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00:00Pranam Acharya Ji. Welcome Nitish.
00:05So my question this time is how to become mentally and emotionally stronger in college life and how to protect myself from bad content and how to know it's actually bad for me.
00:17Strength is not something that you have to actively cultivate.
00:24Your question is positing, assuming something.
00:33You are assuming that weakness is innate and strength has to be imported or cultivated or learnt.
00:53You don't have to cultivate strength.
00:59You have to de-cultivate weakness.
01:04You don't have to learn strength.
01:08You have to unlearn weakness.
01:12Please remember, strength is nature itself.
01:19You are very swabhav.
01:22The purity of your being itself is strength.
01:28And that strength is not a showy thing.
01:37That strength is not a comparative thing.
01:43That strength is not about the capacity that you have to fulfil your desires.
01:55That strength is a particular ease, sahajata.
02:02That strength is something that, as we said, is not showy.
02:08It will not be visible until and unless a challenge throws itself upon you.
02:19It is something that you carry smoothly within yourself.
02:27It remains there but manifests only when there is a need or a challenge.
02:36It sits lightly within.
02:40All that is hunky-dory.
02:43The problem is that this natural, smooth, easy strength within us is shrouded by, covered by a lot of what we have learnt or imbibed or imported from here and there.
03:05So kindly adjust your model, rather append it.
03:15The model that you have says you are weak and you have to become strong.
03:21That's the model most of us carry.
03:24I am weak, I must become strong.
03:27Is that not often the desire expresses itself?
03:31I am weak, I must.
03:33So first thing is to correct the fundamentals.
03:37You are strong and for some very special reason, you have covered yourself with weakness.
03:50So uncover yourself.
03:53Unlearn weakness.
03:56Upend the model.
04:01You are strong already.
04:03You don't have to learn strength from anywhere.
04:06Right?
04:07First thing, I am already strong.
04:10And then the mysterious question is, from where did weakness come?
04:15Yeah.
04:16And that's the question to go into.
04:19If I am already strong, from where did this mirage called weakness become so big upon me?
04:29How did this become identical to me?
04:33How did that happen?
04:35How did that happen?
04:36That's the question you must meditate upon.
04:40And how to meditate upon it?
04:42Not by excusing yourself from the world and sitting in some corner and thinking about it.
04:49By seeing how weakness operates in your day-to-day matters in the world.
05:00Because it is in your day-to-day existence and it is from the world that one imports weakness.
05:09So therefore, one has to catch exactly when weakness is about to percolate us, seep into our existence.
05:19That's the point to catch yourself.
05:21No.
05:22No entry for you, ma'am or sir, whatever.
05:26No entry for you.
05:30Right to admission, reserved.
05:35I don't allow free access to my interiors.
05:44This is not some public space.
05:48Trespassers shall be prosecuted.
05:53It is the trespassers who bring something with them and leave it behind as garbage within you.
06:02And that is weakness.
06:04That brings us to an interesting definition of weakness.
06:07Whatsoever is not yours is weakness.
06:13Whatsoever has been brought to you by random forces of society, time, your biochemical physicality, all that is weakness.
06:34Arrest that before it strikes you.
06:44See how they make you believe in their lies.
06:49Don't be so gullible.
06:53And you are mastering in chemical engineering.
06:59It should be easier for you to see how they turn your entire existence into chemistry.
07:06They know what you are reactive towards.
07:12And that particular chemical reagent is selectively brought to you so that you can react as per their convenience, their interests and become a slave.
07:31Because they don't have any individuality, any freedom of their own.
07:36So they despise those who are free.
07:41Or who are even relatively freer.
07:44Are you getting it?
07:49You cannot live without such and such thing.
07:54Don't you see weakness is being introduced into yourself?
07:58This is weakness.
08:00And you are made to learn this.
08:02I am saying unlearn.
08:03You are successful only if you have these particular things in your life.
08:13Nobody will say this is a statement of weakness.
08:16But it is.
08:17And you are made to buy into all this.
08:21And you do.
08:26Because you don't examine what is entering you.
08:30Especially if those who are bringing these things to you happen to be your so-called well-wishers, friends, family or knowledgeable people.
08:41Then you think if something is coming from them, it surely is for your good.
08:46Not necessarily.
08:48More often than not, things that come to you from all these easy and all pervasive sources around you are toxic.
09:03Goodness in a human being is not something very readily found, sadly.
09:18It is a rarity.
09:21Therefore, if you want to use someone for the purpose of learning, then you have to be very careful.
09:38You cannot just randomly listen to anybody and think that his words or influence would be a source of strength to you.
09:46That fellow will say something.
09:49And whatever he says may not even include the words strength and weakness.
09:53And yet you will find that if the fellow is not coming from a point of inner realization, his influence upon you is toxic and debilitating.
10:01Are you getting it?
10:04Yes.
10:05Let's take the example.
10:06Basic example.
10:07Because again, chemistry.
10:08Let's take the basic example of sugar.
10:10Hmm?
10:11Let's say you are a diabetic.
10:12Right?
10:13First of all, how did you turn diabetic?
10:14Consuming more amount of sugars and not appropriate diet.
10:15No, no.
10:16Diabetes is not about consuming more amount of sugar.
10:20Diabetes is about your pancreas.
10:21Losing the ability to secrete insulin.
10:23Now, insulin is supposed to be something within you.
10:24Right?
10:25Right?
10:26Yes, sir.
10:27You do not say, sir, please tell me how do I secrete or learn how to secrete?
10:29No, no.
10:30How did you turn diabetic?
10:31Consuming more amount of sugars and not appropriate diet.
10:33No, no.
10:34Diabetes is not about consuming more amount of sugar.
10:35Diabetes is about your pancreas.
10:36Losing the ability to secrete insulin.
10:37Insulin.
10:38Now, insulin is supposed to be something within you.
10:39Right?
10:40Yes, sir.
10:41You do not say, sir, please tell me how do I secrete or learn insulin?
10:42You do not have to learn it.
