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90 Day Fiancé Season 11 Episode 16
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00:00:01Previously on 90 Day Fiancé...
00:00:04Why are you dressed like a big cow?
00:00:06I paid the dowry.
00:00:08Oh, that's good.
00:00:10Greg has finally paid the dowry,
00:00:13so he has really respected my culture,
00:00:16my family, and my father's last wishes.
00:00:19Now we are going to get married.
00:00:25I don't want to be a cruise wife.
00:00:29So it's you or the cruise?
00:00:31Is that what you're saying?
00:00:32Yeah.
00:00:33It is going to be hard to leave cruise life behind,
00:00:36but that's what it is, I guess.
00:00:39I'm not going back on the cruise ship.
00:00:41Oh, better.
00:00:48What is that?
00:00:50This is a prenup.
00:00:52Everything with us seems too uncertain,
00:00:54and preparing for every possibility
00:00:57will make me feel more at ease about moving forward.
00:01:00We are getting into a marriage,
00:01:02thinking about the end.
00:01:07Right, tell many things liars.
00:01:10Is your divorce finalized?
00:01:12Tengo mi papel, I have my paper.
00:01:15I honestly feel bad for thinking the worst.
00:01:18I've been looking for Guadalajara.
00:01:20I've been wanting to learn so much about you
00:01:22and your family.
00:01:24I worry she'll tell her family that I'm just a friend.
00:01:28And maybe they don't like us,
00:01:30and that's a deal-breaker for her.
00:01:32Mark, you'll adopt Clayton as his son.
00:01:37You good?
00:01:38Yeah.
00:01:39I'm very happy that Mark
00:01:41was going to adopt Clayton.
00:01:43It's new, but it's not Clayton.
00:01:46If Clayton's not here,
00:01:47you're not going to get married?
00:01:50Baby, if you're thinking you won't get married,
00:01:53that means you're going back to France.
00:01:55Don't hate me, but what about a prenup?
00:01:59I mean, you only get hurt if you don't, so...
00:02:03What the ?
00:02:05We have never talked about prenup before.
00:02:08If you want it, I have one close.
00:02:11I have a weight target for you, right?
00:02:13128 pounds.
00:02:14For every pound you owe her,
00:02:16I will fine you for a thousand dollars.
00:02:19Okay.
00:02:20Why would you agree to that?
00:02:22Just because I literally said
00:02:24I don't care.
00:02:25No, you should care.
00:02:26Listen.
00:02:27Don't leave me room, please.
00:02:51Okay, now tell me how does it taste.
00:02:54It's so beautiful here.
00:02:55Yeah.
00:02:56I love my culture.
00:02:57We're finally here.
00:02:58We're in Guadalajara.
00:02:59Okay, one, two, three.
00:03:00Woo!
00:03:01I think we're in such a good place.
00:03:02The best place we've been in the relationship so far, and that means the world to us.
00:03:08And now it's time to meet your family.
00:03:09I am never present with my family.
00:03:10Boyfriends before.
00:03:11Relationships before.
00:03:12This is a big, big .
00:03:13Big .
00:03:14No, no, no.
00:03:15No, no.
00:03:16No, no, no.
00:03:17No, no, no.
00:03:18No, no, no.
00:03:19No, no, no.
00:03:20I don't care.
00:03:21I am never present with my family.
00:03:22Boyfriends before.
00:03:23Relationships before.
00:03:24This is a big, big .
00:03:25No, no, no.
00:03:26No, no, no.
00:03:27No, no, no.
00:03:28Let's go find something for your family.
00:03:29Oh, okay.
00:03:30I want to buy some flowers for my aunt because I don't know what is the reaction about
00:03:55her.
00:03:56Yeah, I know.
00:03:57Absolutely, we should get her some colors.
00:03:58You know?
00:03:59I'm born in Guadalajara.
00:04:02When I am children, I lose my mother, my father.
00:04:08I don't have too much important person in my life.
00:04:13But for me, my aunt is very important for me because she take care of me when I am children.
00:04:19Yes, I want those.
00:04:20Yes, I want those.
00:04:21I like them.
00:04:22When I was very young, I am really poor.
00:04:26But it's a great life because my aunt gave me what I could.
00:04:32Let's sit down for a bit since your feet hurting you.
00:04:36Yeah, get off our feet.
00:04:37Oh, thanks God.
00:04:38So, I'm nervous, baby.
00:04:39I'm really, really nervous too because I don't know what's going to happen.
00:04:54What's the plan?
00:04:55I was like, I want to give you time, but there's no time anymore.
00:04:58OK.
00:04:59Yeah, we're here.
00:05:00What do we do?
00:05:01I don't have any plane.
00:05:02The plane's not playing great.
00:05:04I know.
00:05:05For such a planner, I'm like stressing.
00:05:07Yeah, it's hard because my aunt is very, very religious.
00:05:13I'm nervous, you know.
00:05:15So...
00:05:37I want to know, I understand out of anybody how hard this is for you because of my similar
00:05:48family and culture.
00:05:49Maybe that's why I'm the hardest on you when it comes to this.
00:05:53I don't want to be there like, OK, is it happening now?
00:05:56Is it happening now?
00:05:57Or even worse, step in and do it for you, which is not my place to do that.
00:06:02Give me time, OK?
00:06:04Mm-hmm.
00:06:05I wish my family is with this, OK?
00:06:13I grew up with a lot of religious people and they can be not accepting.
00:06:18I'm scared because if her aunt doesn't approve the relationship, I'm worried that's a jailbreaker
00:06:24for Ani.
00:06:25Cool.
00:06:26But at the same time, I'm not willing to be the secret.
00:06:32There's no more time left, you know.
00:06:34She asked for the time.
00:06:35And I'm feeling like, please, don't make it seem where you're maybe chickening out.
00:06:39Like, that's my fear.
00:06:40Now you're going to get it.
00:06:41Now you're going to get it.
00:06:42Now you're going to get it.
00:06:47Now you're going to get it.
00:06:48Now you're going to get it.
00:06:50Look, who's not awake yet?
00:06:52Now you're gonna get it, now you're gonna get it.
00:06:59Look, he's not awake yet.
00:07:06Now I am awake, for sure.
00:07:10Oh no, here comes the germ, you marine.
00:07:15Today's a big day, and I'm very, very excited.
00:07:28It's gonna be crazy hot today.
00:07:31Yeah? Mm-hmm.
00:07:33Your dress is probably gonna melt.
00:07:36I have a surprise for you.
00:07:39A good surprise?
00:07:42Yes. Okay.
00:07:45It's the morning that I'm supposed to marry Sean if I sign the prenup.
00:07:51I want the wedding to be about love and about our future together.
00:07:55But I understood how this agreement is important for Sean
00:08:01and the things that he wants for our future.
00:08:05I love Sean, and I do know that I want to spend my life with him.
00:08:12And that's why I'm going to sign this agreement.
00:08:19Uh...
00:08:21Does this include an autograph?
00:08:26Not yet.
00:08:27Not yet?
00:08:28So, let's sign that.
00:08:30I think I have a pen here.
00:08:33I hope that you never need to use this.
00:08:41Well, that's the hope. Me too.
00:08:50Here you go.
00:08:52Happy wedding day.
00:08:53I'll take this home and have it framed and put over our bed.
00:08:57Oh, amazing. So, that reminds me every day.
00:09:00Yes.
00:09:01Every day that you're never divorced, then you get to go see another blessed day.
00:09:06Oh, thank you.
00:09:07Thank you, thank you.
00:09:08Jackie, we're gonna be here soon.
00:09:10So, pick me up, and then you get ready together.
00:09:13Then I do not see you anymore.
00:09:15Just in the right moment.
00:09:18And is that right moment gonna look like an hour after the right moment supposed to be with people?
00:09:25No.
00:09:26Okay.
00:09:27Not today.
00:09:28That's why it's early.
00:09:29I have a plan of time to do everything.
00:09:31Okay, I can't wait to see this happen.
00:09:33Do you enjoy it?
00:09:40Do you enjoy it?
00:09:41Yes.
00:09:42Are you satisfied now?
00:09:43I'm very happy, yes.
00:09:44And now we get to proceed to the wedding.
00:09:46Finally.
00:09:47Finally.
00:09:53Ah, you're ready for me?
00:09:55Yes.
00:09:56Good job.
00:09:58There's nothing I like better on all my weddings than to do your hair.
00:10:02How it always is with you, every time we go someplace or do something, you're stuck with everybody's hair.
00:10:07Every occasion I say, next occasion, I'm not doing it.
00:10:11Is today actually going to be a wedding day, or what?
00:10:15Oh, we're gonna have a wedding.
00:10:18Aaliyah signed a prenat.
00:10:19Oh.
00:10:20This is wonderful news.
00:10:22Hey, good morning.
00:10:24Oh, hello.
00:10:26Hey.
00:10:27How are you?
00:10:28Excited?
