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00:00 - The future. - The future.

00:02 - About telling your parents eventually that you have a relationship. - Yes.

00:06 Yeah, and when we talk about that,

00:08 I always say that it's after studies.

00:12 Oh, so you're really scared of your parents.

00:16 Yeah.

00:17 How about your boy?

00:19 Didn't you meet his parents?

00:22 Oh, I've met his mom.

00:24 Yeah, and they're a lovely family.

00:28 So you had a relationship, you and your mom?

00:31 It wasn't really a relationship because his mom is also working.

00:36 So it was more on him.

00:39 Actually, my parents got to know me better than I know his family.

00:46 What was that? Did he know that you're just dating or you're already boyfriend and girlfriend?

00:51 It was a very silent, mutual thing.

00:55 I always tell them to be careful because I know it's not allowed.

01:02 So it was a silent commitment.

01:07 As in, I don't want you with other girls, you don't want me with other guys.

01:11 But there's no label?

01:12 No, when I was asked, legally speaking, I don't have a boyfriend.

01:17 - You're not. - Yes.

01:18 - You're good. - You're really good.

01:21 - But let me ask you. - Okay.

01:23 What was your feeling at that time when you met your ex?

01:27 Was it adventurous for you or were you really scared that we might get caught?

01:33 And trauma or adventurous that you're enjoying and hiding?

01:38 Oh, he's a bit chill in that aspect.

01:42 I don't know why, I was under pressure but I still did it.

01:48 I was a bit stubborn back then.

01:50 So I didn't enjoy the hiding, I wanted to live.

01:54 It came to a point that I want to live a transparent life.

01:57 Right.

01:58 Yeah, so I kind of got tired of the hiding.

02:00 - But then, you know, of course... - You got caught right away.

02:03 You got tired of the hiding but you got caught right away.

02:06 Actually, I have a question for Daddy Paolo.

02:11 Because Daddy Paolo, if we're Air One, I also have a daughter.

02:15 And we were talking about our parenting.

02:20 I'm sure she's going to be like you guys.

02:24 The strict one, the not so strict one.

02:26 You should study first.

02:27 But one thing Air One told me,

02:30 "Would you rather she would hide things from us or would you rather she would open up and share everything with us?"

02:38 I said, "Yes, of course."

02:39 It's a very tough thing as a parent.

02:43 Now, would you have changed your decision or...

02:47 Still, for me, no.

02:50 Because we still believe,

02:53 because the youth today say that the heart is full.

02:58 And I believe, I always remind my children that proximity is stronger than love.

03:06 So I just want to say that,

03:07 sometimes, even if you love one person,

03:09 but because you're always with that person, you'll fall.

03:12 That's physical.

03:13 So as young as they are, still studying,

03:16 what we're avoiding is accidents that can affect their studies or their future.

03:23 So if we don't give certain rules, it's more open.

03:28 Sometimes they would open up, and even if we say, "Pause or slow down,"

03:32 but because sometimes they'll notice that Dad and Mom are not serious.

03:38 So we made a point that focus on studies, that's our rule.

03:43 After your studies, then...

03:45 Do whatever you want.

03:46 That's why we're here today, because it's already 22.

03:48 Yes, it's already 22.

03:50 I'm already tired.

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