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00:00How are you here at the Usapang WOW?

00:03We are here at the U.S. Department of Health and Wellness.

00:07We are here at the U.S. Department of Health.

00:10We are here at the Multi-Awarded Life Coach of the Bayan, Coach Mike.

00:14Good morning, Coach Mike.

00:16Good morning, Coach Mike.

00:17Good morning, Dian. And for our RRSP,

00:19Tuesday, it's all about life and wellness.

00:21We are here to know for ourselves to be more valuable.

00:24I'm Coach Mike Celis.

00:27Improving family dynamics, Coach Mike,

00:30ng ating pag-uusapan ngayong araw.

00:32Correct. So, yes naman, Dian.

00:33Kaya bibigyan lino natin sa ating pamamagitan ng mga salitang WOW

00:38kung tayo ay agree sa mga popular na myth or opinion

00:42or aw naman kung hindi naman na may kaugnayan sa usaping pamilya.

00:46Very interesting ang pag-uusapan natin, family dynamics.

00:50At kasama pa rin natin ang ating RRSP Barkada

00:52para sumagot kung WOW or AWW.

00:57Ito, sumunan na natin sa ating myth number one, Coach Mike.

01:00Ito, tanging ang mga magulang lamang

01:03ang nakakaalam kung ano ang makabubuti sa buong pamilya.

01:08RRSP Barkada, what do you think?

01:10WOW o AWW?

01:12Anong edad ba ito pinag-uusapan?

01:14Okay. Audrey, bakit WOW?

01:16Anong edad ba pinag-uusapan?

01:17Of course, kapag masyado pang mga bata,

01:20yung mga anak, well, talagang magulang dapat ang nasusunod.

01:24Pero kapag may isip na sila, like mga late, mga teenager na,

01:28may pwede na rin silang magsabi ng kanilang mga asal.

01:31Oo, tamang.

01:32Kung iniwala ako na both sides ay panagkwentuhan ng mga storya,

01:37natututo sa bawat isa at pwede maging decision ng pamilya.

01:40Same with Fifi, walang monopolo ng tamang ideal na sa pamilya.

01:43At nadadaan yan sa pag-uusapan.

01:44Sino si Fifi?

01:45Okay. Valid opinions from our RSP Mercado.

01:52Actually, I go naman with OW as well.

01:54Oo. Ang ganun ang mga opinion nila.

01:56Pero mga ka-RSP, lumabas rin tayo ng ating hintilan

02:00at nagtanong sa ating kawaw na si Alexandra Manalo

02:03kung ano ang kanyang sagot narito.

02:08OW po kasi bilang party po ng pamilya,

02:11kahit yung mga anak po ay may karapatan po,

02:13lalo na po kapag nasa legal age ka na po.

02:16Kasi mahalaga rin po yung input nila para mapabuting yung pamilya.

02:21And dapat lahat po sumusuporta po sa isa at isa.

02:24Ayan. Tama nga naman ano.

02:26Pero I would like to go back kay Audrey kasi nga naman kung bata,

02:29mag-go lang muna.

02:30Pero pag legal age or medyo teenager na po,

02:32pwede na rin talaga.

02:33Oo, totoo naman.

02:34So dapat tatandaan muna natin,

02:36everyone in the family deserves to be heard.

02:39Diba?

02:40Yun lagi muna.

02:41It's not about the age naman.

02:42And we should consider also na nagbabago ang mga panahon ngayon.

02:46So it's all about coming from a space of respect.

02:50Diba? Kung paano mo sasabihin.

02:52And may mga bagay din naman ang mga tao,

02:54lalo na mga magulang,

02:55matututunan sa mga anak nila and vice versa.

02:58Correct. Oo.

02:59Kasi minsan naman yung mga bata,

03:00hesitant naman magsabi.

03:02Kasi baka mamaya,

03:03maboljak, mapagalitan kapag kasulagod.

03:05Relay tayo dyan.

03:07So ano yung magandang way, ano?

03:09If they are to suggest something in the family?

03:12Okay.

03:12Siguro dapat, Diane,

03:13lagi ilalatag muna natin.

03:14Ano muna yung pinag-uusapan natin?

03:16Ano yung objective?

03:17Ano ba yung intention?

03:18Okay.

03:19Para no makuha naman yung magulang na,

03:21kapag nag-reason out,

03:22diba,

03:22hindi naman siya atake.

03:24Diba,

03:24hindi siya kawala na respeto,

03:26but rather it's a way of actually making things work for them.

03:30Okay.

03:31So intention and then yung manner, ano?

03:34Importante.

03:34Banner, yes.

03:35Okay.

03:35Let's go to the next myth, ano?

03:37Tungkol sa family dynamics.

03:38Hindi dapat uso ang privacy, ah,

03:41pagdating sa pamilya.

03:43What do you think, RSP Barkada?

03:44Wow o aw?

03:46Awesome privacy.

03:48Nahihirapan yung parent.

03:49I have decided.

03:50Okay.

03:51So medyo,

03:52wow ulit si Audrey,

03:53the two are aw.

03:54I actually would go out with aw as well, ah.

03:56Ako rin.

03:57Pero tinan muna natin,

03:58narito naman ang sagot ng ating kawao

04:00na si Micah Guevara.

04:04For me, aw siya.

04:06Kasi kahit anong age naman,

04:09deserve pa rin nila

04:10and may karapatan sila for privacy.

04:13Audrey,

04:14bakit ka nag-wow?

04:15Kasi isa siyang parent, eh.

