90 Day- Hunt for Love Season 1 Episode 2- The Boy Who Fell in the Hot Tub

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00:00:00Previously on 90 Day Hunt for Love.

00:00:03Oh my gosh, it's so nice.

00:00:06I'm here at this gorgeous beach resort

00:00:09to try and make a connection with a man

00:00:13that has the whole package with a package.

00:00:18It's hot out here.

00:00:20Hi. I think we've met before.

00:00:23Do we need a little bit?

00:00:24Maybe. Maybe a little bit.

00:00:27I was in Turkey for like a month.

00:00:30With Usman, but after the trip,

00:00:32I wasn't sure how he felt about me.

00:00:34I'm like, could this be fate bringing us back together?

00:00:36Cheers, guys, to a really good night.

00:00:38Yes.

00:00:39I was kind of like, okay,

00:00:40there's gonna be other 90 Day people.

00:00:43But I had zero clue who the hell was gonna be here.

00:00:47Oh!

00:00:49Oh my gosh!

00:00:50You gotta be kidding me, man.

00:00:53Jennifer is my ex-girlfriend.

00:00:55Out of all the people, why is she here?

00:01:00Every single time someone sees me in a bikini

00:01:02and they see my ass, they're like, holy , you have a huge ass.

00:01:04Let me see.

00:01:05You want a kiss?

00:01:06And I see my ass.

00:01:07I'm trying not to, like, go too crazy on the first interaction,

00:01:12but, like, damn.

00:01:13Yeah.

00:01:16That is a very nice ass.

00:01:19You know that's my ex-ass here, right?

00:01:23Why'd y'all break up?

00:01:25The truth.

00:01:26She's a golden .

00:01:29He feels so entitled to talk about me with everybody.

00:01:33But he better watch out, because I know a couple of secrets

00:01:36he wouldn't like anybody to know about.

00:01:42We're gonna do some speed dating while in a hot tub.

00:01:45Have you been married before?

00:01:47I have, yeah.

00:01:49I have a thousand thoughts running through my head,

00:01:52because right before I came to the resort,

00:01:55I was hanging out with my friend Ashley.

00:01:57One thing led to another, and Ashley kisses me.

00:02:00Gosh, where's your dating coach when you need one?

00:02:03I really, I liked it.

00:02:07But at the same time, I was so overwhelmed

00:02:10at what it all meant, does this mean that I'm a lesbian?

00:02:40I really like that, and I'm a lesbian when you're on my head.

00:02:45It's good enough.

00:02:47I know that I've been wearing my hair.

00:02:48I've been waiting for you.

00:02:57I'd like to be the air that you breathe.

00:03:00I'd like to be the road that you walk.

00:03:02I'd like to be the sand that ex-pour-to-to-peel.

00:03:08Whoa!

00:03:09Welcome, everyone, to your very first workshop here at this retreat, Flirting 101.

00:03:17We all know that flirting is hard, right?

00:03:19What works for you one time might not work another time.

00:03:22I signed up for the flirting workshop just because I actually don't know how to flirt.

00:03:26It would feel so unnatural for me to come up to a guy and say, like,

00:03:29hey, sugar, how you doing?

00:03:33Like, no.

00:03:35Last night at the masquerade, I met Pornstache.

00:03:39And that guy caught my eyes.

00:03:41But he's not here today.

00:03:43So I want to challenge myself to, like, open myself up a little more to people that I wouldn't usually date and give them a chance.

00:03:51I would love to see a show of hands who thinks that they might need a little guidance in their flirting game.

00:03:58Hey, everyone.

00:03:59How about this guy? Let's be honest.

00:04:03Oh, my God. I'm so, like, awkward and embarrassed, like, flirting so usually.

00:04:07I'm just like, yeah, and, like, smile and nod.

00:04:08What do you think could change that?

00:04:10What do you think could shift that for you?

00:04:13Alcohol.

00:04:15I hate this flirting workshop already.

00:04:19Usually my go-to opener is, like, hey, buy me a drink.

00:04:24That's flirting?

00:04:24Yeah.

00:04:29All right.

00:04:30We're going to practice that with you today.

00:04:31We're going to break down your game and give you some feedback on what's working for you and what's not.

00:04:38So I'm going to choose two of you at random.

00:04:40I'm not trying to set you up, okay?

00:04:42So don't get scared.

00:04:43So I am going to go with Usman.

00:04:49Come have a seat, please.

00:04:51And Cassidy.

00:04:57Cassidy.

00:05:00Turn on that southern charm, girl.

00:05:02I'm such a laugher.

00:05:04Okay, sorry.

00:05:05You got this, girl.

00:05:06Are you here by yourself?

00:05:07Actually, I wasn't here by myself because that's it that was waiting for you.

00:05:10It was for me?

00:05:11Oh, perfect.

00:05:14Perfect.

00:05:15You were waiting for me.

00:05:16Yeah.

00:05:17I do not know what's going on between Usman and I right now.

00:05:20I'm waiting for him to make a move, show me he's interested.

00:05:23So watching Usman flirting with another moment, this sucks.

00:05:30What's your name?

00:05:32My name is Usman, but they call me Soulja Boy.

00:05:34Soulja Boy?

00:05:34Yeah.

00:05:35Okay.

00:05:35Not the American rapper.

00:05:36Not the rapper.

00:05:37The Nigerian singer, so yeah.

00:05:39Gotcha.

00:05:40You look beautiful, I must say.

00:05:42You look good, too.

00:05:43What do you like to sing?

00:05:45I mean, all my song is all about love.

00:05:48I preach about love.

00:05:49Beautiful women.

00:05:50You want to sing one for me?

00:05:53I mean, you want to?

00:05:54Yeah.

00:05:55Like right now?

00:05:56Yeah.

00:05:57Ah, okay.

00:05:59Make up one about me.

00:06:01On the spot.

00:06:02On the spot?

00:06:03Yeah.

00:06:03Okay, what's your name?

00:06:03Cassidy.

00:06:08I love you, I love you, I love you.

00:06:11You love me?

00:06:12I love you, my baby Cassidy.

00:06:15I love you, I love you, I love you.

00:06:18I love you, I love you, my baby Cassidy.

00:06:21I love you, I love you, I love you, I love you.

00:06:24I love you Cassidy, I love you.

00:06:27Usman's song is a banger.

00:06:29I swear, when he started singing that, I was like, all right, there's no way he's not getting

00:06:32this girl.

00:06:32I'm being super sarcastic.

00:06:35There ain't no way that's impressing anyone.

00:06:39This song sucks.

00:06:41I love you, I love you, I love you, okay, great.

00:06:43I don't think anyone would be impressed by his lyrics, let me tell you.

00:06:47I had to listen to the guy I like, seeing that he loves another girl.

00:06:52And he's like, Cassidy, I love you, I love you.

00:06:55I'm like, you don't even say you like her or you're cute, just straight, I love you.

00:06:59If this is Usman's idea about how he falls in love, I'm worried about how he approaches

00:07:04sex.

00:07:05Is he just like, hi, I'm Usman, can I stick it in you?

00:07:07I'm sorry, I'm not going to give you, like, basis like that.

00:07:12Well, once you get to know me more, you can add in the later stuff.

00:07:15Yeah, I mean, I mean, why not?

00:07:17Okay, cool.

00:07:19This was fun.

00:07:19Okay, guys, sorry to interrupt you.

00:07:22Usman, great job.

00:07:23You were engaging, you were definitely making eye contact, you're very, very charming.

00:07:27However, where you fell down a little bit is that you didn't ask Cassidy enough about

00:07:31her, right?

00:07:31So you could have asked her, what are you into?

00:07:33What kind of music do you listen to?

00:07:35Keeping that conversation and that energy there, especially on your first encounter,

00:07:39that's when the true connections happen.

00:07:41But both of you did a fantastic job.

00:07:43Good job.

00:07:46You guys can have a seat.

00:07:48Good job.

00:07:59Welcome to the party, gentlemen.

00:08:01What's going on?

00:08:02Come on in.

00:08:03Feel free to pick a hot tub of your choosing.

00:08:06Hey, how you doing?

00:08:07Hi.

00:08:09Come on this side.

00:08:11I really wanted the speed dating to go well, but my head's not in it.

00:08:16I feel like I'm coming across a little bit awkward, but it's probably because I can't

00:08:23stop thinking about what happened before I came here between me and my friend Ashley.

00:08:28It's complicated.

00:08:30I don't know.

00:08:30Like, I've never dated a woman before.

00:08:34I grew up in an environment where I never considered dating the same sex or even saw it

00:08:41as an option.

00:08:43How are you?

00:08:44I'm doing very well.

00:08:45I'm doing very well.

00:08:46A little bit better now.

00:08:48I'm still attracted to men.

00:08:51I am still attracted to men.

00:08:54And I don't know if kissing Ashley was a one-time thing.

00:08:58It's hard for me to put a label on something that I don't even understand right now about

00:09:03myself.

00:09:04So, coming here and meeting so many different kinds of people seems like the best way to

00:09:09find out what's right for me.

00:09:12Your two minutes starts now.

00:09:16You know, I think I want to know more about Chantelle.

00:09:20Tell me about you.

00:09:21It's very important for me to have fulfillment in life.

00:09:25You know, I'm doing my dream job right now.

00:09:27What's your dream job?

00:09:28Botox and filler, aesthetic.

00:09:30That's my dream job?

00:09:31Yeah, it's my dream job.

00:09:33I love everything beauty.

00:09:35I don't know a ton about, like, the Botox and, like, that kind of stuff.

00:09:38Well, raise your eyebrows.

00:09:40Okay, and then frown.

00:09:42Make an angry face.

00:09:43And then, um, smile real big.

00:09:46Okay, yeah, so, okay.

00:09:48So, you could use...

00:09:49Well, it's all relative to what a person wants.

00:09:56So, if you want to wear your wrinkles, fine.

00:09:58You're telling me I have wrinkles right now?

00:10:00What are you telling me?

00:10:02You got one, but you're very handsome.

00:10:04Yeah, you're very handsome.

00:10:06Joe.

00:10:07He's so cute.

00:10:09I could just melt.

00:10:11He's tall, got beautiful eyes.

00:10:14I love the accent.

00:10:16I think there could be something there with Joe.

00:10:18If I'm honest, he could use a little Botox.

00:10:21But it feels good that I could make a connection here.

00:10:24I don't want to go to sleep.

00:10:27Wake up alone tomorrow.

00:10:31Just want to stay inside the heat in the light of your world.

00:10:36Now, Kourtney, you are going to approach Chad as he sits here at this lovely table.

00:10:45Oh, my God.

00:10:46Dining.

00:10:47Yeah, Chad.

00:10:48Yes, Chad.

00:10:49Can I be the one sitting at the table?

00:10:52Oh, yes.

00:10:53Yes.

00:10:54I have to go approach Chad.

00:10:56Oh, my God.

00:10:58Like, this is my worst nightmare.

00:11:01Like, why I never approach guys.

00:11:04Like, I don't know.

00:11:10You got this, Kourtney.

00:11:13I'm, like, shaking.

00:11:17I like your red shirt.

00:11:19Um, hey, I'm Chad.

00:11:28What's your day?

00:11:30Can I offer me to sit with you?

00:11:32Yes.

00:11:32Or do I have to ask?

00:11:34Okay.

00:11:39So, where are you from?

