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🔥 MAFS Australia S12 E12 – Explosive Dinner Party Chaos!
In this jaw-dropping episode, tensions reach new heights as a heated dinner party erupts into chaos. Accusations of infidelity and verbal altercations take center stage, leaving relationships hanging by a thread. Don't miss the explosive moments that have everyone talking! Watch now to witness the drama unfold.
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In this jaw-dropping episode, tensions reach new heights as a heated dinner party erupts into chaos. Accusations of infidelity and verbal altercations take center stage, leaving relationships hanging by a thread. Don't miss the explosive moments that have everyone talking! Watch now to witness the drama unfold.
#MAFSAustralia #RealityTV #DramaUnfolds #CouplesChallenge #EmotionalRollercoaster #MAFS2025 #RealityShowDrama #LoveAndConflict #UnfilteredTruths
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00:00:00Previously...
00:00:01Hello!
00:00:02...intimacy week saw Alessandra empower the wives with a brand new task.
00:00:08I want you all to create for your partner your ultimate fantasy night.
00:00:14Some couples became closer than ever.
00:00:16I'm already feeling a lot more connected.
00:00:19I could see myself falling for Jeff.
00:00:22While others...
00:00:23Can you do it nice?
00:00:24I am.
00:00:25...struggled.
00:00:26I don't think Billy thought that was sexy.
00:00:27I thought he thought it was funny.
00:00:28Am I not doing a good job?
00:00:30Not really.
00:00:31How hard is it to just be like, hey, I made a mistake, you're gorgeous.
00:00:36Like...
00:00:37Because that would be a lie.
00:00:40For Morena and Tony...
00:00:42There's other sides to romance.
00:00:44She was happy.
00:00:45I was happy.
00:00:46Laughing.
00:00:47That's what it's about.
00:00:48It was a case of one step forward...
00:00:49I made the mistake.
00:00:50You told me not to talk.
00:00:52...two steps back.
00:00:53You can f*** off.
00:00:55And when it was the husband's turn to open up to Alessandra...
00:00:59And then suddenly, like, the crazy eyes came out.
00:01:01Like...
00:01:02What?
00:01:03Ryan's unfiltered comments...
00:01:05I've got to say, like, she is awesome.
00:01:08Sent shockwaves through the experiment.
00:01:11I'm just gobsmacked.
00:01:13What is wrong with some people?
00:01:14Well, babe, we've got to say something at the dinner party.
00:01:16I have no doubt that it has to be brought up.
00:01:19Tonight...
00:01:20Dinner is served.
00:01:23Emotions run high.
00:01:25I'm not done.
00:01:26I'm not done with you, little boy.
00:01:28As Morena reaches breaking point.
00:01:31Does your girl go home every weekend?
00:01:33Does anyone here go home every weekend?
00:01:35And...
00:01:36No, no.
00:01:37Listen, listen.
00:01:38You're delusional.
00:01:39She came in swinging.
00:01:41While Intimacy Week has worked its magic for most of our couples...
00:01:45There is a real connection here.
00:01:47There is good, deep communication.
00:01:49The more that this experiment goes on,
00:01:51the more I realise that Geoff is an amazing person.
00:01:54That's nice.
00:01:56That's lovely.
00:02:01The question on everyone's lips...
00:02:03I'm so confused.
00:02:04Has he told her about that comment?
00:02:06Does she know?
00:02:07I don't know.
00:02:08Everyone at the table is fired up and want answers.
00:02:11Will Ryan own up to those comments?
00:02:18Be honest, because you never know what's going to come back to bite you.
00:02:22It's been three weeks since the couples entered the experiment.
00:02:43And tonight, they're preparing to attend the second dinner party.
00:02:47The way you look, I don't even know if I want to go to the dinner party anymore.
00:02:54And after an eventful Intimacy Week,
00:02:56Alessandra's tasks have made some of the couple's relationships even stronger.
00:03:01You actually look like next level.
00:03:03You look so good.
00:03:05You look good as well.
00:03:06Look at you.
00:03:08In your three piece.
00:03:09Intimacy Week has had a positive impact on our relationship.
00:03:13Oh, yeah.
00:03:14It's allowed me to feel more closer to Paul in every aspect.
00:03:19And the good vibes continue down the hallway at Jamie and Dave's.
00:03:24And be careful of those nips.
00:03:26No, no, you've got to take me in properly.
00:03:28No crazy hand gestures, okay?
00:03:30My relationship with Dave is really good.
00:03:32I'm just really all icky and shit.
00:03:34It's gross.
00:03:35I love it.
00:03:36I'll watch your nips and you'll get my back.
00:03:38I've always got your back.
00:03:40Rhi and Jeff, who are taking the slow and steady approach to their intimacy,
00:03:45have also been seeing progression after last week's tasks.
00:03:49Over the last few weeks, Jeff and I have just been getting closer and closer.
00:03:54Intimacy and the romantic side of things, Jeff and I have been a little bit slower.
00:03:58But during Intimacy Week, we shared a kiss.
00:04:01It was a great kiss.
00:04:02Very passionate.
00:04:03That's obviously brought us closer together.
00:04:05Everything just feels really right at the moment.
00:04:07Like, the pace we're moving at, I can tell we both like each other a lot.
00:04:11The more this experiment has gone on, the more grateful I am that I am with Jeff.
00:04:15I'm enjoying it.
00:04:16I want the relationship to go further.
00:04:18We're in a really good spot at the moment.
00:04:20While Intimacy Week has solidified many of the couple's bonds,
00:04:25for Morena and Tony, it's a different story.
00:04:29Kind of matching, pink and pink.
00:04:32Hmm.
00:04:34The atmosphere is tense between the couple,
00:04:37after a fiery argument erupted during Intimacy Week.
00:04:41You told me to stop talking, so I'm not going to talk.
00:04:44You then got up and walked off.
00:04:46I won't allow anyone to treat me like that.
00:04:49You should know how to treat a woman.
00:04:51I hope you're really happy.
00:04:53Think about your words that you say to people.
00:04:55Cam, maybe we need some time off.
00:04:57Give me a break.
00:05:01After spending a night in his home in Wollongong,
00:05:04Tony returned to their apartment
00:05:06and has been trying to make peace with his wife, Morena.
00:05:09You look good today, Morena.
00:05:11Thank you, Tony.
00:05:13But despite Tony's attempts to bring the warmth
00:05:16back to their marriage,
00:05:18the atmosphere remains frosty.
00:05:23You're so lucky you don't need to do make-up, Tony.
00:05:27You just have to have a shower.
00:05:29Kind of comb your hair and you're done.
00:05:33So this week was very hard for me
00:05:35and I took some time out and, you know,
00:05:37went home and I needed some space.
00:05:40But I am trying.
00:05:43I've got to bring it back out of her again,
00:05:45the happiness and smile again.
00:05:46I want it to feel good, you know.
00:05:48So I've got to turn it around a little bit.
00:05:52What do you think about tonight's centre stage
00:05:55there on the centre table?
00:05:56Who do you think is going to get?
