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00:00Oh, yeah.
00:04Oh, gosh.
00:06It's my boyfriend, if you couldn't have guessed.
00:08It's true.
00:08My name's Zach.
00:10Great to meet you.
00:13He has committed, and I guess now I have committed,
00:17to saving our first kiss for our wedding day,
00:21if that day shall come.
00:22You know I'm having this conversation.
00:25I'd love to, obviously, ask for your blessing.
00:30To have Lydia's hand in marriage.
00:38Oh, yeah.
00:39You got it.
00:40Oh, my gosh.
00:42What have you guys been up to?
00:44I asked Barry for Lydia's hand in marriage.
00:48So, surprise.
00:49Surprise!
00:52What the ?
00:53You meet a guy for three months,
00:54and you tell me you're going to get married.
00:56It doesn't make sense.
00:57I think now is a good time
01:01to make a quick little call to a new friend of mine.
01:04Mind you, I cannot let Micah know, or the family.
01:07I feel like I'm on a covert spy mission
01:10calling Ethan's ex-wife, Olivia.
01:13Hello.
01:13What are you going to get?
01:30Oh, I have no idea.
01:32Like a charcuterie board or something.
01:34I'm going to get the hazy Mexican.
01:37I like your bracelet.
01:39Do you wear bracelets now?
01:43No, not really.
01:44Tegan made it for me.
01:45Aw.
01:48That's so cute.
01:50I'm now feeling on top of the world
01:52because I've got a smoking hot girlfriend.
01:55Loves my family.
01:56Her name's Tegan.
01:58And it couldn't be better.
02:01Smoking hot, huh?
02:02Mm-hmm.
02:02This knife is not well-endowed.
02:11It's what?
02:12It's not well-endowed.
02:15What is that?
02:16What does that mean?
02:17Look at it.
02:17Well in what?
02:18Look, it's a very short sword,
02:20very low blade.
02:22It's not well-endowed.
02:24Well in what?
02:25Well-endowed.
02:26Well-endowed?
02:28What does that mean?
02:28By the look on his face,
02:32I don't want to know.
02:33Do you want me to tell you?
02:34No.
02:35Well, is it bad?
02:36Is it?
02:36I mean, it's not.
02:38Let's just say well-endowed means big.
02:43Hey, Ryle, look.
02:44Well-endowed.
02:51Okay, whatever.
02:52Ethan.
02:53I knew it was something along those lines.
02:55So what do you think of Lydia's NASCAR wedding?
02:59NASCAR wedding?
03:01It's just so fast.
03:02Oh.
03:04It is quite fast.
03:06Yeah.
03:06That's pretty true.
03:07That's an understatement.
03:08They met like three months ago?
03:11Something like that.
03:14Yeah.
03:15Well, I'm at the spot where I'm like,
03:18I will watch and observe and I will not get involved.
03:21Ever.
03:23Ever again.
03:24Yeah.
03:27About you?
03:29No, I'm getting involved.
03:33I'm happy for Lydia.
03:35She's happy.
03:35But me and Micah decided since it's so fast,
03:39we'd give him hell and if he sticks around.
03:44You can make it up to him once he passes the test?
03:47No?
03:48No, that's just, you know, the admission fee.
03:53It is fair for him to have his concerns for sure.
03:56But I'm staying out of this one.
03:58Because I don't know right now if I'm actually seeing a red flag
04:02or if it is great.
04:04I don't know.
04:05But I think Zach is a good guy.
04:07Lydia is obviously deserves the very best in the world.
04:10Lydia is happy with Zach.
04:11I'm good.
04:12I don't know.
04:13I'm staying out of it.
04:14Yeah, I mean, I don't have to be married to him and see him every day.
04:16So that's good.
04:17Yeah.
04:18It is a very good thing you're not marrying him.
04:24Thank you for doing this.
04:27Yeah, you're welcome.
04:28I don't know why, but I haven't, like, felt like talking to anybody.
04:33But when I think about who I want to talk to, I guess it's kind of you.
04:39Me and Mariah have always had our ups and downs.
04:41And the last time, it was chaos.
04:43We were chasing Mariah around a parking lot in St. Pete.
04:45Mariah apologized to me, and she fixed that.
04:49But she's still not talking to Veronica.
04:51So are you and Veronica at an impasse?
04:53Have you reached out to her?
04:56I don't know what to do.
04:59I know that I should apologize, like, 5,000 times about what happened with my ex.
05:07Like, everybody had my back, and I'll never understand, like,
05:12why I went back or anything, but...
05:18Yeah.
05:18I mean, I don't.
05:19It was just a lesson you had to learn.