00:11:41Atlanta.

00:11:41What about you?

00:11:42Orlando.

00:11:42Orlando?

00:11:43Orlando?

00:11:49You got a school there?

00:11:52Um, I went to school in Illinois.

00:11:55Yeah.

00:11:56What did you go to school for?

00:11:57What are you?

00:11:57Oh, finance.

00:11:58What did you study?

00:11:59Uh, football.

00:12:01Oh, nice.

00:12:04I mean, I think we're all insecure a little bit.

00:12:06There's definitely anxiety I have when meeting new people, and especially the ladies.

00:12:10So, watching Kourtney fumble and get nervous about role-playing is so sweet.

00:12:14We kind of have that in common, honestly.

00:12:16She seems very genuine.

00:12:17I know, this is so awkward.

00:12:21So, what are you drinking?

00:12:22A strawberry margarita?

00:12:25See, yep.

00:12:26Looks good.

00:12:27Double.

00:12:31Okay, this flirting exercise is horrible, embarrassing.

00:12:35I never want to show my face at this resort again.

00:12:38I'm just sitting there like, okay, this is so awkward.

00:12:40Like, I want to curl up and fall in the sand and, like, cry and bury myself.

00:12:46Okay, guys, thank you so much.

00:12:47I would love to hear from all of you what you observed.

00:12:50Give them some feedback on what you saw go down.

00:12:53Very.

00:12:54I feel like, sorry, go ahead, go ahead, go ahead.

00:12:55I was going to say very interviewish.

00:12:59Chat, it felt a little bit forced, and I could see where the pauses were that you were trying to think of the next thing to say.

00:13:04And Kourtney, don't take it so seriously.

00:13:06You guys didn't do a lot of laughing.

00:13:07Yeah.

00:13:08Okay.

00:13:11When Kourtney and Chad are having the roleplay, it's not really that romantic.

00:13:16It's not cute.

00:13:17But at the end of the day, I wanted to end ugly because I wanted to end good with me.

00:13:20All right, you guys can have a seat.

00:13:25Good job, guys.

00:13:25Good job.

00:13:26Good.

00:13:27Good job.

00:13:27I had to stop for you, but kind of sweet.

00:13:30Thinking as in me, doing shots at the party.

00:13:32But you're stressed out, taking over me.

00:13:34Laying down rules when I'm chatting to my team.

00:13:37Ladies, welcome to the party.

00:13:40Come on in.

00:13:40So, hot tub speed dating sounds fun, except for the hot tub part.

00:13:49I'm not super comfortable, like, in a bathing suit with my shirt off in front of strangers.

00:13:55It's super awkward.

00:13:56Really freaking awkward.

00:13:58And now it looks like I'm going to be sitting in a hot tub with Jen, and this is what I've been dreading the entire day.

00:14:04How you doing?

00:14:05How are you enjoying?

00:14:06Jennifer, nice to meet you.

00:14:08Chose it, chose it.

00:14:09Awesome.

00:14:09Yeah.

00:14:10You're really hard to meet.

00:14:13You're really hard to meet.

00:14:13I'm Southern.

00:14:14I'm slow, man.

00:14:15Like, I'm really slow.

00:14:17So.

00:14:18I'm old, too.

00:14:19I'm old, yeah.

00:14:2044.

00:14:20I'm old, and I was just dating a 65-year-old back at holiday.

00:14:26So, why are you looking for me?

00:14:28I'm looking for what's looking for me.

00:14:31Oh, so anything.

00:14:32Not necessarily anything.

00:14:34I'm the only old guy here, and also I'm the only guy here with an exterior.

00:14:38You know what?

00:14:39This is, like, you're trying, you know, I think it's going to be good for you guys to sit and just have a talk whenever that happens.

00:14:44Y'all do you?

00:14:44I think I do that, yeah.

00:14:45Not all.

00:14:46All right, ladies and gents.

00:14:49Our two minutes has come to an end.

00:14:51Are you going to see my son?

00:14:52Yeah.

00:14:53Oh.

00:14:53Oh, my God.

00:14:56Yeah, we're so good.

00:14:57Bye-bye.

00:14:57We are.

00:14:58Bye-bye, darling.

00:15:04Be careful.

00:15:05Look, very.

00:15:06Oh.

00:15:07Do I really have to do this?

00:15:09Wow.

00:15:10Why should I endure this situation with a guy that has been just spreading bad rumors about me?

00:15:19For him to say that I am a gold digger, it's so wrong.

00:15:23When he actually didn't give me anything.

00:15:26I think that that is the way that men can try to feel better with themselves trying to shame women.

00:15:33It's so disrespectful, I don't even want to look at him.

00:15:40Oh, my f**k.

00:15:42Oh.

00:15:46You almost killed me.

00:15:49It's really necessary.

00:15:54That's only two minutes, so, like, I'm sure this will be over quick enough.

00:15:59I mean, there's an empty one.

00:16:00You can just jump in.

00:16:03I mean, it's just insane, right?

00:16:06Like, I came here to do something I've never done, trying to find a partner, and I got to do this now with literally the only ex that I'm not on cordial terms with.

00:16:18Honestly, Jen being here is making me think about going home real fast.

00:16:22But, you know, I try my best to be a good person, and, you know, I deserve to be happy like anybody else, and the only way I'm ever going to find somebody to share that with is to put myself out there.

00:16:35I don't really have any will towards you, or trying to be nice, but, like, you're not.

00:16:43Papa, did you remember the things that you have to share?

00:16:48I think that your version of history is different than mine.

00:16:51Tim attacks like a woman.

00:17:20She likes to gossip, and, like, bring rumors.

00:17:23You cannot be talking negative and saying bad things about me, and then expect that I'm going to be nice in a hot tub with you.

00:17:30I'm sorry.

00:17:33I'm sorry.

00:17:46Chantel and Usman, they kind of had, like, a conflict before we even went to the room.

00:17:50I never talked to her, so why would she call me a scammer?

00:17:54Because she's a woman.

00:17:55I cannot punch her, so why are you going to say bad things?

00:17:56I'm going to punch her.

00:17:58Usman said if you were a guy, he would have hit you.

00:18:02I'd take Brazilian jiu-jitsu.

00:18:04I bet.

00:18:04You guys ready for the next couple?

00:18:18So ready.

00:18:19Yeah.

00:18:19Let's do it.

00:18:20Okay.

00:18:21Lexi, I'm going to invite you to have a seat, please.

00:18:23Okay.

00:18:24Go, Lexi.

00:18:27And Colt.

00:18:28Oh.

00:18:29I'm going to ask you to come up and introduce yourself to Lexi.

00:18:32See what feels natural.

00:18:33Let's see how it goes.

00:18:35Okay.

00:18:36Come on, Lexi, girl.

00:18:38You got this, Colt.

00:18:40I mean, some would say I have game.

00:18:42I think I have at least some game, maybe half of a game of something.

00:18:46I don't know.

00:18:47Hello.

00:18:48Hi.

00:18:50I do have some magnetism here, but I think everyone will tell you how they want to be treated.

00:18:59You just have to listen and just kind of go with the flow.

00:19:03Oh, you have very interesting piercings and all of that.

00:19:07Really?

00:19:08Yeah.

00:19:08Yeah?

00:19:09Why do you think they're interesting?

00:19:10Oh, I guess I'm just not really familiar with that.

00:19:12I don't have any piercings myself.

00:19:13You don't have any piercings?

00:19:14Did you ever want to get piercings?

00:19:15I did, yeah.

00:19:16You should take a seat so we can talk about it.

00:19:18I would love to talk about it.

00:19:19Yeah.

00:19:21So are you into that type of stuff?

00:19:23I see you tattooed as well.

00:19:25Into what type of stuff?

00:19:26Oh, like piercings and stuff.

00:19:29You know, like a nose or like a nipple or something.

00:19:32Yeah.

00:19:32Is your body like a canvas pretty much?

00:19:38Is it accessorizing yourself?

00:19:39I mean, let's draw that back.

00:19:41Yeah?

00:19:41Yeah.

00:19:42T on that, bro.

00:19:44Oh, my God.

00:19:47I don't even want to look.

00:19:48Don't ever say that to nobody.

00:19:50Okay.

00:19:51Don't talk about my body.

00:19:52That's a lot.

00:19:54That's so awkward.

00:19:55Yeah, hold on.

00:19:58Wait.

00:20:02I'm so sorry.

00:20:03I'm not trying to laugh you out.

00:20:06Woo.

00:20:07I feel bad for Colt.

00:20:09Like, that's embarrassing.

00:20:10Like, he's getting laughed at in his face.

00:20:13But at the same time, I think my role play was a lot worse.

00:20:16So I'm giving Colt a pass on that one.

00:20:19I feel like you could have stopped at, like, you like the piercings.

00:20:22Don't talk about my body the first time you see me.

00:20:24Sure.

00:20:25Yeah?

00:20:25Yeah.

00:20:26All right.

00:20:28Let's reset that.

00:20:29Okay.

00:20:30Okay.

00:20:31So why are you here today?

00:20:32What brings you here?

00:20:32Oh, well, the weather's beautiful, you know, by the beach.

00:20:35I love coming here.

00:20:36Yeah?

00:20:37I love to travel.

00:20:37You love to travel?

00:20:38Oh, super.

00:20:39Are you solo traveling when you do any new people?

00:20:41Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:20:42Oh, me too.

00:20:43I love to solo travel.

00:20:43Yeah.

00:20:44Okay.

00:20:44Because otherwise you're on another person's schedule.

00:20:47Yeah.

00:20:47You're going to bring in conflicts.

00:20:48You can't do your own thing.

00:20:50I'm on vacation, man.

00:20:51All right, guys.

00:20:53Fantastic job.

00:20:54Yes, girl.

00:20:57What did you see happen?

00:20:59I feel like my start was a little rushed.

00:21:01Yeah.

00:21:01Right?

00:21:02I got a little nervous.

00:21:03I'm in front of a pretty girl, you know, obviously.

00:21:05You got it, though.

00:21:06You got it, too.

00:21:06I believe in you.

00:21:07I believe in you.

00:21:08Good job, guys.

00:21:12I like Lexi's energy a lot.

00:21:15I feel like Lexi and I have some kind of connection.

00:21:17All right, there you go.

00:21:19Great job.

00:21:19That was great.

00:21:20But I'm not sure where that will go.

00:21:24Is there someone you would have rather?

00:21:26Oh, yeah.

00:21:26Like your favorite?

00:21:28I actually kind of like Courtney.

00:21:31She's very sweet.

00:21:32She's actually a pretty interesting woman.

00:21:34I was kind of hoping I'd get to flirt with her a little bit.

00:21:37Yeah, I don't know, but, yeah.

00:21:44Okay, Carlo, have a seat, please.

00:21:50And Tiffany, you are up.

00:21:52Let's see what you got.

00:21:53Good luck, Tiffany.

00:21:54Ready?

00:21:54Let's go.

00:21:55All right.

00:21:57So I never do this, but my name is Tiffany.

00:22:00Oh, hi.

00:22:00I saw you, and I think you're really handsome.

00:22:03Is anyone sitting here?

00:22:04No, take a seat.

00:22:05Nice to meet you.

00:22:05I'm Carlo.

00:22:06Carlo.

00:22:07Carlo, actually, I spoke to him very briefly yesterday.

00:22:11I didn't get a feel for, like, who he is.

