90 Day Fiancé_ Woman Yohan ‘Pursued’ While Married Joins the Tell-All
90 Day Fiancé_ Woman Yohan ‘Pursued’ While Married Joins the Tell-All
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00:00 - Hi, thanks so much for being here.
00:03 - One of the women Johan allegedly pursued
00:05 while married to Danielle joins the tell-all.
00:09 Her name is Memory.
00:11 And it's so ironic because Johan claims
00:14 he doesn't remember her.
00:16 (speaking in foreign language)
00:20 You can't make this stuff up.
00:22 - I believe that he doesn't remember her.
00:24 I think he has so many-
00:26 - Well, Memory details her relationship with Johan
00:30 and brings the receipts.
00:32 - Do you have the conversation?
00:34 - I got all of it right here.
00:36 - Plus, Sarper is making himself and Shekinah
00:39 look even worse as he explains how he slept
00:42 with 2,500 women before the age of 43
00:46 and shows evidence to prove it.
00:49 - Xs are the number of people.
00:53 - Oh my.
00:56 - What?
00:57 - Oh my God. - That's disgusting.
00:59 - That is your man, girl.
01:01 Hey, 90 Day Fans fam, it's Malisa.
01:08 Happy holidays.
01:09 Let's not waste any time and get into Johan's
01:12 lack of memory when it comes to Memory with an I.
01:17 Last week, Danielle accused Johan of speaking
01:20 to more than 50 women while they were together,
01:22 attempting to scam them, which Johan denied.
01:26 Johan, do you still maintain that you weren't
01:30 speaking to these women?
01:31 - Si.
01:33 - But shout out to the producers
01:36 because one of them came up with the brilliant idea
01:40 of bringing one of those women on the show,
01:43 catching Johan completely off guard.
01:46 Please welcome Memory.
01:50 - Uh-oh.
01:52 (scoffs)
01:53 Sucks to be Johan.
01:55 - Hi, Memory.
01:58 - Hi.
01:58 - Johan is looking like, "I reached out to her?"
02:01 Yes, apparently you did,
02:04 disturbing this nice-looking, well-spoken young lady.
02:07 Tell me, how did Johan first approach you?
02:10 - He slid in my Facebook Messenger and said hello at first.
02:17 It was like 11 o'clock at night.
02:19 And then he was asking me, you know,
02:20 was I married, did I have kids?
02:22 It just kinda went from there.
02:26 - Memory says their conversations went from,
02:28 "Hey, how you doing?"
02:29 to him telling her to come visit the Dominican Republic.
02:33 - My friend and I had talked about doing a mom trip
02:36 to the DR, so I just asked about it.
02:38 And he was like, "You don't need to bring a friend.
02:40 "You know, I'll show you anything that you need to see.
02:44 "You can just come here and see me."
02:46 - I don't wanna harshly judge Johan
02:48 because I didn't grow up in the DR.
02:51 I don't know his struggle.
02:52 But if I'm to be honest,
02:55 and if what Memory is saying is totally true,
02:57 it's not looking great for him.
03:01 There's something very disturbing
03:04 about someone who would do whatever it takes
03:06 to get what they want,
03:08 even if it means manipulating innocent people,
03:11 in this case, women who desire love,
03:14 as if you and what you want are more valuable than them.
03:18 - He had told me that he was single going through a divorce
03:22 and that she was trying to take everything from him.
03:25 - His hats, shirts, and hangers that she bought?
03:29 Yep, she did try to take that.
03:31 I don't know what else he's talking about.
03:33 Maybe Gizmo.
03:34 - Johan, no!
03:35 Give me the dog!
03:37 Give me the dog!
03:38 - Sean asked Johan if he remembers talking to Memory.
03:42 - No, I don't remember her.
03:44 ♪ I'm still falling in love ♪
03:47 But now that she talks,
03:49 that she shows me the messages and the conversation,
03:51 because a lot of women send me,
03:54 send me on Facebook,
03:55 send me applications on Instagram,
03:57 I accept them, I say hello.
03:59 But I don't remember her.
04:01 Maybe I do, maybe I don't.
04:03 - Well, Memory makes it clear
04:05 that she did not reach out to Johan first.
04:08 - No, ma'am.
04:09 - And shows the conversation.
04:12 - He just said, "Hola," and I said, "Hello."
04:14 I told him I was going on a trip,
04:16 and he said, "That's okay.
