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00:00Previously on open house. I'm really excited. I'm nervous. I'm scared.
00:08How's it going? Scared! I can feel him shaking. I have fantasized many times about seeing Johnny
00:17with a female. We've gone along to these swingers parties. When it actually comes to the crunch,
00:22we just sort of... You can't close the deal. Yes! We can help.
00:30It just wasn't what we talked about. No, it's not. But nothing goes to plan,
00:33is it? Let's be honest. Your relationship's at stake, to lose it,
00:37would be to lose everything. I haven't experienced anything with a girl,
00:40so I am a bit curious as well.
00:44I really want him to relax. I want him to enjoy it.
00:48I'm literally ready to go, like, oh, I'll fucking see you later.
00:52What do you think about the idea of a morsome?
00:55Okay. We come in for a girl. We never came here for this.
01:00I know of a lovely year to cross. So, imagine multiple people in the
01:04same room having sex. It's pretty scary, a bit daunting.
01:08Get on the clitoris couch. Clitoris couch.
01:13Right now, I'm feeling anxious. Far too many people in that room for me.
01:17Come on. We're going to have a lot to go.
01:20Just like, what? And it's just hit me. It's just hit me.
01:23I am struggling with it.
01:33Tell me how you feel. I've got, like, 10 people in there, and I'm like,
01:3710 horny people in there. They're like, it's scaring me.
01:41Oh, yeah. There you go.
01:43Sarah and Johnny are attempting to open up by experiencing their first ever
01:47orgy. But Johnny is on the brink. It's all been amazing. Yeah.
01:51But it's overwhelming. I can't really enjoy myself. You don't want to pursue.
01:55Is that what you're saying? It's not that I don't want to pursue a thing.
01:58If we don't do it now, then I don't think we're ever going to.
02:01He's naturally going to be a bit nervous, but we just need to crack on and get it done.
02:08It's a big, big thing for me. Baby, listen, don't, like, don't worry.
02:12I'm so happy that you've spent your mind to me. Yeah.
02:14You've not kept any of this to yourself.
02:16I think the apology thing might be too much for them.
02:18I don't think I'm getting bored.
02:21There's definitely too many people in that room for me.
02:24It's a scary scenario for a mum.
02:26So what are we going to do about that?
02:29It is intense. It is scary because there's loads of us and, like, you know, two of them.
02:38How are you guys doing? We're good. We just had a little chat.
02:44A little debrief. Yeah, debrief.
02:49You're all amazing.
02:54We had a talk and we'd rather, like, have a little bit more intimacy with a few less people.
03:00That's fair enough.
03:02We'd like to ask a couple of people to stay if that's okay with you.
03:05Hopefully they might want to take that step further.
03:11Yeah, we've definitely got a little bit of a keen eye on them, so hopefully it does go further.
03:16Don't want to offend any of you.
03:19We'd like to spend a bit of time with Jen and Mark and Gracie if she would stay with us, you know.
03:24I think I'm available.
03:27No offence to any of you. It's just that I'm so overwhelmed with it all.
03:31It's like, wow, it's massive for me. The main thing is that you have fun.
03:35Cheers, guys! Cheers!
03:38Cheers!
03:39Have the best time.
03:44Have a great time.
03:45Weird, isn't it? Fuckers!
03:47There you go.
03:48OK, then, well, do you guys want to start us off with a dice?
03:54Yeah.
04:01Breasts, my choice.
04:04This is lovely.
04:05Yeah? Thank you.
04:05For the first time coming out.
04:06Oh, yeah!
04:07Lovely little ball!
04:08Great!
04:14Nice.
04:15Oh, God, you smell so good.
04:16Ooh, that's hard.
04:19There you are.
04:20They're hot.
04:22They're very hot.
04:26Are you nervous?
04:27No, I am. It's just a little...
04:29It's just straight.
04:29Different for me, you know what I mean?
04:34It's my first time.
04:35You know, I'm trying to get myself into this and it's hard.
04:39Yeah, I don't understand why it is an issue, but it is.
04:42Are you going to perform?
04:44Is he going to show up?
04:48I was just thinking maybe we could just, like, take everything from the game that we just played
04:53and maybe just, like, implement it to each other on the pen.
04:56It's just completely natural to be nervous and, you know, I feel very privileged to be able to
05:05go up to them and just, like, hold their hand and be like, it's okay.
05:07So, we were maybe just thinking, like, um, maybe the girls.
