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  • 7/4/2025
The Real Housewives Of Lagos Season 3 Episode 13 - Full
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00:00Thank you very much.
00:30Thank you very much.
01:00We've seen everything that's been going on online.
01:04Speaking about Karo, we all need to come together and help that lady.
01:07The girl needs help.
01:08Yeah.
01:08Because the situation, as it says, is very sad.
01:11It's sad.
01:11I mean, moving forward, we'll make sure we help her get help.
01:15Me, personally, I'll volunteer myself.
01:17Oh, you're small.
01:23Hey.
01:24Alpha, you have just spoken to Mariam.
01:26Hey, my dear sister.
01:28I never see her more.
01:29I'm going to see her today.
01:31Me, I want to look very amazing today.
01:32I've had a few bad makeup days.
01:36Because this particular season, all I wanted to do was just have this eccentric look.
01:41And I got it right sometimes.
01:42Just like, leave in your comfort zone.
01:43You know, I left my comfort zone.
01:46Sometimes I got it right.
01:47And a lot of times I got it right.
01:49And then a few times, ah, people of me, I was like, ah, this is not me.
01:53But, you know, thank God I have you here.
01:57Well, you know, the last time you were here doing reunion.
02:00No, that wasn't.
02:01You were, you were, you were atomic bomb.
02:03If I said that, I'll be bold enough to say it on this show.
02:06Sugar, you ain't.
02:07So what's your state of mind now?
02:09The anticipation and the closure and everything just happened already.
02:13So whatever is going to happen right now is more or less like maybe a few people just want to be relevant.
02:18That's all.
02:19Carol, Carol, Carol, hey, I trust you, auntie, you please.
02:27I will lose it with you.
02:33What an electrifying season of the Real Housewives of Lagos.
02:37Speaking of electrifying, Caroline.
02:39Hi.
02:40Hello.
02:41In a while.
02:42Oh, you look so beautiful.
02:43Thank you too.
02:44Pink velvet.
02:46How are you?
02:46I'm good.
02:47How are you?
02:48I'm fine.
02:49Mm-hmm.
02:50Okay.
02:51You look so good.
02:53Are you excited?
02:54Oh, I'm always excited.
02:55All right, so let's see who our next queen will be.
02:59I'm trying to sneak a peek.
03:02Okay.
03:02Is the river state body herself.
03:06Tabuta.
03:07Tabuta.
03:08Tabuta.
03:09I see you.
03:10Hello, darling.
03:12You look crazy.
03:13Green queen.
03:16I love this.
03:17How are you doing now?
03:18I'm very well, thank you.
03:20You look so good.
03:21This is such a beautiful scene.
03:22Please have a seat.
03:23How have you been?
03:24Very well.
03:25Mm-hmm.
03:27I love this.
03:28The queens are coming out one after the other.
03:31Next.
03:31I see red.
03:32I see shimmer.
03:33I see...
03:33Oh!
03:35It's Diadem.
03:37Yay!
03:37Adiola, baby.
03:39Ah-ah.
03:40Oh, my gosh.
03:40Sunshine, baby.
03:41Look at you.
03:44All of this for just you.
03:45Oh!
03:46Are we safe?
03:47Look at you.
03:48Mwah!
03:49Mwah!
03:50Oh, my word.
03:51See what?
03:52Mwah!
03:52Oshie, besties!
03:54Yes.
03:55You look amazing.
03:56You look amazing.
03:58Thank you, my love.
03:59So, how's our bestie train going on?
04:02Ah, beautiful.
04:03We're not besties.
04:03We're sisters.
04:04Very, very sweet.
04:05Yes.
04:05Sister.
04:06Yeah, we're a sister.
04:08Okay, okay.
04:08I can accept that.
04:10I can deal.
04:10Three queens out.
04:12Three more to go.
04:14My queen!
04:15Ah-ha!
04:15All gold.
04:18Hi!
04:18Sophia!
04:20Do you want to go?
04:22Hey, baby.
04:23Mwah!
04:24Mwah, you look amazing.
04:25How are you?
04:26You look beautiful.
04:27Mwah!
04:27Mwah, you look amazing.
04:29You look beautiful.
04:30My queen!
04:30Brothers!
04:31You don't have to stand up.
04:32I know this process.
04:33It's process because...
04:34Mwah!
04:35Mwah!
04:35You look good, baby.
04:36Let me tell you, I just hear it.
04:37My queen!
04:39Because they are my queen.
04:40Mwah!
04:41Sophia, Sophia!
04:43One of our additions this season.
04:45I know.
04:46Happy to be on the show.
04:47I'm excited.
04:49Mariam!
04:50Let's see.
04:53Uh-uh.
04:54Uh-huh.
04:54Uh-huh.
04:55Uh-huh.
04:55Uh-huh.
04:55Uh-huh.
04:55Super modern.
04:56My love.
04:57Happy of little.
04:59Oh, my glory.
05:00Baby, yeah.
05:01Oh, my glory.
05:02You look amazing.
05:02Energy.
05:03Mwah!
05:04You look amazing.
05:05I love this.
05:07Energy.
05:08For sure, Remy.
05:08The party's birthday.
05:09For sure, Remy.
05:10Have mercy on us.
05:12Happy.
05:12Hey!
05:13That's mostly for the weekend.
05:16Mariam, Mariam.
05:17My loves, good to see you.
05:19Melanine beauty.
05:20Oh, wow.
05:21You look lovely.
05:22Thank you, my love.
05:24Hey, okay, okay, okay.
05:26I love that this is going.
05:27Everybody's looking so hot.
05:31Lara!
05:32Hey, Lucy!
05:33Hi!
05:34It's nice to have you back.
05:39I'd like to be back.
05:41You look amazing.
05:42Hello, you're in the public.
05:43How are you doing?
05:44How are you doing?
05:45How are you doing?
05:47Hi, baby.
05:48Sophia.
05:50Mariam.
05:52How you guys doing?
05:54Ay-ay-ay!
05:55Hello, everyone, and welcome to the reunion show of The Real Housewives of Lagos Season 3.
06:00I am Uti Wachuku, and we are here at the Magnificent Life Sports Encerterium in Lekki.
06:06Congratulations.
06:06I'm in order for some of the ladies.
06:08What's going on, Dabota?
06:09Well done.
06:10Well done.
06:11I see your international collaborations.
06:14How's that going?
06:15Very well.