00:05:58Yeah, I think it's you and me, Tony.
00:06:00You reckon?
00:06:01Yep.
00:06:02Well.
00:06:03I feel very undervalued.
00:06:07So they're going to probably question that.
00:06:11Hmm.
00:06:12You've not wanted to spend time, alone time, with me.
00:06:16Why do you have to just take off?
00:06:18That's not okay.
00:06:21Why?
00:06:22What's on your mind?
00:06:23Where are you?
00:06:24What are you thinking?
00:06:25Why do you have to just take off?
00:06:26It can't be hot and cold.
00:06:27It can't be a switch.
00:06:29I have a problem with that.
00:06:35Tony disappears because he can't cope.
00:06:40He didn't want to hang out with me.
00:06:41And I don't know why.
00:06:43What's there not to love about me?
00:06:45I don't hammer people.
00:06:47I'm just honest.
00:06:48And I'm extremely considerate of people's feelings.
00:06:52And there's no awareness there with Tony.
00:06:55He's got a wall.
00:06:56He's like, it goes way up there.
00:06:58It goes way up there.
00:07:00What do I do with that?
00:07:04As Tony and Mirena struggle to see eye to eye,
00:07:08Sierra is struggling to move forward
00:07:10in her relationship with Billy.
00:07:12Billy and I have just got a very much friendly, jokey vibe
00:07:16at the moment.
00:07:17So it hasn't progressed further.
00:07:19But it's just not enough.
00:07:20I kind of need a bit more physical touch
00:07:22from a romantic partner.
00:07:24I'm just worried that if we stay too long in the friend zone,
00:07:27that's all it's going to be.
00:07:31But Sierra is not the only bride feeling frustrated
00:07:33with the state of her relationship.
00:07:35Anything cool, guys?
00:07:37I'm not sure.
00:07:38We've been a bit rocky.
00:07:39Adrienne and I, we do have chemistry.
00:07:42And there is a strong physical connection.
00:07:44But I do have very real concerns about whether or not
00:07:48we're compatible outside of this experiment.
00:07:50I regularly think that Adrienne's very selfish in a relationship.
00:07:54Relationships work both ways.
00:07:56It needs to be 50-50.
00:07:57I'm doing things for him.
00:07:59And I'm showing him that I care.
00:08:01But I'm just not getting that same energy in return.
00:08:04I'm not sure our lifestyles align.
00:08:06I know it's premature to be thinking about these things,
00:08:08but as a mum, we always look to the future.
00:08:11As Afina contemplates her future,
00:08:14Jamie looks to the heavens for a glimpse into the other couples.
00:08:19What are you picking up on the cards?
00:08:21Is that your husband looks suave or what?
00:08:24That's exactly what I said.
00:08:25Like, I'm getting, like, there's a strong male voice.
00:08:30It's giving me, like, like, yeah, like a male kind of coming in strong.
00:08:38But, like, devil, the shadow.
00:08:42Someone's shadow works.
00:08:43I think someone's going to be a bit more exposed
00:08:46and we're going to kind of see exactly who they are.
00:08:51We've got judgement as well, which is, like, your revelation.
00:08:54Like, judgement day is coming.
00:08:56So, like, this person can't hide anymore.
00:09:02And conviction.
00:09:03I think it's Uncle Ryan.
00:09:08Ask him anything and he'll just dig himself a hole.
00:09:10The words that have come out of Ryan's mouth at the workshop
00:09:13about Jackie were pretty absurd.
00:09:15Suddenly, like, the crazy eyes came out of me, like...
00:09:19And, like, I was like, OK, this is...
00:09:22I've got to say, like, she gives awesome...
00:09:25I'm just going to say, like, that's...
00:09:27..I think disgust in a group setting behind her back,
00:09:34it's not on.
00:09:35I think it's disgusting.
00:09:37That's not how you go about it.
00:09:38It's a schoolboy sort of mentality
00:09:40and it's not, yeah, it's not great.
00:09:42I mean, there's a lot of questions
00:09:43that I think we should be asking just as a group,
00:09:46as in a whole.
00:09:48I'm keen to get stuck into Ryan and Jackie's relationship.
00:09:51Yeah, me too. Yeah.
00:09:53So...
00:09:54I struggled with a couple of comments Ryan made
00:09:55when we had our workshop with Alessandra
00:09:57and we don't know if Jackie knows what he said.
00:10:00And, um, yeah, I feel bad for her,
00:10:04but, um, yeah, it's going to come out tonight,
00:10:06so we'll see how he handles the situation.
00:10:10But Jackie and Ryan are coming into tonight's dinner party
00:10:13with a fresh perspective.
00:10:15After last night, the pair decided to push the reset button
00:10:19following a turbulent intimacy week.
00:10:22Yeah, the last two days have been great, haven't they?
00:10:24I know.
00:10:25The best thing that could have happened for us.
00:10:27Yeah, definitely, hey.
00:10:28I'm really happy walking in with Ryan tonight.
00:10:30And intimacy week has had moments
00:10:32where we've both acknowledged we disagree,
00:10:34but now we're like, you know what?
00:10:35Like, we didn't sign up for an easy task.
00:10:37We signed up to be here and see this through,
00:10:40so let's just try and do our best to make the marriage work.
00:10:44We've put aside our differences
00:10:46and we're working really well as a team.
00:10:48It's, um, going in a positive trajectory.
00:10:51Like, yeah, we do have a lot of foundations
00:10:54that we're working on and exploring.
00:10:56Yes, we're in the rebuild stage.
00:10:58We've reset. We're both on the same page.
00:11:00We're looking for the positives moving forward
00:11:01and we're really happy with each other.
00:11:03So we're both really enjoying each other's company
00:11:05and just feel quite strong and united as a team.
00:11:07I'm looking forward to the dinner party tonight
00:11:09because I feel like it's nice to be by your side.
00:11:12We've stitched it together and tonight
00:11:14it's going to pop off a little bit, but...
00:11:16You think it's going to pop?
00:11:18Yeah, yeah, I don't know.
00:11:19Not necessarily with us.
00:11:20There's no big reveal for us.
00:11:22We've just had nothing to hide.
00:11:24Like, for example, if we get questioned tonight,
00:11:26like, together we'll know what the answer is straight away.
00:11:29Yeah.
00:11:30Might even say the same thing at the same time.
00:11:32How are you feeling about dinner party?
00:11:34Yeah, I'm excited, actually.
00:11:36It'll be fun.
00:11:37How about you?
00:11:38Yeah, I'm looking forward to it.
00:11:40It'll be good to catch up with everyone.
00:11:41I think I want to speak to, like, Ryan and that,
00:11:43or what comment was it at the workshop.
00:11:47Do you think Jackie knows?
00:11:50I'm going to go with I don't think Jackie knows.
00:11:53We've been very honest,
00:11:54which is what the experiment asked for.
00:11:56I think we're both growing and maturing as a result.
00:11:59Yeah.
00:12:00And that's the advantage of being us as a team right now.
00:12:02Just open and honest.
