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90 Day Fiancé UK S04E07 NEW EPISODE (August 10, 2025)
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00:00I've just fallen in love with someone from a different country.
00:11Everyone thinks it's our holiday romance, but he's so hot.
00:16I'm about to fly out to Brazil for love.
00:20As soon as I see Ali, my heart just melts.
00:24I've been on my own for a long time now. I've sort of given up on the idea of finding love.
00:33In the Gambia, it feels romantic. When I'm in England, then reality hits me.
00:39Disgusting.
00:41I'm so sorry.
00:42You'd rather game than speak to your wife? Well, lemon green.
00:48Oh, yeah, it's nice.
00:50My...
00:51What the?
00:52Discord.
00:53Discord.
00:56You're actually crazy, Shauna. You don't do that.
00:59There is hope.
01:00Oh, God.
01:02She's gonna need some real British sausage.
01:05I don't know this.
01:08It's true love.
01:09We make the Titanic.
01:12You'll love more dance or my friend?
01:14Why is everyone so worried about the dancing?
01:17Ara's gonna move to the UK.
01:19I thought you would stay here.
01:21Quickly.
01:22I just want everyone to be happy.
01:24I don't know how to show affection the way that you want.
01:27Will you marry me?
01:31Will you marry me?
01:35Go and kissy, kissy, kissy, kissy, kissy, kissy, kissy, kissy, kissy, kissy, kissy.
01:38It's bad.
01:39You need to go up.
01:40To go.
01:42I'm an evil genius.
01:44Marco proposed to me three months ago.
01:45Marco proposed to me three months ago.
01:48No one knows because I was hoping that Marco might ask my dad's permission to marry me.
01:54But he hasn't done that yet.
01:56If I could get it in my way, I would just get married tomorrow.
01:59Look at his friends on Facebook.
02:01She looks like a prostitute.
02:03Did you get my alcohol?
02:04Oh, no alcohol in here.
02:05Ibrahim doesn't like me drinking because he said it's against his religion.
02:09What does your nephew call you?
02:11He called me father.
02:12It's normal in our community.
02:14Certain things I don't think are adding up.
02:17I met Ali when I was on holiday in Turkey.
02:20It's just crap because you're like 2,000 miles away.
02:23When I moved to England, I will be rich.
02:25I suppose I just want to make sure that you're not just with me to come to England.
02:30I think personally, yeah, I started for a visa.
02:33Nicole, so sorry, later we're going to talk.
02:36You're just only mine.
02:39We are back on track.
02:41I'm going home super excited.
02:43Next stage is for us to get married.
02:46For me, it's done.
02:48I don't want to see her anymore.
03:11Right, Ibrahim.
03:13Let's get this bed sorted out.
03:15Tonight, I'm sleeping in Ibrahim's room.
03:19It's not exactly that nice.
03:21It's a mattress on the floor.
03:23It's a bit hot, so you don't get in a blanket, eh?
03:26No need for a blanket.
03:28No, no, no.
03:29Very hot, ma'am.
03:30What's bothering me about sleeping in this room is everything.
03:36Does the fans work, Ibrahim?
03:37Because it's really hot in here.
03:38No, it's not working.
03:39It's not working.
03:45Ibrahim, what's that noise?
03:46I can hear something.
03:47What is it?
03:48I think it's a bug.
03:50It's a bug.
03:55There's all fucking...
03:57There's all things.
03:58Feels like I've got a thousand bugs on me.
04:00I hate it.
04:03They're not affecting you.
04:04No.
04:10Every time I try and go to sleep,
04:12there's all things creeping and buzzing around.
04:15It's so horrible.
04:28What can I say?
04:33Sorry, Ibrahim.
04:34I'm going to have to try and find a hotel or a B&B somewhere.
04:38I can't stay here a minute longer.
04:40I've tried.
04:41I've been eaten alive.
04:43I've got mozzie bites.
04:44I feel ill.
04:45I've got to go.
04:47I'll give you a call.
04:58I'm getting out.
05:01Yes.
05:02I saw a hotel on the way into the village.
05:05I'm just going to go there and hopefully there's no bugs
05:09because I can't stand it.
05:18Fuck's sake.
05:32What are you doing?
05:33You've got a couple of good things in here.
05:34What is this?
05:35Oh, none of your business.
05:36Why are you in my business?
05:37I'm back home from my holiday from Greece with Adnan.
05:38They are a few wobbles, but I think that we are going in the right direction.
05:57So how was your holiday?
05:58It was good.
05:59We had loads of fun.