06:16Jadem, I have to keep asking you, because, you know, I've seen that you've added a boxy
06:21to your gym routine.
06:22Are we safe?
06:23How are you doing?
06:26It's true, now.
06:27But your trail set is doing so well.
06:30Thank you so much.
06:32Wanyomba, Laura.
06:33Hey, that's why.
06:35At your logo.
06:36At your logo.
06:37There's some bubbly.
06:38I know, right?
06:40What's going on?
06:41I know, the last time we started, we went on.
06:43But I'm good.
06:45I'm good.
06:45I'm very happy.
06:45And Laura Beauty is doing so well.
06:47Thank you so much.
06:47Mira.
06:49Adémi.
06:50Tima.
06:51Melodym Beauty.
06:53I said it before I'll say it again.
06:54You look at Laurie.
06:56Thank you so much.
06:57Love.
06:58I love.
06:58I love that.
07:00I'm good to use that.
07:00I love it.
07:02Well done, by the way.
07:03Thank you so much.
07:04Thank you so much.
07:05As you can see, I'm all lowed out.
07:08We love it.
07:09We love it.
07:09Thank you so much.
07:10My queen.
07:11My queen.
07:14Sophia, how are you feeling?
07:18Amazing.
07:19Yeah?
07:19We'll talk.
07:21And Caroline.
07:23How are you?
07:24I'm very well.
07:25Well done.
07:27We've been seeing all your giant strides online, from the movies to your business.
07:31The diffuser.
07:32Right?
07:33It's been such a dramatic season this year.
07:41This season welcomed three lovely queens into our circle, but two had quite a few similarities.
07:48Both of them are Gemini's, both are girl moms.
07:52They're stunning, they're sassy, but with strong personalities.
07:56Talking about Dabota and Sophia.
07:58Yet their first meeting at the beach trip in Elisha did not exactly start on the best note.
08:04Let's unpack that a little bit.
08:06My name is Dabota Lawson, and I am the queen of queens.
08:17I am Sophia Momodou.
08:20I'm a one-man army.
08:21I find that staying out of the way triggers a lot of people.
08:25And it makes me glow.
08:27Would you like to come?
08:27Because we're both in Banana.
08:29Why don't you just come with me and we leave from my jetty?
08:31We'll leave together on my boat.
08:33That's perfect.
08:34That's going to be fine.
08:35Mwah, mwah, mwah.
08:36I'm so sorry for the delay.
08:38Well, you know, everything that is delayed always comes with beautiful blessings.
08:42So I'm sure we are going to have my phone later, but I'm so sorry.
08:45So in order for me not to run late, I would hop on Sophia's boat.
08:53So I'm super pumped about, you know, the beach, and I'm looking forward to every second.
08:58I appreciate your time.
09:03And your presence, even though I was a bit offended about the lateness.
09:09Sorry.
09:09And the booking of an extra boat when there was a boat provided.
09:12I didn't book a boat.
09:13I have a boat, so.
09:15And my jetty is literally downstairs left to leave.
09:17The lifestyle cost that you know knows.
09:20Lifestyle cost.
09:23That just got stuck in my head.
09:26All right.
09:29That boater.
09:31So Sophia said she did not get your itinerary and no one told her about the boat plans.
09:39You know, even some of our audience members tweeted.
09:42Let's see what they had to say.
09:43Everyone is blaming Sophia like they won't do what she did.
09:48You invited me to Yaba, and I stay at Djibou, but you now want me to come to Ajota first before heading back to Yaba.
09:55Blame the people that followed her, Miriam and Caroline.
09:58Is it Sophia's fault that she has a boat?
10:00The boater should be angry with the other ladies, not Sophia.
10:03Maybe Sophia didn't even know she rented boats for the other ladies.
10:07So, the boater, I have to ask you.
10:12What was it about Sophia that really ticked you off at this beach party arrangement?
10:22Actually, the boat wasn't the issue, to be honest.
10:28The issue was the approach to me.
10:34I felt unappreciated.
10:36I felt like certain comments were not necessary at the time when she made them.
10:44At the bonfire, I was addressing everybody, not just her.
10:49You heard some people hire the boat.
10:51So, who are the other people apart from?
10:53Yeah, but the boat was hired at the end of the day.
10:56Okay.
10:57Okay.
10:58So, I want to, like, touch on this boat thing.
11:01So, Sophia, with the amount of times your boat has been mentioned on this season of The Real Housewives,
11:09it's end its own spot here.
11:11I feel like there should be an extra cheer for the boat.
11:13I agree.
11:14First of all, let me just ask you this.
11:17Do you own the boat?
11:19What's the story?
11:20Because we've also seen some interesting stories online saying,
11:23oh, we know the real owner of the boat.
11:25What's the story?
11:26Here and now, clear the air.
11:27Is that your own boat, bought by you?
11:30Not bought by me.
11:31It's a family-owned boat.
11:33You did say, I own a boat.
11:36So, I want to clear up something.
11:38Yeah.
11:38I do.
11:39Because I'm pretty much the only person who, you know, uses the boat.
11:44Like I said, it's a family-owned boat.
11:45However, I'm going to take us back to the beginning.
11:49I had a new assistant at the time who had never been in this space.
11:53Okay.
11:53So, she made a lot of mistakes with scheduling and all of that.
11:57By the time we were at the jetty, my boat was getting fueled.
12:00So, in that moment, my team needed to think fast because we were already approaching the jetty.
12:07Everybody was there already.
12:09And our caretaker had sent a boat real quick to take us to the beach.
12:13And then, when we got to the beach, my boat now came to the beach.
12:16And my boat was with us for three days at the beach.
12:20Okay.
12:20So, what about the boat that took you from Ilashe back to Ikuna?
12:23That was my boat.
12:24Okay.
12:25Okay.
12:26I'm sorry.
12:26That's the boat that stayed with us for three days.
12:28Please.
12:29That's the boat that ran and made errands and all of that.
12:32Please.
12:32Please.
12:33I thank you.
12:34Would you like to respond to that?
12:36Yeah.
12:37There's video evidence on the show now.
12:39The boat that took us, yes.
12:41The Princess Jasmine boat that brought you, and it was Princess Jasmine boat that took
12:45you back.
12:45No, it wasn't.
12:45It's not your boat.
12:46There were two different boats.
12:47It's not even...
12:48You see, when I said the boat is not an issue, two different boats.