00:12:03Yeah.
00:12:04Yeah.
00:12:05Well, is that honest?
00:12:06He's the only policy.
00:12:07So I don't know if she will like that Ryan shared that
00:12:10with all the boys.
00:12:11I'd like to get in there and, you know,
00:12:13make sure that Jackie does know about the situation.
00:12:16Did you know that your fella's saying that you've got crazy eyes,
00:12:19but you give .
00:12:20I don't think you need to be disrespectful to women.
00:12:22And I think Jackie needs to know about it.
00:12:24I'm sure we'll navigate it later.
00:12:26The dinner party is the best place to get to the bottom of things.
00:12:29And I think tonight we're going to get to the bottom of a few things.
00:12:32That's the thing.
00:12:33Like, we've been super honest.
00:12:35We're trying so hard.
00:12:36We're working on us.
00:12:37I think Jackie and I have really grown this week,
00:12:40and we've pressed the reset button.
00:12:41We're an open book.
00:12:42And I can say that honestly.
00:12:43Like, we thought intimacy week was going to cook our goose,
00:12:46but instead it made us stronger.
00:12:48So if any questions come at us, we're fully prepared.
00:12:52I'm not worried at all right now.
00:13:07Dinner party number two.
00:13:09Yes.
00:13:10Intimacy week has been completed,
00:13:12and we will see how all of these couples are doing
00:13:15after all those exercises, all of that disclosure,
00:13:18ultimate fantasy night workshops.
00:13:20A lot went on this week.
00:13:23And it's exciting, isn't it?
00:13:24Because you can see a change in body language
00:13:26as a result of what you do with them during the week.
00:13:28It's one thing when they speak to me,
00:13:30when they see me at the workshop,
00:13:32but then things happen afterwards.
00:13:34They have to process back home with their partner,
00:13:36so you never know.
00:13:40Okay, here we go.
00:13:41Guys, you shouldn't have.
00:13:47Oh!
00:13:48Hey!
00:13:49Red Hot!
00:13:50Darren and Jamie.
00:13:51Walking in hand in hand.
00:13:52Thanks for coming.
00:13:53Cocktail party for two.
00:13:54Well, these two were pretty solid at the commitment ceremony,
00:13:58weren't they?
00:13:59Absolutely.
00:14:00When we last saw them.
00:14:01And they seem to remain pretty solid.
00:14:02Oh, no, you're going to have to pop the bottle.
00:14:04Can you pop it whilst I wait over here?
00:14:06Away from the...
00:14:07Oh, yeah, you scaredy cat.
00:14:08Make it quick because I'm thirsty.
00:14:10Just be careful with it.
00:14:11Don't let it shoot up in the air or something,
00:14:13it'll take my eye out.
00:14:18Okay.
00:14:19Done?
00:14:20It's all safe now.
00:14:21Yes.
00:14:22I don't know, because what if it kills me or something?
00:14:23It could shoot up and it could hit me in the eye.
00:14:26Oh, thank you.
00:14:27Intimacy Week has definitely brought us closer together.
00:14:30Dave and I have been very, like, in a fairytale scenario.
00:14:33David's gorgeous out there.
00:14:35We are both people that value loyalty and partnership.
00:14:39You're gorgeous in here.
00:14:40Like, he has my back, I have his.
00:14:43That was cheesy, but I liked it.
00:14:45And we are the same height laying down.
00:14:50Like, it's been Intimacy Week.
00:14:52I kind of want to know, like, if any intimacy's happened.
00:14:55Well, there was a lack of it, that's for sure.
00:14:57Well, that's why...
00:14:58Like I said, if we all were getting laid...
00:14:59Not for us.
00:15:00Well, not for us.
00:15:01Why do you think I have a smile, my thoughts?
00:15:03They have a very nice balance between all of her energy and just his softness and kindness.
00:15:10Yeah.
00:15:11Sounds dangerous saying fudge.
00:15:12It sounds, but it's just your face.
00:15:13It's your face.
00:15:14They are very connected in how comfortable they are in their sexuality.
00:15:19I think that's a part of their relationship that is really also bringing them together.
00:15:23You have such a smiley fudge.
00:15:24You have such a smiley fudge.
00:15:25I do.
00:15:26Well, smile my fudge.
00:15:30Oh!
00:15:31Woo!
00:15:32Oh, Karina and Paul.
00:15:34Oh.
00:15:35Oh.
00:15:36Hi, guys.
00:15:37Can you guys stop it?
00:15:38Can you guys stop it?
00:15:40Very loved up, very relaxed, very connected, very happy.
00:15:44Such a gorgeous couple.
00:15:45Oh, my God.
00:15:46You look so good.
00:15:47Hey, B, man.
00:15:48Yeah, man.
00:15:49We've been good, man.
00:15:50Yeah.
00:15:51How are you two going?
00:15:52Mate.
00:15:53It's rock solid.
00:15:54Both sessions of the workshop were really good for both of them.
00:15:57Wonderful.
00:15:58They're very positive.
00:15:59So, you two are in a good place, then?
00:16:00Yeah.
00:16:01It's so nice to hear, honestly.
00:16:02So, I think it's...
00:16:03I've been loving spending time with Karina, because it's like, you know, you're like...
00:16:06you just want to, like, you're celebrating your wins.
00:16:08Yeah, cool.
00:16:09You're like, this is so good.
00:16:10And we just want to, like, roll around in the sun to reach him out, I'm in.
00:16:13Oh, my God.
00:16:15Yay!
00:16:17Green Jeff.
00:16:18You guys clean up.
00:16:19Clean up.
00:16:20You guys look stunning.
00:16:21I have such high hopes for these two, you guys.
00:16:24They're comfortable with each other.
00:16:26There's so many things about them that just gel seamlessly, easily.
00:16:30Yes.
00:16:31They really blend in over there.
00:16:32If we sat on that couch, it wouldn't see us.
00:16:34Well, for those two, they're really trying to have a relationship again after being together
00:16:41a year ago.
00:16:42Sure, they've got that prior experience, but they seem to be bringing a little...
00:16:47a level of portion, I think.
00:16:49Cheers.
00:16:50Cheers, everyone.
00:16:51You seem loved up walking through the door.
00:16:53Nah, we're in a good spot.
00:16:55Every day, really, we're, like, sort of getting better, strength to strength type things.
00:16:58We're just trying to, like, take it slow and do everything right, and hopefully it doesn't
00:17:03work.
00:17:04There was part of me at the start of the experiment, and I thought, damn it, like, I'm matched
00:17:08with someone I've already been with.
00:17:10But he's done nothing but show me maturity, respect, and, I don't know, everything just
00:17:15feels really right at the moment.
00:17:16The pace we're moving at, I feel really happy.
00:17:19Yeah.
00:17:20Well, I will ask.
00:17:21Are you guys having sex?
00:17:23No, we're not.
00:17:24No, we're not.
00:17:25What?
00:17:26We've already been there and done it, so it's just, like, a bizarre situation.
00:17:33Obviously, we're building towards that, but there is a little bit of pressure there.
