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00:00Previously on 90 Day Fiancé The Other Way.
00:04Today's the start of our journey and we'll be heading south out of England.
00:08I'm just new to communicating in a healthy way.
00:12It's nice that you are just communicating with me now.
00:15This is the whole reason I'm here, because I believe in us.
00:19Yeah.
00:20Welcome to the family.
00:22Hi!
00:23Today I'm meeting Inky's parents for the first time.
00:26Do you want to have kids?
00:29Yes, yes, yes, yes!
00:32Children, we've been dating for four months.
00:35Just ease it down a little bit.
00:40I want to know what's your job?
00:43I can't work, but the thing I can offer her is just that I'm in love with her.
00:48I knew I would be judged for not being able to work.
00:51I don't want Lily's family to think this marriage is not a good idea.
00:56We've been together for a long time.
00:59It's not a problem if there's an emergency.
01:01You have a child.
01:03You have to have a child.
01:05They want a grandkid so badly.
01:08I just know that.
01:10But now I don't even know if James wants a kid.
01:14You have to be happy.
01:16You have to have a healthy child.
01:20We applied for the Kabir visa with Shikaina.
01:24I only have one son.
01:26What are we going to do if he leaves?
01:31Please move.
01:37He was yelling at me in the car and saying he's changed his whole life for me.
01:40What have I done? What have I done? I haven't done anything for him.
01:43And then he came over and grabbed my phone, ripped my hair extension out.
01:47It feels like surreal, like this isn't real.
01:50It feels like we're so wrong.
02:21Excited to move in?
02:23I'm still waiting to see how I feel about that one.
02:25But nervous for how it'll all go.
02:30We are officially moving into Tata's parents' house.
02:34And right now, I can't picture myself living here.
02:38It's still their house, their rules.
02:41It definitely has me very anxious about what to expect.
02:46Whatever you need, we will help to look for it.
02:50Okay.
02:52The room we're moving into, it literally looks like a prison cell.
02:57So let's start by scrubbing the walls.
03:00It's a giant bunch of concrete.
03:03It's a lot of concrete.
03:05It's a lot of concrete.
03:06It's a lot of concrete.
03:07It's a lot of concrete.
03:08It's a lot of concrete.
03:09It's a lot of concrete.
03:10Let's start by scrubbing the walls.
03:12It's a giant bunch of concrete.
03:15So we have a lot of work ahead of us.
03:18We have to put floor in.
03:20Put some wallpaper on the wall to at least make it look less like a concrete cell.
03:27Nice.
03:28We've gotten the door done.
03:30Okay.
03:31And there's a bed.
03:33My body, my body.
03:35My body, my body.
03:39After all the work we've done to the room, I'm feeling super exhausted.
03:43But right now, it still feels a little bit weird being here with our parents right beside us.
03:50We'll see how it goes.
03:52I'm definitely nervous about it.
03:55Okay.
04:02Kiano.
04:03I have something for you.
04:06What is it?
04:07What is it?
04:09I told James to say, I have something for you because he brought a lot of gifts.
04:15And there's like seven people living at my parents' house.
04:19So it's nice that James brought gifts for all of them.
04:25Wow.
04:45I brought these beautiful amethyst necklaces for Tata's mom and for her sister.
04:51This is silver.
04:57I also brought moon coins for her dad.
05:00They are just a symbolism of no matter where we are, we are always looking at the same moon under the same stars.
05:08Ken, say thank you to James.
05:11Salam.
05:12Thank you, James.
05:19James, when you have a kid tomorrow, you'll be like this.
05:23One day when you have a kid, you'll be like this.
05:27That's why you should have a kid soon.
05:29Go fast to have a kid.
05:31Yeah.
05:41It's just a culture here.
05:43When you're married, they're expecting you to have a kid.
05:48But James still doesn't know that Adele told me that James doesn't want to have a kid.
05:54This makes me sad because I know James is going to be a great dad.
05:59Seeing James playing with my nephew is like seeing our future if we have a kid.
06:11The kid will be so handsome like you.
06:19I know this is a conversation that they're going to keep throwing at me time after time after time.
06:24It's been something they've said since me and Tata have been together.
06:28So I know my doubts about having children, it's not going to go over well.
06:39If you guys have a kid, I will have more grandson and grandkid.
06:48What is hurt the most?
06:50If James don't want to have a kid, it will break my family heart too.
06:54It's the last thing I ever wanted to hurt them.
07:25Yes!
07:33Things are nice this morning since we've christened the van.
07:37We've been apart for a few months, so yeah, it was nice and I think it's released a lot of tension, if anything.
07:46The van has been christened, yes. Multiple times.
07:51Hello.
07:52Where do you want to go?
07:54I guess we have a boot sale to attend, whatever the heck that is.
08:01What exactly is a car boot sale? I don't know if we have them in America.
08:06You park on a field and then you put a table out and put all your things on the table.
