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00:00Previously on open house. I'm really excited. I'm nervous. I'm scared.
00:08How's it going? Scared! I can feel him shaking. I have fantasized many times about seeing Johnny
00:17with a female. We've gone along to these swingers parties. When it actually comes to the crunch,
00:22we just sort of... You can't close the deal. Yes! We can help.
00:30It just wasn't what we talked about. No, it's not. But nothing goes to plan,
00:33is it? Let's be honest. Your relationship's at stake, to lose it,
00:37would be to lose everything. I haven't experienced anything with a girl,
00:40so I am a bit curious as well.
00:44I really want him to relax. I want him to enjoy it.
00:48I'm literally ready to go, like, oh, I'll fucking see you later.
00:52What do you think about the idea of a morsome?
00:55Okay. We come in for a girl. We never came here for this.
01:00I know of a lovely year to cross. So, imagine multiple people in the
01:04same room having sex. It's pretty scary, a bit daunting.
01:08Get on the clitoris couch. Clitoris couch.
01:13Right now, I'm feeling anxious. Far too many people in that room for me.
01:17Come on. We're going to have a lot to go.
01:20Just like, what? And it's just hit me. It's just hit me.
01:23I am struggling with it.
01:33Tell me how you feel. I've got, like, 10 people in there, and I'm like,
01:3710 horny people in there. They're like, it's scaring me.
01:41Oh, yeah. There you go.
01:43Sarah and Johnny are attempting to open up by experiencing their first ever
01:47orgy. But Johnny is on the brink. It's all been amazing. Yeah.
01:51But it's overwhelming. I can't really enjoy myself. You don't want to pursue.
01:55Is that what you're saying? It's not that I don't want to pursue a thing.
01:58If we don't do it now, then I don't think we're ever going to.
02:01He's naturally going to be a bit nervous, but we just need to crack on and get it done.
02:08It's a big, big thing for me. Baby, listen, don't, like, don't worry.
02:12I'm so happy that you've spent your mind to me. Yeah.
02:14You've not kept any of this to yourself.
02:16I think the apology thing might be too much for them.
02:18I don't think I'm getting bored.
02:21There's definitely too many people in that room for me.
02:24It's a scary scenario for a mum.
02:26So what are we going to do about that?
02:29It is intense. It is scary because there's loads of us and, like, you know, two of them.
02:38How are you guys doing? We're good. We just had a little chat.
02:44A little debrief. Yeah, debrief.
02:49You're all amazing.
02:54We had a talk and we'd rather, like, have a little bit more intimacy with a few less people.
03:00That's fair enough.
03:02We'd like to ask a couple of people to stay if that's okay with you.
03:05Hopefully they might want to take that step further.
03:11Yeah, we've definitely got a little bit of a keen eye on them, so hopefully it does go further.
03:16Don't want to offend any of you.
03:19We'd like to spend a bit of time with Jen and Mark and Gracie if she would stay with us, you know.
03:24I think I'm available.
03:27No offence to any of you. It's just that I'm so overwhelmed with it all.
03:31It's like, wow, it's massive for me. The main thing is that you have fun.
03:35Cheers, guys! Cheers!
03:38Cheers!
03:39Have the best time.
03:44Have a great time.
03:45Weird, isn't it? Fuckers!
03:47There you go.
03:48OK, then, well, do you guys want to start us off with a dice?
03:54Yeah.
04:01Breasts, my choice.
04:04This is lovely.
04:05Yeah? Thank you.
04:05For the first time coming out.
04:06Oh, yeah!
04:07Lovely little ball!
04:08Great!
04:14Nice.
04:15Oh, God, you smell so good.
04:16Ooh, that's hard.
04:19There you are.
04:20They're hot.
04:22They're very hot.
04:26Are you nervous?
04:27No, I am. It's just a little...
04:29It's just straight.
04:29Different for me, you know what I mean?
04:34It's my first time.
04:35You know, I'm trying to get myself into this and it's hard.
04:39Yeah, I don't understand why it is an issue, but it is.
04:42Are you going to perform?