05:22But it doesn't change the fact that you should apologize to the people that you hurt.
05:27And I'm not talking about me.
05:30I'm talking about Micah and Veronica.
05:32I know Veronica's really hurt or pissed about stuff that was said and done.
05:39Because now I'm in a tough spot because of the dynamic between you and Veronica.
05:44You know?
05:45And I know what that's like because, you know, I was with Olivia.
05:50Veronica, maybe, is more pissed than she should be.
05:56But she's just upset, I think, because she thought you guys were really close, and now you're not.
06:04It's nice to be able to open up to Ethan a little bit, because I know he's been through some stuff,
06:10and he's come out so much stronger and happier.
06:13I can see the life back in him, and that's what I want.
06:16So I'm definitely taking everything he's telling me to heart.
06:19I just wrote her a letter, because usually that's easier than trying to, like, talk,
06:26because I can be really bad with, like, talking.
06:30Nothing beats an in-person apology, even if you don't have anything to say.
06:34And it's just, look, I'm sorry, I messed up.
06:37And that's all you can say, and just take the heat of your mistake.
06:42I don't know what to do.
06:45Just do what you think you need to do to make it right.
06:47Do what you should do to make it right, and then move on.
06:51I don't know how to.
06:54Just go do it.
06:57But I don't think you're really going to make a lot of progress
06:59until you take care of your debts and sell your scores.
07:02You shouldn't break your promise.
07:21Hello.
07:22Hello.
07:25Hello.
07:27It's been a while.
07:28Hi, nice to speak to you in person.
07:31You look so pretty.
07:33Oh, thanks.
07:34Hello.
07:34Nice to officially meet you, I guess.
07:36Nice to meet you.
07:37I have been messaging Ethan's ex-wife all summer,
07:41but today's my first day actually face-to-face talking with Olivia.
07:45Thank you for, like, taking my call, just chatting with me.
07:49I had heard through the grapevine that Veronica was really struggling dating Micah
07:55and that she was interested in talking to me, and I said, absolutely not.
08:01I am not getting involved in that.
08:03That is none of my business.
08:06And I was pretty sure she didn't like me anyways.
08:09When I first met Veronica, we spent a long time discussing a common experience with a narcissist.
08:16Olivia is definitely the narcissist Barry and I were talking about.
08:20A couple months ago, I went to a wedding with the whole Plath family.
08:23Olivia was there.
08:24She just, like, shoulder bumped into me and, like, mean girls.
08:28When I heard Veronica call me a narcissist publicly, I honestly laughed.
08:35Because I was like, you don't even know me.
08:38And then I laughed even more because, I'm sorry, but she said that I, like, shoulder checked her at a wedding.
08:43Girl, I'm not that tall.
08:44Girl, but then I saw her getting bullied on social media for how she looked.
08:48So I reached out to her.
08:50How are you?
08:52I feel like I should ask how you're doing.
08:55I am barely hanging in there, but I'm here.
08:57Over the summer, when my relationship went public on a large scale, my biggest nightmares came true.
09:05Online bullying was at an all-time high.
09:08Gender speculation.
09:10Body shaming.
09:11I felt attacked from all angles.
09:14And it just, as a person, it broke my soul.
09:18So I published a statement saying bullying is far too normalized now.
09:24Like, it's sickening.
09:26So as soon as I posted that statement, I went to go check my DMs and I saw one from Olivia.
09:31And I was like, wow, okay.
09:33And she goes, I hope you're doing okay.
09:35I hope you're hanging in there.
09:36And at that moment, that was all I needed to hear.
09:41And I felt solidarity.
09:42I felt compassion.
09:44The people who bully online and have things to say, like, you have to ignore them.
09:51Yeah.
09:51You're a breath of fresh air compared to what I'm dealing with.
09:54And, like, I don't feel alone.
09:56So I just wanted to call and, like, do, like, an actual apology.
10:01I am very sorry for what I said about you.
10:06My apologies for that.
10:07My apologies for calling you a narcissist.
10:10I've learned now.
10:12I've seen the true colors.
10:13I think very highly of you.
10:17And I was led to believe so many things.
10:19When I heard you say that, I was like, wow, it's really, um, un-based.
10:24Like, she doesn't know me.
10:24But, like, I never, like, hated you for it.
10:27I just figured it wasn't worth, like, you know, getting bent out of shape over.
10:31You're the bigger woman.
10:34I know we've only messaged on social media.
10:37Does Micah know that we've talked at all?
10:39No.
10:40So Micah doesn't know.
10:41To be honest with you, your name on my phone is Becky.
10:45I ask because knowing that you and him are together,
10:47I don't want to put your relationship in jeopardy.
10:49No.