00:22:15So I'm a little nervous.

00:22:17Oh, don't be nervous.

00:22:18I don't usually come up to guys, but you're very cute.

00:22:20That takes a lot of confidence.

00:22:21You have a beautiful eye.

00:22:23You have pretty eyes, too.

00:22:25When I walked up to him, and he first made eye contact with me,

00:22:29immediately I just felt, and then I felt safe to approach him.

00:22:35He's a handsome guy.

00:22:37He's cute.

00:22:39Where are you from?

00:22:41Born and raised in Jersey.

00:22:42No way.

00:22:42Me, too.

00:22:43No, what part of Jersey?

00:22:45Red Bank.

00:22:45Are you south or north?

00:22:46It's, like, central.

00:22:47Okay.

00:22:48And what's your background?

00:22:49Well, I'm Italian and Irish.

00:22:52Okay.

00:22:52Are you Italian?

00:22:53I love Italian and Irish boys.

00:22:54So I'm Colombian and Cuban, but born in the U.S.

00:22:59So mom's Cuban, dad's Colombian.

00:23:01All right.

00:23:01Well, bienvenidos.

00:23:02Oh, okay.

00:23:03Check.

00:23:06Colombian, Cuban, crazy, crazy.

00:23:07Are you okay with that?

00:23:08Very cool.

00:23:09Very cool.

00:23:09Irish-Italian is a little crazy, too.

00:23:11Are you?

00:23:12Yeah.

00:23:12I can't tell.

00:23:13It's too very sweet.

00:23:15Well, you may tell soon.

00:23:18All right, guys.

00:23:19Good job.

00:23:20All right.

00:23:21Yay!

00:23:22So did you guys feel the connection here?

00:23:24Yeah, that was good.

00:23:25What would it take to get the number or to the first date?

00:23:32Ask her.

00:23:32I think, well, hey, we have a lot in common.

00:23:35Why don't we continue this on a night out?

00:23:39Was that you actually asking Tiffany out on a date?

00:23:45Yeah.

00:23:46I mean, I would definitely take you out on a date if you're up for it, Tiffany.

00:23:51Yeah, I'm done.

00:23:52Let's do it, then.

00:23:54There we go.

00:23:54Good job, guys.

00:23:56I was going to say, I felt like I was interrupting.

00:23:58That was the best place.

00:23:58I did.

00:23:59I felt like I was interrupting.

00:24:00I just think that's probably a while.

00:24:01Me too, my own little world.

00:24:01Good job.

00:24:03When Carlo asked me out, I was like, yay.

00:24:06Like, oh, my God.

00:24:07I was excited because I was like, I didn't expect it.

00:24:11I definitely still have my eye on Rocky, but Carlo's tall.

00:24:14He's got a nice body.

00:24:16I want to date around and keep my options open.

00:24:18I want to see who works best for me, and that's what I'm going to do.

00:24:21I think what you guys all learned today,

00:24:23that if you just let go and allow the connection to feel organic,

00:24:28flirting doesn't have to be that serious.

00:24:30And now that you guys have all gained some more flirting skills,

00:24:33I want you to go out tonight and apply them.

00:24:37Mingle, meet each other, use your body language,

00:24:40and most importantly, have fun.

00:24:45I'm just not a natural flirt because I just felt so, like, nervous and awkward,

00:24:50and, yeah, it was not good.

00:24:54But I think I learned a lot of helpful tips and tricks today watching the other people go.

00:24:59I was just in my head too much.

00:25:00Good job, guys.

00:25:03I think if I could do it again,

00:25:05I would have taken tequila shots before I showed up to this.

00:25:09Yeah.

00:25:10Oh, how late are we going to be caught tonight?

00:25:12We did a dream.

00:25:13I want to think, no.

00:25:14We earned it.

00:25:15I don't know.

00:25:15I think we earned it.

00:25:16I threw everything for me now,

00:25:19spirit feeling free now,

00:25:20in the know it,

00:25:21on my way to close the dream house.

00:25:24Hey, change your teeth all,

00:25:25tell me what a lethal,

00:25:27had to go in deep down and make it back to me now.

00:25:40Everything all right over here?

00:25:43The longest two minutes of me.

00:25:44It's the longest two hours.

00:25:46It seems like a mutual readiness to be done.

00:25:49I'm now, like, done.

00:25:51You're good.

00:25:52Yeah, because, I mean,

00:25:53you're a zombie to go.

00:25:57I'm coming out of the beach.

00:25:57Okay.

00:25:58Let her have her.

00:25:59It seems like that's the solution.

00:26:00That's super sweet of you.

00:26:03That's what I aim for, Jennifer's being sweet,

00:26:05all the time.

00:26:07I'm so glad that's over.

00:26:17I'm so happy that Tim got the hint

00:26:19and left the bathtub.

00:26:21He wants to tell me what to say

00:26:24or not to say about him,

00:26:25like he's his business.

00:26:27I don't know how the next three weeks are going to be,

00:26:30but Tim definitely needs to stay in his lane

00:26:32and leave me alone.

00:26:33I love you.

00:26:36I love that.

00:26:37I got you.

00:26:38I got you.

00:26:39What's up, guys?

00:26:40So, hey.

00:26:42So, how was it?

00:26:44You look so off.

00:26:47What happened?

00:26:49Well, I'm over here because

00:26:51me and Jennifer didn't want to sit in a hot tub

00:26:53with each other,

00:26:54and I was like,

00:26:54I'm going to go down to the beach now, y'all.

00:26:56That was very uncomfortable,

00:26:57and I'm hoping that this tension goes away

00:27:01because it's kind of like bumming out my trip.

00:27:04Jennifer has already made Tim feel uncomfortable here.

00:27:09I'm not going to let her cut my friend down

00:27:11in front of me.

00:27:13I will always have Tim's back

00:27:15because I'm like super protective of my friends,

00:27:19and if you cross them,

00:27:21watch your back.

00:27:31Gentlemen, welcome back to the party.

00:27:34Pick a tub,

00:27:36get yourself settled,

00:27:38and you guys already know the drill.

00:27:44Elise and I, we kissed.

00:27:47It was a good kiss,

00:27:48and I did want to see her butt,

00:27:50but, I mean, it's only day two,

00:27:54so I would hope that the other women here

00:27:56don't, like, assume that I'm locked in with Elise.

00:27:58I mean, I got to see where her head's at.

00:28:02I'm still kind of watching to see who she is.

00:28:05How are you?

00:28:06How are you?

00:28:06How are you doing?

00:28:08How are you?

00:28:08How are you doing?

00:28:09How are you doing?

00:28:09I'm doing a lot of stuff.

00:28:11What do you mean?

00:28:11Like, this thing was two minutes ago.

00:28:14I don't know.

00:28:15I've worried about it.

00:28:15I mean, more comfortable talking, one-on-one.

00:28:17Then, I'm going to be excited.

00:28:18I mean, like, yes, and glad to a party.

00:28:21I heard you guys were talking about me on the bus.

00:28:23Thanks.

00:28:24Well, don't you do that?

00:28:26Yeah.

00:28:26Yeah, I'm still talking to all things.

00:28:29Well, we'll keep bringing it up.

00:28:30I'll kiss you.

00:28:32And I'm like, chill, chill, chill, chill, chill.

00:28:35Don't say too much about it.

00:28:36Leave it alone.

00:28:38So, would you like one more round?

00:28:40Yes.

00:28:41Give me the one that's most full.

00:28:43That one, yeah.

00:28:44That's the one.

00:28:46And I'm going for you, lady?

00:28:48How are you getting it for me?

00:28:49How are you being lost for me?

00:28:50I just gave it to you.

00:28:51I give it back.

00:28:52Okay.

00:28:53Here, you want it?

00:28:54I like to get people out.

00:28:55We can have the most full one.

00:28:56I wanted to make you happy.

00:28:57I don't know.

00:29:01There's this deep connection that we have that I've definitely not experienced with anyone

00:29:05else here at the retreat.

00:29:07But, like, not knowing where his head's at is kind of making me a little nervous.

00:29:10Especially, you know, we had some fun last night.

00:29:13Obviously, some alcohol was involved.

00:29:14And we ended up talking the rest of the night.

00:29:16And then, this morning, I called him and we talked a little bit.

00:29:20Now, I kind of want to see what he feels.

00:29:23How do you feel?

00:29:23I'm choosing to, um, let's process and we'll let go and to making connections.

00:29:33Why?

00:29:34That brings a question.

00:29:35Have you made any connections today with anybody else?

00:29:38Yeah.

00:29:39I don't know.

00:29:40Obviously, I'm happier here with you today.

00:29:45I'd be, like, if you weren't here, I'd probably be, like, if you wouldn't be thinking about me.

00:29:50Probably.

00:29:51And not so much in one meeting other people.

00:29:55I'm a good 100%.

00:29:56Like, I'm either, like, 100% or zero.

00:29:59We're not really in between.

00:30:02And she's tripping.

00:30:05She's tripping, like, this doesn't make any sense.

00:30:09We've only known each other for two damn days.

00:30:11And I thought we were having fun.

00:30:14But she's just jumping in head first.

00:30:17This is bad.

00:30:22Hey.

00:30:23Hi.

00:30:24Oh, you look so cute.

00:30:25Oh, thank you.

00:30:26Oh, I hope he's as cool as he was earlier today.

00:30:29So, fingers crossed it doesn't suck.

00:30:33Cheers first.

00:30:34Okay, salud.

00:30:35Tomamos.

00:30:36I'm actually Sean.

00:30:39Oh, that's sexy.

00:30:40Oh, that's sexy.

00:30:56Oh, nice.

00:31:00Hi, how are you?

00:31:01How are you?

00:31:01Very good.

00:31:02What drinks do you have available?

00:31:03I have a margarita, mezcadita.

00:31:07Margarita.

00:31:08Margarita?

00:31:08After the flirting 101, I got a text from Carlo, and it says, hey, I wasn't kidding about

00:31:15that date.

00:31:16Do you want to meet up and have a drink?

00:31:19But in my mind, I'm like, oh, no, I hope he's as cool as he was earlier today.

00:31:23So, fingers crossed it doesn't suck.

00:31:27Okay.

00:31:38Hey.

00:31:39Hi.

00:31:40Oh, you look so cute.

00:31:41Oh, thank you.

00:31:42Yeah, yeah, you're totally dressed up, and I feel a little underdressed, but-

00:31:47Oh, you look good.

00:31:47You look great.

00:31:48All right.

00:31:48What are you drinking?

00:31:49A margarita.

00:31:50Margarita?

00:31:51Okay.

00:31:52Getting on these chairs is not easy.

00:31:54No, it's not.

00:31:54It's not.

00:31:55And you're tall, so-

00:31:56Well, thanks.

00:31:56Thanks.

00:31:57How tall are you?

00:31:58Five six.

00:31:59Five six, I suppose.

00:31:59Six one.

00:32:01Oh, I like that.

00:32:03Same thing.

00:32:04Margarita, please.

00:32:05Yeah.

00:32:06The flirting workshop went really, really well.

00:32:09I was happy that Tiffany and I got paired together.

00:32:13Basically, we were the best flirts.

00:32:15I'm attracted to Tiffany because she's, like, a real person.

00:32:19She's really cute.

00:32:20I really like her eyes, and I think she's feeling my eyes as well, so I'm just excited

00:32:26to see what comes of it.