10:44It is already there within you.
10:46You do not have to learn it.
10:47It is there.
10:48But then you take in a lot of random stuff from outside and and you're going to risk
10:53Please tell me how do I secrete or learn insulin.
10:57You don't have to learn it.
10:58It is already there within you.
11:00You don't have to learn it.
11:02It's there.
11:03But then you take in a lot of random stuff from outside
11:06and whatsoever you have taken
11:08has been harming your inner system,
11:12your pancreatic system since long.
11:16And then your system gets so badly hurt
11:19that slowly the secretion of insulin stops altogether.
11:26Right?
11:28Are you getting it?
11:30Does that not happen?
11:32Now, have you lacked in something
11:35or have you had an excess of something?
11:39Have you lacked in insulin
11:41or have you had an excess of toxicity?
11:46Excess of toxicity.
11:47Nobody lacks in strength.
11:48We have had an excess
11:50of debilitating influences.
11:53You understand debilitation?
11:56Weakening of something.
11:57Turning something weak.
12:02Nobody lacks strength.
12:04It's just that we consume so much of weakness from outside
12:08that the inner strength is
12:10covered, obfuscated
12:12and therefore lost to us.
12:18Now that your pancreas have become dysfunctional,
12:25what do you do?
12:26You look at the world outside
12:28and you can still continue to consume something random.
12:31What will that do to your body?
12:35Deteriorate it even further.
12:37You can lay your hands on something random that is available
12:45as edible stuff
12:47and there's a 99% probability
12:50it will only worsen your condition.
12:52But there does exist something outside of you
12:58that will improve your condition.
13:01What's that called?
13:03That's called medicine.
13:06Or that could be a dose of external insulin.
13:10But what is the probability
13:14that just randomly
13:15you will consume
13:18external insulin?
13:21Not even 1%, right?
13:24You consume anything
13:25that is either sugar
13:26or it will turn into sugar in your body.
13:32You see, you know,
13:33I don't like sugary stuff.
13:35What do you like?
13:36I like things rather salty.
13:38So, you go and have a pizza.
13:40The pizza turns into sugar
13:41within the body.
13:43You think the pizza is not sugary?
13:45It is.
13:46Goes in and turns into sugar.
13:50You take anything
13:52you are de facto taking in
13:53sugar.
13:58What is the probability
13:59that you will take an insulin?
14:01Very little.
14:03But is insulin not available
14:05at all in the universe?
14:06It is.
14:09But it's rare.
14:11You will have to be
14:11extremely selective.
14:13Extremely choosy.
14:15And that's what I said
14:16about the learned man.
14:19He is available
14:20but is rare.
14:22Others are either
14:23directly toxic
14:24like sugar
14:25or indirectly toxic
14:26like pizza.
14:27So, the first thing
14:32is that you should not
14:35let it
14:36come to the stage
14:39where your inner strength
14:41is
14:41lost to you.
14:44But if
14:45unfortunately
14:45you have come to that point
14:47then
14:48you have to look
14:50at the world
14:51very selectively.
14:53Which means
14:53you have to do
14:54two things.
14:55One
14:55you have to stop
14:58unlimited access
15:01to those
15:03who have been
15:03entering you so far.
15:07They are the ones
15:08who get in
15:10and become
15:10your weakness.
15:11And secondly
15:15because it may
15:17not suffice
15:17to just stop
15:19the intake
15:20of sugar.
15:22Anybody
15:22who is diabetic
15:23or knows
15:24somebody diabetic
15:25till some point
15:28it is sufficient
15:29that you cut down
15:30on your sugar.
15:31Beyond that
15:32it does not suffice.
15:32After that
15:33you have to take in
15:34insulin
15:35or some other medicine.
15:38So, the first thing
15:39obviously
15:39is neti neti.
15:40which is that
15:41you must
15:42stop the toxicity
15:44from entering you.
15:46But that may not suffice.
15:49And then
15:49you have to
15:50with dedication
15:52search for sources
15:54that get inside you
15:56and cut down
15:58the pre-existing
15:59pre-accumulated
16:00sugar.
16:01Sugar which is
16:02in our example
16:04sugar stands for
16:05weakness.
16:06happiness.
16:08So, one
16:09stop the intake
16:11of what has been
16:12going in
16:13actively.
16:14Secondly,
16:15if that does not
16:16suffice
16:17then with great care
16:19and great discretion
16:21look for something
16:23that is external
16:24but will go inside
16:27to remove the external.
16:28that would have
16:31given you
16:32a distinction
16:32between
16:34external
16:35and external
16:36stuff.
16:37There is an
16:37external stuff
16:38that goes in
16:40and
16:41retains
16:42its external
16:43identity.
16:44That's a toxin.
16:46And there is
16:47external stuff
16:48that goes in
16:49and removes
16:50all that
16:51which has already
16:52accumulated
16:53as external.
16:54Why do we
16:55want to remove
16:56the external
16:56stuff?
16:58Because the
16:59internal is
16:59strength.
17:01The external
17:02is weakness.
17:10It does not
17:11occur to us
17:12that way.
17:14We are not
17:15weak.
17:15We have been
17:16made to feel
17:17weak.
17:20Every bit
17:21of weakness
17:22that you feel
17:23or identify
17:24with
17:24is not
17:25yours at
17:25all.
17:28Those who
17:29have known
17:30in a poetic
17:33way they
17:33have exclaimed
17:34you are
17:35strength
17:36as a
17:36person.
17:38You are
17:39power
17:40personified.
17:42That's not
17:42me.
17:43That's coming
17:44from people
17:45who invested
17:46themselves all
17:47their life
17:47into investigation
17:49of existence.
17:52And they
17:53started with
17:53disgust for
17:54weakness.
17:56They said
17:56what is this
17:57weakness that
17:58we find so
17:59pervasive all
18:00around us?
18:01We don't
18:01like it.
18:05And to
18:06their delight
18:06when they
18:08went very
18:08deeply into
18:09weakness
18:10they discovered
18:11strength.