10:50I will take full accountability for that.
10:52This is my actions.
10:53This is my free will.
10:55I'm treading lightly because even though we've talked some through messages,
10:59I don't know Veronica.
11:01And if the Plaths knew that I was talking to Veronica,
11:05they would probably be super pissed.
11:07But I remember when I was struggling with stuff with the Plath family,
11:11and it felt like nobody understood.
11:13And I felt like I was maybe going crazy.
11:15And if there had been somebody who had said,
11:21wow, I see you, you're not crazy, that makes a lot of sense.
11:24I think that that would have been so healing.
11:27Keeping a secret is not fun.
11:29I don't like keeping secrets from loved ones.
11:31But he also keeps his fair share of secrets, which...
11:34They do.
11:35They do.
11:36It is so lovely to see somebody that's been through a similar situation.
11:41Just smile and stand with me.
11:44I feel less alone now, so thank you.
11:46Like I said, you have my number.
11:47Yes.
11:48I'm here.
11:48You get it, girl.
11:50I appreciate you.
11:51Talk to you soon.
11:52Talk soon.
11:53Have a good day.
11:54Bye.
11:54Bye.
11:55I think I should let Micah know that I have spoken to Olivia.
12:00But I also know my journey is only going to get harder from here
12:03because he's going to tell the family, and it's only going to get worse.
12:07I am so playing with fire right now.
12:09Like, I feel like I'm in chemistry class and, like, mixing things together,
12:12and it's going to, like, explode any second.
12:14But it's sort of worth it for the thrill.
12:17Yes.
12:17I'm proposing in a week.
12:23I think just having everybody at the top of the peninsula.
12:27Zach and Lydia are moving very fast as a couple.
12:30I'm assuming he's not a serial killer, axe murderer.
12:33But, you know, I mean, she's only known him four months.
12:37I don't want to be around the family anymore.
12:40How many times have I reached out?
12:42Countless.
12:43How many times?
12:44You've reached out to Mariah?
12:45And the whole family trying to fix things.
12:47There's been things on both sides.
12:49It's been a heated thing.
12:52What's going on?
12:53I don't know.
12:55You damn won't, though.
13:08Let's go get Zachy up.
13:10Let's go wake up, Zach.
13:11Good morning.
13:14Good morning.
13:17You awake?
13:17Are you awake?
13:19Wake up.
13:19Wake up.
13:20Good morning.
13:21Wake up.
13:22I moved to Tallahassee a few months ago.
13:25My whole life was in Tallahassee pretty much.
13:28Work, friends, church.
13:30So I really felt like it was time to move there.
13:33And out of all people, I'd find a roommate with the name of Mariah, of course.
13:36Because, yeah, they're just awesome.
13:41Wakey, wakey, eggs and bakey.
13:43Good morning.
13:44I enjoy having Zach here.
13:47Something that I noticed from the beginning was he didn't try to perform.
13:51He didn't try to people please.
13:53He was kind and courteous.
13:55It was just who he was.
13:57He's a cool guy.
13:57He's a very special guy for Lydia.
14:00How'd you sleep?
14:01Good.
14:02You ready to sit up?
14:03Oh, yes.
14:03I'll help you.
14:04Like, it's a, okay, here we go.
14:05Yeah, how'd you sleep on the couch?
14:07Good.
14:08Good, yeah.
14:09Why do I sleep on the couch?
14:11Because you'd rather cuddle with the kitties than me.
14:16Oh, my goodness.
14:20This is a nice couch.
14:22I'm so glad.
14:22It is so comfy.
14:23It's very comfortable.
14:24I stay on the couch.
14:26Because no man's sleeping in my bed till we're married.
14:29That's true.
14:31So have you kissed yet?
14:32Have you cheated?
14:33You haven't kissed yet.
14:34Because we're not kissing until the wedding day.
14:36That was your idea.
14:39Joking.
14:40It looks like, it looks, Lydia, like that's getting harder and harder for you.
14:47It is.
14:48It was both of our ideas.
14:51Uh-huh.
14:51You could bring it up, though.
14:53How was K-Ro?
14:53Oh, my gosh.
14:54We've been chit-chatting.
14:55I heard you got Barry's blessing.
14:57Yes.
14:58Oh, my gosh.
14:58It was great.
14:59I was like.
15:00That's so cool.
15:00Definitely like nervous.
15:01Yeah, I get to propose to her now.
15:04That's so exciting.
15:05We won't tell her.
15:06Shh.
15:07I'm excited to know details that Lydia's not allowed to know at this time.
15:13We have a date set for the wedding, or a potential date set for the wedding, and yet, not engaged
15:22yet.