12:53There were two different boats, but you were not there.
12:55But I saw it on the show.
12:57And the Princess Jasmine boat took us back?
13:00Yes.
13:00No, it wasn't.
13:00It was a different boat that took us back, my love.
13:02I saw you, and everybody that watched this show saw you get into Princess Jasmine boat.
13:11That is not true.
13:12That does not belong to you.
13:14And you made all this fuss about owning a boat, about me curating a lifestyle, about
13:32whatever, whatever.
13:33Girl, my lifestyle is my lifestyle.
13:34And I'm happy for you.
13:35If it offends you, there's nothing I can do about it.
13:36No, your lifestyle cannot offend me, because I don't go about claiming that I don't own.
13:40I didn't even know about this.
13:45It didn't click to me until...
13:48Do you know what it means to buy a boat or to own a boat?
13:50Yes, I do.
13:51As a child, my father had a boat with my name on it.
13:55Any day I see that boat, if I see that boat, I will know.
13:57And my boyfriend has a boat with my name on it.
14:00Good for you, but don't be claiming other people's properties.
14:03I don't claim anybody's properties, Gabota.
14:05Don't do that.
14:05They're now trying to be acting funny about it at somebody else's event.
14:09I wasn't acting funny.
14:09Do your own thing.
14:10Because guess what?
14:10In that moment, like I'm still saying right now, you came at the wrong person.
14:16You could have come at Miriam and Caroline.
14:18Finally.
14:19Wait, let me finish.
14:20Who attended late?
14:21Whom you had invited?
14:23You picked on me at the beach house?
14:25Because in that moment, you were talking to just me.
14:28Sophia, please.
14:28Meanwhile, we were three people that arrived.
14:30Please.
14:30And you were picking on me.
14:31Please.
14:32And you were telling me this was not mine.
14:33Let me choose just rain.
14:34How do you know?
14:35It's not your own.
14:36You made a big fuss out of it.
14:38It's not your own.
14:39It is mine.
14:40It is not.
14:40There's nothing in the background.
14:41You know why I can confirm this?
14:44Because the owner of the boat, I actually know the owner.
14:47Yes, and I spoke to her.
14:48The kids who, the child who he named the boat after is friends with my daughter.
14:52They are in the same class.
14:54And I spoke to the woman.
14:55I spoke to the woman in question.
14:57Because both of us were not aware of what was happening.
14:59I'm not even holding it against you.
15:00You know what you're doing those kind of things for.
15:03Because you're the same person that not plenty a year ago.
15:06You were claiming a house that is not your own.
15:08You're claiming a boat that is not your own.
15:10Like, where is all this coming from?
15:12What are you doing right now, Davuta?
15:13Who are you trying to impress?
15:13Don't let you know me.
15:14Oh, no, please.
15:15Are you done?
15:15No, no, no, no, no, no, no.
15:16Okay, I'll wait for you to finish.
15:17Please, please, please, please.
15:18Let me speak.
15:19I had no intentions.
15:21My anger was that I wanted a togetherness.
15:25I really wanted that togetherness.
15:27The same way as you were taking us to Ghana, I came with your jet.
15:32And I was thankful and I was excited.
15:35I came with a clean mind.
15:36I was happy, ready to be excited.
15:38You had made the effort and I responded.
15:41So, please.
15:42I was never angry about it.
15:44I just wanted a togetherness.
15:45If I come at you and with every single thing that was said about you in the blog,
15:48you will not be sad here.
15:49I don't care.
15:50So, if you listen to something in the blog and you run with it,
15:54that's your question.
15:55I'm not ready for it.
15:56That's your question.
15:57Hold on.
15:58I'm not about this.
15:59It's true.
15:59But you're coming at me with blog stuff.
16:01And it's very wrong because guess what?
16:04It tells of your credibility.
16:06My credibility as a person.
16:06I can tell your credibility as a person.
16:09My credibility is intact, my sister.
16:11It tells of your credibility as a person.
16:13And it's not a good look.
16:14So, we have a good look.
16:16It's not a good look.
16:17It's not a good look.
16:18You cannot do that.
16:19You should not do that.
16:20No, it's not a good look.
16:21I have to shit you as a person.
16:22I'm a property owner.
16:23So, if somebody comes to you and decides to run with a story,
16:27you would not like that.
16:28My dear, I don't claim things that I don't own.
16:30And neither have I.
16:31I built my own house in 2018.
16:32Neither have I.
16:33And I'm comfortable with that.
16:34I love it for you.
16:35Congratulations.
16:36But you don't see me here coming to come and talk about stuff about you.
16:39My God is my own.
16:40Everything is my own.
16:42That's not even the bone of concession.
16:44That's what I've been trying to tell you.
16:46That the bone of concession.
16:47And I have a problem with women who literally like to find loopholes and run with them.
16:51It's public knowledge.
16:53I know.
16:53I know.
16:53Just like a lot of stuff about you.
16:54You think I don't know the people?
16:55It's public knowledge.
16:56You think I don't know the people?
16:57Just like you know them.
16:59I know them too.
17:00Just like this woman spoke.
17:01Just like this woman spoke.
17:03You know that, right?
17:03Oof.
17:04The tension is palpable.
17:05So, let's take a quick break now and we'll be right back.
17:09Thanks for sticking around for the Real Housewives of Lagos reunion.
17:19Sophia and Dabota, I feel like, you know, watching the both of you, you guys had already
17:23come to a sort of agreement of peace.
17:26And, I don't know, what was it like for you watching the clips on the show?
17:32And then you saw that initially you had a room with a beach view and Dabota swapped it.
17:41How did that make you feel?
17:42Already she was offended because I was coming, you know, to the beach by myself with two of
17:49the other ladies, you know.
17:51And I definitely felt a type of way when she spoke to me at the beach house.
17:55Because I could, you know, it's what is not said, you know.
17:59If you're an intelligent person and you're speaking to someone and they're speaking to
18:03you, you can even hear, when they're speaking to you, you can hear, you know, those things
18:07in between the lines.
18:07And there was a tone, you know.
18:10I felt like I was being scolded.
18:11And in my head, in that moment, I was thinking, but nobody told me that she had gotten a boat.
18:21Nobody told me that we were late.
18:23So really, no one had told you about the boat arrangements?
18:26You know.
18:27Nothing.
18:27I found out when I was watching that all of these arrangements were already made.
18:31So you thought...