00:32:27Yeah, I feel really nervous.

00:32:28I'm, like, I don't, like, date a lot, so, like, this is weird for me.

00:32:33Do you want to have dates or not?

00:32:35You can be honest.

00:32:36I do.

00:32:36I have my, I have my waves of going on dates and kind of just being, like, I'm done with

00:32:43dates.

00:32:44Why?

00:32:44Like, if you go on a few bad dates, it's exhausting.

00:32:47It's time-consuming.

00:32:48I want to hear a bad date story.

00:32:50A bad date story?

00:32:53You need to.

00:32:53Come on.

00:32:55I'll just tell a brief story.

00:32:56I went out with another girl from Jersey, and I thought, like, we were clicking based on

00:33:01that, and I get there, and I hear her voice, and it's, like, the actress from White Lotus.

00:33:10Oh, wait.

00:33:11Jennifer Coolidge.

00:33:12It's Jennifer Coolidge's voice in, like, hot girl's body, and I'm just, like, I feel so

00:33:18shallow right now, but I just, like, am instantly turned off.

00:33:21Turned off for you.

00:33:21Instantly turned off.

00:33:23That was it for me.

00:33:24So, when you're on the dating apps and you're, like, you know, scrolling through, trying to

00:33:28find your person, what do you go for, really?

00:33:31Okay, what's your type?

00:33:32Um, so I do, like I said, like, exotic, like, bilingual is really nice.

00:33:37Okay.

00:33:37Like, a little, uh, you said Cuban and Colombian, right?

00:33:40So, that's a good mix for me.

00:33:42You're just describing me.

00:33:44That's it.

00:33:45That's it.

00:33:45I, I'm actually learning to speak Spanish.

00:33:48Okay.

00:33:48So, that's what it is.

00:33:50I'll be a teacher.

00:33:51Uh, yeah, I'm learning.

00:33:53I'm very teachable.

00:33:54Yeah?

00:33:54Yeah.

00:33:56Behave yourself.

00:33:59Spit some game to me in Spanish.

00:34:01Well, cheers first.

00:34:03Okay, salud.

00:34:04Salud.

00:34:05Salud.

00:34:06Okay, that's a good one.

00:34:09Tomamos.

00:34:11I'm actually shocked.

00:34:13I thought you'd be like, hola, como esta?

00:34:15No, no, estoy aprendiendo dos veces por semana.

00:34:18Hold on.

00:34:19You, like, know Spanish.

00:34:21Sí.

00:34:24Carlo's not generally my type.

00:34:26He kind of looks dorky, but he's sweet.

00:34:28He seems sweet.

00:34:30And there's something sexy about him.

00:34:32He's tall.

00:34:33He's got a nice body.

00:34:34He starts speaking Spanish.

00:34:36And I was like, oh, that's sexy.

00:34:38This guy's smart.

00:34:39He knows a whole other language fluently.

00:34:41So, I feel like he's, like, top contender right now.

00:34:44And I'm actually really excited about it.

00:34:47All right.

00:35:03It is time to wrap up your speed date.

00:35:07Close up shop.

00:35:08And, gentlemen, you're going to rotate to the next hot tub.

00:35:11So, say your goodbyes however you see fit.

00:35:14And then move on to the next young lady.

00:35:18Even though we have a compatibility, I may have jumped the gun making out with Elise.

00:35:23I feel like I need to dial it back a little bit.

00:35:27And now Jen is on my mind.

00:35:30I mean, from the moment I saw Jen at the party, I've been interested.

00:35:33And, I mean, since breakfast this morning, I've been waiting for a chance to talk to her one-on-one.

00:35:37Like Usman said, she is hot, man.

00:35:40She's hot.

00:35:42She is.

00:35:45I'm not going to slip in this thing like I did her.

00:35:48She had a spell.

00:35:50Really?

00:35:51I've got two minutes to shoot my shot with the hottest girl at this retreat.

00:35:54The pressure's on.

00:35:56I haven't got her two minutes.

00:35:57Actually, I haven't been pulled.

00:35:59I mean, I didn't know how to expect that long.

00:36:03When you walked into the room yesterday, I did know that she would have been like.

00:36:09You had your mask on, but I'm going to look for it.

00:36:14Better be the full woman.

00:36:17Definitely Rob feels so much better than having Tim in the hot tub.

00:36:22The first gleams that I had from him, it was like, oh, no, he's a player.

00:36:27Because he was making out with Elise the first night.

00:36:30I see a lot of arrogance, but maybe it's just a lot of confidence, which is sexy.

00:36:35So, what are you into?

00:36:36Are you a girl, like, being sexy, like, when it goes and stay after you have to do it?

00:36:41Family of those girls, actually.

00:36:43Really?

00:36:43Wow.

00:36:45Rob and Jen are, like, super close.

00:36:48And then not knowing where Rob's head's at is kind of making me a little nervous.

00:36:52I think Jen needs to stop flirting around with every single man, because I don't like competition.

00:36:57And no one competes against me.

00:36:59If I want something, I get it.

00:37:03I'm looking very thin, very early.

00:37:05I love to do adventure.

00:37:08And just, like, see the world.

00:37:11Like, I would do it, like, if I go to the Everest, like, to the Manchester.

00:37:16Oh, my God.

00:37:17Just waiting for me.

00:37:18I'm not going to see it.

00:37:19Like, I will be making up.

00:37:21There, and then I'll put it there, you know.

00:37:23Yeah?

00:37:24Have you made love in any amazing places?

00:37:27To help you?

00:37:28Did you say that?

00:37:29You have.

00:37:31That's not a bit of a yes to me.

00:37:35Damn.

00:37:36She's telling me all the right things.

00:37:38What are you trying to do to me?

00:37:39Like, you're trying to, like, you're with my head, aren't you?

00:37:42Like, this, you can't be that girl.

00:37:44Like, that girl doesn't exist?

00:37:46What are you talking about?

00:37:47That's what I've been looking for.

00:37:49So now I have a goal at the Everest.

00:37:53Jen is the only speed date where I'm like, I don't want to get out of this hot tub.

00:37:59I just want to see what this is.

00:38:02And if Jen is interested in me, that I might want to put more interest in Jen and distance

00:38:08myself from Elise.

00:38:09I'm hoping Elise picks up that, you know, I do want to take it slower with her.

00:38:14What do we do now?

00:38:27I'm going to eat.

00:38:28I'm so hungry.

00:38:29I'm tired.

00:38:29I don't know.

00:38:30Are you coming?

00:38:33I'm kind of stuck in the middle between these guys that I'm interested in.

00:38:38So what does that imply?

00:38:44I thought I'd be more drunk and much with all of us.

00:38:58I have.

00:38:59Hey.

00:39:00We're about to take shots, y'all.

00:39:02We're about to take shots.

00:39:02Yeah.

00:39:03We need two more.

00:39:03All right.

00:39:04Add two more to the situation.

00:39:05Two more.

00:39:06Yeah.

00:39:07Hi.

00:39:07Good to see you.

00:39:08Good to see you again.

00:39:09Hey, brother.

00:39:09What's up?

00:39:10I've never taken tequila before in my life, so.

00:39:12How does it taste?

00:39:13Is it sugar, bitter, or salt?

00:39:15It's going to be better.

00:39:15It's going to be salty.

00:39:17It's a little stingy, but it's going to be good.

00:39:18You'll be fine.

00:39:19Okay.

00:39:20Courtney and Usman showed up together at the bar, and I'm not surprised at all.

00:39:25Although they want to keep saying that they've never done anything.

00:39:28I'm like, you guys haven't hooked up and there's nothing there.

00:39:32I call bull****.

00:39:33I think Courtney's not going to hold that secret for long.

00:39:36I'm just going to sit back and sip my tea.

00:39:42Cheers to your first shot.

00:39:46Ready?

00:39:46Go.

00:39:46Get it.

00:39:47Three, two, one, go.

00:39:48Go.

00:39:50Take the lime.

00:39:51Take the lime.

00:39:52Don't throw it.

00:39:54Chew on the lime.

00:39:57Okay.

00:39:58Are you okay?

00:39:59Yeah, I'm good.

00:40:00Yeah.

00:40:01See, it's not that bad.

00:40:02Yeah.

00:40:02You got this.

00:40:03Tequila.

00:40:05Tastes so bitter.

00:40:07Um, I don't know.

00:40:10It didn't do me anything yet.

00:40:12Maybe it has to go with the process.

00:40:14I hope it's not going to make me go so wild and crazy.

00:40:17Just watch out.

00:40:19Congratulations.

00:40:20Congratulations.

00:40:21I got it.

00:40:28Oh, that was so cute.

00:40:37Ladies and gents.

00:40:38Hi.

00:40:39How are you?

00:40:40All right.

00:40:41Let's hang out over here.

00:40:42I got some things to chat with you about.

00:40:45Oh, no.

00:40:45Some good.

00:40:46Some not so great.

00:40:48But we're all learning here.

00:40:50That's the whole point, right?

00:40:51All right.

00:40:51Sure.

00:40:52Some of you look excited.

00:40:54Some of you look terrified.

00:40:55So this will be fun.

00:40:57So the first thing is I'll tell you the lowest four rated folks based on these scorecards.

00:41:05And I want to preface this by saying this doesn't mean that you aren't worthy of being here or anything like that.

00:41:12It's just, you know, objective scoring.

00:41:14So if you are in this bottom four, this is about growth.

00:41:19And you have an opportunity to finding the person that you're meant to be here for by the end of this.

00:41:23Okay?

00:41:24So those bottom four people are...

00:41:32Chantel.

00:41:36Nikki.

00:41:37Oh.

00:41:38Tim.

00:41:40And Jennifer.

00:41:42Oh, me?

00:41:43Yes.

00:41:46Like, I don't think that's fair.

00:41:48Who made this?

00:41:49Who came out with those results?

00:41:52It's insane.

00:41:54Now we're going to talk about some specifics.

00:41:56This is just to have a conversation, get some feedback, and we'll move on and have some fun.

00:42:01Okay.

00:42:03Chantel.

00:42:03As mentioned, you were in that bottom four realm.

00:42:06But also looking at some of your scores, you also rated others pretty low.

00:42:10So there may have been, like, awkwardness.

00:42:13Sure.

00:42:14With my interactions with other people.

00:42:18It's a tricky situation because we're trying to accelerate a process that usually happens over six months to a year.

00:42:24It really hurts.

00:42:28I don't feel like I deserve such a low score.

00:42:33Maybe I'm delusional.

00:42:35I really did bad in the hot tub.

00:42:37Let's be honest.

00:42:38But I'm still curious about what Joe thought of me, though.

00:42:43Hopefully he didn't rank me too low.

00:42:45He is a little younger.

00:42:47But I could teach him a few things.

00:42:52Rob, here's what I wanted to ask a question about.

00:42:54You rated the six dates that you had as threes.

00:42:59I rated all the dates the same.

00:43:02Okay.

00:43:02To me, it was like every date is us sitting in a hot tub for two minutes.

00:43:07So it all just felt like the same date over and over and over and over and over.

00:43:09So I just kind of rated them all the same.

00:43:11I'm trying to kind of make the least understand that I'm just trying to keep my options open without hurting anyone's feelings.

00:43:18And at the same time, nobody got a different number.

00:43:21So nobody was, nobody gained favor or lost favor.

