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What is the method of expressing love_ _ Dr Tahira Rubab(360P)
Kashif Mag
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10/20/2024
This lecture is about the method of expressing love.
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Kashif Mag.
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00:00
Love and expressing love is a big challenge.
00:03
People love people but other people feel that they are not being loved.
00:08
They are not able to feel their love.
00:10
They feel that they are not being expressed the way they should be.
00:14
What is the story? What is the matter? We will talk about this.
00:16
Assalamualaikum. I am Dr. Tahira Rubab.
00:18
I am a Psychiatrist, Relationship Therapist and Sex Therapist.
00:22
We all want to love. We want to be loved.
00:27
And we want other people to love us.
00:30
Even after having so much love,
00:32
even after expressing love,
00:34
why don't other people feel that you really love them a lot?
00:39
You really consider them very important.
00:41
Or your role is very important in your life.
00:46
Why does this happen?
00:47
These questions come often.
00:49
And we all feel that we don't have that value in other people's life.
00:54
There are 3-4 reasons for this.
00:56
First of all, when we love another person
01:01
or when we develop feelings for another person,
01:04
we try to express them the way we want.
01:10
This is how love is.
01:12
This is how love is expressed.
01:14
The way we like, we express our love for the other person.
01:20
And we handle it in our own way.
01:23
For example, if we feel that we are doing something for that person,
01:27
we are helping that person,
01:29
we have shared some of their responsibilities,
01:32
or we are saying I love you or I miss you,
01:35
that's how the love is expressed.
01:37
This is how your love is expressed.
01:40
And you like it this way.
01:42
It's like when people give gifts to other people to show their love.
01:49
Which is right.
01:50
It's a very good thing to express your love in different ways.
01:53
It's very important.
01:54
And these are the things that tell the other person that
01:57
basically you are meaningful to someone.
02:00
But when we see people say that
02:04
I never felt that way,
02:07
that I've been loved or something like that happened to me,
02:10
that person really loves me so much.
02:12
The reason for that is
02:14
that normally we are not able to assess the needs of that person.
02:18
We are not able to assess the needs of that person.
02:21
We are not able to see that person's way of love
02:24
which makes him feel that if this thing exists,
02:28
then it means that it is love.
02:30
We spend our whole life loving others in our own way.
02:34
I see a lot of people say that
02:37
when they see a needy person,
02:39
instead of giving them money,
02:42
you give them things.
02:44
You are entertaining them in your own way.
02:47
So it's possible that they may need things sometimes
02:49
and sometimes they may not.
02:51
But you are giving them money in your own way.
02:54
So it's possible that ultimately the thing you are giving them
02:58
may not be as meaningful for them.
03:00
The food you are giving them may not be as meaningful for them.
03:03
Because maybe they need money
03:05
with which they can buy something of their own will.
03:07
But your partner's way of love
03:11
or the way of expressing love
03:13
is something else which is very important to understand.
03:15
It's possible that,
03:17
like in our society, men say that
03:19
they love their wives a lot
03:21
but they never express it.
03:23
They never say it out loud.
03:25
Similarly, women love their partners a lot
03:30
and they keep telling them again and again.
03:32
Both of them love each other in their own way.
03:36
For men, actions are very important
03:39
and for women, words are very important.
03:41
Words are not shoes.
03:43
Of course, if there are only words
03:45
and your actions are not with them,
03:47
they start seeing that it is not going where they want.
03:52
So it is very important for us to understand
03:54
how my partner expresses his love.
03:59
If you want to express your love in the right way,
04:03
according to his needs,
04:05
then it is important for you to understand
04:07
how your partner expresses his love to you.
04:11
The way he is expressing his love to you,
04:14
in the same way, he wants you to express your love to him.
04:18
And try to focus the need of your partner.
04:21
You love your partner a lot.
04:23
People love you a lot.
04:24
They are very loyal.
04:25
There is no doubt in love.
04:27
But if it is not expressed appropriately,
04:30
if it is not fulfilling according to your partner's needs,
04:34
then people do not feel that love.
04:36
And we often see that relationships end very quickly.
04:39
We often see this.
04:40
Love marriages start having a lot of problems.
04:44
Just try to understand what is the need of your partner.
04:48
And if you treat him accordingly,
04:52
I am sure your love will be felt.
04:55
It will be acknowledged.
04:57
And along with that,
04:58
the positivity that you want to create in your relationship,
05:02
that will also be possible.
05:04
I hope this video will help you
05:06
to improve your love relationship.
05:09
And how you should improve your expression.
05:13
Take care of yourself.
05:14
I will meet you again in a new video.
05:16
Until then, Allah Hafiz.
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