18:16They said
18:17peel the layers
18:19weakness of
18:19weakness off
18:20and at the
18:22core we
18:23are all
18:25strong
18:26beyond our
18:27imagination.
18:30Your fears
18:31are all
18:32imaginary.
18:34Your limits
18:35are self-made.
18:40All that you
18:41find
18:42small
18:43or brittle
18:44or limited
18:47or fragile
18:48about you
18:48is just a
18:50concept
18:51not reality.
18:56Can you
18:57find out
18:58where did
18:59you learn it
19:00from?
19:01That will do
19:02two things to
19:03you.
19:04One, you
19:04will know it
19:05is not
19:05innate.
19:06Innate means
19:07internal,
19:09original.
19:09It is not
19:11original
19:12from within
19:14you.
19:16It came
19:17from somewhere.
19:18Once you
19:19go into
19:19your weakness
19:20you discover
19:22it came
19:23from somewhere.
19:24The first
19:24thing it
19:25tells you
19:25is it's
19:26not mine,
19:26not innate.
19:27Second
19:27thing you
19:28learn from
19:28where it
19:29came.
19:30So you
19:30can block
19:31the way
19:31now.
19:33The moment
19:33you learn
19:34where that
19:34weakness
19:35came into
19:36you from
19:36you can
19:38block the
19:39root.
19:39it will
19:41no more
19:41enter you
19:42from there.
19:44Yes,
19:44the dose
19:46that you
19:46have already
19:46taken in
19:47will and
19:49does take
19:50some time
19:51to be
19:51cleared away.
19:52But at
19:53least the
19:54accumulation,
19:55the aggravation
19:56will stop.
20:00Are you
20:01getting it?
20:02Don't look
20:03for strength.
20:04Strength
20:05is not
20:05something so
20:06small that
20:07our little
20:07hands will
20:08look for it
20:08and clutch
20:09it and
20:10intake it.
20:13You
20:14cannot
20:14take
20:16strength
20:17in
20:17but you
20:20can throw
20:20weakness
20:21out.
20:24Throw
20:25weakness
20:26out.
20:26Strength
20:27is not
20:27needed.
20:28You
20:28already
20:28have
20:29ample
20:29of it.
20:30strength.
20:31Yes,
20:32sir.
20:32You
20:33already
20:33are
20:33strong.
20:36And the
20:37proof of
20:37that is
20:37when you
20:38listen to
20:40this,
20:41there is
20:43something in
20:43you that
20:44says,
20:44I don't
20:46feel like
20:47believing
20:48this.
20:48Because the
20:49moment you
20:49accept this,
20:52you bring
20:55a lot of
20:55responsibility
20:56upon yourself.
20:57No?
20:59The
20:59moment you
20:59accept that
21:00you are
21:01actually very
21:02strong,
21:03you find a
21:04lot of
21:04responsibility
21:04coming your
21:05way.
21:05No?
21:06Who gives
21:07responsibilities to
21:08a weakling?
21:10If you are
21:11strong,
21:11what do you
21:12find coming
21:12your way?
21:12Loads
21:14and loads
21:15of
21:15responsibility.
21:17So,
21:17you don't
21:17want to
21:18accept that
21:18you are
21:19strong,
21:19but still
21:20something
21:21that is
21:22beautiful,
21:23original,
21:24and already
21:24strong within
21:25you,
21:26silently
21:27murmurs,
21:28yes,
21:29this is
21:30not wrong,
21:30this cannot
21:31be wrong,
21:31I am
21:32strong,
21:34I am
21:34strong.
21:37Discard
21:38people or
21:39situations or
21:40sources.
21:40who
21:43as tricksters
21:46inject
21:51weakness
21:52into you.
21:53Often
21:54weakness is
21:55injected into
21:56you in the
21:57name of
21:57care or
21:58love.
22:01Don't let
22:01that happen.
22:04I'll not
22:05let you go
22:06out.
22:08It's already
22:088pm,
22:09you know,
22:10dead of
22:11the night,
22:12the roads
22:12are infested
22:12with wolves
22:13and jackals.
22:15I'll not
22:15let you go
22:16out.
22:16I love
22:16you so
22:16much.
22:18Kick this
22:19person the
22:21hardest way
22:21at his
22:22softest
22:22place.
22:26He's not a
22:26well-wisher,
22:27I tell you.
22:29Not a
22:29well-wisher.
22:30fear is
22:32loading you
22:32with a
22:33sense of
22:33weakness.
22:38Care is
22:38an entirely
22:39different
22:39thing.
22:45Care
22:45looks at
22:46facts.
22:49Precaution
22:50is one
22:50thing,
22:51fear is
22:51a totally
22:53different
22:53thing.
22:54Precaution
22:54is based
22:55on
22:55facts.
22:58Fear is
22:59based on
22:59nothing.
23:01Fear is
23:01based just
23:02on an
23:03imaginary
23:04sense of
23:05an afraid
23:06self.
23:11To wear
23:12slippers
23:12while walking
23:13on a road
23:14might be
23:15precautionary.
23:16But to
23:16wear gum
23:17boots,
23:20there's a
23:22problem
23:23somewhere.
23:23are you
23:28getting
23:29it?
23:30Yes,
23:30sir.
23:31You are
23:31not worth
23:32loving if
23:33you don't
23:33get a
23:33fat enough
23:34package.
23:35You're in
23:35your fourth
23:35year,
23:35right?
23:37Yes,
23:37sir.
23:41Learn to
23:42raise not
23:43your voice,
23:44but your
23:44legs,
23:45so that you
23:47can kick
23:47people hard.
23:48that must
23:51be the
23:51environment
23:52in the
23:53campus these
23:54days,
23:54no?
23:56Your worth
23:56is measured
23:58on the
23:59size of
24:00your package
24:00or the
24:03university
24:05you get a
24:07call from.
24:10All this
24:11is fear.