05:14Yeah.
05:14Okay, so I first have a little kissy, kissy, kissy, kissy, kissy.
05:16Yeah, kissy.
05:17Um, and yeah, and we'll just obviously, like, explore a little bit and then whenever you
05:20feel comfortable, maybe join us.
05:22Yeah.
05:31With Sarah jumping straight in, it's riding on Johnny to make their long-standing dream
05:37of opening up a reality.
05:50Seeing Sarah with a woman just got me going.
05:52That was the main thing that got me going.
05:54I sat, I watched, I sat there and yeah, he started working.
06:02Do you have any other kicks?
06:05This is what I needed.
06:06I needed this kick.
06:07I needed this push.
06:22I just relaxed into it.
06:24I just got really excited.
06:35I just didn't have any insecurities that I had.
06:38Just weren't there.
06:41I was just lost in the moment.
06:49Oh, my God.
06:50Oh, oh!
06:54Wow, that was crazy.
07:04Um, I don't know what to say.
07:05Um, it's not like guns, I'm going to be honest.
07:07Like...
07:08Was that good for you?
07:09Oh, well...
07:12Was it good for me or was it good for you?
07:13Uh, it was alright, you know.
07:15We want more!
07:15This is just the first step.
07:20This is the first step and what we needed to do.
07:22Because this is what we want to do.
07:23We want to enjoy each other.
07:25We want to share it.
07:26That's just an amazing experience.
07:28What a rollercoaster it's been.
07:33We came here looking for a threesome with a girl.
07:37We've ended up coming out with an orgy.
07:39With a fine bit of an orgy, what can I say?
07:54Some amazing memories we've made.
07:58You're going to miss it.
07:58I'm going to miss it too.
08:03I've learned so much about myself.
08:06I'm absolutely going to carry on exploring my bisexual side.
08:10I was so worried about what other people think about my actions.
08:13You know, all that's gone now.
08:15This is my life and I'm owning it.
08:16There it is.
08:18Yay.
08:19That's where the magic happened.
08:21It certainly did.
08:23For us, we want to open up our relationship.
08:28It's only going to improve what we've got already, which is amazing anyway.
08:33Yeah, I agree.
08:37I love you so much, babe.
08:39I love you.
08:48Also staying at the retreat.
08:49Father Amy.
08:50Our married parents of six, Claude and Amy.
08:53What brings you here today?
08:54I want multiple people in my life at all times.
08:58You're curious to find out if polyamory is right for you?
09:00The thought of it sounds amazing, but maybe in practical terms, it ain't as good as it sounds.
09:07Do you really want this?
09:10That's what we're here to find out, I guess.
09:13For me, if I connect with a couple, I want to know, okay,
09:15the connection is so real that they don't mind that I'm not willing to go.
09:18Jump into it.
09:19Yeah.
09:19She's definitely on my wavelength.
09:21Are you going to go back with me?
09:22No.
09:25Did you struggle?
09:26Yeah.
09:27Because I've been monogamous my whole life, doing something with another woman, even with consent,
09:33makes me feel like it's wrong.
09:35Oh, this is kind of annoying.
09:37It's definitely weird for me.
09:41For me, the ultimate goal would be to have a relationship with other people actually inside
09:47of our relationship.
09:48If I couldn't achieve that with Claude, it would definitely be something that
09:53put a spanner in our relationship.
09:55Claude and Amy are in the hot tub with residents Georgie and Emily.
10:10While Amy gets stuck in, Claude stays very much on the sidelines.
10:23That was so, like, soft and gentle.
10:36Doing something with another woman, even with consent, makes me feel like it's wrong.
10:41I think I would do pretty much anything for Amy, so I just need to go with feeling
10:59guilty and guilty about doing it.
11:18Seeing Claude with another woman turns me on.
11:21I only want him to be happy, and if someone else can bring
11:24a bit of happiness that I don't even have anything to do with, that's something I love.
11:29I'm happy to go somewhere else, no internet.
11:43Sorry, I'm going to drop a bombshell now.
11:44No, no, no.
11:45I would rather take this slow, for me.
11:50Just because when I'm looking for, like, emotional, romantic connection,
11:53I take it a lot slower.
11:55Yeah, yeah.
11:56Is that OK?
11:57Yeah, yeah.
12:00OK, shall we exit?
12:03Even though we're a bunch of sexually liberated people, like, we also still sometimes like to
12:08take it really slow.