15:23I guess we're kind of in the planning phase.
15:27Even though there isn't a ring yet, but I trust that I'll be coming soon.
15:33Tell us.
15:34It will soon.
15:34Well, I'm going to propose to you at such and such a time.
15:39This, that, and the other one.
15:40At somewhere.
15:41There we go.
15:42That's the details.
15:44You asked for them.
15:45Okay.
15:46Kim is amazing planning stuff out, so I was like, all right, I'm going to bring you in
15:51on the proposal.
15:52We're going to get this all figured out.
15:54I just wanted to talk about the plan, surprising Lydia with the proposal.
16:01I know we were talking about the cabin, and this is beautiful.
16:06I'm proposing in a week.
16:08I'm planning it all, keeping the secret.
16:12I think just having everybody at the top of the peninsula would be great, and then just
16:17greeting her.
16:20Zach is a really great guy, but Zach and Lydia are moving very fast as a couple.
16:24I just worry that she doesn't really know what she's getting herself into.
16:27I'm assuming he's not a serial killer, axe murderer.
16:31But, you know, I mean, she's only known him four months.
16:35Did you guys get to talk to Ethan at all about it, or no?
16:38Um, a little bit, yeah.
16:39We kind of dropped everything on him, and I was like, oh, this is quite the first impression.
16:43Oh, man.
16:44He just, like, got done with his 24-hour road trip, and we were like, I guess.
16:48Yeah, he was a little quiet, but it's okay, and, like, I, yeah, I don't know.
16:53Is he always that way?
16:54That's Ethan.
16:55That's Ethan.
16:56If he, yeah, if he doesn't have any objection, he's just like, cool.
17:00Yeah.
17:00Fair enough.
17:01He would tell you.
17:01If he has objection, you would know about it.
17:03I would know.
17:04Okay.
17:04You would know.
17:05When I first met Ethan, he was pretty guarded.
17:07Usually an introduction is more like, oh, how's work?
17:11How's life?
17:11Not, you're about to marry my sister.
17:14We're seeing him tonight with a bunch of Isaac's friends, and I want them to get to know me
17:22enough to trust me in this whole process, because I know it's quick.
17:25I'm so excited for you guys.
17:28When Lydia and Zach first started dating, I also was like, wow, this is happening fast.
17:35But when God is doing something, he's going to work it all out, you know?
17:39I'm glad that it's been a fun process for you, too, because we really just want to bring
17:43everyone in on the fun.
17:44We don't want to just keep it for ourselves.
17:46I would say all our energy is very similar.
17:49We sing, we dance.
17:50We sing all the time.
17:52Yeah.
17:53Raya, you want to come join us?
17:54The more the merrier.
17:57Amazing grace, how sweet the sound.
18:06Four months in, we're planning a wedding and all this, and it's so easy to think, oh,
18:12some people aren't going to approve, and what?
18:14I'm like, who cares?
18:23I'm not seeking everyone's approval.
18:25I have my dad's approval, my pastor's blessing.
18:27I have my friends and family by my side, and the Lord's blessing most of all.
18:33So what more could I ask for?
18:35Now I see.
18:42Thank you for calling Georgias.
18:54This is Kim.
18:54How can I help you?
18:56I now have a part-time job.
18:57I work a couple nights a week hostessing, and it's fun.
19:01I like it.
19:02And how many people?
19:03I also love that Lydia works here, and Mariah works here, so I come into work, and I see
19:09at least one of my daughters.
19:11Spread the wood polish.
19:11Spread the wood polish.
19:12Stand up.
19:13Make it look really nice to you.
19:14Okay.
19:14It is hard getting back into the workforce.
19:18I haven't worked a job since I was in college.
19:21My business is the properties that I've built and managed, but we're still going through the
19:27divorce, and I don't know where that's going to end up.
19:30And if I lose the properties, and I don't have income from that, I really can't live
19:36on hostessing income.
19:38I think the hardest part of it is knowing that I'm in my 50s.
19:43I don't have, you know, like, retirement.
19:46I'm not set up for much more than this.
19:52I mean, I think I'm pretty good handling my money, but Barry is beyond good with money.
19:57He has a career, and I spent 25 years supporting him in his career, because I've been raising
20:05kids for 25 years.
20:07Hi.
20:09Welcome in, y'all.
20:10What can I do for you?
20:11You have a table for two people, please?
20:12Sure.
20:13It was a big adjustment to go from him, you know, really handling all the money to me,
20:19you know, handling all the money.
20:21There have been disagreements that Barry and I have had, because I'm hurting financially.
20:28There you go.
20:30Early on, after Barry and I separated, I made some bad decisions one night, and I ended up
20:36getting a DUI.