24:11We don't
24:16use the
24:17word fear
24:18for all
24:18these things,
24:19but this
24:19is fear,
24:21and fear
24:21is weakness.
24:25You have
24:26a friend,
24:27and he
24:30starts
24:30overflowing
24:31with joy.
24:33The moment
24:34he finds
24:35that you
24:35got a
24:36package of
24:37what is
24:37a package
24:38considered
24:39fat enough,
24:40you
24:41and he
24:43goes
24:43bonkers.
24:45You will
24:45say,
24:45you know,
24:46this is
24:46what a
24:47great
24:47friend is
24:48like.
24:49See how
24:49he is
24:49celebrating
24:50my
24:50success.
24:52I got
24:52a great
24:53job,
24:53and great
24:53means lots
24:55of money.
24:56I got
24:56a great
24:57job,
24:58and see
24:59how
25:00celebratory
25:00he is.
25:01This
25:02man is
25:03injecting
25:04weakness
25:04in you.
25:05What he
25:05is telling
25:06is that
25:06I am
25:07celebrating
25:07you because
25:08you have
25:09a job.
25:11And a
25:11job is
25:11an external
25:12thing.
25:12Tomorrow
25:12you might
25:13not have
25:13that job.
25:15And then
25:16you will
25:17feel
25:17small and
25:18weak.
25:22Anybody
25:23who celebrates
25:26you or
25:27loves you
25:27conditionally
25:28is actually
25:30celebrating and
25:31loving the
25:31conditions,
25:32not you.
25:34And conditions
25:35as we know
25:36are all
25:36fickle.
25:38Bubbles
25:39as they
25:39disappear in
25:41no time.
25:43And then
25:44you will
25:44be very
25:45anxious about
25:46protecting
25:47those bubbles
25:48and that's
25:49weakness.
25:51Think of
25:52a person
25:52whose self-worth
25:54is contained
25:55in a bubble.
25:57How anxiously
25:58he would be
25:58living.
26:02Think of
26:02something as
26:03weak as a
26:04bubble.
26:04If your
26:04self-worth
26:05is tied to
26:05a bubble,
26:06can you
26:06ever feel
26:07strong?
26:12But if
26:12there is
26:13someone who
26:14is envious
26:15of your
26:16fat package,
26:16you will
26:17immediately
26:17declare,
26:18ah,
26:18an enemy
26:19there.
26:20Enemy
26:21spotted there.
26:23The enemy
26:23is not
26:24only the
26:24one who
26:26detests
26:27your success.
26:29Your enemy
26:29is also
26:30the one
26:31who celebrates
26:31your success.
26:32Because he
26:33is celebrating
26:33your success,
26:34not you.
26:35His success
26:36is conditional.
26:38Now this
26:38would sound
26:38counter-intuitive.
26:40Let this
26:41sink in.
26:41Take time.
26:45The fellow
26:45is saying,
26:46you were not
26:47worth celebrating
26:48had you not
26:49had this job.
26:52Somebody
26:53who is
26:53celebrating
26:53your beauty,
26:58your
26:58physicality,
27:00or whatever,
27:02he would not
27:03celebrate you
27:03if you
27:04lose your
27:05beauty or
27:06your manliness
27:07or whatever.
27:09The result,
27:10you will be
27:12turned anxious
27:13about preserving
27:14something that
27:16by definition
27:17cannot be
27:18preserved for
27:19long.
27:20Who can be
27:21beautiful for
27:22long?
27:23By beautiful,
27:23I mean attractive
27:24in a physical
27:24way,
27:25in the sense
27:26we are using
27:26here.
27:30But the
27:30fellow comes
27:31and says,
27:31so beautiful
27:32and you feel
27:33delighted.
27:34No,
27:34it's not a thing
27:35of delight.
27:36It's a thing
27:36of concern.
27:39Tomorrow,
27:39I will not be
27:40equally beautiful
27:42by way of my
27:44face,
27:45by way of the
27:45body.
27:46And then,
27:47those same
27:48eyes will not
27:49look at me
27:50or turn
27:50elsewhere.
27:51and then,
27:53I will be
27:53depressed.
27:54This is
27:54weakness.
27:57Weakness is
27:58always a
27:59foreign element,
28:00an import,
28:02something that
28:03comes to you
28:04via others.
28:06And it
28:07rarely comes to
28:08you as
28:09weakness itself.
28:10It comes to
28:11you as
28:12something worth
28:12celebrating.
28:13Be very,
28:14be very
28:15cautious of
28:16your celebrations.
28:17Be very
28:17careful about
28:18your happinesses.
28:19what you
28:20celebrate as
28:21happiness is
28:24what you
28:25will later
28:25repent as
28:30misfortune.
28:33It is in
28:34your movements
28:34of happiness
28:35that you
28:37throw the
28:37door open
28:38to all
28:39kinds of
28:40pathogens.
28:42Does that
28:43not happen?
28:45When there
28:46is a function
28:47in the
28:48house,
28:49the main
28:51door
28:52remains
28:53open.
28:55Now,
28:55anybody can
28:55enter.
28:57You don't
28:57even want
28:57to keep
28:57a watch.
29:05And also,
29:06in moments
29:07of deep
29:07grief,
29:09the main
29:10door is
29:10kept
29:10open.
29:12Some really
29:12sad thing
29:13has happened
29:13in the house.
29:14The door
29:14remains open
29:15so that
29:16people can
29:17come in
29:17and express
29:20condolences.
29:23It is in
29:24these
29:24moments
29:26of
29:28emotional
29:29vulnerability
29:30that the
29:32risk is
29:32amplified.
29:37Some
29:37nonsense
29:38will enter
29:38you.
29:40In some
29:41name.
29:42Obviously,
29:42nonsense never
29:43declares itself
29:44to be
29:44nonsense.
29:47It will
29:48take some
29:49sweet name
29:50to gain
29:52access.
30:00Are you
30:01getting it?
30:01dependency,
30:15attachment,
30:15are they
30:19not
30:19weakness?