00:10:29Yes.
00:10:30Especially now that I know that it's gonna be a wedding.
00:10:32This is good.
00:10:33Wonderful.
00:10:34Yes.
00:10:38Jackie.
00:10:39Oh my goodness.
00:10:40I mean, I...
00:10:41Oh, it's Jackie.
00:10:43Hi.
00:10:44Oh my God, you look beautiful.
00:10:47How are you?
00:10:48Hi, I'm good.
00:10:49Hello, hello.
00:10:50Hi.
00:10:51Hey, Jackie.
00:10:52This is my mom, Jeannie.
00:10:53Jeannie, Jackie, Jug, Jeannie.
00:10:54Hi.
00:10:55Nice to meet you.
00:10:56I've heard so much about you.
00:10:58All good, I'm sure.
00:11:03So, you guys are off for adventures in wedding land?
00:11:06Yes.
00:11:07Yeah.
00:11:08Okay, let's do this.
00:11:09Things are gonna go so smooth today.
00:11:10I work in a business where everything is punctual to the minute, like military time even.
00:11:17So, the wedding today starts at 5.
00:11:20The ceremony is gonna be about 15 minutes.
00:11:22Then there's champagne toast between 5.15 and 5.30.
00:11:26Then from 5.30 to 7, we're going to have dinner.
00:11:29Then from 7 to 8, Aaliyah's going to do a dance number.
00:11:34And then from 8 to 10, we'll party like rock stars.
00:11:38All right.
00:11:39See you.
00:11:40Now I don't move for the next three hours.
00:11:41Don't get in the wind.
00:11:42This is so pretty.
00:11:43This is so damn hot.
00:11:44All right.
00:11:45We're here.
00:11:46I'm dying.
00:11:47I think here it's like crazy hot, but I think it's the same weather.
00:11:50As Brazil?
00:11:51Yeah.
00:11:52It's like I'm used to that.
00:11:53But a few weeks ago when I talked to you, it was cold, so.
00:11:56Yeah, it was like freezing, I'm like dying.
00:11:58Oh, it's so cute.
00:11:59It's beautiful.
00:12:00It's beautiful.
00:12:01It's beautiful.
00:12:02It's beautiful.
00:12:03It's beautiful.
00:12:04It's beautiful.
00:12:05It's beautiful.
00:12:06Oh, this is beautiful.
00:12:07Oh, this is so pretty.
00:12:08This is so pretty.
00:12:09It's so damn hot.
00:12:10Alright, we're here.
00:12:11Oh, I'm dying.
00:12:12I think here it's like crazy hot, but I think it's the same weather.
00:12:14As Brazil?
00:12:15Yeah.
00:12:16It's like, I'm used to that.
00:12:17And, but a few weeks ago when I talked to you, it was cold.
00:12:20It's so cute.
00:12:21It's beautiful.
00:12:22Oh, and I'm feeling good here.
00:12:24It's a whole house just for us.
00:12:26I know.
00:12:27Just for you.
00:12:28It's your day.
00:12:29Sean hates how much time it takes me to get ready, but this is the most important day
00:12:34of my life.
00:12:35I will take shower, put my wig cap and glue that, put my wig and glue my wig, brush and
00:12:42make that look exactly the way that I want.
00:12:45Prepare my skin, do my skin, the foundation, contour, my eyes, mascara, my lips.
00:12:51I just want everything amazing.
00:12:54So are you showering, okay?
00:12:55Okay.
00:12:56Mom?
00:12:57Uh?
00:12:58Mom?
00:12:59Ah.
00:13:00Mom?
00:13:01Uh?
00:13:02Mom?
00:13:03Uh?
00:13:04Mom?
00:13:05Uh?
00:13:06Mom?
00:13:07Uh?
00:13:08I am getting ready to leave.
00:13:10Ah!
00:13:23When I'm getting ready to leave, I hear a noise,
00:13:28and I run out and find that my mom's sprawled out
00:13:32in agony on the floor in the kitchen.
00:13:40It's painful at the moment.
00:13:46I'm hoping it'll get better quickly.
00:13:49We got her to her feet,
00:13:52and then we got her to sit down on the couch,
00:13:55but she was having trouble moving,
00:13:57and she said she hurt her hip,
00:13:59and at 85, she broke her hip.
00:14:02That, you know, so many people die from that.
00:14:06If you got your leg up, it's not like you just,
00:14:09oh, it's just a little tiny something or other.
00:14:12True, but...
00:14:13It's like, am I taking you to the hospital now?
00:14:15No, and I will be fine by 5 o'clock.
00:14:19I guarantee it.
00:14:22I've seen her have a broken knee
00:14:25and still hobble around and act like she was fine
00:14:28in order to not disappoint me,
00:14:30and that wasn't even for a wedding.
00:14:32So to hear everything is fine, but I can't move,
00:14:35I know that that's really bad.
00:14:41If that doesn't feel better, then just don't come.
00:14:44Oh, I'm not missing. No.
00:14:47Hey, Karumba.
00:14:48I know my mom, and she will die at that wedding
00:14:57rather than miss that wedding.
00:15:05This is something that I definitely don't want to be dealing with,
00:15:08nor did I think I would ever, in my wildest dreams,
00:15:11be dealing with on my wedding day.
00:15:13I mean, do you plan to divorce me in the future?
00:15:23No.
00:15:24What if you cheat on me someday or something?
00:15:26This is a very rude thing.
00:15:28The universe is playing with me,
00:15:30and I'm not sure, to be honest.
00:15:32I don't know what to do.
00:15:33This conversation needs to be shelved for now.
00:15:36I need to get ready.
00:15:38Always escape.
00:15:39And I can't.
00:15:43I'm in the center down.
00:15:44Can't ever let you go.
00:15:49Hear the silence talking.
00:15:53You were all I know.
00:15:55In this society.
00:16:00I will sit outside,
00:16:03wait for you.
00:16:06Will you wait for me too?
00:16:08Hey.
00:16:09Your coffee is worth it.
00:16:32Oh my God.
00:16:34Do you feel hungover?
00:16:36Yeah, kind of.
00:16:37I mean, not hungover because of drinks,
00:16:39but because of everything, you know?
00:16:41It was an intense night.
00:16:45To be honest, when Alex told about that prenup thing,
00:16:49I was expecting she kind of to say,
00:16:51no way, no need such a thing.
00:16:54But she was OK with it, you know?
00:16:58And it made me so disappointed.
00:17:00I mean, so devastating.
00:17:05I'm scared that she doesn't see me as I see her.
00:17:09That's the problem.
00:17:14The thing that I'm so upset is, I mean,
00:17:17do you plan to divorce me in the future?
00:17:20No, that's not what it's about.
00:17:21It's just about protecting my assets for the sake of Sophie.
00:17:25What if you cheat on me someday or something?
00:17:28This is a very rude thing for our culture.
00:17:30But it's not.
00:17:30It's not for me.
00:17:32You're not in Turkey anymore, babe.
00:17:33Now you're in the US.
00:17:35I am Turkish and I will stay as Turkish.
00:17:36You have to adapt to our ways of living.
00:17:38I don't know how to explain that to my family, you know?
00:17:41Sarper is taking this very personally.
00:17:45But my friends are very aware, as am I, of Sarper's past.
00:17:49So, you know, it does make sense that I protect myself.
00:17:55I mean, I'm going to do it because maybe one day he's going to just tell me,
00:17:58I cheated on you.
00:18:00I don't know.
00:18:01He could.
00:18:04I need to go get in the shower, babe.
00:18:06I feel like this conversation needs to be shelved for now
00:18:10because it's not really going anywhere.
00:18:12I need to get ready.
00:18:13Always escape.
00:18:18In Turkey, if you are married, you are committed.
00:18:22You don't marry to think that you are going to divorce.
00:18:26That doesn't make sense.
00:18:28It's so uncommon in Turkey.
00:18:32Why?
00:18:33I mean, we are belong to each other.
00:18:34I mean, you're everything is mine.
00:18:36Mine, everything is yours.
00:18:38Because you're my family.
00:18:39You will be my family.
00:18:40That's marriage.
00:18:52Hello.
00:18:54Hello.
00:18:55Amerikalı.
00:18:56Ne yapıyorsun?
00:18:5790 gün süremiz bitiyor.
00:18:59Ne zaman bitiyordu o?
00:19:01Haftaya bitiyor.
00:19:03Hani böyle çok can atarak, koşarak, hani evleniyorum değil mod.
00:19:08Ama şey, dün arkadaşlarıyla bir yemeğe gittik.
00:19:16Arkadaşlarından bir tanesi, bir konu açtı şikayneye.
00:19:21Print up denen bir şey, evlilik sözleşmesi.
00:19:28Hani...
00:19:29Oluyor, belki ayrılırız zaten diye.
00:19:31Önden kabul etmişti.
