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🔥 MAFS Australia S12 E13 – Intimacy Week Hits Turbulence!
Get ready for an emotional rollercoaster! 🎢 In Episode 13, the crew heads into their third Commitment Ceremony, but Intimacy Week’s aftermath is anything but smooth:
Sierah & Billy finally break their honeymoon ice—but call it a "drunken fumble," sparking intense reflections 💔.
Sierah admits she confided in Adrian, not Billy, revealing trauma and betraying marital trust.
Adrian’s secret sharing with Sierah leaves Awhina feeling shut out.
Jacqui & Ryan face more tension as Ryan’s infamous “crazy eyes” comment sparks backlash at the dinner party—catch Dave and Billy calling him out in front of Jacqui.
Despite the chaos, all couples surprisingly choose to stay, setting the stage for more fireworks 💥.
🔍 Why this episode is unmissable: raw confessions, heated confrontations, and the real impact of emotional boundaries tested under the spotlight.
Watch now on Dailymotion and see if the couples can survive another week of tough love and unexpected bombshells.
#MAFSAustralia #MAFS2025 #IntimacyWeek #CommitmentCeremony #RealityDrama #CouplesTherapy #SurvivalOfLove #RealityTV #CouplesConflict #DramaticReveal
Get ready for an emotional rollercoaster! 🎢 In Episode 13, the crew heads into their third Commitment Ceremony, but Intimacy Week’s aftermath is anything but smooth:
Sierah & Billy finally break their honeymoon ice—but call it a "drunken fumble," sparking intense reflections 💔.
Sierah admits she confided in Adrian, not Billy, revealing trauma and betraying marital trust.
Adrian’s secret sharing with Sierah leaves Awhina feeling shut out.
Jacqui & Ryan face more tension as Ryan’s infamous “crazy eyes” comment sparks backlash at the dinner party—catch Dave and Billy calling him out in front of Jacqui.
Despite the chaos, all couples surprisingly choose to stay, setting the stage for more fireworks 💥.
🔍 Why this episode is unmissable: raw confessions, heated confrontations, and the real impact of emotional boundaries tested under the spotlight.
Watch now on Dailymotion and see if the couples can survive another week of tough love and unexpected bombshells.
#MAFSAustralia #MAFS2025 #IntimacyWeek #CommitmentCeremony #RealityDrama #CouplesTherapy #SurvivalOfLove #RealityTV #CouplesConflict #DramaticReveal
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00:00:01You're actually way too hot. I'm actually not happy.
00:00:0520 singles across Australia...
00:00:08Will you marry me?
00:00:09...took the ultimate leap of faith.
00:00:11I think I've hit the jackpot today. He's just divine.
00:00:15The experts deserve a bloody raise.
00:00:17I'm full of frickin' like love.
00:00:21During Confessions Week...
00:00:22I hope he would have picked up the phone.
00:00:26Some bravely opened up...
00:00:28I hope me telling you this doesn't push you away.
00:00:31And it gives you a better understanding of me...
00:00:34...as a person.
00:00:36You didn't write a letter at all?
00:00:38No.
00:00:39While others struggled.
00:00:41End off. That's it. There's nothing else to it.
00:00:44End off me.
00:00:44There's nothing else to the word.
00:00:47Jesus.
00:00:48Intimacy Week...
00:00:49Back around, boys!
00:00:50...brought out both the best...
00:00:52I could see myself falling for Jeff.
00:00:54That really felt nice to just have that connection with her there.
00:00:58And worst in our couples...
00:01:01I've made the mistake.
00:01:02You've told me not to talk.
00:01:03How hard is it to just be like,
00:01:05Hey, I made him say you're gorgeous.
00:01:08Like...
00:01:09That would be a lie.
00:01:10And a fiery dinner party...
00:01:12I'm not done with you, little boy.
00:01:14No, no, listen, listen.
00:01:16I will never settle for less.
00:01:17Ever.
00:01:18Ever.
00:01:19...saw Adrian shut down Athena once again.
00:01:22I am a mum. I'm always looking to the future.
00:01:24Anyway, it's Jeff and Rhi, everyone.
00:01:26Now it's their turn.
00:01:28It's been really childish here.
00:01:29By going to the other end of the table,
00:01:31it's just showing he doesn't have the maturity she's looking for.
00:01:36Tonight...
00:01:37Adrian, what you're doing is the problem.
00:01:39And I'm going to call you on it.
00:01:41Athena's opening her heart.
00:01:44And you're sitting here looking at the roof.
00:01:45The experts deliver hard truths.
00:01:48When you want to get things off your chest,
00:01:51you point.
00:01:52And you get very much in someone's face.
00:01:55Your fight style can be difficult to listen to.
00:01:58How does that land for you?
00:02:01The benefits of Intimacy Week will be on full display.
00:02:05I'd like to thank you, Alessandra,
00:02:07because I've got to say, it was pretty spicy.
00:02:08I feel safe. I feel secure. I feel happy.
00:02:12Like, tick, tick, tick.
00:02:14Yes!
00:02:16Before...
00:02:17Sierra, have you opened up to anybody else in the group?
00:02:25Uh...
00:02:26Oh!
00:02:28Sorry? What?
00:02:33Oh, my God.
00:02:38It's the morning of the Second Commitment Ceremony.
00:02:54This is really good.
00:02:56Is it? You like it?
00:02:57Good.
00:02:58It's going to be a very, very interesting evening.
00:03:01I wish Roz could come.
00:03:02Run, Ron!
00:03:03You can.
00:03:04And Intimacy Week is coming to an end.
00:03:07You look tired.
00:03:09I am.
00:03:11I could sleep till Christmas.
00:03:13Me and Ria are in a great place at the moment.
00:03:15Intimacy Week, I feel like it's brought us closer together.
00:03:18And now I feel like we're cuddling, holding hands,
00:03:21a couple of little kisses here and there.
00:03:22We're having a great time,
00:03:23and we're moving in, like, an awesome direction,
00:03:25so I think we're in a good spot.
00:03:27Ria, you're going to get up?
00:03:29I'm up.
00:03:29Last night's dinner party has left the couple's reeling.
00:03:37And this morning, Jamie and Dave are still trying to process
00:03:41the up-and-down nature of Jackie and Ryan's relationship.
00:03:45So, another interesting evening with Jackie and Ryan.
00:03:49Once again, I'm confused.
00:03:51Yeah, as they're coming into this
00:03:53and being really, really united and strong,
00:03:57but then it just crumbles.
00:04:00My lady.
00:04:01Jackie and Ryan entered the dinner party as a united front.
00:04:06We're a team in this.
00:04:07Yeah.
00:04:07Support each other no matter what here.
00:04:09Deal.
00:04:11What's happening, kids?
00:04:13And Jackie surprised the group
00:04:15by minimising Ryan's comments about her.
00:04:18What was one of the issues?
00:04:19Was it Ryan saying that you had crazy eyes?
00:04:21I do have crazy eyes. I agree.
00:04:23I brought my crazy eyes tonight.
00:04:26But the couple's united front was short-lived
00:04:29when Jackie brought up Ryan
00:04:31placing her third in the photo ranking task.
00:04:34I was triggered when he told me
00:04:36I was not the most beautiful woman in the world.
00:04:38Coming back to the line-up again.
00:04:40You guys haven't.
00:04:41Because I've had this argument five times with you,
00:04:44and I'm done.
00:04:49Ryan said she had crazy eyes.
00:04:50In the same paragraph that he's saying
00:04:52that she gives good s***.
00:04:53It was a put-down comment.
00:04:55They say just, like, such heavily-weighted comments,
00:04:58which is just bizarre to me.
00:05:00The way they speak to each other
00:05:01is, like, just kind of unacceptable.
00:05:05Oh, look.
00:05:06Far out.
00:05:07When it comes to Ryan and Jackie,
00:05:09I think they are both frickin' bonkers.
00:05:12They're just both two nutcases together.
00:05:14So, I'm not surprised by anything at this point with them two.
00:05:23This morning, I woke up to flowers from Ryan.
00:05:29It's, like, really lovely that he did that,
00:05:31and I've been asking for flowers from Ryan for a very long time.
00:05:36Do you be required to buy me flowers at least once a month?
00:05:39Definitely.
00:05:42You buying me flowers today
00:05:43made me feel like the luckiest girl in the world.
00:05:47As a man, I know how to treat a woman
00:05:49and really felt like the right time to surprise her.
00:05:53Very nice of you.
00:05:55Mm-hm.
00:05:55Yeah.
00:05:56Very nice.
00:05:57They're the only couple here
00:05:59that can tear into each other
00:06:00and then go cuddle each other that night.
00:06:03Would you want to trade me for any of the other women?
00:06:05No.
00:06:05Exactly.
00:06:06That's how I want to feel.
00:06:08They are the only two people
00:06:10that understand each other.
00:06:12From an outsider perspective,
00:06:14from a rational perspective,
00:06:16from a sanity perspective,
00:06:18I can't make sense of it.
00:06:20But you know what?
00:06:20It works for them.
00:06:23I can see them working.
00:06:25I can see them freaking working.
00:06:26They will probably end up running off
00:06:28having children together.
00:06:30Oh, God, no.
00:06:31Please, no.
00:06:33Happy wife, happy life.
00:06:37Jackie may have moved on from last night,
00:06:40but Athena hasn't.
00:06:43After sharing her concerns
00:06:45about her future with husband Adrian,
00:06:47she was shut down by him
00:06:49in front of the group.
00:06:51All I'm trying to say is,
00:06:53I am a mum,
00:06:53I'm always looking to the future,
00:06:54and sometimes I say things because I'm...
00:06:56Anyway, it's Geoff and Rie, everyone.
00:06:59Now it's their turn.
00:07:00No, no, no.
00:07:01It's all good.
00:07:02Do not close me off like that.
00:07:03It's all good.
00:07:03It's all good.
00:07:04It's all good.
00:07:04It's all good.
00:07:04It's all good.
00:07:08How do you think the dinner party went last night?