06:00We went on a bike ride together.
06:02We went out for meals.
06:04I don't know the boring stuff.
06:05I just want to know what actually happened.
06:07My daughter Kayla is very opinionated.
06:10She has her doubts about Adnan.
06:13And I'm a bit nervous to tell her what really happened in Greece.
06:18How did he react when you told him that you didn't want to do anything sexual with him?
06:22Obviously he was a bit disappointed.
06:24It's natural.
06:25But eventually, after we have a few talks, he understood everything.
06:30He's going to try his best to get to know my faith a bit more.
06:33That's nice.
06:34We're discussing marriage as well.
06:37So did he propose to you?
06:39No, he didn't.
06:40But we planned to get married.
06:43I'm very confused.
06:45He hasn't proposed, but we agreed to get married for him to come over to stay.
06:49I think one step at a time.
06:52What do you mean?
06:53So you're not going to support me?
06:55When you have the ring.
06:56And I know it's serious.
06:58It is serious.
06:59Kayla, I've been saying to you from the beginning that we do love each other and we are in love.
07:04If it's real, you should tell him to come on a working visa.
07:07So you want me to say to him, I don't trust you, so you should come on a working visa.
07:11And if it's real, we get married?
07:12No, that's not the way you say that to somebody that you love and you care for.
07:17I would never do that.
07:19I think there's a lot of red flags.
07:20You just need to be careful.
07:22Just knowing the generation that I'm from, it's really surprising to hear that Adnan is perfectly fine to wait for you guys to have sex.
07:31You might say that he's fine with it, but is he really fine with it?
07:35Adnan's not a bad person.
07:36You just need to get to know him a bit more.
07:38I want the best for my mum, so I am going to be very vocal about things.
07:43I think jumping to marriage is a bit too quick for me.
07:45I do see a future with him.
07:47So being more positive about the situation.
07:49Oh yeah, definitely.
07:51Hopefully, I think it stays good because you're very confident in him and you're confident in your relationship.
07:58So what can possibly go wrong?
08:08Hiya, I'm Sam, 30 from Newcastle.
08:22No, no.
08:24Nothing, I'm just trying to hack.
08:27Don't bring everything back, I'm telling you.
08:30Don't bring big suitcase.
08:32I have to.
08:33I have to bring the suitcase.
08:36This is why I'm stressed, because I have to bring the big suitcase because we're going to your home for two weeks.
08:42We've never done that, like, on holiday before.
08:44Me and Ali have been together for two years and they are still doing long distance.
08:50I'm excited to go to Turkey this time because it's two weeks, just me and him and Ali's hometown.
08:56Are you excited?
08:58Always.
08:59Finally, I can sleep with my wife.
09:03We got married.
09:04The wedding was really intense.
09:07I was the only English person there and the only other person that would speak English was Ali.
09:11Some people have a holiday romance.
09:14I've got a holiday husband.
09:15I love you.
09:16I'm proud to love you.
09:21Me and Ali try and video call every day, but sometimes it can be just twice a week.
09:26So that means when he does call, he needs to give me his full attention.
09:31Why are you looking at your watch?
09:33Do all of us, do.
09:34No, don't you dare.
09:36Since being married, there's been a big problem in our marriage.
09:39It's the gaming.
09:40I'm your wife.
09:41Why do you need to game all the time?
09:42Speak to me.
09:43It's all he ever does and it's all he ever wants to do.
09:50You're speaking so quick because you want to get off the phone.
09:53Er, you're addicted.
09:56It's ridiculous.
09:58Is it going to be like this when I come over?
10:00And I just want to go gaming all the time.
10:01Sure, not all the time though.
10:02Of course I'm going to go.
10:05You little shit.
10:06When I'm in Turkey, one more wrong move from you Ali and it'll be game over, pet.
10:12I'm going to go see Nicola soon.
10:14My best friend Nicola and my husband will never be friends.
10:18She's still very skeptical.
10:20Two years down the line, nothing's changed.
10:23Well, it's not long now anyways, is it?
10:25So you can go and play your game now.
10:28I love it.
10:29Bye-bye.
10:30I'm just kidding.
10:38It's so cold.
10:39I can't wait just to get in, have a drink and just chill.
10:42Do you know what I can't wait for?
10:44Summer.
10:45Tonight I've asked our best mate Nicola to come out for a drink.
10:49Nicola never holds back, so I think she'll have something to say
10:52when I tell her I'm thinking of moving to Turkey.
10:54Wish me luck.
10:56Cheers.
10:58That's strong.
10:59Sweet.