00:19:32Bir de bunu son dakika, hani sayılı gün kalmış şurada evlenmeye, konusu bile geçmedi ya.
00:19:41Ben eksikliği mi var acaba?
00:19:43Okey.
00:19:44Yaparız.
00:19:45Ama benim de bir tane şeyim var dedim, şartım var dedim.
00:19:47Dedim, sana şey kilo, ona bir kilo, hedef kilo vermiştim ben.
00:19:52Belli bir kilo veriyorum.
00:19:53128 pounds limiti var.
00:19:56Her ay başı tartıyorum.
00:19:58Her aldığı kilo başına 1000 dolar ceza kesiyorum.
00:20:01Ooo güzel.
00:20:02Güzel değil mi?
00:20:03Yeah.
00:20:04Baya motivasyon yani.
00:20:06Gerçekten yaratıcılığına hayran kaldım.
00:20:09Abi bana bir iş teklifiyle geliyorsan, hani iş gibi böyle anlaşmayla geliyorsan,
00:20:14al bu da benim sana karşı teklifim.
00:20:17Sen iyi düşündün mü bu evlilik olayını?
00:20:22Zaten bizim endişemiz genel olarak şu anda evlenirsen,
00:20:25bir şeyler ters giderse, önceki evliliğindeki gibi içine kapanır mısın?
00:20:30Hani bizden kopar mısın?
00:20:32Anladım.
00:20:34Anladım.
00:20:37I was married before when I was 31 years old.
00:20:39The girl in my life was an angel.
00:20:42And I thought that it could be a great mother for my future children.
00:20:47So I just married with her.
00:20:49But as soon as we signed the patent,
00:20:52my ex-wife didn't want my family to visit us.
00:20:56She changed her behavior towards me.
00:20:59She changed totally.
00:21:01I mean, the girl that I married was not there.
00:21:04So it's a fobia for me.
00:21:06I don't want to live the same experience, same things again and again.
00:21:10If you do it something once, it's a mistake.
00:21:13But if you do the same mistake twice, you are a stupid.
00:21:17I am totally confused.
00:21:30I'm worried.
00:21:31I am totally confused.
00:21:32I'm worried.
00:21:33I'm saying, okay, we are solving everything.
00:21:34We are in a good way.
00:21:35Then something happens.
00:21:36I'm in that prenup thing.
00:21:37The universe is playing with me.
00:21:39The universe knows that I have a fobia of marriage and it gives more things on me.
00:21:45Think twice.
00:21:46Think three times.
00:21:47Are you ready?
00:21:48Are you sure about your decision right now?
00:21:50And I'm not sure, to be honest.
00:21:51I don't know what to do.
00:21:52For four years, she's been promising me that she's going to learn Spanish.
00:22:21The spelling was right in my head.
00:22:24After such a long time, to not have learned anything at all, that has to be fixed.
00:22:31Because I won't marry her if she doesn't speak Spanish.
00:22:34Hello?
00:22:39I'm done married.
00:22:50I'm not married.
00:22:51Wait, come on.
00:22:52No, no.
00:22:53It's not possible for me.
00:22:54Mina, come on.
00:22:57There's only one place that I want to be.
00:23:04So do you guys know what your role is at the wedding?
00:23:07Or what you guys are going to do?
00:23:08I'm the ring bear.
00:23:09You are all three the ring bearers?
00:23:10Yes.
00:23:11Are you nervous to be a ring bear?
00:23:14You dress up as a bear?
00:23:15Yes.
00:23:16I'm gonna follow wherever you go.
00:23:21Okay, let's do this.
00:23:22Let's go check the place out.
00:23:23Let's go.
00:23:24Let's go find our bedrooms.
00:23:25The wedding is in two days and we are at the rental house in Colorado.
00:23:43Besides everything going on, we're still really happy.
00:23:46It's been such a long time.
00:23:48And?
00:23:49And we're getting married.
00:23:50Yes.
00:23:51All right.
00:23:52Don't forget that key piece.
00:23:53I know.
00:23:54We're getting married.
00:23:55That's true.
00:23:56Okay.
00:23:57Here we are.
00:23:58It's huge!
00:23:59Look, here's a nice big kitchen and living room.
00:24:02I have a couple people coming to the wedding, which is pretty exciting.
00:24:06I have people coming from Spain.
00:24:08And then I have Leonardo coming from New York.
00:24:10And I have my uncles and aunties and cousins coming from Spain.
00:24:15A fireplace, a fire pit.
00:24:18Since I came here in Wyoming, I've just been staying at home with the kids and not being surrounded by my people, you know.
00:24:25And it's gonna be such a special time in family all together.
00:24:32Hi!
00:24:33Hi!
00:24:44Welcome!
00:24:45Bienvenidos!
00:24:52You know, getting married and having your parents there is something special.
00:24:56But sadly, they're both gone.
00:24:58So that's really hard on me, you know, just having such a special day without them.
00:25:03So, you know, have my uncle and auntie there, kind of mix it up for me.
00:25:07They will never replace my parents, but at least they're gonna be there seeing me getting married.
00:25:12That's amazing.
00:25:17That's your cousin, Primo.
00:25:19Primo!
00:25:20How important is that you have come to my wedding?
00:25:23I tell you my heart.
00:25:24I dreamt with your mother.
00:25:26When I asked for her to come.
00:25:30Well, yes.
00:25:31And to think that your mother is not.
00:25:34At least replace her a little.
00:25:36Because it's not the same.
00:25:38But replace her a little.
00:25:40Salud!
00:25:41Salud!
00:25:42Salud!
00:25:43Salud!
00:25:44Salud!
00:25:45Salud!
00:25:46Salud!
00:25:47Bienvenidos!
00:25:48Bienvenidos!
00:25:49Bienvenidos!
00:25:50Bienvenidos!
00:25:51Bienvenidos!
00:25:52I have the spelling was right in my head.
00:25:55E-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I
00:26:25Leonardo just made it here, and I'm really happy to have him because he's my best man.
00:26:33So he's the guy.
00:26:34I need him here now.
00:26:35And besides that, he hasn't seen my uncles and my auntie like in a long time, 20 years
00:26:44ago.
00:26:4523 years ago was the last time they saw each other, so it's going to be a blast for them
00:26:49and I just can't wait to see their expressions, you know, they're going to cry or not, they're
00:26:52going to be happy.
00:26:53It's going to be like a whole mix of feelings.
00:27:00She hasn't seen this guy in a long time.
00:27:04I know you can tell about it, I'm fine, you got it.
00:27:07It's been a long time.
00:27:08Definitely having my family here made me feel like my culture is here, my peoples here,
00:27:13and make me feel more comfortable.
00:27:16Cute.
00:27:19I'm really happy that they came from so far away just to see me get married.
00:27:22I appreciate them having all of them now.
00:27:25So I'm hungry.
00:27:26What you got to eat?
00:27:27Everything, man.
00:27:28Come on in.
00:27:29We don't have very much.
00:27:30You got nothing?
00:27:31Oh, my God.
00:27:32We have a little bit of fruit.
00:27:33Well, maybe you guys should go grocery shopping.
00:27:35Yeah, we should do.
00:27:36Let's go.
00:27:37I'll get my jacket.
00:27:38I'll be back in a couple of minutes.
00:27:39We'll see you soon.
00:27:40We'll be back in a couple of minutes.
00:27:41We'll see you soon.
00:27:42Let's go of it.
00:27:43Let's go of it.
00:27:44Let's go of it, Mr. Dad.
00:27:47That's awesome.
00:27:48Let's go of it.
00:27:49Let's go of it.
00:27:50Met a couple of hours.
00:27:52Let's go of it then.
00:27:53Well, then, how are you going?
00:27:58I'm adapting to being a father, adapting to the new life.
00:28:02Mr. Dad.
00:28:04After that, the kids are calm.
00:28:07The things are going on.
00:28:10What I'm worried about is that the kids don't lose their culture.
00:28:15No, don't believe it.
00:28:17For example, my two children speak Spanish 100%.
00:28:22They don't speak English for anything.
00:28:24English is in the school.
00:28:27Leonardo's situation was a little bit different than mine.
00:28:31He could speak Spanish with his kids all the time
00:28:34because his ex-wife spoke Spanish too.
00:28:38But for me, it's different
00:28:40because I'm the only one who speaks Spanish in the house.
00:28:42Welcome. Welcome to the house.
00:28:45Costa.
00:28:48It's a beautiful house.
00:28:50Grande.
00:28:51Dawson.
00:28:52Tu gusta.
00:28:54Football.
00:28:56Iti Mi Grande.
00:29:01Yeah, of course.
00:29:02I've been a little bit worried about
00:29:03a baby learning Spanish
00:29:04or losing my culture here in America
00:29:07and he not being able to talk to his family back in Colombia, you know.
00:29:11Los dardos.
00:29:15Nah.
00:29:16Nah.
00:29:17That's what I was saying in the car.