00:07:10It could have went better.
00:07:14Mm-hmm.
00:07:15Why?
00:07:18It's because you shut me down.
00:07:20I didn't shut you down.
00:07:21You said what you felt you needed to say,
00:07:22and then you shut me down.
00:07:24I said whatever.
00:07:24I said what you said.
00:07:25You directed the conversation to Rie and Geoff.
00:07:28Rie.
00:07:28While I was mid-conversating,
00:07:30you were like,
00:07:31enough about us, Rie and Geoff.
00:07:32You did that.
00:07:34Yeah.
00:07:37Feeling frustrated
00:07:38because I'm trying to find my voice
00:07:42in this relationship,
00:07:43and it's hard to have one
00:07:44when you're constantly feeling shut down.
00:07:48When I try to address my concerns to you,
00:07:50it does feel like you put me down.
00:07:51It does feel like you deflect.
00:07:52I need to have an outlet.
00:07:54I need to talk to people.
00:07:54I need to understand
00:07:55how come I feel like Adrian doesn't show up for me.
00:07:58What's showing up for you?
00:08:00When I'm cleaning or doing things
00:08:02and I'm picking up your things,
00:08:03that's me saying I care about you.
00:08:05This is my way of showing up for someone.
00:08:07I know everyone...
00:08:08That's your way to not stay still.
00:08:09Adrian, it's not to stay still.
00:08:10You don't even know what showing up looks like.
00:08:12I do, Adrian.
00:08:12It's caring about your partner.
00:08:14It's thinking about them.
00:08:15It's appreciating these little acts of services.
00:08:17If you're not showing up for me,
00:08:18how am I supposed to see a long-term future for us?
00:08:21Or how am I going to see that we are compatible?
00:08:24I asked her,
00:08:25how do I show up for you?
00:08:27What does that physically look like?
00:08:29If I was to ask Adrian how he shows up for me...
00:08:31Stop talking at me.
00:08:32Have a conversation.
00:08:33Stop talking at me.
00:08:34When I...
00:08:34I feel like I kept coming back to the house things.
00:08:39But I tell me other examples of how I can show up.
00:08:42And I feel like I haven't got a proper answer to what that looks like.
00:08:45You honestly haven't given me any reassurances that we could work or be compatible outside
00:08:49of this experiment.
00:08:49What's reassurance?
00:08:50When there's an every state between us or, you know, my very real child and my very real
00:08:55lifestyle, which is very different to yours, how are we supposed to make it work outside
00:09:00when we can't even make it work inside?
00:09:08I feel like Adrian's showing me more every day, how he shows up for a partner.
00:09:12And I'm going, that's not enough for me.
00:09:15I don't want to just settle.
00:09:17Because I'm not settling for not just me.
00:09:20I'm not settling for my son.
00:09:22Like, I want to have the best role model.
00:09:24I want to have someone that shows up every day.
00:09:27And if you're not doing little things for me, am I wasting my time being here?
00:09:36While Athena and Adrian are at a standstill...
00:09:39Down the hall, there's been a major development in Sierra and Billy's relationship.
00:09:48How are you, um, after last night?
00:09:53So me and Sierra was intimate last night.
00:09:56We had sex.
00:09:59So this is a massive breakthrough for me and Sierra, because we haven't had sex since the
00:10:04honeymoon.
00:10:04And it just happened naturally.
00:10:06Thanks.
00:10:06But this morning, I woke up and there was a bit of a awkwardness.
00:10:14Well.
00:10:18Well, well, well.
00:10:23It'd be interesting to see what the expert's take on the dinner party was.
00:10:26So to hear what they say about the different couples and their take on it, yeah, it'll be...
00:10:34I'm intrigued.
00:10:38Hmm.
00:10:38I don't know, I'm feeling like some energy from Sierra that's standoffish.
00:10:48And I just don't understand why.
00:10:50Because she's wanted more physical touch.
00:10:53And we now, obviously, have connected on that level.
00:10:56So it's confusing me.
00:10:58I don't even know what I'm wearing tonight, actually.
00:11:11Yeah, yeah.
00:11:13Me and Sierra aren't really connecting on the deeper level that I've been craving.
00:11:17And that emotional connection.
00:11:25It's great, Nespresso.
00:11:26But I know there's something about her past which she has not felt comfortable with telling
00:11:35me yet.
00:11:36She's been very closed off about her past.
00:11:38And I respect that.
00:11:39But it would be nice to kind of have the full conversation about it.
00:11:45Because that's when you find a deeper connection.
00:11:48It's going to be an interesting one.
00:11:49With the second commitment ceremony just hours away...
00:12:00You look beautiful.
00:12:02You're so nice of you.
00:12:04The couples are preparing to face the experts.
00:12:08It's going to be another interesting night.
00:12:13And decide whether to stay in the experiment...
00:12:16Or leave their marriages for good.
00:12:21Morena!
00:12:23You were nice and happy.
00:12:25But getting ready is the last thing on Morena's mind.
00:12:29As she's still feeling resentful towards Tony about last night's dinner party.
00:12:36What's going on?
00:12:37I know we had a hard night last night.
00:12:39The table's hard.
00:12:40You didn't have a hard night.
00:12:41I did.
00:12:41Since the beginning, you two have literally been so disconnected.
00:12:46You're doing everything separate.
00:12:47Because he goes home every weekend.
00:12:49You keep on doing all the time.
00:12:50Does your girl go home every weekend?
00:12:51Do you go home every weekend?
00:12:53Does anyone here go home every weekend?
00:12:57You hurt me so much, Tony.
00:13:01You didn't stand up for me at all.
00:13:04The whole table was against me.
00:13:06There's 14 people at that table.
00:13:08They were against you, Morena.
00:13:09All they asked you was a question.
00:13:10No, they did.
00:13:11You take it on the wrong way.
00:13:12Everyone was against me.
00:13:13Everyone else saw it.
00:13:15Relax.
00:13:17I know you're upset.
00:13:18I know I let you down a little bit last night.
00:13:21But I apologise.
00:13:23I needed you to stand up last night and say that.
00:13:25In front of the whole table.
00:13:27But you didn't.
00:13:27But sometimes you've got to listen to Morena.
00:13:29Just stop being so serious.
00:13:31And enjoy their conversation instead of giving them the Morena.
00:13:35But I'm not an actress.
00:13:36I know.
00:13:37I know that.
00:13:38I can be the happiest person in the world.
00:13:40But that's where I've lost you.
00:13:41When you can treat me the way I expect to be treated when there's no one around.
00:13:46That's what counts to me.
00:13:47I'm not an actress.
00:13:49I'm sorry, Tony.
00:13:51I'm not.
00:13:54All right.
00:13:56Sometimes you've just got to calm down and enjoy the ride, man.
00:13:59Like, talk with people with happiness.
00:14:01Everything's kind of always so dramatic with you when you talk.
00:14:05Just, oh man.
00:14:06But do you understand that?
00:14:07Why?
00:14:08You go and get your reset every weekend.
00:14:11And for me, it's just manifesting.
00:14:13Because I'm on my own.
00:14:15You've dumped me every weekend.
00:14:18I don't dump you.
00:14:18I don't know anyone in Sydney.
00:14:19But, Manor, sometimes I spend a lot of time here.
00:14:22And we're doing this a lot.
00:14:24I need Tony time.
00:14:25That's how I've been.
00:14:26I've always been.
00:14:26But you're here for me.
00:14:28No.
00:14:29You're here for me.
00:14:30There'll be times when we're spending more time together.
00:14:33There will be days.
00:14:34Let's see.
00:14:41Let's see, huh?
00:14:56Hello, gentlemen.
00:15:03Good evening.
00:15:04Welcome, welcome.
00:15:13Hi.
00:15:14Hello, ladies.
00:15:15Hello, ladies.
00:15:16Come on in.
00:15:20Hello, ladies.
00:15:20I should have come with Tony.
00:15:34We're matching.
00:15:41Well, hello, everyone.
00:15:43And welcome to your second commitment ceremony.
00:15:48I just want to thank everyone for taking on intimacy week with such passion.
00:15:54And I hope that you all learned something about yourselves and your partners to help really nourish these relationships.
00:16:01Now, as we saw last night at the dinner party, there was a lot of drama.
00:16:09People got certain things off their chest.
00:16:13But obviously, when it comes to a commitment ceremony, we go deeper.
00:16:18So we want you to bring everything to the couch tonight.
00:16:22Well, tonight, our first couple up on the couch.
00:16:34Tony and Marina.
00:16:36Ooppa!
00:16:37Hey, let's go.
00:16:46Hi, guys.
00:16:47How are you?
00:16:49Well, we are well.
00:16:50But we are concerned about how you two are doing.
00:16:54Of course, we were there watching the dinner party last night and saw that there was a lot, a lot going on, particularly for you, Marina.
00:17:04A lot of emotion.
00:17:06So we thought, let's kick off with you.
00:17:12I came into this experiment not to be on my own.
00:17:17I came into this experiment to bond with the person you've matched me up with.
00:17:26Yeah.
00:17:28I haven't had that chance.
00:17:32He's not around.
00:17:33I feel, I'm really sad.
00:17:37It feels really lonely.
00:17:40I didn't come on this experiment to feel alone.
00:17:45And when he is around, obligation, he does all the tasks.
00:17:52Because he has to.
00:17:54But the minute the obligation's done, Tony needs Tony time.
00:18:05Well, it is me.
00:18:06I do do that.
00:18:09Sometimes you just, I just need to get away and have Tony time.
00:18:14And I don't mean to be rude about it or hurt you in any way.
00:18:17Tony time in the morning.
00:18:19Tony time at night.
00:18:20And then the weekend, Tony time.
00:18:29Tony, why do you think you need Tony time?
00:18:35It's just how I am.
00:18:36Like, it's just how I am.
00:18:38Is that an excuse?
00:18:39That sounds like it's just how I am.
00:18:41No, but that's just how I am.
00:18:42I'll sweep everything under the table.
00:18:44But that's not going to work in a relationship.
