Love & Marriage Huntsville S10E02

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Transcript

00:00Previously on Love and Marriage Huntsville.

00:03What you been up to?

00:04Arianne.

00:05Mm.

00:06Yeah, trying to get her through nursing school.

00:09You investing in your woman?

00:11I better.

00:12It's getting heavy.

00:13Yeah.

00:14We good.

00:15More serious, like?

00:17Like, you know, she keep on playing cards,

00:19why is she gonna get that ring?

00:20Tight thing.

00:21Yeah.

00:22I want you to take that thing off your head.

00:23That's what I really want you to do.

00:24I'm trying to prepare you for when you go to college.

00:26You gonna be meeting young girls.

00:28Well, it's a good thing you don't go to college for girls.

00:30Well, you're not the fun parent.

00:32And I can understand why MJ wants to leave.

00:34We had a conversation with Marquez.

00:37Me and Marquez are definitely in a better space.

00:39You also have to give somebody the chance to change.

00:44Everything.

00:45I don't say...

00:47What we...

00:49If y'all wanna talk about something while we're here, then we can.

00:52I kinda do. I don't know about Trish.

00:53Literally, you got questions.

00:55If you haven't met...

00:56Well, you asked a question, sir.

00:57Calm down.

00:58You came in to ask a question.

00:59I came in to drop my daughter off.

01:01Marquez is going back and forth with Sharon.

01:04And it's starting to piss me off.

01:06I need you to relax, bro.

01:07I am right.

01:08No, you're not.

01:09Cause you showing out right now.

01:10You came in here with...

01:11I didn't come in here with nothing other than to drop my daughter off.

01:13Did he not?

01:14Don't bring her into it.

01:15She don't even...

01:16She don't even know nothing.

01:17She don't know nothing about me.

01:18She don't know nothing about you.

01:19She met you four years ago.

01:20She don't know you.

01:21No, you don't.

01:22You don't know me for real.

01:23We keep it moving.

01:24All day, all night.

01:25Yeah.

01:26Ain't no stopping us.

01:27Drop that.

01:28We ain't stopping.

01:29You know, you know.

01:30We keep it moving.

01:31All day, all night.

01:32Yeah.

01:33Yeah.

01:34Yeah.

01:35Yeah.

01:36All day, all night.

01:37Yeah.

01:38Ain't no stopping us.

01:39Yeah.

01:40Yeah.

01:45Up in the club, you know we got your mouths.

01:47Yeah, all day, all night

01:50Yeah, ain't no stopping us

01:53Yeah

02:17I'm running back down, I'm running back down, baby, running back down.

02:20Now, Sharon!

02:21Hey!

02:22Hey!

02:22Yeah.

02:23Yeah.

02:24What's going on?

02:25I didn't know you was going to be dapper, though.

02:26Bro, listen.

02:27This dude coming out in a t-shirt.

02:28I'm like, bro, you know it's cold out there, right?

02:31I just got off the road.

02:32So, after all the drama and with Marquez and the chaos he caused with Sharon, we just

02:39need a little break.

02:40Definitely.

02:41So, we're meeting up with some of our friends, Kimmy and Maurice, and I think they've been

02:46through similar situations, you know?

02:47So, it'll be good to get their insight and try to figure out how we can fix our issues.

02:51So, what's going on in you guys' world?

02:53We just recently finished renovating our house downstairs.

02:57So, we're at an Airbnb.

02:59Oh, man.

03:00I don't like staying nowhere but at home.

03:02Got to know each other a little bit better.

03:05Oh, yeah!

03:06Right.

03:07So, I know y'all came to the party, the backyard party, y'all see?

03:11For the most part, handled myself, you know, kind of well.

03:15When you're not present, you allow me, the outsider guy, to build a relationship with

03:20you not being there.

03:21You don't feel like you owe me anything.

03:22I feel like I'm compensating for you didn't do.

03:25But, from your perspective, like, I guess you was in a situation with the divorce.

03:32So, Marquez, at some point, this has to get resolved.

03:36I don't like going back and forth.

03:38I don't like arguing.

03:40I really don't like even being angry.

03:41Like, it takes me to another level, mentally, that I just don't like being.

03:45So, I reached out to him.

03:46There was 30 minutes, of course, as a shouting match.

03:49Yeah.

03:50And I finally was like, you know what, I'm going to make sure that at the end of this

03:53conversation, we're on good terms.

03:55And by the end of it, we were good.

03:58But it's like Marquez, it's one of them situations where it's so frustrating because we will have

04:04really good moments.

04:05And then he'd do what he did the other day.

04:07So, the other day, Marquez said he's going to go get Zaria.

04:11I was at the house with my friend, Sharon.

04:14So, he comes to the house.

04:15He came bursting through our door, uninvited.

04:19Was Ken there?

04:20No.

04:21So, listen, as Trish and Ken are talking about Marquez just walking in,

04:26I don't even know if there can be two sides of a story on that.

04:30Like, how are you just walking in to these people's house?

04:33He felt comfortable enough.

04:35You know, he's now stepping up.

04:36He's taking care of the kids.

04:38Maybe he just got comfortable and just decided that he should walk in.

04:41He came in there while Sharon and I was talking and he immediately got hostile with her.

04:47With her?

04:48Does he know?

04:49No.

04:50That's what she told him.

04:51She said, I've been knowing Trisha for four years.

04:52I have never seen you in my life.

04:53What was the initiate for him being hostile?

04:55I don't know.

04:56I don't know.

04:57He just came in there with the chip on the shoulder.

04:59He came in there, like, immediately just upset for no reason.

05:03I literally just gave him a whole rundown because he asked me.

05:07He was like, man, how do you get along with her so well, man?

05:09You know what I mean?

05:10And I literally told him.

05:11I was like, listen, bro, you have to learn how to compromise sometimes.

05:14Mm-hmm.

