00:00You know, you were with Aldo for like eight years, di ba?
00:09And then you decided to get married noong nakaraang Febrero ba?
00:13Feb and March.
00:14Tama ba?
00:15Feb and March. Opo.
00:16Feb and March. Sometime. I mean, somewhere there.
00:19Naging advantage ba yung long dating time, yung long relationship before deciding to get married?
00:29We got to know each other well, definitely.
00:32Kilala na nalaga naman yung isa't isa inside and out.
00:34But I think there came a time na naging complacent din kami sa relationship namin na
00:40how do you move on from an eight-year relationship to the next step which was marriage.
00:44And I think deep inside also, I really wanted to wait na
00:48wait if my dad would get out, if makakasama ba namin siya.
00:52It was a big factor also for me na parang ayoko pa ikasal.
00:55What if next year makalaba siya to walk me down the aisle?
00:59It's a big momentous occasion for me as a woman.
01:03So, I think those were the factors kaya tumagal din kami na eight years.
01:07No, but that's sweet. I mean, you had your dad in mind nung iniisip mong magpakasal.
01:13But here's the thing. Ano ang pagkakaiba nung girlfriend ka and then you became a wife?
01:19Ano yung practical differences between being a girlfriend and being a wife to Aldo?
01:25Aldo became much more sweeter and clingier after marriage.
01:31Talaga?
01:32When people would ask me this question dito, why honestly?
01:35Sabi ko talaga sa kanila, ano pa bang mag-iiba? Eight years na kami?
01:37And we've been living together and we've spent so much time together.
01:40So sabi ko, I don't think anything is gonna change.
01:43But, nung kinasal kami, we valued more quality time with each other and just getting to spend moments like calling him my husband, him calling me wife.
01:56Just, I didn't think it was going to be that different but it was Aldo actually after the wedding.
02:03Yung medyo mas taging nag-step into talaga siya sa husband role niya.
02:08Okay. Mga discoveries, nung nakasal kayo, ano yung mga nadeskubre mo tungkol kay Aldo?
02:15I mean, in terms of karakter, I mean, I know you were together already before you got married.
02:20But yun nga, yung sabi mo nga na parang may nabago sa aking asawa nung kami nagpakasal.
02:26Probably one thing na nag-iba sa kanya or mas nag-magnify sa kanya is his clinginess.
02:35Talaga doon.
02:36Parang feeling ko lagi niya ako hinahanap.
02:39Or hindi ko alam kung talagang nakkatsera lang ako but lagi niya ako hinahanap.
02:43So, and he's much more sweeter.
02:45Like, he pays attention to the details.
02:47And minsan, sabi ko sa kanya, may problema ka ba?
02:52Kasi out of the blue, nagpapadala siya ng food.
02:55And may mga maliliit siya na surprise na...
02:57Ako naman kasi I wouldn't, I would always tell him like I don't appreciate the grand gestures.
03:02Like, I like the small intimate moments every single day.
03:05So, ngayon after the wedding, parang mas naging bongga siya.
03:09So, ako kinakabahan ako sa'yo, may ginawa ka ba ang mali?
03:12Like, anong problema natin?
03:14Pero doon ko na-realize na, oh, it's there pala.
03:20Another way of looking at it, may mga tao, hindi lahat, ay pinapahalagahan talaga yung pagiging official.