00:17:37Like, besides that part of our relationship, like, we're going amazing.
00:17:39We're really good.
00:17:40Yeah.
00:17:41Yeah.
00:17:42They're building, like, emotional connection.
00:17:44They already know that sex can work.
00:17:46Yeah.
00:17:47Been there, done that, and they've had a really good time at it.
00:17:49It's not the area for them.
00:17:51Yeah, I like that.
00:17:52But, like, I'm telling you, once you get a bit freaky in the sheets, I think that will
00:17:55get you over the hump, literally.
00:17:56Yeah.
00:17:57Well, maybe after a few drinks tonight.
00:18:00Yeah, I like that.
00:18:01Oh my God.
00:18:02Oh.
00:18:03Oh my God.
00:18:04Oh my God.
00:18:05Oh, my God.
00:18:06Oh my God.
00:18:07Oh my God.
00:18:08Oh my God.
00:18:09Oh my God.
00:18:10Yeah.
00:18:11Oh my God.
00:18:12Sierra and Billie, and they walked in at least holding hands for the first five or six
00:18:15steps.
00:18:16There's a little bit of a PDA.
00:18:17We'll take it.
00:18:18Oh, you're popping another bottle, yeah?
00:18:19I'm an independent woman.
00:18:20Definitely feel like we have made progress.
00:18:23We've found a bit more of a deeper connection.
00:18:26What's going on?
00:18:27Got it.
00:18:28happen more naturally which i was worried that it was going to be pressurized because of intimacy
00:18:32week so it's coming but it's just coming slower than maybe usual billy and sierra are really in
00:18:38a very sort of friendly awkward zone but i'm hoping we'll see them back on track i'm hoping
00:18:44that's the case absolutely coming in pink athena and adrian yeah here we have a couple entering
00:18:55very much connected and then as soon as they've seen the others they've gone their separate ways
00:18:59what's cooking good looking no not much bro give us an update what's going on with uh with the
00:19:04peanut nah we're good intimacy week brought you closer you reckon oh so adrian's pretty much good
00:19:08to go whenever it's just i've got it initiate it no not initiate it like we joke about it but if i
00:19:13was laying in bed and we were just laying there and we were joking i was like i think so that way
00:19:18turns me on i'm ready to go look adrian and i we've had some frustrating moments but in saying that
00:19:24there's chemistry and there's a physical connection don't look at each other right now it's not the
00:19:28time do we align outside the experiment i'm not sure i'm still unpacking all but we've chosen to be
00:19:34here we knew what we signed up for so let's embrace it
00:19:42i don't know where the conversations are going to lead today dude like last week i heard marina
00:19:48honestly screaming her guts out in the hallway and i was like what the hell is going on there's
00:19:54obviously a lot going on between tony and her oh tony and marina tony and i've had a jack quite recently
00:20:00he told me a lot about everything that he has gone through like they are very distant apparently he
00:20:05feels a bit pressured by marina she's quite full on and tony's not used to that i think
00:20:10the other day sure you've seen that too yeah i know i look miserable how long do we have to the
00:20:19right please i think i think tony and marina will probably be have a bit more of a spicier night
00:20:25tonight um marina came really open but then she also is firing
00:20:31i really want to help them like i want to try media as best as i can stop stop stop stop yeah
00:20:43no stop because that's the door okay
00:20:46hey hey hey hey ah marina and tony look at everybody look amazing
00:20:59looking straight at the group not touching not even walking side by side no hello hi how are you
00:21:07good good very separate well at the groom's workshop tony spoke about having a breakthrough
00:21:12and about feeling connected to her like a red but i have not caught up with them since so i have no
00:21:18idea what happened after that so just just half
00:21:26i can't wait to hear about your guys intimacy week and what you've been up to
00:21:32it was suitable for where we're at will you spend some time please i'll say hello to the boys
00:21:39so every weekend has taken off but i haven't got to come on that but everyone else at least i had
00:21:46one of them i haven't of course do you come better from the painting
00:21:53it's got to be worth a lot of money one day it will be mate it will be
00:21:56do you think like intimacy where are you closer or not it's like a roller coaster you know it's a bit
00:22:03tricky man how am i meant to build a bond with anybody when they just vanish
00:22:11by yourself sad i don't know anyone he just doesn't get it do you feel like you're on backwards
00:22:17or forwards right yeah okay i think we're on um right now i think we're kind of just
00:22:23yeah yeah and i'm trying we do have our ups and downs step by step i want to get to that
00:22:32comfortable place for me it's kind of like a it's been a bit of a challenge you know the arguing
00:22:37fighting i'm a positive person we need to try and work on communication with me i feel undervalued
00:22:43i've got this man who just wants to be a child you know but for me to sit down and start talking
00:22:48romance and shit yeah i'm out tony doesn't like deep and meaningful conversations he just wants
00:22:52to have fun and to be friends with everyone you hate me like looking into your eyes i would have
00:22:56fell asleep man so it's really difficult he just doesn't want to grow up looking to my eyes all i
00:23:04asked for in this experiment is give me an alpha man i've got tony still to come has he told her about
00:23:14that comment does she know i i don't know the group want answers jackie said that you guys aren't
00:23:21intimate and then you said to the boys you are is that true or false in what way me it's not okay
00:23:27at the end of the day to talk to you about your wife behind their back but will ryan tell jackie the
00:23:33truth who are you girls excited to chat to tonight that you want to get some gossip about like what's
00:23:45happening i think well i think everything's gonna be like a bit of a jackie and ryan show at the moment
00:23:50yeah adrian told me he spoke about it quite negatively oh at the sex workshop he had many comments at the
00:23:57workshop if you went to a room with a bunch of men and called me crazy eye for example but she gives
00:24:04that is not okay like that's actually something that's not okay and to say something like that to
00:24:07the group of men can be quite inflammatory can't it and then that spreads to their partners and
00:24:14that is making these women uncomfortable you can't be doing that you can't you can't be really
00:24:18negative about your partner and then talk about them actually in the same conversation i don't know how
00:24:22they overcome that i couldn't come back i couldn't come back from that if i was jackie and i would
00:24:28honestly feel so offended embarrassed and i would be angry dave came home kissed the off after the sex
00:24:37workshop he was like i regret not saying anything and i let it slide that is exactly what jeff said
00:24:43as that's what billy said as well it definitely recently has been a it's been a chef turn and
00:24:55turn in energy yeah the phoenix was reborn
00:25:00how'd you feel when you sort of mentioned like that crazy eye comment that was a bit joke said that
00:25:05as a insult yeah yeah yeah yeah of course she'll take it out of course yeah especially if it comes
00:25:14from here everyone's probably going to want to unpack everyone's relationship to be honest
00:25:20what are we doing our stands are all turned up baby and then saying comments about jackie
00:25:26we didn't even know that they were doing that but at a workshop with the boys like it's like
00:25:32cold as she yeah for him to say that about jackie something i wouldn't say like i have a lot of
00:25:37respect for women that's something i really pride myself on so i think that's why i sort of stood on
00:25:42it i hope if we bring it up she goes oh yeah we've talked about it already no chance no chance i think
00:25:47it's disrespectful yeah well he doesn't tell you that they're in a good place so it's very strange for
00:25:52them to say are there any outstanding discussions i don't think so hey