20:38Thankfully, I was fine, and no one else was involved in the accident.
20:43And I've learned a lot since then, and it's not something I will ever, ever repeat again.
20:52I did have court fees, lawyer fees, couldn't drive for a year or, I don't know, many months.
21:00I had to do, you know, regular testing, community service.
21:04It was a lot.
21:05It was hard.
21:05That was a really hard year for me, because it happened right as I was kind of starting
21:10to get, you know, my new life established, and it just made everything really, really
21:15difficult.
21:17Don't really focus too much on the rotation chart.
21:19Just put the people at a table, then go tell the server.
21:22And you know what?
21:23There was never a time that Barry came to me and said, you know, I see you're drinking.
21:30I see you got a DUI.
21:32Are you okay, Kim?
21:34Are you struggling with stuff?
21:35Do you want to talk?
21:36Like, I care about you as a person, and I'm just wondering, you know, we spent 25 years
21:41together.
21:41We had 10 kids together.
21:43I'm just curious if you're okay.
21:46He never asked.
21:48Okay, sounds good.
21:50Are you celebrating anything special tonight?
21:53It was hurtful to me because I really wanted us to stay friends, because I did value him
21:58as a person.
22:05Anything you want to share with the choir?
22:07Anything?
22:11I just would love to be brought in on what you guys are laughing about.
22:15Isaac?
22:16They won't know.
22:17Asher, was that all the steaks?
22:41No, there was more.
22:42Do we need to cook more?
22:42No, dude.
22:43Well, I mean, first...
22:43That's plenty.
22:44I mean, yeah, that's going to be enough right there.
22:46It's not too late.
22:47I can go ahead and season them up.
22:49Typically on Saturday nights, I end up doing stuff similar to this, you know, just all hanging
22:53out, just catching up with friends and my girlfriend and cooking some food and all just
22:58hanging out.
23:00Lydia and her boyfriend, Zach, are going to be here as well.
23:02All right, cool.
23:03Well, what do you think about them so far?
23:05You'll get your own opinion of them when you see them.
23:07Oh, okay.
23:09I mean, it doesn't really matter, you know, at the end of the day, if Lydia's happy.
23:14That's right.
23:16I know I'm happy.
23:19The boys probably won't like this, but it's what it is.
23:22We're just going to make them try.
23:25So, I haven't seen you in forever.
23:27How are things going with you and Isaac?
23:29Uh, it's going really good.
23:31He, um, he got me this new necklace.
23:34Let me see it.
23:35Yeah.
23:35It's got, like, our birthstones in it.
23:37Aw.
23:38And y'all's names on it, too.
23:39Yeah.
23:39That's cute.
23:41Isaac likes to just get me things, and it's very, very sweet.
23:45He does have a soft side to him, and that's one of the things that I really love about him.
23:50Isaac is a romantic, for sure.
23:53Hey, there's Ethan.
23:57Oh, Ethan's here?
23:58Hey, Isaac.
23:58What's up, Ethan?
23:59A lot.
24:00Good to see you, bro.
24:01Actually, this will be my first time meeting Ethan, and I'm nervous just because I want
24:06to make a good impression with his family and everything.
24:09This is Kalen.
24:09Kalen.
24:10Nice to meet you.
24:11Nice to meet you.
24:12This is your new girl.
24:14Yep.
24:14I told you.
24:15Very nice.
24:15This is my first time meeting Kalen, and Isaac just seems to adore her, you know?
24:20And that just makes me so happy.
24:24Oh, Ethan.
24:25What's up?
24:26Life of the party right there.
24:27How you doing, buddy?
24:28Doing good.
24:28How are you?
24:29Good, good.
24:30Good to see you.
24:30What are you guys cooking?
24:31Oh, we got some small steaks.
24:33I hope you're hungry.
24:34I am.
24:35I know Lydia and Zach were going to be coming at some point.
24:37I didn't know if you were coming with them or if you knew when they were going to be coming.
24:40Mm-mm.
24:40I want to know your thoughts about Zach after you meet him.
24:44Have you ever met him?
24:46I have not.
24:47Isaac's making it very mysterious, though.
24:51When I first met Zach, I was just completely taken aback by him.
24:54About his personality, the way he talks, not kissing, nothing physical.
24:58And then also the time frame and the fact that I firmly believe they don't know each other because I don't, there's no way that they can.
25:05I don't care how many mountains they hiked.
25:07I don't care how many things they did together.
25:08I don't care how long it felt.
25:10You've only known each other for four months.
25:12I just don't think it's a wise move.
25:28Girls!
25:29Hi, Dad.
25:29Hi, Dad.