05:15Like, sometimes talk a little lower, change your tone a little bit, stop being so aggressive

05:20in your speech.

05:21I was just bringing my daughter to the house.

05:22He talks real aggressive.

05:23I was like, you didn't even know to bring your daughter to the house until Xavier told

05:26you.

05:27It's difficult to give advice to Kid and Trish about the Marquez situation because you've

05:32got to tread lightly when there's children involved.

05:34But my experience with Kiowa and Kimmy...

05:36You act like you haven't given me a reason to have an issue.

05:40You keep acting like I came up with this by myself.

05:42What have I done to you?

05:43All of this stuff?

05:44Are you kidding me?

05:45What have I done to you?

05:46Why do you keep saying that?

05:47What have I done to you?

05:48You're talking about...

05:49Kiowa, you have been ill towards me from day one.

05:52If you don't have to have contention, don't have it.

05:54If you can foster a good relationship, do that.

05:57You know, ultimately, you guys are still parents, and you're going to have to co-parent for the

06:02rest of your life, so it might as well be a good relationship.

06:06So he hasn't been stepping up, but he stepped up in that situation, right?

06:11Well, yeah.

06:12Okay.

06:13And I felt good.

06:14I said that was great.

06:15He did one good and one bad.

06:17A lot of the key to getting along is getting along.

06:20To me, I think that...

06:22Not to cut you off, but the thing about it is we're there every day.

06:26The kids live with us.

06:28Go to our school and ask the principal who they know.

06:30Go to the teacher and ask the teacher who comes and sits in their class.

06:33They don't see them.

06:34They see me.

06:35No matter what, he's going to be your children's father.

06:38Yeah.

06:39Right?

06:40Good, bad, or indifferent, he's going to be the kid's father.

06:42It's how can we make sure that we do whatever it is that we can do the best possible way,

06:49and what's the best way to move forward?

06:51As a profession, I have to look at both sides of the coin, you know what I mean?

06:55Because at the end of the day, there's something that has him, you know, acting the way that he's acting.

07:01He still has to learn how to be respectful to me.

07:04Like, everybody wants me to respect the boundary as far as him being their father.

07:07Like, when do you respect the boundary of, you know, now this is...

07:11I know it might sound weird, but those are your kids, but this is my family now.

07:15And I was like, dude, I'm not trying to eliminate you as their father.

07:19You're doing that yourself by not being there.

07:22Like, it's weird.

07:23It's very weird to think that sometimes people would rather their children not like you than to like you.

07:32For them to actually like the stepparent turns out to be a problem.

07:37I don't feel like I'm doing anything wrong, but I'm constantly trying to fix the problem.

07:41I'm the one that's constantly reaching out.

07:43I'm the one that's constantly letting you throw low blows

07:46and letting you say what you want to say and not saying nothing back.

07:50Can't stop this, cream of the crop, can't top this.

07:58I'm the best of the best, number one spot on your hot list.

08:02What you think this is, it's not a game, but I play to win.

08:05Might be insane, because I'm crazy rich.

08:07So queer, the straight jacket never fits.

08:09Kiss the ring, because I'm royalty.

08:13Kiss the ring.

08:15Hi, welcome in.

08:16Hello there.

08:17I am looking for, I guess, some dining room furniture, living room, and a couple bedrooms.

08:24Okay.

08:25Well, we do have a really great dining table over here.

08:27Okay.

08:28So today I'm meeting Destiny.

08:30I shared with her that I'm going to the furniture store.

08:32I need some furniture for my investment property.

08:35Ariana talking about moving in.

08:36I think it shows that I'm committed to her.

08:39We've made plans in terms of, you know, growing our lives together.

08:43This is a live edge table, so it's going to have a lot of great character to it.

08:47Yes, I see that.

08:48Um...

08:49I'm going to just look throughout the store.

08:50Okay.

08:51And if I need some assistance, I'll holler back at you.

08:52Yeah.

09:01Hey.

09:02What's up?

09:03Hey, what's up?

09:04Trying to find some stuff.

09:05Good to see you.

09:06Good to see you, too.

09:07I got some nice pieces up in here.

09:08It just depends on what one would be looking for.

09:10I got some...

09:11I need some things.

09:12You know, Jerrica's doing my space.

09:14Oh, really?

09:15I moved downstairs.

09:16Downstairs to where?

09:17So, remember when you came to the first location upstairs that you...

09:21You or your friend Lance was supposed to help.

09:23I know it looks like a storage.

09:24It looks like?

09:25It looks like a storage.

09:27But it's such an eclectic building.

09:29Every time a new place opens, people are converting them into boutiques, hair salons.

09:34Mine is more of a workspace, and I haven't decided if I want to open it to the public yet,

09:38but this is where I'm creating all my products.

09:40Also got like a little storefront.

09:41Correct.

09:42Oh, that's what's up.

09:43Yeah.

09:44What you looking for?

09:45So, moving Arian and my son and her daughter into my career.

09:51I'm sorry to say what?

09:53Coming up on Love and Marriage Huntsville.

09:54I would like for my brokerage office to be done first.

09:55On getting your brokerage office done?

09:56Yes.

09:57Yeah.

09:58I mean, that's gonna be pretty soon.

09:59The thing is, you gotta see what you've done in this thing.

10:00What did you do?

10:01I didn't leave a long time ago.

10:02My dad told me on the day that we were getting married that it won't last five years.

10:06What you looking for?

10:07So, moving Arian and my son and her daughter into my career.

10:27I'm sorry to say what?

10:28Oh.

10:29Yeah.

10:30Oh, okay.

10:31I'm sorry to say what?

10:32I'm moving her into my investment career.

10:33Oh.

10:34Yeah.

10:35Oh, OK.

10:36What?

10:37I'm like, wait, y'all moving in together?

10:38Nah, we can't live together until we get married

10:41or something like that, right?