12:10I think when it comes to polyamory especially, there is that sort of need to get to know each
12:16other to make it more of a special connection.
12:19We shall see you tomorrow.
12:20I'd like to see you tomorrow.
12:21Yep.
12:21It was so lovely to meet you.
12:22Thank you guys.
12:23I think my advice to them would be, like, if you do want to build, like, a really emotional
12:28connection, like, maybe take things a little bit slower.
12:32Oh, have an amazing night, guys.
12:34Yeah, you too.
12:34Have a good sleep.
12:35Then you really have the best time.
12:36Bye.
12:38It's actually a red room.
12:44Yeah.
12:45I love that.
12:46So going into this, I feel like it's an adventure that I should have had a million times.
12:55Water?
12:56Yeah, 100%.
12:58Yeah.
12:58I'm just going to set the lighting a little bit.
13:02Amy definitely knows what she wants more than I do.
13:04Like, I'm still a bit, like, in the air.
13:07I don't know if I can do it or not.
13:11Oh, no.
13:12There we go.
13:15The worst case scenario for us is that that guilt doesn't go away for Claude and he's just like,
13:20this isn't going to be for me.
13:26These are nice.
13:41Amy is desperate to invite multiple partners into their relationship.
13:45Are you going to come train us?
13:47I know.
13:47I'm just processing.
13:51But as things ramp up, Claude faces the ultimate decision.
13:55Are you okay?
14:02I'm going to kiss you now.
14:03Okay.
14:05Oh, no.
14:25Amy definitely wants another girl in a relationship.
14:35And I'm going to have to spend time alone with these people.
14:37So I have to get rid of that feeling of guilt.
14:40I think the only thing that is holding him back is how much he loves me and that society tells
14:47us that this is just not the normal.
15:00So I like to see my son why don't I'm thinking about I'm feeling another girl.
15:14Are you really looking for everybody from your realizing?
15:16Because I know everyone at all.
15:18I'mast much easier to share.
15:19Not as I'm gonna keep moving
15:21now.
15:22Oh, my God.
15:29I'm coming, I'm coming.
15:29Oh, my God.
15:41That's not how you expected it.
15:44It's definitely different to what I expected.
15:46Yeah, yeah, yeah.
15:47Yeah.
15:50Do you want to go back to our room?
15:52Do you want to live like that?
16:10It's really nice.
16:11How do you feel we're going to get what we need from this experience?
16:26I don't really know how I think I feel right now.
16:33Do you feel like you should have known that different?
16:35Yeah.
16:41Do you know how many times you want?
17:00I feel like this maybe wasn't for me.
17:03Yeah, well, yeah, it's the same for you.
17:06Yeah, no, but you should carry on like you're...
17:09No, I'm not, like, I'm here with us, not for me.
17:21Hi, guys. Come in.
17:23With last night's events troubling Amy...
17:26Get comfy on my couch.
17:27They're meeting up with non-monogamy coach Effie.
17:32How are you feeling?
17:35I feel like...
17:36I feel like I made a mistake last night, going too far.
17:47Tell me. Tell me about last night.
17:49Me, you and Georgie, we went to the Red Room together.
17:52How was that?
17:54I think it's the reason that I feel not good today.
17:57And at the time it was everything I wanted to do.
18:00This is a lifestyle that I crave, but...
18:10It's okay.
18:12There's some tissues right in front of you.
18:14For me, it's not about sex and stuff.
18:17It is about building relationships.
18:19Yeah, yeah, yeah. I understand.
18:20God.
18:21How are you feeling?
18:22Like, last night, I was feeling fine.
18:25But obviously...
18:26Yeah, I ruined it.
18:28No, I see an Amy like this.
18:29I never want to see her upset or...
18:32Yeah.
18:32...sad about anything.
18:34What do you think would help you on your journey
18:40to get the polyamorous relationship that you want for yourselves?
18:44Um...
18:47Is there anybody else you connected with?
18:49Yeah, we've...
18:50Like, Naomi was at a...
18:51Yeah.
18:52Everything about her was, to me, like, everything I was looking for.
18:56I feel like I definitely want to speak to Naomi.
19:02Okay.
19:03How about getting back together with Naomi and have, like, a nice date?
19:09Yeah.
19:09Um...
19:10Chloe, would you want to go on a date with Georgie?
19:12Yeah, yeah, I'll go and have a...
19:14Like, if Amy's going to go and talk to Naomi,
19:16I'll go and have a chat with Georgie, yeah.