25:30Wow.
25:31Woo!
25:32Rollerblade.
25:33You've got to rollerblade it.
25:34He's, like, taller than you.
25:35You are taller than me.
25:36So I've been here once before, but I'm coming down this evening to get the girls, and we can discuss the secret proposal.
25:46Do you always go rollerblading at night?
25:48Mm-mm.
25:49Not always.
25:50Barry and I are not divorced yet.
25:52There's things that we really haven't been able to agree on.
25:57Okay, you girls have fun.
25:58Okay, okay.
25:59Bye.
25:59Remember, on the sidewalk.
26:00Yeah.
26:01Yep.
26:01Don't fall.
26:03Currently, Kim and I have joint custody.
26:05We go on with me, we go on with her, and we alternate.
26:10That's our new equilibrium.
26:12So everybody's adjusting, and I think adjusting fairly well.
26:15Okay.
26:16All right.
26:17So, Lydia, there's a lot going on, huh?
26:20It's hard for me to talk to Barry about anything, but it's really hard to talk about the divorce things, because I know it's a real volatile thing.
26:28If we try to talk specifics, as soon as we hit one thing that we don't agree on, he just ups and leaves.
26:33Like, I really need him to hear me.
26:38I wanted to talk to you, because I want this wedding to be, I mean, I know we're separated, I know we're not divorced yet, but I really want it to be, we're all still family.
26:53Yeah.
26:53You know?
26:53Oh, yeah.
26:54And I want to be on good terms with you.
26:58I don't want to, you know, like, I'm really...
27:04No rifts, no issues.
27:05Yeah, but I have issues right now.
27:07I'm really struggling with bitterness against you.
27:10I do have some feelings of bitterness towards Barry.
27:13All of the roadblocks to us finishing the divorce are falling to him.
27:18He's the one holding it up.
27:20He's the one that stands to gain financially by holding it up.
27:24One thing is, you and I both know, I mean, I'm renting a house, I'm paying for the girls to do taekwondo and Mercy to have art lessons, and all of those things set me back, and I'm struggling.
27:40I'm going into debt a lot.
27:42I'm putting lawyer fees on my credit card, because how else am I going to pay for a lawyer?
27:47I don't have that kind of money.
27:48Yeah.
27:49Things are not looking good.
27:51Yeah.
27:51I need child support from Barry.
27:55You know, we have our dollar amount that both of our lawyers have said is a fair amount that he would end up paying child support, but right now, with everything still not being settled, he won't give me a dime.
28:07You know, you bring home ten times what I do.
28:12On my end, I'm feeling pretty ambushed.
28:17Hold on.
28:18Oh.
28:18I think this is my Airbnb guest.
28:22Hello?
28:25Yes.
28:26I'm like, okay, time out.
28:28So I just, I have to leave, because I'm really, like, not going to just sit here and listen to this.
28:35Hey, how's it going out here?
28:37Hello.
28:37About rollerbladers?
28:38Yeah, show me how good of a rollerbladers you are.
28:42I think she expected me to just be easy.
28:48I don't think she expected this type of fight.
28:52See, this is the problem.
28:54You won't even talk to me.
28:57I'm not filming anymore.
28:59Well, then I'm going to go in and tell them my side of the story.
29:04Is that what you want?
29:10See, this is the problem.
29:12You won't even talk to me.
29:14I went down there to meet with Kim to talk about Lydia's proposal.
29:20And then I got ambushed with financial things.
29:27So I just, I have to leave, because I'm really, like, not going to just sit here and listen to this.
29:31The one time today I get a phone call that is, I have to make, because I have a guest that I have to talk to right now.
29:38And it blows my whole divorce, negotiation, talking, whatever deal.
29:42Like, just trying to, oh.
29:46I feel like I'm at the end of my rope.
29:48I don't know what I'm going to do.
29:49I could be homeless in less than a year.
29:52And he doesn't care.
29:53I got control of my emotions.
30:01And I do go back in, because, you know, I do want to leave on a less negative note.
30:11Um, anyway, so, um, like I said before, I'm going into debt.
30:19I mean, just, I wonder sometimes how I'm going to have gas money to get to work.
30:22You know, like, it's tight.
30:25Yeah.
30:27There's also just the whole thing.
30:28If it's been three years, and we're still nowhere closer to getting this done, and I'm struggling.
30:35Like, I want my life to move forward, you know?
30:39And I just feel so trapped and stuck.
30:42And, like, I don't know what to do.
30:44And I can't keep going on like this.
30:46Why aren't the lawyers moving this forward?
30:47I don't know.
30:48My lawyer doesn't call me back.
30:49Your lawyer doesn't call you back.
