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The Real Housewives of Miami S7 E6
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00:00with us in like two years and I said I miss you guys like what's going on tell me and then dead
00:04silence I love him anyway from my part at least I would like us to move forward if somebody will
00:11ask me how did it go it's between you and I I thought it would be great to have like a greeting
00:18party and I have like somebody that's gonna be like talking to us he's been helping me a lot
00:22and I like to share him with you girls I'm gonna speak to the girls about what it is to have
00:26narcissistic traits are you ready for that how's everybody doing today waiting for you
00:32goddess Lisa do you think your time's more important than all of ours do you think how rude it is to
00:37make everybody wait I think you're rude let's just start fresh goddesses have arrived let's do this
00:56welcome beautiful goddesses thank you for joining us this is my friend Danielle he's originally from
01:11Melbourne Australia and he is an author I got to know him and he's helped me along in my own personal
01:18journey and I hope that today you girls can also learn from him I mean that guy's hot if I wasn't
01:26with Frenchy I'm sure we'll be going for Australian tonight we have a lot of fun activities planned for
01:32you girls oh games their mental exercises and I know you're all really good at that you're gonna find
01:38me down on there okay all right let's go so anyways walk this way this is so beautiful wow I want to get
01:48married here I don't know who the guy is so as you enter this area you will see mirrors where you can
01:56take a look and it's about self-reflection nobody gets angrier than a narcissist being accused of something
02:02you just made us wait two hours waiting on you like it's like the grand Lisa entrance it's very
02:08rude you're being very rude right now oh you want me to say thank you for showing up one of this is for
02:12everybody to read the quotes and see if it can resonate with them that's very cool let's go to
02:19the bar let's go read we have lots to read guys never try to defend yourself against a narcissist they
02:27already know you're right is the whole theme narcissism yeah this is the whole thing how Todd
02:32treated Alexia but I don't even want to talk about Todd so much we're not here because of Todd Alexia
02:38you've been saying how Todd is narcissistic you don't think you guys need help like professional
02:45I'm not part of this oh you're an attorney too I am he doesn't plaster billboards across and fix
02:51leaky pipes okay he certainly doesn't need your Godiva chocolate that night at the house and you
02:56had that party I know I stressed you out by hiding out downstairs in the gym it was tough thank you for
03:01supporting me I appreciate that and understanding how is this party not for Todd good people get tired
03:07of being good to ungrateful people I think it's funny that all the girls think it's all about Todd
03:13but they don't know that the jokes on them too because I feel that we're all narcissists can we
03:19all agree everyone out here is a narcissist I'm not problem with being empathetic is that you feel
03:31sorry for the people that hurt you that's actually that's a good one the fact that this is a narcissist
03:37theme party says a lot obviously because I think that we have a lot amongst us
03:42hmm I look crazy right now when we look deeper we find that sometimes we aren't really angry at
03:48them but more angry at ourselves for allowing them to treat us that way I think I'm a narcissist a
03:54little bit a lot of business people have narcissism it's really not that bad do we have to have a party
04:00for it what are we celebrating that's beautiful tell me when you're ready oh wow oh wow we're such
04:07narcissists here we are in the narcissist stop talking I'm not getting good pictures Lisa being Lisa she's
04:16like oblivious she's making it a whole full-blown photo shoot it's all about me I think I got a lot of
04:22good ones Lisa you should be reading the notes on the mirror I think some of these notes are applying
04:28to you my friend oh I'm just swinging away this is totally for me what I don't always have to tell
04:39your side of the story time will that actually suits you too it does yeah me too for different
04:45reasons but yeah no seriously what's your reasons I'm not gonna tell you right now why but you like to
04:52tell me a lot on the bus but now I love you just I'm sorry I just I apologize and I have no problem
05:01apologizing again thank you okay thank you I'm sorry that was a nice one that's all I wanted
05:05I'm definitely not gonna be late with Stephanie again because I don't want to hear that again
05:10there's no way she's gonna do it again right she learned her lesson no
05:15Lars where are you with Lisa I've tried to talk to her communicate with her so it's like
05:22at this point we're obviously gonna have to have a conversation like Gertie and I we took time and we
05:28had dinner and we talked like two people I wouldn't like that dinner way before that
05:32and I had to accept whatever was coming my way there was feelings you know but it was your way of
05:47handling it that's it you know just keeps talking and talking about it I thought we moved forward or
05:53at least tried to agree to move forward but apparently not are you girls ready to play some