00:29:19I have to find the way
00:29:22that the kids learn Spanish,
00:29:24that Jessica learn Spanish.
00:29:26They're going to speak English all the time.
00:29:28That's what I'm saying.
00:29:29That's what I'm saying.
00:29:30You have to find the way
00:29:31to introduce them
00:29:32to the four children.
00:29:34The two children of Jessica.
00:29:36No.
00:29:37Jessica and the baby.
00:29:38It's impossible.
00:29:39No.
00:29:40It's impossible.
00:29:41No.
00:29:42It's impossible.
00:29:43But, above all, the communication, right?
00:29:44Yes.
00:29:45That's the way to talk about things.
00:29:46The communication,
00:29:47talking with Jessica.
00:29:48It's like this.
00:29:49It's like I'm feeling.
00:29:52Jessica and I have been together for four years
00:29:55and since then she's been promising me
00:29:57that she's going to learn Spanish.
00:29:59We got engaged, say,
00:30:02well, I'm going to learn Spanish.
00:30:04Then she got pregnant
00:30:05and she said,
00:30:06now I need to learn Spanish.
00:30:08Now we're getting married
00:30:09and I think it's not an excuse
00:30:11after such a long time
00:30:12to not have learned anything at all.
00:30:14Before I say the idols,
00:30:16that has to be fixed
00:30:18because I won't marry her
00:30:20if she doesn't speak Spanish.
00:30:29You know, you have this bread.
00:30:41I'm not going to eat that.
00:30:43Try.
00:30:44It's American.
00:30:46The food is bad.
00:30:48You know, I miss my baguette.
00:30:50Here is impossible.
00:30:52You have in the grocery...
00:30:55Siabatta.
00:30:56But it's not the same siabatta to Europe.
00:30:59Of course not.
00:31:07Ma, breakfast.
00:31:13Stop looking at your phone.
00:31:16I know that today, you know, is the last day.
00:31:19It's the last day, but maybe they are sleeping.
00:31:23We don't have the same hour.
00:31:26I really try not to think too much about Clayton.
00:31:30It's a bit like an obsession.
00:31:32I try to remove it, but it always comes back.
00:31:35Wow, smells good.
00:31:37Come on, baby girl.
00:31:38Let's see what they got down here.
00:31:40We should probably get going, you know?
00:31:41Yeah.
00:31:42We're late, Alex, as always.
00:31:43Maria.
00:31:44Au revoir.
00:31:45Bye, Alex.
00:31:46Bye, Maria.
00:31:51Let's go check out this venue, baby.
00:31:52See if they got it all ready, you know?
00:31:53Yeah.
00:31:54It's my life.
00:31:55It's my soul.
00:31:56It's my soul.
00:31:57You know, it's strength for me.
00:31:59It's you.
00:32:00Organize the only wedding.
00:32:01I'm scared it can come back.
00:32:02It's my soul.
00:32:03It's my soul.
00:32:04It's my soul.
00:32:05It's my soul.
00:32:06It's my soul.
00:32:07It's my soul.
00:32:08It's my soul.
00:32:09Let's let's go on a различ venue, baby.
00:32:10See if they got it all ready, you know.
00:32:12Yeah.
00:32:35I think you'll like it.
00:32:38It's going to be really beautiful.
00:32:41Like Lake Como, I'm telling you.
00:32:43Really?
00:32:44Don't see him.
00:32:50You're going to like it.
00:32:51It's a beautiful place.
00:32:57Wow.
00:32:59They're pretty.
00:32:59Blue water.
00:33:01Baby, this is where we're going to get married.
00:33:02Yeah.
00:33:04It's very beautiful.
00:33:05The 10th is cocktail hour.
00:33:08And then over there on the lawn, they'll put the chairs over there.
00:33:14I told you.
00:33:16Hey, Carolyn.
00:33:16Hi, buddy.
00:33:17How are you?
00:33:18Oh, it's so good.
00:33:19I'm so glad you're finally here.
00:33:21In person.
00:33:22I'm Carolyn.
00:33:22So nice to meet you.
00:33:24Nice to see you again, Mark.
00:33:25Good to see you again.
00:33:25Good to see you.
00:33:27Is it everything you hope for?
00:33:28It's amazing.
00:33:30Good.
00:33:30Yeah.
00:33:31I know there's some things that we need to finish up and go over.
00:33:34Weddings this weekend.
00:33:35I'm looking for a couple of details still from you guys.
00:33:38Are you prepared to give me the final head count?
00:33:40Is that something that you know?
00:33:42I think so.
00:33:43There's maybe one or two that may fluctuate.
00:33:47I'm waiting for the one special person.
00:33:53I'm not sure if he's coming.
00:33:54It's my son.
00:33:56Oh, gosh.
00:33:57Yeah.
00:33:57Oh, goodness.
00:33:58Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:33:58So she's literally waiting on a phone call.
00:34:00That's so nerve-wracking.
00:34:01To find out.
00:34:04All right.
00:34:05Come on.
00:34:05Let's go.
00:34:09All right.
00:34:09Yeah, come on.
00:34:10Come on in, guys.
00:34:10Let's go ahead and take care of this final balance.
00:34:13So I can get you guys all set.
00:34:18All right.
00:34:19So we've got a bunch of different charges here.
00:34:21Here's all the charges for the wedding.
00:34:22So it kind of goes over those counts up top,
00:34:25your guarantee,
00:34:26all your final food selections and counts.
00:34:30Here's all your bar information here.
00:34:32So it's got the open bar package.
00:34:33Okay.
00:34:34Is he going to process this?
00:34:35Yep.
00:34:35Let me go ahead.
00:34:35Let me go take care of this.
00:34:37Yeah.
00:34:39Oh, it's just Nancy.
00:34:41Okay.
00:34:42I hope we have good news for you.
00:34:44Fingers crossed, babe.
00:34:45All right.
00:34:46Yeah.
00:34:47We'll be here.
00:34:48Yeah.
00:34:50This, I think, is far finer now.
00:34:52Hopefully.
00:34:54Allô?
00:34:55Allô, Nancy.
00:34:57Allô, ça va?
00:34:58Oui, ça va, ça va.
00:34:59Du-moi une bonne nouvelle.
00:35:00Je suis toute stressée, là.
00:35:02Je suis vraiment trop stressée.
00:35:03Allô, mais...
00:35:05Je ne peux pas te dire une bonne nouvelle,
00:35:07donc, désolé, il y a une mauvaise nouvelle.
00:35:10Ah oui?
00:35:10Qu'est-ce qu'il y a?
00:35:14Eh bien, je voulais juste te dire que,
00:35:17franchement, Clétone, il ne sera pas là,
00:35:19donc, il ne peut pas venir aux États-Unis.
00:35:25Je ne sais même pas quoi dire.
00:35:26Lui-même, il ne sait pas,
00:35:28donc, même lui, Clétone, il a fait sa valise.
00:35:32Je suis désolé, vraiment, il ne sera pas là.
00:35:35Oh, OK.
00:35:38OK, shoot her face, shoot her face.
00:35:39OK.
00:35:45I don't know if she's coming back.
00:35:47We didn't realize it would take this long.
00:36:01Oh, je suis fain cool.
00:36:17Oh, God.
00:36:47I don't know.
00:36:57What? What?
00:37:13Mina, come on.
00:37:15Mina.
00:37:18Baby.
00:37:21I'm coming.
00:37:24Wow.
00:37:25Since Joan's family's not gonna be able to be here,
00:37:27I've decided to bring Africa to Long Island a little bit.
00:37:29This is Fufu stewed goat.
00:37:31Is this typically spicy food?
00:37:33How many questions are you gonna ask?
00:37:34Are you gonna eat?
00:37:35Day before the wedding.
00:37:47This is a big, big night for us.
00:37:49Just excited that we had to leave home.
00:37:52We're going to just be only us.
00:37:54I don't feel that your mom is going to come upstairs.
00:37:59What are you guys doing?
00:38:01Can I come in?
00:38:02I got another dress to show you.
00:38:06Go away.
00:38:08I don't care no more.
00:38:12Don't worry but I'm tired.
00:38:14Boo-doo-doo-doo-doo-doo-doo.
00:38:16Tonight on the dinner rehearsal, meeting everyone.
00:38:19Mm-hmm.
00:38:21So what else?
00:38:23You'll see.
00:38:24I mean, you'll see.
00:38:25What do you...
00:38:26I hate surprises.
00:38:27Why do you hate surprises?
00:38:28It's nothing bad.
00:38:29I mean, it's not like we're gonna have male strippers coming in swinging their schlongs in everyone's face, you know?
00:38:34It's just gonna be good stuff, man.
00:38:37This day before my wedding, I've rented a house for Joan and I for the next couple of nights.
00:38:44So I just wanted to just kind of break out a little bit and just surprise the hell out of her.
00:38:49This is it, baby, right here.
00:38:50Wow.
00:38:52Come on in.