30:51That's why.
30:52I email her every week.
30:56When it comes to Kim, you know, I've, I have developed a very guarded heart.
31:02I don't let myself get attached, even when she's making emotional appeals.
31:06And, you know, that is kind of one of those results of the pain and the, the, the rough
31:14time I went through.
31:15You know, I've kind of firewalled myself off from Kim and everything that she brings to
31:23the table now.
31:24Yeah, we're at the point where we just have confirmed that we are just at an impasse and
31:30the lawyers are just going to handle things from here.
31:32And the background runs the legal process and what we need to have accomplished.
31:37Yeah.
31:38But, um, in the foreground, we've got a wedding.
31:40Yeah.
31:41So I guess we both call our lawyers tomorrow and see if we can light a fire under them.
31:49Yes.
31:50Let's, let's do that.
31:51We need to.
31:52Because I really want to get this resolved.
31:53I mean, we're both eager to have a settlement, but neither of us is willing to accept the
32:08other's settlement agreement.
32:10That just leads us to, they need a lawyer to get to the finish line.
32:16Watch the guitars.
32:17Woo.
32:18Here, let me get this for you.
32:22This doesn't change anything about our ability to co-parent.
32:25It just probably means that we both like each other a little bit less.
32:30I'll sit down.
32:43I'm down at one of my buddy's cabins, and I'm with a group of friends, a smaller group.
32:49We named our, uh, our group the Rowdies, because we can get a little rowdy sometimes.
32:56We got a new addition to the regular group tonight.
32:58Ethan's actually in town.
32:59Ethan fits right in.
33:00They all like him, and he's definitely can get along with them really good.
33:03Hey, guys.
33:04How's it going?
33:05Hey, what's up?
33:06Hey, what's up?
33:07Hey.
33:08Hey, Isaac.
33:09Hey, what's up, Lydia?
33:10How's it going?
33:11What's going on, Zach?
33:12Good to see you, man.
33:13Good to see you.
33:14Zach's leaving town soon.
33:15Tomorrow, actually.
33:16Which isn't okay.
33:17We need to stay here forever.
33:19Zach's gotten to spend a lot of time with the rest of my family, but not so much my brothers.
33:23What was your name?
33:24Hey, I'm Asher.
33:25Asher, I'm back.
33:26Nice to meet you.
33:27Great to meet you.
33:28I think I've met you before.
33:29I don't know.
33:30I think so.
33:31I know we've seen each other.
33:32Maybe a time or two.
33:33Yeah.
33:34But it's nice to see you.
33:35I think I've seen all of you at some point, so.
33:36Glad to see you again.
33:37So you guys are just now having dinner.
33:38Yeah.
33:39Do you want to blow up a chair or something?
33:41For my sisters, I feel that my role is the guys that they bring home, feel them out,
33:46and get a read on them for who they are and what they think.
33:49And just giving him a little before he joins the family for good.
33:52Bye.
33:53I'm Lydia.
33:54I know you are.
33:55Good to see you.
34:00I've only met Zach once, and Lydia doesn't know him much better than we do.
34:04She's only known him for four months now.
34:07And it's obvious just how different Zach is from not just me, but all my friends,
34:12most people down here.
34:13We can get to know Zach better, but with the way it is now, by the time we get to know
34:18him, they're already going to be married, so.
34:20It's just, it's a lot to take at once.
34:23What you guys been up to?
34:24I've seen you around a little bit, just here and there after work.
34:27Wedding planning.
34:30And, yeah.
34:32All kinds of stuff, so.
34:34Yeah.
34:35I mean, that's what we, that's what we did today.
34:38We went to the farm and met up with Kim.
34:40The field areas, it'll be beautiful.
34:42Yeah.
34:43I'm excited.
34:44Especially with the lights up and the tool and the tent and all the decorations.
34:48So.
34:49I don't frankly quite understand all the wedding planning stuff.
34:54They're not even engaged yet, so.
34:56I had such a hard time keeping a straight face.
34:58Probably not, not the nicest thing, but that's, that's just me, I guess.
35:04Anything you want to share with the choir, Ethan?
35:14The choir?
35:15Sorry, I grew up in, in, I was in a lot of choirs growing up.
35:21Interesting.
35:22Huh?
35:23What?
35:24I know a lot of inside jokes are there and, you know, there's only so much I can relate
35:34to with them.
35:35A big reason why we're here was just to spend more time with them and so I'm a little bummed
35:39it got awkward.
35:40I just would love to be brought in on what you guys are laughing about.
35:45Isaac?
35:46Do you want to?
35:47I don't know.
35:52I guess I just want them to trust me, but it's, you know, there's only so much so that
35:56I can do.