10:42Oh, you're going to do it right.

10:43So you gave her a ring?

10:45We're not engaged yet.

10:46OK.

10:47You said yet.

10:48Yeah, not yet.

10:49I mean, we're looking forward to all of that.

10:50OK.

10:51You know the steps to it.

10:52You been looking at rings?

10:56A little bit.

10:57A little bit.

10:58So I would definitely say Arianne, she is wife of material.

11:01And that's the only reason I've been pondering on that,

11:04because she does have those qualities in terms of,

11:08you know, the respect is there.

11:10The taking care of me is there.

11:13The simple things, the cooking, making sure the family is good.

11:18I pay attention to all of that, to a person

11:21that I want to make my wife, because all that is important.

11:25I thought when a man knows, he knows.

11:27Oh, yeah, but you still got to take steps,

11:29especially when you're 43 years old

11:31and when you've been married before.

11:32And that doesn't seem fresh.

11:35And you got children, got to make sure

11:36that you don't just make any rest.

11:37What seems fresh?

11:39My divorce.

11:40I'm still trying to shake off still, though.

11:42You know what I'm saying?

11:43Because I'm reminded in terms of having four children

11:45by her every day.

11:46Are you still stuck?

11:48No, I'm not stuck.

11:49I'm not even thinking about my life.

11:50You just said you think about it every day.

11:52That's stuck, bruh.

11:54It's more of.

11:57I keep suggesting you go into therapy

11:58and, like, working with various people

12:00so you can get through that.

12:02All this counseling .

12:04Because you don't, that's why you're still stuck, bruh.

12:06No, I ain't stuck.

12:07You didn't have a conversation with somebody.

12:09So for me, it's difficult to know when to stay and fight

12:13or to give up.

12:15But out of everybody, I would definitely

12:17think that Destiny would know.

12:19She would know about all this.

12:20Because again, she's going through some of the same things

12:22that I'm going through.

12:23Well, somewhat.

12:25So what happened with Lance?

12:27I feel like I gave him an open book test and he failed.

12:30Oh, damn.

12:30Just like a man, I had failed a few of them.

12:33Did you, like, break up with him?

12:35It just kind of fizzled out.

12:37You date to try to figure out if it's going to be more,

12:39and it never became more.

12:40So are you going to be dating anyone else?

12:42If somebody piques my interest and they ask me out,

12:44I'm going to say yes.

12:45I think Lance is an old soul, but I also

12:48think he has a lot of things going on in his life.

12:52And as far as relationship goes,

12:53I don't know if he was really ready for that.

12:55But, like, dating life is good.

13:00Great, actually.

13:02And I think Lance is a nice guy, just not the guy for me.

13:06Yeah, you need to let me coach you

13:07so you can get you a man.

13:13What?

13:14I'm serious.

13:15You probably do.

13:17No, thank you.

13:22Purchasing 10 acres, up a 200-foot elevation,

13:35on the opposite side of a limestone rock quarry,

13:39not understanding that you have to blast boulders

13:43the size of trucks.

13:44We put about 500 cubic yards of concrete.

13:49But when we got 18-inch steel I-beams, so no.

13:54Scott Manor is not a house.

13:56Scott Manor is definitely a match.

13:58Here comes the boss.

13:59Hey, girl.

14:00Woo!

14:01Woo!

14:02Is that the top of the house?

14:04How tall those beams right there?

14:07That's gonna be the top of the roof,

14:08maybe 6 inches down.

14:09Oh, wow.

14:10We've been building on Scott Manor since 2019.

14:13It has been a two-inch steel I-beams.

14:15It's been a three-inch steel I-beams.

14:18So, no.

14:19Scott Manor is not a house.

14:21Scott Manor is not a house.

14:23Scott Manor is definitely a mansion.

14:26Here comes the boss.

14:27Hey, girl.

14:28Woo!

14:29Is that the top of the house?

14:30How tall are those beams right there?

14:31It's been a very long process.

14:33I feel like I've made plenty of sacrifices

14:36for this particular home.

14:39I'm happy we're starting to see something,

14:41because the last time we was here,

14:42it was just this right here.

14:44This wasn't up.

14:45None of this was up.

14:46Last time I was here, this wasn't here.

14:48See, y'all sitting to see something now,

14:49but it takes less time to do this

14:51than it does to prep the ground.

14:53You know what's happening like six foot of the ground?

14:54Oh, it took us years to prep the ground.

14:55But look at this view.

14:57Look who we're walking out to.

14:58Bruh.

14:59Bruh.

15:01We have three kids sharing one bathroom.

15:03So I'm so ready to move into Scott Manor.

15:07It's just so funny seeing how our kids are growing up

15:09and the personality they're taking.

15:11I'm super happy.

15:12They have, they're well-rounded.

15:14They're just intelligent.

15:15They're all 4.0 students.

15:17And they're about to be 18.

15:19Sip your boy off to college.

15:22You excited about where you're going to go?

15:24No.

15:25I want him to go to Michigan.

15:27I'm sure.

15:27That's where he wants to go.

15:29I want him to go to Michigan.

15:30He's just not ready to face it.

15:31MJ wants to go to college in Michigan.

15:33And of course, Marceau is OK with that,

15:36because Marceau is from Michigan.

15:38However, I'm not OK.

15:40It's too far away.

15:42I need MJ to be a little bit closer.

15:44I need somebody to get in my car and reach him.

15:46I'm happy that, you know, just to see, like,

15:49where we came from to where we're at right now.

15:52And this is, like, still the beginning of everything.

15:54Like, it's not even, like, we haven't even

15:56reached our peak yet.

15:58We doing some stuff.

15:59We're finishing up the house on Whitehall.

16:01Yeah.

16:02And I hope we're finishing up Jordan Lane,

16:03Kimmy and Reese's project in a second.

16:05Man, I tell you, they got to get on the same page.