18:32So when I saw that she had switched my room and I watched, I was like, hey, hey, I'm not
18:36crazy.
18:37She really doesn't like me.
18:39That's what I thought in my head in that moment.
18:41When I watched the beach episodes, I was like, ****.
18:44All these insults because I came late, because I came with my own boats.
18:49Again, I'm not used to being called plenty names like that.
18:53Very derogatory names.
18:54Very, very like harsh.
18:56Like she had known me from somewhere and she had a bone to pick with me before that.
19:00In terms of the words that I said to her, I don't want to say whether she said anything
19:06or not, but I'm going to take accountability just because I also didn't like seeing myself
19:14speaking in that way about Sophia.
19:17Sophia, it was a bit much and I'm not going to like sugarcoat it.
19:24So on that note, I take accountability for that and I apologize for how it made you feel.
19:31It's just, it's just, I didn't like seeing myself that way.
19:34And this is also for my own piece.
19:35I didn't like seeing myself, you know, being worked up so much about something that really
19:42was done.
19:43It was done.
19:44Do you accept our apology?
19:45Yes, I accept your apology.
19:49And also, you know, in that good faith, I would like to also apologize to you, you know,
19:56for making you feel how you had felt at the beach.
19:59Now, the most important way to ask you, did you get the dress that our Sophia?
20:03I would ask her, she hasn't got the lips yet.
20:06Sophia!
20:06Because she did not respond to her message.
20:09Hi!
20:10So till today, you still have given your address.
20:11But can I say something?
20:12Can I say something?
20:13You can say it.
20:14I received, before we came, I received everybody's measurements but yours.
20:19Let's just leave this matter because we don't go rest.
20:22Can I say something?
20:23I just want to speak about the banter.
20:25I apologize.
20:26I shouldn't have come to your party and gifted everybody.
20:29But in that moment, my blood was boiling.
20:32I said, nah, I'm going to flip the step.
20:34I'm joking.
20:35But, um, I promise.
20:38Your dress.
20:38Your dress will be delivered.
20:39Okay.
20:40Dad, there was this look of, like, disgust on your face throughout.
20:44Was it about the lateness or there was something else?
20:47You know, let's see some of your previous reactions to lateness.
20:50Because I suspect, I really suspect it's about lateness.
20:54If you tell me two o'clock, I expect you as a host to be there for two or even earlier.
21:04Hello!
21:05As usual, I'm here on time.
21:08Like, I just have family around.
21:09I'm running very, very late.
21:11I would be here for two hours.
21:13It doesn't make any sense.
21:15So, the thing is, I can relate to tardiness.
21:18I get it.
21:19But, is that the reason?
21:21Do you not like it when people are late?
21:23Or why were you so?
21:24Because I actually don't like keeping people waiting.
21:26So, I don't like to be kept waiting.
21:29Before the bonfire, I was upset.
21:32Like, you know, at the jet sea.
21:34I was upset that it kept us waiting.
21:37But, you guess what?
21:38As soon as we stepped our foot into the boat, and I sipped champagne, you don't finish.
21:45Again, at the bonfire where I was, you know, pressing my phone, I'd gotten a message back at home that light's finished.
21:54Now, I was on my phone trying to sort out light issue in my house.
21:58Because my daughter is there, like, my entire family is in the house in the dark.
22:02The mistake I made was I would have excused myself when I was trying to sort out my own family, Wahala.
22:10And then, before you know it, they capitalized on it.
22:13So, Caroline, I need to ask you, because you were quite vocal about Diadem's attitude.
22:19Being a mom yourself, do you empathize with her now?
22:21Do you now understand why she had that mood or that expression on her face, or you're not buying it?
22:27It's about how you communicate.
22:29Okay, so speaking of communication, do you think you communicated with Dabota on time that you were not going to be able to make it?
22:37For me, I feel like we are all ladies, and we are not like 50 ladies.
22:44If we are about to leave your house, the least you can do is, hey, babe, how far?
22:47Where are you guys?
22:48I'm about to leave my house.
22:49Yeah, but when you eventually called Dabota, your words were, I'm on my way to you guys.
22:55I had made a call off camera.
22:57We laughed.
22:59I showed evidences to Dabota.
23:02Right?
23:03I made a call off camera prior to that call.
23:05We laughed and everything.
23:07I showed her how I was in the car with my boat.
23:08I told her that I was coming with Sophia.
23:11So, but did you tell her that you would go on Sophia's boat?
23:14Yes, I did tell her.
23:15From the first instance.
23:16I did tell her.
23:17I told her everything.
23:19Did she tell you?
23:20When I spoke to Carolyn, she was the first person I spoke about that beach trip with
23:26when she had come to my house.
23:29Sorry to interject.
23:30You don't remember?
23:31No, I can't.
23:31I'm planning a getaway.
23:33Mm-hmm.
23:33Nice.
23:34My team and I are putting a couple of things together.
23:37Mm-hmm.
23:38And I'll send you all the details once we're ready.
23:42Yes.
23:42Always available.
23:44So, then the last message she sent to me after her event was,
23:48I understand that you're away and I'm looking forward to the beach trip,
23:54which is a message I have on my phone.
23:56When we were communicating in the morning and I asked her,
24:02Carolyn, where are you?
24:03And from what I have seen on the show,
24:07it seemed like she already knew that she was going to go with Sophia before the event.
24:14So, you think she knew and she withheld that information?
24:16It's not what I think.
24:17From what I have seen on the show.
24:20So, you believe that she intentionally withheld that information?
24:23What else can I say?
24:24Jabota, I was transparent with her.
24:27I carried her along.
24:27Even when I came to the beach, I showed her.
24:29We laughed about it.
24:30Even prior to that call that you see on TV,
24:33I called Jabota and we laughed.
24:34I felt, being the hostess,
24:36it was her responsibility to calm Jola down.
24:40So, it's interesting that you mentioned that, you know,
24:44Diadem was the one that had that attitude.
24:47Now, after the Demur Fest meetup at Miriam's Tea Party event,
24:52Caroline and Diadem soon hit it off with cute admirations of each other
24:56and talks of raunchy experiences.
24:59Was that first connection real?
25:01Or was it just good vibes in the moment?
25:03Let's take a look.
25:04This is Adiola, Diadem, Diadem, Diadem.
25:08Caroline or Carolina?
25:10Carolina, okay.
25:11I think I'll do Carolina.