19:20Because it is about making those connections
19:21and see if we can hold them in a meaningful way.
19:24Yeah.
19:25Because that will...
19:25That will make the polyamorous family that you guys want.
19:30Does that feel good?
19:31Yeah, perfect. Thank you.
19:32Okay.
19:33Thank you very much.
19:33I really appreciate it.
19:34Yeah, thank you.
19:35Take care.
20:06We're talking to another girl without me.
20:08I feel like I'm getting more scared.
20:24On their way to join the others at the retreat
20:28are Alex and Alana from Plymouth.
20:31Our first date, Alana said she did the best mash in Devon
20:35and it turns out she doesn't.
20:37She couldn't even...
20:38No, I do.
20:39You don't...
20:40You can't even cook a sausage in a microwave.
20:43Luckily, the couple are to one another's taste
20:46and they've now settled down as a blended family
20:49with a child each from previous relationships.
20:51We're constantly, like, re-falling in love with each other
20:56all the time.
20:57I don't know why I'm getting emotional.
21:01I've just never had such a safe space with somebody.
21:08And the committed couple are just as passionate
21:10about one another in the bedroom.
21:12Sex is definitely, like, our number one hobby.
21:17We've got our normal sex and beautiful sex
21:19but then we've got the one where we're like,
21:22should we try something new today?
21:23Yeah, we're very experimental.
21:26What's the weirdest thing that you've ever done?
21:27I don't know if I want to say.
21:29Peggy, you wear a strap-on and you...
21:33We get to reverse roles.
21:34I know what I'm doing, surprisingly.
21:36Yeah, you can fuck.
21:38Now they want to spice things up further
21:41by exploring non-monogamy.
21:44Ultimately, why we're here is to bring in another couple.
21:47I think because we're boundary pushers,
21:49there's something we both want to be in, like, open relationships.
21:51I think it's actually, like, sex is...
21:54can be shared.
21:54It doesn't have to be for just two people.
21:57We don't want this to just be a one-off experience.
21:59We really want to see ourselves, like, diving into the lifestyle.
22:06Although they're heading to the perfect place to open up,
22:10Alana will need to overcome her biggest barrier.
22:13My previous relationships with men haven't been great.
22:18A lot of cheating on their part.
22:21It definitely made me more, like, cautious of women.
22:24I've got V.A.K. with Alex being with another woman.
22:29That makes me feel physically sick.
22:34Oh, my God.
22:38I'm so scared.
22:43He's so fit.
22:44Hiya, you all right?
22:45Hello, everyone.
22:46Hello.
22:46Hiya.
22:47I love that dress.
22:52Thank you so much.
22:54Bonjour.
22:55How are you doing?
22:56I like him.
22:56He's my type.
22:58But, yeah, we have plenty of time to discover each other.
23:01Hi, guys.
23:01Welcome.
23:02I'm Rochelle.
23:03Nice to meet you.
23:03How are you doing?
23:04You all right?
23:04What's your name, Tommy?
23:04It's Alex.
23:05Alex.
23:06Alex.
23:06Strong handshake, Alex.
23:07I like the look of Alex.
23:10He was tall and gorgeous.
23:12Very good looking.
23:13That was insane.
23:17Like...
23:17That was so insane.
23:19Walking in.
23:19My heart was pounding.
23:20I didn't expect there to be so many people when we first came.
23:23Certainly other women being around my partner is, like, a massive thing for me.
23:28I don't want to, like, bring up Alana's hurt again.
23:31Like, it might reignite that, like, fear in her.
23:34I'd like to think I'll surprise myself and be, like, really okay.
23:41That's how I want it to go.
23:45We've got a lot to lose.
23:47Everything is at stake, really, here.
23:50This is the person that I want to spend the rest of my life with.
23:53I love you.
24:12I love you so much.
24:14Newcomers Alex and Alana are visiting the retreat in search of couples to open up with,
24:22despite Alana's fear of seeing Alex with another woman.
24:26I need a nervous way.
24:27Yeah, I need to go as well.
24:30Hey, guys.
24:31Hi.
24:32Welcome.
24:32Come in.
24:32I'm Effie.
24:34Come in.
24:34Hello.
24:34How are you doing?
24:35You all right?
24:35Yeah, good.
24:37This is going to be so far.
24:39Nice, isn't it?
24:40I want to know what brings you here.
24:42What brings you to the retreat?
24:43Tell me.