04:44Is he going to show up?
04:48I was just thinking maybe we could just, like, take everything from the game that we just played
04:53and maybe just, like, implement it to each other on the pen.
04:56It's just completely natural to be nervous and, you know, I feel very privileged to be able to
05:05go up to them and just, like, hold their hand and be like, it's okay.
05:07So, we were maybe just thinking, like, um, maybe the girls.
05:14Yeah.
05:14Okay, so I first have a little kissy, kissy, kissy, kissy, kissy.
05:16Yeah, kissy.
05:17Um, and yeah, and we'll just obviously, like, explore a little bit and then whenever you
05:20feel comfortable, maybe join us.
05:22Yeah.
05:31With Sarah jumping straight in, it's riding on Johnny to make their long-standing dream
05:37of opening up a reality.
05:50Seeing Sarah with a woman just got me going.
05:52That was the main thing that got me going.
05:54I sat, I watched, I sat there and yeah, he started working.
06:02Do you have any other kicks?
06:05This is what I needed.
06:06I needed this kick.
06:07I needed this push.
06:22I just relaxed into it.
06:24I just got really excited.
06:35I just didn't have any insecurities that I had.
06:38Just weren't there.
06:41I was just lost in the moment.
06:49Oh, my God.
06:50Oh, oh!
06:54Wow, that was crazy.
07:04Um, I don't know what to say.
07:05Um, it's not like guns, I'm going to be honest.
07:07Like...
07:08Was that good for you?
07:09Oh, well...
07:12Was it good for me or was it good for you?
07:13Uh, it was alright, you know.
07:15We want more!
07:15This is just the first step.
07:20This is the first step and what we needed to do.
07:22Because this is what we want to do.
07:23We want to enjoy each other.
07:25We want to share it.
07:26That's just an amazing experience.
07:28What a rollercoaster it's been.
07:33We came here looking for a threesome with a girl.
07:37We've ended up coming out with an orgy.
07:39With a fine bit of an orgy, what can I say?
07:54Some amazing memories we've made.
07:58You're going to miss it.
07:58I'm going to miss it too.
08:03I've learned so much about myself.
08:06I'm absolutely going to carry on exploring my bisexual side.
08:10I was so worried about what other people think about my actions.
08:13You know, all that's gone now.
08:15This is my life and I'm owning it.
08:16There it is.
08:18Yay.
08:19That's where the magic happened.
08:21It certainly did.
08:23For us, we want to open up our relationship.
08:28It's only going to improve what we've got already, which is amazing anyway.
08:33Yeah, I agree.
08:37I love you so much, babe.
08:39I love you.
08:48Also staying at the retreat.
08:49Father Amy.
08:50Our married parents of six, Claude and Amy.
08:53What brings you here today?
08:54I want multiple people in my life at all times.
08:58You're curious to find out if polyamory is right for you?
09:00The thought of it sounds amazing, but maybe in practical terms, it ain't as good as it sounds.
09:07Do you really want this?
09:10That's what we're here to find out, I guess.
09:13For me, if I connect with a couple, I want to know, okay,
09:15the connection is so real that they don't mind that I'm not willing to go.
09:18Jump into it.
09:19Yeah.
09:19She's definitely on my wavelength.
09:21Are you going to go back with me?
09:22No.
09:25Did you struggle?
09:26Yeah.
09:27Because I've been monogamous my whole life, doing something with another woman, even with consent,
09:33makes me feel like it's wrong.
09:35Oh, this is kind of annoying.
09:37It's definitely weird for me.
09:41For me, the ultimate goal would be to have a relationship with other people actually inside
09:47of our relationship.
09:48If I couldn't achieve that with Claude, it would definitely be something that
09:53put a spanner in our relationship.
09:55Claude and Amy are in the hot tub with residents Georgie and Emily.
10:10While Amy gets stuck in, Claude stays very much on the sidelines.
10:23That was so, like, soft and gentle.
10:36Doing something with another woman, even with consent, makes me feel like it's wrong.