00:26:07he said it like was nothing and then just moved on what i'm very keen to see is how
00:26:12not just the women are going to confront him but how the guys yeah because we've seen in the past
00:26:17brotherhood is strong but i'm hoping that this sort of behavior these sort of comments from ryan
00:26:22they'll actually call him out and hold him to account tonight yeah
00:26:28your palms are sweaty and nervous just hot
00:26:37i think when jackie comes in we've got to pull her aside and maybe like sus what's going on
00:26:43ready mister yep get out
00:26:47i just hope intimacy week is maybe growing them closer together
00:26:57my lady hello hello
00:27:00we're a team in this yeah support each other no matter what here deal 100
00:27:11hey jackie and ryan here they are
00:27:17kids i feel so awkward now that we've all been speaking about them
00:27:24and ryan has no idea they're talking about this so he's clueless at the moment
00:27:29oh look at this 24 carrot magic how are you bro they're going couple have you guys brought up
00:27:35fucking months oh yeah so i was explaining to all the girls like just um like some of the comments
00:27:42and i said that obviously like you're quite fired up about it yeah i think everyone's just confused
00:27:47like that seems to be the general consensus when that's like a good opportunity to get them both
00:27:50in the room and ask the question overall overall good we're so good we're so happy like
00:27:54yeah okay okay good that's it reset reset is the thing okay they say beta reset i'm not sure i buy
00:28:05it so much praise the reset button yeah we found it it was found it was under the ricky yeah it does not
00:28:10match their words and what they say about each other behind their backs and there's just a lot of up and
00:28:15downs there thank you i'm about to come we need a filling in on everything that's been going on
00:28:23since last time this week i'm great yeah so ryan and i we had a reset from like last week
00:28:33bro reset refocus rebuild yeah just communicating so much better hey and we just decided to
00:28:38stop bickering stop arguing forget about the past let me tell you something i've learned
00:28:44if you get some of your dirty laundry out and you're real and honest about it then you've got
00:28:48all the answers already you know i feel as if it was like almost healthy for us to do that
00:28:52to be unhealthy first and then get the petty out of the way and then now we're just rebuilding
00:28:58focus on the good stuff we've got going for each other and have fun
00:29:04we both are very physically affectionate so we really like cuddling each other and kissing like
00:29:09you're knocking boots are you having sex
00:29:16no no we're not having sex
00:29:20are you doing stuff though
00:29:21not really wait what i'm really confused i just want to know if jackie and ryan are doing the
00:29:34deed or something because one says this one says that and to be honest that's what i want to know
00:29:38do we have any mouth to penis no no like we're literally like no i don't know the ryan jackie story
00:29:48doesn't add up and of course the girls know this throwaway line that ryan has made
00:29:54it'll be up to ryan to own up and clarify because he was the one who offered the information nobody
00:30:01was probing him about that yeah it's just it's just at the stage we're building an emotional connection
00:30:07yeah
00:30:12i know it's hard to believe i know it's hard to believe but it's the truth yeah
00:30:16i'm so confused because there's definitely something going on here someone's lying someone's
00:30:24not telling the truth do you want another drink i feel like i might yeah you're gonna do you want me to
00:30:29come on yeah
00:30:36i just that is so awkward just pretend to let you want a drink or something oh look at the glasses um
00:30:44that's really awkward because he's gone and announced everyone that they are in fact doing
00:30:48the deed and now she just said that they aren't the truth will come out because if she's saying no
00:30:53he's saying yeah but like do they have an agreement not to say anything is that why she's not saying
00:30:57anything i'm super trusting it's like half like half a story here it ain't it ain't aligning jackie
00:31:04expressed how they weren't intimate ryan said they are intimate but again in a very lads derogative
00:31:13kind of way which is not cool and that's a whole issue in itself like what's the truth because
00:31:18nothing makes sense is she not wanting to say it in front of everyone like if she'd be uncomfortable
00:31:23if that's the case like or like did he just make that up just literally look cool yeah exactly i'll
00:31:29talk about that later right one of them's lying regardless what it is owner i don't like lying
00:31:36be honest because you never know what's going to come back to buy you once again jackie and ryan
00:31:44have confused the out of me dinner is served hey i'm hungry let's go see where we're all sitting
00:31:56oh my god i hope so i know i think a lot is brewing here jackie and i are very prepared for
00:32:05tonight i think we're in a healthy place to just keep focusing on that team energy and supporting
00:32:11each other and putting into place what we've what we've learned this week thank you dinner party number
00:32:16two is going to be scintillating feeling good
00:32:33oh nice oh hey see
00:32:35there's a little bit of nervous energy around the table of course there's a lot that's unspoken
00:32:45at the moment big cheers to everybody yeah cheers guys second dinner party let's go
00:33:06jackie and ryan the group is suspicious of them ryan said something inappropriate and disrespectful
00:33:13everyone at the table is fired up and want answers
00:33:25ryan right talk us with the jacket the jacket talk us through it mate well i've never worn gold
00:33:31before he was going to supporting his wife tonight well she had the goal picked out like two weeks ago
00:33:37i had to do something hey yeah right okay ryan and jacket they came in quite
00:33:43confident into the dinner party tonight but then there were a few things mentioned one of the
00:33:48things that he says is jackie gives
00:33:53i personally am not someone who would speak really bluntly about things that my partner and i have done
00:34:00especially considering apparently they aren't intimate
00:34:03so where the does that come from how's your week been how was intimacy week good good good yeah
00:34:15we're like a bit apprehensive about it hey but it's turned good yeah it's turned good yeah what did
00:34:19you guys get up to uh so we uh had the uh we had the honey bird at like lingerie task thing we had to go
00:34:26there and pick out like a few different looks and whatnot yeah we settled on a red one no i mean
00:34:31jackie would look hot and red yeah oh we we established that hey we established that
00:34:40by the looks of things they came in very united
00:34:45has he told her about that comment does she know have they kind of come together i i don't know
00:34:50and they left us this like little um polaroid camera to take sexy snaps i had my bonds on as
00:34:57well that's it and i was like jackie do that and get your head down we literally had a lot of fun and
00:35:03like we now we've got this cute little thing next to my bed that's like a private shrine it's so cute
00:35:09you're not feeling it no i'm not i'm nothing he looks nervous to me he's sweating he is sweating
00:35:14what we saw with jackie and ryan on the couch at the commitment ceremony they were very inconsistent
00:35:22for the group they're seeing behaviors from them again which doesn't really make sense to them and
00:35:28that's why the ryan jackie story doesn't add up it was so good because we don't bottle stuff either
00:35:34we just get it out we don't let it simmer in the room it's always addressed within like a few hours hey
00:35:38like yeah like i i believe that you can't have 100 peace in any sort of marriage you know like the
00:35:45little disagreements are bound to happen and i'm a realist you know i didn't come here expecting
00:35:51perfect magical you know connection i knew there was going to be some turbulence and there has been
00:35:56a little i feel it's healthy like solve solve problems early she's a lawyer i'm a project manager
