Successful people are almost always the victims of relatives and friends who are less successful. There are two types; 1. The one who truly needs help and will rarely ask. 2, The type who plots and schemes to separate you from your money. What to do? Be a victim once and only once and then separate yourself from such an abuser. Recognize that you are at fault for not judging the character of the abuser. Make it a point not ever to have any more dealings with the abuser. I have been victimized and these techniques work for me. Whatever you do, do NOT contemplate revenge. Never.