16:08Because Kimmy will tell me one thing,

16:10and then I'll come talk to Marce,

16:11and he'll tell me something totally different.

16:14You probably shouldn't listen to Kimmy,

16:15because this is her main project.

16:16I know, but it's so hard communicating.

16:21Well, I'm sure Kimmy has a very clear.

16:23No, they don't.

16:24Oh, .

16:25Because you've been working hard on Jordan Lane.

16:27Like, I passed by the other day.

16:28I've been working hard on everything.

16:30It's looking really good.

16:31I'm a hard worker, teacher.

16:32I never said you wasn't.

16:33I would like my brokerage office to be done first.

16:38On getting your brokerage office done?

16:39Yes.

16:40Yeah, I mean, that's going to be pretty soon.

16:44We hit some hiccups as far as HVAC concerns.

16:53We had to move the unit.

16:54So I got the guys to move the unit from there

16:56and put it in a whole different location.

16:58It's kind of centered the floor now.

16:59Do we have a time frame on that?

17:01You should be done in 30, 45 days.

17:0430 days.

17:0530 to 45 days.

17:05I hear 30 days.

17:0630 to 45 days?

17:07Can I get a yes on 30 days?

17:0930 to 45 days?

17:09Like 30 days when I'm going to go to.

17:1130 business days, yes.

17:1230 days.

17:13Business days.

17:14No, no, no, no, no.

17:1530 days.

17:16Mark my calendar for that.

17:17You got yourself a husband, bro.

17:18Thanks, babe.

17:19You got yourself a husband now.

17:21OK, so Marceau thinks that I'm joking

17:23about completing my project, and I'm not.

17:25Scott Realty Build Out has been pushed back

17:27so many times over the past year.

17:302024 was a rough year for me.

17:33I lost a lot, a lot of family members.

17:36And I just want Marceau to hurry up and complete my project,

17:39because 2025 is my year.

17:41I'm claiming it.

17:42This year, I just want to just celebrate,

17:45like celebrate the big things and small things

17:47and just life in general.

17:49What are you thinking about?

17:50I don't know, but I do want to involve my mom in it.

17:55She got her food truck.

17:56Like, it's been taking her a while to get that off the ground.

17:59So she got the food truck going now.

18:00If we're trying to celebrate life,

18:02why would you invite your mom?

18:05Because that's a huge accomplishment for her.

18:07It's something she's been working towards.

18:09She hasn't completed now, so.

18:11I thought you were talking about some positive stuff.

18:12Tisha, you talking about celebrating life

18:14and got me all excited.

18:15Then you're going to bring your mom in.

18:17Is that what you did?

18:18Is that what the whole thing was for?

18:19And I got to bring her up here so I

18:21can show her where her room is going to be.

18:22No.

18:23We do have room for a mother-in-law.

18:26We have 10 full acres.

18:29No, I would say watch out for snakes and things like that.

18:32I haven't seen any, so she should be safe out there.

18:35And for food, we have plenty of wildlife.

18:38Oh, dang.

18:40Trust me, she could talk a deer to death.

18:45Her room is going to be right here.

18:46She's going to be like, why y'all putting me in the corner?

18:47Her room is going to be over there somewhere,

18:49over the mountain down there.

18:53Coming up on Love and Marriage Huntsville.

18:55So you believe the whole time that she

18:57didn't want to get divorced, right?

18:59No, that's not.

19:00I gave her to Ken.

19:04I think we do need to set boundaries,

19:07have another conversation about boundaries.

19:09You said boundaries?

19:09We should have set boundaries two, three years ago

19:12when y'all started talking.

19:13We didn't need to.

19:14He was out of sight, out of mind.

19:15We both wanted to know who the truth could put that in mind.

19:21Yes, you're something that we did want to hang out.

19:24leen in the room for the locker room.

19:26obtained by an underIMA House.

19:27Yo, Maurice, what up?

19:33How you doing?

19:34What's going on, my guy?

19:36How you doing, bro?

19:37Me and Kimmy, we had a chance to catch up with Ken and Trish, and there was a lot of conversation

19:42about Marquez, so I felt like he's not gotten his just due.

19:46I need to have a one-on-one with him.

19:48Our dinner with Ken and Trish made me think about Marquez's side of the story, and the

19:52truth is, going through divorce is two sides to each coin, and I'd like for Marquez to,

19:56you know, share his side.

19:58How long are your time, man?

19:59I'm here as much time as I need to.

20:01Absolutely.

20:02That's what you're doing?

20:03Yes, sir.

20:04That's what's up?

20:04Man, honestly, I'm glad that I'm here, because I wanted to talk to you about how my divorce

20:10kind of is playing out.

20:11When I went to go sign the papers, it said that we didn't have no minor children.

20:16You know, when I went to the courthouse, they told me that if I had signed it, that I would

20:18have to prove that we had children, so I didn't sign it yet.

20:22Neither one of you guys have attorneys?

20:28No.

20:29You got somebody good for me?

20:30Well, I mean, no, I don't do that, bro.

20:33What type of, okay.

20:34When it comes to, like, matters of the heart, you know, I don't usually get involved in

20:38stuff like that, brother.

20:39You can't ever win in situations like that.

20:42Usually what people do, they spend money, the lawyers get paid until they're out of money,

20:47and then the court decides.

20:49Yeah, no, we don't want to do that, no.

20:51So the main thing to you is your children, right?

20:54The main thing is the children, but the main thing is also to resolve this issue with me

20:58and Trish.

20:58Until we resolve that, our children are still going to be affected.

21:01She's done a lot of different things to make it difficult for me to see my daughter, without

21:06me having to force myself on her.

21:08Like, last week I stopped by the house to take Zaria home, and I walk in, and she's

21:12having a conversation with her friend, and a guest about me, and it turns into a whole

21:16situation where this lady don't even know me, but she's already getting these opinions.

