Ano nga ba ang ‘unique sense of intimacy’ sa isang relasyon? | It's Showtime - video Dailymotion

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00:00 Yes, that's how it is.

00:02 So in that way, no matter what, I can just bear the sadness that I'm feeling.

00:08 And I can get rid of those thoughts that I have,

00:14 that I'll doubt if he still loves me.

00:17 Because her effort and sweetness is 100% right?

00:20 Yes, 100%.

00:21 From 100, she's a zero.

00:23 Yes, that's how it is.

00:24 She really got me used to that.

00:26 Then suddenly...

00:28 She said that I'm not a zero.

00:30 I have a 1.

00:32 Let's talk about that.

00:36 What she's saying is that she's just looking for assurance.

00:40 Just an assurance to greet her with a happy monthly greeting.

00:42 Or if you have nothing...

00:44 Who doesn't want to be assured?

00:46 Yes, for example, like what Vice said earlier,

00:49 do you have no other ways to show your love to her

00:54 other than greeting her with a happy monthly greeting?

00:58 Actually, I gave her a promise ring twice just to assure her.

01:04 What did you say in the promise ring?

01:06 What did you promise her?

01:09 Maybe she was hurt because you gave her a promise ring,

01:11 but what you said in the promise ring,

01:13 she didn't see the promise.

01:15 That's true.

01:16 She said that maybe I'm just a word,

01:19 that she still sees me in what I say.

01:23 Aside from the promise ring, what else did you do?

01:26 She also got a promise necklace.

01:28 A promise anklet.

01:30 She got a jewelry box.

01:32 What else?

01:34 Did you do any other love language for her?

01:38 I still invite her to go out,

01:43 but not as often as before.

01:46 When she's not busy.

01:48 Because in a relationship, it's different.

01:54 Do you know the difference between love and in love?

01:58 Yeah.

02:00 Because you can say, "I love her."

02:02 That's the difference between whether you love her or you're in love with her.

02:07 Because you can give your love to everyone, to many people.

02:13 But when you love someone, you're giving it to the most stubborn.

02:22 So if I feel that she loves me, or you say, "I love her."

02:29 But do you feel that when you love her?

02:33 Do you feel that she's being stubborn?

02:38 The difference between love and in love,

02:43 because love is for everyone, but in love, it's only one.

02:49 And to maintain your in love in a relationship,

02:55 it is a constant combination of both your conscious and unconscious efforts.

03:03 Because if you don't have...

03:08 That's why in love, there's a difference between love and in love,

03:12 the unique sense of intimacy.

03:18 If you don't feel it, if the unique sense of intimacy is not evident in a relationship,

03:23 you just love her, but you don't love her anymore.

03:27 Because there's no longer any connection to what you feel for each other.

03:31 You don't do anything for each other, you're just different and unique.

03:35 What you show and do for each other, you show it to everyone.

03:39 There's nothing special.

03:41 You have to make that person feel so special.

03:44 You have to do things that are special.

03:46 You have to make that relationship special, extra special compared to your relationship with your friends,

03:51 relationship with your co-workers.

03:53 How you treat that person should be extra special compared to how you treat your workmates, your friends.

04:00 How you treat your friends outside, when you talk to them, it's different.

04:04 There's a unique sense of intimacy so that you can feel for each other,

04:08 "I didn't just fall in love, I'm in love with this person."

04:12 That's why when you're in a relationship, it's scary if you're still in love with this person or you just love her.

04:20 So at that point, are you still in love with her or you just love her?

04:26 If you love her, you care about her, you want her to be happy, you feel good about her, you have love for her.

04:34 But when you're in love with her, you want to see her, you want to talk to her.

04:39 "I'm so tired but I want to go home because I want to hug my wife."

04:44 "I'm not in the mood but I want to talk to Ayon because I'll get back in the mood."

04:50 We're always like, "This is so annoying, there's so many of these, there's so many of these arts."

04:58 But this is what I want to be with for the rest of my life.

05:02 In love with her.

05:04 My unique sense of intimacy.

05:07 Let's see.

05:09 [silence]

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