11:01Anywho.
11:02How you been?
11:03Oh, stressed.
11:04Why?
11:05Packing.
11:07How's Ali?
11:08It's alright.
11:09We had an argument because he was gaming all the time.
11:12You know how many times I've had this argument with him and I don't care that he games.
11:16What I care about is when that comes first, when we're not together and we're long distance.
11:20Yeah.
11:21After we got off the phone, he sent a really sweet apology text.
11:24His actual words was, just because you're not here doesn't mean I don't have to care about you.
11:29And it's just things like that, that give us that reassurance that he's not in it just for the visa.
11:36Me opinions hasn't fully changed.
11:39Nicola has been very vocal about Ali just marrying me for a visa.
11:44But I feel like we've proved all the haters wrong.
11:47If he wanted one that badly, he would have married somebody old and rich.
11:52I'm old, but I ain't rich.
11:54So have you supplied for the visa or...?
11:57No.
11:58Because I keep spending the money!
12:00The whole visa situation, it's an absolute nightmare.
12:03It's just money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money.
12:06But this trip, I would say probably the most important one that we've done.
12:09We're looking at making probably one of the most life-changing decisions anyway.
12:15Erm...
12:16So...
12:17Visa's £10,000.
12:22Or...
12:23Moved to Turkey.
12:24Really, can I just say, your job, which is a very stable job, which you're going to lose.
12:37Your friends, you've got your mum, who's obviously not in the best of health.
12:43What would happen if, I don't know, things didn't work?
12:47Then you've got a mortgage out there, then what would you do?
12:49Then it is what it is.
12:51Didn't expect Nicola to be over the moon for us, but you could at least pretend to be a happy pet.
12:57I think we're at a point now where it's do or die.
13:02So if you do decide to move, would you convert to Islam?
13:10I have had that conversation with Ali.
13:15Really?
13:16Yeah.
13:17What about your pigs and blankets?
13:20You go and get your baking sandwich every morning.
13:23Not every morning. Hang back.
13:25Hang back.
13:26Couldn't be a vegetarian.
13:28So do you think that converting to Islam is a good idea?
13:32Dietary-wise, no.
13:34No, I don't think it's about that either.
13:36It would hide a multitude of sins.
13:39No, I think you would be doing it for all the wrong reasons.
13:42I do think that it's coming from Ali. I think he's definitely planted a seed.
13:48I know Sam and I just know that it's not for her.
13:51She's my best friend and I just don't want her making the wrong decisions.
13:55Whatever you decide to do, moving out there, applying for the visa and bringing Ali here, just don't rush into things.
14:04You know me, I'm just spontaneous.
14:06But this is your life.
14:10Hopefully you come back with the answers.
14:13I married Ali because that's what I wanted to do.
14:17I never thought about what would happen next.
14:20These are very, very big life decisions.
14:23You know, you're talking about moving someone's life 2,500 miles to a completely different one.
14:30So we have to get it absolutely spot on.
14:32My head is an actual mess.
14:34My head is an actual mess.
14:36Last night, I couldn't sleep at Ibrahim's place, so I left.
14:58I could not have stayed in that room.
15:01If you paid me a million pound, I couldn't have stayed in there.
15:04I could literally feel things crawling on me.
15:07This is a bit of a shit hole and all, but when I saw the mosquito net, it was like I'd won the lottery.
15:12I think Ibrahim might be a bit cross. I'm a bit nervous.
15:18I think I ought to apologise because I did agree that I would try Billy July, so I've let him down.
15:24I hope Ibrahim doesn't think I've insulted his hospitality, but I couldn't sleep there and I did try.
15:31Hi. Sorry I went. Thank you. You okay?
15:43Ibrahim's family have given me a warm welcome again, which is really, really nice, but Ibrahim's not looking very happy with me at the moment.
15:50You all right? Fine, fine, fine. You okay? I'm back, I'm back.
15:58Can I talk? Sit down.
16:02I'm upset why Zena don't stay in the village last night.
16:06Oh, hello Ibrahim.
16:08Morning.
16:09You all right? Sorry I went.
16:12No, no, I'm not all right now.
16:14Why?
16:15Where have you been?
16:16I went to the guest house up the road.
16:19I couldn't do it and the toilet as well.
16:23So I went and I stayed there.
16:26I'm not happy about that.
16:29Well, I had to do it, Ibrahim.
16:31When my room is done and I have it all decorated out, then I'll be better off, but I just can't do it when it's like that.
16:39So that's why I had to go.
16:42I am sorry.