35:57Well, that was good.
35:58I'm done.
35:59I don't know about y'all.
36:00Thank you for dinner.
36:01Oh yeah.
36:02Very good.
36:03Glad y'all swung out and seen us and everything.
36:06Zach leaves tomorrow and I do kind of feel bad for Zach because he is a very intentional
36:13person and he loves to, he loves to, you know, get to know people in any way possible and
36:20always looking to start a conversation and that just wasn't really possible to do with
36:24them tonight, so.
36:25That's okay.
36:26Man, you can't make life up, you know?
36:29But Ethan's just trying to push my buttons, so he can have all the fun he wants, but I
36:36don't find that too fun.
36:37Yeah.
36:42Oh, you missed.
36:44Well, I won't miss this time.
36:47Ethan, you've got it coming to you one of these days.
36:51She knows what I was going through when she treated me like that.
36:56Should I, should I elaborate for everybody?
36:59Should I?
37:00Because I can and you can see why I'm so upset that you don't back me.
37:04I'm gonna run with it then.
37:05Wait, did you bring the body spray?
37:17You didn't say please.
37:18Oh.
37:19Oh, thank you.
37:20Would you like some?
37:21No.
37:22He already got me.
37:23Now I smell less like an ogre.
37:33Like a pretty monkey.
37:34So, tell us about your house.
37:38It's nice.
37:39I like it.
37:40Almost everything needs to be fixed.
37:43I love it though.
37:45He's less enthralled.
37:48Um, the dirt.
37:49I don't like we're working at the new house and like our walls are all white and his hands
37:53are dirty.
37:54And I'm like, how are the walls?
37:56There's like, there's like prints of your, it looks like he's trying to get out.
37:59Um, maybe I am.
38:02Are you guys doing okay?
38:04We're comfortable.
38:05I feel like the only thing we fight about is I don't want to be around the family anymore.
38:12Life is short.
38:13But it only gets worse if you just avoid it.
38:15How many times have I reached out? Countless.
38:18How many times?
38:19You've reached out to Mariah?
38:20And the whole family trying to fix things.
38:22I'm just saying it's not, there's been things on both sides.
38:26It's been a heated thing.
38:32What's going on?
38:34I don't know.
38:35You damn won't know.
38:37I don't know.
38:44Some nerve.
38:49Um.
38:50So when I try to show, tell you my view on things.
38:54She knows what I was going through when she treated me like that.
38:58Should I, should I elaborate for everybody?
39:02Should I?
39:05Cause I can and you can see why I'm so upset that you don't back me.
39:09I'd back you when you hurt me.
39:11You don't care.
39:14Yes I do.
39:15You care about yourself.
39:16I have backed you when you have done the most selfish.
39:18I care about you and my family more.
39:20I have backed you.
39:21Is this yes or no?
39:22Because I'll say it if you disagree.
39:26Yes or no.
39:28That is backing in a way.
39:30Okay, so if we're going to do it in a way, I'm going to run with it then.
39:35Mike has cheated on me several times.
39:41I hate his behavior.
39:42I've denied it all.
39:44I've made a united front.
39:47I lied to people to protect you.
39:50When I knew the truth.
39:52I was more scared about the truth coming out because it would hurt you.
39:56And I put myself aside.
39:58And my pride.
40:01And backed him.
40:02And blamed myself.
40:04And Mariah knew about it.
40:05Yet still brought me through this hell.
40:09And he don't care.
40:23Ethan is very much a, you know, like rugged man's man.
40:26I can see where Zach maybe is just not as macho.
40:31I went shake his hand when I first met him though.
40:33And I was like shaking his hand and he was just climbing up on me.
40:37Well, he wanted to hug me.
40:39God, he's a hugger.
40:41That's true.
40:43Veronica and I drove up late last night to Georgia.
40:46Lydia's not supposed to know we're here because we are here to witness her engagement.
40:50I think Ethan's here.
40:52That's lovely. I need a minute.
40:54There's tension between Veronica and my family.
40:56But there's also tension between Veronica and I.
40:59It's tricky to navigate.
41:01I'm avoiding the family.
41:02They were very sweet at first and then they all turned.
41:05He's gonna do anything to not have me like pop off.
41:07Obviously the day of the wedding is gonna be a big day, but I'm just excited to do life with Zach.
41:18I don't really like him.
41:20Why is that?
41:21Just being honest with you.
41:23I just don't like him.
41:24He's gonna be murdering him when I titled it.
41:30coordinating hell on it.
41:31He's gonna be murdering him.
41:34I'm not making a lot of sense.
41:36Of all.
41:37No, no, no, no.
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