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00:00The word virgin, people see it as a joke, it's quite obsessing.
00:13In a world where sex is everywhere, the truth is surprising, there are more adult virgins
00:20than ever.
00:21Being a young adult in this day and age, it's difficult.
00:25Social media.
00:26Dating apps.
00:27TV shows.
00:28Porn.
00:29It's just everywhere.
00:30Are you self-conscious about our genitals touching each other?
00:33Now?
00:34Yeah.
00:35At this radical retreat, intimacy experts are offering a very hands-on solution.
00:42She's a miracle worker.
00:43Woohoo!
00:44Like that?
00:45I like that.
00:46To help Britain's virgins lose the one thing they feel is holding them back.
00:54I want to lose my virginity.
00:56It's now or never.
00:59But when the moment arrives...
01:01Would you like to move to bed?
01:04Who will be ready...
01:05I just don't want anyone to touch me.
01:08To go all the way.
01:11Yes.
01:12Yes.
01:13Yes.
01:23The last few days on Virgin Island have brought firsts for many.
01:28I think I managed to achieve my first orgasm ever.
01:32While Charlotte bared all...
01:33How does it feel?
01:34It's refreshing.
01:35Ben has been held back by his fear of nudity.
01:39I'm basically, like, pretty dressable in all of you put together.
01:42I like clothes.
01:43Clothes are a work of civilisation.
01:46Zach's impatience led to a rift...
01:48I'm just not feeling that desire from you.
01:51OK, that's enough for today.
01:53But reconciliation led him to opening up like never before.
01:58I want to be more vulnerable.
02:00I want to share that with you.
02:04Dave continued to progress...
02:05I had a little orgasm.
02:09And his aim is clear.
02:12I would like to meet a virgin.
02:14Yay!
02:15As the final phase begins...
02:17Watch at me.
02:18..time is running out for the group to get the most out of the course.
02:22We invited 12 virgins onto this island to help them explore the concept of virginity.
02:27They found out who they are, what they want.
02:30Don't be intimidated, even though there's a bed.
02:34Now it's an opportunity to self-reflect about what they want to do sexually at the retreat.
02:41Good morning, another beautiful day at virgin camp.
02:54It's a penultimate day on Virgin Island.
02:56Are you going to miss me?
02:57Are you going to sob?
02:58Jason, I miss you.
02:59I will miss your jokes.
03:00Obviously, this is the last two days, so we're going to be getting into the really big stuff,
03:09aren't we?
03:10I can't even guess what they're going to do.
03:13Oh, God.
03:14This final phase, it's a way for them to kind of celebrate their sexual power and all the
03:21learning they have done so far.
03:23For each member of the group to achieve their individual goals, Celeste and Danielle want
03:29to keep up the intensity.
03:30Escalation.
03:31What does that mean?
03:32It means taking it to the next level.
03:33Scary.
03:34Yeah.
03:35Let's go.
03:36The final group workshop will test exactly how far the virgins have come and how far
03:53they're willing to go.
03:58This is it, our final workshop.
04:01And this phase is all about escalation.
04:05And you're just like, what?
04:06Didn't we escalate enough?
04:09So on the first day that we came in, Andre demonstrated on Danielle an exercise called
04:16up against the wall.
04:18In the first workshop, they were terrified.
04:27We were actually worried that we overwhelmed them so much that they won't be able to continue.
04:35Now, Celeste and Danielle want them to finally conquer their fears.
04:39It's your turn to bring all of these tools together.
04:44Who wants to try it?
04:46Oh, I saw that.
04:54I'm quite scared around sex and what it really is.
05:00I want to be more comfortable in my skin so I can live my life to the fullest, you know?
05:05Just when you're ready, nod and I'll come to you.
05:09He arrived as one of the quietest in the group, but now it's time for Dave to show how far
05:13he's come.
05:14Ready?
05:15Yeah.
05:16Oh, yes.
05:17Oh, you're like between my legs.
05:24Oh.
05:25Oh.
05:26Oh.
05:27Oh.
05:28It's so good.
05:29Woo!
05:30Woo!
05:31You're so good.
05:32Woo!
05:33Woo!
05:34Woo!
05:35Woo!