30:23See what
30:24keeps a
30:25person from
30:25doing the
30:26right thing
30:26in life
30:26and you
30:28will find
30:28these
30:29things.
30:30He has
30:31dependence
30:31or he
30:32is a
30:33dependent.
30:35Either he
30:35has
30:35dependence
30:36or he
30:36himself
30:37is
30:37dependent
30:37or he
30:39is attached
30:40to
30:40something.
30:41There is
30:42so much
30:42of open
30:44evil all
30:45around us.
30:45Is there
30:46not?
30:47And yet
30:47you find
30:48so few
30:48people
30:49showing up
30:50to take
30:53a stand.
30:53Why?
30:54Because they
30:54are afraid.
30:55Why?
30:56Because they
30:56either have
30:57dependence
30:57or they
30:58are
30:58dependent.
31:01or because
31:03they are
31:04attached.
31:05If I
31:06show up,
31:08some harm
31:09may come
31:09to those
31:10I am
31:11attached
31:11to.
31:13Or if
31:14I
31:14display
31:16courage
31:17and resist
31:18the evil,
31:21then my
31:22pelf
31:24and privileges
31:24might be
31:27compromised.
31:28Privilege
31:31never
31:32declared
31:34itself
31:35to be
31:36a weakness.
31:36Did it?
31:38Comforts
31:39never
31:39entered
31:39your life.
31:43Openly
31:43admitting
31:44that we
31:44will become
31:45your
31:45weakness.
31:47Did they?
31:49But see,
31:50in the
31:52moments
31:53when you
31:53will need
31:54to summon
31:54strength,
31:55you will
31:55find all
31:56these
31:56things,
31:59comforts,
32:00attachments,
32:01dependencies,
32:03they have
32:04blocked
32:04your way.
32:08You
32:08will be
32:09standing
32:09aghast.
32:11I
32:11thought
32:11I
32:12was
32:12strong,
32:13but this
32:14moment
32:15when the
32:15strength
32:16needs
32:16to roar
32:18aloud,
32:18it's
32:22been
32:22muffled.
32:25The
32:26roar
32:26has been
32:27suffocated
32:27by the
32:31things
32:32that
32:32I
32:33made
32:34so
32:34dear
32:34to
32:35myself.
32:35if a
32:49person is
32:50teaching new
32:50patterns to
32:51you,
32:52the person is
32:55not worth
32:55listening to.
32:57Whereas,
32:58if the
32:58person is
32:59breaking your
33:00patterns,
33:01then the
33:01person is
33:01worth listening
33:02to,
33:02two people
33:03come to
33:03you,
33:04both
33:05admonish
33:05you.
33:07One
33:07says,
33:08you need
33:09to be
33:09admonished
33:10because you
33:10do not
33:11speak in a
33:12particular way,
33:12because you
33:13do not
33:14dress up in a
33:14particular way,
33:15because you
33:15don't know
33:16how to use
33:17the cutlery
33:18properly.
33:18the other
33:22one scolds
33:23you and
33:24says,
33:24in the
33:25way you
33:26dress up
33:26and in
33:26the way
33:27you speak,
33:28I smell
33:28fear.
33:30The
33:30first one
33:31must not
33:31be listened
33:32to.
33:32What he
33:32is saying
33:33is,
33:33if you
33:33learn a
33:34particular
33:34way of
33:35dressing
33:35and
33:36eating,
33:37then I
33:38will
33:38respect
33:39you.
33:40No,
33:41the way
33:42of dressing
33:42and eating
33:43that he
33:43is trying
33:44to teach
33:44you is
33:45just
33:45another
33:46pattern,
33:46right?
33:48you might
33:49be coming
33:50from a
33:50rural area
33:51and you
33:54have never
33:54used a
33:55knife or
33:55a fork
33:56or probably
33:56even a
33:57spoon.
33:57Happens.
33:59There is
33:59nothing
33:59insulting
34:00about it.
34:04We have
34:05been using
34:06our hands
34:06to eat
34:07and I
34:08don't think
34:09there is
34:09anything
34:09particularly
34:10disgusting
34:10about it.
34:11What's
34:11so wrong
34:11with our
34:12hands?
34:15And
34:15someone
34:15comes
34:16and says
34:16you know,
34:16even
34:18rice
34:19you have
34:19to
34:20take
34:20with
34:21a
34:21fork.
34:28Problem.
34:28There is
34:28a problem.
34:33Your
34:34psyche
34:34has just
34:35been
34:35loaded
34:35with
34:35a
34:36complex.
34:37Its
34:37simplicity
34:38has been
34:38taken
34:39away.
34:42Even
34:42while
34:42eating,
34:43now you
34:43will have
34:45to be
34:45unduly
34:46careful
34:46of
34:47something
34:47very
34:47valueless.
34:52Do not
34:53listen.
34:54This
34:54person is
34:55not
34:55teaching
34:55you.
34:56He is
34:57just
34:57loading
34:57you
34:58with a
34:59particular
35:00concept
35:00of his
35:01choice.
35:03Mankind
35:03has not
35:04always
35:04eaten
35:05in one
35:06particular
35:06great,
35:08final
35:08and
35:09appropriate
35:10way.
35:10different
35:12cultures,
35:12different
35:12times,
35:13different
35:13ways
35:14of
35:14eating.
35:16You
35:17sit on
35:17the
35:17floor
35:17and
35:18eat.
35:18There
35:18are
35:18places
35:19where
35:19you
35:19stand
35:19and
35:20eat.
35:22Even
35:22tables
35:22and
35:23chairs
35:23have
35:23varied.
35:26Someone
35:26says,
35:26no,
35:27no,
35:27no.
35:27Unless
35:27you do
35:28all
35:28these
35:28things,
35:29your
35:29life
35:30is
35:30not
35:30worth
35:30living.
35:31Do
35:32not
35:32listen
35:32to
35:32this
35:32person.
