Southern Charm’s Venita Aspen Breaks Down JT Thomas Dating Timeline, Claims He Did Her ‘So Dirty’

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00:00We find out that after filming Wrapped, you and JT did start dating for a little bit.

00:05Kind of give me the timeline a little bit.

00:07So we started dating when I got back from New York in September.

00:11Okay.

00:11So it was from September, October, November.

00:14Trying to figure out, like, okay, like, are we doing this?

00:16Like, do we actually like each other?

00:17Is it because we're around each other all the time?

00:19Like, trying to figure that out.

00:22And in November, he posted that he had the girlfriend on Instagram,

00:26and that's how I found out about the girlfriend in that moment.

00:29So did you have the conversation that you were exclusively dating?

00:33No, we were just dating.

00:34And so I think it would have been nice to just have him be like,

00:36hey, by the way, like, I'm dating someone else,

00:39and I've decided to go with her versus you.

00:42Fine.

00:42Like, I would not have cared.

00:43I'm like, oh my god, like, I appreciate you so much for saying something,

00:46being kind about it, but he didn't do that, so.

00:48Especially since you were best friends.

00:51Yeah.

00:51Right.

00:51Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:52Did you know this person at all?

00:54No, no, no.

00:55So did you end up, like, ghosting him after,

00:58like he says, the reunion?

00:59No, I did not ghost him.

01:00Okay, so what happened here?

01:02So I decided to take a step back after the super teaser.

01:05I mean, I would too, yeah.

01:07And like, once the super teaser dropped, I decided to take a step back,

01:10and I was just like, hey, listen, like, this is wild.

01:12Like, I don't really like what's happening here,

01:14because in that moment, that's when she was calling me out of my name.

01:17So I was just like, I'm taking a step back from this,

01:20because he was like, I can't do anything about it.

01:22And I go, okay, cool.

01:24Like, that's not someone I want to, like, affiliate myself with

01:27if you can't, like, do anything about someone calling me out of my name.

01:30So I guess he thought me taking a step back was me ghosting him,

01:33which is like, no, I literally said, I need time.

01:36And if you wanted to talk and say, oh, well, you know,

01:39have you taken enough time?

01:40Like, can we chat?

01:40You should have done that versus getting mad at me

01:43and then making that decision.

01:45Sure.

01:45Did he, when, after he posted that photo of his girlfriend,

01:48did he reach out to you at all?

01:51So you never got even, like, any explanation about this?

01:54Not one.

01:54Then he quit a week after that.

01:56I know we're going to see the reunion.

01:57Yeah.

01:58You come, you know, guns blazing as you should.

02:01You know, yeah.

02:02Right.

02:03Going into the reunion, what were the answers that you were looking for?

02:06And did you get them?

02:08I was looking for him to communicate better and he didn't.

02:13So that's the main thing I was looking for.

02:15And his communication has been lack thereof this entire time.

02:18And I was just, like, hoping in that moment, okay, like,

02:21you know, I'm still sitting here choosing to not

02:24let my anger take over this conversation, even though I did get a little feisty.

02:27But, like, I was just, like, I'm not going to let that lead me.

02:29Like, I do want to hear you out and hear you talk.

02:31And, like, he just did not give me that at all.

02:34It was very sad.

02:34You did not get the answers that you wanted to at the reunion.

02:37What has been the relationship like since then?

02:40Are you done?

02:41Yeah, I'm done.

02:42Done.

02:43Yeah.

02:43And it's sad.

02:44It's actually really sad.

02:45Like, I'm so disappointed in him because

02:47I knew in my heart that he was, like, the bigger man on this cast.

02:51You know what I mean?

02:52Like, I was like, okay, he's coming in and, like, going after everyone and, like,

02:55calling people out for beating the women and, like, doing dirty.

02:58Like, now you're doing the same thing.

02:59Yeah.

03:00Yeah, and it sucks.

03:00Right.

03:01Is he totally out of the friend group now?

03:03Like, is there no way for him to get back in?

03:05Because, like, you were his only lifeline, pretty much.

03:07And that was the only reason why people filmed with him last season.

03:10Really?

03:10Yeah, because everyone was like, oh, no, like, you know, we're not really, like,

03:13filming with him or, like, we don't like him or whatever.

03:15And I was like, guys, come on, like, give him a shot.

03:17They gave him a shot for me.

03:18Like, I also put my neck on the line and stuck my neck out

03:21to risk new and old friendships to, like, hanging out with him, bringing him around,

03:25you know?

03:26But yeah, the whole group is done with him.

03:28They're done with him.

03:28I don't want to speak for everybody, but, like, I think they're done.

03:31Would you ever imagine filming with him ever again?

03:33No.

03:34Yeah.

03:34I don't trust him.

03:35It's over.

03:36I've never felt like this ever in my life.

03:38I've never had someone do me so dirty.

03:40Yeah.

03:40And when you were so close.

03:42Right.

03:42That's the hardest part.

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