00:36:03so it's like hard to give ground sometimes oh it's been other like huge issues that was it
00:36:10it's all over like what was what was one of the issues was it ryan saying that you got crazy eyes
00:36:22yeah i was like i've been looking at him for a week i bought my crazy eyes tonight
00:36:27no but ryan said it at the workshop to the boys yeah i know i do have crazy eyes i do
00:36:45are you okay with him saying that yeah i'm totally fine
00:36:48gee jackie's really minimizing this isn't she yeah letting him letting him off the hook
00:36:53some people find a compliment to have crazy eyes do you think that's a compliment i would love to have
00:36:59crazy eyes why it's fun the bottom line is talking like that about a woman in front of the lads
00:37:08is disrespectful and it's wrong and right now the group has tried to call out jackie and ryan
00:37:13they're not buying it they're pushing it back they're going to keep trying
00:37:16you know like we we can see the human things now can you guys no i don't i think it's quite
00:37:24disrespectful to call your wife and say that she's got crazy eyes to all the boys that's okay because
00:37:29ryan had already heard me say that but billy that's the difference mate is it first came from
00:37:34jake and we're able to turn it into a joke you know yeah i just didn't take it as a joke then i guess
00:37:39that was a so valuable thing to do like honestly it's and it's helped us a lot too
00:37:43they really seized on the crazy eyes comment you shouldn't talk disrespect for women and this and
00:37:48that i'm like i didn't say it first literally there was another groom that said it first
00:37:53jackie thought it was funny and then i just followed that sense of humor through
00:38:00jackie's playing the role of you're all mad i'm not mad
00:38:05jackie and ryan are going to have each other's backs here i actually agree i have crazy eyes me
00:38:14jackie thinks she was just trying to have his back but ryan's comments at the workshop
00:38:19made me feel really uncomfortable and it was a remark used to offend her
00:38:23poor girl sitting at home and he's slagging her off behind her back
00:38:26yeah i won't let it slide for sure they're not crazy jackie they're not crazy eyes i don't care
00:38:36it sounds like another dig let's see what i mean like that's that's a very dramatic i think we're
00:38:41getting really god i think this is a really pathetic conversation you know like we didn't sign up to
00:38:47have each other's back we signed up to work on a marriage and lay out our issues like yeah that is a
00:38:51marriage that is a marriage we were happy we're in a good place yeah reset refocus
00:38:59rebuild that's what we're doing yeah
00:39:04i think i think it's good that you guys are forming a partnership i really do i just the one
00:39:08the only question i had was jackie said that you guys aren't intimate and then you said to the boys
00:39:14you are is that true or false in what way
00:39:16you said she gives on the couch in front of the boys oh yes you did
00:39:23you threw a good bomb yeah
00:39:35the only question i had was jackie said that you guys aren't intimate and then you said to the boys
00:39:40you are is that true or false in what way
00:39:47you said she gives on the couch with one of the boys oh yes you did
00:39:53and then jackie said he fast happened you actually denied the fact that you had any intimacy at all
00:39:58because it's a positive thing it's disgusting the way that he said it it wasn't a positive way it was
00:40:15a joke then he was making fun of it
00:40:20i just feel like i don't speak about women like that and i don't think anyone should
00:40:24you know made me pretty upset that he just didn't recognize that that was a shitty thing to do
00:40:30it's not okay at the end of the day to talk about your wife behind their back and i took offense to
00:40:34her i really don't appreciate you guys drilling down on because we have an understanding that you
00:40:38guys don't understand where we're coming from dave mate you're speaking from ignorance brother
00:40:41how ignorant it's absolute grandstanding and they wanted to divide us it didn't work sorry lads
00:40:49no one here speaks about their partner like that do you think you should have said it yes or no
00:40:56you're not making any sense you said it and it was uncomfortable for me and everyone in that room
00:41:02you've been at me several times we've barely even spoken between this
00:41:05where's this vendetta come from mate tell me obviously you're dumb if you don't understand
00:41:09you don't speak about women like that poor jackie they've been arguing all about her
00:41:14i think she's taking it all in it's very clear that this is uncomfortable for her she's really
00:41:20embarrassed how come you didn't address it with her in the last week how come you haven't told her
00:41:28that you said it you shouldn't be talking badly about me behind my back like i do agree with that
00:41:35it was a risky it was a risky thing to say the humor was was my fault i should not have said that in
00:41:42that context yeah i'm feeling i'm pretty humiliated and embarrassed i really don't think my sixth
00:41:52life is relevant to this experiment um this is not a topic for discussion kind of the entire table
00:42:03the most amazing person in the world like that's what we talked about right that's yeah that's
00:42:08definitely what i'll be doing from now on yeah you'll talk highly of me you'll sound awesome
00:42:12amazing person in the world yeah no more intimacy conversations done he's hopeless in this regard
00:42:22like how can you not consider the words that come out of his mouth
00:42:28i'm telling you i think you two are actually compatible because i think you guys speak the same language
00:42:33like we had an agreement just shoot down everyone in the room and you saw that tonight the way i
00:42:38defended my husband when it's really not called for i literally came into this experiment saying i need
00:42:45intelligence and loyalty but i think brian has not given me this respect i gave him you guys just have
00:42:52to work on the comments i honestly think you guys have to be careful with the words you say because surely
00:42:58something like that will trigger me i've been triggered he i was triggered when he told me i was
00:43:02not the most beautiful woman in the world i think the ranking task is like my core value like i value
00:43:15loyalty above all else i'll put you third third third tell me i'm beautiful and find me attractive
00:43:26i'm being taught to lower my standards is really how i'm feeling i was like that's triggering like
00:43:33i deserve to be the most beautiful woman in the world i am triggered by that and i deserve better
00:43:41end of story i will never settle for less ever ever ever like well what the hell is going on instead of
00:43:50just you know really talking about the comments that ryan made jackie just keeps bringing back the past
00:43:55and the fact that he didn't put her first you know during the whole ranking task
00:44:02but the thing is how much is enough because like some when you feel like you're constantly having to
00:44:07no no no no but what i'm saying is the best no no no but did you put her fourth or third in the
00:44:11challenge coming back to the lineup again did you put her fourth or third in the challenge no yeah no no
00:44:16no no i had her first i had her first but that was bad tricking me i'm sorry so it was a little bit
00:44:24frustrating for me to see that our little commitment towards rebuilding and letting past things go
00:44:31yeah like it wasn't exactly honored from her part no it's not healthy like i for him tonight i defended him
00:44:39in front of everyone i put loyalty before honesty do you have a sister i'm just curious do you have
00:44:46siblings or i have a younger brother and a younger sister all right yeah and i'm incredibly close to
00:44:51my parents they're my best friends and then my idols in terms of relationship they're celebrating their
00:44:5540th wedding anniversary this year so like they're the gold standard absolutely and what you were
00:45:01what you were saying to me was like that comes after trust and it comes after a more emotional