25:13Yeah, she's so pretty.
25:14Thank you, and you too.
25:15I've always known Diadem to be a sweet girl
25:17based on when she sees me in public,
25:19which has not really been a lot, maybe once or twice.
25:22She's always been very pleasant and very respectful.
25:25That's what I know of her.
25:26Seeing Caroline, first off, Caroline is so beautiful.
25:29In order for me not to run late, I would hop on Sophia's boat.
25:59I'd gotten to see Dabuta two hours before we called you.
26:04We thought you were coming.
26:05Then why didn't you ask me?
26:06And then you eventually didn't show up.
26:07What makes you think I actually did not know?
26:09Wait, wait, wait, chill.
26:10Why did I ask you how?
26:11Don't do that.
26:12You're doing the same thing I'm doing.
26:14Because you're doing this, I'm trying to correct you.
26:16So don't do that for you.
26:16Hands down.
26:17Hi, Keith.
26:18Are you speaking to me?
26:19Diadem speaks from both sides of her mouth.
26:21She never really speaks to one thing that she says,
26:23and then she's always defending Dabuta.
26:26Diadem does.
26:28She has a character flaw.
26:31And she has inferiority complex.
26:36In all of that thing that you see,
26:40that glow that you see from outside,
26:42within her she is, she feels very, very,
26:45she feels very incomplete.
26:47You know what I see?
26:48Diadem is easily controlled.
26:50She is easily controlled.
26:53Before, I used to call her two-faced.
26:55But I've taken my time to study her.
26:57When she likes you, she makes a foolery of herself.
27:00I know that and you've said that it was about the situation at home
27:06with the electricity that really got you bothered.
27:09But to us watching, it seemed like you were triggered.
27:13So I want to ask you, apart from that light situation,
27:17were you also unhappy about any other thing?
27:19Was it because of the lateness?
27:21Was it that you felt jilted for that, you know,
27:25Caroline jilted the both of you for Sophia?
27:28Sophia, what was it?
27:30Was it about the communication initially?
27:33At the jetty, of course, I was clearly upset
27:36because I sat under that sun for three hours as well.
27:39Yes.
27:40Right?
27:40And then when she had communicated with me first,
27:44she said, see you soon.
27:46So I was honestly expecting to see her at the jetty.
27:52And when she made that call after two hours
27:55that she's going to up on Sophia's boat,
27:58I was like, oh, after waiting.
28:02So all the, oh, that was giving us attitude.
28:06She was mimogging us.
28:08I swear I shocked.
28:09The way everybody take water away, there they shocked.
28:12Now some of me said shocked.
28:13When I watched those clips
28:15and I saw the way they capitalized on my phone pressing.
28:21I feel like clearly there's no big issue here.
28:23Yeah.
28:23However, though, Caroline,
28:26now when it comes to Deirdre,
28:28for someone you say you hardly know,
28:30you seem to have a lot of problems
28:34with Deirdre's mode of communicating
28:36from respect to her manner of speaking
28:39to her using her hands when she speaks.
28:43And then another day was about her self-esteem and confidence.
28:47Then it was about the dynamics of the relationship
28:50between Dabota and Diadem.
28:52Like, what exactly do you have against Diadem?
28:58The whole genesis of calling me a liar
28:59and I do not communicate
29:00and the whole genesis of whatever transpired afterwards
29:03came from the beach.
29:05Do you understand?
29:05So your opinion about Diadem is from the beach?
29:07It's from the beach.
29:09For Diadem,
29:09like, I would say it and I say it again.
29:12I always praise her business.
29:13Actually, if she was on her own,
29:15she would be a sweet person.
29:17But I feel she's fighting.
29:18She knew Dabota and her had deep issues.
29:21And she just started, yes.
29:22Over the season.
29:24Over the season.
29:27I told you.
29:28I told you that.
29:30How?
29:31Isn't that what sisters or besties do?
29:33Okay, let me answer you concerning that one.
29:35Between myself and Sophia.
29:38You fought Sophia's battle.
29:39No, I did not.
29:40You did.
29:40I fought my battle.
29:41I actually felt like I am the reason why they attacked Sophia.
29:45To be sincere, I've told you that before.
29:47I felt it was a transfer of aggression from me to Sophia.
29:51From who now?
29:51From Dabota and Diola.
29:53I felt that them did not give room to get to know me.
29:57As much as I gave her room to know her.
30:00Did you give her the opportunity to get to know her?
30:02I'm so sorry.
30:03I'm so used to this way with you.
30:05It has become an issue at this point.
30:07How come to realize that?
30:09Caroline's attitude towards me is not unique to me.
30:13I just feel like she doesn't like me.
30:15Why?
30:15I don't know.
30:16Ask her.
30:17I feel she doesn't like me.
30:19Because at the end of it,
30:20even when she came to Laura's event,
30:21she didn't say anything to me.
30:23She said I was dissecting her.
30:25Ask Laura what I said.
30:26Whatever I said wasn't even in a bad way.
30:28At Laura's event,
30:29when you mentioned that myself and Miriam were gossiping about you,
30:33I said, no, we're not gossiping about you.
30:34Okay, you know what?
30:35Let's read it.
30:35And I thought I was gossiping about you right there and then.
30:37Don't worry, we'll come back to that.
30:38Let's read it to you.
30:39From Mehdi, it says,
30:40Caroline's obsession with Diadem is becoming unhealthy, alarming, and disgusting.
30:45At this point, she feels Diadem is being controlled by Dabota.
30:48But her friendship with Miriam and Sophia isn't controlled by anyone.
30:52Someone give Caroline some evaluation.
30:56Now, from Nora,
30:57the exact thing Caroline is saying about Diadem being Dabota's bouncer,
31:01forgotten the exact word she used in bracket,
31:03is the same thing she's doing.
31:05She's literally fighting for Sophia,
31:07and Sophia didn't ask her to.
31:09She wants she and Sophia to collectively hate and fight Dabota.
31:15Caroline, how do you respond to these tweets?
31:18At that point in time,
31:19when Dabota was having issues with Sophia,
31:22and all of a sudden, from nowhere, Diadem just jumped in.
31:25I'm like, this is looking like a gang-up,
31:27and it's not going to look nice on the both of you.
31:29Whatever happens as a hostess,
31:31that is where I would have faltered Dabota.