00:43:25Because I can't be acting like I'm just going to jump right into trying to get at Jen.

00:43:30I don't want to look like that flaky guy who just like, one day I'm all over this girl.

00:43:35The next day, just like it's nothing.

00:43:37I'm all over that girl.

00:43:38Like, let me put a little pause on where's Rob at.

00:43:42I guess I'm confused because I don't even understand.

00:43:45I guess I'm lost.

00:43:47About what?

00:43:48What you asked Rob.

00:43:50So what Rob was kind of saying was that every date was exactly the same.

00:43:54It's a cookie cutter.

00:43:55You get in, you talk to people for two minutes.

00:43:57Yep.

00:43:58Does that make you feel any kind of way to be described as like you're the same as everybody else you talk to?

00:44:03I feel like when I feel it, I feel it.

00:44:06Yeah.

00:44:06I don't know if I like.

00:44:08Okay.

00:44:08That's fair.

00:44:09I don't know.

00:44:09Maybe I need to work a little harder.

00:44:10I don't know.

00:44:11It was the same date six times.

00:44:13So everybody got the same number.

00:44:15I don't understand.

00:44:17Okay.

00:44:19Who wants to go next?

00:44:21Just kidding.

00:44:22We can keep moving forward.

00:44:23But a little bit of homework.

00:44:25Think about the person that you feel like you have the biggest connection with here tonight.

00:44:29And within the next day or so, I just want you to take that vulnerable step.

00:44:33Doesn't mean that you have to fall in love tomorrow.

00:44:36It just means I'd like to get some coffee with you one-on-one.

00:44:40I'd like to go on a date with you.

00:44:41Take a deep breath.

00:44:42Let yourself be yourself.

00:44:43You can't go back and change today.

00:44:45But here we are.

00:44:47So it's been a lovely day of getting to know each other on a deeper level.

00:44:52Why don't we grab our things and we'll hit the rope.

00:44:54Sound good to you?

00:44:55Sounds great.

00:44:55All right.

00:44:56Absolutely.

00:44:58Rob was just so disrespectful to me.

00:45:05My entire night last night was with him between us kissing and making me feel special and then giving me a score as just another girl.

00:45:15You know.

00:45:18Rob messed with the wrong woman.

00:45:20Rob.

00:45:26Yeah.

00:45:26So after kissing me last night and you were trying to get me to go you last night.

00:45:33Yo, this chick is crazy.

00:45:35She might be a nutcase.

00:45:37You just want to put your me.

00:45:39I think it's so attractive that you speak like Spanish.

00:46:00Have you ever, since it's hard for him to get out of the country, have you ever thought about going to Nigeria?

00:46:03I want to go.

00:46:04Would you be open to that?

00:46:05Yeah, he invited me.

00:46:06I wouldn't have loved it.

00:46:07Oh, you've already talked about it.

00:46:08Yeah.

00:46:09Okay, that's it.

00:46:10I mean, I possibly like her.

00:46:11But I'm like, how many secret wives does he have in Nigeria that I'm going to have tonight?

00:46:15Sounds like trust might be an issue here after you've heard that song.

00:46:18No, you have nothing to do about it.

00:46:19We're getting another drink.

00:46:20We're getting a Long Island.

00:46:21Hi.

00:46:22Hey, how are you doing?

00:46:23Good.

00:46:24How are you?

00:46:24Pretty good.

00:46:25Oh, the happy couple.

00:46:29What's your poison choice?

00:46:32I think it's always tequila.

00:46:33Tequila?

00:46:33Yeah.

00:46:34Okay.

00:46:35You want to do a shot of tequila or something?

00:46:36Just a little shot, but we can do another one.

00:46:38Yeah, no, no, no.

00:46:38Because you missed the shot.

00:46:39So, because you missed the shot.

00:46:40Okay.

00:46:40Yeah.

00:46:40Right now, I feel super awkward around Lexi.

00:46:44Said some things that kind of made her upset or triggered at the Flurry Workshop.

00:46:48I feel more comfortable talking to women online.

00:46:50It's definitely nice to have a buffer when you're communicating with somebody.

00:46:54Time delay, texting, you can think about it.

00:46:56You know, have a tea, whatever.

00:46:58Take a and come back to it, you know.

00:47:00But, you know, in this real-time scenario here, time is not an option.

00:47:05I feel like Lexi and I have no romantic interest in each other, but really, this could be an opportunity

00:47:10to improve my skills talking to women in person.

00:47:14I'm going to use a bathroom.

00:47:14That's right.

00:47:15I'll be right back.

00:47:15Okay.

00:47:16I heard something about people going back to a room.

00:47:19What happened with that?

00:47:20Yeah.

00:47:20So, last night, like, maybe six of us went back to the room and we went back to Tiffany's room last night.

00:47:26Oh, come over.

00:47:26Come over.

00:47:27Yeah.

00:47:28So, yeah, it got heated in her room last night.

00:47:30Like, I felt like Chantel and Usman, they kind of had, like, a conflict before we even went to the room.

00:47:35And she told me, like, be careful.

00:47:37He's a scammer.

00:47:38And then he got, like, a little butthurt about that.

00:47:39I'm like, oh, maybe I shouldn't have told them.

00:47:40Yeah, but even though I heard about that, she said, oh, be careful, I still want to like it.

00:47:43That was the main reason why I called her attention yesterday.

00:47:46I was like, hey, what's up?

00:47:47Yeah.

00:47:47You know, I want to hear the reason why she have that perception about me.

00:47:50Yeah.

00:47:50Because I never talked to her, so why would she call me scammer?

00:47:55I've had a fight last night with Chantel.

00:47:57I am still feeling so angry over it.

00:47:59Chantel opened her mouth and said to Courtney in Istanbul that she should be careful with me.

00:48:03I'm a scammer.

00:48:04And I feel like she owe me an apology because why would you call me scammer for no reason?

00:48:08That's not fair.

00:48:09But, like, I don't say that because she's a woman.

00:48:11I cannot punch her, so why are you going to say that?

00:48:13I don't want to punch her.

00:48:14Yeah, that's what I'm saying.

00:48:15Like, if it's a man, then...

00:48:16You've got to take a stand, though, in some way.

00:48:17What I'm trying to say is that she's a female.

00:48:19What I'm trying to say is that...

00:48:23Hey.

00:48:24Oh, hello.

00:48:24Hey.

00:48:25Hey.

00:48:26Hey.

00:48:26Welcome back.

00:48:28Where were you guys at the hotel?

00:48:29Where were you guys at?

00:48:29Hey.

00:48:30I couldn't even tell you, like, on a beach or something the whole time.

00:48:34I haven't seen you the whole time.

00:48:35Hey, guys.

00:48:36Yo, what are you doing?

00:48:37How you doing, bro?

00:48:37I haven't met you yet.

00:48:38Cole.

00:48:38Cole, Rob.

00:48:39Rob, I've been hearing your name all day.

00:48:41I'm like, who is wrong?

00:48:41Really?

00:48:42In your guys' thing?

00:48:43Or just amongst you guys?

00:48:45I did.

00:48:46I guess Cole and Jen hit it off at the masquerade ball, but I ain't worried about Cole.

00:48:53Like, there's different versions of a good-looking guy.

00:48:55There's me.

00:48:57And then there's the good-looking guy that looks like Jack Sparrow before bed.

00:49:02Or lost-at-sea look.

00:49:04I don't know.

00:49:05It's like an odd choice.

00:49:08Did you guys have a good day?

00:49:09Yeah, it was all right.

00:49:10I mean, it was a...

00:49:11Where were you at last night?

00:49:12Where were you at last night?

00:49:13I was in my room last night.

00:49:14With who?

00:49:15How was your day?

00:49:20Good.

00:49:21It's so loud.

00:49:23It is.

00:49:23It's so hot here.

00:49:25After the speed dating activity, I feel attracted, like physically attracted to Rob.

00:49:34He has, like, this sexual magnetism, but now it is super nice to see Cole tonight.

00:49:41I see that he's a little nervous around me, and that is super cute.

00:49:46These two men are very attractive, but they're very different from each other, like two different flavors of ice cream.

00:49:53Now I have to choose which one I want to taste.

00:49:56Do you have a big family?

00:49:58Yeah, I do.

00:49:59You want to tell me a little bit about that?

00:50:00But I am a single, actually.

00:50:02A single...

00:50:04You have a single kid?

00:50:06Yeah.

00:50:06How old is your kid?

00:50:08He's seven years old.

00:50:09It's my boy.

00:50:10It's a girl.

00:50:11That's true.

00:50:11I'm happy.

00:50:12Well, I'm happy that you told me that.

00:50:14She's a beautiful girl.

00:50:16I have no doubt that's true, looking at mom, too.

00:50:19Does that make you nervous to tell people that?

00:50:24It's something that has to be put on the table.

00:50:27It's very important.

00:50:27Somehow, and at some point, I think it's important.

00:50:33Being a mom changes everything when it comes to dating.

00:50:36You have to be sure that you're thinking not just about yourself, but what is best for the future as a possible future family.

00:50:44So it's a lot of pressure.

00:50:46Cole seems to not freak out about the fact that I am a single mother, and that is actually a super, super positive sign that I may be able to build a relationship with him.

00:50:58I really love to talk to you.

00:51:00Like, I always, like, I don't know, like, when it has been, like, really short, I'm, like, I feel so comfortable talking to you.

00:51:07I love that.

00:51:08I feel the same way.

00:51:09I think from the very start when I saw you last night, with eye contact and the mask, there was a spark there for me, and I'm happy to hear that maybe that was the same for you.

00:51:16So, Jen's, like, no doubt, a powerful, sexy woman.

00:51:19I am a little nervous to talk to her just because the previous night when we met, it was a little awkward just given the fact that we had the masks on and it was hard to hear, and I wasn't used to her accent.

00:51:30So I kept having to say, like, what, what, what are you saying?

00:51:32Please repeat yourself.

00:51:33Um, when I came to the retreat, I was open-minded to the idea that somebody might have a kid.

00:51:38So when, uh, Jen said that she had a kid, this isn't a deal-breaker for me.

00:51:41I think I'd be a good father.

00:51:43Love to give it a shot.

00:51:44And I'm super excited to see where it goes from here.

00:51:49Okay, my biggest, one of my biggest things that I want to do is, like, go to a renaissance fair.

00:51:53To a renaissance fair?

00:51:54Anyone?

00:51:55Anyone.

00:51:55I've been to, like, at least two.

00:51:57I've been to any.

00:51:58They're great.

00:51:58You can throw axes.

00:52:00Hi.

00:52:01How is your day?

00:52:02It's out of, like, you're, like, going to have been done.

00:52:05Click right away.

00:52:07Anyone you like?

00:52:08No.

00:52:08I think you said that last night.

00:52:11It sounds good.

00:52:11I think that's nothing wrong.

00:52:13Huh?

00:52:13It's...

00:52:13See, ours was fun, but we had to, like, rate everybody in our date.

00:52:18Ross.

00:52:18Yeah.

00:52:19Why did you say that our date was the same as everyone else's?

00:52:22You just...

00:52:23I knew you didn't get it.

00:52:24Everybody got the same.

00:52:25Okay.

00:52:26So after calling me last night...

00:52:27You guys are dating each other.

00:52:28Wait, wait, wait.

00:52:29We didn't have to date each other.

