Varun Dhawan Opens Up On His Dating Life

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“When I saw her, I felt like I fell in love.” Watch actor Varun Dhawan talk about the time he met his wife Natasha Dalal, in conversation with Kareena Kapoor Khan.  Thanks to Filmy Mirchi for the footage.

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00:00I actually, the first time I met Natasha is in the 6th standard.

00:04Oh God! But you have not been dating since then?

00:06We have not been dating since then.

00:08We were friends till like the 10th, 11th, 12th grade.

00:11We were very close friends.

00:12But the minute I saw her, like I remember now also,

00:15and I remember her walking and I remember seeing her

00:18and actually when I saw her I felt like I fell in love with her that day.

00:26I think you and me both have grown up in that same kind of space

00:29where we are always continuously in a high speed shot.

00:32Correct.

00:33I think it happened with me and Saif.

00:34Correct.

00:35In his head a Hindi film was not playing.

00:36No, never. He is at Clint Eastwood.

00:38He is at another…

00:39A Hollywood movie was going on.

00:40And I was in Main Hoon Na, like that Sushmita Saree Wala Flying.

00:43So that's why I said we both are quite similar.

00:45I think the same thing happens with me and Natasha also that

00:48you know I am obviously more filmy.

00:50Like if we are going for drives, I want to play Hindi songs.

00:53And she is like…

00:54And I want to play Hindi songs.

00:55And she is like, what are you doing man?

00:56And I am like, come on.

00:57And she is like, let's play Chainspokers.

00:59And I am like, yeah, yeah, we will play, we will play.

01:01But good, but it's good to have a mix, please.

01:03Yeah, 100%.

01:04So tell me what are some things which you wanted in your partner which you got?

01:09I really got honesty in my relationship from my partner, you know.

01:12And that is something which I had to kind of learn from

01:16and understand the value of that as I went about in my relationship.

01:21Yeah, of course.

01:22It's a very deep rooted answer.

01:25But this is the answer to any boys who are listening to me.

01:27This is the answer.

01:28That's exactly what women want.

01:29Honesty.

01:30But you have to be careful when you hit them with that honesty.

01:33Let me be honest.

01:34I love women.

01:35I just love women.

01:36I love being around them.

01:38I love talking to them.

01:39But are you actually like that?

01:40Like, you know, playing pranks and doing that in real life?

01:43No, no, not so much in real life.

01:45But yeah, I have a lot of fun in me and all that stuff.

01:49I do all that.

01:50But to a level, I love women because I just feel that

01:53they have a far better insight on things than men.

01:56The way they understand things.

01:58They're more mature.

01:59Yeah.

02:00When someone starts dating someone,

02:03do you think that you should actually tell those lies to them

02:06to kind of impress them first?

02:08You know, those little little white lies to just kind of impress them.

02:11A little bit.

02:12But how much lie is too much according to you?

02:14No, obviously you can't change your name and all.

02:17I remember when I was in college and I was dating this girl.

02:21She was like the hottest girl in the college at that time.

02:25And she was way out of my league.

02:27And I wanted to talk to her somehow.

02:30How do I talk to her?

02:31And she had a boyfriend.

02:33But I wanted to talk to her.

02:34She had a boyfriend, not a husband.

02:36So during class or something, I would sit,

02:39not near her, but very close to her.

02:42Just that she'll see me at some point.

02:44And I think after a month or something,

02:46after I stopped trying is when she started noticing actually.

02:49Yeah, so I think girls like that.

02:52When the guy actually...

02:53They love it.

02:54I actually, the first time I met Natasha,

02:57is in the sixth standard.

02:58Oh God, but you have not been dating since then?

03:01We've not been dating since then.

03:02We were friends till like the 10th, 11th, 12th grade.

03:05We were very close friends.

03:07But the minute I saw her,

03:08like I remember now also,

03:09I went to Manejji Cooper and she was in yellow house,

03:12I was in red house.

03:13And it was on the basketball court.