31:34As a hostess,
31:35if your guest is complaining,
31:37for me personally,
31:38what I would have done is to leave my room for my guests,
31:41to make my guests comfortable.
31:43So that's what you wanted Dabota to do?
31:45For me.
31:45Me. I'm not Dabota.
31:47She's not me.
31:48Can I ask you to say something?
31:49I want to say something.
31:50I'm so sorry if that was...
31:51I was about to ask you to respond.
31:52Yeah, so there was a point where she said,
31:54I jumped in into a conversation about Sophia.
31:58So I'm going to explain why that happened.
32:01Now, at the bonfire,
32:03Miriam had said something to Sophia in Yoruba,
32:06and I tapped Sophia, like,
32:09don't worry, I got you.
32:10Whatever Miriam says to you here in Yoruba,
32:13me, I'm going to have freedom to you.
32:15And then Sophia was like,
32:17no, don't gas me.
32:19I'm a one-man-mopo.
32:20What, what, what?
32:21In that moment, I felt embarrassed.
32:25Now, the next day,
32:27I think in the middle of the argument,
32:29Dabota told Caroline,
32:31Caroline, get your friend.
32:32That's to Sophia.
32:33And then she was like,
32:35oh, no, you can't say that.
32:38Sophia is a friend to everybody on this table.
32:41You can't just tell me to get my friend.
32:43I mean, now, I'm based on saying,
32:45oh, you already told me yesterday,
32:48they say,
32:48make I not got you.
32:49You are a one-man-mopo.
32:50That was why I quickly entered,
32:52say,
32:52that was why I came in,
32:55in that moment.
32:56Listen, I didn't mean to embarrass you.
32:58Sophia, I understand.
32:59So, it was like,
33:01you know,
33:01we, we, we,
33:02we read ourselves lightly,
33:04you know,
33:05lightheartedly.
33:06So, that was a light,
33:07you know,
33:08I get,
33:08I think I don't get me wrong.
33:09In that moment.
33:10Dabota, you're about to say something
33:11before we record.
33:12I don't understand why
33:14Caroline is personalizing,
33:17you know,
33:18I was never angry with her.
33:20So, Caroline, are you angry?
33:21I spent a lot of time with her.
33:22Are you angry and?
33:23My, my, my brother.
33:25Why can't you,
33:26and if you are,
33:27I am, I am angry because,
33:29I know the efforts
33:30and I know how transparent
33:31I was with Dabota that day.
33:34You were transparent with me.
33:35Yes, I was.
33:36But you were not like,
33:38totally, um,
33:39direct with me
33:41in terms of your planning.
33:43So, what has happened is
33:44you were transparent with me
33:45to update me on
33:46all your movements.
33:48But there was a time lapse
33:50where,
33:51at the time you now mentioned
33:53you were going to Sophia,
33:54none of that
33:55was to my understanding.
33:57Why on earth
33:58would I wait
33:59at the jetty for you
34:00if I wasn't expecting you?
34:02Just hold that thought.
34:03So, Dabota and Caroline,
34:04we'll definitely come back to you.
34:05I think it's time for us
34:06to just take a short break.
34:08The Real Housewives of Lagos
34:10is in three reunion.
34:13Go sip some tea
34:14and come back
34:15for more tea.
34:15Welcome back.
34:23I still have
34:24the gorgeous
34:25queens of Lagos
34:26with me.
34:27Now, let's take it back,
34:29way back
34:29to the very beginning.
34:30When Miriam Adeyemi,
34:32now Tima,
34:33and Adeola Adeyemi
34:34first met,
34:35it was a sweet bond
34:36at first sight
34:37before things went sour.
34:39Let's relieve
34:40some of those moments,
34:41all right?
34:41I feel very uncomfortable
35:03when she asks me
35:05questions about my life,
35:07like my past.
35:07She wanted to know
35:08the intro too
35:10about me.
35:11No Gileo,
35:12no Gileo.
35:13So, she don't wear Gileo?
35:14No, no, no,
35:15no wear Gileo.
35:22Sorry, I think
35:23I'm going to be running late
35:24a little bit.
35:25And I think
35:25Sofia is running late,
35:27so I think
35:27I'll come with her.
35:28You kept us waiting.
35:29It's not nice.
35:30Hold that.
35:31Hold that.
35:32It don't make sense.
35:33You know,
35:33it's obviously
35:33this kind of thing.
35:35I think about them.
35:36There are them.
35:37Okay.
35:38Just the attitude
35:39yesterday
35:39and the way
35:40she spoke to me
35:40on the phone,
35:42you know,
35:42and when I went
35:43to her room,
35:44it was just,
35:45and Caroline
35:46was now saying
35:47the same thing
35:48that before I walked
35:48into the bonfire,
35:50she was really
35:51giving attitude
35:51and everything.
35:52I just came
35:53and I saw it
35:53and I called it out.
35:54I don't care.
35:55I said they were like,
35:55they were like,
35:56they were like,
35:56they were like,
35:56they were like,
35:57they were like,
35:57they were like,
35:58they were like,
35:58they were like,
35:59they were like,
35:59they were like,
36:00why are you talking to that?
36:01Caroline,
36:01why are you talking to that?
36:02I don't care.
36:06So what was it about
36:13that, you know,
36:15drew her to you?
36:18The first time I met her,
36:19I'm like,
36:19oh my God,
36:19you look somewhat
36:19like my mom.
36:20Do you understand?
36:21Like, a younger version.
36:23I fell in love
36:23with her baseball dance.
36:25Do you feel the same way?
36:26Were you also drawn
36:27to Mariam
36:28and what was it about her?
36:30Okay,
36:31with Mariam,
36:32I don't know.
36:33When I speak about her,
36:34I get really emotional.
36:36Right?
36:37Mariam is someone
36:38that I really like.
36:39Oh my God,
36:39I'm having chills all over.
36:41You expressed being
36:42slightly uncomfortable
36:43with her questions.
36:45So seeing as she was
36:46very free with you
36:47and the bond was just instant,
36:49why didn't you
36:50like express it
36:50to her directly?
36:51Okay,
36:52so the thing is,
36:53I just joined this group.
36:55One.
36:56Two,
36:56I didn't want to come off
36:57as being rude
36:59or too forward.
37:01Right?
37:01So when she asked me,
37:03who is your boyfriend?
37:04It threw me off guard.
37:05I like you,
37:07but ah,
37:08it's one.
37:09Boundaries.
37:10Yeah,
37:11boundaries, please.
