Liezel Lopez, ibinahagi ang kuwento tungkol sa abusive boyfriend! | Mars Pa More - video Dailymotion

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Ikinuwento ni Liezel Lopez na isa sa greatest fears niya ay ang masaktan muli dahil sa pinagdaanan niyang abuse sa kanyang ex-boyfriend.

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00:00Not all kinds of fear are visible to our eyes.

00:04Sometimes, the most dangerous ones are the ones in our minds that we ourselves create.

00:10You're correct, Mars.

00:11According to experts, these are fears that hold us back

00:17so that we can achieve our goals.

00:20So what we're going to do today,

00:22we're going to look for those.

00:24In our word search puzzle,

00:26we're going to encircle or list the first three that we can see

00:30as in, the first one that will catch our attention.

00:34Yes.

00:35Okay?

00:36So here's our puzzle.

00:38You also have one there.

00:39Okay.

00:40Okay, here it is, Mars.

00:41Here, we saw something there.

00:45Here, here, here.

00:46Oh.

00:47There, Mars.

00:48Here, I'm looking for something.

00:50Boink.

00:51Ah, I tied Mars.

00:53Oh no.

00:56Nice, Mars.

00:57Okay, we also saw Mars here.

01:00Done.

01:01Okay.

01:02So let's go to Lizelle first.

01:04Lizelle, what are the words that you saw?

01:07Okay, so the first thing I saw was loneliness, getting hurt, and also the loss of freedom.

01:16Loss of freedom.

01:17Okay.

01:18And you, Myrtle, what did you encircle?

01:21Mine, the first thing I saw was rejection.

01:24Okay.

01:25The second is being judged, and lastly, failure.

01:30Oh.

01:31Okay.

01:32So out of those three words, which one relates to you the most?

01:37Yes.

01:38Choose one.

01:39Choose one from the three that you saw.

01:41For me, I think getting hurt.

01:44Okay.

01:45Because once a person is hurt, they change.

01:47It will never be the same person, I think.

01:50It's either you're going to get worse or you're going to get better.

01:54But, you know.

01:55Have you experienced something in the past where you feel like it's changed you for the worse?

01:59The worst thing for me is that I had a boyfriend before who was physically hurting me.

02:08Oh.

02:09So it's not just emotional, it's also physical.

02:12So I think that's the worst.

02:15If you tell someone that you love them but they can't do it,

02:19how can you trust another person again and give yourself up?

02:22And how can you feel safe with someone who can actually hurt you in different ways?

02:28I guess, because I'm sure for a time, you weren't thinking much of it.

02:33You kind of just pass it off.

02:35So I'm sure your understanding of what love is was blurred.

02:40Yes.

02:41Okay.

02:42Ethel, how about you?

02:43What are the things that you've experienced that you can relate to?

02:47The thing that I really fear here, or the thing that I can relate to the most,

02:52is the fear of failure.

02:54Because as a person, I value all the opportunities that come to me.

03:00You know, when God gives you something,

03:03sometimes you're scared of failing or disappointing someone,

03:07or not giving your best into something.

03:09Recently, my outlook on life has changed.

03:12Instead of looking at my fears to stop me,

03:16if there's something that makes me feel uncomfortable,

03:21the more I pursue it, the more I'll jump.

03:24I will take that leap of faith and I will go for it.

Liezel Lopez, ibinahagi ang kuwento tungkol sa abusive boyfriend! | Mars Pa More

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