16:44I don't like it, but Zena's culture and our culture is different, so it's difficult for her.
16:51And she came to a holiday, so I have to understand.
16:55Okay, and I forgive you then.
17:00I'm really glad that Ibrahim has forgiven me for last night, but I'm looking forward to getting back to my air con and my luxuries.
17:09I think we better start making arrangements to go back, Ibrahim, because you've got to go to work.
17:14So...
17:16Right.
17:18Yep.
17:19We're going to go.
17:20We'll say goodbye.
17:21I really knew them.
17:22We'll see you next time.
17:23Overall, my impression with Ibrahim's family has been they're very warm and very welcoming.
17:29But my suspicions are never out of my mind, so I don't sort of like to let my guard down.
17:34Bye-bye.
17:35Bye-bye.
17:36Bye-bye.
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18:00Bye-bye.
18:01Bye-bye.
18:02Bye-bye.
18:03Bye-bye.
18:04Goodbye, Moon.
18:08Today is the day I'm finally flying out to see Marco in Rome,
18:13and I'm so excited, I can't wait to give him such a big hug.
18:17I'm gonna miss you.
18:19Oh, I love you too.
18:21Last time I saw Marco, we got engaged.
18:24So this time I'm flying out as a fiancé, and that is crazy.
18:28Finally at the airport now after a bit of a rush,
18:32but going to Rome.
18:34It's been so long since we last saw each other,
18:36and I just can't wait to be back together.
18:39Getting on the plane now.
18:42Marco, here I come.
18:45Marco wants us to start planning our wedding on this trip,
18:48but we need to talk about how we're gonna tell my family.
18:58Hello. Hello.
18:59Come in. Anyone? Hello.
19:01Hello. Nice to see you again.
19:02Our family is so close.
19:04My dad always wants the best for me.
19:07Here you go.
19:08That's a big mug.
19:09Big mug for a big mug.
19:12I'm joking.
19:13With my mum and dad still being together,
19:16they're great role models.
19:19I think I've always wanted a relationship,
19:21like you and mum, really.
19:23How long have you been together?
19:2435 years.
19:26Aww.
19:27What is the secret to a long, happy marriage?
19:30I think as long as you're very honest and don't hide any secrets.
19:33Yeah.
19:34How does that compare with you and Marco?
19:36No, we share a lot of things together.
19:38Yeah.
19:39Obviously, I've been hurt quite a lot in the past.
19:41People cheated on me or lied to me.
19:45Well, you don't want to see you get hurt again.
19:48My life three years ago was completely different.
19:53I was engaged before and unfortunately I had a miscourage
19:58which grew us apart completely.
20:01It hit really hard when that relationship ended
20:05and I plummeted.
20:07They sort of supported you through that,
20:10but if things do get difficult,
20:14just don't keep it to yourself.
20:17I hid it from my family for quite a few months.
20:21You feel like you've failed your family,
20:23you get attached to your partner
20:24and you feel like you've failed yourself,
20:26like you were finally there and then it just didn't work out
20:29and you're kind of like,
20:32OK, where do I go now?
20:34We're always here for you.
20:35You know that.
20:38Love you.
20:39Dear friend.
20:41Before we start planning the wedding,
20:46I really need to talk to Marco about how we're going to tell my family.
20:50This is my second engagement, so I want it to be perfect.
20:53So I'm going to collect Sarah at the airport.
21:05I bought some roses, so I think she would be really happy.
21:09We will see if she will give me some tears or not today.
21:13We will see.
21:15When we are together, time flies every time.
21:18And when we are not together, it's like,
21:20I'm always thinking about her every day, every moment.
21:23But I'm finally there, so I am exploding inside.
21:28My heart is like going so fast,
21:31so I hope that she will have the same emotion.
21:48Standing here and waiting for her makes me really nervous.
21:54All I can think about is Sarah's getting here finally.
21:58She just landed, so it will be minutes away.
22:02I'm really excited to see her and Agar.
22:05I can't wait.
22:23Finally.
22:28How are you?
22:33I'm good, how are you?
22:34What's the flight?
22:35Yeah, it was good.
22:36Do you want me to give me your back?
22:38Um, yes.
22:39Something?
22:40Something?
22:41Just walk with this?
22:43For you, my love.
22:44Welcome back.
22:47That's so nice.
22:49Every time I see Marco again, I pinch myself.
22:54I can't believe this beautiful Italian man standing in front of me with flowers.
22:59He's my fiancée.
23:00I knew her.
23:01Your fiancée.
23:02Yeah.