08:11A bit like a market sort of style vibe.
08:15Hopefully I sell some things.
08:17Yeah, hopefully.
08:18It's called a boot sale because in England the trunk of a car is a boot of the car.
08:24How about a spot over there?
08:26Since I've had to downsize so much, I thought it would be a quick way to get rid of some stuff and earn some extra cash.
08:34I reckon that will do for now.
08:36Okay.
08:38Now we wait, I suppose.
08:40We wait.
08:49Hello.
08:50Hiya.
08:55How do people usually do it? Do we go out and talk to people?
08:58Hello.
08:59Come and buy our own boot. Clothes for sale.
09:03Hiya.
09:04Hi.
09:05Ah, yes, hello.
09:06We have all kinds of tarot cards, regular cards.
09:10Most of the clothes are like size 6 and 8.
09:12Perfect.
09:13My size is awesome.
09:15Can I take the outfit?
09:17Yeah.
09:18ÂŁ7, please.
09:19Very nice. Our first sale of the day. We appreciate it.
09:23Have a good one.
09:25So, we've sold one thing.
09:28Yeah.
09:29If we were to sell everything here by some miracle, how much do you think we would get for it?
09:37I don't know.
09:39Okay.
09:40Like, um, these are like difficult conversations for me to have in general,
09:46but I feel like I want to have a healthy relationship with you.
09:50So, I was talking to my friend Natalie,
09:52and she just noticed that I tend to give and give and give in relationships of my finances,
10:01and so I'm trying to be more mindful of that.
10:04Yeah.
10:05You also have said many a times, I want to provide for you.
10:09Like, you don't need to work. I'll provide for you.
10:11I want to be able to look after you.
10:13I've never, I feel like I have.
10:14You have.
10:15It's like 100%.
10:16It's one of your kinks to look after somebody financially.
10:18It's not 100%.
10:19It's not 100%, though, is it?
10:21You haven't bought the van 100% on your own?
10:24Yeah, no, I'm not saying that I have.
10:29In an ideal world, I would just spoil the heck out of the person that I'm with.
10:33But in reality, I'm in a lot of debt.
10:39And so, while I've agreed for Dempsey not to have a job now,
10:43this isn't a long-term thing.
10:45Long-term, I want us to both be able to have jobs.
10:48Dempsey, what are you going to do for work?
10:51So, I'm just going to do bits of work here and there.
10:55Okay.
10:56For a couple of months, I'll be the breadwinner.
10:58For a couple of months, I'll be the breadwinner.
11:00I really would like a partner who's also financially independent.
11:07Have you girls agreed on that?
11:09We talked about finances.
11:11At this point, no.
11:14I've tried to bring up money stuff in the past with Dempsey,
11:17but she just jumps to immediately getting very defensive.
11:21And so, it's hard for me to have a conversation about this stuff
11:25because I'm basically just ready for her to jump down my throat.
11:29I'll be paying everything for a while, you know what I mean?
11:33I have a loan that I've taken out.
11:35And then, you know, I also had to take an extra $6,000 out
11:38in like an advance at work.
11:41I'm just saying, going forward, it would be nice for us both
11:44to have money coming in, in some ways.
11:50I just put my trust in the universe,
11:52and I know that wherever I go, I will always find a way to make money.
11:57It's just the way that I am. It's just the way that I live.
12:00Right, but doing what kind of things, out of curiosity?
12:03Whatever I want. Whatever I feel.
12:05Just so I have an idea.
12:06I don't have an idea.
12:08You just know that you're going to manifest a job.
12:11Yeah.
12:12Okay.
12:13I don't have any money concerns.
12:15Right. And I do.
12:17Okay.
12:18So, yeah.
12:23I'm independent. I always have been.
12:25I will work when I need to work.
12:27Like, that's just the way that I want to live my life at the minute.
12:30Oh, it's so frustrating.
12:33I know that you like to have a plan, but I don't,
12:36so we're just going to have to work with each other on that.
12:38Like, that's just how I am, and you knew that before you got into this with me.
12:42I mean, I've got my last, like, month's wages to come into my bank,
12:46and then I still have the money from my car.
12:49Oh, from your car.
12:51Yeah.
12:52I have no worries about earning money.
12:56Okay.
13:03It's the first time I'm hearing that she, you know, had extra money.
13:08I didn't know she had extra money from her car.
13:10In fact, when she called me, she was like,
13:12we need this money now or we're not going to get the van.
13:17So I put myself in an uncomfortable position with my boss asking for more money,
13:22and then in reality, she actually has all this money stashed away.
13:25Like, I don't even know what to feel.
13:27I'm sad, I think, mostly.
13:29I'm sad because I feel let down.
13:31I feel betrayed.
13:32I feel like she kept this from me, and it's,
13:34she's just kind of flying past it like it's not a big deal.
13:38I just feel like I'm getting screwed over.
13:46I feel like I'm getting screwed over.