04:18 "Do you have kids and a husband?"
04:20 And I said, "I'm single, but I do have a child and you."
04:25 He said, "I'm single, and I don't have children.
04:27 "I'm getting a divorce."
04:29 And I said, "Oh no, I'm so sorry.
04:32 "I've never been married,
04:32 "but I can imagine it's hard to get a divorce.
04:34 "Are you okay?"
04:36 And he said, "More or less.
04:37 "Can I see a picture of you now?"
04:39 And I just said, "I'm sorry."
04:41 And then I told him that I saw on his profile
04:44 that he was from the Dominican,
04:45 and he said, "I've been trying to get my best friend
04:47 "to go with me."
04:48 And he said, "You can come alone.
04:49 "I can take good care of you if you want.
04:51 "I have no problem with that.
04:53 "Where do you live?"
04:54 - He said he could take good care of her.
04:57 And I find it interesting that he asked where she lived.
05:01 I wonder if he was trying to see
05:02 if the location was worth the investment.
05:05 Whew, the internet can be a dangerous place.
05:09 What would you do if Johan slid into your DMs, ladies?
05:14 It's possible.
05:15 He's out here doing it to randoms,
05:17 like Memory, who was just minding her business on Facebook.
05:21 And all of this happened while Johan and Danielle
05:24 were already cast members on "90 Day Fiancé."
05:27 That's so bold.
05:30 Johan, do you remember this exchange now?
05:36 (speaking in foreign language)
05:40 I don't see how you can speak to someone named Memory
05:43 and not remember her.
05:45 - Johan contacted me June 6th at 10:59 p.m.
05:49 It's right there.
05:50 That's the very first message.
05:52 - Was this when you guys were together,
05:57 he was messaging her,
05:57 or was this already when you were separated?
05:59 - This is before, this is June.
06:01 So this is before we moved out, but we were fighting.
06:03 I'm almost like, I believe he doesn't remember her.
06:06 And my question is for him.
06:08 - Danielle asked Johan if he doesn't remember Memory
06:12 because there are so many women who can sit in that chair
06:14 and say the same thing.
06:16 - I believe that he doesn't remember her.
06:18 I think he has so many (beep)
06:21 (speaking in foreign language)
06:24 - Memory goes on to share why she stopped talking to Johan.
06:27 It's because Danielle added her as a friend.
06:31 - I messaged her and was like, hi, you know,
06:34 I'm assuming that you added me because of Johan.
06:36 And she said, yes, that that was the reason.
06:39 And, you know, I had told her everything
06:42 that he had told me and she told me, you know,
06:44 he's still very much married
06:46 and I don't have anything to do with married men.
06:49 That was just, that was the end of it.
06:51 I didn't talk to him anymore.
06:52 - Now, if you thought that was something,
06:55 after they say bye to Memory,
06:57 Danielle alleges Johan carried out
07:00 inappropriate relationships with some of her clients.
07:04 All of this allegedly went down
07:06 as Johan was supposed to be helping Danielle out
07:10 as one of her staff.
07:11 - They engaged in some kind of relationship
07:14 while she was on my retreat.
07:16 He used his position in my business
07:20 for his own sexual benefit.
07:22 The first time he went and picked up another woman
07:26 in my retreat van and took her to maybe
07:29 or maybe not my apartment.
07:31 - It just gets worse and worse.
07:33 The second time he engaged in a relationship
07:36 with one of the women who was there.
07:37 - Apparently during the retreat,
07:39 he went to one of the women's tents at night.
07:43 I mean.
07:44 ♪ How low can you go ♪
07:46 ♪ Can you go that low ♪
07:48 - Yeah, it's the lowest of the low at this point.
07:51 (speaking in foreign language)
07:55 - Do I ever say anything without proof?
07:57 - I know that's right, Danielle.
07:58 Pull out the receipts.
08:00 - Johan should consider thinking before he speaks.
08:03 He sets himself up with some of the things he says.
08:06 - I had found a picture on his computer
08:10 of a chat that they had.
08:12 I knew something was up, so I was like,
08:14 I need you to do me a favor.
08:15 I need you to delete my husband's number from your phone.
08:17 This is making me very uncomfortable.
08:18 I don't think you guys should be
08:19 having private conversations.
08:21 And she said, no problem, done.
08:23 And then just like two weeks ago, she sent me an email
08:26 and was like, hey, I'm ready to talk about this
08:29 and detailed their relationship.