05:58Greek games let's go yeah let's go oh my god wow this is so pretty Alexia yeah wow who's sitting in the
06:16throne um how do you want us to sit Alexia I don't need to name names about the narcissistic people in
06:23this group but there will be signs like we are supposed to be on the same level well if you feel
06:29like you have to be above all right ladies we're gonna get into exercise to this exercise reflects
06:37how others might see us you're gonna get a red flag I'm gonna read out a statement put it in the
06:42vase that you think the person has that trait the most oh okay I like this by the way you thought I
06:49played dirty games this is extra dirty this game in itself is a red flag all right ladies we ready
06:56constantly talking about themselves oh that's easy okay Marisol you go because that was easy for you you
07:05go sorry monkey sorry all right I have to agree Lisa it's just the fact Lisa I'm gonna put myself myself I think Lisa yeah Lisa
07:34so ladies Lisa had an overwhelming number of six
07:58so I want to know how you feel about that Lisa maybe I tell my problems to the wrong
08:04people this was supposed to be a goddess party I expected fun I expected to be treated like a
08:11goddess this isn't a goddess party it's a witch hunt and I'm not a witch you're annoying people
08:17talking about yourself you feel like your palms are the biggest ones in the room well I also feel
08:23that you blame me for not knowing your problems but you also don't tell me your problems sometimes we
08:29feel that we're not heard but we're not talking I know but the problem is when you call and the
08:34person doesn't answer the phone you're not gonna be heard I also think you should tell the truth and
08:40stop saying lies you're the lie detector test I have like proceeds so baby girl I am the receipt is that
08:50what's your Halloween costume for this year try getting a dress in your size
08:54ladies the whole world know not to mess with Larsa because she's gonna come for you
08:59I didn't hear that can you repeat that it is so stupid but we're mature there's a reason she calls
09:05herself the larcenist the next one quick to take offense all right let's go Lisa is quick to take
09:15offense Larsa quick to take offense bro Marisol sorry buddy oh you pick me yeah I don't know I don't care
09:25maybe Alexia oh Kiki Lisa yeah you pick Lisa yeah I think Lisa too oh she's very offended with me that
09:36one was quick to take offense and Lisa got the most with three I win again like this is like a
09:42whack game with some whack people everybody by the way has narcissistic traits God's sakes Larsa has a
09:48Larsa light and I guarantee you her phone is filled with 99% selfies more of just her her oh there's one
10:03with the family but that's an ad the next one is lack of accountability oh geez it's gonna get ugly
10:13okay just understand that this is an
10:43exercise for everybody to grow and evolve it's not about attacking each other can I please ask
10:48you a question like if somebody tells you something very painful and hurtful that hurts you deep in the
10:54heart yeah what is your recommendation how to move forward and how to move past and did they apologize
11:00partially yes I don't think partially is good enough all right so who are you talking about in that
11:07situation I was talking about my friend Gertie who hurt me very very much when somebody calls you
11:15horrible names oh and it's kind of stick in your head but you want to move past it how do you forget
11:21it one of them is time because I believe time is the only thing that heals yeah and a willingness to
11:26want to rekindle a relationship that you once had with good yes so this is after that I've been physically
11:32assaulted and it's too much context to discuss this okay and there is a lot of context but I will say
11:38that if you have a willingness to reconnect with her absolutely I have to forgive this physical assault
11:43too yeah what is this gonna solve by bringing this up to the group she is breaking the pact I see you for
11:50who you are stupid mean all right so the last one is playing the victim sorry sorry Lisa oh boy well
12:06you guys aren't moving forward tonight that's for sure you keep saying that but you were talking about
12:12a photo from four months ago that I wasn't guys guys this is not about this is not about it excuse me I'm
12:20gonna talk right now okay can you take control Daniel please ladies ladies you are mad about a
12:27photo of my boyfriend took with your ex four months ago I am not mad at that we're playing a game yes it's
12:33not a game you are a narcissist Larsa you've got to move forward guys you're not apologetic about
12:38anything you've done you think everything's okay when I was in Toronto you text me after you knew my
12:44dad was dying and then dead and then I'm praying yes I have her time and you're talking about not
12:51about my dad about my boyfriend Lisa your boyfriend shouldn't yell at women what are you didn't you're
12:56a liar about him being cheap he's so cheap oh my god Larsa's going on and on and all I'm really
13:06thinking about is work how many emails am I getting what zooms do I have I'm thinking about making money I
13:12have so much I could say about you and I don't say it go ahead you are very lucky I am not lucky
13:18honey say it you don't have it like that you don't want your tits to be down to your your your knees