00:52:30You guys are dating that date?

00:52:31Yeah, but I didn't really like that particular question.

00:52:34Okay, but, Rob, I don't really care what you like.

00:52:35Okay.

00:52:36So after kissing me last night, calling me on the phone for an hour and a half, and you were trying

00:52:42to give me to go you last night on the phone.

00:52:44You're upset because I gave every girl the same number on one particular...

00:52:49We kissed last night.

00:52:53You're here for the wrong reasons.

00:52:54You're telling me to go you last night?

00:52:56I did not say that.

00:52:57Yeah, you did.

00:52:58You told me to come to your...

00:52:58No, I didn't.

00:52:58I said you could hang out.

00:53:00No, no, no, no, no, no.

00:53:00You told me to come to your place.

00:53:02Show the receipts.

00:53:03Pull up the receipt then.

00:53:04Did I not just say, I want to hang out?

00:53:05Show me, show me.

00:53:06Yeah, show the receipts.

00:53:07Show the receipt then.

00:53:08Okay.

00:53:09Elise is a model for Miami, and you're going to give her three?

00:53:12Are you kidding me?

00:53:13Like, his game.

00:53:14Like, I could help him with his flirting.

00:53:16Elise is throwing herself at you, like, showing her ass, making out with you, and you still

00:53:21managed to this up?

00:53:22How?

00:53:23Oh, gosh.

00:53:24How did this conversation start?

00:53:25She's like, she started coming at me.

00:53:27She's mad that I rated everybody the same, so she's pissed off at me.

00:53:32But I think that's ridiculous.

00:53:33Really?

00:53:34So why did, why were you...

00:53:35Because you're refusing to understand my perspective and why I rated everybody the

00:53:39same.

00:53:40You should rank her number one.

00:53:46I was going to give Elise the benefit of the doubt.

00:53:48I mean, at least for now, it's only been a couple days.

00:53:51But after acting like this, I mean, I'm, like, certain that this girl is not somebody

00:53:57that I could be with.

00:53:58Like, that is the biggest, the biggest red flag for me.

00:54:02The absolute biggest worst thing that you could do if you think that I'm going to be

00:54:06interested in you is accuse me of what I haven't done in front of people that don't

00:54:10know.

00:54:11Do you see where she's saying, though?

00:54:12No, I see her being childish.

00:54:14How would you feel if she ranked all of you equal, but you guys have, like...

00:54:18I don't know.

00:54:19I don't know.

00:54:20Why?

00:54:21Because I'm not a emotional person that can't get.

00:54:22Why?

00:54:23You just want to put your .

00:54:24You want to take me behind doors and me so no one thinks you're a dog.

00:54:27There you go.

00:54:29They too.

00:54:30That's why your relationship is going to work out.

00:54:42I'm not an emotional person that can't get.

00:54:44Why?

00:54:45You just want to put your .

00:54:47There you go.

00:54:48It's a thing too.

00:54:49You're an asshole.

00:54:50I mean, you're here for the wrong intention.

00:54:53You hurt me.

00:54:54It's rude.

00:54:55What's this job, this altercation right here?

00:54:56You're making me feel like a no one more explosive.

00:54:58I had a feeling that you were going to do this.

00:54:59No, I'm going to hear this.

00:55:00But it's fine.

00:55:01That's fine.

00:55:02I think that we should.

00:55:03No, you're good.

00:55:04You're good.

00:55:05You're fine.

00:55:06In 24 hours, we've gone from, we're vibing, we have a connection.

00:55:10But because I ranked her a three, she is now yelling at me in my face, just yelling at me.

00:55:16And I'm just like, yo, this chick is crazy.

00:55:20She might be a nutcase.

00:55:23Look at the, look at these time calls.

00:55:25Face times me.

00:55:261043 AM.

00:55:28Calls me at 2 AM.

00:55:29Incoming call for an hour and 20 minutes.

00:55:32Wow.

00:55:33But I'm just another girl, right?

00:55:34On the, on the ranking board.

00:55:36Why is she?

00:55:37Jesus Christ.

00:55:38I don't know why.

00:55:39I was like, yes, we talked on the phone.

00:55:40Yes.

00:55:41I told her like, yeah, we should probably not be baking out on the first day.

00:55:42And it is a bad look.

00:55:43And let's not do that.

00:55:44And let's kind of like slow it down.

00:55:45And now she's saying, you want to behind closed doors.

00:55:46You want to hide me.

00:55:47You, you.

00:55:48Like I broke her heart because I put up three for everybody.

00:55:51Because you didn't have sex with her.

00:55:54Probably.

00:55:55I don't.

00:55:56Which is fine.

00:55:57And now, so now to make me into the dog who wanted to when I didn't want to.

00:56:14Elise is upset because Rob didn't sleep with her.

00:56:18She wanted to get and Rob didn't her.

00:56:23She wanted her cheeks clapped and, um, is let down because Rob didn't do it.

00:56:30I think.

00:56:32But yeah, I was just, I was just not expecting this.

00:56:37Maybe take it as a red flag.

00:56:39Oh, I'm definitely not interested anymore.

00:56:41Yeah.

00:56:42Like I'm, I could not talk to somebody like that.

00:56:44You dodged a bullet.

00:56:45It's only the second day.

00:56:46So right, I'm glad that this is what happened on the second day because this is way too excessive.

00:56:51I think I'm going to go to bed.

00:56:53All right.

00:56:54Sweet dreaming.

00:57:01So you're not going to say bye to her?

00:57:02No, I'm not going to talk to her ever again.

00:57:04Why?

00:57:05Because that was insanity.

00:57:10Why can't I not have drama?

00:57:13I didn't even do anything.

00:57:16I just got here, man.

00:57:18I don't even know.

00:57:22I'm tired of being taken advantage of.

00:57:24I feel like when I start liking a guy a little bit, he does this to me.

00:57:29After all this time that he's tried to talk to me and make me feel special as just another girl.

00:57:35You know, I know that was fake.

00:57:39Sometimes I speak quickly and I should think probably before I speak and I get ahead of myself.

00:57:46But I'm a real lovable human with a big heart that's just really scared of getting hurt.

00:57:53And it just happened.

00:57:54They get mad because you don't want to them.

00:57:59And then they start, you know, blah, blah, blah, speaking all this nonsense.

00:58:02Happens all the time.

00:58:03But that's crazy because, like, if that's what she wanted, she really just tanked it and shot herself in the foot.

00:58:07Like, that is never going to happen.

00:58:08Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:58:09Why would you do that if that's what you want?

00:58:11I was not envious of you during that, bro.

00:58:15My day was the worst one.

00:58:17I think, like, out of everybody.

00:58:18No.

00:58:19No, it wasn't.

00:58:20No, because I felt, like, so awkward.

00:58:22Just, like, anxiety.

00:58:23You do well.

00:58:24You do well.

00:58:25Yeah, but...

00:58:26I feel like I did the worst.

00:58:28I really don't know if I am good at flirting or I'm not, but I am honestly better than Courtney

00:58:33because at the flirting one-on-one, she was crashing.

00:58:37Oh, my God.

00:58:39So I'm just trying to be that gentleman because I like Courtney and I don't want her to feel bad about it.

00:58:45I'm really surprised, Rob, that you got into something because I really thought it would have been Chantel and Usman.

00:58:51Yeah.

00:58:52Right?

00:58:53Because he said if you were a guy, he would have hit you.

00:58:56Damn.

00:58:57Yeah.

00:58:58Calling him a scammer.

00:58:59Yeah, calling him a scammer and all that we're talking about.

00:59:02I'd take Brazilian jiu-jitsu.

00:59:04I bet, yeah.

00:59:05She's ready to choke him up.

00:59:06Yeah, I wouldn't want to mess with you.

00:59:09I understand where Usman's coming from, being offended or hurt by what someone is saying,

00:59:14but he escalated too far and it goes to show you that you're just going to be an asshole for no reason.

00:59:20And I'm hoping Courtney realizes that because I don't want that flower to blossom.

00:59:26I'm trying to throw as much interference in there as I can.

00:59:29Can I interrupt for a little bit?

00:59:30I want to talk to you, Usman.

00:59:31Okay.

00:59:32Because I heard that you said something behind my back that wasn't very nice.

00:59:44Actually, it was very aggressive.

00:59:46You told people that you would want to punch me?

00:59:50If you're a man, I will.

00:59:51If I was a man.

00:59:52Yeah, but you're a woman, so I can't.

00:59:54I would never touch a woman in my life.

00:59:55I would never do.

00:59:56Why would you say that?

00:59:57Why would you say something to her about me in allegation that you don't know?

01:00:01Because I felt like they were true.

01:00:03Just for example.

01:00:04How is it true?

01:00:05Like, what did I scam?

01:00:06Did you say anything?

01:00:07I'm very protective of my friends, and I wouldn't want anything bad to happen to them.

01:00:11You act so childish, I don't know.

01:00:12How?

01:00:13Me?

01:00:14Childish?

01:00:15No.

01:00:16Never.

01:00:17No, you did it.

01:00:18No, you did it.

01:00:23You gonna punch me in the face, or like, what's up?

01:00:26She's like, you're here.

01:00:27No.

01:00:28You guys are not fighting.

01:00:29Do you want to fight me?

01:00:30No, I don't want, please, I don't want to fight you.

01:00:33Do you want to fight me?

01:00:34No.

01:00:35He's not.

01:00:36He's not.

01:00:37Come on.

01:00:38All right, I gotta go to bed.

01:00:39You okay?

01:00:40I'm done.

01:00:41It's hard.

01:00:42I'm fine.

01:00:43For you to just come here at you, it's karma.

01:00:44I don't like you.

01:00:46This is some bull .

01:01:07You know what?

01:01:08this.

01:01:10I tried to own up to my misunderstanding, and some man says that they wanted to punch

01:01:15me in the face.

01:01:16I didn't come here for this.

01:01:18I have every right to believe he's a scammer.

01:01:21He did target older American women.

01:01:28I've never been so disrespected by a man in my life.

01:01:33Usman better check himself, or he's going to be in for a world of hurt.

01:01:38Pow pow.

01:01:39Pow pow.

01:01:40I feel like you're going to kill the mood if you guys don't make up the rest of the trip.

01:01:51Because it's like, I'm not trying to deal with this.

01:01:54I want to be having fun.

01:01:55Like, you guys are killing my back.

01:01:56Yeah, but the thing is that I'm just not taking anything that has to do with coming easy.

01:02:00We don't think that about yourself.

01:02:01Yeah, yeah, yeah.

01:02:02I mean, I don't, I didn't say you, you know, like, but a lot of people think that and that's

01:02:07.

01:02:08It doesn't matter.

01:02:09It doesn't matter.

01:02:10This is .

01:02:12I feel like Chantelle is kind of like trying to ruin the whole trip for me.

01:02:17I'm finding someone.

01:02:19I'm dipping too, man.

01:02:21You want to go too?

01:02:22Yeah, I'm going to go back to the room.

01:02:24Okay.

01:02:25But I mean, I'm just having my time to shoot my shot.

01:02:30And then Courtney is right here.

01:02:32And then you keep on saying all these negative things about me.

01:02:35It's not my fault that Chantelle picked the wrong guy.

01:02:39Maybe he's still out because of green card.

01:02:42She should be smarter than that.

01:02:45Good night.

01:02:46Good night.