10:41I think I would do pretty much anything for Amy, so I just need to go with feeling
10:59guilty and guilty about doing it.
11:18Seeing Claude with another woman turns me on.
11:21I only want him to be happy, and if someone else can bring
11:24a bit of happiness that I don't even have anything to do with, that's something I love.
11:29I'm happy to go somewhere else, no internet.
11:43Sorry, I'm going to drop a bombshell now.
11:44No, no, no.
11:45I would rather take this slow, for me.
11:50Just because when I'm looking for, like, emotional, romantic connection,
11:53I take it a lot slower.
11:55Yeah, yeah.
11:56Is that OK?
11:57Yeah, yeah.
12:00OK, shall we exit?
12:03Even though we're a bunch of sexually liberated people, like, we also still sometimes like to
12:08take it really slow.
12:10I think when it comes to polyamory especially, there is that sort of need to get to know each
12:16other to make it more of a special connection.
12:19We shall see you tomorrow.
12:20I'd like to see you tomorrow.
12:21Yep.
12:21It was so lovely to meet you.
12:22Thank you guys.
12:23I think my advice to them would be, like, if you do want to build, like, a really emotional
12:28connection, like, maybe take things a little bit slower.
12:32Oh, have an amazing night, guys.
12:34Yeah, you too.
12:34Have a good sleep.
12:35Then you really have the best time.
12:36Bye.
12:38It's actually a red room.
12:44Yeah.
12:45I love that.
12:46So going into this, I feel like it's an adventure that I should have had a million times.
12:55Water?
12:56Yeah, 100%.
12:58Yeah.
12:58I'm just going to set the lighting a little bit.
13:02Amy definitely knows what she wants more than I do.
13:04Like, I'm still a bit, like, in the air.
13:07I don't know if I can do it or not.
13:11Oh, no.
13:12There we go.
13:15The worst case scenario for us is that that guilt doesn't go away for Claude and he's just like,
13:20this isn't going to be for me.
13:26These are nice.
13:41Amy is desperate to invite multiple partners into their relationship.
13:45Are you going to come train us?
13:47I know.
13:47I'm just processing.
13:51But as things ramp up, Claude faces the ultimate decision.
13:55Are you okay?
14:02I'm going to kiss you now.
14:03Okay.
14:05Oh, no.
14:25Amy definitely wants another girl in a relationship.
14:35And I'm going to have to spend time alone with these people.
14:37So I have to get rid of that feeling of guilt.
14:40I think the only thing that is holding him back is how much he loves me and that society tells
14:47us that this is just not the normal.
15:00I think it's the special thing.
15:13I think it's the only thing to do.
15:18I think it's the only thing to do.
15:21Oh, my God.
15:29I'm coming, I'm coming.
15:32That's not how you expected it.
15:44It's definitely different to what I expected.
15:46Yeah, yeah, yeah.
15:47Do you want to go back to our room?
16:06You're right, little lady?
16:10I don't really know.
16:17How do you feel we're going to get what we need from this experience?
16:26I don't really know how I think I feel right now.
16:33Do you feel like you're going to know something different?
16:35Yeah.
16:35Do you feel like this maybe wasn't for me?
16:48I can borrow him any time you want.
17:00I feel like this maybe wasn't for me.
17:03Yeah, well, yeah, it's the same for you and...
17:06Yeah, no, but you should carry on like you're...
17:09No, I'm not, like, I'm here with us.
17:12Not for me.
17:18Hi, guys. Come in.
17:23With last night's events troubling Amy...
17:25Get comfy on my couch.
17:28...they're meeting up with non-monogamy coach Effie.
17:32Um, how are you feeling?
17:35I feel like...
17:39I don't know.
17:41I feel like I made a mistake last night going too far.
17:46Tell me. Tell me about last night.
17:48I feel like I would be...
17:49Me, you and Georgie, we went to the Red Room together.
17:52How was that?
17:53I think it's the reason that I feel not good today.
17:57And at the time it was everything I wanted to do.
18:00This is a lifestyle that I crave, but...
18:09It's okay.
18:11There's some tissues right in front of me.