13:24before you guys get married you told me that I want to talk about the tits to the floor getting dark
13:31and getting dark to the floor maybe Lisa should stop worrying about my boobs and start worrying more
13:36about how everyone in this group thinks she's a narcissist Lisa Lisa and PS my boobs are sky high
13:44so I don't know what she's talking about do you know what I told you I don't need a man you know
13:48what I told you I'm independent you know what I told you I'm teaching my kids to be independent I
13:51don't know what you're doing I know what I'm doing I know what you're doing I know you can't take it
13:57count the flags I'm good we are better than this the overwhelming score for the trade of playing the
14:03victim was Lisa with five who picked Lisa so did you raise your hand for Lisa I did okay so let's
14:10explain I can relate to Lisa I'm going I'm also going through a very difficult time in my life but
14:15I choose not to play victim I'm not playing a victim I'm not playing a victim okay I have a few
14:21people that are my safe space you Adriana you no I'm sorry look I don't think I don't think they're
14:27saying oh my god you guys know I haven't talked about a thing since Kiki went Lenny Lenny Lenny Lenny
14:34I'm stuck talking about Lenny already like it's so much Lenny Lenny Lenny Lenny Lenny Lenny it's
14:38like you're coming to saw I haven't brought up Lenny Lenny Lenny at all even though I'm still
14:44dealing with it I wish somebody else had more problems than I had we do have more problems
14:49I'm talking and you're interrupting me again I'm very compassionate and I know what you've been
14:56going through but sometimes you have like a lack of accountability but it's not an attack Lisa it's
15:04coming this is feeling like a gang up again everybody's having a narcissistic moment right
15:09now because none of you are taking into consideration the fact this girl just lost her father so where is
15:15empathy I am leaving this bullshit stupid party oh let's make Lisa the punching bag all the time
15:24bullshit I am leaving this bullshit stupid party oh let's make Lisa the punching bag all the time
15:45Larsa you really need to make up with her at some point babe I literally was playing the game I was
15:57not the only one that felt like that we all felt the same thing when we actually tell the truth and
16:02tell how we feel we get punished for this how is that fair like I'm sorry but Larsa has done all of
16:09you guys at one point another this is stupid I'm like done you have a choice to behave the way you
16:18have and you have to take control of your emotions I don't know did everybody have such a problem with
16:22the game I'm going to the bathroom I I think it was a beautiful game she's in the bathroom she's upset
16:28I think she's extremely upset she got all the flags at every game Lisa are you there sorry babe
16:38I hate these people like I don't want to be I don't even really enjoy hanging out with this group
16:46that's how people perceive her and sometimes it's it's hard like when it's only by yourself you know
16:51it feels like we're ganging up on her it was a lot it was rough but if you guys all said that maybe
16:55when I went home I would be like maybe they're right Larsa has no clue he's just just leave me
17:01the alone and leave my boyfriend alone stop talking about my family doesn't know about
17:05how does everyone conveniently forget all the things that Larsa did to them I heard crazy things about
17:12you I heard you hooked up with every doctor in the hospital I swear to God I swear to God someone
17:19called me a week ago and told me you were making out with a man
17:21someone that was at your wedding said a few of the girls at your wedding were doing things at
17:28your wedding I went to meet with Gertie she's like I have breast cancer what who the hell do you
17:37think you are to talk about my news to tell people who are you Larsa can totally bash you one by one
17:45like but I'm being called a narcissist because I talk about myself too much I thought we were here
17:52to talk about our problems as friends I just want to thank you all for participating today
17:58I think the exercises will be positive in the end and you did a great job thank you
18:02thank you and thank you Alexia but no thank you this is hocus-pocus tick tocker
18:08um all right back thanks as I'm having my issues with Julia all I wanted to have is someone to say
18:20you know what I have empathy and let me help you make it right with the other I need you to find a
18:25way to rise above it someone's got to rise above it so I'm gonna apply it to other people and say hey
18:30guys I want you guys to just to be better where are you coming you coming from a place of peace
18:34right okay peace peace okay peace one second one second okay Jenna can you stand up please okay
18:40just the two of you and listen to each other listen I wasn't listening I know you and I have to talk
18:54this has been going on since summer no we're not I'm a moderator I feel like I've been a really good
19:00friend to you she starts with that it never goes well I know I'm out of here you've admitted that
19:04you've told everyone I have been a very good friend to you am I wrong am I wrong have I not
19:10been a nurse sir not lately no okay have I not been a very good friend nope sorry medic mediating
