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Common thinking traps
chrisworfolkfoundation
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16/06/2024
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We all make mistakes and sometimes we do this with our thinking which leads to a
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strong emotional reaction which is where the kind of anxiety cycle triggers it.
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But if we understand some of the more common thinking errors that we make we
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can kind of spot them in our thinking and say aha I know what this is. So let's
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go through some of these thinking traps now and maybe you'll be able to identify
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some in your own thinking or next time you worry you'll say oh I know that
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that's a common thinking trap and being able to identify that can often take a
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lot of the sting out of it. So the first one is catastrophizing. So this is where
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something small turns into something huge. So we spot a mistake we made at a
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presentation at work for example we think in oh no my boss is going to be
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really angry and they're going to fire me and I'm gonna lose my income and I'm
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gonna lose my house. That's catastrophizing because actually it's
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taking this little thing and it's blowing out into the worst possible
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scenario when likely your boss might not even notice it or it won't be a big
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deal. Probably not going to be made homeless because you made a mistake in a
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PowerPoint presentation. Next is all-or-nothing thinking. So all black
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and white thinking is often known. So an example of this might be saying I need
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to get an A in my exam or I'm a failure and like a B would be a failure. Well
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actually a B's a great grade or it's certainly not the end of the world and
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there's some gray area there right like a B isn't quite what we wanted if we
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wanted an A but it's also better than a C and a D and an E. But we can often get
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ourselves into this mindset of it must be this way or everything is is ruined
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or like my day must be perfect if one bad thing happens today the whole day is
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ruined. But actually our days are often gray there's some good there's some bad
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in there. The next is predicting the future or overestimating. So for example
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if I don't wash my hands and then I'm definitely gonna get ill and I'm gonna
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get I'll get some kind of food poisoning and of course that might
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happen it is possible we don't want to say the chance of zero is that but it's
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a pretty low chance right we're massively overestimating the probability
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if we think just skipping one hand washing while we're making a salad is
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gonna lead to to food poisoning in days in bed. Mind reading so this is kind of
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predicting other people's thoughts so a good example of this it might be
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someone we know passes us on the street and they don't acknowledge us and we
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assume we know what they're thinking they're really mad at us and they
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ignored us because they're mad at us. Actually there might be loads of things
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going on another person's mind maybe they're upset and they're just tunnel
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vision maybe they've got a podcast or music on and they're just not paying
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attention and maybe they've forgotten our name and they're too embarrassed in
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case we we call them out and spot them or something like that there's loads of
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reasons and similarly let's say we're in a restaurant and it appears like
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someone's looking at us and we assume they're judging us and maybe they're
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looking at someone else maybe they're looking at our food maybe they are
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interested in us but they're not judging us in a negative way lots of different
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possibilities but when we assume that we know what the other person thinking
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that's called mind reading. Personalization similar so let's say
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someone is angry and we kind of assume or it must be something that we've done
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like actually there could be loads of different things that angry but whenever
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we see it or it must be us everything is about us we are always the one that
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done something wrong. Emotional reasoning so this is a I feel bad so I must be bad
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let's say we feel guilty about something or remorseful say maybe we did
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make a mistake maybe we're just misinterpreting the situation but then
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we assume that it's a character trait of us so okay well I feel bad so I must be
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seriously ill because there's no other reason why I would feel bad other than
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that I was seriously ill and so how I feel is a reflection of my physical
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health or my character or something like that. Then we've got fixed rules so these
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things like shoulds or musts or for example I must get all of my work done
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today no matter how much work I get how many emails come through that I'm
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supposed to process I must get it all done today and we can end up getting
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really stressed about trying to get through all of this work and trying to
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get it all completed when actually there's an unrealistic amount of work
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but because we have a rule that says all my inbox must be empty by 5 p.m.
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then it causes us a lot of stress because we get trapped in this rule but
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actually we could say well that's just a rule I made myself or it's a rule I
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would like to keep but it's not always practical to keep it again we're looking
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at that gray area. So these are just a couple of the thinking traps so we went
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through catastrophizing all-or-nothing or black-and-white thinking predicting
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the future overestimating mind reading personalization emotional reasoning and
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fixed rules look out for these in your everyday life typically it comes down to
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two things that kind of catastrophizing and overestimating things are gonna be
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worse than they actually are or things are more likely to go wrong than they
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actually are just see if you can spot those and especially times when you're
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anxious can you see any of those thinking traps in the way you're
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