18:13It's probably good.
18:14For me, it's not about sex and stuff.
18:16It is about building relationships.
18:18Yeah, yeah, yeah.
18:19I understand.
18:20Claude, how are you feeling?
18:22Like, last night, I was feeling fine.
18:24But obviously...
18:26Yeah, I ruined it.
18:27No, I see an Amy like this.
18:29I never want to see her upset or...
18:31Yeah.
18:32...sad about anything.
18:34What do you think would help you on your journey to get the polyamorous relationship that you want for yourselves?
18:46Um...
18:47Is there anybody else you're connected with?
18:49Yeah, with, like, Naomi, was that her name?
18:51Yeah.
18:52Everything about her was, to me, like, everything I was looking for.
18:56I feel like I definitely want to speak to Naomi.
19:01Okay.
19:02How about getting back together with Naomi and have, like, a nice date?
19:08Yeah.
19:09Um...
19:10Claude, would you want to go on a date with Georgie?
19:12Yeah, yeah, I'll go and have it.
19:14Like, if Amy's going to go and talk to Naomi, I'll go and have a chat with Georgie, yeah.
19:19Because it is about making those connections and see if we can hold them in a meaningful way.
19:24Yeah.
19:25Because that will make the polyamorous family that you guys want.
19:30Does that feel good?
19:31Yeah, perfect, thank you.
19:32Okay.
19:33Thank you very much, I really appreciate it.
19:35Yeah, thank you.
19:36Take care.
19:42Polyamorous journey is a long one.
19:43Claude and Amy's time here is short.
19:45The best that we can do here is give them the tools and the skills and help them overcome some of the hurdles
19:51and build the relationship they want.
19:54I am really looking forward to seeing Naomi again,
19:58to see if there's a much bigger connection there.
20:01And I feel like the best outcome for Claude is that he comes back and he's like,
20:04I really just enjoyed talking to another girl without me.
20:07I feel like I'm getting more scared.
20:14On their way to join the others at the retreat are Alex and Alana from Plymouth.
20:29Our first date, Alana said she did the best mash in Devon and it turns out she doesn't.
20:36She couldn't even.
20:37I do.
20:38No, I do.
20:39You can't even cook a sausage in a microwave.
20:42Luckily, the couple are to one another's taste.
20:46And they've now settled down as a blended family with a child each from previous relationships.
20:51We're constantly, like, re-falling in love with each other all the time.
20:56I don't know why I'm getting emotional.
21:01I've just never had such a safe space with somebody.
21:08And the committed couple are just as passionate about one another in the bedroom.
21:13Sex is definitely, like, our number one hobby.
21:17We've got our normal sex and beautiful sex, but then we've got the one where we're like,
21:21should we try something new today?
21:23Yeah, we're very experimental.
21:25What's the weirdest thing that you've ever done?
21:27I don't know if I want to say.
21:29Peggyn, you wear a strap on and...
21:32We get to reverse roles.
21:34I know what I'm doing, surprisingly.
21:36Yeah, you can fuck.
21:38Now they want to spice things up further by exploring non-monogamy.
21:43Ultimately, why we're here is to bring in another couple.
21:47I think because we're boundary pushers, there's something we both want to be in, like, open relationships.
21:51I think it's actually, like, sex can be shared. It doesn't have to be for just two people.
21:56We don't want this to just be a one-off experience.
21:59We really want to see ourselves, like, diving into the lifestyle.
22:06Although they're heading to the perfect place to open up,
22:09Alana will need to overcome her biggest barrier.
22:12My previous relationships with men haven't been great.
22:17A lot of cheating, um, on their part.
22:20It definitely made me more, like, cautious of women.
22:24I've got VOK with Alex being with another woman.
22:28That makes me feel physically sick.
22:34Oh, my God.
22:36I'm so scared.
22:42Oh, he's so fit.
22:44Hiya, you all right?
22:45Hello, everyone.
22:46Hello.
22:47Hiya.
22:48Hiya.
22:49Hi. Hello.
22:50I love that dress.