21:21So my main thing is figuring out how to work with Trish, because me and Ken have been,

21:24we've had a conversation.

21:26Did you reach out to him?

21:27No, he reached out to me.

21:29He reached out, and I ain't gonna lie, I felt like he had some motives, but then,

21:34you know, hour one, hour two, hour three, I'm like, hold on.

21:38And then, next thing you know, I understand why Trish loved him so much, because she's

21:42just like her dad, everything she ever wanted.

21:44And that's not me, and that's what we gotta work through, man, is she always wanted me

21:48to be her dad, and I'm not him.

21:49I don't really think Marquez is an introspective guy.

21:52However, he lets on to be.

21:56But I think there's more to the breakdown of Marquez and Trish's marriage, especially more

22:01than just, you know, he wasn't like her father.

22:06There's always multiple sides to a story.

22:09The thing is, you gotta see what you've done in this thing.

22:12What did you do?

22:14What did I do?

22:16I didn't leave a long time ago.

22:19When's the long time ago?

22:22After the first year, when I knew we weren't supposed to be together.

22:26Gotcha.

22:27So what was it?

22:28I feel sorry for her.

22:29My dad told me on the day that we were getting married that it won't last five years.

22:33You wanted to prove him wrong?

22:34Yeah.

22:35And I really think that that really drove me, because when that five-year mark came and

22:38I made it, I just was like, yeah.

22:42It lasted more than five years.

22:44Seven, ten, twelve.

22:47You know, I think year ten, I really didn't want to be there.

22:50But then we had these situations with our family members, and I couldn't leave her.

22:54Like, I understand she felt like I left her, but I couldn't leave her, bro.

22:57The thing that doesn't make sense to me, though, if you're working a job, and you don't even

23:02want that job, and you are putting in your two-week notice, right, and then they said,

23:08you know what, we really don't want you, why would you still want to be there?

23:13Well, Trish never said she didn't want me.

23:14That's what divorce papers are.

23:20Yeah, but I filed a divorce.

23:22She don't want to divorce me for real.

23:23She also filed.

23:24She filed because Kim made her file.

23:29So you believed the whole time that she didn't want to get divorced, right?

23:34It's not.

23:34I gave her to Kim.

23:37If I wanted her back, I could have her.

23:40It's not about that.

23:44I got a chance to hear Marquez's side of this story, and the truth is, Trish doesn't want

23:49you the way that you think she does.

23:51And the sooner that he's able to realize that, he'll be able to move on.

23:56Like, I lost my best friend, to be honest.

23:58You know?

23:58I still love her, but not in a way where, like, I want to be with her.

24:02But I'm going to always be there for us.

24:04In the ideal world, divorce finalized.

24:08My son moves with me.

24:10My daughter continues, you know, on her journey in dance.

24:13Me and Ken, we continue to build our relationship.

24:16Me and Trish build our relationship.

24:17And then we take a vacation.

24:19One big happy family.

24:20Maybe I'll have a girlfriend.

24:24Am I setting unrealistic expectations on what my relationship should be?

24:28Oh, I believe so.

24:29I believe so.

24:30What does it look like with your ex?

24:32Do y'all hang out?

24:33Do y'all talk?

24:33We don't really hang out and talk.

24:35Even if you graduate to the point to where you're cordial and everything's good, that

24:40still ain't friendship, like, to the point to where you're talking about.

24:43Best friend.

24:47Yeah, no.

24:48Yeah, I think you might want to find a new girl.

24:51No, we can reconsider that.

24:53I'm going to find my new best friend.

24:54Yeah, I think that you might want to find that in somebody new.

24:57Coming up on Love and Marriage Huntsville.

24:59You don't get no cool point for doing what you're supposed to do.

25:02And you don't get no cool point for being the boyfriend and doing what you're supposed

25:06to do because you live here, my guy.

25:08I'm going to tell you, the only way we're going to be able to go forward is by holding

25:11yourself accountable.

25:12Yeah.

25:12You are the cause of all this.

25:14You are the common denominator, right?

25:16How was your birthday?

25:35Uh, besides school, it was fine.

25:37I cannot believe, MJ.

25:39You're getting so old.

25:42You're not my little baby anymore.

25:44I can't believe it.

25:46Today is MJ's 18th birthday.

25:49And I really just want to spend as much time with him as I can before he goes off to college.

25:54And he's not a little boy anymore.

25:56And time spent with mom is getting very, very small.

26:00I was 25 years old when I had you.

26:03Hmm.

26:03And you're graduating in 2025.

26:05Isn't that crazy?

26:07It's almost like you planned that.

26:08This is just not another birthday.

26:10Like, this is like your 18th birthday.

26:12This is like a big birthday.

26:13Like, you're legal.

26:15Like, you can vote.

26:16You're graduating high school.

26:19You want to go to, we're going to college.

26:21But you want to go, like, away.

26:22Why do you want to go so far away from me?

26:25It's a possibility you would never live in Huntsville again.

26:29You know, the thing is, when I left home to go to college, like, I never went back.

26:34I never moved back home with my parents.

26:37If you go to Michigan for real, MJ, I'm going to get me on townhouse, like, around the corner.

26:43Do you want to go to school and from your campus?

26:43I don't think so.

26:47Why?

26:48I don't think they allow parents within a certain radius to the school.

26:51They don't care who purchased land outside of the campus.

26:56I'm not going to be on campus with you, but I need to come visit you at least once a week.

27:06Okay, every other weekend.

27:09Do you think that's too much?

27:10Yeah.

27:11You're not going to miss me?

27:12Call mom at least weekly, though, so, you know.

27:15Oh, you're not going to be calling me weekly.

27:17You're going to be calling me every day.

27:18I don't know.

27:19I'm going to be FaceTiming you every night before you go to sleep.

27:21He's excited to go off to college and fly, and I want him to fly.