00:45:05develop do you think your sister is beautiful my sister of course she's a beautiful beautiful woman
00:45:11absolutely yeah if you were to rank her in a in the room of women here how would you rank her
00:45:20i don't think that's the right context it is it's a question it's a challenge we're all given how would
00:45:28the stuff you guys say is very like it's we're not compatible like here's nothing i asked for
00:45:34like i asked for someone intelligent loyal like you know like i can't change that like but i was
00:45:39still a damn that is not a nice i meant to say that's not giving up you guys have it at him because i've
00:45:47had this argument five times with you and i'm done
00:46:03their internal chaos as a couple it always seems to come to the surface
00:46:08they said they were resetting and moving forward that clearly is not what we saw tonight
00:46:14jackie now has broken ranks with ryan and it's all over the photo ranking yeah and particularly
00:46:20her feeling like she is not adored by him eventually it's gonna hit you like if she feels like she's not
00:46:27the best looking person in the room by her partner that that affects you we've had men unfortunately
00:46:34in previous experiments really drop the ball on this test of emotional intelligence
00:46:40she is still very much hung up on what he said about her appearance she's not been able to let that go
00:46:48jackie what do you want like it's a challenge we just saw you what did jeff put did your partner
00:47:00put you first in the challenge yeah he did yeah exactly dumb like in the story like i'm never
00:47:05gonna settle for this neither ever either ever that's the conversation okay i'm gonna go to the
00:47:11bathroom that was a great conversation coming up that stuff sticks with me as a mother old wounds
00:47:20resurface she needs to see him as a potential father figure and he's not behaving like one that is so
00:47:26disrespectful and tony's got the table no because i'm not done i'm not done with you little boy
00:47:34rena's emotions boil over does your girl go home every weekend does anyone here go home every
00:47:41weekend he knows how he's treated me and i don't deserve it
00:47:56when do compliments stop and when does it become like a hollow exercise you know so in that in that
00:48:02regard i didn't know how to succeed at it and then i got told i failed
00:48:08jackie just quickly so last night you guys sounded like you made a call to restart your relationship
00:48:13not bringing up the past and then what we've witnessed is you guys are bringing up the past
00:48:17again where do you go from here yeah we drop it and we just let it go yeah no we leave it where it
00:48:22is yeah and we move on yeah is there a resolution though is it we just have to figure it out later
00:48:39yeah um ryan and jackie there's a fair bit going on there um actually not sure if that they've got a
00:48:46any sort of way forward to be honest they've got a lot of work to do if they're going to continue
00:48:50on in this experiment
00:48:54hopefully they do put the effort in but yeah there's a fair bit going on with those two
00:49:01i just want to give it to you already me all on karina i just want to ask how is the relationship
00:49:06going hey car hey it can't be it can't be that perfect hold on i don't want to hear all the
00:49:12positives i want to hear some negatives no look i'll be i'll be i'll be i'll be real things between
00:49:17karina obviously as you guys can see it's going great and there is genuinely nothing major nothing
00:49:23negative about her we can we can see it's very very good but can you please give us something that
00:49:30you might have struggled with please please please tell us you've struggled with one thing
00:49:36no honestly like please just give us one thing he leaves his jocks when he has a shower in the
00:49:46in the kitchen
00:49:51as bad as it gets
00:49:54it's quite clear that there is a real connection here there is good deep communication there is
00:50:00empathy there is compassion there is understanding between them
00:50:04it looks like there is a really strong foundation being built here
00:50:09sorry there's nothing negative no i'm sorry yeah
00:50:12who's next i think i think it's jeff and reed let's get the hard questions going i'm starting to
00:50:18sweat anyway uh so ultimate fantasy night date went really well we had a nice dinner and some nice
00:50:25wine but i just wanted to finish it off because on our wedding day our wedding dance i couldn't dance
00:50:31properly because my dress was too long and i kept tripping over it um so i put the wedding song on
00:50:37and i said can we please redo our wedding dance i like that they're being romantic they're getting to
00:50:44know one another they're connected emotionally deeper bonding going on there it made me realize
00:50:49though that we really can't dance i thought that i thought it was the dress but i think it's i think
00:50:54it's just us actually i feel like i have jeff's support all the time and i feel like the more that
00:50:59this experiment goes on the more i realize that jeff is an amazing person that's nice
00:51:04that's lovely well thanks we're going well we're going well i see a lot of progress in them as a
00:51:13couple this week i think they're having the correct conversations and they're being very open and very
00:51:18truthful and very respectful of the other's process and rhythm and timing going in the right direction
00:51:25i'm not done with him ryan excuse me ryan i'm next in line i want ryan ryan i can hear my name hello i'm
00:51:48not done with him ryan yes marina i'm going to tell you from a woman from a 57 year old woman
00:51:58you can say you know intimacy was fantastic but if you were in a room with all these boys and you speak
00:52:10about jackie that she gives are you joking i don't know what's going on here but moderna
00:52:21she's on her spicy she's coming in hot i haven't finished i think marina's going back to ryan
00:52:33i thought that was it like a conversation was it over and done with
00:52:36do not speak about women like that at all it is out of line it is not good
00:52:48morena having a go at ryan a little bit out of nowhere there's a lot of conflict in
00:52:53marina and tony you know i want to find out more more yeah i've got i've got questions because you're
00:53:00giving like a love advice and then relationship advice but talk to us about your relationship
00:53:04i want to know what's going on with you because i just heard you screaming in the hallway i just
00:53:10want to know what was going on that's all i'm sorry i i screamed in the wow
00:53:18i was there come on don't lie you're hilarious i heard you and i saw you
00:53:24screaming where screaming where you're delusional i think moderna felt like she was attacked and she
00:53:37came in swinging i know better than to come at moderna i you don't come for mama moderna what are you
00:53:44talking about hole good on you but you're going to end up with like a you know a dead fish outside
00:53:50your door or something tomorrow when was i screaming in the corridor he's accusing me i've
00:53:57been in the hallway screaming which is actually disrespectful paul had no right he doesn't know me
00:54:04i don't i didn't deserve to be spoken to like that how dare he
00:54:08paul paul look at me in the eyes yeah i'm looking you look at me right in the eyes come a little bit
00:54:17closer yeah that's fine i'm close enough no no you're actually not come a bit closer
00:54:23no because i'm not done i'm not done with you little boy
00:54:38paul look at me right in the eyes come a little bit closer yeah that's fine i'm close enough no no
00:54:45you're actually not come a bit closer because i'm not done i'm not done with you little boy
00:54:54it doesn't help that when moderna is speaking she ups the volume and she points her finger at
00:55:02everyone yes mr mr wonderful i want an apology and people wind up as a result of that since the
00:55:10beginning you two have literally been so disconnected you're doing everything separate
00:55:15does your girl go home every weekend do you go home every weekend does anyone here go home every