00:18:46This needs to be Tony 2.0.
00:18:51Because if you always do what you've always done.
00:18:54It's not going to work, you know.
00:18:55You're going to get what you've always got.
00:18:58It's time to change.
00:19:00And I'm up for that.
00:19:00That's why.
00:19:01Okay.
00:19:03That's why I'm here.
00:19:03There's so much more I feel that's going on.
00:19:10And I don't want to get involved.
00:19:12But I don't want to wipe my head off.
00:19:14So, when Tony leaves, where does he go?
00:19:21He's Houdini.
00:19:24He's Houdini.
00:19:25You've already given me a hard time last night, guys.
00:19:41Really?
00:19:46Focus here, Marina.
00:19:47They're talking to you.
00:19:48No, I don't appreciate them laughing.
00:19:51No, I don't appreciate them laughing.
00:19:52They're beautiful people.
00:19:53You don't need to get them involved.
00:19:54I didn't.
00:19:54I'm not laughing.
00:19:55I didn't say that.
00:19:56I didn't say that.
00:19:57This is where you've got to listen to.
00:19:58To these professionals here.
00:19:59The most beautiful people.
00:19:59I didn't say they're not youthful.
00:20:00This is where I have the problem.
00:20:02This is why I do Houdini's.
00:20:20Focus here, Marina.
00:20:21They're talking to you.
00:20:21No, I don't appreciate them laughing.
00:20:23This is what I get disappointed.
00:20:24No, I don't appreciate them laughing.
00:20:26They're beautiful people.
00:20:27I'm not laughing.
00:20:28Didn't say they're not youthful.
00:20:28This is where I have the problem.
00:20:30This is why I do Houdini.
00:20:35Billy, why is it that you're laughing at that?
00:20:38Because Houdini is.
00:20:40We just thought it was a funny comment.
00:20:43No, no, no.
00:20:44We're not laughing at you.
00:20:45It was just you made a joke.
00:20:46Word was funny.
00:20:48That's all it is.
00:20:49Okay.
00:20:50We honestly thought she was making a joke.
00:20:53And can I add to that?
00:20:55Last night, you only heard the negative.
00:20:58You felt attacked the whole time.
00:21:02Is that true, Marina?
00:21:04Do you only hear the negatives?
00:21:06That you're on the defensive?
00:21:08Or do you actually see the positives as well?
00:21:11Well, I didn't see any positives last night.
00:21:18Okay.
00:21:20I saw there was 14 people at a table and 13 were against me.
00:21:28That's a big call.
00:21:29Marina, I have supported you and I've listened to both of you
00:21:33and I feel like I have expressed, like,
00:21:37I've validated your feelings over and over again.
00:21:40To say that there's 13 people against you,
00:21:43that really offends me.
00:21:48That's how I help.
00:21:51Marina, it's so important in order to get over some hurdles
00:21:55like this early in a relationship to be able to self-reflect,
00:21:58look at yourself and your own behaviour and take accountability.
00:22:01Yeah.
00:22:01I think, Tony, you've started showing some of that.
00:22:04So I'm asking you,
00:22:06what are some of the things that you may have said
00:22:09or done in this relationship
00:22:10that have been bad for the relationship?
00:22:13Um.
00:22:23I actually don't know.
00:22:29I'm being me.
00:22:31Well, one of the reasons why we sit here
00:22:35is because we need to hold a mirror up.
00:22:39Now, we know that the both of you need
00:22:41to take some accountability.
00:22:45Tony, a very key question.
00:22:47How you contributed to this relationship not working?
00:22:51It is a lot for me, you know, like, I do take a lot of that blame.
00:22:55Like, oh, she's right.
00:22:56I disappear.
00:22:58Let me put it another way.
00:23:00If you were giving a percentage of who's to blame
00:23:03for your relationship issues,
00:23:05what is the breakdown?
00:23:07OK, I think...
00:23:11I think probably 50-50, man.
00:23:1750-50?
00:23:19For you, Marina, what is the breakdown?
00:23:21Well, he keeps going away, John.
00:23:30It takes two.
00:23:33So what is Tony's percentage?
00:23:35What's yours?
00:23:35You know, at least a seven or an eight.
00:23:50So he's 80% the problem and you're 20%, just so I'm clear.
00:23:5580% of the problems in your relationship is because of Tony.
00:24:06Well, yeah.
00:24:08That's how I feel.
00:24:10I'm so sorry.
00:24:12I'm so sorry for how I feel.
00:24:19And your 20% is what?
00:24:22Talking.
00:24:23Being open.
00:24:24How might you talk that would push him away?
00:24:31Think about it.
00:24:35Oh, Tone.
00:24:38Tell me more.
00:24:40Well, I'm passionate.
00:24:42Some might say passionate.
00:24:44Others might say...
00:24:47Abrasive.
00:24:49OK.
00:24:50What do you do when you're getting things off your chest?
00:24:59Well, hand actions.
00:25:01What exactly do you do with your hands?
00:25:03I don't know.
00:25:07I talk with my hands.
00:25:11Well, I've watched you over the dinner party
00:25:13and one of the things that I've noticed
00:25:16and one of the things that I've noticed
00:25:16is that when you want to get things off your chest,
00:25:20you point.
00:25:21And you get very much in someone's face.
00:25:27And you get very much in someone's face.
00:25:28Has anyone ever told you that?
00:25:30No.
00:25:31I didn't even actually realise I did that.
00:25:33This is why we're here.
00:25:34Yeah.
00:25:37So the way in which you're talking,
00:25:39the way in which you're getting things across,
00:25:41your communication style,
00:25:42your fight style,
00:25:44can be difficult to listen to.
00:25:47How does that land for you?
00:25:48Well, clearly I didn't realise
00:25:52my gestures with my hands were so strong.
00:25:55Right.
00:25:56But if that's what you see
00:25:58and that's what I've done,
00:25:59I don't even realise I do it.
00:26:02Tony, do you feel that
00:26:04Marina's intensity in her communication style
00:26:07is too much for you?
00:26:09It is, yeah.
00:26:10At times it is, yeah.
00:26:12Sometimes I just shut down
00:26:13and just think to myself,
00:26:14Tony, just shut up.
00:26:15I'm in there to talk.
00:26:16You know, I feel like I've lost my voice.
00:26:22Sometimes I just feel like
00:26:23just packing up and getting out of here.
00:26:25And, you know, that's when I disappear.
00:26:27That's when I start taking off.
00:26:29When Marina comes at you with all the words,
00:26:32you shut down and you walk away.
00:26:34Yeah.
00:26:34OK.
00:26:35So there's our pattern.
00:26:41Marina, are you willing to work on the relationship?
00:26:45You know, there's hope.
00:26:52But actions speak larger than words.
00:26:56Yeah.
00:26:59Marina, what have we got?
00:27:00Stay or leave?
00:27:08Ah.
00:27:09I thought she would.
00:27:11Oh, my goodness.
00:27:15Marina, what's the story there?
00:27:17I put a heart next to leave
00:27:19because I came here for love.
00:27:21And I came here with such a full heart.
00:27:28And I feel let down.
00:27:32Tony, what have we got?
00:27:33Stay or leave?
00:27:34So I'm going to stay.
00:27:40I'll put a reset button here.
00:27:45Mm-hmm.
00:27:47Let's start again, Marina.
00:27:51Let's reset.
00:27:53Listen to what they've said.
00:27:55And let's go for it.
00:27:56Tomorrow's a different day.
00:27:58Mm-hmm.
00:27:58Mm-hmm.
00:28:00I'd like to make her happier,
00:28:02which I've brought sad eyes to her.
00:28:04Do you hear that?
00:28:06I heard it.
00:28:07And that's...
00:28:08And that's fantastic.
00:28:11Yeah.
00:28:15Now, as you know, you two,
00:28:17if one person says stay
00:28:19and the other says leave,
00:28:21then the couple remains in the experiment
00:28:23for one more week
00:28:24to work on,
00:28:25seeing if they can turn it around.
00:28:28Marina,
00:28:29you have a chance here.
00:28:31Yeah.
00:28:33To move forward with this guy.
00:28:36Yeah.
00:28:37Tony needs to feel like
00:28:39I can spend time with her
00:28:41and enjoy it
00:28:43and feel good enough.
00:28:46Because what's coming out of your mouth,
00:28:48I can translate it,
00:28:50you're not good enough.
00:28:51If you want him to step up
00:28:54and spend time with you,
00:28:55you've got to embrace him.
00:28:58What I would say, though, Tony,
00:28:59that's very, very clear
00:29:00is that she is deprived of you
00:29:04and she wants more.
00:29:07But you're not giving it to her.
00:29:09That's where I have to change.
00:29:10There are no more Houdinis
00:29:12in this experiment.
00:29:13Overall,
00:29:16the two of you also
00:29:16need to just have some fun.
00:29:18You know?
00:29:19Be present with each other
00:29:20and with the group.
00:29:22You guys need to show us
00:29:24that you can do it.
00:29:26And we believe you can.
00:29:29You can go back to the group.
00:29:32You got it?
00:29:34You got it?
00:29:36It took her a little while
00:29:37for her to understand
00:29:38where the experts are coming from.
00:29:40Like, just by,
00:29:41you know,
00:29:42the gestures she does,
00:29:43and pointing the finger
00:29:44and stuff like that.
00:29:45She's smiling!
00:29:49But it's making sense to her.
00:29:51So, tonight was a breakthrough, yeah.
00:29:53Reset.
00:29:54No, reset.
00:29:54Press the button.
00:29:55You have to press it, please.
00:29:56Yeah, press the button, Marenna.
00:29:58Go on, Marenna, press it.
00:30:01This week's a different week, so...
00:30:06It's not enough for Gamma, OK?
00:30:10Coming up,
00:30:11Intimacy Week ignites passions.
00:30:14I was blindfolded, you know?
00:30:15And then she took the blindfolds off
00:30:17and then...
00:30:18And then she just revealed everything.
00:30:20I've got to say,
00:30:21it was pretty spicy.