27:26But I also want him to know that mom is still right here.

27:30I'm touchable, so.

27:34Are you worried about, like, leaving me?

27:38Nah.

27:39You're not at all?

27:41Nah.

27:41Why?

27:42Are you going to miss your dad?

27:44Probably.

27:47I'll just miss him a little more, mom.

27:49Dad's kind of, like, a pillar for me.

27:53Okay.

27:55Okay.

27:55So, what am I to you, then?

28:05Hmm.

28:08Probably, like, a line that just keeps me straight.

28:11Nobody sees all the work that we as moms have to do to keep the house flowing.

28:16Marceau allows the kids to get away with a lot that I do not.

28:20I have to enforce the rules.

28:22I have to enforce and make sure things get done around the house.

28:25With Marceau, they laugh and joke and play games.

28:27So, yeah, I would want that cool father, too.

28:30I'm always going to be worried about you.

28:32You're always going to be a concern of mine.

28:34Like, just because you're away in college don't mean that you're not my child anymore.

28:38You're still my child.

28:41This is to death do us part.

28:43You're always going to have home.

28:45No matter where you go, how far you go away, there's always going to be, like, a place for you in our household.

28:50You always have a safe place.

28:52Okay?

28:57And I know I always have a place to go visit.

29:02Coming up on Love and Marriage Huntsville.

29:04This is where you're going to get the out.

29:06Ken.

29:07How about that?

29:07I'll put you out.

29:08Y'all better have...

29:09Bro, y'all better do good.

29:10Better do good.

29:11Let her do good.

29:12Get off.

29:13Man, bro.

29:32Oh, yeah.

29:33Getting it all ready.

29:35Trying to.

29:35Watch all your dance tomorrow.

29:37You got everything packed?

29:39I got it together this time.

29:40We're getting ready for Zarya's first competition of the season.

29:45It's very hectic because there's so many little details that goes into each costume, each dance.

29:52But I'm excited to see how it goes.

29:54I'm tired.

29:55You're tired.

29:55What you got going?

29:56Apple juice.

29:57Okay.

29:59You all right, though?

30:01As I'm going to be, yeah.

30:02So I decided to sit in on this conversation with Marquez and Ken.

30:07And I also invited Sharon because I feel like Marquez owes her a much-needed apology.

30:12We do need to clear the air.

30:13I think he definitely owes Sharon an apology.

30:15I felt like, you know, after all the conversations me and him have had, we had a better understanding.

30:21But obviously, we don't.

30:23And I'm willing to hear him out maybe just this one more time.

30:26But I think this is about...

30:28I still feel this is not going to go well.

30:30I think so.

30:30Nope.

30:32I know you're frustrated.

30:34But we got to set up some boundaries and some, you know, make sure people understand their roles in this situation.

30:44So I just want you to be open to listening.

30:49I feel like we never really have an issue until he comes around.

30:55So, you know, we got to nip that in the bud and make sure that, you know, everybody, again, understands their role.

31:03Yeah.

31:04Before I go from zero to a million.

31:06Yeah, we don't have to do that.

31:08With Marquez, we've had a conversation or two about boundaries.

31:12But I don't know if I've always been as direct as I need to be.

31:15Like, in his mind, you know, that's my wife.

31:19Those are my kids.

31:20I can do what I want.

31:22And that's just realistically not how it goes.

31:24That's dumb how it's going to go with me.

31:28I mean, he does have some points that we need to listen to.

31:32I'm not saying that all of them are valid.

31:34But we still got to, you know, allow him to express himself the way he feels.

31:44Let me get that.

31:49Well, come on in.

31:52We don't get to open the door?

31:54This is crazy work.

31:56What's up?

31:57It's cold.

31:58You all right, man?

31:59Did you say come in?

32:00Baby.

32:01Come on, come on, come on.

32:03Oh, man.

32:04What's going on?

32:04You all right, boy?

32:06I'm good.

32:06What's going on?

32:08Man.

32:08So, I mean, you know why we're here.

32:13Can I get a drink?

32:14Asking Ken where his drink is.

32:19He gives you this ass energy.

32:22I know him.

32:23He's going to give you this soft, weak link, but then he's going to get under your skin and try to piss you off.

32:29Here comes this little hot dog.

32:31He's going to piss me off.

32:32I was gone the other day when the whole little incident went down.

32:39I think it's kind of frustrating for me because we've had conversations about, you know, trying to do better, being better.

32:46And I feel like that situation kind of put us backwards.

32:49But I think we do need to set boundaries, have another conversation about boundaries.

32:55You said boundaries?

32:56We should have set boundaries two, three years ago when y'all started talking.

33:01Matter of fact, it should have been boundaries before anybody came into the picture, and that's my fault.

33:04Yeah, you're right.

33:04We never had that conversation.

33:05No, we didn't need to.

33:06You was out of sight, out of mind.

33:08Oh, I...

33:09You were out of sight, out of mind.

33:13Okay.

33:13So recently, you know, I picked up Zaria.

33:17The day that I came over, when I walk in, it's automatic hostility and animosity.

33:22You came into my house uninvited.

33:25Marques and I are getting a divorce.

33:27Ken and I live here.

33:28You don't live here.

33:29I mean, it's not rocket science.

33:31You just don't barge into someone's house, especially when you don't live there.

33:34Okay, how about this, Ken?

33:35Ken, boundary set, now what?

33:37Boundary set, I'll make sure I call.

33:39I'll make sure that I knock on the door.

33:41Now what?

33:41Now what are we doing now?

33:42I mean, hold on, hold on.

33:44What are we doing now?

33:45But here's the thing.

33:45This is why this conversation has to...

33:47What are we doing now?

33:48Go get that.

33:49This is why the conversation has to be had, because Marques, you're saying, you're speaking

33:53as if somebody is asking you to do something that isn't, to me, already understood or...