00:38:54Wow.
00:38:56Gregory, you cooked this one.
00:38:59I should have proposed to you right here.
00:39:01Yeah.
00:39:02Look at that.
00:39:05I wish one day I could own something like this.
00:39:07Absolutely.
00:39:08Raising some children here.
00:39:09Yes.
00:39:12Just can't wait for us to get our own house, like create our own family, just me and you.
00:39:18I have a very vivid imagination.
00:39:19So just picturing sitting there on the couch at the house and, you know, just picturing some little kids running around, mom yelling at them.
00:39:26Because she's definitely going to be the more strict one, I'm probably going to be the laid back one.
00:39:29Of course.
00:39:30I'm very strict.
00:39:32I know I'm going to be a strict mom.
00:39:34Oh, yeah.
00:39:35We'll be having little bambinos running around.
00:39:36Yes, it's going to be like a dream come true.
00:39:38Absolutely.
00:39:40Okay.
00:39:46Nice.
00:39:47So we have a konzu and a traditional dress for Joan from a shop in Brooklyn.
00:39:54And hopefully she's going to be really happy.
00:39:56Hopefully she's going to be really, really surprised.
00:39:58You know, the fact that Joan's family's not going to be able to be here, I've decided to bring Africa to Long Island a little bit.
00:40:06I couldn't really find Uganda and stuff, so I got as close as I possibly could.
00:40:10These are traditional Nigerian outfits.
00:40:13I've got a big head, man.
00:40:15Seems like a chef's hat, yeah.
00:40:17Yeah.
00:40:18I also got some caterers to come in with some African food.
00:40:21I just hope she sees that, you know, even though she is 7,000 miles away from home, home can kind of be here sometimes.
00:40:28Joan?
00:40:29Yay.
00:40:30You want to come in?
00:40:32Come on, baby.
00:40:34Stay here.
00:40:36All right, you ready?
00:40:37Yeah.
00:40:40This is...
00:40:41Oh, um...
00:40:44It's hard to find authentic Ugandan wear.
00:40:49Oh, my God.
00:40:52I love it.
00:40:56This has to be on top.
00:40:57That goes on top.
00:40:58Yes, but...
00:40:59Oh, my God, I'm so excited.
00:41:02Massive, right?
00:41:03Yes.
00:41:04Yeah, that's how it's supposed to be.
00:41:05Supposed to be big?
00:41:06Yeah.
00:41:07Do you love it?
00:41:08I don't know how even...
00:41:09This is New York, baby.
00:41:10What kind of you want?
00:41:11Okay?
00:41:12As long as you got the scratch, right?
00:41:13Greg's surprising me with an African attire.
00:41:16It's really...
00:41:17Impressing.
00:41:18He has done everything for me.
00:41:19I didn't know if...
00:41:20That he knew even my size, that he could get something that really fits me.
00:41:24So...
00:41:25He really surprised me.
00:41:27All right, we got some people coming over.
00:41:28So...
00:41:29What do you say we get ready?
00:41:31Yes.
00:41:32I love you.
00:41:33I love it.
00:41:35Mmm.
00:41:36Mmm.
00:41:37I never thought I'd be wearing something like this.
00:41:46Whew.
00:41:47All right.
00:41:49Joe!
00:41:50Yeah?
00:41:51Baby!
00:41:52I'm coming.
00:41:53Wow.
00:41:54You look amazing.
00:41:56Do a spin for me.
00:41:57And you got the sandals on.
00:42:00Wow.
00:42:01That looks awesome.
00:42:02That looks good.
00:42:03Yeah?
00:42:04Yeah.
00:42:05You look great, baby.
00:42:07Oh!
00:42:08Hello.
00:42:09Hey!
00:42:10Hey!
00:42:11Hey!
00:42:12Wow!
00:42:13What's up?
00:42:15Hello!
00:42:16What's going on?
00:42:17Long time no see.
00:42:18My goodness.
00:42:19Oh my gosh.
00:42:20Beautiful.
00:42:22Wow!
00:42:23Beautiful.
00:42:24Beautiful.
00:42:25Beautiful.
00:42:26Beautiful.
00:42:28Beautiful.
00:42:30Beautiful.
00:42:31Beautiful.
00:42:32Beautiful.
00:42:33Beautiful.
00:42:34Beautiful.
00:42:35Wow!
00:42:36This is traditional?
00:42:38Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:42:39It's beautiful.
00:42:40You really nailed it.
00:42:41It looks good on you.
00:42:43I feel like the Pope.
00:42:45Is that the true?
00:42:46Oh, how long.
00:42:47Look at you.
00:42:48How lovely.
00:42:50Did you bring this with?
00:42:51Oh, I didn't look over to my left yet.
00:42:53Very nice.
00:42:55I was surprised to see him in that,
00:42:57in this garment he had.
00:43:02I think I'd rather see him in a traditional suit.
00:43:06Lovely.
00:43:08But Joan looked beautiful.
00:43:10I know.
00:43:11Made it feel, you know, just more, you know, welcome
00:43:14and, you know, comfortable being here.
00:43:16Then we'll do everything for her to make her happy, you know?
00:43:20As long as she makes Gregory happy.
00:43:25There's food, we got drinks.
00:43:27The caterers brought stewed goat, spinach.
00:43:30It's all traditional African stuff, so...
00:43:32That looks amazing.
00:43:33Everything looks good.
00:43:35So this is what, spinach and what else?
00:43:38I feel bones.
00:43:41Joan, do you know what this is with the spinach?
00:43:43Uh...
00:43:44No.
00:43:45Gregory, what's this bone in?
00:43:46What kind of meat is this?
00:43:48So there's chicken.
00:43:49Chicken.
00:43:50Chicken.
00:43:51Chicken.
00:43:52Is this typically spicy food or not?
00:43:54Very spicy.
00:43:55Oh, is it?
00:43:56What are these, Greg?
00:43:57How many questions are you gonna ask?
00:43:58You gonna eat?
00:44:03It's sweet.
00:44:04Yeah.
00:44:05Just getting started.
00:44:07You know who you're marrying?
00:44:08You know?
00:44:09Of course I know.
00:44:10A Long Islander.
00:44:11You know, that's how we do it.
00:44:12Go big or go home.
00:44:14Does everybody have some champagne?
00:44:17I just wanna say thank you, everybody.
00:44:19I still just can't believe the fact that I am getting married tomorrow.
00:44:22You know?
00:44:23Yeah.
00:44:24But the fact that you embrace Joan wholeheartedly, you show all the love that you give to me,
00:44:29it's truly amazing.
00:44:30And that's really what matters to me the most.
00:44:32She has nobody here but us.
00:44:34So, thank you.
00:44:36Seriously, thank you so much.
00:44:37How close to that.
00:44:38And it really means a lot to me.
00:44:39Cheers.
00:44:40Cheers!
00:44:41But I also do have one last surprise.
00:44:43If we could all maybe go out by the seaside and just show Joan one last thing here.
00:44:51Oh my God, babe.
00:44:53Everything with you doesn't end.
00:44:56Are we going on a boat ride?
00:44:59Just be ready.
00:45:00Pulling rabbits out of hats all night.
00:45:04Babe, what's going on?
00:45:05What's happening?
00:45:06I don't know.
00:45:07Fuck.
00:45:08You're here, right?
00:45:11You're here.
00:45:16I'm fooling, man.
00:45:17I'm fooling.
00:45:23You want to go?
00:45:24Oh, wow.
00:45:27Go ahead, baby.
00:45:28Go Joan A!
00:45:29Go Joan A!
00:45:30Woo!
00:45:35Greg, no, dude.
00:45:38I'm overwhelmed.
00:45:39I don't know what to say.
00:45:41Come on Joan.
00:45:42I'm going to go with you, babe.
00:45:43This day, it's my best day, I think.
00:45:54It really took me back home.
00:45:56My family not being here on this day is really sad, because I would like to share these special
00:46:01moments with them, but I feel embraced with Greg's family.
00:46:06I know I'm loved.
00:46:10Baby.
00:46:15He is really the right guy for me.
00:46:17So I can't wait for us to get married tomorrow, because I'm conkshua.
00:46:21He's my man.
00:46:22Thank you, tia, for joining us.
00:46:32It's a pleasure.
00:46:35This is my close family.
00:46:38I'm worried because maybe my family is on me.
00:46:43He's my boyfriend.
00:46:45She's your friend.
00:46:49She's my boyfriend too, tia.
00:46:52Son tres.
00:47:07How many minutes does the house I know when to start really stressing, stressing?
00:47:10I think we probably got 28 minutes.
00:47:14You nervous?
00:47:15You have butterflies?
00:47:16Yes.
00:47:17Yes, you say butterflies.
00:47:19Mariposas?
00:47:20Mariposas.
00:47:21Mariposas.
00:47:23That's a beautiful word.
00:47:33It's the moment we've been waiting for.