24:45We're, like, boundary pushers.
24:46I think, like, from, like, when we very first met, like, we were very, like, into, like,
24:52sex and, like, pushing boundaries and bringing new things and ideas in.
24:56And we're at the stage now where we want to be part of, like, a couple of sorts, but we
25:00don't know how that looks.
25:02But equally, it's probably me that's been, like, holding us back.
25:06Okay.
25:07I would class myself as bisexual.
25:09Okay.
25:09So I've been with women in the past.
25:11I've had relationships with women.
25:12Mm-hmm.
25:13Um, but, yeah, just through, like, past experiences with men, I've been cheated on quite a lot.
25:20So it's, I guess, like, damaged.
25:25I feel emotional.
25:26Well, that's okay.
25:30From the moment we met, like, we would go around town.
25:33And if there was, like, a girl in small shorts or anything like that, she would have, like,
25:36panic and freeze and she would want me to, like, get on another street.
25:38So what's at stake is Alana's, like, feelings and emotions.
25:43Where are you with that stuff now?
25:45Obviously, with talking about things being more intimate and stuff, that's obviously
25:50quite a big step up from where I was, like, to say, a year ago.
25:54If you'd have said to me, you're going to be here, I would have been, like, absolutely not.
25:59Okay.
26:00So, so, given that it's so potent for you, why do you want to open up your relationship
26:04to put yourself, really test those, those parts of you that, that are tender?
26:09Obviously, we're doing this, like, for us as a couple.
26:13But there's also, like, a little bit of selfishness in it for me where I'm, like,
26:17just want to be able to get past that.
26:19And that would benefit us so much more as a couple if I could really let go of those
26:24feelings and be, like, I'm good.
26:26What are you thinking, Alex?
26:29No, I absolutely agree.
26:30Like, I think if you can, like, overcome that, like, that's a beautiful place to be.
26:34But it's a delicate situation now because I wouldn't want to, like, take steps back.
26:38And I know that you desperately want to get over this.
26:41And hopefully this is the safe space that you get to find out if you can do it or not.
26:47Right?
26:47Yeah.
26:48And for you, attractive woman is the threat, right?
26:52Understandable reasons.
26:53So we kind of want you to face that threat in this control environment where we're going
26:58to take care of you.
26:59Would you be open to maybe find a single woman that you're both attracted to and then invite
27:07them for your little sexy threesome?
27:09I feel like I'd be more comfortable if it was with, like, to invite a couple to spend time
27:16with us.
27:17I just feel like that's going to be too intense.
27:21I know that you ultimately want the couple swap.
27:23And that is something that I'm not taking that away from you.
27:27We just need to work on those insecurities.
27:31What has happened to you sucks.
27:33It's terrible.
27:34You've put all the charge onto women.
27:36So if we can just take that charge away, you're going to have much smoother experiences.
27:42I just, like, there's obviously that little bit of worry there.
27:45Like, say if we go to, like, do something and things happen and then I'm, like, I'm not
27:52okay with it, I can't unsee those things.
27:57Yeah.
27:57What are your thoughts?
27:59With what you're saying, I absolutely agree with what you're saying.
28:01I guess the root cause is the female and we can go absolutely slow.
28:06I'm not good anywhere.
28:06Like, I'm with you.
28:07Like, we can go as little steps and see where we go.
28:12We can do it.
28:13Yeah.
28:13Okay.
28:15I understand, like, why you're doing that and where my head needs to be.
28:21I still feel really nervous, but I feel less sick now, so I mean.
28:26Good.
28:26Good.
28:27I love that.
28:29Okay, I'm excited for you.
28:30I'm going to be here to meet you tomorrow.
28:32Okay.
28:32So I can't wait to hear how it goes.
28:35Excited.
28:36Yeah.
28:36Love you.
28:37Love you.
28:38Thank you very much.
28:39Thank you so much.
28:40Thank you so much.
28:44For Alana and Alex, jumping straight into a couple swap would be a difficult thing to navigate.
28:49Doing something like this is definitely going to challenge her.
28:53Alana needs to find a connection with other women and feel safe in their presence so that
28:58she can actually have group sessions or threesome sessions.
29:01Oh, my God, look.
29:04That birth.
29:05Check the birth out.
29:09Yeah.
29:10Come here.
29:11I don't want to cry again.
29:12Don't cry.
29:13It's okay.
29:14If we could come out of this situation and say we're in an open relationship, I think that
29:19would be an amazing thing.