33:59Like, bro, I just wouldn't walk in your house.

34:02Bro, I did not walk in the house, Ken.

34:04You gotta understand, that's my daughter.

34:05She opened the door, bro.

34:06What is you saying?

34:07I'm not gonna let her walk in with two drinks and three bags, bro.

34:10I don't care if it was my house, my granny house, her house, somebody else's house.

34:14I'm not letting her walk in with two drinks and three bags, bro.

34:17I apologize.

34:17You should have stayed at the doorstep.

34:18Now, okay, well, guess what?

34:19You should have handled it differently.

34:21No, I should have.

34:21You should have been more mature.

34:22Yes, you should have said...

34:23What?

34:23Because you came already on the RIP, and I don't even know this lady.

34:26Because...

34:26This lady came in on some extra energy.

34:29Hold on.

34:30No, the energy...

34:30As a matter of fact, would you like to introduce me?

34:32Sharon cut off my energy.

34:34How you doing?

34:34You have never...

34:35My name is Marques.

34:36My name is Marques.

34:37I would like to apologize for the energy, because I felt like I don't know you, right?

34:40And when I came in, because I thought we were in a better position, right?

34:44Because I didn't want my daughter to walk in with these bags.

34:46Okay, that's my mindset.

34:47Yeah.

34:47Hear me out.

34:48You still should...

34:48What the hell is this?

34:49Okay, let's get past that part.

34:51Would you like to sit down?

34:52Please, thank you.

34:52Come on.

34:52Here you go.

34:53You want something to drink?

34:54No, I'm good.

34:55Okay, can I get something to drink?

34:56Because I'm kind of thirsty.

34:57I'm sorry.

34:57I didn't bring that because I didn't know.

34:59Okay, but next time I'll bring a bottle.

35:01So what made you feel like you can impugn my character?

35:03What made you feel like you had to demean me in front of this lady that you said is your

35:07close friend, right?

35:08There's no need to express anything that happened in the past.

35:11The past is past.

35:12Let's live in the present.

35:14Let's do what we got to do for the kids, and let's keep it moving.

35:16How can we...

35:17Hold on.

35:18How can we get past that?

35:19Hold on, hold on.

35:20Because I really don't care.

35:22But you should care.

35:23If you really cared about the kids, you should care.

35:25No, I care about the kids.

35:25Because you don't care about...

35:27Hold on, hold on.

35:27Because if you cared, you wouldn't be doing all this.

35:30Bro, you're broken.

35:30Let me say this.

35:31Here's the thing, Marquez.

35:33I would like for both of you, like, because I tell her this.

35:36Stop bringing the kids in the middle of situations that the kids...

35:39No, kids are affected every time.

35:39Listen, listen.

35:40No, they're not.

35:41Yes, they are.

35:41I'm going to tell you.

35:42I'm going to be 100 with you.

35:42We're being honest with each other right now.

35:44These kids aren't traumatized about nothing.

35:46Do they miss you?

35:47Does Xavier miss having a certain relationship with you?

35:50Yes.

35:51Well, are they going through some traumatic situation where they're just so hurt?

35:55No, they're not, bro.

35:56Their mother is traumatizing them, bro.

35:57No, no, they're...

35:58Listen, bro.

35:59What do you mean?

36:00No, they're not.

36:01They're not, bro.

36:02First of all, me and my kids have our conversations.

36:05Y'all don't know what we're talking about.

36:07No, you can't assure me anything when it comes to my children, Ken.

36:10Okay.

36:10Well, you can't assure me anything when it comes to my children, Ken.

36:13You want to know how I can?

36:13The conversations that we...

36:14No, you can't.

36:15Because I'm active.

36:15You can't...

36:16I'm the active one.

36:16Bro, I'm active, bro.

36:17Hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on.

36:19You let my emotions.

36:20We can't go back here.

36:20It's not going back.

36:22The reality of it is...

36:23It feels like it's going back.

36:24Listen to me.

36:24This is the reality.

36:25Those are your kids, right?

36:27Correct.

36:27You can agree to that, right?

36:28Absolutely.

36:28But right now, this is my family.

36:30It's my family.

36:39This is the reality.

36:41Those are your kids, right?

36:42Correct.

36:43You can agree to that, right?

36:44Absolutely.

36:44But right now, this is my family.

36:48It's my family.

36:51It is the family.

36:52No, you're the boyfriend to Trish.

36:53No, it's my family.

36:54And you're the bonus guy.

36:55Like you said, right?

36:56You're the bonus guy.

36:57But it's still my family.

36:58It's still my family.

36:59What does family mean?

37:00We live...

37:01Family.

37:01We live together.

37:02What's the definition of family?

37:03We do everything together.

37:04Guess what?

37:05I take Zaria to dance.

37:06I pick her up from dance.

37:07Her competition...

37:08Are you going to be at her competition tomorrow?

37:09I'm so...

37:10Did I not give you money?

37:12Bro, you gave me $500.

37:13You know how my...

37:14Oh.

37:15Like you get no cool points for doing what you're supposed to do.

37:19And you don't get no cool points for being the boyfriend and doing what you're supposed

37:22to do because you live here, my guy.

37:24Let me tell you, the only way we're going to be able to go forward is by holding yourself

37:27accountable and being real with yourself.

37:29Bro, I've been holding myself.

37:31Being real.

37:31Yo.

37:31Because at the end of the day...

37:33Trisha, you need to be real with yourself.

37:34At the end of the day...

37:35I got to be real with this conversation.

37:36You are the cause of all this.

37:38You are the common denominator, right?

37:40I don't have to do...

37:40...and take accountability, but it starts with you.

37:43And if you're not ready, then he's not going to be ready, then I'm not going to be ready.

37:46The way he talks to Trisha, he talks to her as if he has that right to be disrespectful.

37:52And he's doing it in my face.