05:36Woo!
05:37Woo!
05:38Woo!
05:39Woo!
05:40Woo!
05:41Woo!
05:42Woo!
05:43Woo!
05:44Woo!
05:47Go blue eyes.
05:48Inspired by Dave.
05:49We're doing it together.
05:52Some of the others show off their sexy skills.
05:56Oh, yeah.
06:00But Ben needs a little warm up.
06:08Yeah, nice and hard.
06:12Yeah.
06:13A little bit harder.
06:14Mm.
06:15Great.
06:16Last up...
06:17Are you pushing or being pushed?
06:18I'll push.
06:19Sweet.
06:2023-year-old dog groomer Holly.
06:21A lot of different experiences in my life have knocked me down a little bit.
06:22Great.
06:23Now a little harder.
06:24Yeah.
06:25Yeah.
06:26Yeah.
06:27Yeah.
06:28Yeah.
06:29Yeah.
06:30Yeah.
06:31Yeah.
06:32Yeah.
06:33Yeah.
06:34Yeah.
06:35Yeah.
06:36Yeah.
06:37Yeah.
06:38Yeah.
06:39Yeah.
06:40Yeah.
06:42You're doing great.
06:43And now a little harder.
06:44Now, I pretty much got bullied through most of high school,
06:47because I was the quiet kid, so I became quite withdrawn.
06:51I wish I could just leave the house and not care what other people think
06:55and just be the real me.
07:00So feels good.
07:02So good.
07:03Yes.
07:06Woo!
07:09Can you take a moment? Can you believe yourselves?
07:13Can you...?
07:14Talking about before and after.
07:16What is happening here?
07:23Being, like, doing the pushing, it's fun.
07:25Shall we do that in the hangout?
07:27Can I push you, Ben?
07:28All right, then.
07:29After the final workshop, some of the students...
07:32Ben, I'm going to walk to you.
07:34You put your hand on him, push him up.
07:35Yeah. That's it, yeah.
07:36Put him close, put him close with that hand.
07:39There we go.
07:40..have become the teachers.
07:41Do you want to do an advanced wall push?
07:43Go on.
07:45Whoa!
07:46THEY LAUGH
07:48Hey, Dave.
07:50Hello.
07:51How was yours?
07:52I think it was good, yeah.
07:54The neck bit, that was great.
07:56But it's Dave who's probably transformed the most within the group.
08:00I'm more confident.
08:01Like, I'm not going to approach random people
08:03and start pushing up against walls,
08:04but, like, I'm going to try and speak to them a little bit.
08:08Dave, when I think about how he arrived,
08:11just totally inside of himself, you know?
08:14For him to come out to the level that he has is just, like...
08:17Meteoric, yeah.
08:19We've been escalating quite a bit,
08:21and so we're going to do oral today,
08:22but also practising, like, staying connected,
08:26because I think that's something
08:27he still struggles with a little bit.
08:38Hi.
08:39How are you?
08:40I'm good.
08:43Right this way.
08:46To test Dave's ability to connect...
08:48Oh, OK.
08:49..Kat is escalating to the bedroom for the first time.
08:54Don't be intimidated, even though there's a bed.
08:58Uh...
09:01It's OK. I'm...
09:04OK.
09:06I'm losing my virginity.
09:08I want to be ready for it, you know?
09:11I've just got to go in and just see what happens.
09:15I just want to return to all my friends and family
09:18and just be a completely different person.
09:23Throughout the course, Dave has shown an interest in oral sex.
09:28You know, I pick her up, take her down on the bed,
09:32and I'd probably do something with oral sex.
09:34I don't know what I'm doing.
09:38OK.
09:40I want to work on staying in connection through transitions
09:44and then practising oral.
09:47How are you feeling about that?
09:49I feel... I feel excited about it.
09:53But I'm overthinking it.
09:55Yeah. Yeah.
09:56Just trust yourself.
09:59Surrogate partner therapy is working really well for Dave.
10:03And practise moving when you want to.
10:06You want to come closer.
10:08And practise staying in connection.
10:12It's nice.
10:18But he still worries too much about getting it wrong
10:22and can get really in his head.
