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Bullying: A social epidemic
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2/12/2025
Tia Kamel was bullied in school. It was so severe that it sent her into a coma. She shares her story with Gulf News, hoping to put an end to this problem. See more videos at www.gulfnews.com/videos/storytellers
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Sometimes I hated waking up in the morning to go to school. I hated school.
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My name is Tia. I'm from Lebanon. I studied in Abu Dhabi for 17 years and
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this is my story, my long journey against bullying. At six years old, I started at a
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primary school. I was severely bullied because of my appearance, because of my
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height, and because my mom worked in the school I went to. I spent most breaks in
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lunches with my mom in her office and kids and kids at my school found that an
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opportunity to make fun of me. I wasn't a very talkative or social person so I
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was an easy target.
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Children that are either too tall or too short, children that are overly intelligent or overly good at school,
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children that are too thin or sometimes a little bit overweight, any kind of a
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physical feature that makes them different can become something that a
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bully will pick on. Also, children with low self-esteem tend to be bullied.
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Children who are a little bit more shy or withdrawn tend to be bullied. So these
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are the people that I feel adults need to take a little bit extra care of.
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I never really told my mom about any of the bullying that went on. Only because the
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saying, snitches get stitches, followed me throughout my entire school life.
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I want students to know that you're not being a snitch if you're going to report. I think it is imperative that you
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report rather than be a passive observer. You know, it's important for the child to feel that
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somebody cares. When somebody comes with bullying issues, I usually appeal to them to talk to their parents, to talk to their
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teachers. Oftentimes it's the parents that bring in the children because they
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realize that something has changed in their child's behavior and they're
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worried about their child. Children withdraw or they start to not want to
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spend time with anyone anymore. Some kids gain weight or lose weight. Some kids
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develop allergies, headaches, don't want to go to school, sometimes they feel
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nauseous. So the parents recognize this behavior and when they talk to the child,
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oftentimes the child doesn't want to talk about it, so the parents are at a loss.
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So they come to me and usually when I speak to the child one-on-one, then they
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open up to me because my conversations are confidential. And then I ask the
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child to go and speak to the parents, promising them that things will get
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better. I had a problem, I just chose to ignore it. I see myself leading on a fake
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persona of a strong person that didn't care what people thought of her, didn't care what people had to say about her.
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And most of my friends, my sister, my mother usually saw that. However, I wasn't like that at home.
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I was a completely different person at home. I was always happy, I was always laughing, smiling, making jokes.
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Bullies are really afraid to get teachers involved because they know
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something will happen, there'll be consequences. And that's why they
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blackmail the victim into saying that snitches get stitches and you
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can't tell the teacher, can't get them involved. So then the victim has to fight
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by themselves. I think that there needs to be an awareness program set in place
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in schools to help children and people. Bullying is also prevalent in the
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workforce, so generally everyone recognizes bullying.
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Okay, March 8th, the friends that I thought were on my side in this entire
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bullying situation turned their backs on me. I started shaking, just like minor
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shaking, and I had a fever. I didn't really tell anyone that I was sick, I
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just thought that I had a flu. So I went home and I took a nap and then I took my
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brother to football. And by the time I was back home from football, I was
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completely numb and I couldn't move or speak. And I fainted in my mom's
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arms, so she chased me, she rushed me to the hospital. An hour or two,
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and I started seizing. I was having seizures and the hospital thought I had
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meningitis, which then led them to induce me in a coma. And I was in the
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ICU for three days and no one knew what was wrong with me. The second they woke
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me up from the coma, I started seizing again. And they realized that anything
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emotionally triggering caused me to have a seizure. All the memories would start
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piling in and I would start getting anxious. And then the doctors realized I
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had anxiety and depression. And my final diagnosis was psychological seizures
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and clinical depression with anxiety. Lots of therapists, lots of doctors came
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and spoke to me and said, this wouldn't have happened if I addressed the
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situation earlier. Because of the buildup, my seizures were my body's way of
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releasing that anger and that sadness.
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The most severe effects of, let's say, physical bullying would be that someone
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actually dies due to the consequences of the violence inflicted upon them.
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Emotional bullying, the most severe outcome of that could be that someone
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might take their own life.
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An investigation was held at school where everyone in my year had to write a
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report over what they know about the entire story. And slowly the bullies were
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seen as the people they are.
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I think that there's still a large problem with recognizing bullying
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because sometimes there's no awareness. And so I think the first step for
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bullying to be reduced is to increase awareness of bullying and making
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facilities available to people that are being bullied so that they can seek help.
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Actually, I started seeing a therapist and she made me talk about everything
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that's happened, everything that I went through. And I started getting better.
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I don't have any more seizures. I'm learning how to communicate and control
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my anger and my sadness.
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I'm lucky enough to still be alive to this day. Some people commit suicide
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because of bullying. Some people get sick and die because of bullying.
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I encourage you guys to reach out to a parent or to a teacher or to a sibling
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and try and find help. And always stick up for yourself.
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