22:52Thank you so much.
22:53Nice to meet you.
22:54Bonjour.
22:55How are you doing?
22:56I like him.
22:57He's my type.
22:58But, yeah, we have plenty of time to discover each other.
23:00Hi, guys.
23:01Welcome.
23:02I'm Rochelle.
23:03Nice to meet you.
23:04How are you doing? You all right?
23:05What's your name, Tommy?
23:06It's Alex.
23:07Alex.
23:08Alex.
23:09Strong handshake, Alex.
23:10He was tall and gorgeous.
23:12Very good looking.
23:15That was insane.
23:16Like...
23:17That was so insane.
23:18Walking in.
23:19My heart was pounding.
23:20I didn't expect there to be so many people when we first came.
23:22No.
23:23Certainly other women being around my partner is, like, a massive thing for me.
23:28I don't want to, like, bring up Alana's hurt again.
23:30Like, it might reignite that, like, fear in her.
23:34I'd like to think I'll surprise myself and be, like, really okay.
23:42That's how I want it to go.
23:45We've got a lot to lose.
23:47Everything is at stake, really, here.
23:50This is the person that I want to spend the rest of my life with.
24:04I love you.
24:12I love you so much.
24:16Newcomers Alex and Alana are visiting the retreat in search of couples to open up with,
24:22despite Alana's fear of seeing Alex with another woman.
24:25I need a nervous week.
24:27Yeah, I need to go as well.
24:30Hey, guys.
24:31Hi, welcome.
24:32Come in, I'm Effie.
24:33Hey, hello.
24:34How are you doing?
24:35You all right?
24:36Yeah, good.
24:37This is going to be so far.
24:39Nice, isn't it?
24:40I want to know what brings you here.
24:42What brings you to the retreat?
24:43Tell me.
24:44We're, like, boundary pushers.
24:46I think, like, from, like, when we very first met, like, we were very, like, into, like,
24:52sex and, like, pushing boundaries and bringing new things and ideas in.
24:55And we're at the stage now where we want to be part of, like, a couple of sorts,
24:59but we don't know how that looks.
25:02But equally, it's probably me that's been, like, holding us back.
25:06Okay.
25:07I would class myself as bisexual.
25:09Okay.
25:10So I've been with women in the past.
25:11I've had relationships with women.
25:12Mm-hmm.
25:13But, yeah, just through, like, past experiences with men.
25:18I've been cheated on quite a lot.
25:20So it's, I guess, like, damaged.
25:24I feel emotional.
25:26Well, that's okay.
25:27From the moment we met, like, we would go around town and if there was, like, a girl in small shorts or anything like that,
25:35she would have, like, panic and freeze and she would want me to, like, get on another street.
25:38So what's at stake is Alana's, like, feelings and emotions.
25:42Where are you with that stuff now?
25:44Obviously, with talking about things being more intimate and stuff, that's obviously quite a big step up from where I was, like, to say a year ago.
25:54If you'd have said to me, you're going to be here, I would have been, like, absolutely not.
25:58Okay.
25:59So, so, given that it's so potent for you, why do you want to open up your relationship to put yourself, really test those, those parts of you that, that are tender?
26:08Obviously, we're doing this, like, for us as a couple, but there's also, like, a little bit of selfishness in it for me where I'm, like, just want to be able to get past that.
26:18And that would benefit us so much more as a couple if I could really let go of those feelings and be, like, I'm good.
26:27What are you thinking, Alex?
26:29No, I absolutely agree. Like, I think if you can, like, overcome that, like, that's a beautiful place to be.
26:34But it's a delicate situation now because I wouldn't want to, like, take steps back.
26:38I know that you desperately want to get over this.
26:41And hopefully this is the safe space that you get to find out if you can do it or not, right?
26:47Yeah.
26:48And for you, attractive woman is the threat, right? Understandable reasons.
26:53So, we kind of want you to face that threat in this controlling environment where we're going to take care of you.
26:59Would you be open to maybe find a single woman that you're both attracted to and then invite them for your little sexy threesome?