10:27One of the biggest things to do is normalising the experience of sex.
10:33When you feel your body being loved and then you feel pleasure from that,
10:37it makes all of the external things just not matter as much.
10:51Is it OK for you to give and receive oral?
10:55Yeah.
10:56OK, so you can just lie down.
11:00You can be gentle at first.
11:03Yeah.
11:06Yeah, that's good.
11:25Are you able to go faster?
11:34It feels so good.
11:41How are you feeling?
11:42I feel good.
11:44Thank you for all this.
11:46You're welcome.
11:49Yeah, it's the first time I've been involved in, like, a proper sexual act.
11:53It feels good.
11:54It's like a weight off my shoulders.
11:56It's a good feeling.
11:57It's a good feeling.
11:58It's a good feeling.
11:59It's a good feeling.
12:00It's a good feeling.
12:01It's a good feeling.
12:03See you tomorrow.
12:04But I feel like there's still further for me to go.
12:09I do think I'm ready now to lose my virginity.
12:21Give her a squeeze.
12:22Act like it's my cock.
12:27What's the worst possible option?
12:29Continuing the theme of escalation...
12:32I think lickbomb is pretty good.
12:33Lickbomb is pretty good.
12:36The group are playing a game of sexy dice.
12:39Kiss arm.
12:40Kiss of it's own.
12:45Beautiful.
12:48As the virgins get touchy-feely with each other...
12:51Lickbomb!
12:52Yes!
12:54Even Holly, one of the quieter members of the group, is throwing herself in.
12:59We've been working two weeks for this.
13:01Come on.
13:02OK, go.
13:03One, two, three, four, five.
13:07Yay!
13:09Well done.
13:11There's something about Holly that has a lot of potential.
13:15But she's still kind of hiding.
13:18We need to really understand what's holding her back
13:20in order to help her move forward.
13:25I'm so happy.
13:26I'm going to spend some time with you.
13:29It can feel lonely when you see all your friends are getting in relationships.
13:35A big worry of mine is that I'm always going to be alone.
13:39I'll never have a family and have that perfect life that I'm dreaming of.
13:46Let's shake it.
13:48Before Holly leaves the island...
13:50Just soak it in.
13:52Just enjoy the sun.
13:54Danielle wants to encourage her to feel more confident
13:58and finally come to terms with her true self.
14:03How are you doing?
14:04Do you like the activities?
14:06I think they've been tough.
14:07It's bringing up a lot of feelings I didn't know I had.
14:10So it's kind of tough learning that side of myself.
14:13Do you want to share with me a little bit more?
14:16I'm not sure I fully understand it myself yet.
14:19It's just lots of big emotions.
14:21Yeah, in your chest, in your belly.
14:24Kind of both.
14:28After her talk with Danielle...
14:31I'm going to be sad going home, opening my curtains and seeing the local pub.
14:35Is that what it is when you open your curtains?
14:38Holly seems ready to share her innermost feelings with Viraj.
14:43I don't know.
14:45It's just been intense.
14:47Are you not grateful for it?
14:50Yeah.
14:51Just a whole lot of things going on in my head.
14:54What do you feel like you've learned from this?
14:58That I might like girls.
15:00I do.
15:01Yeah?
15:03That's a really big thing, though.
15:04That's a big change.
15:05Like...
15:07Is that how you feel?
15:08Sometimes I don't know if it's just I connect to people
15:11just on a friendship thing or if it's anything more.
15:15Mm.
15:17I feel like I find it hard to distinguish between the two.
15:21Yeah.
15:22I'm unsure.
15:25Why is it so difficult?
15:28Why can't it just be simple?
15:31Mm.
15:32Feeling a bit overwhelmed.
15:35All these feelings are emerging that I'm unfamiliar with,
15:39so I think I just try to deal with them.
15:41And it's...
15:43Yeah, a lot to process.
15:45Do you want to do some yoga?
15:47Yeah, but what kind of yoga?
15:49Strip yoga.
15:51I'm already wearing a bikini.
15:52I don't know how much more I could strip.
15:58While Holly ponders...
16:00I want you to practise reading my body.
16:04..across the island...
16:06You can touch my ass.
16:08It feels really good to me if you touch my ass.