19:16I think it needs to be the other way around for her to tell her what hurt her I guess we'll leave the
19:30girls here we can get going I know it's been a long day I really thought when we were making progress at
19:35your house I really thought I was like we're gonna be fine but you never spoke to me and said whatever
19:40your issues are I'm sorry you're going through this I've got your back it's all I ever wanted
19:44you to do all she wanted you to do is just say hey I've got your back I honestly didn't want to
19:50come and have a conversation at all with you at his birthday but you did and it hurt her so say sorry
19:55the last thing Lisa and I need right now is a referee you were mad at me because Marcus took a selfie
20:03with Jody don't let him win who does Gertie think she is Dr. Phil let's just get together
20:10one-on-one we're not in this environment with a bunch of people that have opinions and all that
20:14stuff a hundred percent I just want to have a moment alone with Lisa I don't need Gertie or
20:20anyone else getting involved in our conversation we're gonna we're gonna figure out our issues we're
20:25gonna solve our problems figure out issues but it's not gonna be tonight come on so much love so much
20:29luck my work is done here you're welcome ladies clinical features of personality disorders yes
20:47according to the DSM-5 behavior must be pervasive and inflexible are you inflexible Baski are you
20:58inflexible with your peeing on my furniture she loved this place so much oh oh oh oh she's ready
21:08she freaking love you I get a little warm-up Bravo Tati stay active so you can go to sleep in two hours
21:16I love this how many squats is this equivalent so this is equivalent to 20,000 squats and one
21:2720,000 squats yeah turn it all the way up all right oh you're gonna pass me a doughnuts
21:36that's not for you baby boy no back off move your butt move your butt
21:52hi welcome how are things going oh I'm slightly sleep deprived
22:00like saying hello to you in a twilight zone we are not yet official parents of Jackson and Luca
22:08the state needs to make sure that we are meeting all the needs of the boys so this is our main visit
22:16yes and we'll have one next month so we're adoptive parents on the way yes we are only a few weeks away
22:24from becoming the official parents but honestly like Martina and I we are already their parents from
22:31the day one so I would love to know what has been the hardest moment for you bringing the boys home
22:38I forgot what the diaper situation is you know oh no and it's like really funny four in the morning
22:4624 30 he's calling me and then let's have a deal with Martina it's you tonight it's you it's always
22:52me it's this she gets up I think now she wants to bond with them more kind of she feels you know
22:59she's a second parent and she loves doing it I like that I just cannot stop smiling because Martina
23:05she's spoiling the boys so much they have this incredibly cute relationships Martina is good at
23:13everything of course she would be a great mom I'm a single mom who adopted boys where are you going
23:20to have the male role model well I'm very close with my brother who's 12 years younger than me and
23:25I face time with him maybe like I don't know three times a week so they know my brother but in the
23:32beginning like maybe 10 days after we had them we had some friends come into the house and the boys froze
23:40and that's one of the reasons why I don't like invite people to my house to see them because I
23:46remember that that reaction they froze and it reminded me about changing homes it's probably when
23:53they felt safe somebody came in think about they don't know right and they say you're coming with
23:59me you're changing who can even as an adult comprehend what that feels like um oh my god
24:06thinking of that makes me so sad at times I feel almost hopeless and helpless like I don't know
24:14what to do how to help them but I know it's just time patience and love but I feel now it's the time
24:22I can introduce them outside yes my friends you are so nurturing and you have so much nurture to give
24:28and these boys need all of that
24:31Thunder Stephanie I think welcome welcome welcome thank you so much you want a glass of wine you're
24:57getting a margarita yeah okay perfect three margarita all the things are perfect
25:01but it was very scary yeah it was very scary anything that has to do with my parents worries me
25:23if they have the migraine I worry if a hurricane's coming I'm devastated oh this is nice how do you
25:29say thank you so much I installed their nest and ring cameras in their house and haven't told them
25:36that I can see them in their house is that weird I think that might be criminal it's not criminal
25:42right if it's your parents what if they fall I want to know I'm turning 40 this year and my parents
25:49are going to be together you guys are the best parents I love you when I decided to introduce my
26:10parents to Massoud I planned a dinner my dad didn't say a word he was shocked he was so close in age to
26:17my dad and then the second time they hit it off and ever since then they FaceTime each other during
26:26work hours and they always always hang out Massoud is a son my parents never had but that is if my dad
26:33was had Massoud when he was one the way that you raised Tata Tata she's tough as nail in the office she
26:44does better job than I do but I feel like a lot of what I am as a businesswoman comes from my dad it
