Do You Ever Think "Am I Worth it"? | Gina Hatzis - video Dailymotion

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Gina delivers an incredible speech to help you understand that worthiness comes from within.

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00:00 I have stood here on this corner for far too long.

00:05 [MUSIC PLAYING]

00:07 Here, at the intersection of too much and not enough streets,

00:12 hustling for my worthiness.

00:15 You could drive by most Sundays and see me at six years old,

00:19 eight, 10, standing at the doorway,

00:23 nose pressed to the glass window, waiting.

00:27 The home would smell of chocolate chip cookies,

00:29 his favorite, and I'd wrap them up tightly to keep them warm,

00:33 thinking, oh, he is going to love me.

00:38 I mean, he's going to love them.

00:40 And I stood at that door, waiting.

00:44 I remember the cruel ticking of the clock.

00:47 I remember my mother gently pulling me away from the door,

00:50 peeling off my coat, and making me hot chocolate

00:54 to sweeten the bitterness of his absence.

00:58 I stood at that door for much of my youth.

01:01 And at 26, all dolled up on my wedding day,

01:05 I sat in the back of a stretch limousine,

01:08 my nose once again pressed to the glass window,

01:12 waiting for him to show up to walk me down the aisle.

01:14 There was no hot chocolate that day, just the bitterness.

01:23 Now, I ain't a victim.

01:24 In my life, I have been loved in so many ways.

01:29 That's what you all want to hear, isn't it?

01:31 All the ways that someone else can soothe and comfort

01:35 and fix it.

01:38 Ever have someone try to give you something

01:39 you didn't feel worthy of having?

01:41 Nobody can fill you if there's a hole in your self-worth.

01:46 I'm here to tell you, baby, that it is never enough.

01:53 And if I could talk to that little six-year-old girl,

01:56 I would tell her, baby, he's not coming.

02:00 Nobody's coming to save you.

02:02 And that's the good news.

02:09 Worthiness isn't out there to get.

02:11 It's in here to claim.

02:12 It's your birthright.

02:14 And I love this thought without apology

02:16 to the romantics and the Hollywood movies

02:19 and all of you searching for your twin flame.

02:22 I love knowing that the journey to loving myself

02:25 is the ultimate love affair of my life.

02:28 But this state of mind, it's an inside job, baby.

02:31 And if you aren't there, haven't been there,

02:34 forgotten how to get there, hop in Thelma

02:36 and let's get the hell out of this town.

02:38 Because the journey to connection,

02:40 it's never about going.

02:42 It begins with coming home to yourself.

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Do You Ever Think "Am I Worth it"? | Gina Hatzis

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