TRULY favourites Vienna and Jessy are back with exciting news - they're having a baby! Jessica, who is carrying the baby, told Love Don't Judge, "I'm really excited, I always wanted to be a young mum, so I was really happy when I got pregnant." While their families are happy for the pair, not everyone has been so kind. Vienna explained, "The only harmful comments we've got have been online." Concerned by the hate, Jessy added, "I just want to protect my baby from all of these internet creeps." In this episode of Love Don't Judge, we'll join the couple as they prepare for the baby's arrival and hear about how they plan to raise their bundle of joy.
00:24We are a couple since almost eight years already.
00:28So it's like a youth laugh, I would say.
00:30That's our nursery.
00:32Please ignore the pole dance pole.
00:34I was 17 when we met.
00:36So there was not a lot of dating before.
00:38Jessie is my first girlfriend and hope the last.
00:41Aww.
00:43We met without .
00:45We both have been flat.
00:46Vienna was not transitioned for this time.
00:50And I had a double A cup.
00:52He's baby number one.
00:54I figured out during Covid that I am trans.
01:00One day Vienna said like, hey, she's not feeling happy.
01:04And then she came out as trans.
01:06And then everything went really quick.
01:08Within half a year, you've been a completely new person.
01:12And yeah, since then we are even happier than before.
01:15We don't have that much time left.
01:17Six weeks more to go.
01:19I'm really excited.
01:21I always wanted to become a young mom.
01:24I always wanted to have kids.
01:26So I was really happy when I got pregnant really quick.
01:31I think this little beer hat is so cute.
01:35I think it's a bear.
01:37Ah, bear.
01:38Yeah, not beer.
01:39I would love to have like three or four kids.
01:42But let's see how the first one is going.
01:48I'm looking forward.
01:50I know we look different than other people, but we are a completely usual couple.
01:54We are in a relationship since almost eight years.
01:57It was just a question of time.
01:59Well, our family reacted really good.
02:01We're going to have a baby.
02:02It's the first grand baby on all the sides of the family.
02:06The only hate and harmful council guard have been online.
02:11Are you pregnant in the estate or your kids?
02:15Why?
02:16You didn't use protection.
02:18Baby went upstairs.
02:20Poor baby.
02:21How will it accept you as a mom?
02:24You desperately need to feed you to fix your cheeks.
02:28They are gross looking like cottage cheese.
02:31Should have fixed the a** before getting pregnant.
02:36The body is changing and that's okay.
02:39I don't think it's something you should do is writing a pregnant woman to getting her a** fixed.
02:45Then we also have some friendly comments like
02:48Looking good mama.
02:49The most attractive you have ever been.
02:52That's a comment that makes me happy.
02:55I think I will have a more gentle parenting style.
03:00Honestly, I just want to be a loving mom.
03:03Follow with the emotions.
03:05Help with the emotions.
03:07And just give the kids support.
03:09Yeah, I'll think the same.
03:11I think it's important for me to give the child room for self-development.
03:16I wouldn't force my child getting plastic surgeries.
03:19No.
03:20So you should just go their way and find their way in life.
03:24Something that's really important for me is that my child becomes a good human.
03:29That it's a kind person, a caring person and a person with an open heart.
03:35You're going to be a really great mom.
03:37Thank you, you too.
03:40I personally like to share my pregnancy journey.
03:44But I don't want to share any details about my baby that's going to stay private.
03:51Because unfortunately we get a lot of online harassment.
03:56We also got really disgusting comments about a refueled or unborn child.
04:03I got so many messages when I announced I'm pregnant.
04:06One time I got a message from a guy.
04:08I pray your baby **** so I can make you pregnant after.
04:13It was so disgusting.
04:15I just want to protect my baby from all these internet creeps.
04:21I have to say, unfortunately.
04:23People always comment like,
04:25Oh, your baby is going to have problems during pregnancy.
04:29What you ****.
04:30And I was really worried about that, honestly.
04:33And then we talked about my doctor about this.
04:36And she just lost.
04:37And told me, no.
04:38We don't need to worry about that.
04:40And online generally, they know everything better.
04:43Even they are not in situations.
04:44I watched a YouTube video and now I'm an expert on plastic surgery.
04:48This should be illegal.
04:49I understand if it would be a health risk, everything.
04:53But as long as it is just me wishing for my body how to look, I don't think it should be illegal.
05:00When we are meeting people in real life, maybe at first people are a little surprised by our looks.
05:06Every time people start talking to us, they figure out that even if you look extreme, we are a lovely couple.
05:14I think it's more like an online thing or people who just know us from online.
05:19Let's say, just see how we look like.
05:22And of course, because of that, they judge us.
05:25You can have 100 positive, friendly comments.
05:29And then you can have two bad, mean comments.
05:32And then you're just focusing on the bad and mean comments.
05:34Some people just want to get rid of their own frustration.
05:39I'm a really, really sensitive person.
05:42And sometimes it's really hard.
05:44They also cried a few times because of comments.
05:46So I try to focus on the positive comments.
05:52And for me, like, the bad comments are mostly funny because, for example, they call me like a fish that is cleaning the windows.
06:01And I think that's really, that's really a cute fish. I like the fish.
06:05Or also call me a duck and I like ducks.
06:08And so it's not really insulting for me.
06:11People think it's okay to attack us because of our plastic look.
06:17And I think that's a problem.
06:19These hate comments also in the long term made us stronger in our relationship.
06:24People always ask me if I got too far.
06:28I know I look extreme, but look at me.
06:30What extreme features do I have right now?
06:33Who does say that's okay and that's extreme?
06:37That's something a person needs to define for themself.
06:40I like how it makes me look.
06:42But it's not that I couldn't live without a big ****.
06:45I'm not living for everybody.
06:46I'm living for myself.
06:47I think I'm not too extreme.
06:49I want to go even more extreme.
06:51And I think what I really like about getting plastic surgery is that it gives me the opportunity to change my body into shapes that wouldn't be possible like 50 years ago.
07:03And so I can become the person I want to be and don't have to rely on genetics or anything like that.
07:12Without Jessie I think I wouldn't have started the whole transition process.
07:17Because her support was like I would decide everything for me.
07:21And I wouldn't have any ****.
07:23So that's something that changed so much for me.
07:27And also I think you made me a better person, so.
07:30Aww, I love you.
07:32I love you too.
07:33You're like my best friend.
07:35And we do everything together.
07:38And they're still not annoyed of each other.
07:40We have a lot of people who judge us.
07:43They should look at themselves.
07:45Because I really think that every person has something that they want to change on themselves.
07:52Or that makes them unhappy.
07:53And just because we change these things doesn't make us bad persons.
07:58People who are judging my mommy are evil and they should leave.