37:12So again,
37:14I didn't want to disrespect her
37:15because my response
37:16at that point,
37:17if she had wanted me
37:17to respond,
37:18might be disrespectful.
37:20That was why
37:20I just kept my cool.
37:21Like,
37:21you know what?
37:22Let me still maintain
37:23this my cool gay energy
37:24as I joined this group
37:25before anybody
37:26to say,
37:27I do rude.
37:28Yeah,
37:28so that was what happened
37:29in that moment.
37:30So I'm going to come back
37:32to you,
37:32Miriam.
37:33I feel like
37:35the first time
37:36that you sort of
37:38poked the bear
37:38a little bit
37:39was at her
37:40Afrocentric event.
37:41The one thing
37:42she said was,
37:43Morge Leo,
37:44and they come to Miriam entry.
37:46You won one satellite
37:48slash
37:48GSM tour.
37:50Okay.
37:52Why, Miriam?
37:54Okay,
37:54can I tell you something?
37:55Tell me.
37:56Prior to the day
37:56that Laura and I
37:57went to
37:58a store,
38:02obviously,
38:02we already got
38:03the invitation
38:03and already planned
38:05for this event.
38:06I am not going
38:07to scrap
38:08an entire look.
38:10And if you guys
38:12know me,
38:13Miriam does what
38:13Miriam wants to do.
38:15Probably I got
38:15the invitation wrong
38:16because what I just saw
38:17is Afro.
38:18I'm from
38:21Nicos Island.
38:22I'm from
38:22Shepopo Street.
38:23So when you see
38:24Afro and Bear,
38:26I get this.
38:27So Miriam,
38:27I'm looking at both of you
38:29and there's just
38:30this sweet energy.
38:32So what was it
38:33that caused
38:34this epic blowout?
38:35Like,
38:36Dardem,
38:36you were visibly
38:37upset
38:38that she called
38:39Caroline in front
38:40of everybody
38:41and put Caroline
38:41on speaker.
38:42So what really
38:43upsets you?
38:43See,
38:44at that point,
38:44right,
38:45me and Caroline
38:46had an issue
38:46in Ghana
38:47that hasn't
38:48been resolved.
38:49The only reason
38:49you are seeing
38:50Caroline's package
38:51for her daughter
38:52here is because
38:53I feel like
38:54you or,
38:56you know,
38:57Miriam could have
38:57invited her,
38:58you know,
38:59for all you know.
38:59And if she comes
39:00with a positive
39:01vibes,
39:01I would accept
39:02her with an
39:03open hand.
39:04Now,
39:04Miriam walks in.
39:06You said,
39:06yes,
39:07Caroline,
39:07I'm calling her
39:08right away.
39:09And I said,
39:09please do not
39:10call Caroline.
39:11And you still
39:11went ahead.
39:13You dialed Caroline's
39:14number.
39:14Guess what?
39:15It's my event.
39:16It's my house
39:17and it's my rules.
39:19So,
39:19looking at all
39:20of this,
39:21does any part
39:22of you feel
39:23like,
39:24maybe I might
39:25have overreacted?
39:26My darling,
39:26I know myself.
39:28So,
39:28for me to say,
39:29I don't want
39:29to speak about
39:30this,
39:31can you please
39:31respect me?
39:32Because I yell
39:34or I shout
39:35and scream.
39:36That is my own
39:37way of handling
39:38issues.
39:38When I'm angry.
39:40When you're angry.
39:40Do you understand?
39:41And Laura also
39:42did,
39:43Laura said,
39:44Yeah,
39:44I overreacted.
39:45You overreacted.
39:45People are different.
39:47You can't tell me
39:48how to act
39:49when you poke me.
39:51So,
39:51Laura,
39:51why do you think
39:52she overreacted?
39:53Okay,
39:53so,
39:54I actually think
39:55that she overreacted
39:56because we had
39:58brought the matter
39:59up like we
40:01always do.
40:02I texted Caroline
40:04there and
40:06even though she
40:06told me,
40:07don't bring it up,
40:08I actually texted Caroline
40:09and said,
40:10hey,
40:10girl,
40:10why are you not here?
40:11The other
40:12told me,
40:12don't bring it up
40:13and I respect that.
40:15Even though I
40:16don't particularly
40:17like that.
40:19But I respect it.
40:20I'll go to your
40:21partner and I'll
40:21respect all your rules.
40:23So,
40:23basically,
40:23her house,
40:24her rules.
40:24Her house,
40:25her rules.
40:25I got there,
40:26I saw Caroline's
40:27thingy.
40:29And then there
40:29was no Caroline.
40:30And I saw six
40:31tables,
40:31six cushions
40:32on the floor.
40:34And I'm like,
40:34where's Caroline?
40:35When she was saying,
40:37I said,
40:37did you invite her?
40:38Eh,
40:38somehow or something.
40:40My intention
40:41was not to
40:42call and put her
40:43on the spot.
40:44My intention
40:44was to call Caroline
40:45and quote Caroline.
40:46So in my mind,
40:47why would somebody
40:47invite you?
40:48Like,
40:48the last time
40:48I saw both of you,
40:50I thought you guys
40:51were cool from Ghana.
40:52So if they were there
40:52and invited you
40:53to our events,
40:54you should have been here
40:55and put your
40:56differences to the side.
40:57All of that is valid.
40:58So I feel like
40:59when you love somebody,
41:00part of loving someone
41:01is in respecting
41:02their wishes,
41:04their boundaries,
41:05and that's
41:06a love language.
41:07So for someone
41:07like this
41:08who has said,
41:09I don't want
41:10to talk about this.
41:11Where is the love
41:13in respecting
41:14her boundaries?
41:15Do you think
41:15you owe Dad
41:15him an apology?
41:16No, I don't.
41:17Why?
41:17No, I don't.
41:18She was
41:18trespassed as f***.
41:21I do not.
41:22I get it,
41:22but you know
41:23what we say?
41:24She could have come back
41:25into that room.
41:26A lot of people talk
41:26about the reaction,
41:27but not the trigger.
41:27She could have come back
41:27into that room saying,
41:29Marian,
41:29what would you call
41:30this and that?
41:32Well,
41:32she came in
41:33screaming at me,
41:33I am not your baby
41:34that you are carrying
41:35on your aunt.
41:36Everybody knows
41:37I'm a ticking bomb.
41:40Yes, I am.