27:10I feel like I'd be more comfortable if it was with, like, to invite a couple to spend time with us.
27:16I just feel like that's going to be too intense.
27:20I know that you ultimately want the couple swap, and that is something that I'm not taking that away from you.
27:27We just need to work on those insecurities.
27:30What has happened to you sucks. It's terrible.
27:33You've put all the charge onto women. So, if we can just take that charge away, you're going to have much smoother experiences.
27:41I just, like, there's obviously that little bit of worry there. Like, say if we go to, like, do something and things happen, and then I'm, like, I'm not okay with it.
27:53I can't unsee those things.
27:56Yeah. What are your thoughts?
27:58With what you're saying, I absolutely agree with what you're saying. I guess the root cause is the female, and we can go absolutely slow.
28:05I'm not good anywhere. Like, I'm with you. Like, we can go as little steps and see where we go. We can do it.
28:12Yeah. Okay.
28:14I understand, like, why you're doing that and where my head needs to be. I still feel really nervous, but I feel less sick now.
28:25Good. Good. I love that.
28:28Okay, I'm excited for you. I'm going to be here to meet you tomorrow, so I can't wait to hear how it goes.
28:34Excited? Yeah.
28:36Love you. Love you.
28:38Thank you very much. Thank you so much.
28:41Oh.
28:44For Alana and Alex, jumping straight into a couple swap would be a difficult thing to navigate.
28:49Doing something like this is definitely going to challenge her.
28:52Alana needs to find a connection with other women and feel safe in their presence so that she can actually have group sessions or threesome sessions.
29:02Oh, my God. Look.
29:04That bath. Check the bath out.
29:06Wow.
29:09Yeah.
29:10Come here.
29:11I don't want to cry again.
29:12Don't have to cry. It's okay.
29:14If we could come out of this situation and say we're in an open relationship, I think that would be an amazing thing.
29:20I literally don't know what to do with myself. Like...
29:23Have you seen your place?
29:26I... Oh, God.
29:27It's like, let's just go in with, like...
29:29Don't know until we do it.
29:31And we are banjo pushers. Like, open mind.
29:33Yeah.
29:34I'm not even joking. When she first said it, I thought, that scenario wasn't in my head. I'm not doing it. I don't want to do it. Like, I want to live.
29:44Me and Alex absolutely love each other more than anything. It would be devastating if anything went wrong here. For sure.
29:52I hope you have an amazing time. I'm excited for you to get to know someone more.
30:04On Effie's advice, this afternoon, both Claude and Amy will have separate dates.
30:10I'll actually brush my teeth. I'm going to be talking to her.
30:14Yeah, I'll brush my teeth.
30:16If they're truly to embrace polyamory, they need to be confident that they can explore meaningful, loving connections with other people.
30:24I said, like, the end goal is to feel the way you feel about me with multiple people, and you can't get to it unless you do push yourself to try and make friends with other people.
30:35Bye, love you.
30:36I miss you.
30:37I miss you.
30:39You're a mess.
30:41You're a crazy man.
30:43Amy is meeting up with resident Naomi, who she met at last night's social.
30:49So the best outcome for me is that me and Naomi really, like, hit it off.
30:55I want something that's long-term, eventually.
30:58Hiya.
30:59Hi.
31:00How are you?
31:01Good, how are you?
31:02Oh, you look lovely.
31:03So nice to see you again.
31:05There's a million and one ways to navigate a polyamorous relationship, but the importance of developing a bond independently as well as together is essential.
31:18Get comfy.
31:19Yeah.
31:20It's so nice.
31:21Cheers.
31:22Yeah, cheers.
31:24It's not bad for a state setting, is it?
31:25No, it's beautiful.
31:27After having sex together last night, Claude and Georgie are meeting for a date to establish whether the attraction is more than just physical.
31:41Hello.
31:42I think I'd like to get to know her personality a bit more.
31:45I should explore it to see if there would be more of a connection there, because there could be.
31:51How are you?
31:52Um, I don't know.
31:54I don't really know.
31:55Like, yeah, I've not been in a situation like this before.