23:20Today, Ibrahim's at work, so I met a lovely friend called Dawn, so we're going to spend the day on the beach together.
23:29I'm getting old now.
23:30I crinkle around.
23:32Not too old to enjoy yourself though.
23:35No.
23:36Hope not.
23:37How many times have you been to the Gambia?
23:39I think this is probably about my fifth or sixth time.
23:42Oh, you've been quiet enough.
23:44See, the main reason why I'm here now is because I've actually got a Gambian boyfriend called Dibraham.
23:52Ooh!
23:53I'll take my top off.
23:54Would you say you're in love?
23:56Yes, I think so.
23:57But I have got reservations.
23:59My head is still a little bit all over the place.
24:02Going to the village has sort of raised more questions than answers, so yeah, it would be nice to get another female's opinion.
24:10I went to his village yesterday.
24:12Yeah.
24:13And the little boy, his nephew, called him Dad.
24:16No.
24:17No.
24:18Called him Dad.
24:19Okay.
24:20I was gobsmacked.
24:21I said to him, why did your little nephew call you Dad?
24:24He went, oh, it's nothing to worry about.
24:27If he sees a tall man, he always calls them Dad.
24:31It's because he's only a baby and he don't understand.
24:34I think auntie or uncle would be normal.
24:37And I was thinking, what about if his sister was his wife and her three children were his
24:44and they were just getting me over, you know, like, for a laugh and for financial gain?
24:51I mean, it can happen.
24:53It doesn't sound good.
24:54Dad?
24:55It's quite specific, isn't it?
24:57I don't like the sound of it.
24:59That would set my alarm bells off.
25:01That got me thinking, you know, is he really what he says he is?
25:07We found some photographs of very scantily clad women.
25:11Okay.
25:12They almost look like prostitutes.
25:14He says that he's a strict Muslim man and doesn't like scantily clad.
25:18And also, he doesn't like me wearing these sort of bikini tops.
25:21Oh.
25:22So why would he be looking at it?
25:23Doesn't make sense, does it?
25:25I could be just being very suspicious.
25:28Because my previous husbands have been unfaithful, I'm probably looking out for it more.
25:35But at the same time, any sort of inaccuracies makes me sort of think, is he who he says he is?
25:41Is he scamming me?
25:43You know, trying to duke me into a false sense of security, marry him, and then he'd have money, wouldn't he?
25:50I don't know.
25:52I mean, it does happen.
25:55I'm worried that she's obviously very kind and helpful, so she could be someone who someone might take advantage of.
26:04I hope not.
26:05But she's wise to question things.
26:08I really don't want to believe that Ibrahim's not who he says he is, because I really love him.
26:14And for him to be, like, just using me, and I've invested already quite a lot, I would be really, really upset.
26:22I really do want to trust Ibrahim, but at the moment, I'm 50-50.
26:28So I am going to speak to Ibrahim about my suspicions.
26:38When I get overwhelmed, it helps me to write my thoughts down.
26:53And recently, things have been really tough.
26:58It's been three weeks since I came back from Greece, and I haven't heard nothing at all from Adnan.
27:04I think I need to reach out to him.
27:06I do need to know where we stand.
27:09I'm a bit anxious, because I don't know what to say.
27:12I don't know what it's going to lead to.
27:14Deep breath in.
27:16Deep breath out.
27:18Let's see how it goes.
27:20I don't know what to say.
27:23Oh, gosh.
27:24Hello?
27:25How have you been?
27:27Not so well, but I didn't fit with you.
27:28Everything is okay.
27:31Everything is fine.
27:33It would be nice to hear from you, though, to be honest.
27:39Not so well, but I didn't talk to you.
27:42Everything is okay.
27:43Everything is fine.
27:45It would be nice to hear from you, though, to be honest.
27:48So why haven't I heard from you?
27:50I was waiting.
27:51We were calling out for your message.
27:55So,
27:57you have been there.
27:59If I didn't contact you today, would you have contacted me?
28:04No.
28:05No.
28:05So, where do we stand?
28:09The relationship?
28:14I really don't know.
28:19Do you care?
28:20About us?
28:22Do you care?
28:24The reason why I called you to reach out to you was because I care.
28:29And I don't think you care.
28:31You don't think that I care?
28:32No.
28:32You are wrong.
28:33You still want me to come to Albania?
28:35I don't know.
28:36What do you want?
28:38We have 30 days.
28:40But we don't speak, so
28:41I will not give you an answer now.
28:48Okay.
28:51I'll let you go anyway.
28:52Bye.