26:51really does I was literally raised like a boy I better die learn to ride the bike don't cry you can
27:01do it you're not quitting keep going a Sierra and he told me weak people will never survive
27:08I'm not sensitive my sisters they are very very sensitive a lot a lot my sister's tense relationship
27:20with my parents had nothing to do with my fallout with them however my fallout with them made their
27:25relationship even worse they can't talk for two minutes it's literally like war it's not
27:33I want to mend the relationship with my sisters because I truly truly miss them the day my sisters
27:56signed the employment papers at Shoma it's almost like if they signed our relationship alone
28:03way Tata no I want to fix it okay but it's very hard but one day we will all be a complete family
28:33I feel like my pants are wrinkled does it look wrinkled no
28:39hey hello hi how are you I'm Russell hello hello
28:45oh my goodness so nice meeting you it's very cozy thank you have a seat oh my gosh that's mean
28:56either one of you have been in couples therapy before no no this is a first a first for everything
29:02here talk to me about how y'all met so we were in high school 10th grade okay we met she she fell
29:10in love with me at that point and then the end right that's it boy bye okay so fast forward you're
29:18married yes two sons yep okay and then I got cancer it's been over a year and a half since my cancer
29:27diagnosis and now we have to live with the post-cancer trauma you have had a major disruption in your
29:36marriage we went through the cancer together and Russell was by my side through the whole thing but I
29:41don't want him to see me as like my caretaker because we need to now turn the page and move forward as to
29:47being a couple again so Russell I want to hear your wife this phenomenal woman in a very vulnerable time of
29:55her life talk to me about what that was doing to you that that was hard okay
30:07you know when I when I was at my lowest like when I was just like in
30:25the bed like just wanted to I I actually told him I wanted to get like I didn't want him more
30:29pick chemo I want I don't care what happens maybe it's my time to go
30:32take a moment breathe
30:39and there was one time that I did that and he said you cannot
30:47you can't do this to me and the kids and then he said
30:53I need you then I just thought completely switched off and never talked about it again
31:02you see someone that's so powerful um has so much energy has so much life shut down
31:11for you know a time you know luckily we're we're able to get over that but sometimes she she feels
31:20self-conscious he doesn't play into the emotional side that I need him to play into so that I don't so
31:26that I don't feel like a patient okay so Russell for you what do we need to do to turn off that
31:33first responder well I feel like we're getting to that point where I've turned it off that aspect
31:45okay you know we're going through these ups and downs but you know you joke about it oh you always
31:51say I'm traumatized I'm not traumatized I'm amazed I'm proud of you I'm like that's my wife
31:59my god I wow thank you thank you thank you thank you I I I never heard you say it like this at all
32:06wow I would encourage you both since this is your first time in therapy consider individual
32:13I've always wanted her to go on her own because she has issues in the past like traumatic events
32:20that pop up all the time the way I came to this country you know there's a sense of um
32:27isolation and abandonment I'm one of seven kids and then my father decides to come to Miami to
32:34start with the church um career so I came here at the age of nine he took only me and my brother
32:40all the other siblings got to stay in France when I get triggered when somebody like excludes me from
32:45something in a mean way let me tell you what happened on the cruise Julia clearly used me as a
32:51seat filler when I brought that up I said why didn't you have her sit with you for dinner and
32:56she said because Sandy had given the seat to somebody else when she realized Martina wasn't coming
33:02who would say no you can't bring her but she knows me I get triggered by my new little thing to be brought
33:10to the US not speaking English dropped off at some cousin's house and told we'll be right back we're gonna
33:18get the other siblings we'll be back and not seeing my parents for three months I had no control and I
33:23think that could maybe be the reason why wow I just that could maybe be the reason why I am the way I
33:30am right now oh my god it's part of the traumatic experience I would highly encourage that you speak
33:37to your own therapist
33:38welcome hi hi what's going on how are you good how are you I'm okay thank you you just said your hair
34:02hair looks good I feel like we are coordinated neutrals oh does that mean it's a good sign I hope so
34:08there's no reason why Lisa and I should have been fighting for this long like we were best friends can I
34:14do Casa Amigos Reposado soda I'll do the same same one I'm hoping that Lisa comes today with an open
34:22mind and heart and accept some responsibility so yeah excuse me ladies reposado over here thank you thank
34:32you so much you thank you thank you lady I wasn't actually looking forward to this so we're not no