00:30:23Also...
00:30:24Strap yourselves in.
00:30:26Jackie baffles the experts.
00:30:28I'm not asking Ryan to be dishonest.
00:30:30I'm asking him to find a way
00:30:32to put me first.
00:30:32I don't understand.
00:30:37How does that work?
00:30:49Our next couple up on the couch...
00:30:52Jamie and Dave.
00:30:55Hello, you guys.
00:31:01So, Jamie, why don't you tell us,
00:31:02how do you think things are going?
00:31:04Things are going, like, yeah,
00:31:06really, really well.
00:31:07Like, every day he shows up for me,
00:31:09validates me.
00:31:10Like, I'm a big personality.
00:31:12And not once does he try to tell me
00:31:15to, like, stop, tone me down.
00:31:17Instead, he goes,
00:31:17I love that you just...
00:31:19You're so confident.
00:31:20And, like, he always celebrates
00:31:22when I am vulnerable.
00:31:25He just knows what I need.
00:31:27I'm so icky all the time.
00:31:30It's just, like,
00:31:31I feel safe.
00:31:32I feel secure.
00:31:33I feel happy.
00:31:34Like, tick, tick, tick.
00:31:36Yes!
00:31:37She doesn't even like to cuddle
00:31:38when she fell asleep, like, here.
00:31:40I want to just climb up in that.
00:31:43Like, we can't stop touching each other.
00:31:45I don't like this.
00:31:46I used to be a bad bitch, I promise.
00:31:48And now I'm just soft as.
00:31:55To you, Dave.
00:31:56How are you feeling about this woman?
00:31:59Oh, she's bloody amazing.
00:32:00I've shared things with her inside out.
00:32:02And she's just zero judgement at all.
00:32:04She's lovely.
00:32:05She's not big and scary.
00:32:08Like, the whole spark thing
00:32:10is, like, bullshit.
00:32:11Like, how everyone left
00:32:12because they didn't have a spark show.
00:32:13Yeah, we had, like, the attraction.
00:32:15But, like, the sparks came shooting
00:32:17out of our arse
00:32:18when we sat there
00:32:19and worked every day
00:32:21on building a connection.
00:32:23Great point.
00:32:24Like, I got lost in the bullshit
00:32:26where I'm like,
00:32:26he likes going hiking,
00:32:27I don't, he likes...
00:32:28But, like, instead,
00:32:29we got to know each other's core values.
00:32:31And now we're like...
00:32:32Yeah.
00:32:32I'll be a dog mum.
00:32:34Like, fuck her.
00:32:39Well, this is absolutely gorgeous.
00:32:43And it's no coincidence
00:32:44that the two of you
00:32:45are sitting here so happy.
00:32:46You have done the work.
00:32:47So, absolute kudos
00:32:49to the two of you.
00:32:50But we do need to go to a decision.
00:32:52Jamie, let's go with you first.
00:32:56Stay.
00:32:56I'm going to stay.
00:33:01Oh, and a little smile.
00:33:03Gorgeous.
00:33:04Thank you so much, guys.
00:33:06Thanks, guys.
00:33:07Thank you very much.
00:33:08Woo!
00:33:08Well done.
00:33:09Good stuff.
00:33:12Our next couple are...
00:33:14Karina and Paul.
00:33:18Yeah!
00:33:18Yeah!
00:33:21Hi, guys.
00:33:22How are you guys?
00:33:23Thank you, too.
00:33:24Good to see you again.
00:33:25I would like to thank you,
00:33:28Alessandra,
00:33:28for the intimacy week
00:33:30because I've got to say
00:33:31it was pretty spicy.
00:33:35Tell us about it.
00:33:36I was blindfolded, you know.
00:33:37I was walking through the hall of the poem
00:33:39thinking,
00:33:40what the hell is going on?
00:33:41And then she took the blindfold off
00:33:43and then...
00:33:44Yeah.
00:33:45And then she just revealed everything
00:33:46and then...
00:33:47Oh, my God!
00:33:48She revealed everything.
00:33:51Everything.
00:33:51I love that you're reenacting it for us.
00:33:53The things we did,
00:33:54I mean, I did not expect it at all.
00:33:56I did not expect that at all.
00:33:58Like, at all.
00:33:59Is that what I could hear that night?
00:34:00Paul getting whipped.
00:34:03When it comes to sex,
00:34:04you know,
00:34:04like normally Karina and I,
00:34:06I'm very dominant
00:34:07and she's more submissive
00:34:08and obviously she wanted to
00:34:09reverse that,
00:34:10take control,
00:34:11which honestly,
00:34:12I really appreciated that.
00:34:14Honestly, it was...
00:34:15It was...
00:34:16I had to make it romantic.
00:34:20But it was romantic.
00:34:21Yeah.
00:34:21It was really romantic.
00:34:22But I also came out of my comfort zone.
00:34:25I did something completely different
00:34:26to what I've ever done.
00:34:28To what you normally used to.
00:34:30We just really bring it.
00:34:31We owned it.
00:34:32We just had fun with it.
00:34:33We joked.
00:34:34We just made each other
00:34:36like super comfortable.
00:34:37We were comfortable.
00:34:37What sort of feelings
00:34:39are you having now for Karina?
00:34:41Yeah, I actually adore her.
00:34:42Yeah.
00:34:52Adore.
00:34:52We like the word adore.
00:34:54It's a very strong emotion, that.
00:34:56We're not just physically connected,
00:34:57but we're emotionally connected.
00:34:58Like, I actually look forward to,
00:35:00you know,
00:35:01see what life is going to be like
00:35:02outside this experiment.
00:35:05What about you, Karina?
00:35:06Karina, how are you feeling for him?
00:35:07I'm in awe.
00:35:10Like, I'm so excited
00:35:11to wake up in the morning
00:35:12and then like, yeah,
00:35:14just like little things
00:35:15are making me so happy.
00:35:16And I'm like,
00:35:17this is, this is just like
00:35:19something different.
00:35:20I don't know how to explain it.
00:35:22It's not like the physical aspect.
00:35:24Like, yeah, that's fantastic.
00:35:26But it's more like
00:35:27the emotional aspect.
00:35:30And do you notice that
00:35:31you're not really talking to us?
00:35:34It's like we're not even here.
00:35:35Am I talking?
00:35:37I'm like, sorry.
00:35:39We may as well just up and leave
00:35:41because you're just transfixed
00:35:43on the big fella.
00:35:47We're going to go to the decision.
00:35:49I don't think it's a surprise for anyone.
00:35:52I have stay, stay with a hug.
00:35:54Double stay.
00:35:56Nice start.
00:35:58Stay.
00:35:58Yes, it is.
00:35:59Again, with a love hug
00:36:00and two kisses.
00:36:02Nice start.
00:36:03Go back to the group
00:36:04and have a great week, guys.
00:36:06Good to see you.
00:36:07Ciao.
00:36:11Our next couple up on the couch.
00:36:19Jackie and Ryan.
00:36:24Strap yourselves in.
00:36:25All right.
00:36:26We'd like to get right into it.
00:36:35We were observing last night
00:36:37and there were a lot of voices
00:36:38from the group
00:36:39regarding your relationship.
00:36:41Why do you think that is, Ryan?
00:36:45During the intimacy workshop
00:36:47that we had,
00:36:47I made a couple of comments
00:36:49which were crass
00:36:51and ungentlemanly-like.
00:36:57I fully admit to that
00:36:58and I'm sorry again for that.
00:37:03Yeah.
00:37:04And my wife looks beautiful tonight.
00:37:06Oh, thank you.
00:37:08Ryan, those were comments
00:37:10that were disrespectful
00:37:10and should not have been said.
00:37:13And clearly, everybody in the group,
00:37:15when they heard them,
00:37:16were coming to Jackie's defense,
00:37:18your response wasn't
00:37:20to take ownership of that
00:37:22when you were being confronted
00:37:23by the group.
00:37:25Why was that?
00:37:27I admit that they were
00:37:28I was far too candid
00:37:30and they were disrespectful
00:37:32within that format.
00:37:34I fully admit to that
00:37:35and I'm sorry again for that.
00:37:37Okay?
00:37:38I do appreciate you
00:37:39taking accountability now
00:37:42and apologizing on the couch
00:37:44to Jackie.
00:37:48So let's try to understand
00:37:49where the two of you are at.
00:37:53The part I'm trying to understand
00:37:55and the reason I'm so confused
00:37:57is the flip-flopping.
00:38:02Yeah.
00:38:03Last night, I observed
00:38:04a variety of different couples
00:38:07in different moments of the night.
00:38:11Yeah.
00:38:12Yeah, we get that, yeah.
00:38:13because you started off
00:38:15being very much
00:38:15a united front
00:38:16and a team.
00:38:18At a certain point,
00:38:19that team seemed
00:38:20to crumble down.
00:38:24Then this morning,
00:38:25it was patched back up together.
00:38:27Yeah, I guess, like,
00:38:28I woke up this morning
00:38:29to two bouquets of flowers.
00:38:31In that moment,
00:38:32I was like,
00:38:33wow, I feel like
00:38:34finally the man
00:38:35that I wanted
00:38:36has just showed up.
00:38:37But, like,
00:38:40I realized
00:38:41I need to reset.
00:38:42There's no point
00:38:43complaining about the past.
00:38:45Like, ultimately,
00:38:46I'm here to build
00:38:47a positive future
00:38:48with Ryan.
00:38:50And you got flowers.
00:38:51And I got my flowers.
00:38:54You're not machines.
00:38:55It's not simply
00:38:55magically going to be fixed.
00:38:57You're not putting things
00:38:58under the rug
00:38:59and ignoring them.
00:39:01There's things
00:39:01that will need
00:39:02to be processed
00:39:03regardless of the fact
00:39:05that you had chosen
00:39:06to hit that reset button.
00:39:09So bear with me
00:39:10because I do want
00:39:11to go back
00:39:12to Confessions Week
00:39:13and the ranking challenge.