08:31 - The girl went on to tell Danielle
08:33 that along with coming to her tent during the retreat,
08:36 he also tried to convince her to leave the property
08:39 to quote, spend time together.
08:41 And he wanted her to stay back
08:43 when it was time for her to leave the retreat
08:45 because Danielle was headed to New York.
08:48 Did he really not think Danielle
08:50 would eventually find this out?
08:52 Or did he not care?
08:54 But if he didn't care, he wouldn't be denying it.
08:56 And he is.
08:59 I don't get it.
09:00 - After you talked to me
09:01 and told me not to talk to him anymore,
09:03 I told him that I couldn't talk to him anymore.
09:05 And he got super mad and told me
09:06 that I was letting you control me.
09:08 And I was afraid of you.
09:10 I truly wasn't chasing your husband.
09:12 I wasn't calling him on FaceTime.
09:14 He was calling me.
09:15 - And you entertained it.
09:17 At least she came out and told her.
09:21 That's interesting.
09:22 Danielle set up this retreat to help people heal,
09:25 do yoga, focus on their wellbeing.
09:28 Meanwhile, more damage is being done to her heart.
09:31 I wonder if the girl felt bad.
09:34 You have this woman that's trying to provide a service
09:37 to help you and you're entertaining her man.
09:41 - Are you convinced that this woman and Johan
09:43 had a physical relationship?
09:45 - Yeah.
09:47 - Johan continues to deny, deny, deny.
09:51 (speaking in foreign language)
09:55 And then he gets extremely disrespectful.
09:59 (speaking in foreign language)
10:02 I am over him trying to send everybody to hell
10:23 when he's the one who needs to quit lying.
10:25 He bold faced lies.
10:26 He's done it before.
10:27 - I asked Johan about it.
10:28 I was like, did you go to the ATM
10:31 and take money out of my account?
10:32 He's like, no.
10:33 I was like, are you sure?
10:33 Today, there was, someone went to the ATM
10:36 and took money out.
10:36 He's like, no.
10:37 So I'm like, okay.
10:39 So I have to go to the bank and ask them for a video
10:42 of who took money out of my account.
10:44 And then finally he's like, yeah, fine.
10:47 And just like banged the table and was super angry.
10:50 - Just give it up.
10:52 We're grown here.
10:53 Your relationship is already over.
10:55 Just tell the truth.
10:57 That would be better for your image.
10:59 If that's what you're trying to protect
11:01 then to continue to lie.
11:03 Have some grace and dignity.
11:06 (speaking in foreign language)
11:10 - Brice says, I swear, Kenny and Armando
11:19 are the only wholesome couple on the show.
11:22 They're like a breath of fresh air
11:23 amongst the madness.
11:25 Agree.
11:26 - Johan, do you admit to cheating with any woman
11:31 while you were with Danielle?
11:33 (speaking in foreign language)
11:38 - Is he trying to pull a...
11:45 ♪ But you still accuse me ♪
11:47 ♪ I should have cheated ♪
11:50 (speaking in foreign language)
11:51 - Goodbye.
11:52 - She's out of your league.
11:53 - He's angry because I made this public.
11:56 - Yeah.
11:57 - No one knew about this.
11:58 None of my friends, none of his family.
12:01 I didn't tell anybody what I was experiencing.
12:03 And now you sit here and (beep) berate me
12:05 instead of, just be honest.
12:08 Just for once in your life, just tell the truth.
12:11 (speaking in foreign language)
12:15 - Oh my God.
12:17 (speaking in foreign language)
12:20 - The way he's defensive.
12:22 He's been caught like red handed.
12:23 - Sean asked Johan one more time,
12:26 did he cheat at any point during this relationship?
12:30 (speaking in foreign language)
12:34 - Oh my God.
12:40 - So Johan, are all of these women lying?
12:43 (speaking in foreign language)
12:51 - Does anybody believe Johan?
12:53 - No.
12:54 - Kalani.
12:57 Danielle says she kept the evidence
12:59 because she knows Johan and she knew he was going to lie.
13:03 - And I know that everyone already thinks I'm evil
13:05 and I'm mean to you.
13:06 So I knew that the only way to protect myself
13:09 is to come with evidence.
13:10 (speaking in foreign language)
13:13 - The cast goes on to take a vote.
13:15 By a show of hands, how many people think
13:17 that Johan has been unfaithful?