32:00I'm not sure what we're going to talk about on the date, me and Georgie, but I guess being away from Amy makes me feel a bit uneasy.
32:08Do you feel you got what you wanted coming in?
32:12Like, for me, I think maybe I should have, like, cut the night when I'd finished the social.
32:17Okay.
32:18I woke up thinking, I wish I had just said something to Naomi, like, let's go and do something different than let's go sit round the corner where it's quiet, Aaron.
32:32I'm very touchy.
32:33Amy's not so much.
32:34Like, even if we sleep, like, we won't cuddle.
32:37For me, I would cuddle her every single night if she wanted to.
32:39Like, I would love to cuddle and snuggle, yeah.
32:42Yeah, I'm a snuggler.
32:43I can't express to you how much I yearn for it every day.
32:46Like, when I'm with someone, like, I just want that.
32:48Like, I'm a physical touch person.
32:50I want to be touched.
32:51When we started cuddling and that, I was a bit more apprehensive.
32:57It's quite an intimate thing.
32:59Like, even though we've had sex with her, but after cuddling for a while, I was around.
33:04I think we'll become really good friends and maybe more.
33:07Yeah.
33:17Can I kiss you?
33:18Yeah.
33:19Come on.
33:20I feel like you're always with that leg.
33:22Yeah.
33:23Yeah.
33:32Okay.
33:33It confirmed everything for me.
33:38Like, it is a deeper connection I'm looking for.
33:45It was a lovely kiss.
33:47I think it's exactly what both her and I want.
33:51I would say that we're more than friends.
33:58And I hope that Claude's made that connection as well.
34:08I think Georgie is an amazing girl.
34:10And I feel like there's definitely more of a connection now after spending more time with her.
34:14Like, coming out of this, that connection will definitely build with me, her and Amy.
34:22And she's definitely our type of person.
34:30It's been a beautiful stage.
34:32Yeah, it has.
34:33It's been amazing.
34:35The fact that I've met somebody is kind of like they are out there.
34:39The next step for me would be to see her again in like a more organic setting and then get her to meet Claude.
34:50Yeah.
34:51I feel like that's the first step into non-monogamy and this, like, polyamory side, I think it's been fantastic.
35:12polyamory side i think it's been fantastic we've got we've got what we come here for and more i
35:18think yeah yeah sadly yeah i don't feel any of the guilt that i've felt before and i've got the best
35:25women so i'm lucky polyamory is rare because you have to find like-minded people who are interested
35:32in being a part of a bigger structure hey beautiful people hi i think now that they have clarity that
35:38there are other people out there that want the same thing they will go ahead and put that polyamorous
35:43construct together meeting people with the same mind as us was definitely a highlight like
35:50safe journey thank you for such a great time it's not just a dream anymore or like a vision
35:55and now it's becoming more reality now it's real hello you two yeah
36:00yeah yeah once you get home take care see you later this has definitely been a breakthrough for
36:16us now knowing that it is achievable to bring other people in i hope the future for us looks
36:23like what we dream of which is which is a community household yeah and hopefully with with the people
36:28that we've met we'll see him when they get home in the bar a girl's only night is in full flow
36:44in preparation for new arrivals alex and alana who knows babe we might come out of this like
36:52absolute animals but first let's see if we can talk to a girl
37:00could you imagine if like you you're the one that's like can't can't do it
37:05i don't think you will but that would be funny the pair want to open up their relationship with
37:11couple swaps but effie has tasked them with first having a threesome with just a woman
37:18so as to tackle alana's major insecurities around other females
37:24right let's breathe breathe breathe i'm holding my breath again
37:32alana at the moment's feeling really overwhelmed with like the curveball that we had with effie
37:37saying that we need to it'd be best to introduce a female to start off with i definitely have those
37:42little feelings in my belly of like oh god am i going to be okay am i going to feel threatened
37:48in this scenario are you ready yeah we're fine okay all right love you let's go oh my god
37:56ready oh my goodness
38:07i'm just imagining walking into a room and it just all being absolutely stunning women and i'm like ah
38:12you could say it was my biggest nightmare about what to come true
38:32at a girls only social alex and alana have been instructed by effie to find a girl to open up with