35:34And
35:34there
35:34is
35:34another
35:34one
35:35who
35:35is
35:35coming
35:35to
35:35scold
35:35you
35:36and
35:36he
35:36says,
35:37it's
35:37alright
35:37the
35:38accent
35:38that
35:38you
35:38carry.
35:39The
35:39problem
35:40is
35:40not
35:40your
35:40accent.
35:41The
35:41problem
35:42is
35:42the
35:42fear
35:43in
35:43your
35:43words.
35:44This
35:44person
35:45can
35:45be
35:45listened
35:45to.
35:47One
35:48person
35:48scolds
35:49you
35:49on
35:49your
35:49accent.
35:51The
35:52other
35:52one
35:52says,
35:53the
35:53accent
35:53is
35:54alright.
35:54We
35:54are
35:54all
35:54entitled
35:55to
35:55our
35:55particular
35:56nativity.
35:59But
36:00what I
36:00hear
36:01is
36:01your
36:02fear.
36:03And
36:03that
36:03fear
36:03is
36:03something
36:04I
36:04don't
36:04like
36:04in
36:04you.
36:08even
36:11your
36:11accent
36:11probably
36:12comes
36:12from
36:12your
36:12fear.
36:13And
36:14that's
36:14why
36:14I
36:14don't
36:14like
36:14your
36:15accent.
36:18Now
36:18in
36:18this
36:19situation
36:19both
36:20the
36:20fellow
36:20who
36:20have
36:21come
36:21to
36:22scold
36:23you
36:23or
36:23teach
36:24you
36:24or
36:24whatever
36:24are
36:26finding
36:27fault
36:28with
36:30your
36:30accent.
36:30But
36:30the
36:31reasons
36:31are
36:31very
36:31different.
36:32This
36:32one
36:32is
36:32saying
36:32you
36:33know
36:33you
36:34have
36:34a
36:34thick
36:34Indian
36:35accent
36:35you
36:37must
36:37anglicize
36:37it.
36:38I
36:41like
36:41the
36:41Irish
36:41one.
36:43Now
36:43this
36:44is
36:44one
36:44thing
36:44to
36:44say
36:44the
36:45other
36:45one
36:45says
36:45you
36:45know
36:45you
36:47are
36:48wearing
36:49this
36:49accent
36:50only
36:50because
36:50you
36:51are
36:51afraid
36:51and
36:51therefore
36:52I
36:52don't
36:52like
36:52your
36:52accent.
36:54Now
36:54this
36:54is a
36:55totally
36:55different
36:55approach
36:55is
36:56it
36:56not?
36:57The
36:58first
36:58approach
36:59will
37:00instill
37:01fear
37:01in
37:01you.
37:03The
37:04second
37:04approach
37:04makes
37:05you
37:05fearless.
37:06The
37:07second
37:07approach
37:07says
37:07I
37:09understand
37:09that
37:11one
37:11has
37:11to
37:12be
37:12careful
37:12with
37:12accent
37:13to
37:14the
37:14point
37:14that
37:15you
37:16are
37:17legible
37:18to
37:19the
37:19other.
37:21If
37:21I
37:22speak
37:22in an
37:22accent
37:22that
37:23you
37:23cannot
37:24even
37:24comprehend
37:25then
37:25there
37:25is
37:25a
37:25problem
37:26with
37:26communication
37:26so
37:27to
37:27that
37:28extent
37:28I
37:28will
37:28take
37:28care
37:28of
37:29my
37:29accent
37:29but
37:31beyond
37:31that
37:32it's
37:32my
37:32content
37:33that
37:33matters
37:33not
37:34my
37:34accent
37:35this
37:36is
37:36another
37:37approach
37:37altogether
37:38you
37:43have
37:43to
37:43be
37:43very
37:43careful
37:44of
37:44what
37:45you
37:45are
37:46lending
37:46your
37:47ears
37:47to
37:47see
37:51whether
37:52that
37:53thing
37:53is
37:55more
37:56of
37:56fear
37:56or
37:56freedom
37:57from
37:57fear
37:58more
38:00often
38:01than
38:01not
38:01it
38:02will
38:02be
38:02more
38:02of
38:03fear
38:03fear
38:17seeps
38:18in
38:18in a
38:19moment
38:19to
38:19moment
38:20way
38:20every
38:22particular
38:22interaction
38:23and
38:25over
38:25time
38:26it
38:27becomes
38:27internal
38:28rest
38:30assured
38:30it
38:30can
38:31never
38:31become
38:31fully
38:32internal
38:32fully
38:34internal
38:34is
38:35strength
38:35itself
38:36what
38:47is
38:47the
38:47way
38:48to
38:48awaken
38:48your
38:49strength
38:49you
38:49cannot
38:50awaken
38:50your
38:50strength
38:51just
38:51challenge
38:52your
38:52fears
38:52ask
38:54them
38:54to
38:54show
38:55up
38:55let
38:56me
38:56just
38:56check
38:56how
38:57real
38:57you
38:57are
38:57come
39:00let's
39:01play
39:01challenging
39:04your
39:05fears
39:05is
39:05the
39:05only
39:06way
39:06to
39:07awaken
39:07your
39:07strength
39:08our
39:13build
39:13is
39:14such
39:14that
39:14we
39:14need
39:15a
39:15bit
39:15of
39:15competition
39:16run
39:20from
39:22here
39:22till
39:22the
39:23end
39:23of
39:23the
39:23road
39:23let's
39:25say
39:25that's
39:25some
39:25300
39:26meters
39:26just
39:28run
39:28no
39:29don't
39:29start
39:29running
39:30and
39:34we'll
39:34keep
39:34the
39:34time
39:35you
39:37took
39:37some
39:37time
39:38right
39:40300
39:43meters
39:43you
39:44ran
39:44let's
39:45say
39:45you
39:45took
39:46some
39:4660
39:47seconds
39:47one
39:47minute
39:48that's
39:48most
39:49likely
39:49the
39:49time
39:49you
39:50will
39:50take
39:50more
39:51than
39:51that
39:51maybe