16:11..Zach is learning how to stay attuned to Kat.
16:14Maybe I think you might...
16:16Maybe I think you might like more.
16:20Kissing?
16:21Yeah.
16:23And he's finally getting the results he craves.
16:41Zach has learned a lot about how to show up in a relationship,
16:45how to attune to people.
16:47I feel like that's really important for him.
16:52So I feel really confident for Zach going out into the real world.
16:57He's going to enjoy this.
16:59That felt really good.
17:00Could you tell in my body?
17:02Yeah.
17:03Definitely.
17:05It's been the time of my life being here.
17:07Kat, she has helped me a lot.
17:09And, you know, I'll forever be grateful for that.
17:12It was nice.
17:13I feel close.
17:15I just feel far more prepared for it.
17:17And I feel ready to...
17:19..hopefully...
17:21..be the confident player when I get back.
17:24With any luck.
17:30Hardly anyone's around.
17:31I don't know where everyone is.
17:33Where's Tom?
17:34Is he at the water?
17:35Is he still there?
17:37He's still there, look.
17:38Yeah, he's like a fish.
17:41Whilst at the retreat, Ben has learned to let his guard down.
17:45But there is one fundamental obstacle
17:47standing in the way of losing his virginity.
17:50Oh, God, the thought of being naked in front of someone
17:52absolutely terrifies me.
17:54I've never been in showers where everyone's naked.
17:57That was just...
17:58Absolutely not.
17:59Even when it's just me in the house,
18:00I will not be naked at all.
18:01I'm just that kind of person.
18:03The experts believe that Ben must overcome his fear of nudity
18:06for relationships to flourish back home.
18:09Hello.
18:10Hey.
18:11Do you want to take your shoes off?
18:12Yeah, sure.
18:13Ben needs to relax.
18:14He's got so much energy into his body, into the moment,
18:18and, yeah, come out of his head.
18:21Society makes it very difficult.
18:23He has some ideas about how he should look,
18:26and I think that scares him.
18:29Let's first start.
18:30I just want you to put your hands on my hips.
18:33And I'm going to just move your body a little bit.
18:36Joy gets him in the mood to loosen up.
18:39That's really good.
18:41Do you feel how connected we are in that?
18:44I feel good and less stiff.
18:46Before escalating...
18:48Why don't you take your shirt off?
18:50This shirt?
18:51Or the T-shirt as well?
18:53What do you feel comfortable with?
18:58I would love to feel more confident in myself and how I look.
19:01I don't smile in pictures a lot of the time,
19:02and I think, actually, that's a leftover from school.
19:05Cos I got, you know, teased about having chubby cheeks or something.
19:08But ultimately, yeah, it'd be nice just to be more confident in myself
19:10and how I look.
19:11But unfortunately, that's hard to change.
19:14What I'm going to be doing is touching in a way that feels...
19:18connecting.
19:33Do you want to try it with me?
19:34Yeah, sure.
19:39Where would you like to be touched?
19:41I kind of want you to just explore.
19:47But exploring is leading to overthinking.
19:52I don't know what position to go in.
19:54Yeah, it's hard, right?
19:56I don't want to crush you.
19:57It's OK, you won't crush me.
19:59Ben's becoming increasingly awkward.
20:05Can I move you?
20:06Yeah.
20:11Let me switch over again, sorry.
20:13And it's stalling his progress.
20:20How do you feel?
20:22I don't know, I just wish I had eight arms, it'd be easier.
20:26But joy wants to challenge Ben before time on the island runs out.
20:31So, next time, think about whether you feel comfortable being naked together.
20:35I think, you know, nakedness is, to me, it's a private thing.
20:38Yeah.
20:46I mean, obviously, I know the experts,
20:48that they're not sort of judging you in that same sort of way anyway,
20:51but it really makes me uncomfortable.
20:54I don't think I'll ever be able to go through with it and not be so afraid.
20:59BEN WHISTLES
21:04MUSIC PLAYS
21:17How do you feel being in the last day?
21:18I'm quite emotional, to be honest.
21:19Are you?
21:20Yeah, actually, yeah.
21:22And I'm going to miss everyone.
