Society tells men to “treat women like people,” but this advice is dangerously incomplete. In this video, we break down why traditional male socialization sets men up to fail in relationships—and reveal the #1 skill women wish men would master (hint: it’s not “being nice”). Learn how “feminine kindness” can transform your connections, emotional intelligence, and self-growth journey.
🔔 Subscribe for uncomfortable truths + practical self-improvement strategies.
👍 Like if you’re ready to challenge outdated norms.
💬 Comment: “I’m unlearning” if this resonated.
🔔 Subscribe for uncomfortable truths + practical self-improvement strategies.
👍 Like if you’re ready to challenge outdated norms.
💬 Comment: “I’m unlearning” if this resonated.
Category
🛠️
LifestyleTranscript
00:00The advice that's always given to men about how to be successful with women is just treat women
00:04like people and then they'll like you. And I'm going to tell you why that's not true.
00:07It's not true because men don't treat anybody like people. We don't treat each other like
00:12people. We're not socialized properly, right? So like when men socialize with each other,
00:17we're taught not to talk about our feelings. So when women come to us with their feelings,
00:21we're empty handed. We have no tools to help them, right? We are very prone to invalidating them.
00:25And also men are taught to be physically rough with each other, right? Like we are taught that
00:30that is okay. And if you do the same thing to a woman, she's going to feel violated, right? So
00:34the truth is you have to learn how to treat women like they treat each other. Okay. That is the real
00:39game here. You have to learn the art of feminine kindness.