00:39:15Because it was
00:39:16a big topic last night
00:39:18at the dinner party
00:39:18because after having
00:39:20supposedly gotten over it
00:39:22and put it aside
00:39:22and continued on,
00:39:24it came up again
00:39:25in a strong way
00:39:26for you, Jackie.
00:39:29I guess having
00:39:30someone not put you
00:39:32first,
00:39:32that was a real
00:39:33challenge for me
00:39:34because, yeah,
00:39:36like, I've never,
00:39:37I've never been
00:39:38faced with a situation
00:39:40where I have to decide
00:39:41am I okay
00:39:42with being third?
00:39:44If my husband
00:39:45put me third,
00:39:45I would hold that
00:39:46to the day I die.
00:39:48I wouldn't get over it.
00:39:51Yeah.
00:39:53Yeah.
00:39:56Ryan, look,
00:39:57I think you have
00:39:57to make your partner
00:39:58feel like she is
00:39:59the most special person
00:40:00every day.
00:40:02Yeah, special,
00:40:03special, correct.
00:40:04The word she used
00:40:05was beautiful.
00:40:06All right?
00:40:07Take this opportunity
00:40:08and make her feel
00:40:09like that, man.
00:40:09Like, that's,
00:40:10this is,
00:40:10and that's the bottom line.
00:40:11Yeah, because it's
00:40:12the most important thing
00:40:13to me, right?
00:40:13Like, I've said loyalty
00:40:14is my most important value.
00:40:15but, like, Ryan
00:40:17will put his own beliefs
00:40:19and ego
00:40:19before the loyalty.
00:40:21Jackie,
00:40:22should Ryan
00:40:23have been
00:40:23dishonest
00:40:25and put you first
00:40:28even though
00:40:28he did not think
00:40:30you were the most
00:40:32attractive
00:40:32of the photos?
00:40:35I'm not asking
00:40:36Ryan to be dishonest.
00:40:38I'm asking him
00:40:38to find a way
00:40:39to put me first.
00:40:40I'm not asking Ryan
00:40:55to be dishonest.
00:40:56I'm asking him
00:40:57to find a way
00:40:58to put me first.
00:40:58I don't understand.
00:41:05How does that work?
00:41:07Well, I guess
00:41:08I'd want him
00:41:09to find a way
00:41:09to think that.
00:41:14My question is
00:41:15how does that work, Jackie?
00:41:17Putting me first.
00:41:18Like, physically
00:41:19putting me first, yeah.
00:41:27But it's not about me
00:41:28I think about
00:41:29my children.
00:41:34So I don't need
00:41:35the validation.
00:41:37I'm happy
00:41:37with how I look.
00:41:38I'm happy
00:41:39with who I am
00:41:39as a person.
00:41:40But I don't
00:41:41necessarily want
00:41:43to be in the energy
00:41:44of someone
00:41:45who doesn't
00:41:46do that
00:41:48for my children
00:41:50one day.
00:41:51I just have to
00:41:52show up double time.
00:41:53I've got to be
00:41:54my own biggest
00:41:54cheerleader
00:41:55and the cheerleader
00:41:56for the people around me
00:41:57and the children around me
00:41:58and maybe
00:41:58compensate
00:41:59maybe for the
00:42:00blunt honesty
00:42:01and explain that
00:42:02he doesn't mean it that way.
00:42:03He does love you
00:42:04or, you know,
00:42:05like it's...
00:42:06And that's the solution
00:42:07I've got.
00:42:07I take your point
00:42:12that there are times
00:42:13down the road
00:42:14long way down the road
00:42:15we're three weeks in
00:42:16where those days
00:42:17will be critical
00:42:18to everyone's self-esteem
00:42:19everyone's progress
00:42:22and everyone's
00:42:22general harmony
00:42:23in the household.
00:42:24So you're going to get
00:42:30that validation
00:42:31from me
00:42:32especially
00:42:35my son
00:42:36when he comes
00:42:37around.
00:42:49Sorry.
00:42:50I do believe you.
00:43:00I do believe you.
00:43:01Yeah.
00:43:05OK, I'm confused.
00:43:09Because
00:43:09last night, Jackie,
00:43:14when you were in the
00:43:15throes of, you know,
00:43:18emotion,
00:43:19you said,
00:43:22he's nothing
00:43:24I asked for.
00:43:27And now
00:43:28you're talking about
00:43:30your future
00:43:31and your kids
00:43:31and, you know,
00:43:33you're affectionate
00:43:34on the couch
00:43:34and being very gentle
00:43:35with this person
00:43:37who you've told me
00:43:38is completely wrong
00:43:39for you.
00:43:41So I need you
00:43:42to help me understand
00:43:43what the hell
00:43:44is going on.
00:43:48Yeah, so, like,
00:43:48obviously I really
00:43:49care for Ryan
00:43:50but, like,
00:43:51if we're being honest,
00:43:53I don't know
00:43:53if we'd be compatible
00:43:54in the real world
00:43:55because we have
00:43:57different interests.
00:44:00Like, you know,
00:44:01I don't want to stop him
00:44:01from reading fiction books
00:44:02and I want to keep
00:44:03reading non-fiction.
00:44:06You know, like,
00:44:06he wants to keep
00:44:07watching TV,
00:44:08I want to watch
00:44:08stop to me.
00:44:09But hold on.
00:44:10But hold on, Jackie.
00:44:11Jackie.
00:44:13We three
00:44:14see you as being
00:44:16exceedingly compatible.
00:44:20There's so...
00:44:21You guys have
00:44:22so much in common.
00:44:23You're getting caught
00:44:23in what's not working
00:44:25instead of what is.
00:44:28Jackie.
00:44:29Yeah.
00:44:30Do you like Ryan?
00:44:31Yes.
00:44:33What do you like about him?
00:44:35He's got a lot of
00:44:35patience and tolerance.
00:44:37Somehow he managed
00:44:38to survive a week
00:44:39of me crying
00:44:39about everything.
00:44:41He can stand up
00:44:42for himself.
00:44:42He's very strong.
00:44:45He has really nice eyes.
00:44:48And we've identified
00:44:49we both love
00:44:50the driving range
00:44:51and tennis.
00:44:53And we take
00:44:53cute photos together.
00:44:54Like, we do have
00:44:55a lot of fun.
00:44:56We do have a nice collage
00:44:57going in the shrine.
00:44:58For somebody who's
00:45:00supposedly incompatible,
00:45:02your list is pretty
00:45:03extensive, Jackie.
00:45:05Yeah.
00:45:07And Ryan,
00:45:09I'm curious you.
00:45:10Do you like Jackie?
00:45:11Yes.
00:45:12What is it about
00:45:13Jackie that you like?
00:45:14She's done so much
00:45:16in her 29 years
00:45:17that other people
00:45:18in general
00:45:18wouldn't even get close to.
00:45:20And she does her best
00:45:21to be emotionally
00:45:22intelligent as well.
00:45:24And I like your eyes
00:45:25and I like your smile.
00:45:29You're a very smart man.
00:45:31I know.
00:45:33Yeah.
00:45:36Okay.
00:45:37Are you feeling like
00:45:37you're a united front again?
00:45:39Yes.
00:45:40Yeah.
00:45:40Yeah, I feel like
00:45:41we're on the same page.
00:45:42Yes.
00:45:43Yes.
00:45:43I hope that's the case
00:45:45because honestly
00:45:46the flip-flopping
00:45:47cannot be
00:45:49the vibe with you.
00:45:50It's not going to work
00:45:51if you continue
00:45:52flip-flopping
00:45:53the way you have been.
00:45:55Let's go to a decision.
00:45:58Ryan.
00:45:59I would love
00:46:00to stick around.
00:46:03Yeah.
00:46:06And you, Jackie.
00:46:08And stay.
00:46:09Oh, Jackie.
00:46:10Beautiful.
00:46:11Thank you, guys.
00:46:19Still to come,
00:46:21Athena has doubts.
00:46:23Do you feel like
00:46:23you want to be
00:46:24in a relationship
00:46:25with Adrian?
00:46:26Scary question.
00:46:35Our next couple
00:46:36on the couch tonight,
00:46:40Rhi and Jeff.
00:46:41Hey.
00:46:42How's the suspense?
00:46:43Hi, guys.
00:46:46Hi, guys.
00:46:47Hello.
00:46:48Hi, guys.
00:46:49Welcome.
00:46:51It's good to see you, too.
00:46:53Looks like things
00:46:54are going pretty well.
00:46:55Yeah, things are going
00:46:56amazing.
00:46:56like, Jeff is the most
00:46:59considerate partner
00:47:00ever.
00:47:01Like, I'll have a shower
00:47:03and I'll come out
00:47:04and he's made the bed,
00:47:06put a lot of washing on,
00:47:07started making a coffee,
00:47:09sandwiches are made.
00:47:10Like, he's steamed my dress.
00:47:13Rhi, stop there, please.
00:47:16That's a keeper right there.
00:47:17Yeah.
00:47:18Yeah.
00:47:18I just feel so confident
00:47:21in who he is as a person,
00:47:23which I don't know
00:47:25whether that's because
00:47:25of our history.
00:47:29Now, like,
00:47:29it just feels like
00:47:30more and more comfortable.
00:47:32You made reference
00:47:32to the fact that the two
00:47:33of you have dated
00:47:34in the past.
00:47:36Do you feel closer
00:47:37to Jeff this time around?
00:47:40100%.
00:47:40We've said that.
00:47:42Oh, it's well departed.
00:47:42Oh, it's strong.
00:47:43Yeah, it's actually incredible.
00:47:46What's different, Rhi?
00:47:47I guess because we were
00:47:48both freshly out of,
00:47:49like, long-term relationships.
00:47:52We were just enjoying
00:47:53each other's company
00:47:53for what it was.
00:47:55But, yeah, this experiment,
00:47:57like, I really do feel
00:47:58like I know Jeff.
00:48:01Jeff, we'll go to you.