21:25It's been quite an emotional day, hasn't it?
21:27It may be the final morning on Virgin Island,
21:30but for some, there's unfinished business.
21:33I think I would like to maybe get naked in front of Joy,
21:38cos if I can break that barrier,
21:39then it'll be easier when I'm with somebody.
21:41I just want to see where it goes.
21:45I feel like if I do lose my virginity today,
21:48it will be a huge step forward.
21:50But I think everyone's nervous about it the first time.
21:53Morning, hello.
21:54Yeah, I'm grand, how are you?
21:55I'm all right, thanks.
21:57Will all good things come to an end?
21:59I'll look every single day.
22:00It's been a big process.
22:03It's hard to kind of share, like, your deepest secrets
22:07and struggles with people.
22:13Oh, this might be the last time.
22:16The last day, let's take the alcohol.
22:18The conky goes on.
22:19I'm going to be a bit nervous.
22:21Overnight, Holly has been doing some thinking.
22:24Hi!
22:26Before coming here, I'd always just say, like,
22:29oh, I'm straight.
22:31But, like, coming here, I feel like it's been more clear
22:34that I am bisexual.
22:38And, yeah, I'm proud.
22:40And she's asked Celeste to help her open up
22:42to the rest of the group.
22:44Holly has something that she wants to share with all of us.
22:47Something I've struggled with a lot in coming here,
22:50I've kind of had time to think about it
22:52and have the confidence to speak out is about my sexuality.
22:58And I'm bisexual.
23:02CHEERING
23:09Welcome to the club.
23:10CHEERING
23:12Oh, my God, I'm so excited.
23:14I'm so excited.
23:16Well done, Queen. Smashed it.
23:18Proud of you.
23:19Thank you, guys. That was terrifying.
23:23I definitely would have suppressed it for longer
23:26if I hadn't come here.
23:28So proud of you.
23:31Having all the support in the group,
23:33it gave me that confidence to tell it to the world
23:37and I couldn't have done it without them.
23:46I always thought I'd be a great dominatrix.
23:48I feel that for you. Thank you.
23:50You're the whipping one.
23:51Yeah. You whip people, so...
23:53I like to whip people.
23:54Yeah.
24:00As she's progressed through the course...
24:02Hi, hi. Hi, hi.
24:04..Charlotte has overcome her body issues.
24:07What would feel comfortable for you?
24:09Maybe some body caress?
24:11And now she knows exactly what she wants.
24:14I have an idea.
24:16I want to take my top off and I want to straddle you.
24:19OK, you want me laying down? Yes.
24:24Knees down.
24:26Yes, ma'am. Arms further.
24:29OK.
24:31OK, grip my hips.
24:34That's nice.
24:36Wash it, mate.
24:38You are so beautiful.
24:42Having you straddle me
24:43is almost overwhelming for my body.
24:47But you are a fucking goddess.
25:04I want to grip your chest.
25:06You have full permission.
25:08Yay.
25:10You are firm.
25:17I love feeling your body on mine.
25:21Feeling your touch feels really good on me, goddess.
25:33Thank you for this gift.
25:35I want to say how proud I am.
25:37That was a big leap, to ask for what you needed.
25:41Ooh.
25:44I adore Andre. I adore him completely.
25:48It was through him that I was really able to be like,
25:50OK, this is what I want.
25:54I went into this with the mindset of,
25:57he's going to do this, I'm going to do this,
25:59I'm going to do this, I'm going to do this.
26:01I'm going to do this, I'm going to do this.
26:02I went into this with the mindset of, he is a tool,
26:06a very enjoyable tool for me to kind of get what I want out of it.
26:11Oh, I just had so much fun.
26:14I feel so ready for everything now.
26:22While many are finding their body confidence...
26:25I like being naked by myself. I don't.
26:27..Ben still has work to do.
26:29Me and my ex, I don't know, even though we were together,
26:31I've said over, I've got to change in the bathroom, it's weird.
26:35It's just a big step for me.
26:40..in a final bid to overcome his fear of nudity...
26:45Hey. Hello.
26:47..Joy has a new plan.
26:50I know it's a stretch,
26:51but I would love to practise the animal game with you.