39:5180
39:52seconds
39:52100
39:52seconds
39:53next
39:56we
39:56say
39:57fine
39:57take
39:59this
39:59timer
39:59wear
40:00it
40:00and
40:01run
40:01for
40:03sure
40:03the
40:03time
40:03will
40:04reduce
40:05if
40:05you
40:06took
40:0680
40:06seconds
40:06now
40:08you
40:08will
40:08take
40:0965
40:09or
40:0970
40:10and
40:12then
40:12I
40:12say
40:12here
40:13you
40:14have
40:14a
40:14competitor
40:14the
40:16two
40:16of
40:16you
40:16will
40:16run
40:16let's
40:17see
40:17who
40:17wins
40:17now
40:19the
40:19time
40:19will
40:20reduce
40:20by
40:20another
40:205
40:20seconds
40:21that's
40:23the
40:23way
40:24to
40:24awaken
40:24your
40:25potential
40:25have
40:27a
40:27challenger
40:27run
40:32without
40:32keeping
40:32time
40:33you
40:33will
40:33take
40:33a
40:33certain
40:34time
40:34run
40:36with
40:36a
40:36timer
40:37the
40:37time
40:37will
40:37reduce
40:38run
40:38with
40:38a
40:38challenger
40:39the
40:40time
40:40will
40:41be
40:41reduced
40:41even
40:41further
40:42provided
40:43the
40:43challenger
40:44is
40:45capable
40:46enough
40:46if
40:46you
40:47run
40:47with
40:47a
40:47kid
40:47the
40:48example
40:49won't
40:49hold
40:49good
40:49challenge
40:55your
40:55fears
40:56even
41:00if
41:00your
41:00challenger
41:01beats
41:01you
41:01you
41:02will
41:02find
41:02your
41:02time
41:03has
41:03improved
41:03it's
41:06alright
41:06to be
41:06beaten
41:07by
41:07your
41:07fears
41:07than
41:09to
41:09never
41:09challenge
41:10them
41:10at
41:10all
41:10even
41:14if
41:14you
41:14get
41:14beaten
41:14by
41:15your
41:15fears
41:15your
41:15timing
41:16will
41:16improve
41:16that's
41:24what
41:24is
41:24called
41:24as
41:24daring
41:25no
41:25daring
41:27come
41:28on
41:28and
41:30when
41:30you
41:30do
41:31this
41:31kind
41:32of
41:32heroic
41:32thing
41:32then
41:34something
41:35will
41:35tremble
41:35within
41:36let
41:36it
41:36tremble
41:37it's
41:40like
41:41inviting
41:41an
41:41established
41:42boxer
41:42you
41:44know
41:44what's
41:44going
41:44to
41:44happen
41:45next
41:45still
41:46invite
41:47him
41:47come
41:47let's
41:48see
41:48you
41:54will
41:54most
41:55probably
41:55get
41:56beaten
41:56but
41:58you
41:58will
41:59improve
41:59remember
42:04fears
42:04are
42:05external
42:05strength
42:06is
42:06internal
42:06the
42:07internal
42:08will
42:08always
42:09be
42:09more
42:09powerful
42:09than
42:10the
42:10external
42:10because
42:11the
42:11internal
42:11is
42:11internal
42:12fears
42:17didn't
42:18accumulate
42:18in a
42:18day
42:19so
42:21you
42:22can't
42:22clean
42:22them
42:23up
42:23in a
42:24day
42:24start
42:28today
42:28see
42:31what you
42:31are
42:31afraid
42:31of
42:32go
42:32and
42:33discover
42:33its
42:33source
42:33the
42:34moment
42:35you
42:35will
42:36see
42:36or
42:37get
42:38a
42:38glimpse
42:38of
42:39the
42:40source
42:40those
42:40fears
42:41came
42:41to
42:41you
42:41from
42:42you
42:42will
42:43feel
42:43like
42:43challenging
42:43them
42:44because
42:45some
42:45kind
42:46of
42:46repugnance
42:47will
42:47arise
42:47you
42:47will
42:47say
42:48external
42:48thing
42:49how
42:50did
42:51it
42:51colonize
42:51me
42:52it's
42:54an
42:54external
42:54thing
42:54you
42:55will
42:55feel
42:55like
42:56challenging
42:56it
42:56and
42:57when
42:57you
42:57challenge
42:57your
42:57fears
42:58we
42:58said
42:58you
42:58awaken
42:59your
42:59strength
42:59observation
43:07seeing
43:08paying
43:09attention
43:09to
43:11to
43:11the
43:11small
43:12things
43:12of
43:12life
43:12how
43:13a
43:13shopkeeper
43:14induces
43:14greed
43:15in
43:15you
43:15see
43:15that
43:16how
43:19everything
43:20is a
43:20big
43:20shop
43:21see
43:23how
43:23all
43:24the
43:24great
43:25events
43:25exist
43:26for
43:26the
43:26sake
43:27of
43:27advertisements
43:27see
43:28where
43:31does
43:32a
43:32newspaper
43:32for
43:33example
43:33make
43:33its
43:33money
43:34from
43:34not
43:37from
43:37the
43:37rupees
43:375
43:38or
43:3810
43:38that
43:39you
43:39spend
43:39on
43:40a
43:40copy
43:41of
43:41it
43:41think
43:46of
43:46the
43:46amount
43:47of
43:47paper
43:47the
43:47newspaper
43:48brings
43:48to
43:49you
43:49rupees
43:515
43:51is
43:51not
43:51sufficient
43:52even
43:52to
43:52cover
43:53the
43:54paper
43:55so
43:56how
43:56is
43:56the
43:57newspaper
43:57so
43:58inexpensive
43:58because
43:59they
43:59are
44:00making
44:00the
44:00bulk
44:00of
44:01their
44:01money
44:01from
44:01and
44:06if
44:07the
44:09ad
44:10is
44:10what
44:10the
44:10newspaper
44:11exists
44:12for
44:12then
44:13what
44:13do
44:14the
44:14news
44:14exist
44:14for
44:15if
44:19the