00:47:36Oh, y'all ready?
00:47:37Here we are.
00:47:38I'm nervous.
00:47:39My God, I've never went to someone's house like this, where I'm dating, like, f**k.
00:47:48I'm scared.
00:47:49Is it not today to run right now?
00:47:51This is the real deal.
00:47:52We're meeting her aunt, her brother.
00:47:53I look for the blessing, but my aunt and my brother, it's more religions.
00:48:06So, I'm worrying because maybe my family is on me.
00:48:12Hola, hola.
00:48:15¿Cómo estás?
00:48:19¿Cómo estás?
00:48:20Bien, bien.
00:48:21¿Y tú?
00:48:22Bien, bien.
00:48:23Un ratote que no te veía.
00:48:26Ella es Matt.
00:48:27Alejandra.
00:48:28Ella es Amani.
00:48:29Te trajeron un regalo.
00:48:30Hi, I'm Amani.
00:48:31Nice to meet you.
00:48:33¿Cómo están señoritas?
00:48:38Qué guapa.
00:48:42She's Amani.
00:48:43Ella es Amani, tía.
00:48:44Amani.
00:48:45Hi, I'm really nice to meet you.
00:48:46It's for you.
00:48:47Oh, thank you.
00:48:48Nice to meet you.
00:48:49Is it, um, Virginia?
00:48:51Virginia.
00:48:52Virginia.
00:48:53Virginia.
00:48:54Hi.
00:48:55Thelma.
00:48:56Oh, muchísimas gracias.
00:48:57That is Matt.
00:48:58It's a present.
00:49:00Oh, my girl.
00:49:21Salud.
00:49:22Salud.
00:49:23Cheers.
00:49:24Cheers with water.
00:49:28Ay, mi hija.
00:49:29Es un placer.
00:49:30Um...
00:49:31Ah...
00:49:36Um...
00:49:37Este...
00:49:38Sí.
00:49:39Oh, I'm dying.
00:49:40Lo reuní aquí para presentarlos.
00:49:43Este...
00:49:44You okay?
00:49:45Excuse me.
00:49:46I'm so nervous, so I'm trying to like sip out of this drink, and...
00:49:49It goes through the wrong hole.
00:49:50That's how nervous I am.
00:49:51And I cough and cough and cough.
00:49:52And it doesn't want to stop.
00:49:53Uh...
00:49:54Uh...
00:49:55El es mi novio.
00:49:56Sí.
00:49:57Uh...
00:49:58Ella es mi novio también, tía.
00:49:59Es también me gustan las niñas.
00:50:00Ellos están casados.
00:50:01Con...
00:50:03Oh, just stop.
00:50:33She seems angry.
00:50:39Um, I don't understand what's going on.
00:50:54I can see Anya getting flustered.
00:50:56The brother and the wife are just, like, eyes wide open,
00:51:00completely shocked.
00:51:01And then on to here, she just completely shuts down.
00:51:04She's not even looking at us.
00:51:07She's just not happy.
00:51:12Yeah.
00:51:17My son won't be able to communicate with his family in Colombia
00:51:24because he doesn't speak the language.
00:51:25I'm busy.
00:51:26I mean, I'm like, now you're here and I have help with David.
00:51:30But before, I was doing everything on my own.
00:51:32It's all I heard.
00:51:33I only heard skills, skills, and skills.
00:51:34And then I'm trying to say something.
00:51:36You're just stopping, stopping, stopping.
00:51:37And then can I talk or you don't want to talk?
00:51:38Yes, go talk.
00:51:39All I'm asking for is to not lose my culture.
00:51:43It is a must for this marriage to work out.
00:51:46Who's winning?
00:51:58Who's winning?
00:51:59That does not count.
00:52:00No, you hit it.
00:52:01That does not count.
00:52:03Because he hit it.
00:52:10No, you hit it.
00:52:11So how are you guys feeling about tomorrow?
00:52:13You guys feeling OK?
00:52:14Yeah.
00:52:15Nervous?
00:52:16Yeah.
00:52:17For the wedding, yeah?
00:52:18Having family here, having my stepkids,
00:52:21seeing them play with my other cousins all together,
00:52:24it's just pretty special.
00:52:26Golf's about to win.
00:52:28I didn't realize how I wanted my culture
00:52:31to be part of my family until now.
00:52:34There's crawfish pizza in your life.
00:52:36Oh, I know, crawfish everything.
00:52:38And now that I can see that my son can lose part of it,
00:52:42I really want to make sure that won't happen.
00:52:45Do I need my coat?
00:52:46Probably not.
00:52:47You're American.
00:52:48I know, but...
00:52:51Doesn't mean I don't get cold.
00:52:53Ooh, cold on my butt.
00:52:55Cold on your butt.
00:52:57Cold on my butt, too.
00:53:00I just want to talk about the concern I have about,
00:53:04you know, most of my son, like, losing his culture,
00:53:10my culture, you know, like Spanish.
00:53:14And he won't be able to communicate with his family in Colombia
00:53:17because he doesn't speak the language.
00:53:19And, I mean, some others might be easier
00:53:21to learn Spanish in their house
00:53:22because they can speak Spanish all the time,
00:53:24but then you come here, you speak English,
00:53:27the boys will come here and speak English,
00:53:29and I'm the only one who will be speaking Spanish.
00:53:34I mean, I literally have never taken any Spanish,
00:53:37and I can do basics if you think of where I started.
00:53:40I mean, I probably only knew how to count to 10.
00:53:42I know, I know, I know, I know there's a lot of...
00:53:44And I'm busy. I mean, I'm like, now you're here,
00:53:46and I have help with David,
00:53:48but before I was doing everything on my own.
00:53:51You just can't say to your son's culture
00:53:55that you don't have time to learn it, you know?
00:54:00And, you know, seeing my cousin's husband
00:54:03having that Spanish label...
00:54:05But he went and lived in Colombia
00:54:07or wherever he went.
00:54:08I know, just let me finish what I'm saying, please.
00:54:09Yes.
00:54:10It doesn't matter how he learned it, he learned it.
00:54:13If he has that level Spanish,
00:54:15I've never heard anybody...
00:54:16For 20, he's been speaking...
00:54:17Yeah, can I finish, please?
00:54:19He's been speaking Spanish for 20 years.
00:54:22Did you know his level 20 years ago?
00:54:24Yes.
00:54:25You knew him since you were 10?
00:54:26Well, 10 years, 10 years ago.
00:54:28Okay, so he had 10 years.
00:54:30Well, you had four.
00:54:31Where you at now?
00:54:32I mean, I don't know.
00:54:33It's only I heard,
00:54:34I only heard excuses, excuses, excuses.
00:54:35And then I'm trying to say something.
00:54:37You're just stopping, stopping, stopping,
00:54:38and then can I talk?
00:54:39Yes, go talk.
00:54:40Talk.
00:54:45This is something that concerns me a little bit,
00:54:47and I really want you to know.
00:54:48Okay.
00:54:51It's kind of like a low blow,
00:54:53because for the past four years of our relationship,
00:54:55I've been raising children.
00:54:57I've been working full-time.
00:54:59You know, I've been really busy,
00:55:00and it's been really hard to find time to learn Spanish.
00:55:04I don't appreciate being blindsided by this conversation,
00:55:07and, you know, tomorrow's our wedding day,
00:55:09and now I feel like I'm going to go into our wedding stressed out.
00:55:13I mean, I've told you this like 8,000 times,
00:55:15so I don't know why we have to have this talk right now, but...
00:55:17Wow.
00:55:18Yeah, you know, we're getting married tomorrow.
00:55:21Got it, yeah.
00:55:22That's why we're having this conversation, you know?
00:55:23So it's like a make or break,
00:55:24you learn Spanish,
00:55:25or I don't marry you?
00:55:26I think Jessica don't fully understand the sacrifice I'm making to be here,
00:55:35to be with her and the family,
00:55:38and all I'm asking for is to not lose my culture in this country
00:55:42and for the baby to learn part of it.
00:55:46It is a must for this marriage to work out.
00:55:50Okay, Sarper's missing.
00:56:01It's the day before our wedding.
00:56:03He left the house without telling me,
00:56:05and he hasn't been answering my calls or my texts.
00:56:08Oh, my God, Sarper.
00:56:10I have no idea where he is.
00:56:12Where is he?
00:56:14This is like the fourth time I've called him.
00:56:41Okay.
00:56:43Sarper's missing.
00:56:46Oops.
00:56:55I knew I was gonna be packing pretty much by myself,
00:56:58but I do need to have a better part of this.
00:57:03I'm here at the house packing all by myself,
00:57:06and Sarper's supposed to be here helping me.
00:57:08It's the day before our wedding.
00:57:10We're going to the wedding venue today
00:57:12for the first time.
00:57:13There's so much left to prepare,
00:57:15and I have no idea where he is.
00:57:17He left the house without telling me,
00:57:19and he hasn't been answering my calls or my texts.