04:18Tatlo ang anak nito ni Audrey.

04:20Audrey,

04:21bakit wow?

04:22Well,

04:22bilang ang mga anak ko ay mga babae, no?

04:24May certain age na

04:27gusto ko alam po lahat ng kanilang activities,

04:29kung sino yung kanilang kinakausap

04:31at kung ano yung kanilang ginagawa.

04:34Pero kapag dumating naman na yung edad na

04:35I think na kaya na nilang mag-desisyon

04:37na hindi sila mapapahamak,

04:39eh pwede na sila lang magkaroon

04:40ng privacy, syempre.

04:42Pero kapag too young,

04:43kaya lagi kong tanong sa inyo,

04:45anong age ba yung pinag-uusapan natin dito?

04:47Nakot,

04:47maka-strictong ama talaga

04:49na si Audrey, no?

04:50Lago't ang mga maliliga.

04:52Valid naman talaga,

04:54pero ako on my end,

04:57ang gusto ko talaga is

04:58dapat maging open muna,

05:00dapat there should be trust.

05:01Pag-usapan nyo muna,

05:03ano ba yung boundaries na kailangan?

05:05Ano ba yung repercussions na actions?

05:07Kasi kapag tinuturoan mo naman

05:08na mabuti ang anak

05:09at they would come from

05:11a space of responsibility,

05:13hindi mo kailangan mangamba.

05:15Pwede po tayo magtanong

05:16without being too invasive.

05:19Okay.

05:19And also even kahit sa mga magkakapatid,

05:21kailangan nire-respeto rin, ano,

05:23yung privacy.

05:24Pwede ba magtanong da yan

05:25ng walang duda agad?

05:26Para,

05:27oh,

05:27ano na naman yan?

05:28Di ba may tendency ng ganon?

05:29May panguhusga?

05:30So,

05:31dapat iiwasan muna natin nun

05:33so that the family member

05:34would feel safe.

05:35Ayun.

05:36Okay,

05:36let's move on to our last myth

05:37regarding a family dynamics.

05:39Kailangan araw-araw

05:41magkaroon ng oras

05:42para sa pamilya.

05:43RSP Atkada,

05:44wow or aw?

05:46Ayan.

05:46All of us are in unison.

05:48Wow.

05:49Kailangan laging may oras

05:50sa pamilya.

05:52Araw-araw.

05:52Wow na wow.

05:53Yes.

05:54Tama naman.

05:55At narito naman

05:56ang sagot ng ating

05:57ka-wow.

05:57Tingnan natin ko parehos

05:58na si Nicolo Lungay.

06:02Para sa akin po,

06:03wow.

06:04Kasi yung pagmamanage po

06:05ng time,

06:06makakatulong po siya

06:08sa sarili mo,

06:09naalagaan mo yung sarili mo

06:10but at the same time,

06:12nasa-strengthen mo

06:12yung bond mo

06:13with the family

06:14and mas na-perform

06:15lalo yung love

06:16na makakatulong

06:18para mas maging

06:19diket yung pamilya nyo.

06:21Yeah.

06:21Everyone answered actually,

06:23wow.

06:23Importante naman talaga

06:24yung time for family.

06:25Oo.

06:25Saka,

06:26I totally believe the man

06:27that you can never be too busy

06:29for people you love.

06:30Diba?

06:31We're not talking about

06:32na kailangan halimbawa

06:33sabay-sabay muna

06:34mag-dinner lahat.

06:35As much as possible,

06:36why not?

06:36Diba?

06:36Pero kung hindi kaya,

06:37kahit kamustahin mo lang,

06:39puntahan mo sa kwarto,

06:40i-text mo,

06:41gaano ba katagal yun,

06:42you should always find time

06:44para nun,

06:44they would feel that they matter

06:45and that they are loved.

06:46Oo, yung ganda nun.

06:47At saka,

06:47yung time hindi naman

06:48kailangan mahaba,

06:49sabi mo.

06:50At hindi kailangan magastos.

06:51At hindi kailangan magastos.

06:53Simple good morning.

06:54Correct.

06:54It's about waiting time

06:55for your family.

06:56Okay.

06:57Ano pa yung mga

06:57ibang pang recommendation

06:59to improve family dynamics ko?

07:00Okay.

07:01So, first things first,

07:02siguro kailangan

07:02mas maging open tayo lagi,

07:04diba?

07:05Sa family members natin.

07:07They would always be there

07:09for us.

07:10So, mahalaga mag-i-open tayo.

07:11Number two,

07:12we should accept each other din,

07:13diba?

07:14Parang,

07:14kung alam natin,

07:15medyo nahihirapan yung

07:16isang kapamilya natin

07:17dito sa party ng buhay niya na to,

07:19din tulungan natin,

07:20accept natin,

07:21huwag natin yung husgahan.

07:22And number three,

07:23when things go wrong,

07:25as they always will,

07:26diba?

07:27Dapat always remember

07:28to come from a space of love

07:29because with that,

07:30you can never go wrong.

07:31Oo, yung ganda nun na

07:32yung mga recommendations na yun.

07:33At maraming salamat again,

07:35multi-awarded life coach

07:36ng BNC Coach Mike Celis

07:37sa inyo pong mga advice rin,

07:39ano,

07:39para ma-improve ang family dynamics.

07:41Lagi po nating tatandaan,

07:42na,

07:43nagawin po nating

07:43wow ang ating buhay

07:45at pag may aaw,

07:46huwag baliwalaen

07:47dahil our wellness

07:48and well-being,

07:49especially our mental health matter.

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