Ayushmann Khurrana: The family man

Brut India

“How much physical intimacy will you have?” Ayushmann Khurrana revealed how he embraced marriage and fatherhood at a young age.  📹: BeerBiceps

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00:00Pyaar dosti hai. It's actually true.

00:02She started laughing.

00:03She was like, shakal dekhi hai apne.

00:05I'm a young father.

00:06Sab kuch itni jaldi hua, mujhe pata hi nahi chala.

00:08Aur jiski tum aad daal lete, usse pyaar ho jata hai.

00:20Bro, with, you know, your public image,

00:22everyone knows you're a great husband.

00:24My question to you is again for the young guys out there

00:26who are thinking about marriage.

00:27How do you become a great husband?

00:29Like what do you do?

00:31Nobody's a great husband.

00:36It's just that you have to be friends with your partner.

00:39Be it girlfriend or your wife.

00:40You know, Shah Rukh Khan once said,

00:42Pyaar dosti hai.

00:43And it's actually true.

00:44Kitna sex karoge tum?

00:46Kitna physical intimacy hogi?

00:47Kab tak attract karoge ek doosre ko?

00:49Ultimately, it's your companionship

00:51that you have to have the same sense of humor.

00:54Shahid aapko ek tarah ki filme pasand hai.

00:57You like your company.

00:58That's the most important thing.

00:59Is it true that love fades, but partnerships last?

01:02I know it sounds harsh, but if you just-

01:04You know, it's a habit.

01:05Matlab?

01:06Ek insaan ki aadat pad jati hai aapko.

01:10Aur wo pyaar hota hai.

01:11Aur jiski tum aad daal lete, usse pyaar ho jata hai.

01:14And aapko kiski aadat daal nahi hai,

01:16you have to make that correct choice.

01:18You know, you have to make that correct choice.

01:20You have to motivate yourself.

01:22Koi, aapka partner bhi aapko motivate nahi karta hai.

01:24When I told my wife, when she was my girlfriend,

01:28that I want to be an actor, she started laughing.

01:30She was like, chakal dekhi hai apne.

01:32I had to wear braces that time, wear glasses.

01:34I was preparing for my PMT, pre-medical exams that time.

01:38And we were doing theater together.

01:40And she was like, tum paise kaise kamaoge?

01:43How will you earn and make a living for yourself?

01:46So, it's not always true that your partner

01:48will be very supportive with your goals.

01:50You have to be self-motivated.

01:51Aur tumhara koi saath nahi dena.

01:52Aur tumhara koi saath nahi dena.

01:53Aur tum khud hi apna saath doge.

01:55I'm sure there have been moments where she's encouraged you.

01:57Yeah, yeah, of course.

01:58Of course, a lot of times, yeah.

02:00Like, of course, you know, you go through that phase.

02:02Like, we were teenagers that time

02:03when she told me this thing.

02:05You know, tab kuch pata hi nahi tha.

02:07And we've seen a lot over the years.

02:09Of course, now she's, we are both mature in our heads.

02:13And we handle our relationship like better than before.

02:17But eventually, it's you who has to motivate yourself.

02:22It's very difficult to strike that balance

02:24between your personal and professional life.

02:26Kaise, matlab, you know, I'm a young father.

02:28I became a father at 27.

02:30Second time at 29.

02:31I was 25 when I got married.

02:32Sab kuch itni jaldi hua.

02:33Mujhe pata hi nahi chala.

02:34Meri p***y thi jinn meri shaadi hone waali thi.

02:36I was so young.

02:37I had no friends jinn ki shaadi ho chukki thi.

02:40And when I became a father for the first time,

02:42mera koi dost nahi tha jinn ki shaadi hui thi.

02:43Mera kis se puchta ki, matlab,

02:45how do you feel when you become a father?

02:46Ask my father, papa kaise lagta hai?

02:48And he's like, you have to discover yourself.

02:51Hareko alag lagta hai.

02:53So, you know, I've seen a lot in these like 35 years.

02:56Actually, what does fatherhood change

02:57for a young guy like that?

02:59You see the world from the eyes of like a one-year-old

03:02or two-year-old, seven-year-old.

03:03You feel like hustling more in life because of that?

03:05Not really.

03:06Phir?

03:06It's different.

03:08You get more creative.

03:09Okay.

03:10You get more creative.

03:12In fact, you stay younger.

03:13Because your childlike innocence is back again.

03:19You know, you lose it at times.

03:21But it's very important for an artist to be a child.

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