6 Best First-Date Ideas, According to Experts Here are the top six first-date ideas, as reported by a survey of 400 people. 1. A sit-down dinner date creates the ideal intimate setting for conversation and breaking the ice. 2. A romantic walk led to eventual marriage for 29% of survey respondents. 3. Getting drinks at a bar came in third, as alcohol can be a great social lubricant. 4. A movie is always an easy conversation-starter, as it leaves you with plenty to talk about afterwards. 5. Coffee dates are increasing in popularity, as they offer a more casual alternative to dinner. 6. The beach is cheap, romantic and beautiful!