44:20newspaper
44:20is
44:20not
44:21to
44:21bring
44:21you
44:21news
44:22but
44:22ads
44:23please
44:23understand
44:24somebody
44:25is
44:25publishing
44:25the
44:25newspaper
44:26he
44:26is
44:27making
44:27his
44:27money
44:27from
44:27ads
44:28so
44:29the
44:29newspaper
44:29is
44:30actually
44:30to
44:31bring
44:31you
44:31ads
44:32not
44:32news
44:33so
44:34the
44:34ads
44:34are
44:34important
44:35the
44:35news
44:35are
44:35not
44:36hence
44:36the
44:36news
44:37will
44:37be
44:37selected
44:37in
44:38a
44:38way
44:38that
44:40facilitates
44:41the
44:41ads
44:41now
44:43ads
44:44are
44:44about
44:45consuming
44:46something
44:46all ads
44:47are about
44:47that
44:47right
44:47so
44:48the
44:48news
44:48will
44:49be
44:49put
44:50in
44:50a
44:50way
44:50chosen
44:51in
44:51a
44:51way
44:51and
44:51presented
44:52in
44:52a
44:52way
44:52that
44:54turns
44:54you
44:55into
44:55more
44:55of
44:55a
44:55consumer
44:57for
44:58example
44:58if there
44:59is a
44:59big
44:59advertisement
45:00of a
45:02security
45:02company
45:03half a
45:04page
45:05then the
45:08upper half
45:09of the page
45:10must preferably
45:12have news
45:14that make you
45:15feel
45:15insecure
45:16so
45:18the
45:18top
45:18half
45:18makes
45:19you
45:19feel
45:19insecure
45:19that's
45:20news
45:20the
45:21bottom
45:21half
45:21has
45:23an
45:23ad
45:23of
45:23a
45:23security
45:24company
45:24that
45:25goes
45:25well
45:25right
45:26yep
45:26that's
45:28how
45:28weakness
45:29is
45:29introduced
45:29into
45:29you
45:30and
45:30you
45:30must
45:30see
45:31that
45:31very
45:31carefully
45:32when
45:32you
45:33read
45:33a
45:33newspaper
45:33don't
45:33just
45:33read
45:34the
45:34newspaper
45:34look
45:34at
45:35the
45:35whole
45:35thing
45:35how
45:36is
45:36it
45:36laid
45:36out
45:36what's
45:37happening
45:37where
45:37it's
45:37making
45:38money
45:38from
45:38that's
45:39why
45:39education
45:39is
45:39so
45:40important
45:46know
45:47the
45:47money
45:47trail
45:47you
45:48must
45:48know
45:49where
45:49the
45:49whole
45:49thing
45:50is
45:50going
45:50from
45:50the
45:50money
45:50comes
45:51from
45:51here
45:51then
45:51goes
45:51to
45:52that
45:52person
45:52has
45:53this
45:53much
45:53of
45:53a
45:54cut
45:54in
45:54it
45:54okay
45:54that's
45:55the
45:55way
45:56the
45:56whole
45:56system
45:56is
45:56operating
45:57and
45:59then
45:59you
45:59will
45:59not
45:59allow
46:00them
46:00to
46:01colonize
46:01you
46:02where
46:05is
46:05the
46:05for
46:06example
46:06news
46:07channel
46:08making
46:08its
46:08money
46:08from
46:09where
46:11is
46:11the
46:11news
46:11channel
46:12making
46:12money
46:12from
46:12again
46:13ads
46:13what
46:15percentage
46:15of
46:16the
46:16ads
46:17our
46:18government
46:18spends
46:19a
46:20large
46:20percentage
46:21for
46:21some
46:22channels
46:22more
46:23than
46:2350%
46:24so
46:25if
46:25the
46:25newspaper
46:26is
46:26actually
46:26if
46:27the
46:27news
46:27channel
46:27is
46:28actually
46:28making
46:28its
46:29money
46:29from
46:29the
46:29government
46:30what
46:31will
46:31it
46:32do
46:32what
46:32will
46:32be
46:32the
46:32content
46:33of
46:33the
46:33news
46:33and
46:38if
46:38the
46:38government
46:39ensures
46:42its
46:42own
46:42sustenance
46:43by
46:43making
46:44you
46:44feel
46:44insecure
46:45what
46:45will
46:45be
46:45the
46:45content
46:46of
46:46the
46:46TV
46:46news
46:46that
46:49make
46:49you
46:49feel
46:50insecure
46:50some
46:50imaginary
46:51enemy
46:51is
46:52closing
46:53in
46:53upon
46:53you
46:53you
46:54are
46:54besieged
46:55somebody
46:57has
46:58to
46:58be
46:58an
46:58enemy
46:58somebody
47:01has
47:01to
47:01be
47:01an
47:01enemy
47:01that
47:03will
47:03be
47:03the
47:03content
47:03of
47:04the
47:04news
47:04pure
47:04economics
47:05nothing
47:05else
47:05they
47:11ensure
47:12their
47:12sustenance
47:13by
47:13making
47:13you
47:13feel
47:14weak
47:14but
47:15you
47:15don't
47:15see
47:15that
47:15instead
47:16you
47:16say
47:16how
47:16do
47:16I
47:17feel
47:17strong
47:17but
47:18you
47:18are
47:18strong
47:19their
47:20own
47:21dirty
47:22self
47:22interests
47:23are
47:24making
47:24you
47:25unnecessarily
47:26feel
47:26weak
47:27you
47:28are
47:28not
47:29weak
47:29you
47:29you
47:32can
47:46extend
47:46the
47:46list
47:46of
47:47examples
47:47I'll
47:47stop
47:47here
47:48because
47:48I can
47:51continue
47:51with the
47:52list
47:52unendingly
47:54let's
47:56move
47:56to
47:56the
47:56next
47:56question
47:56now
47:57so
48:00much
48:00I
48:00appreciate
48:00you
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