41:41If you come
41:42at me sideways,
41:43I go beyond the fence
41:44and that's who I am.
41:46So as soon as
41:46I started shouting,
41:47I'm like,
41:48baby girl,
41:49I'm not going to lie
41:50and I've said this
41:50every time.
41:51I'm not even upset
41:52about the situation.
41:53I'm disappointed.
41:55Let's hear from Caroline.
41:56Caroline.
41:56It takes nothing
41:57to actually say
41:58I f***ed up
41:59and I am sorry.
42:01I really spoke
42:02a lot about Diola
42:03because I was hurt.
42:05Do you understand?
42:06And when I f***ed up
42:07with Laura,
42:07I told her.
42:08When I f***ed up
42:09when I had the
42:11altercation with her,
42:11you guys told me off
42:12and I said,
42:13yes, I f***ed up.
42:14Now we got to Lagos.
42:16I spoke to Sophia.
42:17Sophia said,
42:18try and know Diola.
42:19I said, okay.
42:19I went to Laura's store
42:21and we spoke about it.
42:22Laura said,
42:23try and know Diola.
42:24I said, okay, no problem.
42:25Do you know what happened?
42:26I called Diola.
42:27Diola did not pee.
42:29The next thing I got
42:30was a long message.
42:32You see,
42:33when you say,
42:33Caro,
42:35and then you start
42:36writing messages,
42:37more or less,
42:37like you say,
42:38passive aggressive message,
42:39I do understand
42:40how she feels
42:41that Miriam puts me
42:42on voice call.
42:44Do you understand?
42:44All right.
42:45But I think
42:46Diola's blowout
42:48with Miriam
42:49comes from a place
42:50of Dempsey.
42:54I hear she talks
42:55without confronting
42:57Miriam on it.
42:58Let's discuss
43:00outfits.
43:01And there's an outfit
43:03that stuck out
43:04pretty clearly to me.
43:07Let's take a look
43:08at this clip.
43:11LVTs,
43:12$2,000 to be precise.
43:14Hi, my love.
43:16Hi.
43:18So Miriam,
43:19did you notice it
43:20on the day of your lunch?
43:21You know, for next thing,
43:22I did not.
43:23Are you serious?
43:23I saw my life.
43:24Okay, so now that
43:25I've seen the clip.
43:26I did not.
43:27And she needs to come
43:29and learn from people
43:30that read.
43:31Come and learn from me.
43:32If you want to read it,
43:33make sure that they're
43:34internet and they're
43:35aware of the reading.
43:36Because for me,
43:37I felt like,
43:38you can't read me
43:39and I'm not aware
43:39of you reading me.
43:40But the first thing,
43:41when I looked up,
43:42I just saw this and stop.
43:43Miriam, can you let me
43:44ask you this?
43:44Yes, go on.
43:45You know,
43:48sitting here
43:48and here you speak
43:49that you do not
43:51care about my feelings.
43:55It hurts more.
43:56You didn't care
43:56about my feelings too.
43:57Wait, chill.
43:58Because I feel like,
43:59okay.
44:01I feel like
44:02for every reaction
44:05there's an action.
44:07If you had respected
44:09my rules
44:10in my house
44:12in that moment
44:13that I begged you
44:14not to call Caroline
44:16because guess what?
44:18I had that feeling
44:19that Caroline
44:20might be a trigger
44:21to me.
44:22Why do you know that?
44:23I understand.
44:24Your feelings are valid
44:25completely.
44:27But I feel like
44:28you should have
44:28considered my feelings
44:30in that moment
44:31to at least respect her.
44:33I really like you a lot
44:34and I don't want us
44:35to fall out
44:36because of third party.
44:39But can you admit
44:39that you were already
44:40triggered
44:41before I walked in?
44:42No, I wasn't
44:42because my darling
44:43I was painting you
44:45before you walked in.
44:47Seeing as both of you
44:49seem to understand
44:49where each other
44:51is coming from
44:51do you both think
44:53you both owe each other
44:54an apology?
44:56She owes me an apology.
44:57Do you think
44:58you owe her an apology?
44:58She owes me an apology first
45:00because she triggered me.
45:01First?
45:01Does it matter
45:01who says sorry first?
45:03Okay, Miriam
45:04are you going to be
45:05a queen?
45:06You apologize to me.
45:08Sorry,
45:08I know you're for.
45:10But Miriam
45:10because that fight
45:11wasn't needed.
45:12in all honesty.
45:15It wasn't
45:15because I was shocked.
45:16I wish.
45:17The reason why
45:17people said that
45:17I'm just disappointed.
45:18Guess what?
45:20Guess what?
45:20I wish that
45:21you had respected
45:23my rose in that moment
45:25because you didn't know
45:26how I was feeling.
45:27You didn't call me
45:28outside to tell me that.
45:29The trigger is sitting here.
45:30I don't know
45:31before you talk.
45:32Do you understand
45:32what I mean?
45:33Do you understand
45:33what I mean?
45:34I just wished that
45:35and why I even broke down
45:37was because
45:38I really, really love you.
45:40You as a person
45:43should understand
45:44the fact that
45:44I didn't want to
45:45speak about it.
45:45See, I walked to you now.
45:47It doesn't mean
45:48I'm stupid, right?
45:49I just feel like
45:50sometimes
45:50try and understand
45:52my feelings.
45:54Miriam, I love you so much,
45:55okay?
45:55And I don't want to
45:56surprise again.
45:56Mama!
45:57I love you.
45:58I love you so much.
45:59I missed all your calls.
46:01All the new things.
46:02I missed all your calls.
46:03Before I was fighting,
46:05she's the only person
46:05that I talked to the most
46:06in the group.
46:071 AM.
46:07I'm talking 1 AM.
46:08I was pink.
46:09You said my pictures,
46:11my graphics,
46:11when I was trying to do
46:12my communism for the oil.
46:14She was cheap.
46:15I called her for the contact.
46:16Are you jealous?
46:17Even though I didn't end up
46:17using the person.
46:18But we spoke more.
46:20When I was in America,
46:21she was talking to us
46:22all the time.
46:22But at the time,
46:22I didn't know there was drama.
46:24Oh, shut up.
46:25Next, on The Real Housewives
46:27of Lagos Reunion.
46:29Laura, you cannot come
46:31when you started it.
46:34Don't be upset
46:35because my comeback
46:36was harder than yours.