Haroon Rafiq Say Jannen Faisla Karnay Ka Gur

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00:00Welcome back, viewers.

00:04Today, a lot of youngsters have come to our show.

00:07Yes.

00:08And a lot of youngsters, I mean students,

00:11and those who are not students anymore,

00:13who have come to the job pool,

00:15they ask a lot of questions

00:16that life is moving towards practical life now.

00:19So, we make emotional decisions

00:23and sometimes we make practical decisions.

00:25Sometimes, both of them clash.

00:27The heart wants something else,

00:29but the practical thing, the decision, is something else.

00:32For example, you want to pursue arts.

00:36But the job says that the cheque, the money that comes after a month,

00:40you should not go that way.

00:42If you don't get the money and you can't go further in arts,

00:46then what should you do?

00:47So, make emotional decisions.

00:50I mean, how to decide

00:51whether the decisions are emotional or practical?

00:55Okay, first of all, before I answer,

00:57because I get a lot of questions like this in my inbox.

01:00They are pretty much related to this.

01:02First, I will ask you what you think should be done.

01:05Because you and your spouse

01:09have seen a success in life.

01:11So, what do you say, what should be done?

01:13I think you have to find a balance.

01:16Okay.

01:16There are a lot of decisions in which you have to listen to your heart

01:20and there are a lot of decisions in which you have to think practically.

01:23How to differentiate whether to make a decision from the heart

01:27or a practical decision?

01:28Okay, I will share what I practice.

01:31Yes, share that.

01:32I take a paper pen and write pros and cons.

01:35Very good.

01:36I decide according to the weight of the paper.

01:39This is a very good method.

01:41It is a very good method.

01:43It is said that if you can write the problems of your life on paper,

01:48remember this.

01:49And try this in your life.

01:52If you can write the problems of your life on paper,

01:56then half of it is solved.

01:58Write it down and see.

02:00The paper, the pen, the writing will tell you what the solution is.

02:06Mr. Dhani, I would like to ask you.

02:08I just wanted to say that this was a very practical approach,

02:11not an emotional approach.

02:13So, what do you think? Should it be an emotional approach?

02:15No, I mean, it sounds good.

02:18But I think most people are not capable enough

02:21to make such decisions.

02:23So, what would you say?

02:24If I talk about myself, I am a little bit emotional.

02:27So, I often make decisions based on emotions.

02:30Sir, should you make decisions from your heart or from your mind?

02:33What I think is that...

02:35I mean, even I think that I make decisions from my heart.

02:39Most of the people like me, who are lazy,

02:42who try to avoid the thought process, say that they listen to their heart.

02:47Most of them are lazy.

02:49You should always make a decision after giving it a lot of thought.

02:51After that, you should make a decision from your heart.

02:54Even Iqbal has said that it is better to stay with your heart

02:57than to stay away from your mind.

02:59But sometimes, leave it alone.

03:01So, he has also said that sometimes...

03:03All the decisions in your life should be right.

03:05Decisions from my heart or generally?

03:07No, generally.

03:08Sir, I am very happy to say that I am making a claim

03:15that none of the decisions I made were right.

03:18None of the decisions you made were right?

03:20Maybe some decisions were not right, but most of the decisions were right.

03:24None of the decisions you made were right?

03:26Not at all.

03:28Mr. Agha, both of you are successful people.

03:30There must be people in your family

03:34who are not as successful as you are.

03:36They are not as fortunate as you are.

03:38They are not as fortunate as you are.

03:41You made the decisions after giving it a lot of thought.

03:43Mr. Salim, you go first.

03:44I had a headache. You go first.

03:47Mr. Agha, did you make all the decisions after giving it a lot of thought?

03:51Sir, there were two or three things that had an impact on my life.

03:57I would like you to listen to this.

03:59Since they are successful people, let's hear it.

04:02I took some decisions from my heart and some from my mind.

04:06I consulted some of my friends, especially my elder brother.

04:12He told me that I should not do it this way.

04:14It would be better this way.

04:16I mixed all the three things and came up with a plan.

04:22That was my decision.

04:23You should clap for this.

04:24Wow!

04:27Mr. Salim, when did you..

04:28Sometimes, everything is going right

04:31and there is no problem.

04:33Everything is going right, but there is a problem.

04:37It is good that a person..

04:39Mr. Salim, you should clap for whatever he said.

04:41Wow!

04:43I thought I was dumb.

04:44Maybe he thought I was dumb.

04:45No, it is like that.

04:47He said that if it seems too easy, you are doing it wrong.

04:51You are absolutely right.

04:52Oh, you said that.

04:54If everything is going right, something is definitely wrong.

04:57Okay, I have made you listen to everyone's stories

05:00and how they made their decisions.

05:04Now, let's mix it all together.

05:06Let's make a cocktail out of it.

05:10Let's make a cocktail out of it.

05:12Let's make a hodgepodge out of it.

05:15Now, you have to live a life with gaps.

05:20You have to make sure that all these things are included.

05:23All the people who are sitting here

05:26have not made 100% correct decisions.

05:29Not at all.

05:30You have to understand this.

05:32You can fail only if you believe in your heart.

05:35You can fail only if you are practical.

05:39So, what do you have to do?

05:40So, what do you have to do?

05:41So, what I have understood from all these conversations

05:45and I want you to understand as well,

05:46is that you have to accept that failure is a part of life.

05:51Today, you will start playing cricket.

05:53If you don't like to lose, don't start for God's sake.

05:56If you want to play any game and you don't like to lose,

05:58for God's sake, don't start.

06:00Play cricket to play.

06:01If you like to play,

06:03then if you want to live your life,

06:05then don't live it just for success.

06:07You have to remember that

06:08to stand up against failure is also a success.

06:14That is also a success in itself.

06:16So, don't always be practical.

06:18A person who is 100% practical

06:21should be immediately put in jail.

06:25Let me give you an example.

06:26For example, there is a doctor.

06:28He charges Rs 50,000 for a heart surgery.

06:31A patient has come.

06:33He has Rs 49,900.

06:35Rs 100 is less.

06:36He should have a practical approach

06:38that this is my household expenses.

06:40Rs 500 will be less.

06:42I won't save him.

06:43So, the patient died.

06:44You have made your approach very practical.

06:47That is a mechanical life.

06:49So, don't be too practical.

06:52And don't listen to your heart too much.

06:54If you want to succeed,

06:56then you have to find that fine balance.

06:59You and I both want

07:01that all the poor people in the world become rich.

07:03That everyone's problems end.

07:05That everyone has a bike.

07:06That everyone has a car.

07:07That everyone has a plane.

07:08It shouldn't be like that.

07:09Everyone has a heart.

07:10So, you have to see one thing.

07:12You have to create a balance.

07:14If I can change a person's life,

07:17then I will change that.

07:18That is enough for me.

07:19You have to find a fine balance

07:22between emotions and practicality.

07:24And as Mr. Agha Majid said,

07:28you have to consult people

07:31who have succeeded in that.

07:34You have to consult them.

07:36You have to keep your emotions together.

07:38It is not necessary that you have to make a decision.

07:41After making a decision, you have to trust Allah.

07:44And you have to trust that

07:46when you are sleeping in the plane,

07:47you are sleeping because

07:49you know that the pilot will be a great man.

07:52He will fly the plane well.

07:53So, who is greater than Allah?

07:55If he is flying your life,

07:57then make a decision and trust him.

07:59God willing, you will succeed.

08:01That's it.

08:05Viewers, this was a short break.

08:06We will meet again after the break.

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