37:54Now, I don't care what nobody else do.

37:56You're not going to disrespect my woman in my face.

37:58You know where I was at tonight?

37:59Here.

37:59I'm juggling being here.

38:00I'm here.

38:01I had to go to Alex's football games.

38:03I'm all active, bro.

38:04They see me in the flesh.

38:05And they see me.

38:06Not a text message.

38:07And they see me.

38:07Not a phone call.

38:07And they see me.

38:08They see me in the...

38:09And Zaria saw me.

38:10Okay, here you go.

38:10And Xavier saw me.

38:11So what do you...

38:12I'm here, bro.

38:12I'm in Huntsville.

38:13I'm here now.

38:14Now what?

38:14We ain't got to see each other.

38:15You can see each other.

38:15I'm here now.

38:16Now what?

38:16What does it look like?

38:17How do we set up these boundaries?

38:18Hold on.

38:20The divorce, right?

38:21I called the courthouse.

38:23They said we waiting for a court date.

38:24Because obviously you put on there and said we had no minor children.

38:27Bro, that's a lie, bro.

38:28How is it a lie?

38:29We can go prove it, bro.

38:30Yeah, go.

38:30We can prove that.

38:31We can prove that.

38:33At the end of the day, Marquez definitely knows that the kid's name on that paperwork.

38:37And it's so frustrating because, you know, he has the same paperwork that we were presenting

38:42to him.

38:42I just feel like the guy just loves picking and, you know, he sees that this is almost,

38:50you know, the end of the road for them being married and him having that access to her.

38:55And I just think he doesn't.

38:56He's not ready to let it go.

38:57What's the date stamped on that at the courthouse?

38:59September 19th.

39:01And what does it say?

39:01No minor children?

39:03Does it say something about no minor children?

39:04What does it say?

39:05What does it say on there?

39:06Where?

39:06Let me see.

39:07Hold on.

39:07Why are you showing up to her?

39:08Who's naming stuff on there?

39:10Why are you showing it to her?

39:11Where?

39:12It's an orange.

39:13When?

39:13Hey, that's why you got to stop lying, bro.

39:15That's why you got to stop lying.

39:16What am I lying about, bro?

39:16That's why you got to stop lying.

39:18You said that the kid's name went on there.

39:19The kid's name are right there.

39:21We got reassigned because you could test it.

39:22Who's the judge?

39:23So we got reassigned.

39:24Right, because you put on there that we didn't have no minor children.

39:26Wait, you told me you says it right there.

39:28And then you don't.

39:28Calm man, get your job.

39:30No, bro, I'm going to do it.

39:32Look, it says it right there.

39:34Xavier Burnett, Zoya Reed.

39:35Exactly.

39:36Man, stop lying.

39:37Relax, bro.

39:38Here's the thing, Marquez.

39:39Energy is off.

39:42You're going to sit down, you're going to sit down, or you're going to get the out.

39:46Ken.

39:47How about that?

39:47Are you going to get out?

39:48Ken, stop.

39:49Are you going to get out?

39:49No, I'm just going to go out.

39:50Point point, period.

39:51Are you going to get out?

39:52It is what it is.

39:53I don't know.

39:53Put you out.

39:54It's black and white.

39:55We can do it that way.

39:55It is what it is.

39:57Damn, bro.

39:58Like, you make this , it's right there.

39:59Are we moving forward?

40:00It's right.

40:01We can't move forward if we're going to keep lying.

40:03What did you say, dude?

40:03Bro, are you serious?

40:04We got to put the ass right here, bro.

40:06That has nothing to do it, bro.

40:07This is the lie.

40:08This is the lie.

40:09This is the lie.

40:10It's right here.

40:11It's right here.

40:12Stop lying all the time, dude.

40:14You're being vicious.

40:15What about you a vicious couple while walking in my house?

40:17Ken, come on.

40:18Are we moving forward tonight?

40:19You just did it again.

40:20Hey, y'all better have to do what?

40:21Y'all better do what?

40:22Better do what?

40:23Get off.

40:24Get off.

40:25Get off.

40:26Get off.

40:27Get off.

40:28Get off.

40:29Stop.

40:30Next on Love and Marriage Huntsville.

40:33Growing up, when me and him were both in the house, you would,

40:37always come ask me to do stuff.

40:39I didn't really like that.

40:41Did you feel difference in love?

40:42Like, I love Monster Huntsville.

40:44Uh...

40:46What are you going to do when Marquez pops back up?

40:48You can't get away from this guy.

40:49Hey, so here's the thing.

40:50I'm not dealing with him.

40:52But you do, though.

40:53You guys keep trying to talk and then you get upset.

40:55No, no, no, it's not.

40:56I'm trying to cater to his emotions and his feelings and trying to...

40:59Why?

41:00You ain't trying to marry him.

41:02Lance had mentioned wanting to hang out with Ken.

41:04He had got a call saying he needed to get back.

41:07He had a baby on the way in labor.

41:09When I saw that on social media, I would sign on you.

41:11I was like, not Neil having him and Destiny dating.

41:15He had a whole girl pregnant the whole time.

41:19I was actually talking to Jaylen.

41:21He came by the...

41:22Did he actually fail?

41:23He's not asking for help.

41:24He thinks of me like a dad.

41:25He's not as much.

41:26He difficile.

41:27He's following me.

41:28He's trying to find out a young man against mine.

41:32Because he could blame him.

41:33He difference is what made it seem to be.

41:34He exceeded his enemies, right?

41:35He 맞 wow.

41:36Oh my.

41:38He never listened.

41:39I just valve all rum banks.

41:40I thought I was just joking.

41:41He doesn't know.

41:42They all discreet at all moments.

41:44So his strength 있잖아요ESP Gef%.

41:45He never looked three hundred months ago.

41:46You know his чем Man.

41:49All right.

41:50He binary between when he saw it.

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