38:39alex will take the lead whilst alana watches on oh my god so as to help her confront her feelings
38:48of insecurity around women it's gonna be hard it's gonna be triggering
39:00potentially me being with a woman is massive for alana but it's a big deal for me as well if
39:05this is gonna work it has to be the right person so like how have you been like what you're up to
39:14like what do you do for work and i am a lingerie model amazing so basically i love my job so much
39:21because it's sexy i will describe my sexuality actually high i'm wake up and i want sex she's
39:31stunning isn't she i'm just trying to like breathe what things do you into like are you into like
39:36what's like your your thing i love to be pleasure in any way i'm just trying to just trying to breathe
39:45for it i have like that feeling in my belly
39:49i think right now she's really nervous i can see it in her face like
40:16i hope that i'm not being too like pushy at the moment she's maybe feeling a little bit
40:23overwhelmed but i'm gonna have a chat with her in a minute and see how she feels
40:32obviously i'm feeling like that those feelings are there like i feel nervous about it it's obviously like
40:38weird territory for me but like i want i want you to feel comfortable and i'm aware that you're
40:44probably being very conscious of how you're being because you don't want to upset me if there was any
40:49like physical contact or anything like that or like hand on a leg i feel like that's kind of something
40:55that i need to see to be like okay i'm okay with it that's a real surprise for me this is a
41:02absolutely huge set for us this is what we're here for right yeah 100 like this is why we're here so
41:13it makes me feel like i can push those boundaries more
41:17like i've definitely like seen another girl i'm interested in
41:21i love your look by the way i love your tattoos thank you thank you monogamy is outdated you know
41:33you're not gonna have the same ice cream for the rest of your life or drive the same car there's so
41:38many different flavors of models out there i get to play with them all like as you can say another tattoo
41:45i'm a mermaid oh that's amazing yeah that's amazing that's a real picture is it that's a photo
41:50of me really really good i love that you've got photos of like tattoos of you
41:57georgie's an incredible person like she's got an amazing vibe she's really attractive
42:02so at the moment everything is looking really good i'm really excited to push the boundary more
42:06um are you okay like i want to like push the boundaries for lana at the moment
42:09are you okay if i like put my hand on you like
42:23if lana's not okay with it she was like no no i can't do this it'd be the worst thing
42:40hello beautiful um can we go and sit and have a chat like all three of us 100 is that okay 100
42:48cool let's go thank you
42:55obviously seen like a little bit of physical contact which i didn't know how i was going to
43:00feel with that but i'm actually like yeah no like i think you're absolutely stunning that you would
43:06absolutely be my type so yeah appreciate that like i said to your man my type i kind of want to keep
43:16the momentum going while i feel like things are okay yeah so if you would like to come and spend
43:23some time in what's up with us yeah would that be okay 100 okay okay okay let's do it
43:33i'm so surprised at myself i can't believe like this is such a turn three hours ago you were
43:40crying i was crying going i don't know if i can do this so i might want to leave i'm so shocked to
43:46myself though like i genuinely i don't know where this has come from i'm scared don't be scared you
43:54know you're excited i know that's why i'm scared i got you i got you jesus christ oh that's toasty
44:02i did not think this is where we were going to be on like our first night
44:06this would have literally been my worst nightmare really if someone was like how would you feel
44:10about doing this i'd be like no you we didn't think that we would be in a hot tub if he were
44:17i never thought i would be in this situation ever to say like oh potentially i'm gonna watch
44:23my boyfriend kiss someone else
44:32if this all goes right i really think it would be an incredible thing for us but if it does go wrong
44:40is it something i'd be able to get over
44:48next time on open house i loved last night it was incredible i do see that as threatening
45:00we've had issues in the past opening up the relationship and tom really struggled my dick
45:05doesn't grow basically my dick literally does not grow i don't want to pressure him however i don't
45:10want to be with just the one person for the rest of my life
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