and make a dinner and say, hey, let's talk to my wife.
01:18:40No, he said, you promised me you have to do this.
01:18:42If you're not going to do this, I'm not going to do nothing.
01:18:45This is how he say.
01:18:47Because I promised Brandon the second opinion, now he thinking that is easy and his parents thinking that's going to be so easy.
01:18:55But emotionally, it's not that easy.
01:18:58Because I'm already here a lot of stuff on my body.
01:19:01When I did a fertility test in Russia, that is so painful.
01:19:05That is so painful.
01:19:06Like, I need support, not pressure.
01:19:10He has to be careful about that topic.
01:19:13And he's trying to push me, and that is not right.
01:19:16And you both support him now.
01:19:19And push me, push me for the second opinion.
01:19:22I don't want to go now.
01:19:24And I'm not going because he's pushing.
01:19:27That's going to help the whole situation.
01:19:30That's going to help me.
01:19:31I want to be alone.
01:19:32I want to see anybody.
01:19:34Very, very.
01:19:38This is my house.
01:19:39You can do this to me.
01:19:42Come on, Luke.
01:19:43Go outside.
01:19:44Seriously, I'm little.
01:19:45I'm over.
01:19:46I'm over.
01:19:47I feel disrespected she's talking with me like that.
01:19:50And I'm like, do this for me?
01:19:51It's my house.
01:19:52I'm angry.
01:19:53I'm over.
01:19:54And you go home from my house.
01:19:57I try and keep the peace and calm, and it blows up in my face every single time.
01:20:01Every time I try and do something to help, I get to fight.
01:20:05I just, I can't.
01:20:08Brandon's parents always overstep, and now it's about facility tests.
01:20:13If I will do second opinion, it's going to be forever I want to do this, not when it's
01:20:17Brandon pushed me, or mom pushed me, or anybody else pushed me.
01:20:20Next time on 90 Day Fiancé, Happily Ever After.
01:20:21Oh.
01:20:22Oh.
01:20:23Oh.
01:20:24We really need this honeymoon.
01:20:25It's been a long time in the making.
01:20:26Take me to the shower.
01:20:27Oh.
01:20:28Oh.
01:20:29Stay there.
01:20:30What?
01:20:31Stay there.
01:20:32Why?
01:20:33I want to tell you something.
01:20:34What do you want to tell me?
01:20:35Would Mila grow up so much?
01:20:37I'm so sorry.
01:20:38Oh.
01:20:39Oh.
01:20:40Oh.
01:20:41Oh.
01:20:43Oh.
01:20:44Oh.
01:20:45Oh.
01:20:46Oh.
01:20:47Oh.
01:20:48Oh.
01:20:49Oh.
01:20:50It's so fast.
01:20:51I think I'm ready for a new chapter.
01:20:53So I have a big surprise for Jovi.
01:20:56But before I tell you, promise me you're not going to get met.
01:20:59What did you do?
01:21:00Well.
01:21:05Admon?
01:21:06This is Adnan.
01:21:07Adnan.
01:21:08Yeah, Adnan.
01:21:09Adnan hasn't met my dad and stepmom.
01:21:12Adnan is looking for my dad's approval and he might not get it.
01:21:17That's good.
01:21:18You know about my religion.
01:21:19A little bit.
01:21:20Yeah?
01:21:21What do you think?
01:21:22Oh.
01:21:25I want our family to grow, you know?
01:21:28Yeah.
01:21:29Darling, let's go do the second opinion.
01:21:32I know how much it's meaning for Brian to have kids,
01:21:36but what if doctors say, I can't have kids?
01:21:40He will be freaking out even more.
01:21:42This will be destroyed.
01:21:44Aw!
01:21:46Aw!
01:21:47I don't think that Jasmine cheated.
01:21:50She will tell me in front of Matt that she loves you,
01:21:55and she regrets the whole open marriage thing.
01:22:00When I met Jasmine in the parking lot,
01:22:02I just regret not giving her too much time
01:22:05to, like, tell me how she feels.
01:22:09You know, I think it's at least worth
01:22:11having another conversation with Jasmine.
01:22:14It's goodbye.
01:22:16It's just like the first one.
01:22:17I didn't say they were really sick.

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