01:02:47Good night, yeah.

01:02:48All right, bro.

01:02:49Be safe.

01:02:50Yeah, man.

01:02:51Hey, ma'am.

01:02:52What's up?

01:02:53What a night.

01:02:54Yeah, it's hot.

01:02:55You just need to just let it all go.

01:03:01But you're here being, like, negative now, see.

01:03:05I'm going to be negative to you?

01:03:06Okay, I'm sorry.

01:03:07You're like, yeah, you're fighting with my friend.

01:03:10I want you guys to all be cool.

01:03:11I want to have a great vibe and get along.

01:03:12Okay, I'm sorry.

01:03:19This is not a situation I want to be in.

01:03:21Like, I'm kind of stuck in the middle between my friend

01:03:24and a guy that I'm interested in.

01:03:26Usman's mad.

01:03:28Chantelle's mad.

01:03:30And Chantelle's terrified when she gets mad.

01:03:33I don't want to be caught in the crossfires,

01:03:35because I don't want to go to Mexican jail.

01:03:38Good night, guys.

01:03:42Buenas noches.

01:03:43Bonita.

01:03:46Good night, Jennifer.

01:03:47Good night.

01:03:48I think he is here.

01:03:50Yeah.

01:03:51Hey, Jennifer.

01:03:52Mind if I walk you home?

01:03:54Um...

01:03:55Yeah.

01:03:56Okay, let's go.

01:03:57Yeah, sure.

01:03:58Where do you live?

01:03:59I think it's these ones.

01:04:00Do you know how to do that?

01:04:01I'm trying to figure out.

01:04:02Okay.

01:04:03It's a maze out here.

01:04:05Cole is the hottest pilot I've ever seen.

01:04:08And he's already, like, locked in on Jen

01:04:10and just following her around like a little puppy.

01:04:12But at the same time,

01:04:13I'm curious how genuine and sincere he is,

01:04:17because most pilots, you know,

01:04:19have girlfriends in every city.

01:04:21I need to feel him out a little bit before I judge him.

01:04:25This time of night, you've got to be careful.

01:04:27So weak.

01:04:29Yeah, of course.

01:04:30That's very sweet of you.

01:04:31Just want to make sure you're safe from these Mexican raccoons.

01:04:33You're too cute, though.

01:04:36It's very clear that I'm going to have a lot of competition

01:04:39when it comes to dating Jennifer.

01:04:42I'm not the type of guy to give up easily.

01:04:44I'm not afraid to spite for what I want out of this.

01:04:47Jen is like a Greek goddess,

01:04:48and that's the one I'm all in on.

01:04:51Is this where you're staying?

01:04:52Yeah, this is my place.

01:04:54Okay.

01:04:55Yeah, so thank you.

01:04:56Let's get you inside.

01:04:57Yeah, of course.

01:04:58I'm so happy that we had the opportunity to get a little alone time

01:05:01and talk about things other than...

01:05:03You're a great job.

01:05:06I appreciate it.

01:05:08All right.

01:05:09And of course.

01:05:10Well, hopefully see you tomorrow.

01:05:11All right.

01:05:12Bye.

01:05:13Yeah.

01:05:19Oh, my God.

01:05:23It makes me really happy to hear Cole's feelings and thoughts

01:05:28towards me because I really like him.

01:05:32Rob and I definitely had a good night to be dating, but I have to say my favorite is Cole.

01:05:39I love how we are talking.

01:05:41Also, like, it's very sweet of him to take me to my door and say good night and protect me from the Mexican raccoons.

01:05:49All right.

01:05:50Have a good night.

01:05:51All right.

01:05:52You guys have a good night.

01:05:53Yeah.

01:05:54All right.

01:05:55Cool.

01:05:56Love is in the air.

01:05:58They had the best date of all of us, though.

01:06:00They did.

01:06:01They did.

01:06:02So I'm happy for the...

01:06:03Well, what do we do now?

01:06:04I want to eat.

01:06:05I'm so hungry.

01:06:06I'm tired.

01:06:07I just want to go to my room and just go to bed straight.

01:06:10Okay.

01:06:11Are you coming?

01:06:15You said you want to go to bed straight.

01:06:16Yeah, but...

01:06:17So what does that imply?

01:06:21Maybe you should dial it down a little bit and be more subtle about things.

01:06:24I don't know.

01:06:25I'm just trying to enjoy Courtney's company and get to know her.

01:06:28And if he's trying to take her away and keep her all to herself...

01:06:32Well, good luck, Usman.

01:06:39The last thing was kind of feeling like this Jen and Rob thing.

01:06:42Anytime you talk about Jen, the only thing I remember is what she told us yesterday.

01:06:46What?

01:06:47So, you know, like, it's not something that I actually should tell you?

01:06:50No, tell me.

01:06:51I think if people are coming to tell me a rumor, they want it to get out.

01:07:08I'm tired.

01:07:09I want to go home.

01:07:10I just want to go to my room and just go to bed straight.

01:07:11Okay.

01:07:12Are you coming?

01:07:16You said you want to go to bed straight.

01:07:18Yeah, but...

01:07:19So what does that imply?

01:07:20I don't get the point.

01:07:21I have my laptop.

01:07:22Look at which movie.

01:07:23That's like one o'clock, dude.

01:07:24I just want to go to bed.

01:07:25I'm fine.

01:07:26I'm just going to go to my room and eat and go to bed.

01:07:28I don't...

01:07:29I'm tired.

01:07:30Okay.

01:07:31That's fine.

01:07:34I feel like me and Courtney already have the connection.

01:07:38And I'm kind of trying to see what will happen tonight.

01:07:41And then Colt has been so weird.

01:07:44It's so annoying.

01:07:45I don't feel threatening from Colt.

01:07:47But I start to think, like, what's going on here?

01:07:53So what did you think?

01:07:54I think the night was good.

01:07:55It was eventful.

01:07:56There was a lot going on.

01:07:57Eventful.

01:07:58My favorite part was her date.

01:07:59Yeah.

01:08:00It's a great date.

01:08:01I felt very attracted to Tiffany and, like, everything that she was giving off.

01:08:07And I'm just excited to see what comes of it.

01:08:09I think there may be a kiss in the future if things keep progressing this way.

01:08:14This is you here?

01:08:15Yeah.

01:08:16All right, cool.

01:08:17Cool.

01:08:18That was so much fun.

01:08:19Aw, I had so much fun.

01:08:20It's a great first date.

01:08:21Aw, thank you.

01:08:22Aw!

01:08:23Thank you for being so respectful and so easy to talk to.

01:08:28I really, really enjoyed myself, honestly, genuinely.

01:08:31Same.

01:08:32And I hope to keep getting the night more.

01:08:34Okay.

01:08:35Yeah?

01:08:36We will, yeah.

01:08:37Night.

01:08:38Night.

01:08:39All right.

01:08:40All right, bye.

01:08:41He's cute.

01:08:42I want to learn more about him before I can say I like him, like him.

01:08:56But do I get excited around him and happy around him?

01:08:59Yes.

01:09:00I feel like, I don't know, it's always nice to know that someone's, like, into you.

01:09:04I'm going to change.

01:09:06What a weird, bizarre ending to me.

01:09:35Ending to the night.

01:09:37I was not expecting that.

01:09:39Um, I think it was pretty insane.

01:09:44I mean, we just got here.

01:09:46I just met this girl.

01:09:47And I'm really caught off guard.

01:09:49I don't know why I'm defending myself against a girl that I just met.

01:09:52Hopefully, today's, or tomorrow's a better day.

01:09:55And we can, uh, forget all about tonight.

01:09:58Because, I don't know, I need some sleep.

01:10:02Alone.

01:10:03For sure.

01:10:04Standing in the middle of a big crowd turning on.

01:10:18What am I to do when everything feels too good?

01:10:24It's day three.

01:10:29We did a hot tub speed dating yesterday.

01:10:33And that did not go so well.

01:10:35Because, you know, I'm sure that everybody has realized that my ex is here.

01:10:40And that has been super awkward.

01:10:43Uh, man, talk about, like, the last person on earth I expected to see here.

01:10:48So far, I don't think there's any girl that is, like, super into me.

01:10:53And I get, I'm, like, a very acquired taste.

01:10:56But, um, I'm really hoping that things turn around.

01:10:59And, you know, maybe I can, you know, connect with somebody.

01:11:02Because so far, I don't know, it just feels like, like, people aren't getting my vibe.

01:11:07And I'm not feeling down, but I'm starting to get a little worried.

01:11:11Oh, my God.

01:11:21This way, this way, this way, this way.

01:11:22So we're gonna hide from the rain.

01:11:24Yeah.

01:11:25I've had a fight last night with Chantel.

01:11:27I'm worried that I up with Courtney.

01:11:29And I'm scared that I'm gonna lose her for another guy.

01:11:36So I asked Courtney to meet me this morning.

01:11:39And then I'm trying to see what I can get from Courtney if she would say yes to me.

01:11:43Yesterday, we were having some argument and misunderstanding with Chantel.

01:11:48Because I feel like when I was trying to explain myself over there, nobody understand me.

01:11:53And everyone was like, ah, tired of this guy.

01:11:55Yeah, you were being annoying after that.

01:11:57Despite that you are her close friend, you see, you know, like, being...

01:12:02You on her side, you are still at the same time on my side.

01:12:05Yeah, I appreciate that. I feel like a love from you.

01:12:07I feel like you're showing me love. Like, I don't mean, like, love-love.

01:12:10Yeah.

01:12:11But I'm saying that when everybody's trying to, like, pull back, you're still being there.

01:12:14So, you know, like, for me, I feel like, yeah.

01:12:16Of course.

01:12:17So I appreciate that.

01:12:18It's giving me, like, a growing light.

01:12:19But I don't know. I don't want to be, like, assuming.

01:12:22Mm-hmm.

01:12:23I would like to know if what I think is what it is.

01:12:30I mean, like, let's see where things go.

01:12:34What do you feel about...

01:12:35all these guys?

01:12:44Right now, I'm not having anything romantic.

01:12:46No guys have taken me on dates.

01:12:47Nobody's done anything.

01:12:48Like, I'm just talking and getting to know everybody at this point.

01:12:51I want to ask you this question.

01:12:56What are we?

01:13:00So you're trying to DTR right now?

01:13:02What DTR means?

01:13:04To find the relationship.

01:13:06Oh, I mean, it's early, but I didn't know you before now.

01:13:10I know you know me before here.

01:13:12So...

01:13:13I mean, we're in a different level compared to them.

01:13:17So what do you think?

01:13:21I don't think there's anybody who is beautiful more than you.

01:13:23Like, they are all below you.

01:13:24That's how I see you.

01:13:25You are more beautiful than anyone, yeah.

01:13:26You're sweet.

01:13:29Okay, on that note, can I kiss you?

01:13:33Um, you haven't even taken me on a date.

01:13:35But kissing is something,

01:13:36because I think I was showing so much effort

01:13:39and moving forward.

01:13:43So can I kiss you?

01:13:50My cheek.

01:13:52Cheek?

01:13:53You haven't done anything romantic for me.

01:13:55I mean, you just say that you take a knee.

01:13:58Okay.

01:13:59Let me give you...

01:14:01Yeah.

01:14:05Right now, Usman's my number one.

01:14:07He just needs to step up his game.

01:14:08He needs to do more than just talk.