00:48:02In terms of, you know,
00:48:03looking at the relationship
00:48:04where it's at now
00:48:05and maybe, you know,
00:48:06the next couple of steps ahead,
00:48:08what challenges are you seeing?
00:48:10I think the biggest challenge
00:48:11for us right now
00:48:12is that next step
00:48:13in the romantic side
00:48:14of the relationship.
00:48:16That everyone asks us
00:48:17all the time.
00:48:17Yeah.
00:48:18Have you done it yet?
00:48:20Yeah, yeah.
00:48:21Our first relationship,
00:48:23it was probably,
00:48:23I mean, let's be honest,
00:48:24was mainly physical
00:48:25and we had fun.
00:48:26So we know the intimacy
00:48:28side of the relationship
00:48:29worked.
00:48:30Obviously, Confessions Week
00:48:31and Intimacy Week,
00:48:32all these things unlock
00:48:33things within each other
00:48:36that we thought
00:48:37we'd never know, I guess.
00:48:38Yeah, yeah.
00:48:39So, yeah, I think we have
00:48:40a very sort of deep
00:48:41connection now
00:48:42and a deeper relationship
00:48:43and as soon as we
00:48:45get past the little hurdle
00:48:47in the romantic side
00:48:49of the relationship,
00:48:50then I think we'll be
00:48:52in a pretty good spot.
00:48:54I don't think they should
00:48:55call it a little hurdle,
00:48:56do you?
00:48:56No, that's not the best way
00:48:57to...
00:48:58No.
00:48:59The little gift.
00:49:00Get the little...
00:49:01No, not the little.
00:49:03The big gift.
00:49:06All right, well,
00:49:07we are going to go
00:49:08to a decision now.
00:49:09We.
00:49:10Sure.
00:49:11Stay.
00:49:12No hesitation.
00:49:13There it is.
00:49:14With kisses.
00:49:15Lovely.
00:49:17And Jeff, to you.
00:49:21Stay with a smiley face.
00:49:22Smiley face, too.
00:49:23Lovely.
00:49:25Wonderful.
00:49:26Well, keep doing
00:49:27what you're doing.
00:49:27Thanks.
00:49:28Thank you so much.
00:49:29Awesome.
00:49:29Thanks, guys.
00:49:30Have a great week.
00:49:33Adrian, I'll tell you
00:49:34through some lessons
00:49:34tomorrow, buddy.
00:49:35Oh, definitely.
00:49:36I'll be at your room
00:49:37tomorrow morning.
00:49:37All right, let's get
00:49:41our next couple up.
00:49:46Afina and Adrian.
00:49:52Hello, hello.
00:49:53Hello.
00:49:54Hi.
00:49:55Hi.
00:49:56Let's start with you
00:49:57first.
00:49:58Afina.
00:50:00Look, Adrian and I
00:50:01have had a very trying
00:50:01week.
00:50:02I feel like I show
00:50:05up for Adrian daily
00:50:07in little acts and
00:50:09little gestures and
00:50:10kind comments, and
00:50:11I've been feeling
00:50:13very unseen.
00:50:15And from that, my,
00:50:18you know, like, all
00:50:19the problems that we
00:50:20chose to kind of
00:50:21sweep under the rug
00:50:23have been feeling
00:50:24really heavy lately.
00:50:28Can you explain how
00:50:30it is that you don't
00:50:31feel seen?
00:50:33I just feel like,
00:50:35this is going to
00:50:37sound silly, but,
00:50:39like, these little
00:50:45acts of services,
00:50:46like, if I am
00:50:47sorting your clothes
00:50:48or if I am making
00:50:49the bed, I know
00:50:50that Adrian, like,
00:50:54even when he made a
00:50:54comment the other day
00:50:55that he, when I was
00:50:56making the bed, he
00:50:57said, oh, I
00:50:58thought a, he goes,
00:50:59why are you doing
00:51:00that?
00:51:00A cleaner does that.
00:51:01I genuinely thought
00:51:03that was the case
00:51:03because the sheets
00:51:04were so tight in the
00:51:05bed that it was just,
00:51:06I just thought it was
00:51:07like a hotel bed.
00:51:10But that comment made
00:51:12me feel very
00:51:12unappreciated.
00:51:13and when I don't feel
00:51:17like I'm getting that
00:51:18from him, that it makes
00:51:20it hard for me not to
00:51:21look to the future.
00:51:24How is Adrian going to
00:51:26fit into my life when I
00:51:28am a mum?
00:51:30That's when I start
00:51:30feeling like we're not
00:51:32compatible outside of this
00:51:34experiment.
00:51:39Adrian, right now,
00:51:40Afina's opening her heart
00:51:43and sharing some stuff
00:51:44that must be pretty hard
00:51:45to talk about.
00:51:47And you're sitting here
00:51:48looking at the roof.
00:51:51I know you're smirking
00:51:52and looking at the boys.
00:51:56I'm starting to understand
00:51:57how you might feel that
00:51:58Adrian's not listening to you.
00:52:00I was listening.
00:52:01I'm just reflecting that
00:52:07back to you because that
00:52:08has an impact on your
00:52:10partner.
00:52:10Yeah, and I understand
00:52:11that.
00:52:13Do you?
00:52:14Yeah, I do.
00:52:15But how do you think that
00:52:16makes her feel when you do
00:52:17that?
00:52:19Unseen.
00:52:22Afina, do you feel like
00:52:23you can bring up issues
00:52:24with Adrian?
00:52:25I feel like sometimes when
00:52:26I address problems or
00:52:28issues, you shut me down.
00:52:30Like what?
00:52:31When I say things that
00:52:34you're unhappy with, I feel
00:52:35like I don't have a voice
00:52:36anymore.
00:52:37Explain to me one thing
00:52:38that I've done that.
00:52:39You said just then when
00:52:40you were having a conversation
00:52:41when we do these tasks.
00:52:42Well, she mentioned today
00:52:43she's been talking about
00:52:45how we are not compatible.
00:52:47Why would I do any of
00:52:48these things now?
00:52:49Why would I want to show up?
00:52:51Because you're telling me
00:52:52we've got no future.
00:52:53So what's the point?
00:52:56I'm not an affectionate type
00:52:57of person.
00:52:57And, um...
00:52:58Okay.
00:53:00Adrian, what you're doing
00:53:01there is the problem.
00:53:04And I'm going to call you on
00:53:06it.
00:53:07That's fine.
00:53:09Watched you do it last night.
00:53:10She's trying to tell you about
00:53:11her feelings and you come in
00:53:13hard and you shut it down.
00:53:16Has that ever been said to you
00:53:18before?
00:53:19That you shut people down if
00:53:21they bring up an issue?
00:53:22No.
00:53:24Do you think that you see and
00:53:26hear and validate Afina?
00:53:30Yeah, I mean, this past week,
00:53:32no.
00:53:34But you're only telling
00:53:35one part of this story.
00:53:36Now everyone should hear
00:53:37both sides of the story.
00:53:38So then it's like...
00:53:39Adrian, that's the real issue
00:53:41is that when she brings up
00:53:43a problem, you push back
00:53:45and shut down.
00:53:47That is not turning up for her.
00:53:49It's not validating her.
00:53:50Do you understand that?
00:53:52Yeah.
00:53:53She's saying I'm bringing up
00:53:54issues and he's not
00:53:56validating me.
00:53:56She also does that as well.
00:53:58Because it's like, again,
00:53:59when I say anything...
00:54:00Now you're in point scoring.
00:54:01No, it's not about point
00:54:02scoring.
00:54:03Adrian, I'm telling you right
00:54:05now that you have to win
00:54:07every argument.
00:54:08I don't.
00:54:09This is what you're doing.
00:54:12And this is why she's going
00:54:14to turn her attention to
00:54:15we're not compatible.
00:54:18She doesn't want you to
00:54:19argue with her.
00:54:21You're going to fail
00:54:22if you do that.
00:54:23What she wants you to do
00:54:25is to listen and validate her.
00:54:28And I have done that.
00:54:31Adrian, I need to know
00:54:33from you, right now
00:54:35in this moment,
00:54:36do you want to be
00:54:37in a relationship
00:54:38with Afina?
00:54:39Of course I do.
00:54:45100%, yes.
00:54:49Now, Afina,
00:54:51do you feel like you want
00:54:52to be in a relationship
00:54:53with Adrian?
00:54:54We have some really great times
00:55:02where I've...
00:55:02No, no, no.
00:55:03It is a straightforward
00:55:04yes or no.
00:55:07This shouldn't be a hard answer.
00:55:09Do you want to be
00:55:10in a relationship
00:55:11with Adrian?
00:55:12Scary question.
00:55:18It is scary.
00:55:19I'll give you that.
00:55:20No, no, no.
00:55:38It is a straightforward
00:55:39yes or no.
00:55:42It shouldn't be a hard answer.
00:55:43Do you want to be
00:55:45in a relationship
00:55:46with Adrian?
00:55:52Scary question.
00:55:53It is scary.
00:55:54I'll give you that.
00:56:09I'm going to say
00:56:10I think I do.
00:56:13Why are you getting emotional?
00:56:19What's going on inside?
00:56:28They are hard questions.
00:56:31And you're scared.
00:56:33Yeah, and I'm scared.
00:56:34What scares you
00:56:35the most right now?
00:56:38I guess
00:56:39when I think about
00:56:41how I'm not looking
00:56:42for a life partner
00:56:43for myself
00:56:44I'm looking for
00:56:44a potential
00:56:45future stepdad
00:56:47for my son
00:56:47it's so heavy
00:56:50and it's crushing
00:56:51down on me.
00:56:53That's when fear
00:56:54starts rearing
00:56:55its ugly head
00:56:56I guess
00:56:56and that's when
00:56:58I start saying
00:56:59things like
00:56:59I don't feel
00:57:00like we are compatible
00:57:01but in saying that
00:57:03Adrian is a really
00:57:04great guy
00:57:05I am very comfortable
00:57:06with him
00:57:06we do have
00:57:06really great chemistry
00:57:07we do have
00:57:08a great physical
00:57:08connection
00:57:09I just need to feel
00:57:11a little bit more
00:57:12seen as a partner
00:57:13and that I won't
00:57:16be making these
00:57:16but I know I shouldn't
00:57:17be making these comments
00:57:18but it's how I feel
00:57:19and I'm reactive
00:57:21to my emotions
00:57:21you know
00:57:22in the moment.