26:54Hmm.
26:56In our underwear.
26:57In an early group workshop,
26:59Ben couldn't bear to even watch the animal game.
27:03So, can we stay connected while we undress?
27:05Mm.
27:10With most clothes removed...
27:12Even as we get down, we can keep that connection.
27:17Mm.
27:21..Ben tries to let animal instinct take over.
27:23How does that feel to you?
27:25Yeah, it's a full connection.
27:30He's kissing on your... Yeah.
27:37Losing himself in the moment...
27:40..Ben seems to have let go of his fear of nudity.
27:43He's got a bit of a...
27:45He's got a bit of a...
27:46He's got a bit of a...
27:48He's got a bit of a...
27:49He's got a bit of a...
27:51Ben seems to have let go of his inhibitions.
27:54Oh.
27:55Would you like to move to bed?
27:58Yeah.
27:59But will it be enough to finally bear all?
28:06That was fun.
28:09Do you think we should just roll?
28:13Yeah, let's do it.
28:15I have to break this barrier.
28:16Let me put up this.
28:19Joy puts up a screen so Ben's body is for hair eyes only.
28:24Are you ready? Yeah, let's go. OK.
28:32Is my body normal?
28:33It's beautiful, yeah.
28:36I'm normal down there.
28:38I look better than with gloves on.
28:40Really? Yes.
28:42Broken barrier.
28:45I'm proud of you. Thank you.
28:49Do you feel complete?
28:51Yeah, I think that's a good way to end it.
28:53Yeah. Yeah. Great.
28:57I'm so incredibly proud of him.
28:59He's opened in ways that I can't even believe.
29:02And I feel honoured he allowed me to be the one
29:05to accompany him on that journey.
29:11Hello. Hello.
29:13Are you all right?
29:14So, I just saw Joy.
29:16Ooh-la-la.
29:17My journey is complete.
29:19I didn't lose my virginity, but, um...
29:21Did you...?
29:26Joy is the only person who has ever seen me naked.
29:28So, did you see her fully naked?
29:32It's nice to break that barrier and hopefully,
29:34when I'm in the real world and I get to that stage again,
29:37it will be a lot easier and I won't be in my head all the time.
29:40I have changed and that's all I needed, really.
29:42It's just that confidence.
29:44I haven't had a problem with it.
29:45I haven't had a point of naked one-to-one.
29:47He did more than me. Yeah, but you climaxed.
29:49I didn't.
29:53Baa, baa, baa, baa, baa.
29:55Baa, baa, baa, baa.
29:57Baa, sexual.
29:59Mofonwy.
30:01I'm not the only gay in the village.
30:05This evening, there'll be a graduation ceremony to end the course.
30:09What are you wearing tonight?
30:11I've got, like, a full-on suit.
30:12Really? Yeah.
30:14Does anyone want to swap outfits?
30:16I'll wear your dress.
30:17And the group has been set a final exercise,
30:20to write a letter to a future lover.
30:23I don't like writing letters.
30:25Can I write a text instead?
30:26Would shagging by the Tesco bins be a bit too graphic?
30:30Yeah.
30:32I know how to start mine.
30:34Dear Emma.
30:35Oh, my God.
30:38Me and Viraj are very good friends.
30:41A friendship with a good connection.
30:43So I think, get back to the UK, and if it works, then it works.
30:49I don't think I would close myself off any more.
30:56For Dave, a lover could be more imminent.
30:59After two weeks of intense treatment and years of longing,
31:03he could be on the verge of achieving what he came here for.
31:08Go on, big doll. Enjoy. Have fun.
31:13Being a virgin at 24, I hate it.
31:16My biggest fear is that I'll find someone that I genuinely care about
31:20and I won't be ready to have a proper relationship with.
31:23You know, it could be love, my life,
31:24and I could just be too awkward and I could blow it.
31:34Hello. Hey.
31:36How are you doing?
31:38Are you still feeling good about intercourse?
31:40Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Cool.
31:42THEY LAUGH
31:45Lie down.
31:49So we'll just start in a way that we've been starting,
31:52just letting it be organic, staying in connection and kissing.
31:56Yeah, that sounds good.
31:58OK.
32:00OK, close.
