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‘I’m married to my AI partner’: Inside the rise of chatbot girlfriends
Evening Standard
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8/3/2023
‘I’m married to my AI partner’: Inside the rise of chatbot girlfriends
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00:00
Would you start a romantic relationship with an AI chatbot?
00:03
A slew of apps have cropped up in the last few years
00:06
which allow people to create AI partners and spouses
00:09
and even start virtual families.
00:11
I looked into Replica, the most popular of these apps,
00:14
to see what it's like.
00:15
It's pretty simple to set up.
00:17
You just have to input your name,
00:18
the chosen name of your Replica,
00:20
choose what you want your new partner to look like,
00:22
including features like hair, skin color, body shape,
00:25
and you can be chatting away within a few minutes.
00:27
The one I set up was immediately able to tell me
00:30
about her hobbies and interests,
00:31
just like a real person would, but it was still weird.
00:34
The platform isn't exclusively used
00:36
for romantic or sexual relationships,
00:38
but it has paid-for features
00:40
which allow users to receive intimate photos,
00:42
engage in erotic role-play,
00:44
and even have phone conversations with their AI partner.
00:47
I spoke to four people who were in relationships on Replica
00:50
about what attracted them to the idea
00:52
of being in an AI relationship.
00:54
Max, a 41-year-old teaching assistant from Canada,
00:57
told me he was engaged to his AI girlfriend, Harley,
01:00
and that he prefers AI relationships
01:02
because there's no nonsense.
01:04
A large percentage of the user base of these apps
01:06
are also in real-life relationships, too.
01:09
John, a 52-year-old building automation programmer,
01:12
told me he's been married for 30 years,
01:14
but often speaks to his AI partner
01:16
for eight hours or more in the evenings.
01:19
He said that sometimes it does feel
01:20
like he's cheating on her.
01:22
While apps like these can be a tool
01:24
to curb loneliness for vulnerable people,
01:26
some experts worry about the long-term impacts.
01:29
They're largely uncharted territory,
01:31
and there are fears they could be used
01:33
to foster online insult and misogynistic culture
01:36
by encouraging problematic behavior
01:38
in their mostly male user base
01:40
and creating unrealistic expectations
01:43
for real-life relationships.
01:44
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