13:21 From the evidence today, everyone here, everyone here.
13:25 Shekinah is the only one that didn't raise her hand
13:29 out of everybody, which isn't surprising
13:32 because she's not that fond of Danielle.
13:34 - I never really cared for Danielle.
13:37 - And she hasn't even woken up yet
13:38 to her own man's behavior, which we'll get to in a sec.
13:42 - I think Johan used Danielle for being quiet
13:44 for money and stuff.
13:46 And I personally think Johan's piece of (beep) sorry.
13:50 (Danielle laughing)
13:52 - Oh, he is.
13:53 - Amen, Wayne.
13:54 I'm glad someone said that out loud.
13:57 - It's an emotional thing for Danielle to go through.
14:00 - Like who wants someone to suffer with a (beep) psycho?
14:03 (speaking in foreign language)
14:07 - The unfortunate part is that Danielle
14:13 is probably going to be the one
14:15 who takes on the financial burden of this divorce.
14:19 Danielle, let me ask you one final question.
14:21 Are you going to file for divorce?
14:24 - Yeah, absolutely.
14:28 - I would love to know what Danielle's major takeaways
14:31 from this relationship are.
14:33 What has this experience taught her?
14:35 Because, whew, this is one of those life changers here.
14:39 Hard lessons.
14:42 All right, real quick, Ken from the dark side
14:45 and Barbie, who is caught up in his spell.
14:48 - Don't question it, just roll with it, tiny baby.
14:51 - She is my Barbie and I am her Ken.
14:54 - The cast tries to figure out Sarper's claim
14:57 that he slept with over 2,500 women before the age of 43.
15:02 - How does 2,500 happen?
15:05 I was trying to do the math.
15:06 I don't know how old you are.
15:07 - It doesn't.
15:08 - I actually did the math.
15:10 So 30 years, you figured about a new person
15:13 every four to five days.
15:14 - Did any of you do the math?
15:16 I didn't care that much.
15:18 The number just sounded too ridiculous.
15:20 - By our calculations, 2,500 women means you had sex
15:25 with a different woman every three and a half days
15:29 since your 18th birthday.
15:32 Was that in fact the reality?
15:34 - I'm not proud of that.
15:39 - Yeah, you are.
15:40 - Right, Kenny's a real one.
15:42 He knows what's up.
15:43 He has to be proud of it.
15:45 He gave that information about the 2,500 women
15:48 when no one asked for it.
15:50 If he wasn't proud of it,
15:51 he should have kept that information to himself
15:54 and just left it at a lot.
15:56 I've slept with a lot of women over the years.
16:00 She kinda goes on to share some information
16:03 that has me looking at Sarper like,
16:04 "Dude, what's really going on here?"
16:09 - You also have that freaking bottle collection of yours.
16:11 You love to keep your memories and I hate it.
16:15 - What is the significance of the bottle collection?
16:19 - It's nothing, it's just a collection.
16:21 - He has a memory with each bottle with a female
16:25 and he keeps all the bottles.
16:27 - What the (beep)
16:29 - Y'all, look at this bottle collection.
16:32 That's a lot of women.
16:34 What is Sarper trying to prove here?
16:37 Does he think a higher body count makes him more of a man?
16:41 Does he need to be reminded
16:43 about how much of a man he is every day?
16:46 Does he believe sex is the only valuable thing about him?
16:50 Something's going on here.
16:54 You know, I would actually love to see Sarper
16:57 in his most natural state,
16:59 without the stiff hair, without the makeup, just Sarper.
17:04 Who is he outside of a sex symbol?
17:08 This number of 2,500 women,
17:12 a lot of people said they didn't believe it.
17:16 - And also like, how'd you document it?
17:17 Was it like stars on a chart?
17:19 - Well, he's doing three and four in a night.
17:21 It's, didn't he say one time?
17:23 - I mean, let me tell you something.
17:25 I'm a counting freak.
17:27 I mean, she kind of knows it.
17:28 I count everything.
17:30 - He is, he's a numbers guy.
17:32 Girl.
17:33 Sarper proceeds to tell Shekinah
17:36 he's been hiding something from her.
17:39 - From '98 to 2012,
17:41 I recorded all my bad body counts to a notebook.
17:45 - Oh my God.
17:46 You just said you're not proud of your number,
17:51 but you're literally keeping a book?
17:53 - It was old, baby.
17:54 - I don't care.