01:14:11Talk is cheap.

01:14:13I think he's a smooth talker,

01:14:14and he may just want something physical.

01:14:16I don't want to just hook up.

01:14:18I want something more,

01:14:19and he needs to figure out if he feels the same.

01:14:21So, what's up with Rob and Jen, though?

01:14:24I was like, what the hell happened?

01:14:25Like, kind of feeling like this Jen and Rob thing.

01:14:29Yeah.

01:14:30But then it's like Jen and Cole,

01:14:31and I like Cole and Jen,

01:14:32like, they were liking each other too,

01:14:34so I'm like...

01:14:35Yeah.

01:14:36What do you think?

01:14:37So, like...

01:14:38Well, yesterday,

01:14:39any time you talk about Jen,

01:14:40the only thing I remember

01:14:41is what she told us yesterday.

01:14:43Yeah.

01:14:44Yesterday, me,

01:14:45her,

01:14:46and Rob were sitting down over there

01:14:48having breakfast.

01:14:50You know, she was saying a lot about Tim.

01:14:52I was like, what?

01:14:53What?

01:14:54What?

01:14:55So, you know, like,

01:14:56it's not something that I actually should tell you?

01:14:57No, tell me.

01:15:00I cannot say that.

01:15:01Like, I don't know if I should say that.

01:15:06Tell me.

01:15:07Okay, okay, okay.

01:15:08You know she's his ex.

01:15:09Yeah.

01:15:10She said he don't want to touch her.

01:15:13Wait, she told you about this sex?

01:15:15Like, tell me what.

01:15:16Wait, he traveled to her country,

01:15:17he made her day,

01:15:18but he refused to touch her.

01:15:20It's like, why?

01:15:21I don't...

01:15:22Why, though?

01:15:23So, she was saying that he was ready

01:15:25to pay for somebody,

01:15:26like a...

01:15:27because it's a male strippers, right?

01:15:29So, he was ready to pay for somebody

01:15:31to give her, like, lap dance.

01:15:34And he did it,

01:15:35and he watched it happening,

01:15:37and he liked it.

01:15:39No way.

01:15:45You know,

01:15:46Elise,

01:15:47the way that she's been coming at me,

01:15:49it's way too early for all this.

01:15:50I mean, yesterday,

01:15:51the tensions are probably high.

01:15:52Well, hopefully she doesn't continue

01:15:55to come at me about anything.

01:15:57Elise,

01:15:58she's just a wrecking ball

01:15:59of who knows what you're gonna get.

01:16:03You're on.

01:16:12Conversation is an art

01:16:13in which very few excel.

01:16:15So, few know when to proceed

01:16:17and when to stop.

01:16:18I like that.

01:16:21Right now,

01:16:22I'm reading my book on etiquette.

01:16:24It's called Etiquette of Today.

01:16:27Looks like it was published in...

01:16:29um...

01:16:321806 and 1896,

01:16:34something.

01:16:35Before the 1900s, at least.

01:16:38I don't know.

01:16:39There's some things in here,

01:16:40like tip your hat when you meet a lady.

01:16:42You know?

01:16:43That makes sense.

01:16:44So, he was ready to pay for somebody to give a, like,

01:16:56lap dance.

01:16:58And he did it,

01:16:59and he watched it happening,

01:17:01and he liked it.

01:17:03I wonder if he's a cuckold.

01:17:06What cuckold?

01:17:07It's, like,

01:17:09a guy that wants to watch their woman

01:17:12have sex with another guy, basically.

01:17:15You do that in the city?

01:17:16That's, like, something.

01:17:17We don't do that in Africa.

01:17:18I don't do that.

01:17:19I don't do that.

01:17:20Yeah, you shouldn't do that.

01:17:21Like, no.

01:17:22I'm not doing that,

01:17:23but that's something.

01:17:24It's, like, if he's not wanting to sleep with her,

01:17:25but then he's paying other guys

01:17:27and, like, enjoying watching other guys be with her.

01:17:30Probably.

01:17:31It's just so weird, the whole story.

01:17:33Like, I just don't understand it.

01:17:36No.

01:17:39I'm not shocked that Tim

01:17:41is into some kinky stuff sexually.

01:17:44I wonder if they take the stripper back home,

01:17:47because I could see Jen, like, dominating both the men.

01:17:55I can't believe you've waited 24 hours

01:17:57to tell Tim is a cuckold.

01:17:58Like, when you find out the ,

01:18:00you guys come, like, tell me.

01:18:01I didn't tell you anything.

01:18:03I did not tell you anything.

01:18:05Okay.

01:18:06That they came to the ocean?

01:18:07Mm-hmm.

01:18:10I'm sorry, but there's very little chance

01:18:12I'm gonna keep this a secret.

01:18:13I think if people are coming to tell me a rumor,

01:18:16they want it to get out.

01:18:18Everybody here is gossiping, and this is some hot tea.

01:18:21Do you think I'm not gonna share this?

01:18:23Also, Tim's a friend.

01:18:24I would wanna know if people are talking to me behind my back.

01:18:27And then, honestly, I wanna know if this rumor is true,

01:18:30so I'm gonna go directly to the source.

01:18:32Man, it's starting to really rain out here.

01:18:33Yeah, you guys brought in the storm last night,

01:18:34then you're bringing it back today.

01:18:35That's not my fault.

01:18:36We need to fluff your energy.

01:18:37Have you guys seen that?

01:18:38Yeah, do that.

01:18:39Let me see.

01:18:40Do that.

01:18:41Do that.

01:18:42Let me see.

01:18:43Oh, yeah.

01:18:44I receive it.

01:18:45I receive it.

01:18:46I receive it.

01:18:47I receive it.

01:18:48Good energy.

01:18:49Good energy.

01:18:50I receive it.

01:18:51All right, help me out.

01:18:52All right, help me out.

01:18:53All right.

01:18:54I saw this.

01:18:55It's like fluffing your aura, they call it.

01:18:56Yeah.

01:18:57Don't do too much.

01:18:58It's okay, it's okay, it's okay, it's okay.

01:18:59It's okay.

01:19:00I'm kind of jealous, yeah.

01:19:01He's like, stop fluffing your aura?

01:19:02Mm-hmm.

01:19:03That's crazy.

01:19:04I appreciate her positive vibe, but I don't know if Courtney's ever heard the word fluffer before.

01:19:13I feel like that word is used in other ways that sounds kind of crazy for her to walk up to two guys and go,

01:19:21I'm going to fluff you guys.

01:19:23It sounds crazy.

01:19:26So, I fluffed your aura.

01:19:28Do you feel better now?

01:19:29I guess so.

01:19:30I mean, this thing just started, so I'm going to try not to feel negative about it.

01:19:35But, you know, Elise, the way that she's been coming at me, like, it's been so messy.

01:19:40It's way too early for all this.

01:19:42Yeah.

01:19:43It's just, it seems like another messy situation.

01:19:45Yeah.

01:19:46Where I'm, I don't know, I don't know what to do or what to think or where to go with it.

01:19:50I mean, yesterday the tensions are probably high.

01:19:52It's like a weird situation that somebody I like and you're watching them flirt with multiple, like, hot girls and do stuff.

01:19:57Like, I think I would be like...

01:19:59And, but at the same time, that, that reaction is way too extreme.

01:20:03It's too much out.

01:20:04Yeah.

01:20:05I was interested all the way up until she blew up on me over here last night.

01:20:08Yeah.

01:20:09Personality over beauty, you know?

01:20:10Hey.

01:20:11Yeah.

01:20:12Especially if it's going to be like that.

01:20:13Well, hopefully she doesn't continue to try to, like, come at me about anything.

01:20:19And hopefully she doesn't bad mouth me about, uh, to other people.

01:20:23Right?

01:20:24I think you guys should go, well, yeah, she needs to talk to the dating coach.

01:20:28I think she needs to talk to the dating coach.

01:20:29I think she's got some really unhealthy dating habits.

01:20:32Yeah.

01:20:33I don't want to give her more ammo to, to attack me with.

01:20:36Like, clearly she is very unstable and ready to attack somebody that she barely knows over things that are trivial.

01:20:42Like, oh, you talked to me on the phone this morning.

01:20:45As if I'm, like, wrong to do that.

01:20:47I came here to find love.

01:20:49Like, to find a real connection with somebody that brings me peace.

01:20:52And it's like, on the second day, I got somebody yelling at me in my face.

01:20:55And it's like, that's, that's what my marriage was.

01:20:58And moving on from that, I don't want to waste my time again.

01:21:03I can't be with somebody like that.

01:21:05Somebody who doesn't, who just, like, turns on me.

01:21:08Elise, she's the wrecking ball of who knows what you're gonna get.

01:21:12And she's very demanding and very, like, aggressive.

01:21:15I don't want extra drama for no reason.

01:21:18She's, she's gonna figure it out one day that if she did like me, she shot herself in the foot.

01:21:23Hopefully, I can redeem myself with some of the other ladies here.

01:21:27And we'll see what happens.

01:21:30Just, just take it easy, you know?

01:21:32Yeah.

01:21:39You're Rob.

01:21:40Hi.

01:21:47Next time on 90 Day Hunt for Love.

01:21:50Talk to me about the pillow.

01:21:52This pillow.

01:21:54Is that you?

01:21:55I love that you have that with you, knowing that you were going through a rough time.

01:21:59Glory 101 was a disaster.

01:22:01But I still got game when it comes to turning on the charm.

01:22:04Do you think you have the courage to ask May out tonight?

01:22:08Or Courtney?

01:22:13Let's go! Party time!

01:22:14Yes!

01:22:15Woo!

01:22:16Rocky!

01:22:17Rocky!

01:22:18Rocky!

01:22:19Do your hand skit!

01:22:20Woo!

01:22:21I need a porn fan.

01:22:23I love Margarita.

01:22:24Yeah?

01:22:25I do too.

01:22:26Hey, guys.

01:22:27How's it going?

01:22:28With Jen, I feel like there's definitely like a connection.

01:22:29Like, we're vibing.

01:22:30I like Jen a lot.

01:22:31But Cole's not letting anybody talk to Jen.

01:22:32Hopefully has good intentions.

01:22:33But yeah, it seems like it's pretty messy.

01:22:34Even though I feel like I'm not in my league, I'm going to ask May out on a date.

01:22:39But I'm still keeping my eyes on Courtney.

01:22:41Do you have any dates planned?

01:22:42No, not yet.

01:22:43I heard that you paid for a stripper and you like to watch.

01:22:53For six years I've been having to defend my sexuality.

01:22:56It's like low hanging fruit.

01:22:57She knows that that's an easy way in a place.

01:22:59She said I'd be in a hotel room that's always going to be in the hotel room.

01:23:03It's not a wedding.

01:23:04It's not a wedding.

01:23:05I'm just kidding.

01:23:06That's a wedding.

01:23:07It's not a wedding.

01:23:08When you see a wedding, I'm not a wedding.

01:23:09We're going to be in a wedding.

01:23:10We're going to be in a wedding.

01:23:11We're going to be in a wedding.

01:23:12an easy way to upset me.

01:23:14What are you going around saying all this

01:23:17about me to everybody that I like men?

01:23:19Everybody knows the truth.

01:23:20No, because you're telling everybody stuff.

01:23:22You've been talking about me too for the last seven years,

01:23:26and now it's my turn.

01:23:28Throw the up.

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