03:15And in lunch break, we would get like,

03:17you know, in the canteen,

03:18they give you food or give you energy

03:19and you get samosa or whatever you get.

03:22And I remember her walking and I remember seeing her.

03:25And actually, when I saw her,

03:28I felt like I fell in love with her that day.

03:31That was it.

03:32But then you didn't obviously see her for a while.

03:35No.

03:36I mean, I always,

03:37she rejected me like some three, four times.

03:39And then started dating much later.

03:41Yeah, but see, I was, I kept, I didn't give up hope.

03:46You seem like quite a, like love lawn.

03:49You believe in.

03:50I wouldn't, but once it hits you,

03:53then you're a goner.

03:55Yeah.

03:56So you do believe that love is all you need.

03:58And you feel that, you know,

03:59for the happiness of the company,

04:01money is very important.

04:03And you know, like.

04:04No, not money.

04:05I can live on love and fresh air.

04:06No, I don't think anyone can live on love.

04:08Let's be practical.

04:09I don't think so that's possible.

04:10But definitely when you fail in life,

04:12which every human being will,

04:14having that one person by you,

04:16who you can lean on,

04:17is the most important thing in the world.

04:19You know.

04:20Because you never know when that time.

04:21See, I know hits and flops don't affect you,

04:23but they affect me.

04:24No, what rubbish.

04:26It doesn't affect her, I'm telling you the truth.

04:27No, that's not true at all.

04:28Even if she's given the biggest blockbuster,

04:30she has the same smile like she has

04:32if a film will not do that.

04:33But now, Varun,

04:34you've been with your fiancée since school.

04:36You've been with Natasha.

04:37So I want to know who made the first move

04:40and like, you know,

04:41like how did you all decide that,

04:43this is it, we have to get married?

04:44See, marriage,

04:45obviously now coming into this,

04:48like coming into this time period

04:50after you've been with someone for so long,

04:52I felt like getting married

04:54is after I saw my brother and my sister-in-law.

04:57And after they had,

04:58my niece has come,

04:59so when I saw my niece,

05:01it's like, this is good.

05:03And even Natasha,

05:04I think her parents

05:05and even she's been pretty chill in that sense.

05:07But I think after a certain period

05:09when you decide that you want to live with each other,

05:12like me and she would have not mind

05:15living in together.

05:16Doing a living in scene.

05:18But I think my parents in that sense wanted us,

05:20because I have my own place now, so.

05:22But now you're not living with?

05:24With her? No.

05:25No, with your parents.

05:26No, I don't live with my parents anymore.

05:27So Varun, do you have a communication style?

05:29Like, are you like the traditional face-to-face kind of guy?

05:33Or, you know,

05:34do you prefer WhatsApp messages?

05:38I hate talking on the phone.

05:39Why? Yeah, I know.

05:40Why is this?

05:41This generation is just like,

05:42they don't want to pick up the phone and talk.

05:44I just get really like,

05:46I mean, I just, I don't know.

05:47I don't enjoy talking on the phone.

05:49I talk to one person on the phone

05:50and that's my friend Kavish.

05:52Yeah, but otherwise,

05:53more for work to like, you know.

05:55Yeah, yeah, work, we talk.

05:56Work, I mean, work I do talk.

05:58I mean, those work calls I do do.

05:59But that's better face-to-face, I feel.

06:01That's face-to-face.

06:02So you prefer conversations that are face-to-face?

06:04I can't have phone conversations.

06:05No, or messaging?

06:06Messaging is okay.

06:07Time pass.

06:08And have you ever mistakenly

06:10messaged someone by mistake?

06:11You know, where you're like,

06:12thinking about a person

06:13but you're texting someone else

06:14and then you send that message.

06:15Oh, like a mistake message?

06:17Oh no, no, no.

06:19I've had mistakes where I've called the person

06:21by other names and all that stuff.

06:23Like by other names?

06:24Yeah, yeah, yeah.

06:25Like girls?

06:26Yeah, yeah, that's happened.

06:27Oh God, that's even worse.

06:28That's happened, that's happened with Kapoor.

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