00:57:22What was the issue this morning?
00:57:25Well, the thing that happened this morning is I set things on the ledge there that need to go downstairs,
00:57:32and I set the empty coffee pot and the basket full of grinds there,
00:57:37and he was trying to be helpful.
00:57:39He picked it up.
00:57:40He set the grinds on top of the coffee pot, and it just fell off very quickly,
00:57:44and so coffee grinds went all down the stairs.
00:57:47He hates to make a mess, and so he started yelling at me.
00:57:50And I was like, don't yell at me because you made a mistake.
00:57:53And then I guess he left, but I didn't hear him leave,
00:57:56and I've been calling and texting him.
00:57:59When Sarpra gets really upset, I mean, he has a hot temper.
00:58:03Like, he flares up really fast, but he also cools down quickly.
00:58:07So even if he did just leave the house to cool down,
00:58:10he should be back by now because we're about to leave.
00:58:14How long since he had left?
00:58:16It's been an hour.
00:58:17Maybe he's nervous.
00:58:19Is that a concern?
00:58:24I don't know.
00:58:29Okay, I'm just going to call him.
00:58:37I'm sorry.
00:58:38You can't leave a message because the person you called...
00:58:41And he refuses to set up his voicemail.
00:58:49Actually, you know what I have?
00:58:52I have an AirTag on his keychain.
00:58:55So, I can actually find out where he is.
00:58:59I put an AirTag on Sarpra's keychain because if he loses his keys,
00:59:03we need to be able to find them.
00:59:05Where is this?
00:59:08What's the real reason there's an AirTag on Sarpra's keychain?
00:59:14The real reason there's an AirTag on Sarpra's keychain is because
00:59:19he won't share his location with me in maps.
00:59:24And I think that if somebody is that against sharing their location,
00:59:28it's kind of suspicious and it feels shady.
00:59:31It feels like they're up to no good and they're being secretive.
00:59:34It looks like it's a coffee shop, actually.
00:59:37Maybe he's getting a coffee, but that doesn't explain why he wouldn't answer my calls.
00:59:41I want to go find him and see what his problem is.
00:59:56Let me turn on my GPS so I know where I'm going.
01:00:00We do not have time today to be doing all this.
01:00:16What's going on?
01:00:18She kind of said she was calling you and you weren't picking up.
01:00:21I just want to be alone.
01:00:25It's more real right now.
01:00:27It's a big decision.
01:00:28A decision that I made, I promised to myself.
01:00:31Never done again in my life.
01:00:33And I'm doing it again.
01:00:35I was married 15 years ago and it was a complete disaster.
01:00:41Still, right now I am doing the same mistake again maybe.
01:00:45Who knows?
01:00:46I need to clear out my mind and I have to figure out what I want here.
01:00:52What am I doing?
01:00:54How far away are we right now?
01:00:55We're three minutes.
01:00:58I did this mistake once.
01:01:00Everything is so overwhelming.
01:01:02I'm so scared that she will change.
01:01:04For two years, we never talked about it.
01:01:06Green up thing.
01:01:07And then at the last point, she comes with an agreement.
01:01:18What are you doing?
01:01:19Why are you here?
01:01:24I'm so scared, Shikana.
01:01:26Oh my God.
01:01:27Scared?
01:01:28Of marriage.
01:01:32What?
01:01:36Are you 100% sure?
01:01:37Yeah.
01:01:38Well, I mean, I was 100% sure, but you're making me really nervous now.
01:01:46Do you not want to get married?
01:01:47Do you want to get married?
01:01:48No, no, no.
01:01:49I don't want to get married.
01:01:50No!
01:01:51No, it doesn't.
01:01:52You don't want to come.
01:01:53No, no.
01:01:54No.
01:01:55No, no, no.
01:01:56But I do want to get married with you tonight.
01:01:57Are you still to be the most people that I want to be with?
01:01:58Are you really?
01:01:59I feel like this is not normal, it's difficult.
01:02:01It's difficult, it's difficult.
01:02:03And to me, to accept it like that...
01:02:04You see him upset.
01:02:13What happened?
01:02:14I screwed up big time.
01:02:16Man.
01:02:17I wish I realized the mistake a little bit sooner
01:02:19because I want Joan to be able to trust me
01:02:23and I'm freaking out.
01:02:25What happened?
01:02:34No, there's no religion that they can be married.
01:02:42Have you thought of that?
01:02:50Legalmente, I can only marry one.
01:02:54Because they're married and they have to divorce
01:02:58so I can marry them.
01:03:01I know it's hard to understand,
01:03:02but they're the people with whom I want to be, really.
01:03:10Wow.
01:03:11It's a new news, surprising, impactful news.
01:03:18I really thought I was going to present my husband
01:03:22and some friends
01:03:24and it turns out that it's another situation.
01:03:27Tell them we have been married for almost 10 years.
01:03:35For us to divorce for someone
01:03:40should show you how much we care about you.
01:03:43So you can also have a better life with your kids.
01:04:00She said that she would have a better family
01:04:03to offer to Antonella.
01:04:05...
01:04:12The film is...
01:04:14...
01:04:14...
01:04:14You know, it's a new movie.
01:04:16The film is even better
01:04:16Sometimes I go through the script
01:04:16and it's not an object
01:04:18that she has, like,
01:04:19because she once said the good news
01:04:19but that she lives to her.
01:04:20Or do you know?
01:04:21She don't know, she doesn't know.
01:04:23They come through theết.
01:04:25If she sits through the evidently
01:04:27and, if she turns out to you,
01:04:28which is,
01:04:29versus you,
01:04:30benim,
01:04:31I don't want to worry.
01:04:32Thank you very much, brother.
01:05:03Tell her you're not alone anymore.
01:05:13Tell her for a long, long time it was Brenda against the world,
01:05:18but now it's the three of us against the world.
01:05:32It's difficult, it's difficult for me to accept it like that.
01:05:49But, you know what?
01:05:51It gives me a lot of pleasure.
01:05:53I see in your eyes that you also love her.
01:05:57See?
01:05:58He's happy because you love me.
01:06:02Aw, we do.
01:06:03Very much.
01:06:21Will you come to the wedding?
01:06:29Aw, thank you.
01:06:34You're a hug.
01:06:35Aw.
01:06:38Aw.
01:06:41I'm a hugger.
01:06:42I'm a hugger.
01:06:43I feel so happy because this is a big deal for my aunt to give me a blessing.
01:06:56Aw.
01:06:57That's so sweet.
01:06:59This is the moment we've been waiting for.
01:07:08This is what we came here for.
01:07:10It's better than any of us could have expected.
01:07:14And I definitely have that gut feeling that I feel like a thousand percent sure about taking the next step.
01:07:21Pride.
01:07:22It's worth divorcing for, and we're so ready to bring her to live with us.
01:07:26You know, there's no one else that I would do this for.
01:07:29Aw.
01:07:31There's nobody I would rather walk this earth with.
01:07:33Triple hug.
01:07:34Some couple.
01:07:35Triple hug.
01:07:38Aw.
01:07:39Aw.
01:07:58Good morning.
01:08:00I believe you're getting married today.
01:08:01I know.
01:08:02It's crazy.
01:08:03This is like the greatest moment of my life.
01:08:05It really is.
01:08:06It's so beautiful.
01:08:07You had a good night, though?
01:08:09Yeah.
01:08:10It was a good surprise.
01:08:11Yeah.
01:08:12You're crazy.
01:08:13I know.
01:08:14Crazy about you, baby.
01:08:16All right, let's do this.
01:08:27Oh, wow.
01:08:30Breakfast.
01:08:33So today's our wedding day.
01:08:35Let's go.
01:08:36You know, I'm ready.
01:08:37I'm ready.
01:08:38I'm ready.
01:08:39I'm hyped.
01:08:40I feel, like, dreamt for this day.
01:08:41Mm-hmm.
01:08:42I'm happy and I'm excited to marry my king.
01:08:45Oh, my queen.
01:08:46Okay.
01:08:47I think it's getting late.
01:08:48I have to go to the salon.
01:08:50Saloon.
01:08:51Saloon.
01:08:53Saloon.
01:08:54I mean, the fact that the next time I'm going to see Joan is going to be at the altar.
01:09:03We're going to be telling each other our vows.
01:09:05And within a few hours, she's going to be my wife.
01:09:07It's, um, it's everything I've ever wanted.
01:09:11Yeah.
01:09:12All right, baby.
01:09:13I'll let you go.
01:09:15It's the best feeling I've ever felt in my life.
01:09:17It really is.
01:09:20And I just can't wait to say I do.
01:09:23Love you.
01:09:24Okay.
01:09:25Mwah.
01:09:28Hi.
01:09:29Good morning.
01:09:30Hello.
01:09:33I'm heading to the hairdresser.
01:09:37In Uganda, it's very easy because everything is cheaper.