28:55Bye.
28:56All right, bye.
29:00That was so awful.
29:02It's the worst conversation I've ever had in my life.
29:08He seems like a different person.
29:14I just did not like that.
29:15So, yeah.
29:23My head is all over the place.
29:35After that call, it's so hard for me to know what to think.
29:39All these mixed signals, it's just throw me off.
29:42I'm a bit confused.
29:43Yeah, you're right.
29:46Rochelle has always been the voice of reason.
29:49But I'm not quite sure if I'm ready to hear what she has to say about mine and Adnan's relationship.
29:56How's everything?
29:57Can you speak to Adnan?
29:58Oh, yeah.
29:59I called him.
30:00Like I said to him, do you miss me?
30:02If I didn't make an effort today to call you, would you have called me?
30:05He said no.
30:06Is that what he said?
30:07No way.
30:08Oh, my God.
30:10Maybe you need to start thinking about your life without him.
30:15It's really hard because I'm so attached to him.
30:20I'm just trying to see, like, is there a way I can give him another chance or, like...
30:24I don't think there is.
30:26I think I'll give him time.
30:27I was just going to see how it goes this week.
30:30What's this all?
30:30Time for what?
30:31I don't understand.
30:32Shauna, I really don't understand.
30:35I can change him.
30:36Well, I don't know.
30:36I can't change him.
30:37But I think he will be able to be more committed.
30:41Okay.
30:42And that's what I want to do.
30:43Work on a relationship and then work my way towards marriage.
30:47Oh, God.
30:48With the moments, we believe that our body is sacred.
30:52We can't have sex before marriage.
30:53In order for Adnan and I to have sex again, we have to get married.
30:58Yeah.
30:58No.
30:59Shauna, no way.
31:01I know Adnan wasn't forthcoming.
31:03But I just think that he needs a bit more time to think.
31:07I'm still hopeful that we will be getting married.
31:11Got my mind set for the next time I go to Albania to see him.
31:13We are going to get married.
31:17I don't think it's a good idea for Shauna to want to marry Adnan the next time she sees him.
31:23She's not thought about it properly.
31:25Based on what's happening now, I think you need to deal with all of this first.
31:30Yeah, I will.
31:31And then see how it goes.
31:32I think once we get married and he comes over and we have that family life, it's different.
31:36It's going to be different.
31:38Still want to try.
31:39Being real, like marriage, no.
31:42At the end of the day, it's my life.
31:44It's my choice.
31:45It's my decision.
31:47At least I know that I've tried.
31:50There is hope.
31:51There is hope.
31:52There is hope.
31:52You're actually crazy, Shauna.
31:54You don't do that.
31:55Yeah.
31:55There is hope.
32:11You don't do that.
32:13Sarah?
32:18Yeah?
32:19Breakfast is ready.
32:21Okay, I'm coming.
32:23It's our first morning together and I want to surprise her, so I bought her her favourite
32:30pastries.
32:31Good morning.
32:32How are you?
32:33I'm good.
32:35Oh my God.
32:38Whoa.
32:39This is amazing.
32:41Marco always treats me like a princess when I come to visit.
32:44I can't believe I'm waking up with breakfast on the table, coffee, and I just feel so lucky.
32:50Do you want an espresso?
32:52Um, no.
32:55So you want your bloody milk?
32:59Yes, please.
33:01Okay, just because I love you then.
33:04I love Marco, but I am not giving up my milk.
33:08Have you got any ice?
33:10Ice.
33:11I'm a bit ashamed of you.
33:14It's too strong.
33:16Yeah, but it's good.
33:17We have to wake up and start to plan something.
33:21We have not so much time and we have to do a lot of stuff.
33:24I know Marco is really excited to get married, but there is something on my mind and I need
33:29to speak to him about it.
33:31So you haven't asked my dad to marry me yet?
33:34Yeah, I know.
33:35It's quite a traditional thing in England.
33:38Yeah, not really in Italy.
33:40Maybe four years ago.
33:42I guess it's just something that I imagined that you would have done already.
33:48I am surprised it isn't really a tradition in Italy, but in the UK it is a tradition still
33:55and I know that my dad would really appreciate it.
33:59The fact that this tradition is not really important.
34:03You just put ice in your coffee and you break my tradition every day.
34:08You put mushrooms in carbonara, that's disgusting.
34:12I have to think about it.
34:14It's not really an easy thing for me.
34:17It's really something that makes me uncomfortable.
34:20Yeah, although me and my dad are like so close.
34:25Yeah, I know.