00:55:20weekend well maybe ask yourself the right question why why is tony going home every weekend i mean i don't
00:55:25know no no tony's got the table tony's got the microphone there's it's at times i think she's um
00:55:36very very loud okay no no i'm trying scared to talk to you because you're going to talk over me and
00:55:48i'm scared to offend you he knows how he's treated me and i don't deserve it i've been open to this
00:55:55experiment i've been trying it's not always going to be perfect for once let me tell you how it feels how
00:56:00i saw what i what happened you know every morning when i bring your coffee i bought your ticket your
00:56:06kids tickets to fly here yes you did okay let him speak let just let him talk this is my way of showing
00:56:13your affection and trying to make things nice for you it's my way i'm trying you did but you keep on
00:56:20talking over me i'm just that i'm scared to tell you and talk to you and now i'm the shit guy hang on
00:56:26you've done that because you feel so bad that you just abandoned me i buy you coffee i buy your kids
00:56:33flight tickets here i take you to dinner i do everything i can in little bits and pieces buy
00:56:39you flowers you're not happy so i'm trying marina's communication style it is aggressive it is loud it
00:56:46is pointy and she will not back down and she just keeps yelling yeah which pushes everyone further away
00:56:53you're out of line how dare you this is where my problem is when it comes to marina always drinking
00:57:00over me and i just shut down and it's like i'm talking to myself morena was frustrated but i don't
00:57:08agree with her behavior and how aggressive she was trying to get a point across she can't
00:57:14see that he is wanting to try and work on it the fact that you throw your own kids fights like that
00:57:21is that is that is a phrase like it doesn't value me as a human being i didn't deserve a table of young
00:57:32ones to come heavy at me with advice you gave me the best advice ever she and you probably understand
00:57:39so we come from ethnic backgrounds and we're stubborn we sweep things under the table okay
00:57:45she said to me you know she said to me to make things better one percent of the day if you can
00:57:51improve on that and i thought about that it made sense to me mate of course i had tony's back i love
00:57:59him he's the godfather he's delivered the goods so he's he's he's likable
00:58:10but even though he's likable they're not dating him let's cheers to poor tony no don't
00:58:17cheers to poor me no let's go cheers to tony can we all do a cheers to tony cheers
00:58:27let's go to the other end of the table how was intimacy week for you guys like i said i mean
00:58:32intimacy request wasn't a challenge as everyone could probably see but we did have a few challenges this
00:58:37week look i'll be very honest like within this experiment we're very compatible we've got amazing
00:58:42chemistry i just i'm unsure whether or not we will fit into each other's lifestyles outside the
00:58:47experiment like i'm a mum and i'm a realist and i'm always looking to the future because guess what i
00:58:52was in a relationship for a very long time 15 years and i don't want to do that again where i'm wasting
00:58:56my time isn't it great that afina now is finding her mum voice here tonight she's being really out and
00:59:02proud about this is who i am well yeah this is the challenge in our relationship i have to date
00:59:08as a mum first and whether or not you will fit into my lifestyle with my son and i'll never disagree
00:59:14with that though it's hard to open my heart up to someone when i think that we might not work out
00:59:20in the future but but see but being close you're not going to open up right this is what she says to me
00:59:25so i'm sitting there saying oh we're not compatible but my head i'm thinking we are compatible
00:59:27you know you're saying we're not compatible but i also feel that that's like a fun for her
00:59:34she's trying to convince herself it's like a coping mechanism for when it does come to an end
00:59:38but i address very well everyone here has concerns but when you've said certain things to me too
00:59:44adrian that i've held on to that you've said about in regards to me being a mum we go in regards to
00:59:48what it was in the very early days about okay so when we did our honeymoon um experts questionnaire
00:59:54you made a very real comment how you didn't think i could love another kid other more than mine yeah
01:00:04she needs to see him as a potential father figure and he's not behaving like one i think the big
01:00:09problem though is that on the topic of will he raise her child step into that role
01:00:16he doesn't answer it no he doesn't say very clearly that he's in it just confirms for her i
01:00:26can't let all the walls down and let him in here of course yeah you didn't think i could love another
01:00:32kid other more than mine yeah that stuff sticks with me yeah of course i asked him i asked him the
01:00:39question i said to him i said hypothetically if you guys work out would you would you move out of
01:00:43sydney you know to go live with um with a fena yeah and then he said to me he said honestly if
01:00:49things work out between us i will move out and then i'll just raise her kid like mine like my own
01:00:54you said that to me i'm gonna be very real i'm showing up for adrian he's not showing up for me
01:01:12and if he can't show up for me when we don't have issues how's he gonna show up for me outside do i not
01:01:18shop for you as a partner but i yeah 100 all i'm trying to say is i am a mom i'm always looking
01:01:22to the future and sometimes i say things anyways jeff and rey everyone
01:01:27now it's their turn he just closed it up he wants to bounce it to jeff and rey right okay
01:01:33all i'm trying to say is i am a mom i'm always looking to the future and sometimes i say things
01:01:49anyway it's jeff and rey everyone that is so disrespectful it seems to be a pattern with he
01:02:06and i when we are having conversations that adrian doesn't want to have he shuts me down
01:02:12you get out of here and that hasn't happened once it happens all the time i didn't come out
01:02:18it was just two conversations it was two conversations see the unity between everyone
01:02:22else and every other you want to start now
01:02:29adrian's just completely shut her down here on the most important topic in their relationship
01:02:35as she's finally voicing it to the room right it's been really childish here
01:02:40oh yeah i don't even care mate
01:02:58not only did adrian shut her down but then going to the other end of the table is just showing that
01:03:03he's he doesn't have the maturity she's looking for he really gets very dismissive
01:03:09and he detaches yeah if anything his behavior has shown that he's not willing to commit to the
01:03:16relationship and will sweep issues under the carpet you okay adrian shuts me down a lot
01:03:26i just need a little bit he's clearly just not hearing you i think he's so used to receiving he
01:03:33doesn't know how to give back there's all these things that we're doing for him but i'm not getting my
01:03:38into that
01:03:44everyone was talking the issues and that's what i said that's one of our problems
01:03:48yeah but she says that listen bro she's getting cookies yeah cleaning and cooking she's up at 4 30
01:03:54just like you right she doesn't sit still i would love to know what his love language is in terms of
01:04:00giving because i'm not i'm not i don't feel like i really see any of them yeah besides physical intimacy
01:04:06yeah yeah but it's it's not it's definitely not enough but to be fair billy and i barely spoke
01:04:10i hung out with i hear him most of the day
01:04:15yeah i understand i never see a finger that they have bullshit yeah yeah exactly
01:04:28as i've been addressing our very real issues like daily i'm not seeing change or action from you
01:04:34and he's not hearing
01:04:53so
01:05:27Number two
01:05:33Sunday night
01:05:34Sierra have you opened up to anybody else in the group?
01:05:42Sierra's shock confession
01:05:45Adrian actually I had
01:05:50Sorry
01:05:54Oh my god
01:05:57That's a big F you to the face
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