00:57:24Did you hear that?
00:57:25Yeah.
00:57:26I am sorry
00:57:35that I say
00:57:36things that hurt
00:57:37Adrian.
00:57:41Alright
00:57:41let's go to
00:57:42the decision
00:57:43first up
00:57:44let's go with
00:57:45you Afina.
00:57:49There we go.
00:57:50Oh there it is.
00:57:51Lovely.
00:57:56Adrian stay or leave
00:57:57what you got?
00:57:58I don't know how
00:57:59to spell leave
00:57:59so I said stay.
00:58:05What you need
00:58:05to really hear
00:58:06Adrian is that
00:58:07she wants to be here
00:58:08but she's scared
00:58:09which means
00:58:11more validation
00:58:12more reassurance.
00:58:14Agreed.
00:58:15Just tell me
00:58:15I'm the most beautiful
00:58:16girl in the world
00:58:16every day
00:58:17kidding guys.
00:58:18And less defensiveness.
00:58:20Yeah.
00:58:21Alright guys
00:58:22you can go back
00:58:23to the group.
00:58:26Well done guys.
00:58:33And our last couple
00:58:35up on the couch
00:58:36is
00:58:36Sierra and Billy.
00:58:40Good boys.
00:58:44Hello, hello.
00:58:45Hello you too.
00:58:46Hi how are you?
00:58:47Very well.
00:58:48We're well.
00:58:49Watching you tonight
00:58:56I think what comes
00:58:57through very clearly
00:58:58is that
00:58:59something's going on
00:59:00and that's
00:59:01you know
00:59:02getting in between
00:59:03the two of you.
00:59:05So let's just
00:59:05cut straight through it.
00:59:07What's happening?
00:59:08Are you feeling
00:59:09disconnected as a couple?
00:59:11Yeah.
00:59:11Yeah.
00:59:12Tell us about that.
00:59:14Where do you think
00:59:14the disconnect is?
00:59:19I have to be honest
00:59:20with you
00:59:20I just feel very
00:59:22confused about
00:59:22the placement
00:59:23right now
00:59:24because when
00:59:26we had sex
00:59:27on the honeymoon
00:59:29we kind of
00:59:30dropped straight
00:59:32off
00:59:32and
00:59:32I felt
00:59:35a bit
00:59:35like we maybe
00:59:38rushed into that
00:59:38or we both did.
00:59:39Yeah definitely.
00:59:41But then last night
00:59:42we've had sex again.
00:59:49So last night
00:59:50you
00:59:51chose to bring
00:59:53sex back
00:59:53into the equation.
00:59:57So
00:59:58I wanted it
00:59:59to happen
00:59:59at the right time
01:00:00and it felt like
01:00:01it happened
01:00:01at the right time
01:00:02and then I guess
01:00:03it feels like
01:00:04we're back in
01:00:05a kind of
01:00:05similar spot
01:00:06on the honeymoon
01:00:07where we've
01:00:08dropped off again
01:00:09and I'm like
01:00:09is it just like
01:00:11my head's
01:00:13clogs
01:00:14are turning
01:00:14is like
01:00:15is it just
01:00:15a sexual thing
01:00:17because Sierra
01:00:17is quite
01:00:18like sexual
01:00:20as a whole
01:00:21like
01:00:21and I'm just
01:00:23not like that.
01:00:25Mine's about
01:00:25like what's in here.
01:00:28An emotional
01:00:29connection
01:00:29is massive
01:00:30for me
01:00:30and I'm
01:00:32trying to build
01:00:32that really
01:00:33before
01:00:34other things.
01:00:40I'm being
01:00:41pretty open
01:00:41with Billy
01:00:42that I need
01:00:43more physical
01:00:44touch
01:00:44and
01:00:46it's not just
01:00:47about the sex
01:00:48like holding my
01:00:48hand
01:00:49putting your arm
01:00:49over me
01:00:50like playing
01:00:50with my hair
01:00:51like just
01:00:51touching me.
01:00:53I mean
01:00:54it's difficult
01:00:54I would get in there
01:00:55but that's what I
01:00:55thought anyway
01:00:56but
01:00:57I don't
01:00:58like that's the
01:00:59problem
01:00:59and I get the
01:01:02emotional bond
01:01:02thing
01:01:03I want that too
01:01:04and I think
01:01:04we have a pretty
01:01:04good bond so far
01:01:05but it's a
01:01:06friends thing.
01:01:07Last night
01:01:08it was like a
01:01:09drunken fumble
01:01:10in my opinion.
01:01:17It was quite
01:01:17slightly passionate
01:01:18it was like
01:01:19I felt
01:01:19connected to you.
01:01:22Yeah
01:01:23I enjoyed it
01:01:24and I felt
01:01:24close to Billy
01:01:24and I like
01:01:25having sex
01:01:26with Billy
01:01:26because it's
01:01:26Billy
01:01:26but like
01:01:28it wasn't
01:01:29for me
01:01:31I'm like
01:01:31I just didn't
01:01:31feel very
01:01:32passionate
01:01:32or intimate
01:01:33to me
01:01:33you know.
01:01:34Well I felt
01:01:34like we were
01:01:35connecting.
01:01:35Yeah I just
01:01:36think I'm
01:01:36just finding
01:01:37it
01:01:37but I just
01:01:39do often
01:01:39feel confused
01:01:40about like
01:01:41where I'm at
01:01:41with like
01:01:41my feelings
01:01:42and stuff
01:01:42like that
01:01:43because I do
01:01:44feel like
01:01:44it's quite
01:01:44fleeting.
01:01:45I do think
01:01:46that I do
01:01:46really like
01:01:47Billy sometimes
01:01:47and I've
01:01:47actually got
01:01:48feelings
01:01:48and then
01:01:48and then
01:01:51sometimes
01:01:51I just
01:01:51don't.
01:01:53I think
01:01:54it's just
01:01:54because I'm
01:01:54not getting
01:01:55my needs
01:01:55met at all.
01:01:57Okay.
01:02:02What are
01:02:02you doing
01:02:03to help
01:02:03build the
01:02:04emotional
01:02:04connection
01:02:05with Billy?
01:02:05I think
01:02:06Billy has
01:02:06expressed
01:02:07for a
01:02:07while now
01:02:08his need
01:02:08for emotional
01:02:09connection.
01:02:10I think
01:02:11that we
01:02:11obviously
01:02:11still need
01:02:12to speak
01:02:12more about
01:02:13like
01:02:13things that
01:02:14have happened
01:02:14in my past.
01:02:15I just
01:02:15find that
01:02:16difficult
01:02:17in this
01:02:18environment
01:02:18and
01:02:20it's just
01:02:21a bit
01:02:21up I guess
01:02:22and it's
01:02:22hard for me
01:02:23to talk
01:02:23about
01:02:24so.
01:02:26No but
01:02:26Alessandra's
01:02:27asking
01:02:27what do you
01:02:28think you've
01:02:29done to build
01:02:29the emotional
01:02:30connection?