29:20I literally don't know what to do with myself, like.
29:25Have you seen your place?
29:27I, oh, God.
29:28It's like, let's just go in with, like.
29:30Don't know until we do it.
29:32And we are banjo pushers, like, open mind.
29:34Yeah.
29:34I'm not even joking.
29:36When she first said it, I thought, that scenario wasn't in my head.
29:41I'm not doing it.
29:41I don't want to do it.
29:42Like, I want to leave.
29:44Me and Alex absolutely love each other more than anything.
29:47It would be devastating if anything went wrong here.
29:51For sure.
29:53Ah!
29:53I hope you have an amazing time.
30:01I'm excited for you to get to know someone more.
30:04On Effie's advice, this afternoon, both Claude and Amy will have separate dates.
30:10I should brush my teeth.
30:13I'm going to be talking to her.
30:14Yeah, I'll brush my teeth.
30:16If they're truly to embrace polyamory, they need to be confident that they can explore meaningful,
30:22loving connections with other people.
30:25I said, like, the end goal is to feel the way you feel about me with multiple people.
30:30And you can't get to it unless you do push yourself to try and make friends with other people.
30:36Bye, I love you.
30:36I miss you.
30:40Good mess.
30:41You're crazy.
30:44Amy is meeting up with resident Naomi, who she met at last night's social.
30:49So the best outcome for me is that me and Naomi really, like, hit it off.
30:55I want something that's long-term, eventually.
30:59Hiya.
30:59Hi.
31:00How are you?
31:01Good, how are you?
31:02Oh, you're lovely.
31:03It's so nice to see you again.
31:06There's a million and one ways to navigate a polyamorous relationship.
31:09But the importance of developing a bond independently as well as together is, it's essential.
31:18Get comfy.
31:19Yeah.
31:20It's so nice.
31:21It's so nice.
31:22Cheers.
31:22Yeah, cheers.
31:24I mean, it's not a bad first date setting, is it?
31:25No, it's beautiful.
31:28After having sex together last night, Claude and Georgie are meeting for a date
31:33to establish whether the attraction is more than just physical.
31:40Hello.
31:42I think I'd like to get to know her personality a bit more.
31:45I should explore it to see if there would be more of a connection there, because there
31:49could be.
31:51How are you?
31:52Um, I don't know.
31:54I don't really know.
31:55Like, yeah, I've not been in a situation like this before.
32:00I'm not sure what we're going to talk about on the date, me and Georgie, but I guess being
32:04away from Amy makes me feel a bit uneasy.
32:08Do you feel you got what you wanted coming in?
32:12For me, I think maybe I should have, like, cut the night when I'd finished the social.
32:18Okay.
32:18I woke up thinking, I wish I'd just said something to Naomi, like, let's go and do something
32:25different than let's go sit round the corner where it's quiet, Aaron.
32:32I'm very touchy.
32:34Amy's not so much.
32:34Like, even if we sleep, like, we won't cuddle.
32:37For me, I would cuddle her every single night if she wanted to.
32:39Like, I would love to cuddle and snuggle, yeah.
32:42Yeah, I'm a snuggler.
32:43I can't express to you how much I yearn for it every day.
32:46Like, when I'm with someone, like, I just, I just want that.
32:49Like, I'm a physical touch person.
32:50I want to be touched.
32:53When we started cuddling and that, I was a bit more apprehensive.
32:57It's quite an intimate thing.
32:59Like, even though we've had sex with her, but after cuddling for a while, I was around.
33:04I think we'll become really good friends and maybe more.
33:07I think we'll be fine.
33:08Yeah.
33:09Can I kiss you?
33:12Yeah.
33:13Yeah.
33:14Come on.
33:15I feel like you're awesome.
33:17That way.
33:18Yeah.
33:19Yeah.
33:19Yeah.
33:20Yeah.
33:21Yeah.
33:21You're awesome.
33:22That way.
33:22Yeah.
33:23Yeah.
33:23Yeah.
33:24Yeah.
33:25Yeah.
33:26Yeah.
33:27Yeah.
33:28Yeah.
33:29Yeah.
33:30Yeah.
33:31Yeah.
33:32Yeah.
33:33Yeah.
33:34It confirmed everything for me, like it is a deeper connection I'm looking for.
33:46It was a lovely kiss, I think it's exactly what both her and I want.
33:55I would say that we're more than friends and I hope that Claude has made that connection
34:02as well.