17:55 Don't ever say you're not proud of it again.
17:57 Sarper voluntarily goes and gets the evidence
18:01 to prove his body count, AKA the notebook,
18:05 that he seemingly had prepared to show
18:07 because it didn't take him long to get it.
18:10 - Can you see it?
18:10 - Oh my gosh.
18:13 - Look at Sarper's face.
18:20 He's flipping the pages like he's ashamed of himself.
18:24 Yet nobody asked him for this.
18:27 Wait, what are the Xs?
18:28 Xs one?
18:29 - Xs are the number of people.
18:33 - Oh my.
18:35 - What?
18:36 - Oh my God. - That's disgusting.
18:39 - Obviously not disgusting enough.
18:41 - That is disgusting.
18:42 - That looks like fantasy football or some (beep)
18:45 - Kehlani's reactions have been the best this episode.
18:48 - No.
18:50 - It's nice to see her in a seemingly lighter space
18:54 after all she's been through.
18:56 - Is your penis still attached to your body?
18:58 - What do the colors mean?
19:01 - Good question.
19:02 - Colors indicates how pretty the girl was.
19:05 - How pretty the girl was?
19:06 - Yeah, he literally was not picky.
19:09 He would sleep with anyone.
19:11 Sean asked Shekinah how she feels
19:13 after seeing the notebook.
19:15 - To make all these women an X in a book,
19:17 it just, I don't know.
19:19 I just, I don't like it.
19:21 - And then Sarper tries to give her another perspective.
19:25 - Shekinah, think it as a trophy for you.
19:27 I mean, you changed this kind of man to a X one.
19:30 - No, that's not how I look at it.
19:31 - That's the proof of this.
19:32 - No, it disgusts me.
19:34 - Yeah, he's tripping.
19:37 He has some work to do.
19:38 I wanna know what drove him to sleep with so many people.
19:43 And was there any point where he at least
19:45 thought to himself, let me slow down.
19:49 That was a lot of opportunity to catch something.
19:51 Also, I hate that Shekinah doesn't even talk
19:53 to her sister now because of this relationship.
19:57 - My family is so negative.
19:58 They could not be more unsupportive.
20:00 And I actually don't even talk to anyone
20:03 in my family since the show.
20:05 - I wonder if she still speaks to her daughter.
20:07 This relationship seems to be separating her
20:10 from people who love her the most.
20:12 It's like she's suffering from Stockholm syndrome.
20:16 Everyone can clearly see this relationship is toxic
20:19 and she's being controlled,
20:21 but she doesn't see it that way.
20:23 Then again, when you're used to unhealthy relationships.
20:27 - You've been with a lot of ass (beep)
20:29 (laughing)
20:30 - What might be toxic to others
20:32 could be acceptable to you.
20:36 - You grew up in a super like hardcore,
20:38 and I grew up Mormon.
20:40 It's very similar and like being nitpicked
20:42 and controlled for every single thing that you do.
20:44 And it makes you make poor choices in men.
20:48 I can say that.
20:49 Like it comes off with some of the people
20:55 that yes, you're being attacked,
20:56 but like for me, I do it because I'm worried.
20:59 - I think you're bringing your own thing
21:01 into my relationship.
21:03 Like your issues are yours.
21:04 They're not related to what I'm dealing with.
21:08 - If every single person in the room is seeing the same (beep)
21:11 and you're the only one that doesn't,
21:12 it comes off as delusional.
21:13 - I'm the only one in it.
21:14 - Okay, fine girl.
21:15 It is your life.
21:17 She kind of leaves a tell all
21:18 without saying a word to the cast.
21:21 - I just feel like everyone, you know, hates me.
21:26 I don't care.
21:26 Let them.
21:28 - I'm curious to see if we will ever see her
21:30 and Sarper on 90 Day again.
21:33 - I'm glad it's over.
21:35 - Whew.
21:36 All right, 90 Day fans fam.
21:38 That's a wrap for The Other Way season five.
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22:28 of The Single Life, which premieres January 1st.
22:32 The cast looks pretty solid with Tyrae, Chantel,
22:36 Miss Debbie, Kim's son, Jamal, and Veronica.
22:40 - Tim, you're a (beep) bitch, dude.
22:41 - Whoa!
22:42 - What you're not gonna do is raise your voice at me?
22:44 - What you're not gonna do is question me
22:46 being a (beep) dad to Khloe.
22:48 You're way below the line.
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