01:09:40So you will get the hairdresser to come at the house.
01:09:43You have a makeup artist, a hairdresser, everything.
01:09:45Just do everything in your room.
01:09:54Hi, Ralph.
01:09:55How are you?
01:09:56I'm good, thank you.
01:09:57You're going to start with your nail.
01:09:58Yes, I'm ready.
01:09:59Okay.
01:10:00Make yourself comfortable.
01:10:01Okay.
01:10:06Lily.
01:10:07Daisy, Lily.
01:10:13You seem upset.
01:10:14I am.
01:10:15What happened?
01:10:16I screwed up, big time.
01:10:18Man.
01:10:19What happened?
01:10:20So, the arrival time on the invitation is 6.30.
01:10:25The ceremony starts at 6.30.
01:10:28So people are going to be arriving to the wedding while I'm getting married.
01:10:31That's not good.
01:10:33You don't want people walking in and out or, you know, while you're saying your vows and stuff.
01:10:39Yeah.
01:10:41You didn't put like a little note, please arrive early.
01:10:43The ceremony will start promptly at 6.30.
01:10:45I didn't even think about it.
01:10:46I screwed the bed, man, you know?
01:10:50Yeah.
01:10:51Yeah.
01:10:54I'm just so, like, just, ugh.
01:10:58Everything gets set back if people start showing up later.
01:11:01If we start the ceremony late, then the cocktail hour starts late.
01:11:04I mean, these are all things that we've paid for.
01:11:06They could also go ahead and turn around and charge me extra.
01:11:09What are you going to do now?
01:11:10I mean, send a mass text message or something.
01:11:14I wish I would have realized the mistake a little bit sooner.
01:11:21Because I want Joan to be able to trust me.
01:11:24She wanted me to get a job and get my life together.
01:11:28I want to be that man that she knows that she can wake up to and rely on,
01:11:32to just know that I'm dependable and reliable.
01:11:35I don't think she would appreciate people walking in on her ceremony as she's walking down the aisle.
01:11:46So it sucks.
01:11:48I feel like I kind of dropped the ball.
01:11:50And I'm freaking out.
01:11:52Let's see.
01:11:53We'll start with Kelly.
01:11:59I'm feeling nervous because I feel like I'm late.
01:12:05Well, so far we're an hour late.
01:12:07There's still no sign or even word from Aaliyah.
01:12:10What time is this supposed to be here?
01:12:12Five.
01:12:13It's like 6.30 and we're supposed to be eating at six.
01:12:17Things are feeling out of control and people are melting in 104 degree heat.
01:12:23Including my mom.
01:12:24Aaliyah, you want a glass of champagne?
01:12:43Okay.
01:12:44I'm so happy to be here with you and I'm so excited and I'm so happy for you.
01:12:47I appreciate you.
01:12:48You're the only person that I have.
01:12:50Oh, I love you.
01:12:51That is amazing.
01:12:52Only one day.
01:12:55Oh, oh, oh.
01:12:56I love you.
01:12:57Oh, oh, oh.
01:12:58I love you.
01:12:59I love you.
01:13:01I think I will start with my hair.
01:13:04Okay.
01:13:05This is hair?
01:13:07No, hair it's so, it's more stuff.
01:13:09I'm like, this is all hair stuff?
01:13:11Let me just get...
01:13:12I'm doing my own hair and I feel mostly more worried about Sean, how he reacts of my production.
01:13:20this is the biggest day ever so i need to look like everything needs to be perfect especially
01:13:27that hair how long we have how many time how much time would you say you would need i think one now
01:13:34in 32 hours you still you need two hours from now yes we have no you don't have we don't have
01:13:47you don't have it at all you have about 90 minutes so you have 30 minutes like short of what you wish
01:13:55you had my mom had a slip and fall just now oh god yeah and i mean bad and i'm like trying to figure
01:14:11out a way for her to get from the house to her car to the venue you know she's not gonna
01:14:17okay all right all right thanks
01:14:28stacy's bringing my mom and a wheelchair with her i feel like she's being taken care of so that's a
01:14:34huge relief to me at this point all right so here's this okay gorgeous yeah and just uh let her know
01:14:41this needs to be brushed out and it's an alternate in case something goes awry with
01:14:46the originals and i have the dog the rings the flowers my suit and it's a hundred and something
01:14:55degrees outside so every part of me is sweating i still have the rings
01:15:01i'm pretty nervous because i feel like i'm late and that is i'm very perfectionist so for me i'm never done
01:15:17so i just talked to sean and he said that jean had a fall this morning so she has hurt her hip
01:15:37and her ankle jean yeah his mother yeah she fell yeah at the house earlier i guess after we left to come here to get ready
01:15:50i don't know how hard it was like when she fell and i started to worry about sean because i know how much
01:15:56he cares to his mom i'm feeling worried i'm feeling overwhelmed i'm feeling anxious so it's a lot of things
01:16:03dropping inside of my mind and just a lot
01:16:09are you okay i'm not i came in i i try to be all right i'm gonna let you finish
01:16:16a week so it's time for the ceremony could you be my husband by the way i'm gonna walk
01:16:28she's you can't walk is it me or did the bar not open yet
01:16:33i'm good to go the first thing i'm looking for is to see if my mom is there or at the hospital
01:16:53you guys warm enough yeah i am but it's not too bad right look at those sparkles oh my goodness
01:16:59oh hey mom i'm relieved to see she's in the front row and her foot is propped up and she's got eyes
01:17:08so at this point in my mind i know i just need to have the ceremony happen and then ship my mom to
01:17:14the hospital with whoever will take her and then continue on with the wedding
01:17:18is anyone standing up there with aliyah her girlfriend is gonna stand up there
01:17:39okay let's go get the dress on yeah we need to like open so i can get into yeah and now we need
01:17:47to open one thing and the other side yeah like that
01:17:59hello getting a little tardy are we sure that this is coming maybe not
01:18:06says he's gonna start at five oh no there's no way it's not going to no it's six right now
01:18:09yeah and it was my last words to him was do not let this be like the engagement yeah two hours late
01:18:20well so far we're an hour late good luck getting out of this
01:18:25wow it's stunning
01:18:41it's beautiful right you look so great you look beautiful yeah look at it oh my god it's beautiful
01:18:47how does it feel i just like feel complete i'm feeling wonderful now i'm just i cannot wait
01:19:02time is going and going and going and there's still no sign or even word from aliyah
01:19:10what time is this supposed to be at five it's like 6 30 and we're supposed to be eating at six
01:19:20i'm here if you need me get away cars outside fantastic well if it's another 45 minutes i'll meet you
01:19:26over there all right maxwell no
01:19:45oh my god we have no idea what's going on at this point we should have already been like almost done
01:19:52we should have a little dinner yeah i have a heart out at eight yes yeah
01:20:00i'm over it i'm no longer sitting i'm no longer cooperating they should be providing
01:20:04some kind of drinks for people things are feeling out of control and people are melting
01:20:10in 104 degree heat including my mom and finally i just said you know no like no more i'm done
01:20:22literally like no going back done oh is he leaving
01:20:32next time on 90 day fiance i asked her if she's bisexual she said no she's not basically you don't
01:20:40have an answer i know your family is not here and i kind of feel this responsibility
01:20:46and i'm going to tell her that myself since the days i got here i've been worried about him what if
01:20:53he says something and i lose steve's trust steve i was hoping i could have a conversation with you
01:21:00before the wedding
01:21:04is he nervous yeah you know why because he didn't tell everybody to arrive a little earlier so
01:21:10i screwed up we're gonna have people going making their way to their seats while joan is walking
01:21:16down the aisle let's hope they all got the message and we'll turn up a few minutes earlier for the
01:21:21ceremony hopefully this is the first time where i really truly start to panic
01:21:28how did you find me i put an air tag on your keys so that we can find the keys if they get lost
01:21:40the level of mistrust is unbelievable and right now this is the last drop in the last day if we don't
01:21:46get married you have to go back to turkey yeah is that what you want
01:21:51do you know come on no he never he didn't never believe me i promise he's coming
01:22:06maybe did you call clayton yet you know it's for me it's a big stress you have to tell him like this
01:22:12he can't wait he has to know now yeah i think uh le mans où jesse de briser son coeur
01:22:18out as well too hi clinton are you good
01:22:27it sounds meet that we're leaving tomorrow but in the back of everyone's mind at this point
01:22:32it's the big question who does she want to marry she has to choose so i know i can't marry it with
01:22:40only one whatever decision you make you'll be happy with the outcome
01:22:43the person oh my god i want to marry it with
01:22:55sorry
01:22:58not having it you're not supposed to see her i don't give a it's now an hour and 45 minutes
01:23:06after the time that our wedding's supposed to happen i am so mad at them and so angry
01:23:12i love your suit that's great you can see me in the car driving off in it
01:23:17maybe it's not meant to be maybe i can't be in this relationship
01:23:31you
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