34:09I think Georgie is an amazing girl and I feel like there's definitely more of a connection
34:13now after spending more time with her.
34:19Coming out of this, that connection will definitely build with me, her and Amy and she's definitely
34:24our type of person.
34:27This has been a beautiful day, it has been amazing.
34:35The fact that I've met somebody is kind of like they are out there.
34:40The next step for me would be to see her again in like a more organic setting and then get
34:49her to meet Claude.
34:57The next step for me is the first step for non-monogamy and it's like polyamory side.
35:13I think it's been fantastic, we've got what we come here for and more I think, yeah.
35:19I don't feel any of the guilt that I've felt before and I've got the best women so I'm
35:26lucky.
35:28Polyamory is rare because you have to find like-minded people who are interested in being a part of
35:33a bigger structure.
35:34Hey beautiful people.
35:35Hi.
35:36I think now that they have clarity that there are other people out there that want the same
35:40thing, they will go ahead and put that polyamorous construct together.
35:45Meeting people with the same mind as us was definitely a highlight, like.
35:50Safe journey.
35:51Thank you for such a great time.
35:52It's not just a dream anymore, like a vision and now it's becoming more reality now, it's
35:57real.
35:58Hello you two.
35:59Hello.
36:00I wish we could stay longer and get to know you even more, but yeah, once you get home.
36:12Take care.
36:13See you later.
36:14This has definitely been a breakthrough for us, now knowing that it is achievable to bring
36:18other people in.
36:19I hope the future for us looks like what we dream of, which is a community household.
36:25Yeah.
36:26And hopefully with the people that we've met.
36:28We'll see them when they get home.
36:40In the bar, a girls only night is in full flow, in preparation for new arrivals, Alex
36:46and Alana.
36:47Who knows, babe?
36:49We might come out of this like absolute animals.
36:53Let's see if we can talk to a girl.
36:57Could you imagine if like you, you're the one that's like, can't, can't do it.
37:04I don't think you will.
37:06But that would be funny.
37:08The pair want to open up their relationship with couple swaps.
37:11But Effie has tasked them with first having a threesome with just a woman.
37:17So as to tackle Alana's major insecurities around other females.
37:21Right, let's breathe, breathe, breathe.
37:22I'm holding my breath again.
37:23Just hold your breath.
37:24Alana at the moment is feeling really overwhelmed with like the curve ball that we had with Effie,
37:36saying that we need to, it would be best to introduce a female to start off with.
37:40I definitely have those little feelings in my belly of like, oh God, am I going to be okay?
37:45Am I going to feel threatened in this scenario?
37:48Are you ready?
37:49Yeah.
37:50We're fine.
37:51Okay?
37:52Alright.
37:53Love you.
37:54Let's go.
37:55Oh my God.
37:57You ready?
37:59Oh my goodness.
38:07I'm just imagining walking into a room and it just all being absolutely stunning women.
38:11And I'm like, ah!
38:15You could say it was my biggest nightmare about to come true.
38:29At a girls only social, Alex and Alana have been instructed by Effie to find a girl to open up with.
38:39Alex will take the lead whilst Alana watches on.
38:43Oh my God.
38:45So as to help her confront her feelings of insecurity around women.
38:50It's going to be hard.
38:51It's going to be triggering.
38:53Potentially, me being with a woman is massive for Alana.
39:02But it's a big deal for me as well.
39:04If this is going to work, it has to be the right person.
39:08Bonjour.
39:09I said bonjour, but now it's bonjour.
39:12So like, how have you been?
39:13What are you up to?
39:14What do you do for work?
39:15I am a lingerie model.
39:17Amazing.
39:18So basically, I love my job so much because it's sexy.
39:22I will describe my sexuality actually high.
39:27I wake up and I want sex.
39:30She's stunning, isn't she?
39:31I'm just trying to like, breathe.
39:33What things are you into?
39:35Like, what's your thing?
39:37I love to be pleasuring in any way.
39:41I'm just trying to breathe for it.
39:45I have like, that feeling in my belly.
39:52How are you doing?
39:55Good to remember.
39:56Great handshake.
39:57I remember that.
39:58Oh, yeah.
39:59Yeah, sure.
40:00Hello.
40:01You all right?
40:02Hello.
40:04You all right?
40:05What's your name?
40:06It's Alex.
40:07Emily.
40:09And Grace.
40:10I think right now she's really nervous.
40:12I can see it in her face.
