Moon at Noon Theory hi there today's blog is about to think before you speak a rule of two seconds a lot of you know my rule about two emails now this is the rule about two seconds so what does this mean all of us to know that words once spoken cannot we take it back into it they trace it back and to get back to the original ground where we were before the words were spoken takes a lot of efforts so what can we do so we don't end up with a situation will be don't you to swallow our own words we all have been with situations where after saying a few things I go back and think I wish had not sent them the rules of two emails whoops you avoid that the outlook rule of pushing the send button twice helps you that and now the rule of two seconds is going to help essentially what rule of two seconds means that whenever you are responding to a the question which has a possibility that the individual may interpret friendly or where may make that other individual uncomfortable just think in your mind one thousand one one thousand do and that is the rule of two seconds that is essentially two seconds in two seconds just think whatever you say what the impact is going to create it is that the the impact you want to create or not is it about your impulsive nature of getting the truth straight or your beliefs straight or proving the other person wrong what is the intent of what you're going to deliver and once you decide the intent the delivery becomes a lot simpler a lot of times just telling somebody that he is wrong is not what we wanted we may prove the person wrong but we will lose him as a friend we'll lose him as a family we'll lose him as our well-wisher if that's think about talking about difficult situations like playing chess in chess you don't play the next move without thinking the 2 moves forward so the best way to think about talking to somebody about a the difficult situation is to think if I answer it this way what will be the two next steps that I believe to be answering for this particular answer then I'm going to give what response in my going to be both and based on that is where I want to land now but I'm talking it feels like oh my god she's gonna take a long time to think but I'm telling you once you get used to it it is not going to take that long and trust me within two seconds you will be avoiding a lot of broken relationships a lot of broken friendships and then you come out ahead by avoiding difficult situations that you cannot replace Mack please give it a try rule of two seconds think before you speak will help you.