34:39with Larsa I need to figure out where her mind is at either resolve our issues or just be done with her
34:48how long can it be before we like sit down like honestly like there's a lot there's a lot to dive
34:54into you know we've been having these like crazy like issues since summer I've never been thrown out
35:00of anyone's house the whole world knows what you are get out get out and I've never been swore out
35:07like that in my house Jody and I left a real party for your fake breakup you're a fake bitch to say
35:12that things kind of like snowballed after that I was really hurt when I left Milan just you know
35:17the last night of Milan Jody gets so crazy he doesn't want us to talk anymore yelling over
35:23us what you got heated because of Marcus it's a touchy subject no he said to me you're the one
35:28that had the paparazzi take the photo of him in the south of France and I said me what am I the CIA
35:33and that's what started it all well the paparazzi guy told us that okay well you're full of
35:38why are you saying I'm full of okay that's not what happened your boyfriend lies I don't want
35:45to like escalate this we're trying I'm trying to de-escalate okay I'm just a better friend
35:49do you hear yourself yeah you're running low on friends I'm the only friend that literally
35:56will take time to meet you for lunch you change friends like I change underwear you need to
36:01learn how to be a better friend you'd be a better I don't know I'm not the only one because you saw
36:05when you got all the red flags oh right constantly talking about themselves sorry monkey I think Lisa
36:12yeah Lisa quick to take offense Lisa is quick to take offense Lisa Lisa playing the victim Lisa Lisa
36:23oh boy do I regret putting all those flags in Lisa's face no do I regret making her feel bad yes I do
36:36that was a complete dog pile I'm a narcissist you're a larsisist okay everyone is against you all the
36:44girls in our group it's just the truth why do you have a hard time dealing with the truth
36:48you have a hard time dealing with the truth he's in the bathroom it's insane we're not getting
36:56anywhere with this okay everyone is against you all the girls in our group and it's just the truth
37:15why do you have a hard time dealing with the truth it's insane we're not getting anywhere with this
37:22Alexia she goes look at the flag everybody hates you they're not your friend or whatever
37:31oh my gosh well that's not that's not true I know but it's really gross that she's saying that no one is
37:37my friend and everyone thinks I'm terrible I'm terrible I don't believe that I know I don't want to
37:47believe that but like she's throwing all she's like she's so terrible any African American or Hispanic
37:54that votes for Kamala you gotta have your headaches her saying this she's so unalive and she's always
38:01reflecting always reflecting and making about uh like something else when it's about me and her
38:08sorry I believe this is going to be the biggest dial trend this November I'm not kidding
38:17we'll be seeing equestrian sheets like never before you know how it appears when I have
38:22everybody piling up I just left my dad I mean it's just so mean and hurtful to think like this group
38:28of girls like what Lars is saying is true that no one likes me like it's so mean
38:34and she's calling me a narcissist it's messed up hi hi I'm sorry oh yeah sure sure yep yep thank you
38:48so much sure I'm sorry about that sorry yeah but but I just want you to go out there tell her we're
38:55not talking about any other girls right now this is between you and I okay please take hold yourself
39:00and go out there and do it okay yes I am to the point I'm so like I'm like to like my last hair
39:06these girls gonna like fix it so I talk one though it's like I'm just like tired of it I don't I
39:13don't know I don't even know what to say like I'm really hurt and I think maybe you wanted that
39:18how am I trying to hurt you by telling you to be a better friend what have I done to you besides be
39:23there for you stay up with you all night whenever we travel oh we can call me anytime I always answer
39:29the more the story is I was looking for you to be a better friend to me that's all that's where
39:35this all stemmed from I love you I'm sorry I came to Jodi's party in college you a bitch I'm sorry you
39:41lost your dad and felt like I wasn't there for you the way maybe you feel like I should have been can
39:46you accept some responsibility in some of this too yeah in hindsight if I would have known all of
39:51this stuff that was happening and I would have known your true emotions and your feelings we wouldn't
39:57be here today so I'm sorry for that that I didn't know but I really just didn't know I didn't know
40:02and I wish that I could like sometimes pull it out of you like to get your feelings to get how you
40:08feel but you have this tough exterior and it's hard to like get in there you know it's hard to I get
40:14it I think we both have to do a better job of like communicating and like picking up the phone and not
40:23having things go on as long as this situation it has lasted it's gone on forever I hate it I don't
40:28like having conflict you should always be able to call your friends and know that your friends
40:32have your back and I'll always have your back I know deep down we have love for each other Larsa is really
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