40:14Like, I hope that I'm not being too, like, pushy at the moment.
40:20She's maybe feeling a little bit overwhelmed, but I'm going to have a chat with her in a minute and see how she feels.
40:27Obviously, I'm feeling, like, those feelings are there. Like, I feel nervous about it. It's obviously, like, weird territory for me.
40:40But, like, I want you to feel comfortable. I'm aware that you're probably being very conscious of how you're being because you don't want to upset me.
40:47If there was any, like, physical contact or anything like that or, like, a hand on a leg, I feel like that's kind of something that I need to see to be, like, okay, I'm okay with it.
40:58That's a real surprise for me. This is an absolutely huge step for us.
41:02This is what we're here for, right?
41:03Yeah, 100% like this is why we're here.
41:06So...
41:09Love you.
41:11And it makes me feel like I can push those boundaries more.
41:15Like, I've definitely, like, seen another girl that I'm interested in.
41:27I love your look, by the way. I love your tattoos.
41:28Thank you. Thank you.
41:30Monogamy is outdated.
41:32You know, you're not going to have the same ice cream for the rest of your life or drive the same car.
41:36There's so many different flavours of models out there.
41:39I get to play with them all.
41:41Like, as you can say, another tattoo.
41:44I'm a mermaid.
41:45Oh, that's amazing.
41:46Yeah.
41:47That's amazing.
41:48That's a real picture.
41:49Is it?
41:50That's a photo of me.
41:51Really, really good.
41:52I love that you've got photos of, like, tattoos of you.
41:54Georgie is an incredible person.
41:58Like, she's got an amazing vibe.
42:00She's really attractive.
42:01So, at the moment, everything is looking really good.
42:03I'm really excited to push the boundary even more.
42:05Um, are you okay?
42:06Like, I want to, like, push the boundaries with Alana at the moment.
42:10Are you okay if I, like, put my hand on you, like?
42:14If Alana's not okay with it, she was like, no, no, I can't do this.
42:27It'd be the worst thing.
42:29Yeah.
42:30Hello, beautiful.
42:31Hello.
42:32Um, can we go and sit and have a chat, like, all three of us?
42:45Hundred percent.
42:46Is that okay?
42:47Hundred percent.
42:48Cool.
42:50Obviously, seeing, like, a little bit of physical contact, which I didn't know how I was going
42:59to feel with that.
43:00But I'm actually, like, okay.
43:02Yeah?
43:03No, like, I think you're absolutely stunning that you would absolutely be my type.
43:07Yeah.
43:08So, yeah.
43:09Appreciate that.
43:10Like, I said to your man, like, my type.
43:13I kind of want to keep the momentum going whilst I feel like things are okay.
43:18Yeah.
43:19Yeah.
43:20So, if you would like to come and spend some time in what's up with us, would that be okay?
43:25Hundred percent.
43:26Okay.
43:27Yay.
43:28Yeah.
43:29Okay.
43:30Go.
43:31Let's do it.
43:32I'm so surprised at myself.
43:35I can't believe, like, this is such a turn.
43:38Three hours ago, you were crying.
43:40I was crying, going, I don't know if I can do this, so I might want to leave.
43:44I'm so shocked to myself, though.
43:46Like, I genuinely don't know where this has come from.
43:51I'm scared.
43:52Don't be scared.
43:53You're not too excited.
43:54I know.
43:55Oh!
43:56That's why I'm scared.
43:57I got you.
43:58I got you.
43:59Jesus Christ.
44:00Oh, that's toasty.
44:01I did not think this is where we were going to be on, like, our first night.
44:04Oh, you were.
44:05This would have literally been my worst nightmare.
44:07Really?
44:08If someone was like, how would you feel about doing this?
44:09I'd be like, no.
44:10We didn't think that we would have been in a hot tub if we were.
44:15I never thought I would be in this situation ever to say, like, oh, potentially I'm going
44:21to watch my boyfriend kiss someone else.
44:23If this all goes right, I really think it would be an incredible thing for us.
44:37But if it does go wrong, is it something I'd be able to get over?
44:47Next time on Open House.
44:50I loved last night.
44:51It was incredible.
44:52Sure.
44:53I do see that as threatening.
44:59We've had issues in the past.
45:01Opening up the relationship, Tom really struggled.
45:04My dick doesn't grow, basically.
45:05My dick literally does not grow.
45:07I don't want to pressure him.
45:08However, I don't want to be with just the one person for the rest of my life.
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