32:04Yeah.
32:08You want to hug?
32:10Yes.
32:12I do, I do.
32:16I love you.
32:19I love you.
32:20I love you too.
32:21I love you.
32:23I love you too.
32:24Okay, close your eyes.
32:31Grab that condom.
32:35Do you know how?
32:38No.
32:39Yeah, you just pinch the top and you want to roll it all the way.
32:48Okay.
32:49Just start slow.
32:52I'll be honest, I'm struggling a little bit.
33:05So just relax.
33:10I think I'm putting a bit too much pressure on myself.
33:21Has everyone written their letters?
33:23No, I've got writer's block.
33:26While most of the group are preparing letters for tonight's graduation ceremony...
33:31Just go with the flow, write what comes to mind.
33:34In the Zen den...
33:35So just relax.
33:37Dave is trying to get back on track with Kat.
33:42Do you think it might be easier for you if I'm on top?
33:45Yeah.
33:46Yeah, so let's switch.
33:49Just breathe.
33:56How does that feel?
33:59Okay.
34:00Yeah.
34:01Just move the way that feels good for you.
34:25Feels so good.
34:44Did you cry?
34:45Yeah.
34:46Yeah.
34:50How are you feeling?
34:53Yeah.
34:56After 12 days...
35:00Dave has completed his course of therapy on Virgin Island.
35:04Thank you for this.
35:06And how does it feel now?
35:08You're not a virgin.
35:13I feel really good.
35:15How do you feel?
35:19I feel good about being the person with him in that important moment.
35:24And I think he has changed so much.
35:27He knows a lot more about what he wants.
35:30And it's a lot easier if you've done it once.
35:34So I think that will help.
35:36Yeah.
35:38Yeah, I think you've done a really good job.
35:45I'm proud that I can finally say I'm not a virgin anymore.
35:49I've still got a lot of catching up to do.
35:51But I feel like I'm on the board now.
35:57Yeah, see you later.
36:00Now I can go and actually properly progress with some sort of idea of what I'm doing.
36:05The fact that I'm no longer a virgin is great.
36:07It's just relief.
36:14Did you have a session?
36:16Yeah.
36:17How did it go?
36:18I think it went well.
36:20You cool?
36:21Yeah.
36:22I'm just really tired.
36:24Exhausting day.
36:26You know what, it's the last one, mate.
36:30I'm going to miss it.
36:32Let's go.
36:34End of an era.
36:36The end of a chapter.
36:39The sun starts to set for the final time on Virgin Island.
36:44The group are getting ready for graduation.
36:49It's really sad.
36:50Yeah, I'm going to miss everyone so much.
36:53I am going to miss the island and the routine I think I'll miss a lot as well.
36:59Very lovely.
37:03You look gorgeous, darling.
37:06It would be funny if we're in there and they're all naked.
37:08Yeah.
37:09Do you think we got a certificate?
37:11Look at them all down there.
37:14Oh my God.
37:16Woo!
37:20Wow.
37:26Graduation is a time for you to gather up all of your newfound confidence and skills
37:32and get ready to take them out into the world.
37:35So we're going to invite you up one by one because we did ask you to write a letter to a future lover.
37:46The retreat was emotional for Taylor, but she discovered her true sexuality.
37:52Dear future lover, I've spent so long being scared of who I was, what people thought,
37:58who I was supposed to be and what I wanted.
38:00You hear this, I'm not scared anymore.
38:02I'm terrified.
38:04Terrified means I've found something that I don't want to lose.
38:09If I'm terrified of losing you, then maybe you'll be terrified of losing me.
38:14If it all gets too real, remember, sing loudly, not well, laugh at everything that you can and lick bum.
38:26Taylor wasn't the only one to find their true identity.
38:30Dear future lover, we haven't met yet, but I have been on one hell of a self-discovery journey.
38:36I feel like I am able to be my true, full self and show you all of me.
38:40I used to think hiding my feelings was my superpower.
38:43It really is my biggest weakness.
38:45It took me a long time to be happy with who I am as a person.
38:48And there's no way I can go back to hiding.
38:54Look at you.
38:56Exactly.
38:57The Tom that you are is just gorgeous.