34:26So it would be important to me too.
34:29I'm a bit worried that he would say maybe it's better that you wait a bit.
34:33Well, I'm happy to wait a few months.
34:36Yeah, I would prefer it if we do it sooner to start to build our life together.
34:45Let me think about it.
34:46I'm not ready for this.
34:48So we can plan the other stuff and then maybe you will change your mind.
34:54Maybe you will.
34:55I hope Marco really thinks about this because it is really important to me.
35:01And I just hope he understands that.
35:06Packing is the bane of my life.
35:29But I'm excited to be in Turkey again.
35:33Last time I saw Ali was about four or five months ago I think now.
35:39So it's been quite a long time.
35:41Too long.
35:42Since we've been married we've probably been in each other's company in person.
35:46About four or five weeks.
35:48This trip is all about me moving to Turkey.
35:52Letting Ali know exactly where I stand and I'm just going to lay all the cards on the table.
35:57Do I want to live there?
35:58Do I still want to do his visa for the UK?
36:01I suppose the most nerve wracking thing would be that you know this could be the time where I'm saying yes I'll move my entire life for you.
36:11It's scary but you've got to do what you've got to do when you love someone.
36:16It's scary but you've got to do it.
36:17I'm so sad that you've got to do it.
36:18It's scary.
36:19I'm so sad.
36:20It's scary but you've got to do it.
36:21Hello, my name is Ali. I'm 25. I'm from Malatya, Turkey.
36:39Me and Sam is married for over a year now. Long-distance relationship is hard.
36:47But long-distance marriage is much harder.
36:52When I'm not working in Marmaris, I live with my parents in Malatya.
36:58The only thing that is good in Malatya is my friends, Mehmet and Sinan.
37:02I love hanging out with my friends. Drink chai, have a chat.
37:07How is married life?
37:09What married life? Long-distance relationship.
37:12We can't live together, we can't sleep together, we can't do anything together.
37:16It's hard. I really can't say it's like a married life, it's like a single life.
37:19Because when I'm back to home, there is no wife.
37:21All I want, Sam and me, we live together, be together.
37:25Sam is coming to visit me is very important.
37:28Because she gonna look to where we can live, what we can do, what's the plan, what's the next step.
37:34She wanna be living here.
37:36In Malatya?
37:37Damn idea.
37:38Really?
37:39Damn idea.
37:40I don't like to live here, but we have to think about this.
37:44We have the two choices right now.
37:46First choice, we save all the money and then put the visa.
37:50The second choice, she come to Turkey.
37:53Sam says when I live here, but I just wanna go to UK.
37:57That's why I need the evil plan.
37:59So, obviously when she's come here, I will show her all the bad stuff in here, the worst stuff.
38:06And then she thinks, oh, I can't live here.
38:08I'm not show her the big supermarket, I'm show her the small supermarket, all the 100% Turkish proper.
38:14So, there's no cereal, there's no any kind of lots of milk, the other stuff.
38:19And actually, she's ate the fish.
38:21So, I just take her over there and she will see the old die fish, bloody fish.
38:28And she said, oh, I wanna go home.
38:31Take me out.
38:33And then she will just think, oh, I can't live here.
38:36Oh, and then I'm just gonna say to her, like, let's go England, there's no more fish, man.
38:40You know?
38:41Everything is processed.
38:43I'm an evil genius.
38:47It will be done.
38:48I can fix this.
38:49We will leave UK, man.
38:51Not here.
38:52No more moving to Malatya.
38:54No, babe.
39:13So, I think Fabio is coming soon.
39:22Aww.
39:23I asked him to join us.
39:25Maybe we can tell him that we are getting married.
39:28Yeah, that would be great.
39:29I'm really excited to see Fabio today.
39:32He's Marco's best friend, but he has also become one of my best friends too.
39:36He's a great person and I love him so much.
39:39Yeah.
39:40At first, Marco was a little bit jealous, but I'm hoping that that's all fixed now.
39:48Hey, Fabio!
39:49Hello.
39:50Hi guys.
39:51How are you?
39:52Good, how are you?
39:53Good to see you.
39:54Nice to see you.
39:55Hello.
39:56How are you?
39:57I'm good.
39:59Perfect.
40:00Great.
40:01My pleasure.
40:02So good to see you.
40:03Yeah, it's been ages since I saw you last.
40:05Yeah.
40:06How have you been?
40:07I'm good.
40:08I've been pretty busy.
40:09That's why you've been sucking at chess lately.
40:11Yeah, exactly.
40:12Oh, sorry.