01:02:30But you've
01:02:30said to me
01:02:31that you
01:02:31to build
01:02:32the emotional
01:02:32connection
01:02:32you need
01:02:33me to
01:02:33open up
01:02:33more about
01:02:34that
01:02:34but I'm
01:02:35explaining
01:02:35why I
01:02:35actually
01:02:36you know
01:02:39how important
01:02:40family is
01:02:40to me
01:02:40it's my
01:02:41biggest
01:02:41thing
01:02:41and you've
01:02:42said
01:02:42a few
01:02:43times
01:02:44oh yeah
01:02:44I'll tell
01:02:44you
01:02:44I'll pull
01:02:45you
01:02:45and I'll
01:02:46tell you
01:02:46whenever
01:02:46you're
01:02:47we're
01:02:48still
01:02:48four weeks
01:02:48down the
01:02:49line
01:02:49I don't
01:02:49know
01:02:49and I'm
01:02:50like
01:02:50yeah
01:02:51I was
01:02:57hoping
01:02:58that
01:02:58because I've
01:02:59been so
01:02:59open
01:03:00you would
01:03:00no you don't
01:03:01have to
01:03:02repay that
01:03:02you don't
01:03:03have to
01:03:03you just
01:03:03you see
01:03:04I mean
01:03:05you see
01:03:05me break
01:03:05literally
01:03:06break down
01:03:07Sierra
01:03:10have you
01:03:12opened up
01:03:12to anybody
01:03:12else in
01:03:13the group
01:03:13about your
01:03:14past and
01:03:14past experiences
01:03:15this
01:03:15uh
01:03:17Acton
01:03:24Adrian
01:03:24actually
01:03:24I had
01:03:25sorry
01:03:28what
01:03:30Sierra
01:03:43have you
01:03:44opened up
01:03:44to anybody
01:03:45else in
01:03:45the group
01:03:45about your
01:03:46past and
01:03:46past experiences
01:03:47Ash and Adrian
01:03:56actually I
01:03:57had
01:03:57sorry
01:04:01what
01:04:03about your
01:04:06past
01:04:06yeah
01:04:07I told you
01:04:08I told you
01:04:08about this
01:04:08a couple
01:04:09of weeks
01:04:09ago
01:04:10I don't
01:04:10even know
01:04:10about your
01:04:11past
01:04:11because it
01:04:13was at our
01:04:13apartment
01:04:14when you're
01:04:14watching the
01:04:15footage
01:04:15I thought
01:04:17I had told
01:04:17you that
01:04:17night
01:04:18that we
01:04:19had shared
01:04:20some stuff
01:04:20told me
01:04:23what
01:04:23what
01:04:24I don't
01:04:25know what
01:04:25you're on
01:04:25about
01:04:26I had told
01:04:30you about
01:04:30the conversation
01:04:31Adrian and I
01:04:32had had
01:04:32what was it
01:04:34about
01:04:34I don't
01:04:34know
01:04:35I don't
01:04:35know
01:04:35what this
01:04:36past comment
01:04:36is I don't
01:04:37know what
01:04:37you're on
01:04:37about
01:04:37you've
01:04:44shared more
01:04:44with him
01:04:45than you
01:04:45have
01:04:46I literally
01:04:46had told
01:04:47you this
01:04:47Sierra you
01:04:49have I
01:04:49swear in my
01:04:50little brother's
01:04:50life you have
01:04:50not mentioned
01:04:51anything about
01:04:51but for me it's
01:04:55the circumstances
01:04:56I don't like
01:04:58when you feel
01:04:58like feeling
01:04:59forced like I
01:05:00have to do
01:05:00something
01:05:00Adrian you
01:05:03were there
01:05:03obviously
01:05:04but do you
01:05:05remember
01:05:05he was speaking
01:05:06about as a
01:05:06challenge that
01:05:07would be had
01:05:07in confessions
01:05:08week talking
01:05:09about our
01:05:09past and I
01:05:10spoke to
01:05:11Sierra and I
01:05:12was like how
01:05:14I found it so
01:05:14hard and why
01:05:15I didn't do
01:05:15it because my
01:05:16mind went to
01:05:17certain places
01:05:17I didn't want
01:05:18to share with
01:05:18everyone and she
01:05:21felt the same
01:05:22so yeah the
01:05:27conversation
01:05:28started and we
01:05:28spoke about it
01:05:29and did you
01:05:30open up
01:05:31yeah
01:05:31oh
01:05:32well I just
01:05:43feel very
01:05:43confused that
01:05:44if she's
01:05:45shared that
01:05:45with someone
01:05:45else in the
01:05:47group but
01:05:48not to me
01:05:49I asked you
01:05:50multiple times
01:05:51along the
01:05:51honeymoon over
01:05:52the first three
01:05:52or four days
01:05:53and I just
01:05:54decided to
01:05:54leave it because
01:05:55you said when
01:05:56you're comfortable
01:05:56you will but
01:05:57you've been
01:05:57more comfortable
01:05:57with Adrian
01:05:58than you have
01:05:58me
01:05:58that's very
01:06:01confusing to
01:06:02me
01:06:02I've shared
01:06:04so much
01:06:06about past
01:06:08with you
01:06:08and nobody
01:06:10else in the
01:06:10group
01:06:11what I wrote
01:06:13in that letter
01:06:13in confessions
01:06:15week I broke
01:06:16down that night
01:06:17I broke down
01:06:19and I
01:06:21revisited
01:06:22something I
01:06:22thought I
01:06:23put away
01:06:23and I
01:06:27was
01:06:27that was a
01:06:30lot for me
01:06:30and you know
01:06:31it was
01:06:31so that
01:06:36was a
01:06:36pretty
01:06:37big thing
01:06:38that I
01:06:38did
01:06:39and the
01:06:40fact that
01:06:40it doesn't
01:06:42feel reciprocated
01:06:43coming off
01:06:45that but
01:06:45you can
01:06:46with someone
01:06:46else
01:06:47is very
01:06:48very strange
01:06:49and confusing
01:06:49to me
01:06:50can you
01:06:53can you
01:06:53understand why
01:06:54Billy's feeling
01:06:55clearly blindsided
01:06:56at the moment
01:06:56yeah
01:06:58I feel blindsided
01:07:03too though
01:07:03because Adrian
01:07:10said he opened up
01:07:11too which he
01:07:11didn't open up
01:07:12during our
01:07:13confessions
01:07:13week to me
01:07:14and then like
01:07:16you know to find
01:07:17out that he
01:07:18opened up so
01:07:19easily with
01:07:19someone else
01:07:20that's like
01:07:20that's a
01:07:21big F you
01:07:22to the face
01:07:23same
01:07:24same
01:07:25I'm not
01:07:27trying to come
01:07:27for you
01:07:28this is how
01:07:29I feel
01:07:29against Adrian
01:07:30I'm like
01:07:30I was really
01:07:32upset that night
01:07:33yeah I
01:07:34understand that
01:07:35I'm sorry
01:07:35what about
01:07:36me
01:07:37but you
01:07:44you have
01:07:45opened up
01:07:46at some
01:07:47point
01:07:47I mean
01:07:50I don't know
01:07:51I feel like
01:07:51it means
01:07:53serious defense
01:07:54we didn't have
01:07:5550 million cameras
01:07:55around us
01:07:56talking about
01:07:56certain things
01:07:57and I
01:07:58wouldn't
01:07:58I wouldn't
01:07:59be comfortable
01:07:59I'm sorry
01:07:59but that's
01:08:00a cop out
01:08:01that's a cop out
01:08:06because the
01:08:06cameras are
01:08:07not there
01:08:07at night
01:08:08when you're
01:08:08sleeping
01:08:08next to
01:08:09each other
01:08:09it means
01:08:18serious defense
01:08:19we didn't
01:08:20have 50 million
01:08:20cameras around
01:08:21us talking
01:08:21about certain
01:08:22things
01:08:22and I
01:08:23wouldn't
01:08:23I wouldn't
01:08:24be comfortable
01:08:24I'm sorry
01:08:25but that's
01:08:25a cop out
01:08:26that's a cop out
01:08:31because the
01:08:32cameras are
01:08:32not there
01:08:33at night
01:08:33when you're
01:08:33sleeping
01:08:34next to
01:08:34each other
01:08:34Sierra
01:08:41why do you
01:08:42feel more
01:08:43comfortable
01:08:43talking to
01:08:44Adrian
01:08:44than with
01:08:45Billy
01:08:46I don't know
01:08:48I just
01:08:49I don't know
01:08:49why I'm
01:08:50struggling
01:08:50to do that
01:08:51so much
01:08:51I just
01:08:53don't want
01:08:53him to
01:08:54be put off
01:08:55all the
01:08:55damaged goods
01:08:56I think
01:08:56that's
01:08:56probably a
01:08:56big thing
01:08:57that's
01:08:59pretty harsh
01:09:00but I
01:09:03wouldn't
01:09:03think that
01:09:04if you're
01:09:05being open
01:09:05with me
01:09:06I'm not
01:09:06going to
01:09:06think
01:09:06you're
01:09:06damaged goods
01:09:07I just
01:09:07I take
01:09:08the fact
01:09:08of you're
01:09:09wanting to
01:09:09open up
01:09:09on a deeper
01:09:10connection
01:09:10to me
01:09:10which is
01:09:11what I
01:09:11want
01:09:11can you
01:09:12ask me
01:09:13did you
01:09:13please
01:09:13I think
01:09:19it's pretty
01:09:20clear
01:09:20that
01:09:21the
01:09:21emotional
01:09:22connection
01:09:22needs a
01:09:23lot of
01:09:24work
01:09:24yeah
01:09:25and in
01:09:25order for
01:09:25that to
01:09:26happen
01:09:26you need
01:09:26to
01:09:27have the
01:09:28courage
01:09:29to take
01:09:29the step
01:09:29to start
01:09:30sharing
01:09:30those
01:09:31difficult
01:09:31topics
01:09:33yeah
01:09:34it's
01:09:36hard
01:09:37so
01:09:37yeah
01:09:38okay
01:09:40yeah
01:09:40okay
01:09:41yeah
01:09:41yeah
01:09:41yeah
01:09:42yeah
01:09:42yeah
01:09:43so there's
01:09:44some work
01:09:44to be
01:09:45done here
01:09:45we're
01:09:46going to
01:09:47go to
01:09:47the
01:09:47decision
01:09:47thank
01:09:48god
01:09:49Billy
01:09:52yeah
01:09:54I mean
01:09:55I'm
01:09:58staying
01:09:58Sierra
01:10:03I would
01:10:04like to
01:10:05stay another
01:10:06week
01:10:06to
01:10:06open up
01:10:08to
01:10:08Billy
01:10:08and have
01:10:09the
01:10:09opportunity
01:10:10to have
01:10:10the
01:10:10conversations
01:10:11that we
01:10:12need to
01:10:12have
01:10:12you can
01:10:17go back
01:10:17to
01:10:17the
01:10:17challenge
01:10:18thank you
01:10:18why can't
01:10:27you just
01:10:27say
01:10:27she is such
01:10:28a great
01:10:29wife
01:10:29she took
01:10:30me out
01:10:30for dinner
01:10:31because you
01:10:31weren't a good
01:10:32wife in the
01:10:32first two weeks
01:10:33you were horrible
01:10:33to me
01:10:34tomorrow night
01:10:35took you three
01:10:36weeks to buy
01:10:37me flowers
01:10:37what are you
01:10:39doing
01:10:39I'm trying
01:10:40I'm trying to
01:10:40teach you
01:10:40what are you
01:10:41doing here
01:10:41one step
01:10:42forward
01:10:43ten steps
01:10:44back
01:10:45when Jackie
01:10:46pulls out a list
01:10:47of Ryan's
01:10:48past indiscretions
01:10:50who do you think
01:10:51you are
01:10:51two brand new
01:10:55singles enter
01:10:56the experiment
01:10:57I've never
01:10:58I've never had
01:10:58a boyfriend
01:10:59so
01:10:59going from
01:11:01single
01:11:01to married
01:11:02is scary
01:11:03but when
01:11:05Jackie and
01:11:06Ryan air
01:11:06their dirty
01:11:07laundry
01:11:08why was I
01:11:08crying this morning
01:11:09but you cry
01:11:10if there's not a
01:11:10full length mirror
01:11:11in the room
01:11:11they turn this
01:11:12bride's dream
01:11:13day
01:11:14get a grip
01:11:14come on sweetie
01:11:15into a nightmare
01:11:17can't deal with you
01:11:18today
01:11:20it's not about us
01:11:22so deflective
01:11:23Jackie
01:11:24it's not your wedding
01:11:25you
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