39:05For Ben, the island has meant overcoming rejection head on.
39:09Dear lover, this man you see before you is not the man I once was.
39:14I thought I was repulsive, undesirable and that I could never be loved.
39:19I now know that I was wrong.
39:22I went to an intimacy retreat.
39:25It was a bold step, but one that changed my life forever.
39:28It was here that I learned of my sexual self and it was here that I learned how to be wanted.
39:34This journey has been tough, but I wouldn't change a thing because it ultimately led me to you.
39:40Thank you for loving me and showing me that I could love myself.
39:49For many, discovering self-confidence has been key.
39:54Dear future lover, I want to thank you for taking my hand and coming with me on an amazing adventure.
40:01Thank you for having all the love for me that I once struggled to have for myself.
40:05Being my true self is when I can exhale.
40:08You are a woman now.
40:11Thank you so much.
40:12And I'm so frigging proud of you.
40:15I'm so frigging proud of you.
40:20Dear future lover slash lovers, I want you to be patient with me while I continue to learn, grow and inevitably make mistakes.
40:29I want us to worship one another.
40:31I want everyone to see our love.
40:34I wasn't sure if I would ever get to a point in my life where I truly believed that I was worthy of being loved.
40:40I don't expect anything from you except you must ride the elephant with me on our wedding day.
40:51Sorry for only lasting 20 seconds.
40:53I was overwhelmed by your beauty.
40:56I promise tomorrow will be better because I'm going to use the skills I learned from the intimacy retreat.
41:03Dave.
41:06He arrived on the island as one of the quietest in the group, but slowly he's found his voice.
41:13Dear my future lover, despite all my continued flaws, like my constant awkwardness, you've always loved me.
41:21I can't put into words how much I appreciate that.
41:24You're everything I've ever wanted.
41:27I can't put into words how much I appreciate that.
41:30You're everything I've ever wanted.
41:32And you complete me.
41:35I know that you can go out there and break many hearts.
41:45Um, sorry.
41:48After weeks of being surprised by the experts, the group now have a surprise for them.
41:54We've all been through so much with you and we all want to give our thanks.
41:59I personally want to thank you for your patience and understanding.
42:03You helped me feel confident and see who I am and see myself in a place beyond here.
42:09And I really, really appreciate everything that you've done for me and thank you all.
42:17This group are some of the bravest, wisest, most engaged and loving people that I have ever worked with.
42:26And seeing their transformation, yeah, I can't even.
42:30I can't even.
42:34I want to thank you for the most unforgettable experience of my entire life.
42:37Nothing's going to ever come close to this and it's been incredible.
42:41Thank you so much to my lovely Andre for creating that beautiful space for me to feel vulnerable.
42:50And like if I was going to fall, you would catch me.
42:55Wrong way to wear makeup.
42:57I can say confidently you've changed my life.
43:01Changed all these people's lives and I'll always remember that.
43:05Before I came here, I was at the lowest point of my life.
43:10I had no idea how to love myself or how to love others.
43:15And each and every one of you has inspired me.
43:18And I don't know how I'd ever be able to repay what you've given us.
43:22From the people who came off of that boat to the people who I'm looking at now, it's unrecognizable.
43:28And I have only hope for them to have the most amazing sex and relationship lives going out into the world.
43:36So we want to invite you to our next event.
43:40It's going to be a special event.
43:42It's going to be a special event.
43:44It's going to be a special event.
43:46It's going to be a special event.
43:49So we want to invite you to closing but beginning circle.
43:53Join us.
43:56Even though I didn't lose my virginity on the island, I've learned so much more about myself.
44:00And I feel like now when I go into the outside world, I'll be so ready for my new intimate journey.
44:05Your courage is going to inspire so many people out there.
44:10You're going to take the world by storm. I can feel it.
44:14It's all about kind of reaching out and being like, hey, maybe I would like some help.
44:27They're beautiful human beings that just didn't know it.
44:31I'm so honoured and proud to be a part of this project.
44:36This place, I'd recommend it to anyone.
44:40My intimacy journey from here.
44:42I'm going to go back to Rochdale.
44:44Take it by storm.
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44:47Rock up your sons.
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