40:13It's really amazing.
40:14The moment we met, we clicked instantly.
40:17You've gutted that you lost in our last game.
40:19That's not why I recall.
40:22Pretty interesting.
40:26It's really boring hearing all their chat about chess.
40:29I just want to tell Fabio the big news.
40:32So, how has it been to be back to Italy?
40:35Yeah, really good.
40:36I asked her to marry me.
40:38What?
40:39Yeah.
40:40I gave her the ring.
40:41Really?
40:42Yeah.
40:43What?
40:44Are you joking?
40:45You would never expect that from me.
40:46I don't know what to think.
40:47I'm flabbergasted right now.
40:49My brain is on fire.
40:51Crazy.
40:52Yeah.
40:53Well, I asked her some months ago, yeah.
40:56But we never talked with no one about this.
41:00I actually have still to talk with his dad.
41:05You proposed to her and you haven't already asked her dad permission.
41:11No, I didn't.
41:12It's a bit old school.
41:14Yeah.
41:15It won't cost you a lot to do this.
41:17Come on, Fabio.
41:18It's not really a traditional thing in Italy.
41:20So, I don't know why he thinks that I should ask for Sarah's dad permission.
41:25I think your dad is going to approve.
41:27I will say that.
41:29We are running too fast.
41:31Marco's like, let's do it next week.
41:33And I'm like, can we just hold on?
41:35Yeah, I would just do it.
41:36Wow.
41:37It's a lot of things to process.
41:39Yeah, it's a lot.
41:40Yeah.
41:41Telling Fabio and seeing how surprised he is that the wedding will be so soon,
41:46makes me feel really scared because my family don't even know yet.
41:50And Marco is a bit resistant to asking my dad,
41:53but these gestures are really important for me and my family.
42:16Ibrahim's still at work, so I've decided to soak up a bit of culture
42:31and come out and have a little glass of wine and a little bit of enjoyment.
42:46The African drumming is nice.
42:51It gets you in the mood for dancing and I've got the holiday vibes.
42:55I've got nothing to do but enjoy myself.
42:59I'm in heaven.
43:08Ibrahim doesn't like me drinking.
43:10So while he's not there, it's really good for me to let my hair down.
43:16I'm dancing away, having fun in the sun and just enjoying my holiday.
43:41Life's for living.
43:42You're a long time dead, so let's enjoy your time you're alive, I say.
43:46That was good.
43:47Oh, I feel such a knob.
43:48Who cares?
43:49I always fall.
43:50I drink too much.
43:51I fall down.
43:52I go splat like a fried egg and then I just get up again.
43:53I'm so sorry.
43:54I'm so sorry.
43:55I'm so sorry.
43:56I'm so sorry.
43:57Oh, I feel such a knob.
43:58Who cares?
43:59I always fall.
44:00I drink too much.
44:01I fall down.
44:02I go splat like a fried egg and then I just get up again and start dancing.
44:04I'm dancing.
44:05I'm dancing.
44:06I'm dancing.
44:07I'm dancing.
44:08I'm dancing.
44:09I'm dancing, I'm dancing.
44:14Who cares? I always fall, I drink too much, I fall down, I go splat like a fried egg and then I just get up again and start dancing.
44:23You're dancing? You're dancing?
44:38Give me a kiss. Oh my, I was just enjoying that. Let me get my drink at least. Yes, drinking.
44:51Look at your breasts outside, man. You have to try and stop dancing. You joke me. And not drinking as well.
44:58Look, I'm 65. If I want to wear a mini dress, if I want to dance, if I want to drink, if I want to get drunk, if I want to fall flat on my fucking back, I should be allowed to do it.
45:09And he doesn't know what's in store for him for ruining my night.
45:15On your social media, who might that be? Do you know her?
45:19No, this is the first time I see this thing, man.
45:22If you can tell a lie about the pictures, who's to say?
45:26Is your sister really your wife?
45:28What the fuck? It's goat. Oh. That's little fish.
45:34It stinks. Yeah, I know.
45:36It stinks. Come to Malaysia. I'm going back home. That's the plan.
45:42Where are you marrying me? Where are you?
45:50My sister's house. She thinks I should back to my children's father.
45:55I'm with you. You don't have to worry about my ex, right?
45:59You steer and I'll push. What could go wrong? Shit.
46:03Shit.
46:33Shit.
46:36Shit.
46:38Shit.
46:40Shit.
46:43Shit.
46:44Shit, Shit.
46:46Shit.
46:47Shit.
46:57Shit.
47:00Sure, what.
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